Yes, that's what I though too. Although, my and my friend were kinda in a similar situation, I was in love with her and she was straight. But after some time, things got cleared out and now we are good friends again ❤️.
Gurl-19 Well girls can be like that. I know it can be hard to understand at times but they tend to develop close bonds with each other. However it doesn't necessarily mean their not straight because a certain set of boundaries is usually in place.
How did the brunette girl not get the hint that the blonde one liked her when the skit literally started with them like cuddling 😂. But anyways this is really heartbreaking
Honestly I don't know why lol I used to ask my friend to cuddle like that and we would, before I said I liked her. My other friend even compared us to Dan and Phil saying we acted like an old married couple lmao. But yea this is horrible
straight girls are weird man... that's why i had some troubles with some of them... i thought they were hitting on me and in the end it was alll a friend's thing. Apparently cuddling and holding hands is something that straight girls do all the time
This sends a good message. It shows that heterosexual people cannot suddenly 'choose' to be gay, also showing that homosexual people cannot 'choose' to be straight. Homosexuality is not a choice.
tavianna brooks A choice indicates that you can weigh good and bad and make a conscious decision to stop loving someone, which you can't so it's not a choice, don't say it is. You can choose to get into a relationship, but if you don't love that person it will end.
Straight girls have to be aware that they can't play around or tease lesbians and bi girls this way. I know you're just doing it as a best friend but they can fall for you if you do this too much. And some might think you're into them as well. So please do them a favor and treat them like a friend, not a girlfriend. Unless you think that they're straight and they haven't told you. Then that's not your fault. You didn't know. And lesbians and bi girls, remember that they're straight. They won't ever be into you. I know it hurts, but you can't force sexuality. They were born straight and they can't control how they feel.
I consider myself bisexual because I've been in relationships with women, however, very recently, I found myself in the same situation with a friend from work. I realized I had fallen head over heals in love with him and I thought the things we did together meant that we were closer than just friends. I told him I was bisexual and he didn't seem to change at all around me, I know that meant he accepted me for who I was but it was during a very personal talk we had. I thought that left our friendship in an ambiguous place between friends and more than friends and it was driving me mad! He knew I liked someone from work and liked playing the guessing game to figure out who it was. When he finally figured out it was him, he told me he was only interested in women and it would always be women. He told me he was okay with who I am but would not be if I chose to try and court him. I was devastated. I truly thought we had a connection. His friendship means more than anything to me, so I respect his wishes, but if I hadn't told him...if I had mistaken some private moment as an intimate moment...I wonder what would have happened? Would we be friends still? Could we have been more? Maybe we wouldn't be on talking terms.... Though it is my firm belief every person has the potential to be bisexual, it's also my belief that some people simply cannot conceptualize being in a same sex relationship. However, love is love, and I feel that if you were to share enough intimate or personal moments with someone, you would begin to see a future with them.
I'm also bisexual, but somehow I'm hiding it from all of my friends and just can't come out to them. But after reading what you wrote now, that gave me inspiration and courage to maybe do it. I really don't want to hide this from my friend, but it's just so difficult to tell them I am bisexual.
Damn, this is almost my exact situation here... I'm only at the part where I hint to my best friend that I liked one of my friends of the same sex. She's even bi, like me, and we both know it, so I know I have a bit of a chance. Any advice? :/
When you say people have the potential to be bisexual you further the argument that homosexuality/heterosexuality is a choice. I agree with the statement you made after that one, that humans can't help what gender they fall in love with. I agree that people shouldn't let social stigmas or other beliefs deter their possibilities of finding love
Fantasy Elf You shouldn't to have a big 'coming out' speech if they're really your friends. Just start being yourself and they'll soon realise. No one has to come out straight, so why come out as bisexual or homosexual?
+Destiny Barnes im balling,been through this minus the kiss. I knew she was straight and decided id love her like a guardian rather then romantically (but i have boyfriend tendencies haha)
this mad me cry in the inside... i remember when this happening to me... i have a friend that likes me... she kissed me thinking i liked her and soon i noticed i was not straight... i was bisexual. this really made me sad... now I'm dating her and feel happy.
my best friend , i love her i have for so so long, she knows im gay, and yet she treats me like we are dating, it hurts because i know we can never be together because she is straight and dating my other bestfriend
this is why the insanely close relationship between female best friends gets me pissed off, because you can't tell whether they're flirting with you or not. and when they make it clear that they aren't, they just sort of torture you by being super touchy and over-complimenting you with you knowing that they'll never be yours.
Well that isn't really their fault, is it? People perceive things in different ways. Some people are really open with their friends and that could be taken as flirty whereas it's not intended that way.
and now I am sobbing because I am in this situation nearly exactly and we both know that I'm on the hard side of things (edit) it’s been a couple years and it’s been a wild ride, but I’ve moved on and me and the gal I loved are closer than ever. I still love her always, but it’s changed and it will for you too. -definitely keep ranting in this thread because it’s the best way to work through it in my experience. but it does get better guys.
... sincere, condolences for you lot. Please, nobody feel offended because that is not my intention at all, but is homosexuality a choice? I personally don't believe that it is, but hey, I'm heterosexual. What do I know.
+Emman Pascual no. Of course it's not. Nobody in their right mind would ever choose to be something that'll cause them to lose friends, get kicked out of their home (if they're a child), or even get fired from their job. It's something that you are since birth. Almost all gay people I know have known they were gay since kindergarten. Took me a lot longer than them to realize I'm bisexual but yeah. Thanks for being polite about this.
Don't fall for straight girls. It's happened to me many times before. One girl even said she liked girls too, yet she only ever flirted with and dated guys. It's just really heartbreaking.
Life isn't fantasy, Amanda. It's tragedy. This is how it ends. They never talk again, the brunette probably gets happily married and has 5 kids, and the blonde overdoses on heroin because she can't handle the pain of reality.
