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  • Опубліковано 17 кві 2023
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 54

  • @debmansbridge3923
    @debmansbridge3923 Рік тому +12

    Mark is right most women feel superior and know better than a male sorry Nads . Men go from there mothers to a wife !

  • @kateh184
    @kateh184 Рік тому +7

    As a female I do agree with mark in his final comment, in my experience males get the blame regardless

  • @carolmccabe4359
    @carolmccabe4359 Рік тому +5

    I always have a solid “take away” from each of these. Even when you guys naturally fire 🔥 up. “You’re a bit of a shit sticker” my tea splattered every where ……. Maaaarrrrkkkk 😂

  • @Beckyphythian
    @Beckyphythian Рік тому +6

    Really enjoyed that it was intense but fun and interesting to watch. Nice to see both different options on things. Don’t get divorced I’d have nothing to watch 😹😹😺

  • @KatieLoutfi-lb3qi
    @KatieLoutfi-lb3qi Рік тому +2

    I bloody loved this. So funny and thought-provoking. Thank you both!

  • @freddip2039
    @freddip2039 Рік тому +6

    I see both your points but Mark, I do agree with alot of what you've said....sorry Nads....love you both!

  • @Harry-fk5of
    @Harry-fk5of Рік тому +3

    I agree with Mark at the beginning of this, it can sometimes be a classic case of it's STILL 'never good enough' not matter how emotionally mature. And if a guy, or just the emotionally more mature one, is more emotionally tuned in, it'll be thrown back at him as a problem, as him trying to control the narrative, etc. because the partner can't deal with being less mature, it becomes a pride and ego thing. That's been my experience.

  • @shidaroberts6688
    @shidaroberts6688 Рік тому +5

    Loved this episode! Agreed with both Mark and nadia at different stages within this discussion!

  • @KimberleyMJones
    @KimberleyMJones Рік тому +8

    You guys are amazing. Thank you for your honesty. Let me just say this: no matter how intelligent, competent, attractive, experienced, trained, qualified, educated, funny, creative, wise, skilled, loving, strong, accomplished a woman is.....in this world it is never enough, never seen as equal to a man, not paid equally or respected equally. So if emotional intelligence and emotional labour is our territory to excel at, please just let us have it. Men don't need to own and be best at everything. As always, love your conversations xxx

    • @sawalhaadderleys
      @sawalhaadderleys  Рік тому +2

      Too bloody right Kimberley ! Bet you can guess this is Nadia and jut Mark !😂

  • @mrstiggywinkle
    @mrstiggywinkle Рік тому +4

    Google the pillars of emotional intelligence and deep dive into those, that would be a good discussion. Because in my house my husband certainly is better at self-regulation than me. I really enjoyed this chat, thanks guys 😂❤

  • @hopechambers
    @hopechambers Рік тому +5

    You both are so authentic and honest. It was very generous of spirit for you to put this conversation on UA-cam as I imagine it would have felt a bit uncomfortable. I'm such a fan of you both as you are so real and kindly show these moments as well as the shiny ones. Well done guys, you are both so articulate and make your points respectfully to each other. A good example of communicating differing opinions in a calm way. Love you guys x

  • @user-bj8wg1ps9c
    @user-bj8wg1ps9c Рік тому +10

    I identify with Mark such a lot in these conversations today, which is weird because I am a woman! I don’t think it’s got anything to do with whether your a man or woman in the relationship, I just feel that there is always one person in that relationship that feels superior to the other, whether emotionally mature, bread winner, or something else. Then the other person starts to think ‘I won’t complain about that as it will just end up being my fault’ and who wants to be in a relationship where you argue all the time. So now I pick my battles, and since being on hrt my anger is a little less so there’s that!

  • @louiseharris234
    @louiseharris234 Рік тому +3

    You are fab the both of you, keeping it real helps everyone well done ❤

  • @danielhansen7509
    @danielhansen7509 Рік тому +5

    I know this is serious stuff but I can’t tell you the number of times 😂😂😂

  • @kellylody7928
    @kellylody7928 Рік тому

    You guys make me giggle 🤭

  • @janegrimsey1656
    @janegrimsey1656 Рік тому +1

    Great 2 vlogs tonight, I love the contrast in them 😊 but that’s why we all love you both 😍

  • @mariea6355
    @mariea6355 Рік тому +1

    I've been watching from the beginning of lockdown love to your family ❤

  • @christine2354
    @christine2354 Рік тому +2

    I’ve yet to watch the video but just wanted to say you’re both looking so well ❤️

  • @lisanoble9055
    @lisanoble9055 Рік тому +2

    That’s me I get angry and my husband just doesn’t react at all he acts as though nothing has happened, and that makes me worse.

  • @Vikki-Waiting-victoriagrace
    @Vikki-Waiting-victoriagrace Рік тому +1

    14:27 THE PERFECT ANALOGY HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @jayneaylward
    @jayneaylward Рік тому

    Brilliant podcast … you are both so relatable and make me see my relationship is totally normal(ish)! Thank you 🙏

  • @tinab2865
    @tinab2865 Рік тому

    oooo that was intense - think its time for another holiday 😁love you both! 😍

  • @gigieyre
    @gigieyre Рік тому +8

    So interesting. When Mark was talking about men reverting back to childish behavior, it made me reflect. My dad was always the epitome of mature. He was never boring. Unfortunately I married someone that hasn't aged past 13 or 14. I think it annoys me even more because I had a responsible, mature father. Maybe if my dad had been more immature, my husbands behavior wouldn't grate on my every nerve. I guess he would probably say the same about me but the opposite. He'd probably say he married an old woman. lol

  • @mariea6355
    @mariea6355 Рік тому +2

    Love you guys so much !! but nadia your right mark has gone on one, lol love you both

  • @rapunzelmane9592
    @rapunzelmane9592 Рік тому +1

    Mark! Women being the vulnerable bearers of children need to evaluate how likely a man is to stick around to look after his children or whether he will leave them and his children to starve in a cave.
    Women who have been abandoned with a baby (like the women in MAFS) will fear that happening again and will sabotage relationships to avoid rejection.

