How do you define yourself? | Lizzie Velasquez | TEDxAustinWomen

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    In a time when beauty is defined by supermodels, success is defined by wealth, and fame is deified by how many followers you have on social media, Lizzie Velasquez asks the question how do you define yourself? Once labeled, "The Worlds Ugliest Woman," Lizzie decided to turn things around and create her own definitions of what she defines as beauty and happiness.
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  • @shruthiskumar72
    @shruthiskumar72 3 роки тому +4779

    Those who called her monster are the actual monsters.

    • @shreyagupta765
      @shreyagupta765 3 роки тому +27

      Yeah

    • @shreyagupta765
      @shreyagupta765 3 роки тому +80

      The world is full of monsters

    • @sonalisingh2258
      @sonalisingh2258 3 роки тому +27

      Yes you are right they are monster

    • @sherrytrenner9452
      @sherrytrenner9452 3 роки тому +27

      People can be so mean and hateful ! I could never imagine being that way to another person !!!

    • @denisemerlet832
      @denisemerlet832 3 роки тому +50

      She touched my heart. I grew up with cruelty because the right side of my face is paralyzed. As I aged I became quite beautiful to most, but still some made fun of me even as I grew older. Cruelty is not just happening to kids. I was working for a law firm. I had several surgeries that helped. Unfortunately, getting old (65) is a challenge and not so pretty, but the guys aren’t looking at me these days, they’re looking at my daughters who are beautiful and always have been. Life is hard for people who don’t look quite like you.

  • @neuskirachyr
    @neuskirachyr 4 роки тому +15599

    Doctors: Your daughter won't ever be able to talk, walk, or think
    Lizzie: Graduates college, writes 3 books, becomes a motivational speaker, will probably slay a dragon in the future

    • @llordmakisigsantiago7098
      @llordmakisigsantiago7098 4 роки тому +167

      Neuski Rachyr noo that’s dragon abuse

    • @200alyk
      @200alyk 4 роки тому +205

      @@sha-oui hey bud, whatever youre going through it will be okay.. sending virtual hugs! i hope you are safe💖

    • @timmycakes001
      @timmycakes001 4 роки тому +27

      shawi I know how you feel. Same boat.

    • @marriedkiwi
      @marriedkiwi 4 роки тому +8

      the left and "population experts" tell us that unborn babies from poor neighbourhoods will probably become mass murderers. Today we face crisis after crisis- who will save us Lord?

    • @bradleyp4275
      @bradleyp4275 4 роки тому +28

      Brendan. Greally doctors aren’t saying that

  • @micahwoodard
    @micahwoodard 2 роки тому +2110

    It's interesting to me, that visually "unattractive" people, seem to have the most beautiful souls, while some "beautiful" people have the ugliest souls. She can't exploit her beauty for selfish personal-gains. She had to beautify the only thing she had control of: her soul, and damn she did a good job. She's a truly beautiful woman!

    • @926paaja
      @926paaja 2 роки тому +32

      Powerful paradigm! And true.

    • @kimt8082
      @kimt8082 2 роки тому +29

      Micah, You are spot on. Before I read your comment, I was thinking how undeniably beautiful she is. Precious. 💕

    • @helentjoanda6245
      @helentjoanda6245 2 роки тому +7

      Damn true..

    • @fahmeeda406akhter7
      @fahmeeda406akhter7 2 роки тому +6

      Very true

    • @itsiwhatitsi
      @itsiwhatitsi 2 роки тому +4

      Very nice comment! I really like it

  • @iamsomeone8266
    @iamsomeone8266 Рік тому +62

    she's actually very sweet and she deserves so much love.

  • @yudi8204
    @yudi8204 3 роки тому +2580

    She makes me realized that the only problem with me is my mindset and my behavior.
    Not my outer appereance.

    • @cupcakee22
      @cupcakee22 3 роки тому +67

      Same. But society is to be blamed too, some A#$holes really judge people based on appearance, the herd defines certain standards of beauty and attractive people are always treated better..
      World sucks.. but yeah its amazing to have some will power like hers.

    • @bushka087
      @bushka087 3 роки тому +6

      I was thinking that until I realized I could blame my parents for everything

    • @jiyaaparekh
      @jiyaaparekh 3 роки тому +15

      @@cupcakee22 so true. I am naturally extremely skinny and through my entire school years I have always been left out moreover, school teachers would not choose me for annual concerts and other functions even though I was much better in dance than them. Idk why people judge a book by its cover our appearances are gifted and I would change nothing about it even though I might not be the prettiest of all!

    • @lyndaihechimerenwaimo7395
      @lyndaihechimerenwaimo7395 3 роки тому +1

      Absolutely true.

    • @xSchranzax
      @xSchranzax 3 роки тому +2

      That‘s it.

  • @caliv0608
    @caliv0608 4 роки тому +6198

    This woman had more confidence at 5 years old than I've ever had in my life.

    • @johnmac91
      @johnmac91 4 роки тому +161

      Same here. She makes me feel ashamed of myself for all the times I have felt sorry for myself because of problems that, compared to what she's been through, are trivial.

    • @Namedjames22
      @Namedjames22 4 роки тому +5

      5:28

    • @seriall1337
      @seriall1337 4 роки тому +7

      Yep. That's true confidence right there.

    • @omniscientomnipresent5500
      @omniscientomnipresent5500 4 роки тому +10

      That's normal, non confidence is something created the same way tables are, it always come from something.

    • @selenaperez6657
      @selenaperez6657 4 роки тому +30

      caliv0608 same and she's funny. She has really good hair.

  • @madagonia7083
    @madagonia7083 2 роки тому +474

    I showed this to my 6th grade classes and they clapped and cheered when the audience did 😭❤️ It was the sweetest thing ever. You are one awesome woman and speaker!

    • @monoboe8629
      @monoboe8629 Рік тому +7

      Your class is very respectful!