No Name whoa, why can't they still be friends, and both happily married with whoever they want at the end? chill dude, no one has to die for overdose just to make it seem real lol
Whenever I'm with my best friend she always holds my hand and hugs me and idk what to do and I like when she does it but then I feel like since she isn't gay then I shouldn't reciprocate idk
Wait.If she gets flirty like grabs your thigh or something try kissing her cheek.If she doesnt like it she will take it as something friendly.And if she like you she will kiss you on the lips
It hurts really bad when you have a crush on your straight friend for a LONG time and then when you tell them how you feel, they just don't feel the same way 😔
I love how the straight girl was respectful at the end. I have straight friends who claim they're okay with the fact that I like girls but any time it comes up in conversation they get obviously uncomfortable with it. I hate how all of my straight friends are okay with gay people until they find out I'm one of them. It's so obvious they think I'm predatory or something
If I was gay my friend would never act like that. Maybe they're not your friends, if you're not comfortable around them with such important topic as liking someone
in english class we had to write about something that happened in our life. my friend wrote about how she became lesbian. our teacher wrote this: "I'm not judging you, but this isn't school appropriate."
+Megan W You should take his notes to the higher ups, because saying that talking about someones sexuality is not appropriate because it is not the norm is just scandalous.
I thought the actors were great. Their delivery and character were so natural and believable. As well as the script they excellently showed of the story very well
im in tears. its so much harder as a girl! we are all touchy as friends anyway and its so much worse with girls who flirt as a joke. how will i ever confess?
Unslaad Krosis The feels...show of hands to how many of us who have actually gone through something like this...! At least her straight girl was cool...clueless but cool.
I'm in the same situation I'm in love with my girl best friend and they have a girlfriend. So i kinda have to deal with it. They also live miles away and we met over the internet and have been best friends for a while now. She told me the only reason she wouldn'tt date me is because of the distance between us.
It really is. It's so awful wanting to hold your girlfriend's hand while walking down the street, but you can't because you're afraid of people whispering and pointing at you. Also, coming out to your parents is really stressful and nerve racking. I had sweat patches after doing it.
Hannah B Yeah, but as for the holding hands part, thankfully society is becoming more and more accepting as the years pass. I still remember when my parents were judged for having tattoos by people every time they went out and now, years later, people can't stop asking questions about their tattoos and admiring them. It's not the same situation, but it's the same concept--people are growing more accepting. One day homosexuality will be so normal that there will be no need to even support it at all.
E Games yeah not a big deal, sitting down and the looks begin... stares, kids talking, parents glaring... Parents taking their children away, children asking why and crying in confussion..... As the parents go away you hear them saying 'did those girls do anything to you? what did they say?? you know that's not right! They're sick in the head. You should not talk to people like them' and suddendly the park is empty and your date ruinned. Or better yet, entering a store and every damn employee staring at you and our partner and laughing, making terrible comments, being kicked out. No biggie.
Not necessarily. Being how the other girl is straight she probably doesn't pay attention to how lesbians dress, act, ect. Also girls for some reason tend to develop close bonds with each other so they get comfortable with laying besides each other, cuddling and stuff like that. So for her it was friendly and not flirtatious.
this is almost exactly my situation rn, except she hasnt had the chance to turn me down. i never confessed because i was too afraid that _this_ would happen.
Being gay is not a choice at all. No one "chooses" to be judged, to be bullied, to feel like they don't belong, to be something they're afraid to be, to be something they wanna hide. Being gay is a good thing, just as good as being heterosexual. You can choose to be straight just as much as you can choose to be gay. It sucks that you need to be brave just to be who you were born to be, because gay people were born like that and no, it is not a matter of opinion. Just like some were born with blue eyes others where born with a different gender identity than heterosexual. It sucks that some people would rather die than be who they are... and it sucks even more that that is our fault as members of society.
I agree, people don't choose to be discriminated against, it tends to come with the package sadly, lots of things are like this, but the world is starting to change, and, just to tell you, I haven't felt what it's like for being discriminated against for being gay, but it can tell you what it's like for being discriminated against for being atheist, it sucks. Thankfully, the world is slowly becoming more and more accepting of people, and I hope that someday we will all be treated fairly.
I've just realised that I'm bisexual and I don't know what to do. I haven't told anyone and I don't know how to, I'm scared it'll seem out of the blue and weird because I don't know anybody in my family or friendship group in the lgbt community.
+Phoebe Hubbard You dont have to figure everything out immediately. Do you have tumblr? Search for someone to talk to, even if it's a stranger. I think being bi might be a little more confunsing than just being gay, cause lots of feelings and everything. Just give yourself some time to process this.
dont fall for straight girls man. dont do it. yikes. we've all been there. especially since the girl i loved acted like she liked girls and always talked about "wow this girl is so sexy" etc.
+becca s That must be hard... Though you have to understand straight girls can also find other girls sexy and appealing, just not romantically. I also sometimes comment on a nice booty or a sexy girl haha but I'm straight, I don't fall in love with them.
Not the exaaaact same story...but check out Erynn and Scarlet (the two actresses) in the second season of our web series Karmic! It explores LGBTQ issues.
Ok, how could she not have had a clue about her friend being a lesbian when they were spooning at the beginning of the video, with her friends arms running up and down her side?
Oh, that's actually a new thing for me, because I have never heard of straight people that have no romantic feelings for each other that lie in sexual/romantic positions
Simran Persic like to me that's not a sexual/romantic position. with people I am truly close with it's like a hug where you get to lay down, seriously two of my favorite things to do with my favorite people.
confusedpretzels Yeah, I usually do think of that as romantic, and I've never met someone that doesn't, but it's interesting and really cool to know views of other people :)
I came down here to say the same thing. Usually people in romantic relationships do that. Not saying platonic relationships don't have that, but if I see someone spooning, chances are ppl are going think something's going on
thank you buzzfeed for making me too scared to ask out my crush-best friend. I was to scared for 3 months after I saw this video(and others similar), but I am happy to report I asked her out a few days ago and she said yes! She said had a crush on me for years but was to scared to do anything. Just to anyone in the comment section, its better to take the risk and tell them than to never know!
