🇵🇭 Why your Filipina will leave you if you move her to America 🇺🇸
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- Опубліковано 8 вер 2024
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Mad respect for you for saying it like it is. A lot of guys are delusional and want to enjoy living in the 1st world, not being the "minority" immigrant in another country, and still having a traditional beautiful younger wife. It's the equivalent of a feminist wanting a traditional 6'2 chad to pay for everything and be a traditional man. You can't have your cake and eat it too. Being in the first world has its pros with a big con being the dating market unless you are in the top 5-10% than there might an argument the west is the best place to be. But if you are an average man in especially income and can't give a girl an increase in her current lifestyle (aka >$150k income) you need to make the choice between the pros of the west (ability to make $$, safety, friends) or the pros of a place like Col/Mex/Phi/Tha where you have an increased SMV (ONLY b/c you have access to US dollars).
A lot of men think the women are different overseas but the truth is YOU the man are different. What do you mean? I'm the same guy they will say. No you went from an undatable average man to a 9 or 10 because you 30x'd your income/lifestyle. Take a guy making $60k in the US and he's living a lifestyle you'd have to make $1.5-2M a year in the USA. The big trouble is when a guy likes his life in the USA b/c of convenience, friends, family, being the majority (if he's white) and just wants a girl to accept him for who he is. He then brings a girl here thinking that's the final piece but then she will realize anybody can make what he's making and his value will change drastically in her eyes. Maybe it takes till she gets permanent residency, green card, whatever. But make no mistake you went from being a guy that made $1.5M a year to now living a crappy life.
If you are going to be a passport bro you need to be willing to leave it all behind and do a full reboot and move over there. That means you will need to either have a bunch saved or have the ability to still have US dollars coming in. Most "average" men don't really have those skills and thus will fall into the trap of bringing her here where the relationship is doomed and he will be crushed. Remember no woman is "settling" for you just the way you are playing video games making $60k. She thinks she's got a multi millionaire on the hook. Not an average man.
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you dont need 1.5 million to live a great life in USA lol that's crazy. Making 200k is more than enough
🏆 Jasper should PIN this guy’s comment! 🏆
@@JasperinthePhilippines And this is exactly why I do not frown on 70 year old guys having a 20 year old girlfriend in phillipines. Because I understand women's nature. Most women will never give a damn about the men they are with regardless of where they were born. Most Women only care about what the man will provide. I have seen too many cases Filipinas come to the USA married only to cheat on their husbands within a year of landing in the USA. When women have more options they are more likely to become rebellious. When Women have less options they are less likely to cheat and are more loyal because they NEED a man. I could not give a damn if a woman loves me. What I expect is Respect and the woman realizing that she NEEDS me to survive.
What I learned in life is Men are the providers and women are the spenders. If you are going to be subsidizing her spending in phillipines because you are making 10X-20X the wages of the typical filipino basically you are the prize not the woman. Imagine making 200-300K dollars in the USA a year it is the same thing your SMV goes to the moon. Don't go around chasing women. If you wanting to settle down do it only after the woman has proven herself that she is worthy of a husband. What I have also learned is give her what she needs and not everything she wants otherwise she will walk all over you and loose respect for you.
Yup..I can personally verify this as well..lived in a prominent Asian country and had a nice business..met a beauty 20 years younger..spent quite a bit of time with her..she insisted on moving back to the USA..married..then a long slow train wreck…as every horn-dog on the island chased her..she was very attractive..
Costly mistake..now I’m recovered financially and emotionally..
“We won’t get fooled again “
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Holding on to an attractive asian woman in a western country is like trying to hold a puff of smoke.
It’s straight up true my man the baddie Filipinas are amazing for a few months, until the honeymoon is done and she monkey branch up to the next passport bro
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As a full blooded Filipina, i'm proud of my country’s natural beauty and especially my kindest, warmest people in the world. But behind it's natural beauty , people and culture, there are hidden ugliness in it. Filipinas has found foreigners as their way out from extreme poverty, not for love but for 100% convenience. This parasitism mentality become the secondary culture of my country from the highest level of society to the poorest level of the community. We are the best hostesses of the world, we are the best caregivers of the DOM, we go all over the world to do dirty jobs because we are desperate of wealth and conveniences on earth. That’s just us, Filipinos
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Don't forget, your country is an archipelago of islands in the middle of a vast ocean a million miles away from the rest of the world. I'd say the Philippines is growing & modernizing at a rate which is miraculous considering that. You're taking the positive influences of Western society without being poisoned by it's ugly culture. That has everything to do with foreigners marrying Philippinos.
