How To Stay Married (SO FAR) 104 Nadia & Mark on the PROBLEMS That Could STILL RUIN Their Marriage

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  • @antyp1
    @antyp1 Рік тому +6

    Just watching this back now. I can totally relate to your boredom when cleaning up. I too have been listening to interesting podcasts so I’m always adding value to my chores. I’m literally cleaning my kitchen whilst listening to you both right now! Thank you for bringing such big added value to my mundane chores! ❤️

  • @watchingwatcher5821
    @watchingwatcher5821 Рік тому +36

    Mark, you listen very intently without rushing in and it’s a skill that’s very valuable and one your daughters in particular will really benefit from.

  • @joannewebb9278
    @joannewebb9278 Рік тому +18

    I sometimes forget that Mark is predominantly around females, and just thought how if I might feel in his position. I really like him and can tell he always is open to listen and be authentic and one thing is for sure that his daughters will value a man that's willing to listen. That's a credit to him.

  • @stephschulze4898
    @stephschulze4898 Рік тому +2

    I admire your honesty and how you listen to each other. It’s tough taking feedback and you can tell how much you care xx

  • @kat9669
    @kat9669 Рік тому +17

    Hi mark hi Nadia
    I hope you don’t mind me saying -
    I felt uncomfortable for mark - he looks stressed and anxious worried maybe sad ! Be nice to hear mark get a word in Nadia !

  • @caroll618
    @caroll618 Рік тому +5

    As always very interesting. Watching your faces & expressions is fascinating I often wonder what you do straight after recording, do you ever feel hurt by each others comments?
    I'm a widow now but can relate back to some of these points. The power of conversation is so important, the things I used to say inside my head but not out loud in case it started a row still stays with me....

  • @doguellt
    @doguellt Рік тому +1

    A really interesting and crucial discussion re-communication in all relationships, I think. So much food for thought and such a clear example of how healthy openness and dialogue as well as really listening to the other without impulsively jumping in can take place. I'm a bit impulsive too, jumping into and interrupting conversations because I feel so passionately and can't hold it in or am scared I'll forget to say sth. But that can cut off the other person and sabotage the di-alogue significantly! Thank you so much, Mark and Nadya, for sharing what you learned from Couples Counselling and for putting yourselves out there. I really feel you guys are like family and learn sth from every podcast or vlog you do. Really love and respect you both ❤

  • @michellenye3742
    @michellenye3742 Рік тому +2

    This was so helpful. Always love watching the bond between you two. Get about the ear phones. I sometimes don't realise if Ian has got them in so now he let's me know.!!

  • @jessiesgirl8556
    @jessiesgirl8556 Рік тому +15

    I have watched all your podcast and your other videos over the yrs. I am Nadia's age,a Nurse,a mother,Married. I marvel at how much you 2 live in your heads. I always feel like I need a drink( don't drink) and a Nap after listening to you 2.

    • @romatravellergirl3530
      @romatravellergirl3530 Рік тому +7

      I don’t think they live in their heads at all, they are exploring and dissecting things for the purpose of the podcast!

    • @carolmccabe4359
      @carolmccabe4359 Рік тому +4

      They bring this intensity for the purpose of these Podcasts. I’m so grateful they do. It’s been incredibly helpful

    • @louisebirchall1
      @louisebirchall1 Рік тому

      This has really helped me and my hubby-I too have recently had a add diagnosis. Thanks you two. You’re making us feel normal ❤

    • @louisebirchall1
      @louisebirchall1 Рік тому

      This has really helped me and my hubby-I too have recently had a add diagnosis. Thanks you two. You’re making us feel normal ❤ 40:15 40:15

  • @rachaelboden2693
    @rachaelboden2693 Рік тому +4

    Social media in all aspects has a lot to answer for - the way we live now. Maybe do an experiment and live like in the 1950’s for 2 weeks …. 😊

  • @rachaelboden2693
    @rachaelboden2693 Рік тому +4

    Like the “love you” at the end . ❤🌈

  • @janettespeake8493
    @janettespeake8493 Рік тому +3

    Nadia sounds exactly like the mum on BLESS THIS HOUSE with Syd James 😁

  • @elaineginolfi9423
    @elaineginolfi9423 Рік тому +2

    Really interesting and can relate to quite a-lot of what was being discussed.

  • @cerirobertson8109
    @cerirobertson8109 Рік тому +8

    Hi, enjoy this podcast, but wow, so glad I am divorced been single now for 10 years and don’t have to go through these conflicts, please, listen to your selves are you really benefiting from being in the couple.