Luke Briody There are a lot of straight persons that accept gays. Especially in Buzz Feeds Comments ^^ But you don't notice them because we don't have that much to comment unlike the homophobes.
This is beautiful, honestly. I'm quite proud of buzzfeed for actually being able to come up with stuff like this. I'm pretty straight myself in fact aro, but this is story I would want them to continue. Am I right? #SpreadTheLovePeople
Just a quick message for people who have been in this situation that I wish someone would’ve told me earlier in my life: If you love a friend; someone who’s been there for you and you can trust, and that you’d want to start a relationship with. If they met or went way beyond your expectations for a girlfriend/boyfriend, why would you end such a strong, beautiful, healthy friendship just because they don’t feel the same way? They’re still the same person (unless they don’t want to friends anymore because you’re not straight, in which case leave them because that’s wrong). A true friend would still trust you and be there for you no matter what. So why would you leave them? Because they just want to be friends? But before you confessed to them they were your friend! And listen, I know it’s difficult. The reason I’m commenting this is because I lost several of my best friends because I never told myself this. I know, I feel you. But trust me, you’ll regret it when you miss that one person that would do anything for you. Stay strong, everyone.
The whole time in the game felt like and incredibly warm love story between two women who are trying to find someone who is lost. But the way they killed off Chloe pissed me off so I refuse to play farther..
UA-camr Grudge, it's about lost best friends and chole did love someone else before Max and that was Rachel who was better then Max cause she was actually there for her while Max didn't even keep connected...it depends how you play it.
I'm a Muslim and I'm completely fine with LGBT people. I support whatever people think love is. But I don't feel I'll ever forgive myself if I was LGBT, due to my religion.
But the thing is: If you were to be gay, you would have to find a way to deal with it. And do you really think that your god dispises this? _______________________ Being an Atheist does not make you instantly smart.
I love how this doesn’t have a happy ending. It's realistic, sometimes things don't work out.
i dont want to relate but i doooo
sooo relatable.. i wish i could just date the blond girl, she's amazing :)
Emily Ki
Emily Kirk s
Emily Kirk yea true but it's still more fun to fantasize 😂
big respect to the straight girl for trying, and still accepting the other girl despite the risk of things being awkward
Yes, that's what I though too. Although, my and my friend were kinda in a similar situation, I was in love with her and she was straight. But after some time, things got cleared out and now we are good friends again ❤️.
I was cringing so bad
Srsly
Shoes on the bed?!?
It take ages to get all the sand and dirt off!!
Same here
this comment made me wheeze
Femke Vdw i was cringing but im also so sad now
True
Okay, Monica Geller
how is spooning and touching hands in any way straight hahah
Gurl-19 Well girls can be like that. I know it can be hard to understand at times but they tend to develop close bonds with each other. However it doesn't necessarily mean their not straight because a certain set of boundaries is usually in place.
Because that’s just how straight friendships work. You’re allowed to be close like that and not be gay
They are probably best friends.
@@mildredguzman-young352 I understand why it can be confusing for gay women.
They definitely seemed like both lesbians for like the first minute before one of them started talking about boys
Can I just say, the acting is really, really good.
SuperGenericMan Thank you so very much!
Scarlet Sheppard Don't mention it.
Scarlet Sheppard Subbed to you, good job. :)
SuperGenericMan I agree!
Agree
Oh god when she said " i just love you" I died.
chloe
I love you
Laughing...?
I'm not the flannel girl; I'm the flannel.
i'm a vegan
I'm genderfluid
cv
And I'm bisexual wanna have a party?
Dani Albrecht can you give me your facebook
How did the brunette girl not get the hint that the blonde one liked her when the skit literally started with them like cuddling 😂. But anyways this is really heartbreaking
I know right! That blondie is very pretty!
Honestly I don't know why lol I used to ask my friend to cuddle like that and we would, before I said I liked her. My other friend even compared us to Dan and Phil saying we acted like an old married couple lmao. But yea this is horrible
straight girls are weird man... that's why i had some troubles with some of them... i thought they were hitting on me and in the end it was alll a friend's thing. Apparently cuddling and holding hands is something that straight girls do all the time
I've cuddled with my friends before. It's a normal thing for some people.
Whats spooning?
This sends a good message. It shows that heterosexual people cannot suddenly 'choose' to be gay, also showing that homosexual people cannot 'choose' to be straight. Homosexuality is not a choice.
Best comment I've seen in the comment section yet, grats to you. Well said.
Well it is a movie where people act. But its is a choice... but its one that you want to be happy with
tavianna brooks A choice indicates that you can weigh good and bad and make a conscious decision to stop loving someone, which you can't so it's not a choice, don't say it is. You can choose to get into a relationship, but if you don't love that person it will end.
tavianna brooks wait, I don't think I heard you right. I thought you just said homosexuality is a choi- oh look you did. Well this is awkward.
tavianna brooks So I'm assuming you woke up one day and thought, "Hey, I'm going to be straight!" No? Well neither did people who are gay.
She's wearing Dean Winchester's bisexual flannel.
Oh my gods yes
DESTIEL!!!!!!!!!!!
SPN FAM AYE
DESTIEL!!!!
DESTIEL!!!
Straight girls have to be aware that they can't play around or tease lesbians and bi girls this way. I know you're just doing it as a best friend but they can fall for you if you do this too much. And some might think you're into them as well. So please do them a favor and treat them like a friend, not a girlfriend. Unless you think that they're straight and they haven't told you. Then that's not your fault. You didn't know. And lesbians and bi girls, remember that they're straight. They won't ever be into you. I know it hurts, but you can't force sexuality. They were born straight and they can't control how they feel.