  • @gagana1085
    @gagana1085 11 місяців тому +52

    She's that one friend everyone needs at their low point to make them like stand up so firm, that even a storm can't shake them. She deserves allot more and it will come to her

  • @Aussie17
    @Aussie17 4 роки тому +3410

    no one gonna talk about her parents? they are the best i've heard of

  • @rachelzheng7165
    @rachelzheng7165 4 роки тому +7812

    she has such a pretty voice

    • @grass7864
      @grass7864 4 роки тому +229

      She really does. She would be a great voice actor.

    • @grass7864
      @grass7864 4 роки тому +76

      @Trần Thị Phương Linh
      True! Someone should tell her. Maybe she can do tryouts.

    • @A_Random_Shroob
      @A_Random_Shroob 4 роки тому +54

      I wish my voice would be like hers :(

    • @d3adlyfantasy504
      @d3adlyfantasy504 4 роки тому +27

      she sounds like Eugenia Cooney.. coincidence ?

    • @nguyenngan7410
      @nguyenngan7410 4 роки тому +16

      True! I’m so surprised listening to her the first time

  • @staceisstup1d
    @staceisstup1d Рік тому +35

    her voice is so calming

  • @king2hamsters
    @king2hamsters 8 місяців тому +8

    'You have power over your mind - not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength.'

  • @idkwhatimdoing8929
    @idkwhatimdoing8929 4 роки тому +2456

    The fact that people labelled this gorgeous human as the 'ugliest woman alive'
    she's incredible ffs....

    • @mystelwinters1942
      @mystelwinters1942 4 роки тому +125

      She has the most beautiful, positive, radiating soul!

    • @riti184
      @riti184 4 роки тому +16

      IdkWhatImDoing who said that??

    • @fraserfernandes8766
      @fraserfernandes8766 3 роки тому +43

      She's quite a level headed person for receiving the insult and yet being able to speak in front of an audience. shows that people can hurl insults but shes not shallow enough to let that weigh her down

    • @crimson8673
      @crimson8673 3 роки тому +15

      Ronnie Alvarez smh

    • @larry1816
      @larry1816 3 роки тому +33

      Let's not bs ourselves, shes not gorgeous..i hate when people do this in an attempt to look like they're a good person...she isn't gorgeous let's not lie, but that's not all she's worth, she has a beautiful mind and soul and you should respect her for that rather than trying to look like the good guy smh

  • @mackenzieyates3540
    @mackenzieyates3540 4 роки тому +6726

    I admire her so much. She’s so positive and she has such a wonderful personality.

  • @mysteryhorses1628
    @mysteryhorses1628 Рік тому +64

    She is an absolute delight! Funny, enthusiastic, passionate, and an inspiration! Bless her!

  • @Kayuki666
    @Kayuki666 Рік тому +8

    shes really pretty for real not just her face, her personality and soul

  • @WithStyleForever
    @WithStyleForever 7 років тому +1912

    Lizzie is an angel that came to earth to teach people how to love different people

  • @hitono.azhimo269
    @hitono.azhimo269 3 роки тому +1012

    She was never a princess who needed saving but was a queen who defended and built her EMPIRE.

  • @brunogrivera9180
    @brunogrivera9180 Рік тому +30

    I can only speak for myself, if you find yourself depressed or feeling sorry for yourself just one video of Liz and others in somewhat similar situations and knowing they would trade lives in a heart beat will make you rise above your own expectations

  • @ginh1709
    @ginh1709 Рік тому +42

    I just love this woman. Her energy, her gracious mindset- her determination and self awareness to be all that she could be while manifesting contentment in the process. I wish you all the best as you embark on what sparks joy and being an inspiration to people and the world. 🙏🏼 ❤

  • @alessiadesanctis3614
    @alessiadesanctis3614 2 роки тому +2033

    The more she talked, the more beautiful she became. How limited are we human beings! we really need so many videos like these to learn how to deeply grow.

  • @ailinh911
    @ailinh911 3 роки тому +1793

    if the only thing you have to say after watching this is “wow she’s so pretty”… you’ve missed the point. please ask yourself why you’re focusing on her outer appearance instead of her accomplishments, her perseverance, her positivity, and her amazing work ethic. i’m not saying this to be rude, but we really need to stop placing people’s entire value in their outer appearance.

    • @jamestollefsen6862
      @jamestollefsen6862 3 роки тому +18

      spot on ailin thank you

    • @yudi8204
      @yudi8204 3 роки тому +19

      You absolutely right

    • @esma9948
      @esma9948 3 роки тому +14

      I was looking for that kind of comment. She has done a lot more to appreciate other than her appearance.

    • @TheMilkyWayGalaxy--he-they-it
      @TheMilkyWayGalaxy--he-they-it 3 роки тому +14

      She do have great hair tho, no problem with pointing that out she said it herself lol

    • @esma9948
      @esma9948 3 роки тому +29

      @@TheMilkyWayGalaxy--he-they-it Yeah ofc people can mention things they like about her appearance, but going down to the comments section and seeing that the majority of them focuses on her looks instead of her inspirational talk makes me question if those people got the video's point.

  • @hilakummins3104
    @hilakummins3104 Рік тому +12

    Kids are cruel, no matter where you grow up or what is wrong (or right) about you -- your color, religion, size, whatever -- there's always gonna be someone to bully and shame you. Kudos to you for making lemons into lemonade AND writing about it. You're an inspiration!

  • @S-t-y-l-i-s-h_
    @S-t-y-l-i-s-h_ 3 місяці тому +3

    This is the definition of real POWER of positive fighting spirit 🔥

  • @proserpine8857
    @proserpine8857 3 роки тому +666

    She's probably the smartest person I've seen on youtube. Not for her education but for her mindset.

