Too bad that's false. A Canadian study found that a quarter of sex workers interviewed started because they found it "appealing." Most of the rest do it for the independence, and yes, the money. For many it's by far their most profitable option. That may be less a story about undervaluing conventional work but overvaluing sex work due to its forbidden and often illegal nature. As soon as drugs are legalized, their prices drop... Happened when Prohibition was repealed, too. (Consuming alcohol also became a lot safer.)
What she left out is, hot women have been put on a pedestal by everyone, men & women, oftentimes since an early age, & because of her beauty everyone tolerates her terrible behavior. So she thinks it's okay to behave that way, because no one ever puts them in their place. The men who do are the men who those hot women fall in love with.
I agree with you. It's social dynamics. They develop personality disorders: narcissistic (NPD)/ histrionic (HPD) personality disorder. What people fail to understand is that NPD/ HPD are not entirely the fault of the person with the disorder. Gaslighting is a way of distorting someone's sense of reality. It is mostly associated with degrading a person and eroding away their ego. That's not the only form of gaslighting. You can gaslight a person to have an inflated sense of self (ego). It is equally damaging to a person only the damage comes later on in life when these people realize they cannot maintain meaningful relationships. This is why it's important not to "butter a person up" too much because you are distorting their sense of self and therefore how they cope and interact with their peers. It's all about social dynamics...
And it's terrible annoying because then when the men who treat them like they should be treated reject them, they act like they tried to kill them and now want revenge. While everyone thinks the man is gay when he simply doesn't tolerate bad behavior no matter how hot she is
I've never put up with crap from any woman. In social settings, they seldom ever try it with me. I call out the ones who have. These days the problem is women, regardless of how they look, who are absolutely insane witches in a business setting.
Huh? Why would you be put on a pedestal just because you're hot? I mean with men (or potential romantic partners of any gender) that makes sense. But why would your parents or friends or siblings treat you any different because of how you look (unless something is VERY wrong with that family). With friends, especially during the teenage years, it might even lead to jealousy and bullying born of insecurity.
Hot women are not crazy. It’s the ones who think their hotter than they really are who are who are crazy. Overvaluing yourself is already a sign that something is wrong upstairs.
Agreed, and it seems very common that women think they are hotter than they really are when they put tons of makeups on and take pictures with filters... That's why we see so many "hot" girls on social media but in reality there are not many...
What people don't understand, is that beauty is subjective i don't understand why people don't understand this simple concept, the thing is though is if someone has put on makeup it has made them hot period, the simple fact is now they think so is because they are it is not delusional they can creat themselves to be so I don't like makeup it is subjective I know people dudes who will not date girls who don't wear makeup it is subjective, period,. ,. ,. ,. ,. ,. the problem is though is that people think they are goddesses not that they are beautiful not that they are gorgeous it's because they think they're beyond human ehichnisnthebtrue problem that thought that they are hotter than what they doesn't exist they think that they are God's that they are above human ehichbus the true problem behind this problem, period,. with women's thought processes, period, women are just crazy, period, now adays, period,. ,. ,. ,. ,. ,.
@@pac7025It's an interesting idea you have there but I'm not entirely sure if it bears out in the real world. It seems more likely that there is, at least, a significant percentage of "hot" women who *ARE* crazy, regardless of how physically flawless they might be.
@pac7025 that is true but it is not the beauty that is the base line it is the idea of it, that is what is the part that is objective not the beauty but the fact that the consensus exists but not the beauty itself beauty has no form therefore it has to be subjective because it is mind dependant the sun for instance is objective it is there regardless of our mind,. the base line also is the combination of attractive qualities, which is what beauty is, we know this but the baseline itself is just our interpretation and dumbing down of some thing that is highly and absolutely more complicated than what we're thinking it is,. ,. ,. ,. ,. ,. to be honest,. ,. ,. ,. ,. ,.
Low value people (both men & women) give into their urges easier. People (both men & women) who are of higher value don’t give into their urges as easy.
@@610kclaf In the dating market, yes. Just like if someone has a physical disorder beyond their control that makes them visually not as attractive to most, but that doesn't mean they are "low value" in general...it just means in the dating market they will not be chosen as often as someone without the physical deformity/disorder. No one said life was fair 🤷♀️ Just find another person who has the same exact behavior patterns of ADHD. Problem solved.
I used to be 230 pounds. I lost 100 pounds. Men ***AND*** women treat me vastly differently. My personality did not change. So I know this is true, about the different experiences of the world.
@@610kclaf no one ever opened doors for me. I remember VERY distinctly the first time a man opened a door for me, and the exact gas station it was at, and the realization that chivalry isn't dead, its reserved for the pretty. Here's an odd one: in stores, the workers (both male and female) quickly come and ask me if I need help finding something, and when I was bigger, I'd wander around for a long time and have to ASK for help finding something. It may sound strange, but their eyes just skipped over me and I was invisible. Tbh I do miss that invisibly some days, because it feels like I have to be always "on" and ready to talk anyone and it's exhausting. It was simply an energy, really, a "you are wanted and not a burden ". You know when someone doesn't want you around and is doing everything to shoe you away One thing, though. I am treated like I am stupider than I was before. When I was fat, most people didn't talk to me. But when they did, it seemed like they thought I had actual thoughts? I have an AWFUL lot of people talking down to me now. I do look way younger than mid 30s, though, so I'm going to assume they think I'm stupid because they think I'm 20, not because I'm prettier than I used to be.
@@610kclaf I know you are probably expecting something outrageous like people offering to buy me things, but I don't go to bars or socialize much outside of work. If I wanted to leverage my looks, I probably could. It's mostly just a big difference in that suddenly EVERYONE WANTS TO TALK TO ME. and they never did before, so...... it's a bit overwhelming for an introverted nerd.. I hide from the world.
@@amandaforrester7636 I hide from the world too. Introvert with major depression and social anxiety. I was 135 and I gained 30 pounds and I'm noticing people, especially women, are more inclined to interact with me. nothing outrageous like you mentioned, but definitely not everyone. It's nice to not be as invisible as I once was.
So true. They smile at you open the door for you they treat you so differently like night and day. I treasure the people who treated me with respect while I was over weight. People are so shallow. Whenever I see a young man who show respect and kindness towards an “unattractive” woman or an elderly I feel like I saw an unicorn.
This opening answer, about hot women getting the worst, most sexually aggressive versions of men, while normal-looking women get normal versions of the same men, was eye-opening for me.
@@Tuddles-o9omost women experience similar things, maybe youre not a woman but this is true. Beautitul women get the type of people that try to suck their confidence and self esteem. Try to make them into their property. Its sickening so you have to become aware and avoid… this actually happens to majority of women, if youre sweet, insecure, beautitul etc They have a plan to see if they can control you by any means depending on your personality.. which is why as we age, its harder for us to say yes to dating Just anyone and we really need to know know you Becaude we’re not willing to deal with that again.
@Entertainer114 As a natural brunette I went bleach blonde for a few weeks many many years ago. It felt like I was on a completely different planet. It was a grotesque experience for me. I have frankly never looked at men the same. I dyed my hair auburn shortly after, and interactions with men outside the home became tolerable again, and eventually I returned to brunette for good.
Women act crazy because they CAN! Imagine, if you could wreak havoc... and get away with it - a lot of people would act upon it (and don't lie, you wouldn't) the only reason, why most people (especially women) have to act virtuos, is NOT because they're virtuos, it's because of the FEAR of punishment, if people would act otherwise.
A woman being psycho = “help her, she is desperate and needs support.” A man being psycho = charges and jail. That’s why women exaggerate their craziness, and men hide it. Stigma and consequences
That's the best point I've heard in a long time. Modern women are monetizing sex. That's their method to detach from the emotional connection from sex. We need to talk more about this again and again from every angle. The red pill community doesn't really talk about it even.
Hot women are crazy...because they are not used to being said "No" to. That sends them into a tailspin in my experience. The entitlement is grandiose and the accountability is minuscule.
@@abigailcosta1716 It's not a crown. It's a fact she is stunning and stops people in their tracks. It's more insane than the most beautiful panorama in front of you. People don't know how to act when something out of the ordinary is in front of them. The more out of the ordinary, the more flabbergasted anyone anywhere near them is. It is a phenomena of existence. There is something about that person to make them that beautiful in the first place. If they decide to treat people like shit, they are on the fast track to hell. If they are the finest, kindest person ever, that is nearing the absolute impossible.
THIS 👏 I'm a Christian and this is so true. I'm married and my relationship is amazing! My husband is the perfect gentleman and his morals are incredible, he's the dream man. I married virgin and do my best to be the best wife possible.
@@abigailcosta1716 So? Many people are religious that doesnt prove anything. You have been bagged up in your teens before you were married. And your man also lied to you. To seal the deal with you. Its just reality.