I agree with this 100000000%
+Shopping is fun I know. But, damn, you want so badly to date them
+Shopping is fun straight girls don't know when they're doing it. BElieve me.
I love P!ATD
+Ryan Higa Lamp! At The Disco this!
Since when did Jennifer Lawrence and Uma Kompton became a thing
LOL
exposed
Sarah Pruijssers
I like your profile pic😏👅💦❤️
Lauren is hot
lol
eyyyy xD im dead
It sucks when youre crush doesnt like you I know the feeling : ' (
Same here :(
Same but not in a gay or lesbian way
I know that feeling TO WELL
:c
Everyone knows that feeling!
I consider myself bisexual because I've been in relationships with women, however, very recently, I found myself in the same situation with a friend from work. I realized I had fallen head over heals in love with him and I thought the things we did together meant that we were closer than just friends. I told him I was bisexual and he didn't seem to change at all around me, I know that meant he accepted me for who I was but it was during a very personal talk we had. I thought that left our friendship in an ambiguous place between friends and more than friends and it was driving me mad!
He knew I liked someone from work and liked playing the guessing game to figure out who it was. When he finally figured out it was him, he told me he was only interested in women and it would always be women. He told me he was okay with who I am but would not be if I chose to try and court him. I was devastated. I truly thought we had a connection. His friendship means more than anything to me, so I respect his wishes, but if I hadn't told him...if I had mistaken some private moment as an intimate moment...I wonder what would have happened? Would we be friends still? Could we have been more? Maybe we wouldn't be on talking terms....
Though it is my firm belief every person has the potential to be bisexual, it's also my belief that some people simply cannot conceptualize being in a same sex relationship. However, love is love, and I feel that if you were to share enough intimate or personal moments with someone, you would begin to see a future with them.
I'm also bisexual, but somehow I'm hiding it from all of my friends and just can't come out to them. But after reading what you wrote now, that gave me inspiration and courage to maybe do it. I really don't want to hide this from my friend, but it's just so difficult to tell them I am bisexual.
Damn, this is almost my exact situation here... I'm only at the part where I hint to my best friend that I liked one of my friends of the same sex. She's even bi, like me, and we both know it, so I know I have a bit of a chance.
Any advice? :/
When you say people have the potential to be bisexual you further the argument that homosexuality/heterosexuality is a choice. I agree with the statement you made after that one, that humans can't help what gender they fall in love with. I agree that people shouldn't let social stigmas or other beliefs deter their possibilities of finding love
Fantasy Elf You shouldn't to have a big 'coming out' speech if they're really your friends. Just start being yourself and they'll soon realise. No one has to come out straight, so why come out as bisexual or homosexual?
That was amazing
She is wearing FLANNEL. How could she not notice? :^)
I wear flannel and I'm the straightest person ever 😂
+Kira Swan yeah, because straight people say "I'm the straightest person ever".
It doesn't matter.
Is wearing flannel a gay trend or something...? Cause I love flannel but I'm straight.
+TaseTheRainbowxXAJ Its a silly sterotype like cats or beanies. Or like how gay guys always talk like a valley girl
"I hope Blake has a normal tounge"
If I said I would have been like
"I hope Blake has a normal tounge but let me tell you he can't work it like I can"
Did anyone else cry when she said I just love you
yes
yes
+Destiny Barnes im balling,been through this minus the kiss. I knew she was straight and decided id love her like a guardian rather then romantically (but i have boyfriend tendencies haha)
no!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Destiny Barnes NOPE NOT ME SRRY😉😊
This was beautifully written, and acted. It shows the struggle, that people may have. Me personally, I feel I wouldn't know what to do.
This situation is just so hard.
Crimbocat III *takes Gerard and runs* thankkkssssss
Crimbocat III no one shares gerard. We battle for him. *takes out sword*
Crimbocat III nuuuuuuu I did not sign up for this!
Nuuuu I am leaving with Gerard to Costa Unknown. Good luck finding me.
Crimbocat III *swivels* FINEEEE
Max and Chloe if they never got separated.
THATS EXACTLY WHAT I WAS THINKING
SAME
Lily Zelda So true!! : )
Lily Zelda 69 likes. Don't wanna ruin it.
Omg yes !!! ♡
this mad me cry in the inside... i remember when this happening to me... i have a friend that likes me... she kissed me thinking i liked her and soon i noticed i was not straight... i was bisexual. this really made me sad... now I'm dating her and feel happy.
but are u attracted to different girls though? or just her?
+April Mak her and also other girls but she is all mines now... and boys, don't get me wrong
+Tanariza Jiménez aww im happy that it worked out. :)
+Jennaye Pointer thx
Tanariza Jiménez :)
my best friend , i love her i have for so so long, she knows im gay, and yet she treats me like we are dating, it hurts because i know we can never be together because she is straight and dating my other bestfriend
ok
Same
:(
UPDATE : she kissed me in front of her boyrfriend and said she is still my friend
and is still dating her boyfriend
This entire video the only thing I was thinking was that the brunette would be an AMAZING voice actor.
Chr0me Cat Well thanks!
Scarlet Sheppard Haha, that was an unexpected turn! Great acting, by the way.
Scarlet Sheppard holy crap
anyone else binge watching lgbt short films or movies
Edit:Holy crap...thx for the likes👉👈🥺
elizabeth/max Bautista yup I want to come out I'm just so scared
Karina the Spooky Noodle same
69
elizabeth/max Bautista I’m sorry I had to
DaSpwoookySenpai same
The blonde looks like Jennifer Lawrence
Ya...
tru. tru
IKR OMF I THOUGHT ONLY I NOTICED THAT
I thought I was the only one...