  • @irisreteach5915
    @irisreteach5915 3 роки тому +787

    At first, when I saw her, I thought: "She's so weak, so fragile, is she able to stand there alone for 5 minutes?" Then she raised her voice, made me redefine "What strength is, where it comes from". She is the strongest women I've ever known, because of her heart, her mindset, her sense of humor and yes, her existence makes this world a better place. Hats off to her thousand times ❤

    • @leilakergaravat9139
      @leilakergaravat9139 3 роки тому +11

      So beautiful what you said :) So true :) Lizzie is amazing

  • @toelaulopez6339
    @toelaulopez6339 Рік тому +11

    Hi Lizzie Velasquez today is April 30 2023 the first time I watched your video . Thank you to your parents that they didn't listen to what ever the doctors were talking about. Thank you for been strong and brave for not letting no one or anything stop you from accomplish your gold in life. God always works in mysterious ways. You have me in tear's. I know in my heart everyone watch your video we all learn something from you. Continue keep your head up and go after your dreams. I'm very very proud of you sweetheart. God bless you and your family 🙏🏾🙏🏾🌟🌟♥️

  • @louisepolley9707
    @louisepolley9707 4 роки тому +1920

    I keep forgetting how cruel the world is to anyone who is different.

    • @emesehety
      @emesehety 4 роки тому +49

      The fact that everyone is different make it worse🤔

    • @Dany-nt6dn
      @Dany-nt6dn 4 роки тому +52

      No matter how you look, everyone Is cruel to everyone no matter what.

    • @ieatpancreas2005
      @ieatpancreas2005 4 роки тому +10

      Everyone is different tho

    • @bluebell_06
      @bluebell_06 4 роки тому +1

      @@ieatpancreas2005 ???

    • @ieatpancreas2005
      @ieatpancreas2005 4 роки тому +1

      @@bluebell_06 everyone. Is. Different. From. Each. Other

  • @venyayerredla9281
    @venyayerredla9281 3 роки тому +797

    Bro she is so pretty, not only her looks, but overall she is beautiful. Her personailty, her strengths, HER. Its rlly admirable.

    • @babyblue28
      @babyblue28 3 роки тому +23

      Ikr when I first randomly came across a photo of her I was frightened ngl. But now I’m just so, so in love

    • @sanjeewajayawardana6148
      @sanjeewajayawardana6148 3 роки тому +1

      hi

    • @ilmarodrigues3139
      @ilmarodrigues3139 3 роки тому +1

      Realmente ela é admirável, esse mundo está muito difícil pra todos . Mas se formos fortes como ela é, venceremos tb.

    • @kloic9334
      @kloic9334 3 роки тому +2

      Pretty look ?

    • @ALBbratan
      @ALBbratan 3 роки тому +6

      Stop the cap

  • @hopperweiter7235
    @hopperweiter7235 5 місяців тому +3

    A big hug and kiss for you, brilliant being.

  • @arafathossain6237
    @arafathossain6237 11 місяців тому +4

    I used their negativity to light up my life to keep going. It’s changed everything Lissie.

  • @commess1
    @commess1 3 роки тому +839

    Hats off to her parents. They are the absolute best!

    • @Ankitor06
      @Ankitor06 3 роки тому

      parents are always better than best

  • @kp-rh2mo
    @kp-rh2mo 7 років тому +1547

    those mean people that bullied her cannot escape karma. She is a very strong person. God bless her.

    • @jariyajames91
      @jariyajames91 6 років тому +6

      Bully people are just need to wear specksaver glasses.. and those bully people are just jealous of that beautiful girl.. she is beautiful and very strong powerful beautiful soul..

    • @fernandoberlanga1539
      @fernandoberlanga1539 6 років тому +4

      There's no karma, and god had nothing to do with this. It was god (if exists) that gave her that disease (isn't him the one who decides everything?). It was her family and her power will that did the job.

    • @Eggo2341
      @Eggo2341 5 років тому

      God did that to her otherwise he made no plan and the bible is false which makes Christianity also false.

    • @mpregfics
      @mpregfics 5 років тому +2

      Her being successful is karma enough

    • @mildpanic36
      @mildpanic36 5 років тому

      @HalfAnon Those parents are the role model for YOU if you are to become a parent. You don't need a child with her syndrom to learn from her. ㅠㅠ

  • @MadiRoss91
    @MadiRoss91 2 роки тому +18

    I am in awe of her, and all spectacular spirits like her who embrace their natural, unique differences, who do not allow themselves to be weakened by anyone, who do not subject their bodies to the trauma of plastic surgery, they are just real, so real, there’s nothing more inspiring to me.

  • @sunset6220
    @sunset6220 2 роки тому +4

    She is so beautiful but It doesn't matter what she looks like, she is the most beautiful person in the world on the inside! She has a beautiful soul!

  • @DiogoF.
    @DiogoF. 8 років тому +7829

    I love her soul. She is so lovely.

    • @MiyahSundermeyer
      @MiyahSundermeyer 8 років тому +34

      Yeah she is. It is amazing what people assume about those who look or are born with abnormalities. Just about every time we have a success story someone makes those assumptions.

    • @infxkingspaladin5756
      @infxkingspaladin5756 8 років тому +1

      she looks like a fucking twig

    • @schmidtcarter3425
      @schmidtcarter3425 7 років тому +88

      +INF xKingsPaladin that was fucking rude and disrespectful. I'm sure she's prettier than u bitch

    • @schmidtcarter3425
      @schmidtcarter3425 7 років тому +22

      +Natalie tIala fuck u. y'all don't have heart

    • @penelope1370
      @penelope1370 7 років тому +11

      thats what you see, omg

  • @myheartwillstopinjoy8142
    @myheartwillstopinjoy8142 3 роки тому +755

    I still can't believe that people told her to kill herself just because of her apparence. She's a brave, fun, humble woman, and all they see is that???? Like, what? I'm disgusted.

    • @misterxyz5958
      @misterxyz5958 3 роки тому +4

      The person who told her to kill herself was a schizophrenic disorders.

