🇵🇭 The HUGE PROBLEM with Dating YOUNG FILIPINAS (18-28) in the Philippines EXPOSED!
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- The truth about dating in the Philippines as a western man 40-80 years old with a young Filipina 18-25 etc… #jasperinthephilippines #bgc #boracay #filipina #bonifacioglobalcity #manila #philippines #agegap #passportbros #expat #dumaguete #travel #makati #cebu #digitalnomad
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Generally true ....but...Different strokes for different folks. If that's what an old geezer wants, more power to him. Dying with a smile on his face with a young Filipina beats being a lonely old man in a nursing home in the US.
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@@JasperinthePhilippines The only practical reason to have a relationship and/or marry a young Filipina or any young woman for that matter is to start a family. PERIOD! A woman is at peak fertility from mid-teens thru her 20s. If a man already has children or has no intent for more children, there is little to no benefit other than for his ego & bragging rights. Biologically a man can father healthy children well into his 70s, 80s and possibly even 90s. Women enter high risk child-bearing stage in her 30s. Yes, women have been known to give birth in their 50s. But those are RARE EXCEPTIONS rather than the rule.
As someone who has been here for a long time, and enjoys the PH like you do, you are the only you tuber who doesn’t ever sugarcoat things.
Thanks bro 🙏
Absolutely right. Most videos go on and on about how you can live like a king for $1,000 a month, and how every single Filipina will be drooling over you even with a 40 year age gap. It's nice to have an honest one.
In the west, if an older man starts a conversation with much younger woman, she may think this man is creepy unless you are rockstar like Mick jagger.
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Especially creepy if its Mick
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The reason large age gaps are socially acceptable in PH is because the locals know she’s doing it for her family and her own financial wellbeing.
100%. My girlfriend told me a little saying that Filipinos have. when they see a lopsided age gap couple. “Another foreigner pulling our countrywomen out of poverty”
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I'm 37. I'll go 18 to 27. My girl is 25. I personally think 10-20yrs is the sweet spot
Also, i think these men know it's an arrangement. I would like to think they've no delusions about that. Each party gets what they want
All good
Yup 🎯 on the arrangement
Undercover Sugar Daddy. That is hilarious, but you aren’t kidding, the place is loaded with them and they stick out like a sore thumb. 😂✌️
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Do we think that they don't know it? I'm betting most know exactly what's going on, with only a few being delusional.
This channel is honest. Your candor is very welcome. With so many Phillipine YT channels to choose from. I appreciate this one the most. Thx Jasper
Thank you my friend 🙏
Hi Jasper, sadly but true. . . Cheers from Sydney
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I don't go after a woman younger than 24 Jasper. It's not about youth and beauty for me. Maturity and attitude are the key factors for a good LTR. Fortunately Asian women do age gracefully. A 35 year old single mother in Cebu, is equivalent to a 27 year old bachelorette from Chicago.
Same here. 29
DONT GIVE MONEY TO THEM!! That is common sense and Filipina nurses working here in US! Never send money
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Most Filipinas by 35 look fat, check how their mother looks
Finally, someone addressed this. My plan would be a maximum of 10 years. Im 55 will be around 60 by the time I get there. I would feel weird if i dated a 25 - to 30 year old maybe 45, at most .
Smart man
Once again, great video... looking forward to my second trip to The Philippines. I do miss the culture and peacefulness of a secluded beach or mountaintop.
Yes sir. Salamat
Love the vlogs always Good info 👍🏴
Thanks bro
Nothing wrong with an exchange of value. Sugar culture is popular in the states too.
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Good advice, I’m an older guy that gets teenage girls attracted to me but since I was a little boy I have always been attracted to older women. We all have are curses and now that I’m older, older women still aren’t happening for me but younger ones readily available. Thanks for sharing.
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Im going to start calling it the " High school syndrome," the fantasy that we could have never scored with these beautiful women in high school.
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You should try a video of interviewing philippine men of how they think of foreigners in their country. Ranging from attitudes and dating to pros and cons
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Thanks for the video brother. One thing I've learned as a man growing up is that we are seen for what we can give. Once I accepted this I just took accountability for my actions and don't blame others. I doubt Kings or tribal chiefs back in the day cared that all his wives and side chicks were there only because of his wealth and power...he probably just enjoyed it and saw it for what it is. Same with older dudes in SE Asia should just enjoy it for what it is. I must say that women are different though. I've dated beautiful 18 year olds in Manila and Leyte in my 30s who are caring and sweet and don't ask for money but I've had some who are only there for the cash and they were a whole range of ages. In the west women in their 40s and 50s with three kids are making demands 😂 I guess it's what you're willing to put up with but I'd rather be a 60 yr old in Asia than in the west for sure.
Understood & the 18 year olds were able to hang out with you and stay in western accommodations & eat mostly western style with you so this a huge upgrade for them alone with no actual money exchanged.
@@JasperinthePhilippines Some of them are happy just for a stroll in the park and invited me back to their place a bunch. Felt more human whereas in the west everything seems transactional. Career this...get this...achieve this...