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This is true! Thanks for being up front!
I am a Filipina and i say speak for yourself, you dont represent all of us. Not all of Filipinos are like that. I find foreigners who comes to Philippines for the sole purpose of looking for women for sex and other debauch reasons disgusting no matter how filthy rich they are. They are looking for quality in women when they are of low quality themselves. So i say to those sexpats here back off! Leave our women/men alone.
Japer, in fairness, I would like to see statistical data regarding divorce rates between Filipina (brought to the US) and an American husband. I have several friends here in the US who are faithful to their husbands and remain the trad wives as they are. Majority of them are having decent jobs here and still taking care of their families. Of course, I also knew who had divorces. I married my husband with the commitment to prioritizing him (we had no kids). When he past, that was the time that I went out of the state where he brought me (he didn't like to move out of his favorite place) to accept a permanent job. I didn't remarry. My point here is that not all Filipinas, as most vloggers portrayed in their videos, who were brought to the US changed their upbringing, that is, to be good wives. With the SocMed changing the landscape, things might have changed the culture of Filipinas. My take when it comes to relationship is, it takes two to tango. A foreigner divorcee who is bitter and can't move on and perpetually warning men regarding Filipinas, needs to examine himself as well. I appreciate your honest evaluation of Filipina-foreigner relationship. I smile when you interviewed the two girls at the mall. Try to interview Filipino men---what's their idea about filipinas having relationship with foreigners. Have a good day!
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Amen Sister!
Lived in PI together for 8 years. Here in the US now 40. Our mixed couple friends have been together a lot of years also. This guys after the views.
@@alaskanwhiskey Your kind is what Filipinas should be worried about. This is what most Filipinos hadn't realized. Some foreigners are way too liberal which is already affecting Filipino values. At the end, it is your kind that would change Filipinas perspective of what healthy relationship should be.
Get out of the Philippines. You nig... You might be spreading something as well.
I agree.
I'm 33 years older than my filipina, but still brought her to the states. We married here four years ago and I've been totally upfront that, IF EVER, she wanted to move on from me, I would support that and treasure the time we'd had together. "You're crazy!" she tells me and we go on with our life, her as a traveling nurse and me as the support team. Her contract assignment changes every 13 weeks, Des Moines, IA for one contract, then on to Reno, NV. . . . . . I'm having a ball and when she gets home from work, dinner is on the table.
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You never know what’s around the corner . Time will tell . Hope she will stick through thick and thin with you till the end of your time and I would say you’re lucky enough
You shouldn't remove the wild animals from their natural habitat.
@@jasoncatron1039 It is what it is. Sad but true.
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I’ve seen it happen 3 times so far with 3 different guys. THREE TIMES 😂
🚫 Do not remove a Pinay from her natural habitat. 🚫
You should not go to the wild if you dont want to be eaten alive.
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I delivered mail to an apartment complex that was on my old route. Staff asked me what was new? Well, I went to the Philippines and got married. They started busting a gut laughing. You know how many guys we see like you? They bring their Filipina wife here and they immediately run off with an engineer from Intel. I'll just stay here
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Here you mean in Phillipines?
@@rpatel6461 yes. 15 years already
@@solarguy1702 Happy for you sir
Smart thinking!
I know one army veteran who married a filippina in korea (low class
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Unfortunately Jasper is right. Now, it can work but the old husband has to have good cash and be open to socialize in the Phil Am community. Trick is to be emotionally mature, semi-wealthy and be willing to socialize...a lot. Otherwise....
Another issue is the filipina's get it in their heads that they will leave their first simp husband once they get their green card. It's so ingrained that they can't see when they've found a great guy and simply follow thru with their plan and leave. It's sounds crazy but it's true.