  • @sharonheppell8378
    @sharonheppell8378 Рік тому

    Omg you two are amazing can't stop giggling you are so real nadia feel your pain with the toilet rolls 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @floralzable8709
    @floralzable8709 Рік тому

    This is hilarious. Nadia your cockney woman is perfect LOL

  • @bellx1312
    @bellx1312 Рік тому

    Great chat guys.

  • @cathiewood5628
    @cathiewood5628 Рік тому

    Ahhhhhhh you twoooooooooo are so bloody lushus 🤣🤣🤣

  • @chloelee4790
    @chloelee4790 Рік тому +4

    Love you both and you're both right at least half the time but Nadia is mostly right nearly all the time . Sorry Mark 😘😘😘❤

  • @mariea6355
    @mariea6355 Рік тому +3

    Fucking he'll that was intence mark what's going on with you, felt for you nadia xx

  • @sarahgoodman7824
    @sarahgoodman7824 Рік тому +3

    I sense some tension in this podcast. 😬 agree with Nadia with a ‘fake’ apology …. No point!

    • @sawalhaadderleys
      @sawalhaadderleys  Рік тому +2

      Ha ha just a bit! That’s why we do them - keeping it real 👍

  • @stephschulze4898
    @stephschulze4898 Рік тому

    See both of your perspectives. You are both in the right as you’re entitled to your own different feelings. xx

  • @vickilucas8200
    @vickilucas8200 Рік тому +2

    Great episode you two.... very 🔥 loved it

  • @wonderwoman5528
    @wonderwoman5528 Рік тому +1

    Emotionally intelligent people are good at understanding/managing their own emotions and those around them, so I would say that’s why I would trust Nadia to know her own moods and the causes (Also maybe a reason for Nadia’s want of quiet AirPod time). With bad moods caused by depression, the mood is outside a person’s control, you’ve just got to accept it is there (it’s no one’s fault, it hasn’t a trigger as such) It can’t be reasoned out of with gratitude or positive thinking. It’s good you both understand that and no one blames anyone, and I empathise with Mark’s fear of his emotions being defined by the illness. I think Mark does has great emotional intelligence (especially for a man ;) ) but the great thing is, you’re both willing to listen, take on board criticism, and make changes if they impact on the family as a whole. I think Mark was enjoying teasing Nadia just to see her reactions - I enjoy seeing Nadia’s aghast face, too 😮

  • @mariea6355
    @mariea6355 Рік тому +2

    Omg Mark stooooop

  • @shelleysilver6597
    @shelleysilver6597 Рік тому +3

    Love you Both. ❤️
    P.S. Please don’t get Divorced. 😅

  • @katn9572
    @katn9572 Рік тому +1

    I think Mark has his period 😂😂😂

  • @katn9572
    @katn9572 Рік тому +2

    Maybe men aren’t as emotionally intelligent because traditionally they were not taught as children to think as much about others’ feelings, with sayings such as boys will be boys, it’s almost expected they won’t take into account how their actions might affect someone else. Just a thought…

  • @you-are-great
    @you-are-great Рік тому +1

    Agree Mark!

  • @chriswhite1417
    @chriswhite1417 Рік тому +1

    😃Two words: Keep It Real

  • @hatchyhatchy4827
    @hatchyhatchy4827 Рік тому

    Has Phil michell turned up in his camper van??? He's famous for it!!! East enders n all?? Bless you mark!!!

  • @mariea6355
    @mariea6355 Рік тому +5

    Mark uour being passive aggressive

  • @mariea6355
    @mariea6355 Рік тому +1

    Your both amazing people ❤️

  • @Sally-ng8hv
    @Sally-ng8hv Рік тому

    Nadia it’s sooo awkward to watch you invalidate Mark’s feelings. Let him speak his truth even if you feel uncomfortable by hearing it. It’s his truth after all.

  • @sarajenkins18
    @sarajenkins18 Рік тому

    Loved this. Hope you didn't fight too much after!! 🙄

  • @bamz9067
    @bamz9067 Рік тому

    Stop I’m editing what he’s saying . I agree with him

  • @hatchyhatchy4827
    @hatchyhatchy4827 Рік тому +1

    Good to know your identity as middle class well done nadia!!!!

  • @user-bj8wg1ps9c
    @user-bj8wg1ps9c Рік тому +3

    I identify with Mark such a lot in these conversations today, which is weird because I am a woman! I don’t think it’s got anything to do with whether your a man or woman in the relationship, I just feel that there is always one person in that relationship that feels superior to the other, whether emotionally mature, bread winner, or something else. Then the other person starts to think ‘I won’t complain about that as it will just end up being my fault’ and who wants to be in a relationship where you argue all the time. So now I pick my battles, and since being on hrt my anger is a little less so there’s that!