    • @laurieberry4814
      @laurieberry4814 3 роки тому +30

      I have schizophrenia plus I was a skinny woman who had to deal with spoiled brats like you. Keep your bigotry to yourself. You have no place as being human

    • @misterxyz5958
      @misterxyz5958 3 роки тому +2

      @@laurieberry4814 really, so far I think a schizophrenic person is always cause detriment to society. Excuse me if I was wrong in conceiving this ailment coz I found it from reading. Anyway sorry if my comment caused you disappointment coz normally I always try not to cause any pain in anybody physical or mental as I believe in healthy society by following the rules and laws of the society itself🙏🙏🙏

    • @loltadynicneni913
      @loltadynicneni913 3 роки тому +23

      @@misterxyz5958 I'm sorry, do you actually know what schizophrenia means? Why do you think it causes detriment to society or why would someone schizophrenic tell Lizzie to kill herself? Schizophrenia doesn't equal criminality or aggressiveness even though it might occasionally cause it. It's the same with psychopathy and other changes in mentality.

    • @YanaSvara
      @YanaSvara 3 роки тому +2

      @@loltadynicneni913 maybe (S)he meant psychotic? let's give him/her
      the benefit of a doubt!

  • @denisedaly2307
    @denisedaly2307 2 роки тому +18

    This girl is a legend. Truly a winner in life.

  • @AdaiaFlores-sh3fp
    @AdaiaFlores-sh3fp Рік тому +6

    I bet all her bullies are regretting their life choices right about now.
    I absolutely love your speech!!! Keep fighting and pushing forward!! And you really do have great hair, I'm jealous lol.

  • @marlanaferro1481
    @marlanaferro1481 3 роки тому +808

    In life I've learned, there is nothing more beautiful than a beautiful soul.

    • @libertysoulfreedom
      @libertysoulfreedom 3 роки тому +6

      Marlana Ferro, your message is marvelous and powerful
      You say a great Truth
      All the Best to you and for every Real Human being like you

    • @marlanaferro1481
      @marlanaferro1481 3 роки тому +3

      @@libertysoulfreedom Thank you ❤

    • @r5ndom527
      @r5ndom527 3 роки тому +5

      Amen!

    • @m_k_6471
      @m_k_6471 3 роки тому +1

      Absolutely correct 👍

    • @vahiniyeleswarapu6776
      @vahiniyeleswarapu6776 3 роки тому +3

      Completely true! She is beautiful… beauty doesn’t lie withins ones face but within ones heart… she has taught us a lesson… there are tons of lessons to learn from her!!

  • @ruaimaahasan6049
    @ruaimaahasan6049 5 років тому +2760

    She has such a likeable personality that she becomes even more beautiful. Very good public speaker, she got back on track naturally when she lost her train of thought instead of panicking. Her story is very inspiring. Young people need to hear this

    • @adeshpoz1167
      @adeshpoz1167 5 років тому +7

      Indeed!

    • @user-fy4ud2zn1p
      @user-fy4ud2zn1p 5 років тому

      @@yian1787
      .9ㅎ

    • @lilydiaz9767
      @lilydiaz9767 5 років тому

      Ruaimaa Hasan I agree

    • @user-gc1qh2zq3e
      @user-gc1qh2zq3e 4 роки тому

      그대삶을 응원합니다.

    • @carterblunt4192
      @carterblunt4192 4 роки тому +1

      What do you mean by "even more"? Are you suggesting that she has aesthetic appeal, and moreso are you suggesting that she is physically attractive?

  • @sunshine0829
    @sunshine0829 4 місяці тому +4

    Honestly she’s so extremely strong

  • @rossmartenak5517
    @rossmartenak5517 Рік тому +15

    Lizzie is the epitome of beauty AND a refreshing example of a 'genuine' person...inside & out!. In our society today, particularly as portrayed by the media, it's all about appearances. Lizzie goes WELL beyond that shallow way of thinking. God Bless you and enjoy your life and continue your wonderful insight, Lizzie!!

  • @meryllvillaruel3704
    @meryllvillaruel3704 3 роки тому +632

    "I used their negativity to light up my fire."- Lizzie.

  • @redrobin3667
    @redrobin3667 4 роки тому +976

    6:13 this is very important, her parents did not go the next day to complain to the school because their daughter has been harassed by some bully. Her parents know that they have to give her the courage and intelligence to face the reality of life.
    When we overprotect our children, we victimize them and create overly sensitive adults.
    Behind this wonderful strong girl, there are wonderful parents, family, and friends.

    • @pimpattrapiwat6721
      @pimpattrapiwat6721 4 роки тому +9

      I really like and support in your opinion.

    • @sofijasofija2867
      @sofijasofija2867 3 роки тому +69

      have you ever experienced bullying? When no one does anything about that and tells, o sweetie, Im sorry you go through that but that's life, this fucks you up. Bullying is not a reality of life and yes, when you go through that other things might not seem that bad but what's the cost of that. Some people get a thick skin and some of them get depression, anxiety and kill themselves.
      Reporting the bullying is not overprotecting.

    • @sueryan8320
      @sueryan8320 3 роки тому +6

      I agree. Schools need to be doing more to stop this.

    • @muhsina9923
      @muhsina9923 3 роки тому

      Really its is big true.

    • @oqhixlism4969
      @oqhixlism4969 3 роки тому +4

      @@sofijasofija2867 Yes you're so right I think they're trying to say that with what she has everyone is going to judge her and look at her weird and the parents know this is going to happen though out her life so they just tried to i think let her go and do it herself and experience it so she gets use to it and then she'll be able to not be bothered!

  • @melissamartin8266
    @melissamartin8266 Рік тому +12

    I have to say, this brought tears to my eyes, especially when she started talking about her parents. She has the upmost respect from me.