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You made some great points, Jasper. For me, I went on two dates with two different Filipinas, and they wanted to leave the Philippines to help their family. I understand, but I did not continue with them. I chose my lady because she wanted to stay in the Philippines and close to her family and roots, which made me see that the primary reason for getting with me is not to go to America and work. what the women do not realize is that. When they come to America cost of living is way higher they may be making $17 a hour but the cost of mcdonalds meal fries, drink and sandwich is about $12 so they may not be able to help their family as much as they thought. What men got to realize too is when they go to the Philippines is that they need to be able to say no to a woman if she does not have the characteristics they are looking for or if the woman is using them. I was able to say no to Filipinas to try to make my relationship with them transactional. People need to learn to say no.
@@buyerofsorts glad you agree and see my point
@buyerofsorts oh ok I see.
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@thaimayoree1494 it's meeting up, communicating, and trying to qualify a woman for a relationship. For example, when I went on dates in the Philippines, I listened to what the ladies were saying and saw where their mindset was. did not let my other head take over. Therefore, I was able to disqualify any woman who did not qualify for a relationship.
@thaimayoree1494 that's true too I did not use the western way. I took my time and took my lady on a proper date and I did not rush things. I took her out multiple times before asking her to be my lady. Also I didn't just assume to be dating like in the west I actually asked her.
I think once a Filipina comes to America she realizes the roles are reversed. Now instead of the foreigner American being the prize in the Philippines, she is the desired target in a country obsessed with physical beauty.. She might be inclined to trade up, ie find someone financially better off than what/who she is with. Its not an issue with retires because they are not returning to America but living out their remainder where their old age income provides the best bang for its buck. With the extremely high cost of living in America, many retirees live a substandard existence. Hence moving to various Asian countries allows them to live in better comfort.
100% that’s exactly what I’m saying
very well said. I agree
@@buyerofsorts if money is the #1 reason for a girl to stay with the man then I dont think shes worth keeping for the real love in the future. Real girl who truely loves you aint gonna cheat or run off with another dude to begin with.
@@buyerofsorts also, being rich isnt guaranteed bro. one of the 2 richest, jeff bezos and bill gates had wives divorced them. No one is safe because they have money either
@@peterhuang1431 That is what you will get if you go for a girl 20 years younger
So if i am understanding this correctly. If you don't have the means or the ability to move to or live in the Philippines, you are stuck with the woke women of North America 😔!
But if you have the means and the ability to live in the Philippines, then move there and enjoy your throne!
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Yup. That sums it up pretty well. You do have the option of finding a tele-commuting job and then moving to the Phillipines and settling there. It may take some time to find the jobs and get the skills necessary
Dude i think it depends not only on the motive of the filipina, but also their age and class. A more filipina of high value in the Phils, perhaps well-travelled, used to attention will take to a Western country like a duck to water. Put a poor province girl in the same situation and her head may become giddy like a saturday-night drunk! Why? Because although she may be a 5 or 6 in the Phils, she instantly becomes a 8 or 9 in the west - especially if she displays non-feminist traits. The reputation of Asian women is gaining higher and higher currency in the West and therefore, so is the status of Filipinas - regardless of their status in the Phils. So if you want to improve yer odds of hanging onto yer filipina once you move her to the West then 1/ chose a educated more mature Filipina who is used to attention from filipinos as well as foreigners. 2/ Work on yourself, so that she doesnt feel the desire to look elsewhere. But you know what after having written this long sentence, Id still have to agree with Jasper. YOU'D BE A MUG TO BRING YER FILIPINA OVER TO THE WEST!!! 😂😂😂
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As a Filipina with several filipina relatives and friends married to foreigners this is true. So far none of them is divorced. Must of them stay married more than 10 years already. But these women had good education, good family upbringing.
I wouldn't fly through the United States. I'll be 42 when I leave for the Philippines. I am only visiting the States for family and friends. Other than that, the rest of my life is spent abroad. This situation would NEVER be a problem.
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This guy just speaks truth fellas take heed
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This is actually a legitimate, good video with great information. American men need to know the dangers that truly can happen if you bring your Pilipina to the US.