AND SHAILENE!!
Haha straight girls can be so clueless sometimes
Zara Lee seeeriously.
Agreed
KRosey
tru
Zara Lee I don't think so... I think they definitely notice it, but decide to just ignore and dance around the problem until it goes away lol.
this is why the insanely close relationship between female best friends gets me pissed off, because you can't tell whether they're flirting with you or not. and when they make it clear that they aren't, they just sort of torture you by being super touchy and over-complimenting you with you knowing that they'll never be yours.
Yeahh... It pisses me off too...:/
same here :/
I know ugh it sucks
Well that isn't really their fault, is it? People perceive things in different ways. Some people are really open with their friends and that could be taken as flirty whereas it's not intended that way.
+christinnuendo I KNOW RIGHT
Life is Strange, anyone?
VERY...
This reminded me a lot of life is strange oddly.
WAS JUST ABOUT TO COMMENT THAF
+Microwave I thought that too.
YAAAAAS
the girl with the nose ring sounds a bit like Chloe from Life is Strange. In fact, this is a lot like Chloe & Max
KadenAadi Yasssss!!! I thought the same thing
KadenAadi Omg I thought the same too!
I know right?!
KadenAadi same omg I thought so too!!
That's just what I was thinking at first :D
arGHHHHHHH!! *angrily writes fanfiction about these two*
I'd read hat Xd
LINK
If you do make a fanfic put a link
Same
+Ariana Sanchez link .3.
I THOUGHT THIS WOULD HAVE A HAPPY ENDING NOPE
Saaaaame
Sydnificant yea but sadly some things don't work out :/
Sydnificant cll me 9096917806 friends
Sydnificant hi
hi
I've never related more to when she screamed "I'm not straight"
all this "going to hell" shit is driving me crazy. i already know im going to "hell" so at this point it's go big or go home.
Lol
I love this comment.
So you would rather suffer forever then be saved and live in peace forever?
yes Daniel thats the point
You are not, they are sinners for saying that not you, but you know what? Nobody does research~
and now I am sobbing because I am in this situation nearly exactly and we both know that I'm on the hard side of things
(edit) it’s been a couple years and it’s been a wild ride, but I’ve moved on and me and the gal I loved are closer than ever. I still love her always, but it’s changed and it will for you too.
-definitely keep ranting in this thread because it’s the best way to work through it in my experience. but it does get better guys.
leaharrowsuch awh i'm sorry :( it's really tough, the girl i love is my best friend too
... sincere, condolences for you lot. Please, nobody feel offended because that is not my intention at all, but is homosexuality a choice? I personally don't believe that it is, but hey, I'm heterosexual. What do I know.
+Emman Pascual no. Of course it's not. Nobody in their right mind would ever choose to be something that'll cause them to lose friends, get kicked out of their home (if they're a child), or even get fired from their job. It's something that you are since birth. Almost all gay people I know have known they were gay since kindergarten. Took me a lot longer than them to realize I'm bisexual but yeah. Thanks for being polite about this.
same bruh
shay xxnnxn
hey, random pansexual here; I've been through this A LOT.
LavaDrinker Gaming hey random PANSEXUAL I'm another random Pansexual and I have been through this a lot too
Hi coming from another random pansexual
same
Lisa Singing it’s when you like everyone no matter what gender or what they identify as
Hi there other pan person!
If the blonde girl had blue hair they'd look like Chloe and Max
hi
Josie Kilbride omfg that's so perfect
Josie Kilbride YAS
YESSSSSSS
The blonde girl is so pretty. If I was the brown haired girl I would have so kissed her.
It's weird because I find she has very vicious intimidating eyes and an angry face, but a very delicate and beautiful composure
+The Elmitts its probably the nose ring?
+Sunny Yeah probably
Right?
I know right! I'd be like,"KISS ME MORE BABE!" Yeah I'm bi in case if you didn't know. 😂
I relate to this too much. My crush is questioning her sexuality and I just have this fear that I'll be the one to show her she's straight
Me too,my crush is a girl
Same
Alora Moulton aloira.mouiton
So how'd it go?
Omg me and my crush were questioning our sexuality and then we kissed for fun and i realized im gay. She realized shes stright
it's tough to be lesbian or bisexual if you catch feelings your scared your gonna ruin the friendship
m o o d
Happening to me right now 😣
The blonde girl looks like j law
So damn True
maria ivanna Maria ur sweet friends 9096917806
The girl with the nose ring looks like Jen Laurence.
i thought of that too.. ;)
omg she does!
+Chloe Florip No she looks like my lady friend vanessa
+Chloe Florip What I was thinking.
Right? !!
Kinda reminds me of the scene in Faking It where Amy tells Karma her feelings and Karma rejects her for Liam
OMG so true
Omg I thought of that too
I had the same on my mind!:D
That show is soo good
What's you're msp?
i´m the girl in the flannel tbh
same...
Priscilla Ruiz that sucks!
from iran
Same.. I have a best friend who I have a small crush on
Maggie Wright I used to like my best friend. It didn´t work for me but hey!! maybe she likes you too. Don´t worry(:
this is my life in a buzzfeed video..
shash child you've already said dis comment
SAME
NumbingDiagram5
Gr8 m8.
same... it's kinda sad..
me too
It's Max and Chloe!
I was thinking the exact same thing
Yaassss
Tihs This is exactly what I was thinking ;u;
OH MY GOD I WAS THINKING THE SAME LOL ESPECIALLY WHEN SHE WAS SERVING HERSELF WINE OR ALCHOH OR WHATEVER THAT IS
OMG IT IS
Don't fall for straight girls. It's happened to me many times before. One girl even said she liked girls too, yet she only ever flirted with and dated guys. It's just really heartbreaking.