I was a male fashion model from 1985 in Brazil to International until 1991 ending in Paris - it has destroyed every relationship I’ve had ever since - the girls just don’t trust me to be away from them
I was a seventeen year old boy Who went from a hundred and forty five pounds , 21 hundred ninety five Six foot Translate , Unknown to me in the year nineteen eighty nine , I was a better looking version than the only adult film star That was considered to be attractive at that time , His name was peter north , They sell the prosthetic in the adult Shops out of twenty types and the sub types on my denical , I look like him and I was considered to be a better looking version of him , I had absolutely no idea this about myself , I live next to top gun School For the naval military aviators . In the eighties, they were on an average of five foot 2 to 5 foot six , And they would go away on ocean cruises on the aircraft carriers up 23 years at a time , It led to me becoming the target of psycho Sexual violence , I'm of italian Decent But i'm multi ethnic and my mother is lower class protestant german irish , The little rich kids and the other ones got into the mob , They used my own family to do it , I had never met them , The twenty two short ripped through the back of my head and landed at my mouth , The video tape it is someone sodomized my body , Then I got up off the ground and hit one from so hard I broke my arm and killed him , The p c p and my drink cost me to fall over unconscious, but kept me from going into shock , The video taped it they made a snuff film with me , I was dead 4 two hours in a bath of full of icewater , Three calf doctors two of the women came to my Rescue , They slapped my father's assault rifle together And opened up on the san diego police department through my front door Killing one of them and protecting my body , They spread so many Lies about me , They said I was running around sleeping with all these girls , None of it was true , And it wasn't any of their business Any Waze , I wasn't vain enough to see myself in this way Especially after all of the abuse I had entered , To this day the event never happened , Other people were also murdered in the room with me , They literally had parties killing people , Is in a great country called america , It took me thirteen years to come out of the blackouts , And the rest of my adult life to piece together my memories of my childhood , Usually this happens to girls , In nineteen ninety six Play girl magazine contacted my employer When I was working at a bike messenger in chicago , I lost my job due to the rivalry it created , Then I crawled out of a burning building , They had set the fire so that I would burn alive trying to get my musical equipment out when I would fall through the stairs into the fire , are I would be arrested as a Suspect for the arsen , When they detained me in the police department, and it was the police department that did it , The mob cop It was making jokes and saying you don't know your shorty , Apparently they gave me a mob nickname , Because I had absolutely no idea I was Is one in a thousand boys , Some of my own family members get this to me There was inheritance that was stolen , The primary perpetrator of this event was 1 of 3 girls. I was hypothetic , Her name is alyssa milano The head of the me to moment in hollywood .
I have the same problem. I'm very handsome and have all sorts of women strike up unsolicited conversations with me all the time. My girlfriend is "super" jealous and thinks I'm gonna leave her. No matter what I say, I can't convince her that I'm not looking to find anyone else! I wish I was average looking. Maybe I wouldn't have these problems 😔
I don't know why some women are crazy, but I met my wife in 1994 when she was not wearing makeup and it profoundly affected our relationship. She got to know the real me. I also got to know her, before I fell for her, because the sexual temperature gets lowered when the girl is not actively pursuing "hot." I've talked with our daughter about that. If you want to meet real guys, be a real girl, take off the war paint. It makes us act different, that's for sure.
Good observation. Too many women try too hard to oversexualize themselves to get attention from the top 20% of men. This is girls slamming their fists on the sexual availability and sexual signaling button. It’s a primal trigger for men. We are hard wired for it. Just as women have their hard wiring that can be difficult for men. So these ladies get that side of us. Then we are shamed for behaving poorly while ladies do everything they can to provoke. I mean what the hell 🤷🏻♂️ But good on you dad 👊🏻👍🏻
@@greecostyler Get away from urban liberal women. If a guy wants a whore, he can take his cues from Tate. Tate's not the guy who is going to tell you how to find and keep a good wife. He really has no clue about that life.
A real woman will hem her husband's dress pants and iron his shirts. I've been with the same woman for 25 years, and that's been among the greatest things she's ever done for me. And take me home from the doctor's after a procedure. And today - she helped take care of my mom, who's old and frail. Now THAT'S a real woman.
Real. I think it's sad that the role men play in this whole thing is losing our minds due to lust which harms everyone involved. Sexual discipline is cool.
1:05 People want to downplay what she’s saying but it’s true. I had college professors hit on me and I had a pastor hit on me in front of my mother, which was one of the most disturbing experiences of my life. It definitely makes you think that all men are dogs
I read a comment where a guy said it was a real eye opener hearing that hot women get the most aggressive version of men but normal girls just get a more decent version of that same man. Had she given your example here it would have been even more eye opening. Holy shit. Getting hit on... by a pastor... in front of your mom. Jesus Christ...
Women who are gifted in the beauty department, especially if they were pretty during their formative years, never have to go through the character defining moments that average looking people have to go through. Women who were gorgeous from youth, seldom have to face rejection or being said no to from their parents, teachers, female friends, or men. They get help easily for any difficultty. Hence, they develop a narcissism. They are privileged. That sort of personality rarely is strengthed by adversity growing up, and so they will behave erratically when confronted with the reality the rest of us have to face.
VERY true. And then it comes crashing down in their 50s when that beauty is FAR gone. I've watched it happen. Some will try to mask it, and others will learn to live with the reality that they are now just like everyone else.
Easy to judge. But being attractive has major down sides. Females are naturally jealous so they are always treated as an enemy they are talked about behind their backs it’s hard to make real friendships. Men only want them around because of their looks and constantly want to sleep with them. They are not taken seriously at work. They see more shallowness in people and they develop trust issues and identity issues. They also feel more pressure to be “perfect” Danger comes with beauty as well. Molestation Sex trafficking rape violence starting from a very young age which also causes mental issues. Once they start to age the men treat them as expired meat and leave them. That’s why beautiful women usually suffer from depression and anxiety they feel empty and lonley. Probably why there are “crazy” girls because they take out their frustration on the men who are with them because they know they are only with them because of their looks. That being said there are women with personality disorders like bpd that could really screw you up mentally. I think that being extremely beautiful in this world has more down sides but being average or the pretty girl next door is probably the most comfortable position to be in society.
1000 % true. They have no control over their emotions because they’ve always gotten what they want. I believe what she is saying is also true though, men chasing them make them think all men are toxic. It’s both. One side or the other is not to blame.
All women are CRAZY because of over evaluations of themselves, a man that is a 6 ,knows he’s a 6 , a woman that’s a 6 thinks she’s a 9 , that’s been my life experience a
I think its cuz they’re drunk with power. Few women are smart enough to not allow it to go to their head. It’s also why they get so resentful to men and younger women. They hit the wall so early but the addiction to being the center of attention does not fade….. Watched this with my sister. In no time she hated men because they were no longer pursuing her, but rather younger girls. She started calling men, “PIGS!!” I just smiled and shook my head. Felt sorry for her…..
Hoeflation is what makes women crazy. OF has made this more than evident. Pretty women get more attention and get treated better, consequently, they get away with doing worse behaviours because they are tolerated more and get checked less. Hot women are crazy, because they are brats that never got disciplined. It is very notable that at no point was personal accountability addressed in this back and forth... a perfect example that leads to hot women acting crazy. They always think it's someone else's fault.
It is astonishing how the Federal Reserve and other major central banks consistently under evaluate and under report Hoeflation. This think, oh . . . inflation is moderating because the Manheim used car index is falling, or West Texas Intermediate is way down. But we all know that the rate of Hoeflation is still climbing with no end in sight!
@ediblelipscrubs9466 Why do you feel the need to use shaming language? You didn't address anything, you made things personal and just slandered. That is not very productive. And I am sure the lady doesn't need a white knight or the sisterhood to defend her, she is perfectly capable of using her wits.
I think most people would agree hot women typically get away with bad behavior simply because of their looks. What I notice as these hot woman age they tend to get crazier, because as the looks fail, people put up less with their bad behavior.
I don't think I'm hot but I agree that two different girls can have completely different experience with the same man. Haven't touched base with my prior partners but from what I recall being told, they took what they learned dating me to their current relationship and now are better partners because of it.
Too much fluff for me, so I'll keep it 💯 and be outright honest & brutally truthful. The majority of woman who are very pretty have mental health issues, emotional damage, trauma, anxiety and depression because they were sexually abused / molested and or raped at a young age. Usually by someone in the family or someone they really trusted. Then they get forced into holding it inside and keeping it as a secret. Or when they tell a family member, they are told to shut up or told that what their saying isn't true. These pretty woman also come from dysfunction of broken homes. Their pretty looks as little girls didn't avoid them of not having a stable and positive home environment. Often times, single mothers are the worst to their children esp. girls. There is so much unhealed emotional and mental damage between mothers and daughters. I've listened to this lady above in a few of her UA-cam videos and she is just as delusional as any other women out here. The things she says in her videos contradict each other and she tries to put a positive spin on the ridiculous actions of women that make no damn sense, so that the impact is not so bad. I just watched a video that said 56% of liberal white women have medically diagnosed mental health issues that they're taking meds for. And this lady wants to talk about how married men and men in relationships are a turn off to women? Women don't see that as attractive? .. wtf planet are you living on. There are endless studies and videos on UA-cam with facts showing women love dating and being involved with married men and men in relationships, esp. if they getting benefits with np accountability. That's today's modern woman's dream. Having a man with money who they can walk all over, use, control and manipulate to their advantage, yet bring very little if anything to the table and not be held accountable for the bad decisions they make and wreckless lifestyle And that the problem. We live in a society where people want to tip toe around issues instead of taking them head on. And I get it because if everyone's FAMILY CLOSET was opened. I can promise you the damage and hurt was be insurmountable if people had to take ACCOUNTABILITY for the harm they've done. So I'm not buying this fake "expert". Her videos are wack and fantasy land.