Hmmm. An 18 year old with their own place? In Philippines? You never paid for a meal
Or a coffee and it was a 1 time stroll?
@@JasperinthePhilippines Well one girl it was her aunt's place in Makati and the aunt was back in the provinces for the week and another was studying at Quezon University so had her own spot there. Just small apartments with that poor Philippines look not a condo lol I took them out for food obviously but they invited me over and cooked for me. Plenty of strolls in places seeing the Philippines culture. But there were some girls as soon as Ianded they were asking for money 😅 just every girl is different or maybe I'm just lucky
Ha ha nice.
To them your wallet is the "BRAD PITT", but they see your face if your 50 and above as "BAD PITS" !! LOL
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My wife's cousin married an American years ago. She was 19 and he was around 70 old enough to be her grandfather. He died only a year or two after she was married to him. After that the party girl came out but I think she was faithful to him. I guess the older guy had fun the last year or 2 of his life.
Yeah, it’s like an arrangement
Yes your info is 100% correct for your video. The rule of thumb is if your very desirable in your country, cause your great looking, super healthy, got a superb personality, and also have enough money to live and support you’re shared lifestyle with a woman, you’ll be popular anywhere in the world for women to also be with you, for you and not your money solely for the age gap experience. 1/2 your age plus seven years at least is a workable gap. The closer the ages the better for a long term relationship that will endure many ups and downs, that are normal for the course.😊
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Good Stuff!
Salamat
Bust and move, relationship are for romantics 🙂↔️
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My Filipina wife is 1 year younger than me. Some of our friends had a 20 year age difference which was shocking to me, but they most of the time it worked out assuming the husbands treated their wives good. The Filipinas that I know moved to America on a K1 visa.
Yeah, as long as the money doesn’t run out, you should be OK or if you’re actually handsome and there’s attraction there I always say up to 20 years but better to keep it to 10 or something
Which beach, island, hotel is this shoot at ?
Boracay
yes, there are women like that! those who treat their older foreign men like a financial amelioration program. but as a considerably young woman with my own career and still extending my studies with the help of my family and myself, I never asked money from the guy I am talking to now and I sincerely find him attractive especially his personality :)
What’s his age and what’s yours.
Your right
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If that 20 year old - and 20 years younger than you - feminine and affectionate woman is having babies for you: that's as real as it gets - doesn't matter if she doesn't "really" love you for real.
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I’m 42, I think I’m a bit attractive. I def don’t get play here in the states. I don’t want a fem my age so I guess ill be alone for the rest of my life lol
Wow
I was 44 my first time traveling in the Philippines with the intention to meet young beautiful Filipina’s 20-25. Sure I might have been able to find a beautiful girl this age at the gym in SoCal near my home and work. But how much selection do I get at 44? A fraction of the selection that I found in the Philippines. I’m very happy with my selection 😊
@@hardmtnbiker wow I def need to go
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Can you talk sometimes about older guys who are actually a bit like a brad pit type?
Sure
If you are looking to have children , ages 18-23 are the best ages…if not , 30 plus is most admirable
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My last wife here in Australia was 15 years younger than me .. she loved me .. 22 ...me. 37 .. she died in a car at 38 .. since then I've dated Australian women here that were up to 22 years younger .. haven't spent a cent on them ..I'm 64 now ..I've had Filipina women that were 50 ..37 ..42 ..they all wanted money .. my current gf is 24 yo province girl .. doesn't ask for anything .. her past bf of 3 years .. Filipino ...cheated on her ..treated her like crap .. . She's a lovely girl with an innocent soul .. wouldn't give her up for all the gold
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I am fine seeing a girl 1 or 2 nights a week from 9pm to 9am. Can have two houses
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comes right gown to it , it doesn't matter how old you are if your not going to pay the way
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So tell me, what is your opinion on the bar girls nearing their thirties and settling with some mediocre Western guy?
The girls that started to innocently date foreigners, noticed the easy money it provided, and soon were dating multiple foreigners at the same time and alternating their visits. With the occasional p4p. We all know those hot girls that work in the bars, and flock in places like Royal and Revel looking for foreing providers. Sleeping with every white guy they can find.
I've seen a lot of them settle with boring beta guys from the West when they are the second half of their twenties, usually with men not too much older than them. Always decent earners, let's say 150k+, but boring. Quickly marrying and moving to Australia, Western Europe and The States. Having babies within the year.
Same as an American woman sick of getting abus3d by bad boy chads and settles down with the it dep dork. That’s just the way it goes. Get it how you live. 😂
All intimate relationships are transactional period!!
Well I’ve had many women in the USA that made 10x what I did that paid for everything so you’re right!
@@JasperinthePhilippines BS. I don’t believe you
This guy is not truthful
Moving to the Philippines to date women in their 40s or over 35 for that matter is just plain ignorant. 😂 Each to his own.
😂😂😂😂 or you’re just a plain ignorant perv grandpa 👴 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Guys can at least tip the odds in their favour by looking after their body. I see way too many dudes in Asia with a body that looks like a train wreck.