I want a continuation of this video, really, don't let this end like that
It may not be a happy ending but it is unfortunately a very realistic one
Yeaaaah me too!! This is like a tv novela
Life isn't fantasy, Amanda. It's tragedy. This is how it ends. They never talk again, the brunette probably gets happily married and has 5 kids, and the blonde overdoses on heroin because she can't handle the pain of reality.
No Name whoa, why can't they still be friends, and both happily married with whoever they want at the end? chill dude, no one has to die for overdose just to make it seem real lol
Amanda Lemes The situation ends for almost everyone like this. Happy endings are only happy because they rarely happen, unfortunately.
Whenever I'm with my best friend she always holds my hand and hugs me and idk what to do and I like when she does it but then I feel like since she isn't gay then I shouldn't reciprocate idk
Wait.If she gets flirty like grabs your thigh or something try kissing her cheek.If she doesnt like it she will take it as something friendly.And if she like you she will kiss you on the lips
same thing is happening to me..
same thing that happened to me. :/
Yeah I feel you. I'm in love with my straight best friend
I know how you feel x
Max and Chloe?!?!?!
That's what I thought lol
+Bullet Through Dove SO DID I
Same!!
omg omg omg so much i think im gonna cry aaaah
same.
both of these girls look and even seem just like the girls from that game "Life is Strange"
yasss
she totally sounds like chloe!
I thought the same thing!
YES
YES
It hurts really bad when you have a crush on your straight friend for a LONG time and then when you tell them how you feel, they just don't feel the same way 😔
IKR
It's sucks so much. That's why I'm never telling my best friend that I love her.
Yeah I have a crush on my best friend and one of my ex friends is telling my entire school I'm lesbian
My friend and I are both bi and I love her but it will never happen
well theyre straight so.. you cant just change their sexuality
I love how the straight girl was respectful at the end. I have straight friends who claim they're okay with the fact that I like girls but any time it comes up in conversation they get obviously uncomfortable with it. I hate how all of my straight friends are okay with gay people until they find out I'm one of them. It's so obvious they think I'm predatory or something
If I was gay my friend would never act like that. Maybe they're not your friends, if you're not comfortable around them with such important topic as liking someone
in english class we had to write about something that happened in our life. my friend wrote about how she became lesbian. our teacher wrote this:
"I'm not judging you, but this isn't school appropriate."
+Megan W You should take his notes to the higher ups, because saying that talking about someones sexuality is not appropriate because it is not the norm is just scandalous.
+Doofy Goofus how do u know its a guy..
You don't become a lesbian....
that's judging.
ariel Exactly. Teachers shouldn't say a sexuality isn't "school appropriate" just because they didn't teach about it.
that's fine, I didn't need my heart anyways
+megan welsh me either man *internally cries*
Wow,buzzfeed whats next a full movie, pictures quality was good, nice ambient music, decent storyline
8/10
I thought it was boring
Actors weren't that good
Except the fact that these actors are on beginner level. Not good enough for a full fledged movie.
I thought the actors were great. Their delivery and character were so natural and believable. As well as the script they excellently showed of the story very well
Actors were good at times
im in tears. its so much harder as a girl! we are all touchy as friends anyway and its so much worse with girls who flirt as a joke. how will i ever confess?
This is basically Max and Chloe from LIS
I love your name
Thank you
I Married An Egg your welcome :) happy new year too
Omg ur right
that's what i was thinking of
This is hurting me so much in so many ways, I can't even...
Lorena May I know right!!
Lorena May 1, 3, 5, 7, 9, 11
Unslaad Krosis The feels...show of hands to how many of us who have actually gone through something like this...! At least her straight girl was cool...clueless but cool.
The PNT Tv Network This Happens to mee everytimee... :D
Hy
OMG I THOUGH THE BROWN HAIRED GIRL WAS ALLISON
Me too
😂😂😂 Same here.
SAME
If this was Allison and gabby👌🏼
SAME
Does anybody get 'Life is strange' vibes from this?
Yep
Yup
Totally
I was looking for this comment!
What's that
The comments section is a homophobic warzone
Let's go I got hater guns and spam grenades
And I am the arms dealer (troll), I can already see profit. :D
take cover B team go left A team stay C team your lesbians kiss while I fap
Every time
I call the pray the gay away shotgun
Over a year later and I'm still hoping for a sequel.
+grilledcheeseandteas So are we!
grilledcheeseandteas hiiiiiiiiiii
3 years later....
This is completely me and my best friend, I'm so in love with her but it'll never happen.
tell me about it, i got the same problem...
Hannah Spence :( *hands you a glass of wine while sad music plays in the background and pats you on the back* stay strong my friend, stay strong.
Same . I came out to my best friend too . And she just . Ugh rejected me so badly 😓
Ashlynwazhere That's it, everyone here just needs a group hug :/
I'm in the same situation I'm in love with my girl best friend and they have a girlfriend. So i kinda have to deal with it. They also live miles away and we met over the internet and have been best friends for a while now. She told me the only reason she wouldn'tt date me is because of the distance between us.
When you're legit straight but you're having a Buzzfeed marathon so you're watching all this videos!! I legit support the LGBT community ❤️❤️
Carolina Alves you say legit too much
Maddi3Rae ;-; OMG!!! I hadn't notice it 😂😂😂😂 I "legit" do
Carolina Alves i wasn't trying to be rude by the way :)
Maddi3Rae ;-; I know,I know girl!! I didn't take it in a rude way!!! It's just funny that you pointed it out 😂😂😂 It is the true tbh
imo namber 00966599615596
i thought it was jennifer lawrence
Same
lol 😁😁
Yeah that's exactly what I thought.
ok :)
totally
They remind me of Chloe and max from life is strange
yessss
Except Max and Chloe are in love
pricefield
This hit home..
And it *hurt*.