  • @naimvelasquez6079
    @naimvelasquez6079 2 роки тому +3

    My last name is Velasquez, as you can see. If I hadn't searched "Velasquez" out of curiosity on UA-cam 7 years ago, if I hadn't clicked on this video, I wouldn't be here. All my life, I've felt like I didn't belong in my own skin, I've cried to my mom asking why I was born since I was 6 because people couldn't and can't stop asking why I was "always sick or half-dead". I'm just a girl, but because of my dark circles, my bone structure and my skin, I have been called names by everyone including close friends, family, everyone. I have tried so much to improve my outer appearance that I started purposefully tangling my hair and not sleeping when I was 10. I would've harmed myself, I would've destroyed myself from the inside if it wasn't for that video. Lizzie's words, work and heart touched me in a place so deep that everytime I rewatch that video I cry, not because I'm sad, but because I'm so, so grateful to share a name with her, because I share feelings with her and, somewhat, I share stories with her. We might not be what society expects of us, I might be "that one girl" for the people passing me in the street. But we have strength. She is one of the strongest people I've seen, a warrior, one of the strongest people I wish I could meet, and the strongest person to grant me strength to push through my own hardship. Thank you Lizzie, I wish you as much happiness as you've given me, even if you don't know

    • @artawesome30
      @artawesome30 Місяць тому

      This was incredibly sweet. Thank you for sharing.

  • @Paola-jf2qf
    @Paola-jf2qf 3 роки тому +841

    I met her in person, at a youth conference. She is amazing.

  • @cigxhang486
    @cigxhang486 3 роки тому +627

    I really hate how people can be mistreated because of the things they can't change

    • @kat649
      @kat649 3 роки тому +4

      She unique

    • @atomkriegreinigungs7737
      @atomkriegreinigungs7737 3 роки тому +8

      Yes. Even if they could change, they may not want to.

    • @kaiserchief9319
      @kaiserchief9319 3 роки тому

      Hope do you feel about anyone wearing a mask?

    • @veronicafolks3869
      @veronicafolks3869 3 роки тому

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    • @Yzzlthtz
      @Yzzlthtz 3 роки тому

      @@kaiserchief9319 Ninja mask? Masquerade mask? Commedia dell'arte masks? Avengers Character masks?

  • @pauldaniel6208
    @pauldaniel6208 2 роки тому

    This video randomly came up in the channel feed, and I am very glad it did. Powerful stuff. Wishing this special lady all the best.

  • @rolandocaabaysr.5844
    @rolandocaabaysr.5844 2 роки тому

    very well said lizzie. watching this i had a lot of realization. you taught me how to define myself abd figured it out as quickly as it is. you are ab elonquent speaker i am so grateful for sharing your story with us. your story must be heard around the globe. i wish i could hug you and says "you're the prettiest person in the world'

  • @venice8488
    @venice8488 3 роки тому +441

    her voice is so pretty

    • @ellyvandentweel3469
      @ellyvandentweel3469 3 роки тому +8

      That's what I thought to

    • @dude2410
      @dude2410 3 роки тому +8

      it is... no really no joke it sounds soothing af

    • @sausagejockey4298
      @sausagejockey4298 3 роки тому +9

      I think as a human being, she is empathetic, beautiful and intelligent.
      Any person would be lucky to spend ANY amount of time in her company.
      Just saying

    • @Heller103085
      @Heller103085 3 роки тому +3

      She def has a great cadence to her voice...its very soothing and very smooth voice

    • @aproudbbdkbsbestie267
      @aproudbbdkbsbestie267 3 роки тому +1

      EXACTLY

  • @bellateschner
    @bellateschner 5 років тому +1273

    see the thing is, none of us were ever self conscious until people pointed out our flaws. be careful what you tell people because it can stick with them forever.

    • @nihadnina4812
      @nihadnina4812 5 років тому +4

      The ACE Army so true 😢

    • @maggieschumann7806
      @maggieschumann7806 5 років тому +2

      so true

    • @johns8065
      @johns8065 5 років тому +4

      And maybe make them stronger... but still we should all be respectful

    • @lazysince8735
      @lazysince8735 5 років тому +14

      So true... and sometimes it’s by my family. I know they just joke and families are supposed to be real but they always point out my flaws, my appearance, and it makes me feel so bad but they don’t acknowledge that...

    • @ashsparkle4283
      @ashsparkle4283 5 років тому +3

      This is so true, wow if everyone did this no one would hurt so much on the inside.

  • @ntiayungclodiankenneh281
    @ntiayungclodiankenneh281 11 місяців тому

    Ooh my the sweetest talk I've seen today
    I love her energy, such a free-spirited person doing her unique purpose .

  • @jamesfinley1819
    @jamesfinley1819 Рік тому +39

    So I’m really late to this woman’s story, but I think that the universe was just saving this for when I really needed it. That time is now, and I am so grateful to Lizzie for doing this. Thank you so much!! What a beautiful woman with a message that the world needs badly.

  • @doantrang.12
    @doantrang.12 2 роки тому +1

    i just can’t imagine how powerful she is to get through all of those things and be the person she is now. How can? so so so soooooooo respect

  • @hannahxu
    @hannahxu 6 років тому +6811

    the video calling her the 'ugliest woman alive' recieved 4 million views. let's get this ted talk to 5 million :)

  • @annabananna789
    @annabananna789 6 років тому +740

    I'm crying because her positivity is so genuine and beautiful. I'm crying because I feel like I've been so ungrateful and complaining unnecessarily that I'm unable to see the value of the things I already have. I'm crying because of how strong she is and if more people carried even an ounce of her strength, I truly believe that the world would be so much better.

    • @bluebubble229
      @bluebubble229 6 років тому +13

      I agree, but its also human nature to complain unnecessairly. I've done the same thing. I bet lizzy has done it too. All we can do as humans is try are very best to be as strong as we can be.

    • @rickmcintosh5787
      @rickmcintosh5787 6 років тому +8

      Reading what you wrote makes you pretty special and strong too. So stop crying and pass it on, this is how our country and world should be like.

    • @mawdarana7319
      @mawdarana7319 6 років тому

      Ann Legaspi your wrong

  • @lisa63853
    @lisa63853 11 місяців тому +2

    This is the best video of TED talks I've ever watched. I am so lucky to have found this.