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This happened to me. I dated a foreigner for 4 years in her country, and i was treated like a GOD-KING. Got married and moved her to America, and we divorced after 1 year. "DO NOT MOVE YOUR GIRLFRIEND/WIFE TO THE UNITED STATES!
Wow insane sorry to hear.
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I know 3 guys whom this also happened to. You’re not an isolated case.
That toxic place must have poisoned her.
Whether dudes want to admit it or not, this video is 100% truth. I’m just surprised someone as young as Jasper is already wise enough to figure this all out. Well done
Thank you Trevor
Age gap? Dont do it, very simple. 10 years or less, you can do it. I am 33, Wife 28, we just landed back in America Tuesday and I like the Philippines better then my wife does. Shes complaining everything in the store she wants as far as products go is MORE expensive then America (its true). We plan to retire in Palawan but prices have skyrocketed since we were last there in 2017. It seems like its really only 1/2 price of US across the board if you want to live any decent life (maybe 1/3rd if you have paid for house but its really not that cheap like I remember, but 1/3rd price of America is a bit of a stretch). Services and entertainment is cheap, everything else is 1st world prices. Other issue is the food. Home cooked Filipino food is great (omitting the fake magic sarap) but the vast majority of food in PH is so limited. Thats the biggest withdrawal you have is all the great options we have and diverse culture we have here in USA. I just had a great margarita and a wheat beer with MALT and my wife ordered the whole damn menu at the Mexican restaurant about an hour ago. Tiny bit of meat and giant pile of rice just doesnt do it for us. We have added a hectare of farmland into our Palawan retirement plan so we can get things like CILANTRO.
I love PH but you need to be prepared, we are not yet as a younger couple. DONT BRING A YOUNG HOTTIE TO USA! should be self explanatory.
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Bro still don't take risk, just enjoy atleast 1-2 month vacation every year there...
I have a friend that brought his filipina wife to Texas they had a daughter and then she divorced him and married a sugar daddy
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Philippines is cheap to live no stress nothing around with Philippines i love it there.
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There you go again Jasper. Dead spot on!! I've seen these older guys that have bought their Filipinas to the U.S and man those girls look miserable! You can tell they don't want to be in that relationship. Good advice man! Stay safe.
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I saw a number of divorces of Filipinas from their American husbands (any race) here in San Francisco and throughout the USA 🇺🇸 , even if both partners are Catholic. Many of these Filipina fee-fails have a big ego.
Similar situation when I am in Vancouver, Canada 🇨🇦.
Adds. If a Western man wants to move with his Filipina outside of The Philippines 🇵🇭, they should travel to another Eastern nation. Other Southeast Asian nations, Latin America are options. The Filipina will be in her best behavior there because 1 harsh conditions of different sorts and 2 she must compete vs all the other women. 😃
Not sure about Eastern Europe 🤔 Many tall white men there. Filipinas will be on pedestals because they are rare. But, they will compete vs the native, Eastern European women 👩 .
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Found it. Awesome! The truth shall set you free.
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I have a coworker that brought his first wife (filipina) and 3 days after she received her Masters degree in teaching….she left him. Soooo 5 years later he married another filipina (only seeing her for a week vacation with her). As soon as her green card came in she left him and moved to Los Angeles.
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Always blaming the women. Did he ever try to take an inventory of what kind of person/partner he is? Its takes two to make a relationship work
@@jingjing4265 I’m not sure I’m just blaming the ladies….but it’s great timing they leave once they got what they wanted….he’s an ass Narcissist
I have seen this happen many times. I worked with this Filipino guy and his girl ran away not long after he brought her over.
Facts bro
The moral of the story: "You pay your money, you take your chances." But..."Why buy the whole cow when you can drink the milk for free?" 🤔
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In England UK no men I’ve ever known have been really attracted to Asian women. Especially Filipinas. They are an acquired taste that very few white western men are into at least in my Country.
They have their own communities and stick with their own for the most part. White western men that find Filipinas attractive are very few, definitely the minority.