Back when buzzfeed was really good
riot grrl hi
Am I the only one who thinks the blonde girl looks like Jennifer lawrence?
agreed and I love your profile name and pic
+Patrick .Stumpy FHFHSHHDH
Yes! Same
+thanks pete YOUR NAME AND PROFILE PIC ARE AMAZING
tbh I think she looks a bit better
Must be tough being homosexual, having to take such a leap (if you choose to take it) every time you like someone. Damn.
It really is. It's so awful wanting to hold your girlfriend's hand while walking down the street, but you can't because you're afraid of people whispering and pointing at you. Also, coming out to your parents is really stressful and nerve racking. I had sweat patches after doing it.
Hannah B Yeah, but as for the holding hands part, thankfully society is becoming more and more accepting as the years pass. I still remember when my parents were judged for having tattoos by people every time they went out and now, years later, people can't stop asking questions about their tattoos and admiring them. It's not the same situation, but it's the same concept--people are growing more accepting. One day homosexuality will be so normal that there will be no need to even support it at all.
+A.M. Arteaga holding hands and standing whispers is nothing compared to repelling everyone at the park just for sitting in a bench with your gf
+melanie veliz get over it doesn't sound that big a deal
E Games yeah not a big deal, sitting down and the looks begin... stares, kids talking, parents glaring... Parents taking their children away, children asking why and crying in confussion..... As the parents go away you hear them saying 'did those girls do anything to you? what did they say?? you know that's not right! They're sick in the head. You should not talk to people like them' and suddendly the park is empty and your date ruinned. Or better yet, entering a store and every damn employee staring at you and our partner and laughing, making terrible comments, being kicked out. No biggie.
Max and Chloe from life is strange
THE FEELS
YES
+TotalGeek10 Woah, freaking accurate.
Except Max and Chloe actually do like each other in the same way haha.
Omg my exact thoughts
+Majesticrainbows like their personalities
That flannel should've been a sign😂
Not necessarily. Being how the other girl is straight she probably doesn't pay attention to how lesbians dress, act, ect. Also girls for some reason tend to develop close bonds with each other so they get comfortable with laying besides each other, cuddling and stuff like that. So for her it was friendly and not flirtatious.
this is almost exactly my situation rn, except she hasnt had the chance to turn me down. i never confessed because i was too afraid that _this_ would happen.
Just confess, you'll never know the truth unless you do. I was in the same situation as you once, and it's all worked out. Don't give up okay?
Mollie Lightly 卌 well she likes someone else... she always talks about her. and she's different than i am.
me too..
Same
Same
Being gay is not a choice at all. No one "chooses" to be judged, to be bullied, to feel like they don't belong, to be something they're afraid to be, to be something they wanna hide. Being gay is a good thing, just as good as being heterosexual. You can choose to be straight just as much as you can choose to be gay. It sucks that you need to be brave just to be who you were born to be, because gay people were born like that and no, it is not a matter of opinion. Just like some were born with blue eyes others where born with a different gender identity than heterosexual. It sucks that some people would rather die than be who they are... and it sucks even more that that is our fault as members of society.
+The Viking Waterbear
You are absolutely hilarious
***** No, he doesn't. He loves everyone, regardless of who they are. What He doesn't like, though, is your attitude.
***** Your close-knit relationship to pastors doesn't a single thing. Sorry.
***** Right.
I agree, people don't choose to be discriminated against, it tends to come with the package sadly, lots of things are like this, but the world is starting to change, and, just to tell you, I haven't felt what it's like for being discriminated against for being gay, but it can tell you what it's like for being discriminated against for being atheist, it sucks. Thankfully, the world is slowly becoming more and more accepting of people, and I hope that someday we will all be treated fairly.
I've just realised that I'm bisexual and I don't know what to do. I haven't told anyone and I don't know how to, I'm scared it'll seem out of the blue and weird because I don't know anybody in my family or friendship group in the lgbt community.
+Phoebe Hubbard Oh, also. Try not to fall for a straight girl.. It sucks a lot.
+Phoebe Hubbard You dont have to figure everything out immediately. Do you have tumblr? Search for someone to talk to, even if it's a stranger. I think being bi might be a little more confunsing than just being gay, cause lots of feelings and everything. Just give yourself some time to process this.
+Phoebe Hubbard I'm in the same boat as you. But I ex-girlfriend knows.And thats about as close to friends in the LGBT community as I can get.
Everything will work out, just give it some time until you're comfortable enough to come out. It'll be okay :)
+Phoebe Hubbard No need to be scared :) Check out the subreddit "bisexual" ( www.reddit.com/r/bisexual )
It bugged me her bra was out most of the time
Meaningful Music hi ur sweet
😂
It didn't bug me lol 😏
@@yom2408 ...
Literally thought the brown haired girl is Allison. I freaked out a little.
I wasn't the only one lol
i figuratively thought it.
Same XD
I was like ew new!
Me too
dont fall for straight girls man. dont do it. yikes. we've all been there. especially since the girl i loved acted like she liked girls and always talked about "wow this girl is so sexy" etc.
+becca s That must be hard... Though you have to understand straight girls can also find other girls sexy and appealing, just not romantically. I also sometimes comment on a nice booty or a sexy girl haha but I'm straight, I don't fall in love with them.
+KitKat Luvr the truth like literally this entire comment section is me
Oml same
same
هاي
Life Is Strange irl? I think yes...
i see what u did there! 😂
+Judith Piper
yas
So sad that "Faking it" ended, this helped
İkr😔
oh, it breaks my heart again and again
Not the exaaaact same story...but check out Erynn and Scarlet (the two actresses) in the second season of our web series Karmic! It explores LGBTQ issues.
silvia ramella IKR I cried watching that too.😭😭
The blonde looks like Jennifer Lawrence!
Finally a normal coment
um
Yes! Thank you! Come on high five!