Proper diet, lift weights every day, check test levels every 6 months, it helps a lot.
A beer gut, shorts and flipflops ain't doing these guys any favours.
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Until now....sana all
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As we age, SMV is subjective and dependent upon how well kept you are. Just hit the gym, don’t be a fat piece of shit, take care of your skin, be well groomed and have a good sense of fashion. I’m 36 and still pulling younger women and I credit that with having good game. My colleagues are 40-50s and doing the same.
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@@JasperinthePhilippines hell yeah man, forget all the limiting beliefs and the black pill bs
I’m not limited at all in any country, but I speak for the masses and for the average guys with average Game, average, speaking ability, etc.
What makes me laugh, are the guys who are say 55 to 60, but they say ' oh I work out and only look late thirties ' lol, Filipinas don't care what you look like!! they care about the size of your wallet, all about the money haha
I’m sorry that you feel that way. I agree many 60 yr olds are fooling themselves by saying 30s. 😂
However. Filipinas do have it in them to be attracted to foreigners that aren’t old as dirt. Get one way big money that pays often. She has to be attracted when she already lives at your level and pays for damn near half. You will see
If you’re ugly youre ugly. Yadiiiiiigggg 😂😂😂😂😂
@@JasperinthePhilippines Yeah until she finds someone better haha, they like trading up
I have always said. I’m my girls best option right now. She’s my best option right now. That may change on either end at any time.
i love older matured women
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I'm older, not a Brat Pitt for damn sure but I have all the money I ever want or need. The question is, can I fool myself and live with the illusion this 24 year old who is 5'3 with a killer body of 24-18-24 really loves me? Not only can it happen but at this point throw common sense out the window LOL
Understood 🤝
As I watch this video again, I decided to opine why I wouldn't care about someone else's opinion about the girl I want to be with. I don't give a rat's behind why anyone's opinion matters in the few years of my life. I'm almost 70 old, wrinkled and ugly. There is no argument on those. No one on this green earth can convince me that I look handsome. I see myself in the mirror every morning and I know what my reality is. If my wife dies tomorrow, I will be on a plane right after the funeral heading to the Philippines, looking for a twenty something year old beautiful filipina. I cannot live alone for a day without a wife. Personally, I have a decent pension and benefits that can only be transferred to my wife if or when I die. So, if my wife dies before I do, I want all my pension and benefits go to the young filipina wife whom I will betroth in the Philippines. At least she will enjoy a decent life. If that's the last thing I do, my life is a success. Who cares what shed does with my money? I'm dead am I not? Just saying!
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I thought that it was hard to "retaliate" against Jasper's truth bombs. But you proved me wrong !!!
You are correct. He is right, but the bottom line is, who cares, after a certain point??
And as I told a friend of mine (not only talking about Philippines), why should we go gentle into that good night??
Brad Pitt here, I am Brad Pitt all over the world.
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Older women in Philippines you will probably be paying for 3 kids so you are going to be paying for the relationship either way.
lol. Not me.
Do Philippine men resent westerners coming there, by the tens of thousands, and scooping up their young, pretty girls?
Most of the women westerners date are not desired by them.
Thanks! I appreciate the info. Interesting to know.@@JasperinthePhilippines
Yup
Do you want kids bro ?
No
Don't be a fool
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Duh, all males are providers of resources in all societies
Well, if you’re low value and have no sexual marketplace, that’s true
@@JasperinthePhilippines This is high school level bragging. Unmistakable
You’re a low value Beta walking wallet I understand
@@JasperinthePhilippines I won’t respond in kind.
Yeah, this is not the channel for you tune in to a grandpa.
Brad Pitt is going on 60. Rob Lowe, Tom Cruise, Johnny Depp, all pushing or over 60. Some of us are still in shape and handsome. Money in the pocket makes us killer catches.
I’m speaking about young versions of those
Even in good shape women look at your face. Stay out of the sun and don’t be an afraid to get a facial.
There’s guys in their 30-40s that have money too
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for sure .. PLENTY of guys in their 30s and 40s who look like sh*t tho .. fat lazy blobs ugh .. imagine what they'll look like in their 50s 60s and beyond .. scary lol
yeah .. look at Rob Lowe and how handsome that guy still is .. puts millions of younger men to shame .. i emulate him .. wear sunblock .. workout .. eat right .. drink LOTS of water .. don't smoke .. don't drink or drink moderately .. be a skin care fanatic and if blessed with a full head of hair all the better .. PLUS you are financially secure .. life as an older man is pretty sweet aahhh
From your experience, do you think it would be possible to both settle down with someone close to my age and have a young sugar baby? Do you think a Filipino woman would accept that or am I dreaming a little too big? 😂
Short answer no. Unless they are both sugar babies.
Jasper, you are becoming an expert. We still want to see your face. lol
No thx
@@JasperinthePhilippines why you don't want to see your face because we all know you are not bad looking? Come on..
Oh, I’m not looking to be famous
@@JasperinthePhilippines But you will garner more subscribers if you show your face!
My subs are 41k. We good