It’s the negative scammer stereotype that comes along with Filipinas too aswell as the dramatic height difference. Men that like Asian women don’t really see it though because they assume all men are attracted to them but they are really not. Filipinas are the exception to other Asians too because they seem to happily become sex workers when they get greedy enough in the west. The Chinese would never go down that route in comparison.
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America has a bit of an Asian fetish.
@mackcarlo9016 Come on mate, I was pursued by an English girl who is underage whilst me on my early 40's ,another white mid age European girl was flirting on me, but then I turned them down both, I literally ran away🤣🤣 I'm the exception for the stereotype filipino, over six feet and chunky.
@@loq02_orig I’m talking about Filipina women lol not the men. English girls really love dark skinned men and brown eyes way more than white men. English girls are not any more attracted to tall men either it seems. That’s good bro 😎 Eastern European women are a seen as extremely attractive in England for sure by most men.
@@Yamie1101 London lol 😂 that’s not England. It’s literally classed as a Euro zone City and has a massively international population. I’m talking about native British white blue eyed men in particular. They seem repulsed by Asian female looks and Asians keep to their own communities in England.
In my City they even have their own town called the Asian village and they all hang out together there. Most white English men simply wouldn’t date them. I know this for a fact because I’m from there and have owned several bars and restaurants in my time as an (ex) business man so I know the social dynamics of many of the places in England. I also used to DJ and I produce music. In club environments Asian women almost exclusively dated their own and men were not saying “wow” towards Asian women. I don’t know why because I have my blinders on and like them.
I think Asian women are ok though personally other than being very short. It’s a minority that are open to date Asians if outside of their race at all even. It seems different online because of course that minority are concentrated but they are not the majority like people seem to assume they are going to get their girl taken off them lol. I definitely wouldn’t be worried about that if I was in a white population majority country.
It’s probably good that you didn’t. London is absolute extortion level expensive and extremely dangerous too. Their Mayor has helped sell the place out and ruin London forever.
Where I am in the US, and in a few other states, massage parlor girls are mostly from Taiwan and China.
When I 1st moved in my current town almost 20 years ago my area was littered with massage parlors run by South Koreans. Then about 10 years ago they almost all vanished as police raided the industry ( many complaints of old men waking in parlors all hours of broad daylight finally caught up).
The very few left replaced by Chinese/Taiwanese, so when you say they would never you're wrong. Chinese,like everything else, is taking over now.
I’m married to a Filipina from Davao for 7 years now. She had several Filipina friends that left their husbands. All of her friends from Mindanao are very dedicated to their marriages. I guess it depends where you find your Filipina.
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Its not about the place but its about her education and family upbringing. Sad to say foreigners are guided by their libido when choosing women,l so they get what they deserve.
If you marry a Filipina, have a "Pre-Nup," done with the marriage contract, so both parties are protected. Plus, build your home and get your toys before you marry any woman before the marriage is legit.
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Note: A "Pre-nup" is different in all countries. They are not very "binding" in Australia.
@@pauls3585In leftist parts of America, prenups are almost worthless. Have to be careful. If a divorce is imminent, file for divorce in a different state to get a better settlement
Prenup are very binding and cost effective in America. I know divorced 3 times. (yes I know I have issues) At this point I do not care about "love" as long as both parties are happy. Until they are not haha
The only way you can minimize the chances of her leaving you is to pick a woman who is too old or ugly to be desired by men in the west. That would defeat the whole purpose of trying to get a Filipina. And even if she can't get another guy, she still might leave you once she has the green card.
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Yeah she's still leaving.
All women think they can do better or they'll prefer being alone exploring their options.
@@John_X_77No doubt
Do NOT remove her from her native habitat. She must be with her family and if you don't believe that, we can discuss it after the divorce id concluded.
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Thank you so much for this video, this is the type of video I’ve been looking for. I never had a issue getting women here in the states, but! Holy shit every lady that I talk to here are literally copy and paste all the same type of characteristics and trash personality. I’m 25 right now and finally making some good money, but I’m so sketched out on bringing a Flipina here to the states, if she gets accustomed to the garbage ways it’s game over for me.