  • @suzybiella
    @suzybiella Рік тому +3

    😃😅 well!!I'm actually worn out after all that 😂🤣.. Adh has got a lot to answer for 🙈... Think I'm going to make a cup of tea ☕... 🥰

  • @martinamckeown.4936
    @martinamckeown.4936 Рік тому +1

    Thankyou! So relatable 😮

  • @lozzerm68
    @lozzerm68 Рік тому +1

    Really interesting conversation! 💓💓💓

  • @sophielouise4551
    @sophielouise4551 Рік тому +9

    Really enjoyed this. I'm not in a relationship but when you talked about being sensitive etc it really did help Nads as my social worker (for my bipolar and PTSD) said I'm too sensitive last week so thank you,made me feel differently about being sensitive. Have a good evening both,sending love from Wales 💜

    • @KimberleyMJones
      @KimberleyMJones Рік тому +4

      "Too sensitive"!!?? Your sensitivity is your strength. It is your superpower in an insensitive world!

  • @gillminshall3231
    @gillminshall3231 Рік тому +3

    I really love your chats I am a Scorpio and my late husband was a Leo so completely different temperament ect we had a long marriage up to his death of 40 yes and it was sink or swim but we worked at it always Xx

  • @laurellenicholls4094
    @laurellenicholls4094 Рік тому

    Wow I’m in awe of you two as a couple to be able to take a step back and see the bigger picture. I am in a relationship of 16 years and we just row over the same thing about once a month. 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @swsilvania8298
    @swsilvania8298 Рік тому +1

    Hope you guys gave each other a big hug after this video. I guess for Mark it's hard especially, when he is not feeling great, which I sensed in this video that he wasn't the happy Mark we see. We all have our down days. Take care of each other you are a lovely couple. Sonia Silvanian

  • @zoezigzag3067
    @zoezigzag3067 Рік тому +5

    Mark you listen and hear Nadia so well without interrupting, when it must be so hard not to! We can all talk a lot but listening is a real skill that’s learned. Also its a practical and one of the most powerful, outward displays of love we can show our partner.

  • @kathyo85
    @kathyo85 Рік тому +1

    You’re both looking well!

  • @fificromack2715
    @fificromack2715 Рік тому

    Omg this is so like me and my husband lol very good listening xx

  • @rachaelboden2693
    @rachaelboden2693 Рік тому +3

    This is good to listen to. Very informative. So maybe count to 5 before you answer…. 😊

  • @bridgeenskudayski1398
    @bridgeenskudayski1398 Рік тому

    This was so good& it's hard not going into attack.

  • @teresaa3421
    @teresaa3421 Рік тому +1

    Love you two 💚

  • @rachaelboden2693
    @rachaelboden2693 Рік тому +3

    At the end of the day men and women think very differently and I think say what they think in different ways . I think we just have to explain more what we are saying. ( says me who is single and has fearful avoidant attachment thingy) 😅😅😅😅😅😅 But I am 51 and happy - sort of. 😀

  • @carolmccabe4359
    @carolmccabe4359 Рік тому +1

    An insightful exchange. Really authentic guys. Hitting so many buttons for me. Thank you so much for sharing with such passion and truth. ☘️🌿🌱

  • @lucyloxton3833
    @lucyloxton3833 Рік тому

    Love you guys. Never attack the person hey.... Say how you feel

  • @melw2389
    @melw2389 Рік тому

    Thank you.

  • @yvonnewilliams
    @yvonnewilliams Рік тому +3

    Nadia you do boss Mark around 😂

  • @Harry-fk5of
    @Harry-fk5of Рік тому

    Well done both of you, this is very relatable and insightful!

  • @mayboo6490
    @mayboo6490 Рік тому +3

    Love your complete honest and completely relate in every way x
    As I’m watching I’m thinking this could be me 😂 I bet 75% of subs thought the same.
    but really felt I was intruding in this conversation 😂

  • @livewell7384
    @livewell7384 Рік тому +1

    Mark your eyebrows looks fantastic

  • @tonydunsford1278
    @tonydunsford1278 Рік тому +1

    I think your a great couple and i really mean that.

  • @russsouch256
    @russsouch256 Рік тому +1

    Absolutely fascinating guys, I’m not married nor in a relationship but I can totally relate to you both. Great episode x

  • @mrstiggywinkle
    @mrstiggywinkle Рік тому

    I can have these sorts of conversations with my husband but it rarely changes anything. Do you think having a couples councillor as mediator makes a big difference? Would you guys consider ever going again?