@@lancegoodman9903 actually I agree with you but I wouldn't generalize all women. I think it's a good majority but we still live in a society where we are taught right and wrong at a young age and this includes things like adultery. We know cheating is wrong. I think most women try to at least appear virtuous. Now are they actually? I think just as there are good and bad men, there are good and bad women and everything in between. I just didn't say all that as it might not make any sense coming from a woman and I didn't want anything taken out of context/being misunderstood. As I've already made similar points elsewhere. I say I agree with you for the most part because it pains me and disgusts me to see this behavior happen. It paints all of us in a very bad light. Then men don't trust all women because of the trauma. That's why I have a zero tolerance policy when I hear or catch someone trying to wreck a relationship. The bs I hear come up is laughable sometimes. Cheating is cheating and you can't lie around it and even if the cheating hasn't happened but is a thought in progress, that's still a red flag! Absolutely no excuses. I would call it emotionally cheating. Sadly I've confronted some women about that. Though I still want to emphasize I'm not saying all women are like that. I have friends who are loyal and know right from wrong. Just saying that I have interacted with some women who thinks the way you described. And then say it's okay.?!! 🤬When that happens I make it clear that flirting with taken partners is NEVER okay and that is still (emotionally) cheating, then I leave. I don't want to say too much as I do worry me being too vocal about this will bite me in the ass. Maybe that's why I don't have many friends... Thanks for sharing your thoughts and experiences, it is truly insightful and helpful. Hopefully someone will read it and come to their own take away.
She can say what she wants about assuming men are the worst, but the three word answer to the video question is "Because they can." Having actually dated "Really hot women" myself, the observation is that they catch on very early that they can say or do whatever they want, give into any impulse or whim that normal people have to curb due to societal expectation... and guys will still throw themselves at her en masse. Seriously, tell a really hot woman in her late 20s "No" and watch her completely lose her shit, as though she's never heard the word before... because she hasnt. Furthermore, it always amazes me that while acting like spoiled children, how they all think they're such nice people. Namely because nobody has told them what an insufferable child they are, so they just assume the opposite.
Yep. too many people tolerate crazy behavior just because she's hot, next thing you know she's acting crazy again. It's like what happens to celebrities.
Let us first define "hot" women. A "hot" woman is the one who dresses provocatively regardless of the environment she is in. As a result of her provocative clothing, she has removed all sorts of barriers between her and the people around her. That invites lots of uninvited gazes from creeps, gazes leads to voices, and voices leads to touching. Those experiences lead such women to believe that all men are creeps. So when a decent man tries to interact with them, they resort back to the same tactics which she used with the creeps. That's why the biggest sign that a woman is crazy is how many times she misunderstands simple sentences and questions coming from a man.
I ran in to your videos by accident, and I find that your analysis and descriptions are a way on the top of the best, and to the point. Great on you, for bringing truth, and not bullshit, like the other thousand in youtube.
Good looking women are subject to go through most of their not being told the truth. Beauty fades and cannot be mistaken for value if it depreciates over time. It’s your character, values, morals, mindset, ect that dictate your value
It wild to me that she calls out issues when a person is missing a parent. However doesn't explain which is the parent that makes a deep impact which Father's, make fathers important again. This is generation raised on single motherhood and it worse now more than ever
@@RAJOHN-ke7mc Until women are incentivized to choose better men to sleep with and pick longterm partners it will continue. The system incentivizes the breakup of the family or formation of it too.
When someone grows up attractive. They are usually less mature than someone unattractive, because getting a partner is not such an easy task for them. An attractive person has options and subconsciously doesn’t prioritze keeping their partner as much. They don’t learn to control their emotions and properly handle a relationship, because relationships are easy to acquire for them. They posess little fear of losing their partner, because they know they can find another. Things that are easy to get are not valued by most people.
As a man , I have noticed that in the presence of other men, when an extremely attractive woman enters the vicinity, Often times the men will signal in non verbal or verbal hushed ways "ooh look!" It would drive me insane and make me paranoid if everyone was constantly staring at me and conspiring to take a glance at me.
The first red flag telling that we are in the presence of a narcissist is exactly this one. Calling all women crazy. The really crazy one is your mother. And that’s why you’re sick. Inherited her DNA
I have always known women are just smarter than men and I expect it and enjoy it until I want my 10% and then they better be smart enough to know how to support my 10%
I really Love the way she started the video the very first things she said are 💯💯💯 Accurate!!! We each experience the same thing or even person completely differently from one another!!!
This whole discussion is a big miss. 1. Society has not "conditioned" you to be more provocative. Conditioning requires training, not simple influence or exposure. There is no penalty put on women who are less provocative. Women simply have the OPTION to be more provocative and benefit from the wide spectrum of selling sex. Take accountability. 2. "Crazy" women isn't about how they treat men. It's about how they treat THEMSELVES. We're talking about anti-depressants, anxiety, narcissism, inability to be alone and at peace, neuroticism, emotional outbursts. Women are vocal about going through this. That's what confuses men. If a woman is treated poorly in a relationship we obviously understand why she would reciprocate.
Public comment. Every woman has different personality . It is important to know someone before you commit to any relationship. No games. Trust and respect is that matters in life. Self control and discipline is vital to quality of life. Stay positive and believe in yourself allow you to achieve success by protecting your dignity and integrity and respect. Respect your body . Pure taught and actions base on how you procieve life journey begins with you. Self realization.
Well. Having been approached by hot new & ex girls, while my wife was dying of cancer, they don't give more respect. They get pissed . They get confused. They aren't used to this, and it confuses them . Eventually instead of respect, they resent you. I know this . Spoiled by their own looks . Which will leave them .
You are so right. When your a good man in this world, you don't have a chance for a good relationship . Good diggers or mind destroyers prey on the sincere person.
You're right - there were times, when men were held accountable for getting a woman pregnant. Now everybody can do whatever they want. Accountability is gone as qn concept
@@jedmendoza4943 these people literally don't think before they speak. Pure emotional babble. Gotten to the point where i refuse to have conversations beyond "good morning".
Women just wanna blame anything or anyone else for their selfish actions. This helps them not be self accountable , But it never works. In their fifties they begin the process of being forced to look at their behaviour. Men have to do this in their twenties.
As a guy I totally agree with what Sadia is saying. I'm 34 years old and not one to loose my composure when I'm in the presence of a hot woman, mainly because I know that there is not a shortage of hot women and I'm used to the company and enjoyment of hot women in a respectful and mutually satisfying setting; but I have friends, usually my older friends that are not on the same SMV as these women then they try to pursue, that loose all sense of self control and morals and break their necks in pursuit of a hot woman. It's like they get possessed and quite delusional. I actually find it fascinating because I can't relate to that behaviour and they remind me of high school boys who try to get with the hot cheerleader.
The dumbest most boring people who never got another date with me were super attractive women. I think "hot" women think they get a pass on personality because of their looks, especially if they're young. These females have a great time on the date because I'm funny charming 6'4 and don't mind spending money and then are asking me on a second date but unfortunately I don't date fleshy robots with pretty smiles. This woman is wrong because not all men are the same and high value men literally dgaf
Sadia is a legend. I just adore her. She’s educated & speaks so fluently clear. It’s like she’s a voice for us women who’ve been cast aside & ignored by guys who didn’t want us cause we weren’t sluts. This may sound harsh, but she speaks up for us who’ve been ignored for the common whore.
Guys only want sluts when they arent looking to settle, they come back to normal women when they want to get married, same for women, they go for the jocks in their 20s and then come back to the stable husband types since the jock doesnt want to settle. We both are not looking to settle in 20s mostly so it's messed up.
They didn't want you cause you were average, she literally said that in her video. Average women get a totally different experience from beautiful women.
Most guys are intimidated by hot women, so I'd suggest that it's actually the fairly average looking women that get hit on the most. It's not unusual to find highly attractive women that are very chill and friendly and still complain they can't find a boyfriend. IME very average looking girls often have the most entitlement, thinking that they are something that they are not, because they get plenty interest and approaches from different men. I'd guess that the bigger issue that a hot woman could run into, is they are much more likely to have had a very jealous/controlling ex, (i.e. someone who felt they didn't them self measure up to her beauty, and was scared of loosing their 'prize') and that experience can seriously mess anyone up.
What's crazy is she said, Hot women get the worst version of men. Then went on to explain that this is because that man has left someone or cheated on someone FOR HER. That's crazy... because do hot women only attract married men or do they attract all men?
She saying that hot girls aren’t crazy while, saying that prostitution is now for someone who wants to get their nails done. That is pretty fucking crazy.😂😂
Easy Solution - stop having sex out side of marriage...and you wont have to deal about getting the "worst version of men" why would a marriage minded man pursue and court a woman and treat her traditionally (protecting and providing) for a woman who gave her best years of her (youth and beauty) to the "worst version of men"
Once you realise what women are all about and that they are nothing without attention they become invisible and you completely ignore them. Attention, validation and you’re assets is all they want
Excellent vidéo.....love how she described people coming from broken homes, and how she talks about disconnecting sex from other things, and why not getting paid for it. That’s the truth. I’ve always joked, if I was a good looking woman...I’d make a killing.😂
Hot women are crazy because they get treated like apprentice for their whole life period everyone likes them. The moment they hear no or don't get their way is when They go crazy
The crazy hot girls are the ones who choose guys more superficial and selfish than themselves lol. The type of dude that thinks he looks better than her. Repeating that process over and over is how you get the crazies!