Salute my brother thank you
Hmm most of the filipina I know here is still married to their first husband for years including me.if you bring those girls here be sure to treat them nice they are not gonna leave you most of us are loyal😉😉
Well I have 23,000 subscribers and I’m hearing horror stories about it all the time so good for you and I think most Filipinos are good but a lot of times it doesn’t go that way unfortunately
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I know a some Filipina left her husband because he doesn’t want her to drive,work and not allowed to have friends.she’s working two job to get by but of course I get it some Filipina are greedy just like other woman in this country.
@@Yamie1101 agree
@@JasperinthePhilippines I think the term "first husband" is loosely defined. Often, the filipina's have had a couple "first" husbands that they keep secret making it seem like their third "first" husband is their first.
While I do agree with what you're saying. I know a ton of American in the USA with Filipina wives who have been married for decades.
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Choose wisely..Most filipinas are notcapable of getting a good job in the west and are not a big prize outside the Philippines..All the may have are their looks but nothing else.
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I met my wife in 80 we got married in 84 she came over and brang our 2 year old daughter she never wanted to leave me .the old adage goes choose the best for you and shop wisely
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Yeah, when I was in the Military, many guys brought back a lady from overseas. Korea, Germany, Japan, etc. Once they got back to the states more than half would leave their mate within 3yrs. Thanks!!
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Women have inflated SMV in the west whereas men have undervalued SMV. Stick to places where YOUR SMV is high gents.
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Dude your channel is next level. Subscribed
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Yes agree... this guy is honest and got great analytical skills
In my experience the chances are the same worldwide, not confined to Filipinas. I am in several Filipino-UK groups, and the divorce/separation rate is much lower than the norm.
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you do realize that divorce rate in phillipines is 0% right? Compared to USA is like 60% within the first 4 years. The Phillipina American divorce rate may be lower but not by much. Trust me you bring a filipina to USA the guy they married no longer looks as attractive. That guy you thought was rich in the phillipines now living in the west comparing to other men looks poor. I known plenty of filipinas who are married who cheat with other men and husbands too stupid to realize it.
Cause Filipinos are OFFICIALLY 2nd Class Citizens due to The Rescission Act of 1946, d Federal Law is very much alive n well n d books. In fact, Filipinos in PI should daily charge a Rescission Act of 1946 fee to all Americans visiting or residing in PI. Especially when dating n having an overnight with a Filipina.
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Spot on, facts trump everything, great video brother
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She will leave you, if you don't have money anymore, that's the reality
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Im a salesman... if i was making the biggest deal of my life i would be persuasive and i would absolutely give it everything i had especially if my lfe depended on it essentially.. so if you wonder how you got closed by one of these girls thats probably a good part of it.. they may not be inherent liars but necessity brings out the best in us... speaking generally, or on my own judgment because ive been shocked a couple times..
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@@JasperinthePhilippines you would never get closed but I have been at lease temporarily.. I get lied to everyday for a living.. I'd like to think I could sniff out bs real quick.. I'd never bring one to the US though that's just asking for it...
He jasper I had a friend who bought his girl friendfrom colombia I told him dont she will leave you., He spent alot of money to redo his apartment. Well the day came I saw her come in and called him a pendejo and you see the face of his girl she smiled and the next day she disappeared. He no longer my friend because he got mad at me I laughed at him when that happened and I said I told you so.
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Two things that are common sense but not everbody has common sense. Don't bring your Filipina to America because you lose all the power in the relationship. In the Phillipines you are the rare prize but not in America you are just a normal guy. They will find a younger guy with more to offer especially if they have the looks. Never put them in a situation that they don't need you ALWAYS make them rely open you which is done financially. It sounds terrible but it is true if you are one of these old guys with a young girl. If you buy a house get a mortgage so the payment has to be made every month. Once the house is payed off on the property in their name you are not needed. They can trade you in for another foreigner to pay for the food and utilities and keep the house. Young girls with old guys are TRANSACTIONAL AGREEMENTS be smart. This is hard to stomach for alot of these old guys but is sad but true. BE SMART
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Probably will only leave if you don’t have money and are old , but if you have money and helping her family overseas, she might stay
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cash is king. My second wife left for a very rich multie millionaire. BTW she was not filipina haha.
You are sooooo correct!