  • @MC-pg2ko
    @MC-pg2ko 10 місяців тому +21

    Lizzie Velasquez is an inspiration. I see nothing but the beauty of her soul. A credit to the parents who committed themselves to love her unconditionally and instil in their daughter a strong sense of identity and the determination to make the most of life and succeed.

    • @Kebir-xv4xb
      @Kebir-xv4xb 7 місяців тому

      في الجزائر يعرضوها و يسمعولها هادي في السابع المستحيلات تحيا أوروبا

  • @GardenMinistry.
    @GardenMinistry. 3 роки тому +1478

    Doctors: you'll never walk, live, or think.
    Lizzie: hold my college degree ☺️

  • @user-vi5ps4cb1g
    @user-vi5ps4cb1g 5 років тому +1354

    I was listening to the video, not watching it. It was an autoplay while I was doing my chores...first, her voice, then her sense of humour, then her message went straight to my heart...then I reached out to pick up my phone and saw...a lioness in a kitten, a ray of light in a broken lamp, a promise of heaven in the darkness...Thank you, Lizzie! God bless you!

    • @ddubfan
      @ddubfan 5 років тому +26

      I love this comment so much! You should have WAY more likes. I'm hoping the childish & superficial comments are from pre-teen/teens who have no idea what it means to be a kind person.

    • @sophiececile9946
      @sophiececile9946 5 років тому +23

      Mary Kelly I really hope that they are four-year-olds who don’t know what they’re talking about. I’m a teenager and I would be disgusted if any of my friends said a word against this amazing woman.

    • @shyguy2656
      @shyguy2656 5 років тому +11

      Same here. I'm only 15 and even I understand what an amazing person Lizzie is. If any of my friends or peers said anything negative about her purely because of her appearance, I would ditch them. Judge a person on their actions, not their appearance. Most teenagers know this.

    • @Eggo2341
      @Eggo2341 5 років тому +1

      God made this happen.

    • @kunalsharma2116
      @kunalsharma2116 5 років тому +1

      Beautiful said... So so right..
      She is a motivation for all of us

  • @deborahwilliamson5655
    @deborahwilliamson5655 Рік тому

    Just found your documentary on Tubi. I subscribed, because you are so incredibly confident and powerful. You are inspiring people all over the world!!! Blessings to you and your amazing family.

  • @K4113B4113
    @K4113B4113 Рік тому

    This talk challenged the way I think about people with disabilities and even about myself and my fear of being looked on unfavorably by people and I'm grateful. It was a great talk!

  • @arianagrandefanpage_dw4991
    @arianagrandefanpage_dw4991 7 років тому +2832

    SHE IS AN INSPIRATION TO US ALL!! PEOPLE NEED TO LEARN FROM HER.

  • @cursedmika
    @cursedmika 8 років тому +380

    I'm not even going to hide or lie about it, few years ago a friend send me a picture of Lizzie and he asked what I thought of her. I tolded him that she's disgusting. I now realize she isn't disgusting, she has an awesome personality and a precious heart! I shouldn't judge a book by its cover. And Lizzie if you are reading this, I want to apologize for my action and I hope everything goes well for you!

    • @bgregwatson
      @bgregwatson 8 років тому +35

      +Mika K. Yeah I feel bad because I know that if I had been in her kindergarten class I probably would have been mean to her and had I seen the video in high school I would have made fun of her. This is why I watch videos like this, they challenge me to be a better human being.

    • @kngpin41
      @kngpin41 8 років тому +5

      +bballfreak for real. I have seen a video with her as the world's ugliest woman. but her personality is beautiful. shes super successful and I'm happy for her

    • @witchplease9695
      @witchplease9695 8 років тому +6

      I'm glad you all changed and realize that its cruel to judge people on appearances. It takes strength to admit that.

    • @marcoarteaga6897
      @marcoarteaga6897 8 років тому +3

      With All Do Respect Congratulations For Recognizing Your Mistakes And Youre Right Lizzie Velásquez Is Truely Awosome And Plus Shes A Great Inspiration

    • @cmap1503
      @cmap1503 8 років тому +2

      +Mika K. what the fuck? Shes still disgusting, you are being delusional.

  • @fionad4724
    @fionad4724 2 роки тому

    she is so beautiful and positive. ive never seen someone with so much spunk and confidence.

  • @luc15Apple
    @luc15Apple 2 роки тому

    The best video about self esteem!! I already suffered bullying, I hated me myself for a long time. Beautiful person

  • @SoyAibuBenabe
    @SoyAibuBenabe 7 років тому +55

    She just kicked the butt of every one of those assholes who bullied her. Her soul is beautiful.

  • @atomkriegreinigungs7737
    @atomkriegreinigungs7737 3 роки тому +614

    I got more from her talk in 13 min than I've ever had with my therapist for almost 2 yrs. And...
    yes, girls' hair is on fleek.

    • @skydelan
      @skydelan 3 роки тому +7

      My therapist even can’t talk like that

    • @youdroppedsomething4334
      @youdroppedsomething4334 3 роки тому +8

      Okay but Frl, I’m gonna need a hair care routine.

    • @omotosoolatunde9139
      @omotosoolatunde9139 3 роки тому +3

      your therapist would be out of job if he/she talks like this to you. how would your therapist survive if you are in good condition?

    • @maarakailet1
      @maarakailet1 3 роки тому +2

      Yeah, but really, fire your therapist. It takes a while and sometimes it gets really frustrating but good ones are out there. I'm almost 40 and have just now found a good therapist and a diagnosis that actually fits.

    • @ellie2565
      @ellie2565 3 роки тому +1

      Ikr her hair is just 👌✨✨

  • @dennysnutricion2023
    @dennysnutricion2023 2 роки тому

    Lizzie sent you so much love, you are amazing.
    Thank you for doing everything possible so that I could see you on the internet, you filled me with inspiration and power.