Miguel Cloud High five coming right at ya! ;)
The blonde is super attractive. The whole "new nose piercing" has a nifty deep meaning in this play.
I REALLY want to pull that ring out of her nose. Like REALLY REALLY REALLY want to, it is so tempting.
I know I get grossed out by people who have piercings like that, at least it's not a lip piercing or, even a rouge piercing
It looks like the rings that cows wear...ridiculous. Couldn't she wear that at least one the side of her nose? :/
Me too!!
***** doesn't change the fact that I want to pull it out 😈
satraviany OK wow that escalated quickly. She would be quite the looker if not for that nose ring.
Ok, how could she not have had a clue about her friend being a lesbian when they were spooning at the beginning of the video, with her friends arms running up and down her side?
***** I actually know a lot of straight girls and platonic gay/bi people who spoon and cuddle and do it completely platonically.
Oh, that's actually a new thing for me, because I have never heard of straight people that have no romantic feelings for each other that lie in sexual/romantic positions
Simran Persic like to me that's not a sexual/romantic position. with people I am truly close with it's like a hug where you get to lay down, seriously two of my favorite things to do with my favorite people.
confusedpretzels Yeah, I usually do think of that as romantic, and I've never met someone that doesn't, but it's interesting and really cool to know views of other people :)
I came down here to say the same thing. Usually people in romantic relationships do that. Not saying platonic relationships don't have that, but if I see someone spooning, chances are ppl are going think something's going on
This is so accurate it physically hurt
I'm sobbing onto my keyboard I need a new one. :_(
That physically hurt me
WOOOOOW... that acting was soooooo good :O Buzzfeed just surprised me..
Daydreaming kpop Check out the brunette actress, Scarlet Sheppard, in our web series!
BUZZFEED, ARE YOU PURPOSELY TRYING TO TEAR MY HEART INTO A MILLION PIECES?!
+Michelle Li SamE
thank you buzzfeed for making me too scared to ask out my crush-best friend. I was to scared for 3 months after I saw this video(and others similar), but I am happy to report I asked her out a few days ago and she said yes! She said had a crush on me for years but was to scared to do anything. Just to anyone in the comment section, its better to take the risk and tell them than to never know!
Sierra Culp aaawww congrats and you only live once so LIVE ON THE EDGE!!!!!!
I am straight and I think this video was extremely well done and well portrayed!
Was that sarcasm? Seriously so many time spent in the internet I don't even know.
Miguel Cloud I'm pretty sure it wasn't xD
Thank you!!! Finally another straight person who accepts gays!
Luke Briody
There are a lot of straight persons that accept gays. Especially in Buzz Feeds Comments ^^ But you don't notice them because we don't have that much to comment unlike the homophobes.
Lol no it was not sarcasm :) I swear
This is beautiful, honestly. I'm quite proud of buzzfeed for actually being able to come up with stuff like this. I'm pretty straight myself in fact aro, but this is story I would want them to continue. Am I right?
#SpreadTheLovePeople
You're right. #SpreadTheLovePeople
#Spreadthlovepeople
#SpreadTheLovePeople
Pervs.
THEY LOOK SO MUCH LIKE MAX AND CHLOE FROM LIFE IS STRANGE #PRICEFIELD4LYFE
wow what a coincidence
+Chloe Price You're dead in my game haha
+Chloe Price Hey Chloe 😂
yass
HAHA
straight girl
Ancient Mantra Science bi girl
Sunny Sketches bi girl would have liked kissing her ... just saying ... because you know we like girls AND boys.
*cough* SAME
Full on lesbian thats my style
Same🙄
i like these types of buzzfeed videos
Man that is just gross..
..I can't believe people just pierce their noses, it's not right
^ with their total ignorance.
Aw...but I want to pierce my nose!
Gabrielle Richards _"ignorance"_
funny
it depends if it fits theyre personality then im ok with it other than that NO!
Nose piercings look good on only some people.
Just a quick message for people who have been in this situation that I wish someone would’ve told me earlier in my life: If you love a friend; someone who’s been there for you and you can trust, and that you’d want to start a relationship with. If they met or went way beyond your expectations for a girlfriend/boyfriend, why would you end such a strong, beautiful, healthy friendship just because they don’t feel the same way? They’re still the same person (unless they don’t want to friends anymore because you’re not straight, in which case leave them because that’s wrong). A true friend would still trust you and be there for you no matter what. So why would you leave them? Because they just want to be friends? But before you confessed to them they were your friend! And listen, I know it’s difficult. The reason I’m commenting this is because I lost several of my best friends because I never told myself this. I know, I feel you. But trust me, you’ll regret it when you miss that one person that would do anything for you. Stay strong, everyone.
Except in LIS Max can be bi/gay depending on how you play and love and kiss Chloe
The whole time in the game felt like and incredibly warm love story between two women who are trying to find someone who is lost. But the way they killed off Chloe pissed me off so I refuse to play farther..
UA-camr Grudge, it's about lost best friends and chole did love someone else before Max and that was Rachel who was better then Max cause she was actually there for her while Max didn't even keep connected...it depends how you play it.
"Can we still be friends?" This is my life story...
Thank you for this, Buzzfeed.
Nice hair color
I'm a Muslim and I'm completely fine with LGBT people. I support whatever people think love is. But I don't feel I'll ever forgive myself if I was LGBT, due to my religion.
Me too. I'm Catholic.
Me too I'm an atheist...oh wait that's not a religion.
Just call me a smart guy.
Does LGBT stand for lesbians get black poeple?
But the thing is: If you were to be gay, you would have to find a way to deal with it. And do you really think that your god dispises this?
_______________________
Being an Atheist does not make you instantly smart.
Bevin St. Pierre true my bad how about lesbians get blue thongs
i cryed cuz i know my friend wont be that nice bout it
Yep:(