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How about don't get married, have fun together and move on to the next.
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It takes marriage or a fiancee visa to enter the USA at port of entries. A entry visa from marriage which is an alowance to work with social security number takes on average 18 months . So many choose the quickest path . Remember theres tons of paper work and fees .Lets be honest ,not all will be walking out in short term . The dangerous ones are the most informed ones . The patient one will wait over two years after mariage and than file for divorce . She will claim abuse and other imaginary claims against the husband . A family court judge will order almost everything the man owns ,including the house and and alimony leaving the poor guy homeless and broke . Your Pinay wife gets most of her advice and schooling on this matter from other pinays . Most common place for this indoctranation is the Philippine Mass at your local church . She was only praying for a better life !!!!!
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PRENUP !
She does want me there with her.
How can someone avoid the “I want to come to America “ and keep her from the western atmosphere.
I’m not ready to retire.59
I’m thinking about starting with visits for weeks then eventually retiring in Philippines. If we work out. LDR for now. She is intimidated about America. I don’t want to westernize her. I come in January.
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Advice is good for younger guys where heath insurance is not a concern but for us older Americans we need our MediCare (which is not accepted in the Phil).
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If you can't stay there,don't start. Souvenirs are great, just as long as they don't have boobs.
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Hi Jasper, excellent content man. Can you shed some light on Indonesian-Bali women.. if you have got some idea. Thanks
No clue on them bro. Never met/dated
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I thought if your married, its for life. Also I hear Sabbath women who go to church dint want broken marriages.
You thought wrong
Is there a document, where you can mention that she has to give up the citizenship if they get separated...!!
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Never take her back to your country if you couldn't get and keep a woman equal to her (looks wise) in your country.
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Jasper , whatever you see both sides of the coins when they’re no longer happy with the marriage , just let her/ him out of the mess . Imao, if you marry an older guys let’s say , 65-70,75 yrs old , do you think that guy will still have to work . He might end up like a “coach potato” while that Filipina because still young have to endure and work hard or she sees her husband goes out drinking , partying and leaving the Filipina do the chores at home and does errands . It’s should be balance . Filipinos in general are hard working people. It’s not only some Filipinos are doing it , there are also some EU nationalities have the same way of mentality .
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BREAK that SIMP Bank 😂 same applies to Older women bringing men from Africa 2 D west seen it a few times. DUMPED after passport arrived in the mail 😂
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Hypergamy knows no bounds.
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When there's no moral values, and when people lack of knowledge about the real issues... you'll get degrading comments on Filipina... they should stay in Philippines and live simple life... Ano
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oh!! that's what i like in this CHANNEL ! FACTs my BOY
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You are correct sir !
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Not every filpino wants go to the west
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your changing the nationality, its suppose to be 100% nationality
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So true
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Re Age-Gap relationships in the states - I've gone to this rodeo 3 times now.
When I was younger and married to my 2nd and 3rd wives, both Filipinas who were 20 years younger than me, we had problems which eventually led to divorce. In both these marriages I was still working and my wives learned to drive and went out to work. Outside the house they were constantly hit upon by horny younger guys and asked why they were married to the "Old Guy". Both marriages ended in divorce.
My current wife is 32 years younger, but we do not have the same problems because - (1) neither one of us works, other than taking care of my 99 yo mother. I am retired with a very good pension, (2) my wife does not drive and has no desire to learn to drive, because anywhere we go, we go together, so I drive. She never goes anywhere alone, so has no outside friends, and (3) like almost every Filipinas who come to the states, she does not want to live here permanently, she dreams of the day we will go back to the Phils - but until then, Jasmine is very happy that I Showed her the World.
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Man man man.. you still don't learn.. read your own comment at once... at least don't live in US all the time in a year...!!
Would it work if I was mid 40’s and was in good shape, somewhat handsome guy (no problem meeting women here in California) if I brought back my Filipina wife to the states? Just asking because there’s a high chance I will be heading there next year.
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I’m the exact same guy as you and I would not do it
@@JasperinthePhilippines I posted that comment mid video. I heard at the end you answered my question. Love your content brother, thank you so much for what you do.