  • @studiosheeko
    @studiosheeko 2 роки тому +1

    she is soooo cute! i smiled and cried a lot throughout this video- she is so moving and wonderful. really grateful that she was willing to share her experience and motivate so many people.

  • @Desekratedd
    @Desekratedd 5 років тому +1019

    I hate talking in front of an audience, I hated group projects and oral presentations in school, and she is up there delivering such a powerful speech..wtf is wrong with me.

    • @yeppiy2k
      @yeppiy2k 5 років тому +7

      Rob Soltysiak Same. She's só brave!

    • @matthewv3556
      @matthewv3556 5 років тому +54

      Don't be hard on yourself. Complimenting her and being down on your abilities won't make you better.

    • @HuePhanthihue
      @HuePhanthihue 5 років тому +5

      she is great

    • @jannamebaotocuaruneterra6211
      @jannamebaotocuaruneterra6211 5 років тому +7

      I know how you feel! Do you have social phobia ?

    • @Vapor817
      @Vapor817 5 років тому +1

      only way to get out of that is to practice, get up there and say something to someone

  • @oniinekosan
    @oniinekosan 3 роки тому +450

    I feel like she would be a wonderful friend to have.

    • @katlyntran4545
      @katlyntran4545 3 роки тому +7

      Same because I find this girl being great at comedy

    • @SATANFUCKSMYSOUL
      @SATANFUCKSMYSOUL 3 роки тому +6

      Yes she has a big heart ❤

    • @07.quanghuy49
      @07.quanghuy49 3 роки тому +7

      same, she’s too kind for this cruel world

    • @Ray-gu5kp
      @Ray-gu5kp 3 роки тому +1

      Give me a brake. Would you take her to Walmart

    • @uwu-ed5ho
      @uwu-ed5ho 3 роки тому +1

      yeah but ill be afraid to hurt her by any touch she seems so physically fragile 🥺

  • @annettapurcell3933
    @annettapurcell3933 11 місяців тому

    I've just watched your story and had to look you up. I wanted to tell you that you are beautiful 🤩. Thank you for your message. Keep up the amazing work. Much love

  • @juliearcand2358
    @juliearcand2358 Рік тому +8

    Omg I keep watching the documentary and you got your diagnosis! I'm just crying out of , I can't say happy tears, but just your strength and your kindness to everyone! I saw the mother whose daughter committed suicide and how kind you were to her and you any kind of bullying is so traumatic. Lizzie, you are truly a gift from God. God bless you and I am just in awe of your courage and bravery despite all the challenges you face every day. I pray your actual heart stays strong because there is nothing wrong with your emotional heart. You truly are amazing!!! ❣❣❣❣

  • @permanentweightlossover50a44
    @permanentweightlossover50a44 3 роки тому +636

    If all parents were like hers, the world would be a different place. What a fantastic video.

    • @animefanatic5080
      @animefanatic5080 3 роки тому +16

      Like srsly. Parents play a big role in mental health of a person. If my parents didn't focus too much on my appearance, I might've had a but more confidence in myself. Cuz these days, whenever I'm talking to someone, I think "is my double chin showing up?" Or "am I looking weird?". And this all started ever since my mother and siblings started calling me names whenever they were angry. They might've vented off their anger for the time but they made me feel miserable and I can't forget little thing like that. I wish I was mentally strong like this girl (I admire her so much). Tho I'm trying to change but it's really hard...

    • @mariamarinucci2251
      @mariamarinucci2251 3 роки тому +1

      Absolutely true!

    • @animefanatic5080
      @animefanatic5080 3 роки тому

      @You- know-who thanks and I hope so too ^^ (I've been trying somewhat)

    • @kirtihoney3822
      @kirtihoney3822 3 роки тому

      Only lucky ppl get

    • @chiaracorrado8172
      @chiaracorrado8172 3 роки тому

      @@animefanatic5080 good luck and stay strong!

  • @ARSHXVN
    @ARSHXVN 7 років тому +1473

    *STRENGTH* in human form

    • @ryannegrete4785
      @ryannegrete4785 6 років тому

      Well, let's not get ahead of ourselves. If she's so strong can she she lift a 30 pound dumbbell? No😂😂😂

    • @ikPatriciaclips
      @ikPatriciaclips 6 років тому +21

      There's big difference in mental and physical strength.

    • @veerasahni4741
      @veerasahni4741 6 років тому

      wegydrhb

    • @friedeggs1576
      @friedeggs1576 6 років тому

      Arshan Sudhir 1000th like :D

    • @jessicahamilton109
      @jessicahamilton109 6 років тому +3

      Ryan Negrete That really wasn't funny. Btw, nice profile pic. Air Force, huh? My grandfathers are shaking their heads right now at this. I think they would say, "She is strong in ways that matter most.
      Fly high, or stay grounded."

  • @dragon3022
    @dragon3022 Рік тому

    I really admire the beauty within you Lizzie. You are so smart daughter and your parents are lucky to have you.

  • @knowreeschannel355
    @knowreeschannel355 2 роки тому

    Thank you Lizzie for your motivational speech! It made me cry because I had similar experiences in my environment. I stay positive no matter how much I feel crushed down, never give up and keep moving on as if it never rained rocks in my life. Congratulations on your success in reaching your goals.

  • @DeutschmitMarija
    @DeutschmitMarija 3 роки тому +3301

    Such a lovely soul ❤️

    • @josevillanueva9705
      @josevillanueva9705 3 роки тому +25

      Better a lovely soul than lovely body

    • @zahraabdiaziz685
      @zahraabdiaziz685 3 роки тому +9

      💖💖💖💖

    • @wiohwilliam2863
      @wiohwilliam2863 3 роки тому +3

      @@josevillanueva9705 ?