Hot women who are narcissists are really crazy. There are hot women who are high values because they are morally upright and they move with grace. They are hot women with a class. Not all hot women are bad. It's the way how they carry themselves that other people gauge them.
Seriously there is a lot of unnecessary assumptions written here of hot women. A lot of men tell me I’m hot and I’m actually down to earth and very smart. Got into medical school and never dress provocatively yet men still chase me. The amount of creeps, one sent to jail, and married men or men with girlfriends who pursue me is shocking. I do nothing but want a respectful, honest guy but guys become such animals and lie to get into bed with you. I have been told I’m crazy but I’m not. I will tell off guys who act this way. It makes you feel men are animals. I can’t help that I was naturally born with a curvy body. It’s not my fault I’m pretty. This sucks and I agree with Sadia Khan. She must understand because she too is beautiful and smart.
Don't worry, as soon as you've hit 25 and your youth is over as a woman it will rapidly slow down for you and eventually coming to a halt. Women don't have to 'suffer' because of male attention for very long.
@eriklarsson3188, understand that your bitterness is why you can't have a loyal loving woman by your side. Why would a woman love a man who thinks she's not good enough past 25? Yoir poor mother. I can't imagine my son being that disrespectful.
@@Woo_Woo_Woman Pointing out that a womans _youth_ is over at 25 and that male attention will therefore come to a grinding halt as a result of her having aged out, is bitter?
@3:20 Show me a woman who can detach emotion from sex....and I will show you a woman who was already broken, ran through, or abused as a child.....for a woman to be able to divorce her emotion from sex is to deny her own biology and being as a woman a woman was meant to become "one flesh" with her husband....every time you have sex you are spiritually and physically joining (yoking) to that male....women who can divorce emotion from sex...its only because she devalued the act in the first place (sex before marriage)
I disagree with Sadia on a few points. The biggest being: The delusion of men being women can have sex without emotion. If they were detached from their escapades why would they feel shame? And hide what they’ve done? Using the argument of monetization of their sex lives doesn’t address a series of issues. Firstly, many of them have gone public saying they regret the decision. Even the most desirable stars in the industry are having a hard time being anything more than sex objects. Additionally, what percent of women worldwide are on OF or actresses in porn? I would venture to say without research that percentage is small. Like many men who will never be millionaires many women will not be sexual icons. They won’t even be looked at for that reason. So when they do eventually have sexual partners it will be after getting to know someone and generate a sense of comfort with that person. Men acknowledge this because our wives and girlfriends will grow these bonds to move on prematurely. She will tell herself she’s found a “better” man to assuage her guilt for what she’s done. And to whom she’s done it to. I think her arguments here aren’t based on reality. The new modern woman has devalued the men in her world because she has so many options. She no longer respects what the man has to offer.
Yeah, I'd say it's not so much 'delusion' and she's talking about a niche case. I think (I certainly hope at least) that most women do not monetize their bodies/sex lives. And most women do not sever emotional attachment from sex. Can they? Yes. By conscious effort or promiscuity- have enough sex with different partners and that bonding mechanism will weaken all on its own. But it's not really delusion to understand the way that women are wired to- in their natural state- form emotional bonds through sex. Especially if it's their first or one of very few partners.
How can a hot woman be seen as more than just for the bed and as wife material? I am very attractive looking but I am saving myself for marriage and I always notice men are trying to get me in the bed although I am very reserved and distant. And when they notice I am not available for their need then they let go
Just set clear boundaries that you are not willing to break for anyone. Concisely convey your needs and desires ( a lot of people don't know what those are). Those who are willing to dance to your song will stay. The ones willing to stay the ones that you need.
Millions of women throw themselves at Male Celebrities, Athletes, Movie Stars....but no one ever talks about this! Then these women who have "never accomplished anything in their lives other than sleeping with successful men", talk about a "power imbalance"? PATHETIC.
Because only psychopaths arent affected by beauty and women almost never accept responsibility for how their beauty affects men. If she didnt want it or couldn't handle it she could dress down but it never happens because attention is a drug.
No one should have to dull themselves because of your lack of self control. There's nothing to be accountable for in simply existing, only what you chose to do with it. Where is the man's accountability to himself?
She is great but I can’t understand how she can support Andrew Tate, even she should know what psychological manipulation is. That’s why I don’t trust this woman.
You're a salmon if you believe women can be psychologically manipulated by men they don't want to be psychologically manipulated by. They just cry wolf after. You ever see a broke, ugly man get arrested for emotional and psychological manipulation.
You’re good in not to trust her. She has no marriage experience and hasn’t walked the talk. Would you rather a doctor perform a surgery to you who has only read the books or a doctor who has actually done a previous surgery before?
Yes that is my point, how she support Andrew Tate? Andrew Tate basically a PIMP, and so much misogyny inside his mind, not a deep thinker.....How she support Andrew Tate?
Whoa! Got chills when she said, “It was the oldest profession for women who were desperate, now it’s for girls who want to get their nails done.”
Desperate to get their nails done.
Me too, the commodification of sex is truly sad
i caught that too... what a thing to say!!
It's still the same thing.
Too bad that's false. A Canadian study found that a quarter of sex workers interviewed started because they found it "appealing." Most of the rest do it for the independence, and yes, the money. For many it's by far their most profitable option. That may be less a story about undervaluing conventional work but overvaluing sex work due to its forbidden and often illegal nature. As soon as drugs are legalized, their prices drop... Happened when Prohibition was repealed, too. (Consuming alcohol also became a lot safer.)
What she left out is, hot women have been put on a pedestal by everyone, men & women, oftentimes since an early age, & because of her beauty everyone tolerates her terrible behavior. So she thinks it's okay to behave that way, because no one ever puts them in their place. The men who do are the men who those hot women fall in love with.
What happens to the hot woman when she becomes no longer hot? Now that's a whole new crazy.
I agree with you. It's social dynamics. They develop personality disorders: narcissistic (NPD)/ histrionic (HPD) personality disorder. What people fail to understand is that NPD/ HPD are not entirely the fault of the person with the disorder. Gaslighting is a way of distorting someone's sense of reality. It is mostly associated with degrading a person and eroding away their ego. That's not the only form of gaslighting. You can gaslight a person to have an inflated sense of self (ego). It is equally damaging to a person only the damage comes later on in life when these people realize they cannot maintain meaningful relationships. This is why it's important not to "butter a person up" too much because you are distorting their sense of self and therefore how they cope and interact with their peers. It's all about social dynamics...
And it's terrible annoying because then when the men who treat them like they should be treated reject them, they act like they tried to kill them and now want revenge. While everyone thinks the man is gay when he simply doesn't tolerate bad behavior no matter how hot she is
I've never put up with crap from any woman. In social settings, they seldom ever try it with me. I call out the ones who have.
These days the problem is women, regardless of how they look, who are absolutely insane witches in a business setting.
Huh? Why would you be put on a pedestal just because you're hot? I mean with men (or potential romantic partners of any gender) that makes sense. But why would your parents or friends or siblings treat you any different because of how you look (unless something is VERY wrong with that family). With friends, especially during the teenage years, it might even lead to jealousy and bullying born of insecurity.
Hot women are not crazy. It’s the ones who think their hotter than they really are who are who are crazy. Overvaluing yourself is already a sign that something is wrong upstairs.
Agreed, and it seems very common that women think they are hotter than they really are when they put tons of makeups on and take pictures with filters... That's why we see so many "hot" girls on social media but in reality there are not many...
What people don't understand, is that beauty is subjective i don't understand why people don't understand this simple concept, the thing is though is if someone has put on makeup it has made them hot period, the simple fact is now they think so is because they are it is not delusional they can creat themselves to be so I don't like makeup it is subjective I know people dudes who will not date girls who don't wear makeup it is subjective, period,. ,. ,. ,. ,. ,. the problem is though is that people think they are goddesses not that they are beautiful not that they are gorgeous it's because they think they're beyond human ehichnisnthebtrue problem that thought that they are hotter than what they doesn't exist they think that they are God's that they are above human ehichbus the true problem behind this problem, period,. with women's thought processes, period, women are just crazy, period, now adays, period,. ,. ,. ,. ,. ,.
@@ichigotheg.o.a.t I agree to large extent that beauty is subjective however there is a baseline, a concensus of what beauty is.
@@pac7025It's an interesting idea you have there but I'm not entirely sure if it bears out in the real world. It seems more likely that there is, at least, a significant percentage of "hot" women who *ARE* crazy, regardless of how physically flawless they might be.
@pac7025 that is true but it is not the beauty that is the base line it is the idea of it, that is what is the part that is objective not the beauty but the fact that the consensus exists but not the beauty itself beauty has no form therefore it has to be subjective because it is mind dependant the sun for instance is objective it is there regardless of our mind,. the base line also is the combination of attractive qualities, which is what beauty is, we know this but the baseline itself is just our interpretation and dumbing down of some thing that is highly and absolutely more complicated than what we're thinking it is,. ,. ,. ,. ,. ,. to be honest,. ,. ,. ,. ,. ,.
Low value people (both men & women) give into their urges easier. People (both men & women) who are of higher value don’t give into their urges as easy.
Or sometimes at all!
what if i have mental illness that results in lack of impulse control? am i now low value?
@@610kclafbe specific.