@@Its_SteeeveDumb risk to take bro. Why stack the deck against you?
@@sfrealestatedealmaker6001 all good. I appreciate the advice. I think I’m more interested or infatuated with the idea of it, and not so much actually doing it.
great perspective
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This video is totally spot on and as Red Pill as it should be. But you also have just explaineed why the "I am an high value man" stuff is not a great argument. You are high value *WHERE* and *FOR WHOM* ? Because try being high value in Dubai or Hong Kong. Try flaunt your $120k/year at Miami or LA. You'd be seen as a bum. Try gloating about your digital income to a VIP club where girls expect to be served $2k bottles, flown over by you and invited on your yacht. Even if you factor in the multi-variated concept of high value man exposed by Kevin Samuels, you are still defined by status and connections, besides money. In Philippines being high value is not a challenge if you come from an high salary country. You are simply given the $$$ cheat codes by your country's economy, nothing to get personally proud about.
Hey sweetie how much do you make $10 an hour?
@@JasperinthePhilippines You wish. I am currently living on a FIRST WORLD tropical island, where a 350 sq/ft room costs $800/month. I am in a 915 sq/ft apartment with garage and rooftop. I spend 3h a day in the gymn and have 2 meals at restaurant (I can't cook an egg, sadly!). We have 27-28° all year long, with decently low humidity.
See, I can puff my chest too.
My only reason to come to Philippines is to find a proper marriage grade girl. Here's full of very beautiful latinas coming over from South America but they are all totally sluttified and westernized, tattooed and pierced so they are worthless. My last date she stopped me at lunch because "first I have to perform my *DRUIDIC RITUAL* ". I dumped her before we even warmed up the seats.
Sadly I do know that it'd be a totally dumb effort to find that marriage girl and bring her over to my archipelago. One year later she'd be turned into a f3m1n4zi Jeezebel like all the others.
So I do need to come over Phils, go live in a hot city where you get devastated by humidity when you leave the aircon condo and even BGC central roads look quite second-grade compared when I was at Milan, Rome and Paris. All to get and keep a girl who my father could have found 5 miles away off his home but a contemporary man has to run across the world to find her.
Almost as equally bad, I'd have to sell my beloved vintage sports car before I leave here and get some Hyundai in Davao City or Iloilo.
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If she moves on, then find another one and again and again and again.
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Cheaters always cheat, even in the Philippines.
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@@JasperinthePhilippines Ok Ok.
So true don't send money to anyone
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Unless you make her a full time housewife in the USA taking care of your kids, there’s a chance you would lose her. It’s life, not all, but it’s true.
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Agree
Why has my wife not left me? We don't know but one out of maybe 50 who left their husband in America. I call BS on this video. Wife and I by the way are 12 years in.
Congratulations brother
@johnnybetrading shut your pie hole stupid
I hear ya im divorced keep them home
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what downtown is that view?
Makati
@@JasperinthePhilippines Salamat, i might try three or four months in January somewhere not too hot, Bagiuo area or similar, i wNt some heat but dont want to roast every day, thoughts?
@@joepaquet4332 Baggio is very cool, But Makati is bearable
Have you personally been burnt by a Filipina? I’ve watched several of your vids and you reinforce repeatedly these women will leave you as soon as they have their financial freedom.
Never love Filipinas
Excellent content Jasper… great advice!👊🏽
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If a man finds his life partner soul mate and eventually returns to the US, even for a while, which can happen for any number of reasons, he isn't going to leave her behind...
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It's a shame that you still talking like that.. maybe in the 70,80or late 90 you can say that, you make $15 hour here you be homeless $20 maybe you can rent room from your friend, bring your Filipina here they have to work two jobs... here you become slave just to make ends meet, it's a mental state soon as you get here...Ano
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Most filpinos can't wait get out of the west.
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That’s hush reality.
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@@JasperinthePhilippines Bro why don’t you link up with Rubeauti she happens to live in Manila. She is UA-camr like you.
@@rrrrrrny she’s a western type woman. She’s rich. She never reached out.
@@rrrrrrny don’t know that she’s interested.
@@JasperinthePhilippines Yes she act western.
Hypergamy = nature at work.
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