    • @MsAchampion
      @MsAchampion 3 роки тому +24

      I went through bullying too 😔 Bless her heart ❤ This young woman is awesome

    • @Jesus.SaVeS77
      @Jesus.SaVeS77 3 роки тому +5

      Gdeve.@@MsAchampion Yes she
      Is brave, Beautiful Woman, & has a Beautiful 💖💗 Heart, Soul & spirit, comical/funny as well.
      She's Very Positive, Smart, 💪, Courageous, determined, successful, etc. Also, man Luks @ the outer appearance. But our Father God Luks
      @ the/her Heart. My mother use 2 say/tell me: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
      Also, I wished I cud tell that young lady
      Thank U for sharing her Testimony. Much ❤💖💛 & Care. 😍😘

  • @aliexsimth4980
    @aliexsimth4980 6 років тому +4290

    Win with grace, and I have to say that she is such a graceful lady.

  • @denisemarshall2432
    @denisemarshall2432 2 роки тому +1

    The world needs more souls like you Lizzie. You are awesome! Very best wishes to you for the future. X

  • @imy133
    @imy133 Рік тому +1

    This talk is so inspiring! Simple but so malaman, this is my favorite Ted talk so far..

  • @KaraCamilleDelonas
    @KaraCamilleDelonas 8 років тому +139

    She is the most beautiful woman in the world.

  • @Lawleet
    @Lawleet 3 роки тому +683

    Her inner beauty has touched million of people across the globe. She is such such a kind soul with fine abilities.

    • @m.m9439
      @m.m9439 3 роки тому +11

      Yes she did touched the whole globe with her beautiful soul and sweet heart

    • @ChildofYAH
      @ChildofYAH 2 роки тому +1

      Earth isn't a globe

    • @tarfarian
      @tarfarian 2 роки тому +1

      @@ChildofYAH And you aren't smart

    • @Lawleet
      @Lawleet 2 роки тому

      @@ChildofYAH what deos the word globally means?

  • @togetherisbetterlc
    @togetherisbetterlc 2 роки тому +4

    I show this video to my students every year to motivate them to strive to do better. Also, they realize how others can turn their weaknesses into strengths and how to help others without even realizing it. We enjoy it every time!

  • @marcmaschal2897
    @marcmaschal2897 11 місяців тому +2

    Love her.She has the sweetest voice.I hope she's still doing ok and continues to spread this positive energy.

  • @AceHalford
    @AceHalford 3 роки тому +1935

    She's actually pretty cool, I'd hang out with her

    • @natashaannitah5338
      @natashaannitah5338 3 роки тому +3

      Wow👍

    • @moncasimirodagdagan5614
      @moncasimirodagdagan5614 3 роки тому +1

      Your not the only one

    • @m.a1424
      @m.a1424 3 роки тому +1

      Same

    • @m.a1424
      @m.a1424 3 роки тому +12

      @Caroline Coleman it’s ok that’s what he thinks it’s ok he doesn’t hate her

    • @m.a1424
      @m.a1424 3 роки тому +1

      @Eggroll Eater so actually she’s not

  • @inglouriousbee
    @inglouriousbee 4 роки тому +473

    This is proof that it's society that really affects us. She wasn't self conscious or trying to impress anyone until she went to school with others who judged her. She has an amazing support system.

  • @nehaahmed4422
    @nehaahmed4422 2 роки тому

    rn my tiny mind cant comprehend the beautiful human being i see in front of me. lizzie u have the most wonderful soul and u have moved me sm

  • @OMAR-vq3yb
    @OMAR-vq3yb 2 роки тому +2

    First Ted talk that really got me emotional. What a beautiful and inspiring person.

  • @Kazilikaya
    @Kazilikaya 7 років тому +309

    *THIS* is what strength looks like

    • @samanthan153
      @samanthan153 7 років тому

      Mike 2 you're the kind of people that society doesn't need

    • @eclecticminn2265
      @eclecticminn2265 7 років тому

      Kazilikaya Yes. She is very charismatic. It also feels like i want to be her friend

    • @paytonguidry9364
      @paytonguidry9364 7 років тому +2

      that is true on so many levels

  • @jessicahung6162
    @jessicahung6162 7 років тому +1190

    Okay the whole time I couldn't pay attention bc I was just watching and thinking 'WOW HER HAIR IS GORGEOUS'

  • @ThatZenLife420
    @ThatZenLife420 Рік тому +20

    This girl is GOING PLACES. 👏
    Her message is absolutely phenomenal and I do the same thing, IT WORKS! ✨️
    Bless her soul she is so beautiful in EVERY realm. ❤️

  • @ineshaoctaviacarrlagreenid5265
    @ineshaoctaviacarrlagreenid5265 2 роки тому

    I’m soo proud of you. Continue to shine your light. You are brave and amazing.

  • @ananimity7332
    @ananimity7332 7 років тому +2726

    She's absolutely amazing! I truly wish I had her strength. If everyone had such a big heart and was as positive as she is Earth would be a much more beautiful place to live.

  • @vaishnavi5070
    @vaishnavi5070 6 років тому +566

    her voice is so sweet. her hair is perfect and her thinking.. just beautifull

    • @jariyajames91
      @jariyajames91 6 років тому +3

      she is so perfect.. oh my gosh she is poplaur.. I love her now.. I'm starting fan of her.

    • @vaishnavi5070
      @vaishnavi5070 6 років тому +1

      ikr

    • @neeraja6972
      @neeraja6972 6 років тому +2

      vishnu saki I agree with u

    • @vaishnavi5070
      @vaishnavi5070 6 років тому +1

      RosyRBL X hey fam🤗

    • @pniesandfenb3584
      @pniesandfenb3584 6 років тому +1

      I know right! I did my hispanic project on her

  • @lanajantz2240
    @lanajantz2240 2 роки тому

    I cried, when you talked of crying, my heart pounded. I love you and who you are. You are amazing ! You are better. I like using negative things people say as ladder!

  • @nagssaran1343
    @nagssaran1343 2 роки тому

    She's so inspirational, positive, motivational, and funny. I love her so much