@@Khan11u ADHD
@@610kclaf In the dating market, yes. Just like if someone has a physical disorder beyond their control that makes them visually not as attractive to most, but that doesn't mean they are "low value" in general...it just means in the dating market they will not be chosen as often as someone without the physical deformity/disorder. No one said life was fair 🤷♀️ Just find another person who has the same exact behavior patterns of ADHD. Problem solved.
I used to be 230 pounds. I lost 100 pounds. Men ***AND*** women treat me vastly differently. My personality did not change. So I know this is true, about the different experiences of the world.
what are some specific circumstances where you noticed being treated better?
@@610kclaf no one ever opened doors for me. I remember VERY distinctly the first time a man opened a door for me, and the exact gas station it was at, and the realization that chivalry isn't dead, its reserved for the pretty.
Here's an odd one: in stores, the workers (both male and female) quickly come and ask me if I need help finding something, and when I was bigger, I'd wander around for a long time and have to ASK for help finding something. It may sound strange, but their eyes just skipped over me and I was invisible. Tbh I do miss that invisibly some days, because it feels like I have to be always "on" and ready to talk anyone and it's exhausting. It was simply an energy, really, a "you are wanted and not a burden ". You know when someone doesn't want you around and is doing everything to shoe you away
One thing, though. I am treated like I am stupider than I was before. When I was fat, most people didn't talk to me. But when they did, it seemed like they thought I had actual thoughts? I have an AWFUL lot of people talking down to me now. I do look way younger than mid 30s, though, so I'm going to assume they think I'm stupid because they think I'm 20, not because I'm prettier than I used to be.
@@610kclaf I know you are probably expecting something outrageous like people offering to buy me things, but I don't go to bars or socialize much outside of work. If I wanted to leverage my looks, I probably could. It's mostly just a big difference in that suddenly EVERYONE WANTS TO TALK TO ME. and they never did before, so...... it's a bit overwhelming for an introverted nerd.. I hide from the world.
@@amandaforrester7636 I hide from the world too. Introvert with major depression and social anxiety. I was 135 and I gained 30 pounds and I'm noticing people, especially women, are more inclined to interact with me. nothing outrageous like you mentioned, but definitely not everyone. It's nice to not be as invisible as I once was.
So true. They smile at you open the door for you they treat you so differently like night and day. I treasure the people who treated me with respect while I was over weight. People are so shallow. Whenever I see a young man who show respect and kindness towards an “unattractive” woman or an elderly I feel like I saw an unicorn.
Not being in control of your actions, not having self discipline in all aspects of life makes you an untrustworthy person.
This opening answer, about hot women getting the worst, most sexually aggressive versions of men, while normal-looking women get normal versions of the same men, was eye-opening for me.
@@Tuddles-o9oWow. Really? She’s a psychologist who looked at data dude.
It’s not the same men. It’s different kinds of men. The problem is that women are blind to existence of men they are not attracted to.
@@Tuddles-o9omost women experience similar things, maybe youre not a woman but this is true. Beautitul women get the type of people that try to suck their confidence and self esteem. Try to make them into their property. Its sickening so you have to become aware and avoid… this actually happens to majority of women, if youre sweet, insecure, beautitul etc
They have a plan to see if they can control you by any means depending on your personality.. which is why as we age, its harder for us to say yes to dating Just anyone and we really need to know know you
Becaude we’re not willing to deal with that again.
@Entertainer114 As a natural brunette I went bleach blonde for a few weeks many many years ago. It felt like I was on a completely different planet. It was a grotesque experience for me. I have frankly never looked at men the same. I dyed my hair auburn shortly after, and interactions with men outside the home became tolerable again, and eventually I returned to brunette for good.
@@NechamaGluck I can imagine. As a BM, there is something about blonde hair and WM that is deeply irrational, and that I frankly don’t understand.
Women act crazy because they CAN! Imagine, if you could wreak havoc... and get away with it - a lot of people would act upon it (and don't lie, you wouldn't) the only reason, why most people (especially women) have to act virtuos, is NOT because they're virtuos, it's because of the FEAR of punishment, if people would act otherwise.
Pretty much all of them.
@@dolphin069not all. I think drivers on the road and social media are good examples of this.
A woman being psycho = “help her, she is desperate and needs support.”
A man being psycho = charges and jail.
That’s why women exaggerate their craziness, and men hide it. Stigma and consequences
That's the best point I've heard in a long time. Modern women are monetizing sex. That's their method to detach from the emotional connection from sex. We need to talk more about this again and again from every angle. The red pill community doesn't really talk about it even.
Women detaching emotional connection from intercouse are for the streets.
@@303machine steer meat is good sometimes
Many in the red pill community demonize women so they'd never care to discuss this.
Theres quite a lot of things the red pill ppl dont talk about.
Hot women are crazy...because they are not used to being said "No" to. That sends them into a tailspin in my experience. The entitlement is grandiose and the accountability is minuscule.
And it's YOUR fault for putting a crown on her head that she didn't earn 👑🤡
Boom, and that's why we have to treat all women the same way regardless of looks.
@@abigailcosta1716 this is from birth, not just men. By time she is 18 teen she think she is Kim k.
@@abigailcosta1716She got that crown long ago.
@@abigailcosta1716 It's not a crown. It's a fact she is stunning and stops people in their tracks. It's more insane than the most beautiful panorama in front of you. People don't know how to act when something out of the ordinary is in front of them. The more out of the ordinary, the more flabbergasted anyone anywhere near them is. It is a phenomena of existence. There is something about that person to make them that beautiful in the first place. If they decide to treat people like shit, they are on the fast track to hell. If they are the finest, kindest person ever, that is nearing the absolute impossible.
For the same reason celebrities get crazy: They've never been told "NO"
I find it ironic that the world makes fun of Christian’s for their lifestyle. But they are all looking for a partner that lives the same way.
THIS 👏 I'm a Christian and this is so true. I'm married and my relationship is amazing! My husband is the perfect gentleman and his morals are incredible, he's the dream man. I married virgin and do my best to be the best wife possible.
@@abigailcosta1716 You werent a virgin, stop lying.
@@MrStaano YES I WAS. Who the hell are you to think you know me? Both me and my husband waited, we are religious.
@@abigailcosta1716waiting till marriage is a life hack most people would never understand.
@@abigailcosta1716 So? Many people are religious that doesnt prove anything. You have been bagged up in your teens before you were married. And your man also lied to you. To seal the deal with you. Its just reality.
I was a male fashion model from 1985 in Brazil to International until 1991 ending in Paris - it has destroyed every relationship I’ve had ever since - the girls just don’t trust me to be away from them
I was a seventeen year old boy Who went from a hundred and forty five pounds , 21 hundred ninety five Six foot Translate , Unknown to me in the year nineteen eighty nine , I was a better looking version than the only adult film star That was considered to be attractive at that time , His name was peter north , They sell the prosthetic in the adult Shops out of twenty types and the sub types on my denical , I look like him and I was considered to be a better looking version of him , I had absolutely no idea this about myself , I live next to top gun School For the naval military aviators . In the eighties, they were on an average of five foot 2 to 5 foot six , And they would go away on ocean cruises on the aircraft carriers up 23 years at a time , It led to me becoming the target of psycho Sexual violence , I'm of italian Decent But i'm multi ethnic and my mother is lower class protestant german irish , The little rich kids and the other ones got into the mob , They used my own family to do it , I had never met them , The twenty two short ripped through the back of my head and landed at my mouth , The video tape it is someone sodomized my body , Then I got up off the ground and hit one from so hard I broke my arm and killed him , The p c p and my drink cost me to fall over unconscious, but kept me from going into shock , The video taped it they made a snuff film with me , I was dead 4 two hours in a bath of full of icewater , Three calf doctors two of the women came to my Rescue , They slapped my father's assault rifle together And opened up on the san diego police department through my front door Killing one of them and protecting my body , They spread so many Lies about me , They said I was running around sleeping with all these girls , None of it was true , And it wasn't any of their business Any Waze , I wasn't vain enough to see myself in this way Especially after all of the abuse I had entered , To this day the event never happened , Other people were also murdered in the room with me , They literally had parties killing people , Is in a great country called america , It took me thirteen years to come out of the blackouts , And the rest of my adult life to piece together my memories of my childhood , Usually this happens to girls , In nineteen ninety six Play girl magazine contacted my employer When I was working at a bike messenger in chicago , I lost my job due to the rivalry it created , Then I crawled out of a burning building , They had set the fire so that I would burn alive trying to get my musical equipment out when I would fall through the stairs into the fire , are I would be arrested as a Suspect for the arsen , When they detained me in the police department, and it was the police department that did it , The mob cop It was making jokes and saying you don't know your shorty , Apparently they gave me a mob nickname , Because I had absolutely no idea I was Is one in a thousand boys , Some of my own family members get this to me There was inheritance that was stolen , The primary perpetrator of this event was 1 of 3 girls. I was hypothetic , Her name is alyssa milano The head of the me to moment in hollywood .
Did you find the behavior of average women to be irrational and sometimes off putting even in basic interactions?
I have the same problem. I'm very handsome and have all sorts of women strike up unsolicited conversations with me all the time. My girlfriend is "super" jealous and thinks I'm gonna leave her. No matter what I say, I can't convince her that I'm not looking to find anyone else! I wish I was average looking. Maybe I wouldn't have these problems 😔
I don't know why some women are crazy, but I met my wife in 1994 when she was not wearing makeup and it profoundly affected our relationship. She got to know the real me. I also got to know her, before I fell for her, because the sexual temperature gets lowered when the girl is not actively pursuing "hot." I've talked with our daughter about that. If you want to meet real guys, be a real girl, take off the war paint. It makes us act different, that's for sure.