  • @zoebrindle7269
    @zoebrindle7269 Рік тому

    Hi guys ! Very interesting. Mark you say having to repeat yourself to Nadia when Nadia’s deep in thought listening to her pod cast ...... Just a thought , I’m completely deaf in one ear and only have partial hearing in the other ...many times I appear to be ignoring my partner ( he’s sympathetic luckily ) Maybe turn your thoughts around when feeling stressed with Nadia and be thankful she can hear the podcast ?? Not sue I’m making sense here ? Nadia you could also tie your hair back so everyone in the house is also aware of your ear pods ? You both make so much sense ! Your chats are a wholesome watch into the realisation that even famous humans face the very same toils of life 💝

  • @bevhartnoll3004
    @bevhartnoll3004 Рік тому +2

    Aww guys I loved this chat you've done everytime you do these chats there's always find myself saying wow that's me lol 😆,im am a sensitive person,like may be a person will have a opinions about me and I just take it my huppy goes nuts course I let them get to me or upset me,lol when you was on about when chatting like shit 😅 my huppy can really talk and sometimes im like fuck sake lol 😆 aww guys love you both you so real 💖 💗 xx

  • @Quartzone6145
    @Quartzone6145 Рік тому +1

    What happens if you do bring something up that really upsets you and they say to you that it's always a problem and that your always getting at them about it.

  • @vickilucas8200
    @vickilucas8200 Рік тому +1

    You two are just real and relatable and so cute together 😍 thanks for being yourselves

  • @Helen77SouthAfrica
    @Helen77SouthAfrica Рік тому

    Mark Nadia sweetie ♥️😮mark your hair is lovely 😮♥️😮

  • @rachaelboden2693
    @rachaelboden2693 Рік тому +9

    Mark you look fed up .

    • @sawalhaadderleys
      @sawalhaadderleys  Рік тому +5

      Sorry - I’m not I assure you

    • @Harry-fk5of
      @Harry-fk5of Рік тому +2

      @@sawalhaadderleys Don't overthink that, Mark (coming from another overthinker)

  • @antyp1
    @antyp1 Рік тому

    Crikey i thoguht id just gained a dog. What a fright through the air pods 🤣🤣🤣

  • @BluebellB
    @BluebellB Рік тому

    I really want to get into podcasts but need recommendations please?!!

  • @garrybrown3165
    @garrybrown3165 Рік тому +2

    What would you say is the most insightful thing you learned in counseling?

    • @sawalhaadderleys
      @sawalhaadderleys  Рік тому +11

      Always give each other an equal amount of time to say everything you feel without interruption and without any comeback at the end - this allows you to hear and think - rather than fight and defend or justify …

  • @juliehilton3365
    @juliehilton3365 Рік тому

    I absolutely love these podcasts marks face is so funny hes so lovely thank you for this xx

  • @carolinecavanagh2998
    @carolinecavanagh2998 Рік тому +1

    You are good nadia

  • @lindaroulston3473
    @lindaroulston3473 Рік тому +18

    Feel sorry for you mark, think nadia thinks she is the counselor. Ie pointing out all your fault when she talks over you, and you can see she's seathing when you started. Brave to do. But all i can say is poor Mark. And you deserve a medal.

  • @aoifefitzpatrick958
    @aoifefitzpatrick958 Рік тому

    You are such a lovely couple guys❤😊 so lucky to have came across the channel xxx

  • @suzannebell9975
    @suzannebell9975 Рік тому +6

    Love you Nadia but let mark talk

  • @TracySunshineStott
    @TracySunshineStott Рік тому

    💯

  • @Vikki-Waiting-victoriagrace
    @Vikki-Waiting-victoriagrace Рік тому +1

    Mark looks terrified at the beginning of this haha.. think hes wondering what nadz is gonna bring up? Haha
    Edit: after watching i think it mightve been… “ive got a really long list here….😬”
    its great to hear you both bc it give sme an insite how to handle my own relationship ‘discussions’ - i think youre right a lot of us have the sae issues in our realtionsips

  • @miffysmate
    @miffysmate Рік тому +11

    I always feel sorry for Mark on these, as he gets trampled when he makes a point. He is correct that it is Nadia's way or the highway. I also agree that not everyone wants to talk about ADHD every minute of the day, it consumes you. Hopefully, with the ADHD meds it will gradually change. Great Podcast all the same

  • @henriettahenson
    @henriettahenson Рік тому +2

    Get a shed
    down the bottom of the garden... Great escape place... 👍👌@Nadia,,, all men are stupid around simple home stuff... 🤣

  • @garrybrown3165
    @garrybrown3165 Рік тому

    What is "mangry"?

    • @janettespeake8493
      @janettespeake8493 Рік тому +1

      A man hungry getting angry I think 🤔

    • @TracySunshineStott
      @TracySunshineStott Рік тому +2

      Why not just say hangry like we all do!? Women get hungry angry too but don’t use Wangry!!

  • @rebeccalittle2589
    @rebeccalittle2589 Рік тому +3

    Mark, you look tired, hope you're ok