Good observation. Too many women try too hard to oversexualize themselves to get attention from the top 20% of men. This is girls slamming their fists on the sexual availability and sexual signaling button. It’s a primal trigger for men. We are hard wired for it. Just as women have their hard wiring that can be difficult for men. So these ladies get that side of us. Then we are shamed for behaving poorly while ladies do everything they can to provoke. I mean what the hell 🤷🏻♂️
But good on you dad 👊🏻👍🏻
unfortunataley it works in the 90s todays generation is blended by kim kardashians and andre tates?
@@greecostyler Get away from urban liberal women. If a guy wants a whore, he can take his cues from Tate. Tate's not the guy who is going to tell you how to find and keep a good wife. He really has no clue about that life.
War 🎨 Paint lol 😂
Makeup is meant to enhance the beauty, not hide it but people take it too far.
What she says is absolutely spot on.
A real woman is not a princess who needs saving...but a formidable queen who will stand by the side of her king.
A real woman will hem her husband's dress pants and iron his shirts. I've been with the same woman for 25 years, and that's been among the greatest things she's ever done for me. And take me home from the doctor's after a procedure. And today - she helped take care of my mom, who's old and frail. Now THAT'S a real woman.
Real. I think it's sad that the role men play in this whole thing is losing our minds due to lust which harms everyone involved. Sexual discipline is cool.
A man who can keep his lust and sexual desire under control is a man no woman can control.
Try sexual discipline when a girl is coming onto you and she’ll call you faggottt for refusing her.
^^^
Yet you get none with it.
1:05 People want to downplay what she’s saying but it’s true. I had college professors hit on me and I had a pastor hit on me in front of my mother, which was one of the most disturbing experiences of my life. It definitely makes you think that all men are dogs
A cat in a world of dogs - cannot be very comfortable.
I read a comment where a guy said it was a real eye opener hearing that hot women get the most aggressive version of men but normal girls just get a more decent version of that same man. Had she given your example here it would have been even more eye opening. Holy shit. Getting hit on... by a pastor... in front of your mom. Jesus Christ...
Well I've seen my lot of hot escorts and I didn't behave worse with them, I guess I have self control
I wouldn't hit on a woman if my life depended on it, and I am very straight. some men are dogs, but most are cats, just like women.
I had a father of a friend of mine hit on me. He was married. Crazy.
Women who are gifted in the beauty department, especially if they were pretty during their formative years, never have to go through the character defining moments that average looking people have to go through. Women who were gorgeous from youth, seldom have to face rejection or being said no to from their parents, teachers, female friends, or men. They get help easily for any difficultty. Hence, they develop a narcissism. They are privileged. That sort of personality rarely is strengthed by adversity growing up, and so they will behave erratically when confronted with the reality the rest of us have to face.
VERY true. And then it comes crashing down in their 50s when that beauty is FAR gone. I've watched it happen. Some will try to mask it, and others will learn to live with the reality that they are now just like everyone else.
This is so wrong on so many levels. This just projection at best.
Easy to judge. But being attractive has major down sides. Females are naturally jealous so they are always treated as an enemy they are talked about behind their backs it’s hard to make real friendships. Men only want them around because of their looks and constantly want to sleep with them. They are not taken seriously at work. They see more shallowness in people and they develop trust issues and identity issues. They also feel more pressure to be “perfect” Danger comes with beauty as well. Molestation Sex trafficking rape violence starting from a very young age which also causes mental issues. Once they start to age the men treat them as expired meat and leave them. That’s why beautiful women usually suffer from depression and anxiety they feel empty and lonley. Probably why there are “crazy” girls because they take out their frustration on the men who are with them because they know they are only with them because of their looks. That being said there are women with personality disorders like bpd that could really screw you up mentally. I think that being extremely beautiful in this world has more down sides but being average or the pretty girl next door is probably the most comfortable position to be in society.
1000 % true. They have no control over their emotions because they’ve always gotten what they want. I believe what she is saying is also true though, men chasing them make them think all men are toxic. It’s both. One side or the other is not to blame.
Oh really?
All women are CRAZY because of over evaluations of themselves, a man that is a 6 ,knows he’s a 6 , a woman that’s a 6 thinks she’s a 9 , that’s been my life experience a
You are CORRECT
You should mention that promiscuous men are crazy to think they are alpha men.
Thus the term 49ers. 4 that believes they are an 9.
@@chankongsunreally? 49ers? Ok.
Not really they play hard to get so they desire attention because they compete and feel like a 5 or less while time
I think its cuz they’re drunk with power. Few women are smart enough to not allow it to go to their head. It’s also why they get so resentful to men and younger women. They hit the wall so early but the addiction to being the center of attention does not fade….. Watched this with my sister. In no time she hated men because they were no longer pursuing her, but rather younger girls. She started calling men, “PIGS!!” I just smiled and shook my head. Felt sorry for her…..
Grandiose Narcissism
Hoeflation is what makes women crazy. OF has made this more than evident. Pretty women get more attention and get treated better, consequently, they get away with doing worse behaviours because they are tolerated more and get checked less.
Hot women are crazy, because they are brats that never got disciplined.
It is very notable that at no point was personal accountability addressed in this back and forth... a perfect example that leads to hot women acting crazy. They always think it's someone else's fault.
It is astonishing how the Federal Reserve and other major central banks consistently under evaluate and under report Hoeflation. This think, oh . . . inflation is moderating because the Manheim used car index is falling, or West Texas Intermediate is way down. But we all know that the rate of Hoeflation is still climbing with no end in sight!
Literally no accountability. Society, men, nature--always a reason besides personal choice and accountability.
That's not their fault, if men don't have the balls to put them in their position then men need to stop being such little bitches
@ediblelipscrubs9466 Why do you feel the need to use shaming language? You didn't address anything, you made things personal and just slandered. That is not very productive. And I am sure the lady doesn't need a white knight or the sisterhood to defend her, she is perfectly capable of using her wits.
I think most people would agree hot women typically get away with bad behavior simply because of their looks. What I notice as these hot woman age they tend to get crazier, because as the looks fail, people put up less with their bad behavior.
I don't think I'm hot but I agree that two different girls can have completely different experience with the same man. Haven't touched base with my prior partners but from what I recall being told, they took what they learned dating me to their current relationship and now are better partners because of it.
sorry to break this to you, but most probably you were the problem, so they learned to avoid women like you. don't shoot the messenger
Insightful
Too much fluff for me, so I'll keep it 💯 and be outright honest & brutally truthful. The majority of woman who are very pretty have mental health issues, emotional damage, trauma, anxiety and depression because they were sexually abused / molested and or raped at a young age. Usually by someone in the family or someone they really trusted. Then they get forced into holding it inside and keeping it as a secret. Or when they tell a family member, they are told to shut up or told that what their saying isn't true. These pretty woman also come from dysfunction of broken homes. Their pretty looks as little girls didn't avoid them of not having a stable and positive home environment. Often times, single mothers are the worst to their children esp. girls. There is so much unhealed emotional and mental damage between mothers and daughters. I've listened to this lady above in a few of her UA-cam videos and she is just as delusional as any other women out here. The things she says in her videos contradict each other and she tries to put a positive spin on the ridiculous actions of women that make no damn sense, so that the impact is not so bad. I just watched a video that said 56% of liberal white women have medically diagnosed mental health issues that they're taking meds for. And this lady wants to talk about how married men and men in relationships are a turn off to women? Women don't see that as attractive? .. wtf planet are you living on. There are endless studies and videos on UA-cam with facts showing women love dating and being involved with married men and men in relationships, esp. if they getting benefits with np accountability. That's today's modern woman's dream. Having a man with money who they can walk all over, use, control and manipulate to their advantage, yet bring very little if anything to the table and not be held accountable for the bad decisions they make and wreckless lifestyle
And that the problem. We live in a society where people want to tip toe around issues instead of taking them head on. And I get it because if everyone's FAMILY CLOSET was opened. I can promise you the damage and hurt was be insurmountable if people had to take ACCOUNTABILITY for the harm they've done. So I'm not buying this fake "expert". Her videos are wack and fantasy land.
@@lancegoodman9903 actually I agree with you but I wouldn't generalize all women. I think it's a good majority but we still live in a society where we are taught right and wrong at a young age and this includes things like adultery. We know cheating is wrong. I think most women try to at least appear virtuous. Now are they actually? I think just as there are good and bad men, there are good and bad women and everything in between. I just didn't say all that as it might not make any sense coming from a woman and I didn't want anything taken out of context/being misunderstood. As I've already made similar points elsewhere. I say I agree with you for the most part because it pains me and disgusts me to see this behavior happen. It paints all of us in a very bad light. Then men don't trust all women because of the trauma.
That's why I have a zero tolerance policy when I hear or catch someone trying to wreck a relationship. The bs I hear come up is laughable sometimes. Cheating is cheating and you can't lie around it and even if the cheating hasn't happened but is a thought in progress, that's still a red flag! Absolutely no excuses. I would call it emotionally cheating. Sadly I've confronted some women about that. Though I still want to emphasize I'm not saying all women are like that. I have friends who are loyal and know right from wrong. Just saying that I have interacted with some women who thinks the way you described. And then say it's okay.?!! 🤬When that happens I make it clear that flirting with taken partners is NEVER okay and that is still (emotionally) cheating, then I leave. I don't want to say too much as I do worry me being too vocal about this will bite me in the ass. Maybe that's why I don't have many friends...
Thanks for sharing your thoughts and experiences, it is truly insightful and helpful. Hopefully someone will read it and come to their own take away.
@@lancegoodman9903 As a woman -bravo. You get it.
SHE SAID…”PROSTITUTION WAS FOR WOMEN WHO WERE DESPERATE..NOW ITS WOMEN WHO WANNA GET THEIR NAILS DONE”
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Cold ass lines.
Gross really.
She's brilliant.
She does have some pretty nice nails...
she’s wrong. In the past it just wasn’t tolerated that much, women adultery. This is just transition period.
She can say what she wants about assuming men are the worst, but the three word answer to the video question is "Because they can."
Having actually dated "Really hot women" myself, the observation is that they catch on very early that they can say or do whatever they want, give into any impulse or whim that normal people have to curb due to societal expectation... and guys will still throw themselves at her en masse.
Seriously, tell a really hot woman in her late 20s "No" and watch her completely lose her shit, as though she's never heard the word before... because she hasnt. Furthermore, it always amazes me that while acting like spoiled children, how they all think they're such nice people. Namely because nobody has told them what an insufferable child they are, so they just assume the opposite.
Yep. too many people tolerate crazy behavior just because she's hot, next thing you know she's acting crazy again. It's like what happens to celebrities.
i like how they discuss crazy hot women as if they are not hot women themselves and then leave out whether they are indeed crazy
@@briantrek 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Let us first define "hot" women. A "hot" woman is the one who dresses provocatively regardless of the environment she is in. As a result of her provocative clothing, she has removed all sorts of barriers between her and the people around her. That invites lots of uninvited gazes from creeps, gazes leads to voices, and voices leads to touching. Those experiences lead such women to believe that all men are creeps. So when a decent man tries to interact with them, they resort back to the same tactics which she used with the creeps. That's why the biggest sign that a woman is crazy is how many times she misunderstands simple sentences and questions coming from a man.
Oh wow
Huh, makes sense.
The world needs better men with better morals.
@@abigailcosta1716 if you think it's just men, then you're part of the problem.
No decent man will want to be with a woman who dresses provocatively.
I ran in to your videos by accident, and I find that your analysis and descriptions are a way on the top of the best, and to the point. Great on you, for bringing truth, and not bullshit, like the other thousand in youtube.
Good looking women are subject to go through most of their not being told the truth.
Beauty fades and cannot be mistaken for value if it depreciates over time. It’s your character, values, morals, mindset, ect that dictate your value
It wild to me that she calls out issues when a person is missing a parent. However doesn't explain which is the parent that makes a deep impact which Father's, make fathers important again. This is generation raised on single motherhood and it worse now more than ever
Fathers are always important. The problem is men have to fix the problem
@@RAJOHN-ke7mc
Until women are incentivized to choose better men to sleep with and pick longterm partners it will continue. The system incentivizes the breakup of the family or formation of it too.
Nothing is ever a woman’s fault.
Female culpability runs counter to natural law, apparently!
I think really hot girls aren’t crazy, hot girls just have zero chill because she knows she can replace you in 5 minutes
False
When someone grows up attractive. They are usually less mature than someone unattractive, because getting a partner is not such an easy task for them. An attractive person has options and subconsciously doesn’t prioritze keeping their partner as much. They don’t learn to control their emotions and properly handle a relationship, because relationships are easy to acquire for them. They posess little fear of losing their partner, because they know they can find another. Things that are easy to get are not valued by most people.
As a man ,
I have noticed that in the presence of other men,
when an extremely attractive woman enters the vicinity,
Often times the men will signal in non verbal or verbal hushed ways "ooh look!"
It would drive me insane and make me paranoid if everyone was constantly staring at me and conspiring to take a glance at me.
“It was for people that were desperate now it’s for people who just want to get their nails done” 🎯
I know a secret.
ALL women are crazy, not just the hot ones.
Hahaha maybee man are cracy too just in a Different way
If all the women in your life were crazy, the common denominator was you. Run from guys like this ladies 🏃🏻♀️
The first red flag telling that we are in the presence of a narcissist is exactly this one. Calling all women crazy. The really crazy one is your mother. And that’s why you’re sick. Inherited her DNA
I have always known women are just smarter than men and I expect it and enjoy it until I want my 10% and then they better be smart enough to know how to support my 10%
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Well put. Childhood trauma or trauma period
I realized that I was lucky that I'm not too hot or too sexy so men are gentleman enough in front of me 😁
I really Love the way she started the video the very first things she said are 💯💯💯 Accurate!!! We each experience the same thing or even person completely differently from one another!!!
Sadia is a lovely wise woman.
This whole discussion is a big miss. 1. Society has not "conditioned" you to be more provocative. Conditioning requires training, not simple influence or exposure. There is no penalty put on women who are less provocative. Women simply have the OPTION to be more provocative and benefit from the wide spectrum of selling sex. Take accountability. 2. "Crazy" women isn't about how they treat men. It's about how they treat THEMSELVES. We're talking about anti-depressants, anxiety, narcissism, inability to be alone and at peace, neuroticism, emotional outbursts. Women are vocal about going through this. That's what confuses men. If a woman is treated poorly in a relationship we obviously understand why she would reciprocate.
Public comment. Every woman has different personality . It is important to know someone before you commit to any relationship. No games. Trust and respect is that matters in life. Self control and discipline is vital to quality of life. Stay positive and believe in yourself allow you to achieve success by protecting your dignity and integrity and respect. Respect your body . Pure taught and actions base on how you procieve life journey begins with you. Self realization.
I can listen to Sadia for hours ❤, great conversation
Well. Having been approached by hot new & ex girls, while my wife was dying of cancer, they don't give more respect. They get pissed . They get confused. They aren't used to this, and it confuses them . Eventually instead of respect, they resent you.
I know this . Spoiled by their own looks . Which will leave them .
It's true, women can be just as disrespectful!
I was being approached while my wife was dying of cancer...nice,dude! Nice..
@@ST-yc7uj he got approached. Thats not his fault
@@michael10613 he was opened to approach
@ediblelipscrubs9466 he was doing the approaching for sure
You are so right. When your a good man in this world, you don't have a chance for a good relationship . Good diggers or mind destroyers prey on the sincere person.
Terrific interview with many great insights. Keep focused and keep the mind clear.
Single family this. Single family that. Men this. Men that. Society this. Society that. Yet no mention of accountability.
exactly
Ducking accountability like all women do on the regular basis.
You're right - there were times, when men were held accountable for getting a woman pregnant. Now everybody can do whatever they want. Accountability is gone as qn concept
@@irinasp3723 What are you talking about? There is an entire court system that holds men accountable called child support.
@@jedmendoza4943 these people literally don't think before they speak. Pure emotional babble. Gotten to the point where i refuse to have conversations beyond "good morning".
Women just wanna blame anything or anyone else for their selfish actions. This helps them not be self accountable , But it never works. In their fifties they begin the process of being forced to look at their behaviour. Men have to do this in their twenties.
As a guy I totally agree with what Sadia is saying. I'm 34 years old and not one to loose my composure when I'm in the presence of a hot woman, mainly because I know that there is not a shortage of hot women and I'm used to the company and enjoyment of hot women in a respectful and mutually satisfying setting; but I have friends, usually my older friends that are not on the same SMV as these women then they try to pursue, that loose all sense of self control and morals and break their necks in pursuit of a hot woman. It's like they get possessed and quite delusional. I actually find it fascinating because I can't relate to that behaviour and they remind me of high school boys who try to get with the hot cheerleader.
The dumbest most boring people who never got another date with me were super attractive women. I think "hot" women think they get a pass on personality because of their looks, especially if they're young. These females have a great time on the date because I'm funny charming 6'4 and don't mind spending money and then are asking me on a second date but unfortunately I don't date fleshy robots with pretty smiles. This woman is wrong because not all men are the same and high value men literally dgaf
Sadia is a legend. I just adore her. She’s educated & speaks so fluently clear. It’s like she’s a voice for us women who’ve been cast aside & ignored by guys who didn’t want us cause we weren’t sluts. This may sound harsh, but she speaks up for us who’ve been ignored for the common whore.
Guys only want sluts when they arent looking to settle, they come back to normal women when they want to get married, same for women, they go for the jocks in their 20s and then come back to the stable husband types since the jock doesnt want to settle. We both are not looking to settle in 20s mostly so it's messed up.
Trust me, you are blessed to have been ignored by men who are weak for loose women. They have no relationship skills or know how to be loyal.
They didn't want you because you weren't sluts? How often was that happening? By 'not sluts' do you mean women who don't doll themselves up
Wait...guys didn't want you because you no slut? It actually preferred by guys, I think it is something else
They didn't want you cause you were average, she literally said that in her video. Average women get a totally different experience from beautiful women.
Most guys are intimidated by hot women, so I'd suggest that it's actually the fairly average looking women that get hit on the most. It's not unusual to find highly attractive women that are very chill and friendly and still complain they can't find a boyfriend. IME very average looking girls often have the most entitlement, thinking that they are something that they are not, because they get plenty interest and approaches from different men. I'd guess that the bigger issue that a hot woman could run into, is they are much more likely to have had a very jealous/controlling ex, (i.e. someone who felt they didn't them self measure up to her beauty, and was scared of loosing their 'prize') and that experience can seriously mess anyone up.
What's crazier is two hot girls talking about why hot girls are crazy.
two?
What's crazy is she said, Hot women get the worst version of men. Then went on to explain that this is because that man has left someone or cheated on someone FOR HER. That's crazy... because do hot women only attract married men or do they attract all men?
Just one… and we all know that is Sadia.
" men like sex" - proof she is a expert. ❤
@@doves9204 bro, nah TLDR. She is not smug. You are too accustomed to white trash red pills nonsense....
Clicked on this video cuz i thought that was Nikki Blaze.
Sadia also gave an interesting perspective.
“Now it’s for girls who just want to get their nails done…”- sends chills down your spine
She’s got all the answers . Sadia , for Queen .❤
She saying that hot girls aren’t crazy while, saying that prostitution is now for someone who wants to get their nails done. That is pretty fucking crazy.😂😂
The prettier the girl, the darker the secret.
Easy Solution - stop having sex out side of marriage...and you wont have to deal about getting the "worst version of men"
why would a marriage minded man pursue and court a woman and treat her traditionally (protecting and providing) for a woman who gave her best years of her (youth and beauty) to the "worst version of men"
As if abusive marriages doesn't exist
@@chariocexvii8368 not a rebuttal
If he is that old he has no choice rlly. Religious marriages between virgins are formed earlier in life.
You're not smart
@@chariocexvii8368 smarter than you i assure you
This is so true about some womens' experience of men where the men think she is the hot one.
Accurate and honest. Thanks!!!
Listening and I'll say that Sadia Khan is smart. My understanding increased here. So I'd like to hear more of her views. Good stuff, thank you : )
No, she's just another delusional and crazy woman.
Sadia is one smart woman
Some accurate assessments here.
Once you realise what women are all about and that they are nothing without attention they become invisible and you completely ignore them. Attention, validation and you’re assets is all they want
Always refer to the ‘hot-crazy matrix’ 👍
She spoke facts.
Excellent vidéo.....love how she described people coming from broken homes, and how she talks about disconnecting sex from other things, and why not getting paid for it. That’s the truth. I’ve always joked, if I was a good looking woman...I’d make a killing.😂
Hot women are crazy because they get treated like apprentice for their whole life period everyone likes them. The moment they hear no or don't get their way is when They go crazy
Very insightful conversation, thanks!
Describes my early twenties. I married the guy that didn’t do everything just to get into my pants, he wanted to know me as a person.
Well I try to get to know some and they don't seem to want it.
Sadia Khan herself is fabulous btw.
Wow Sadia is preaching facts! I absolutely love her!
We are utterly at their mercy !!! But what is it that makes them like that ?
Hot women are crazy because guys are acting stupid with them, simping is now off the charts!
Interesting closing point.
The crazy hot girls are the ones who choose guys more superficial and selfish than themselves lol. The type of dude that thinks he looks better than her. Repeating that process over and over is how you get the crazies!
Hot women who are narcissists are really crazy.
There are hot women who are high values because they are morally upright and they move with grace. They are hot women with a class.
Not all hot women are bad. It's the way how they carry themselves that other people gauge them.
No, men become what women RESPOND to. This is true for a significant number of average women and women who possess exceptional beauty.
The amount of wisdom in the comment is off the charts. Highly underrated. Cest Magnifique
Very insightful!
This sadia chick is so good at breaking down the dynamics between genders.. wayyyy better than these red pill cornballs
you guys nailed it. just caught myself nodding a lot during the conversation.
Seriously there is a lot of unnecessary assumptions written here of hot women. A lot of men tell me I’m hot and I’m actually down to earth and very smart. Got into medical school and never dress provocatively yet men still chase me. The amount of creeps, one sent to jail, and married men or men with girlfriends who pursue me is shocking. I do nothing but want a respectful, honest guy but guys become such animals and lie to get into bed with you. I have been told I’m crazy but I’m not. I will tell off guys who act this way. It makes you feel men are animals. I can’t help that I was naturally born with a curvy body. It’s not my fault I’m pretty. This sucks and I agree with Sadia Khan. She must understand because she too is beautiful and smart.
I have had married women throw them self’s at me my whole life .
I don’t date hot women anymore
They’re full of themselves, always looking in the mirror and are so arrogant
Don't worry, as soon as you've hit 25 and your youth is over as a woman it will rapidly slow down for you and eventually coming to a halt. Women don't have to 'suffer' because of male attention for very long.
@eriklarsson3188, understand that your bitterness is why you can't have a loyal loving woman by your side. Why would a woman love a man who thinks she's not good enough past 25?
Yoir poor mother. I can't imagine my son being that disrespectful.
@@Woo_Woo_Woman Pointing out that a womans _youth_ is over at 25 and that male attention will therefore come to a grinding halt as a result of her having aged out, is bitter?
She is really smart.
@3:20 Show me a woman who can detach emotion from sex....and I will show you a woman who was already broken, ran through, or abused as a child.....for a woman to be able to divorce her emotion from sex is to deny her own biology and being as a woman
a woman was meant to become "one flesh" with her husband....every time you have sex you are spiritually and physically joining (yoking) to that male....women who can divorce emotion from sex...its only because she devalued the act in the first place (sex before marriage)
2:36 OUCH!!! That is a mic drop of an observation.
I disagree with Sadia on a few points. The biggest being: The delusion of men being women can have sex without emotion.
If they were detached from their escapades why would they feel shame? And hide what they’ve done? Using the argument of monetization of their sex lives doesn’t address a series of issues.
Firstly, many of them have gone public saying they regret the decision. Even the most desirable stars in the industry are having a hard time being anything more than sex objects.
Additionally, what percent of women worldwide are on OF or actresses in porn? I would venture to say without research that percentage is small. Like many men who will never be millionaires many women will not be sexual icons. They won’t even be looked at for that reason.
So when they do eventually have sexual partners it will be after getting to know someone and generate a sense of comfort with that person. Men acknowledge this because our wives and girlfriends will grow these bonds to move on prematurely. She will tell herself she’s found a “better” man to assuage her guilt for what she’s done. And to whom she’s done it to. I think her arguments here aren’t based on reality.
The new modern woman has devalued the men in her world because she has so many options. She no longer respects what the man has to offer.
Yeah, I'd say it's not so much 'delusion' and she's talking about a niche case. I think (I certainly hope at least) that most women do not monetize their bodies/sex lives. And most women do not sever emotional attachment from sex.
Can they? Yes. By conscious effort or promiscuity- have enough sex with different partners and that bonding mechanism will weaken all on its own. But it's not really delusion to understand the way that women are wired to- in their natural state- form emotional bonds through sex. Especially if it's their first or one of very few partners.
This explanation seems sensible.
I’m praying there are men out there that have impulse control and are not leading their life with their cucumber
There are
Good job
I been asking this questions for over 20 yrs
How can a hot woman be seen as more than just for the bed and as wife material? I am very attractive looking but I am saving myself for marriage and I always notice men are trying to get me in the bed although I am very reserved and distant. And when they notice I am not available for their need then they let go
Just set clear boundaries that you are not willing to break for anyone. Concisely convey your needs and desires ( a lot of people don't know what those are). Those who are willing to dance to your song will stay. The ones willing to stay the ones that you need.
She looks so beautiful.
This literally doesn’t apply to 99.9% of people. 11/10’s and Dubai Uber rich people 😂
I read the title and thought hold on! but then I realised that the title didn’t actually mean…’why are beautiful, classy, intelligent women crazy.
Millions of women throw themselves at Male Celebrities, Athletes, Movie Stars....but no one ever talks about this! Then these women who have "never accomplished anything in their lives other than sleeping with successful men", talk about a "power imbalance"? PATHETIC.
Beautifull women are the best, so much better than unsecure women!
Because only psychopaths arent affected by beauty and women almost never accept responsibility for how their beauty affects men. If she didnt want it or couldn't handle it she could dress down but it never happens because attention is a drug.
Yeah, this is why modesty is a good thing
No one should have to dull themselves because of your lack of self control. There's nothing to be accountable for in simply existing, only what you chose to do with it. Where is the man's accountability to himself?
You can't hide beauty. Marilyn monroe has a picture of her still look desirable in a literal potato sack.
You can't hide Megan foxes face, either.
VERY GOOD AND TRUE !
She is great but I can’t understand how she can support Andrew Tate, even she should know what psychological manipulation is.
That’s why I don’t trust this woman.
You're a salmon if you believe women can be psychologically manipulated by men they don't want to be psychologically manipulated by. They just cry wolf after. You ever see a broke, ugly man get arrested for emotional and psychological manipulation.
What is your point?
You’re good in not to trust her. She has no marriage experience and hasn’t walked the talk. Would you rather a doctor perform a surgery to you who has only read the books or a doctor who has actually done a previous surgery before?
Yes that is my point, how she support Andrew Tate? Andrew Tate basically a PIMP, and so much misogyny inside his mind, not a deep thinker.....How she support Andrew Tate?
Tate promotes pornography and promiscuity. He's her weak spot haha
As a man, I can agree with her.
Edit: Goddamn. She hits the nail it on the head.