What a stubborn mother. We only live once, so it's pretty sad that she wasted her whole life holding a grudge towards her son and used it against her nyab & grandkids. She could've spent it with them in happiness. What a waste of a lifetime spent and a sad way to end it.
@@pamvue8258 my hubby's the type he dont want to side & be in between so he just stays out of it. I'm not a very traditional or nowadays Nyab either. But I'm glad my parents remind me to be good & excuse the mil a lot.
Hateful MIL like yours don't deserve your Love! You owe her nothing... Used to have a hateful MIL like this...Marriage was hard. Blessed to have a loving MIL now!!! You are blessed to have a loving husband & children ❤
Niam tais ua tsaug koj hlub koj cov nyab. Kuv tus niam pog los phem li koj tus thiab. Kuv xav li koj thiab kuv yuav hloov es txhob ua li kuv tus niam pog. Thov vajtswv foom koobhmoov rau koj thiab ntsev neeg
Kuv ib yam thiaj. Tau lub neej zoo li no mam chim siab nyuaj siab xwb. Tabsi kuv yuav hloov li koj hais es txhob ua li tej niam pog ua...tabsi ua qhov zoo.
Sad how some Mother in laws hate their nyabs. You don’t have to like them but at least respect them! They’re your son’s wife and partner in life. As long as he’s loved and happy is all that matters. Don’t mistreat them like this woman did to her nyab. Life is rough with someone as bitter and hateful as her MIL. They say your greatest teacher will be those who punish you. They teach you who not to be, how not to be. I’m glad your husband defended you all those times.
Zoo kawg, kuv tus niam poj los tsis hlub nws cov tub thiab nyab. Nws qhia kom peb paub ua neej xwb. Zaj neej neeg no zoo kawg. Tus zoo thaum kawg always wins!
OMG! most evil mother in law I've ever heard!! How could you treat your own kids like that and still be able to sleep! She's evil and her blessings is nothing! Karma got her! You are lucky to have a very good and loving husband that protects you!
You have such a good husband who always stand up for you no matter what. There’s not many men’s who can do as what your husband did for you. May god bless you two with long and healthy life.
Aww...I wish I have a sweet love story like this with a night and shining armor by my side. Thanks for sharing your beautiful love story. Best of luck to both of you!
Your MIL was a very unhappy person whose life was miserable because she wasn't happy that her husband had another woman, therefore her anger was put on you because she hate to see you happy or others happy. So much anger and misery turned her dark & evil. A person like that can never change. I feel sorry for her. May God bless her evil soul. You are one lucky woman & your husband is a wonderful man. God bless you & your family ❤
Those evil MIL needs to be put in nursing home. Dont feel bad when you see an old (hmong) person in the nursing home. It means they are beyond bad aka phem tshaj qhov phem lawm.
Nyab Ntsuab Teev aws, koj hais neej neeg thian dab neeg zoo kawg li os. Kuv nyiaj tuaj mloog koj txhuas lub sijhawm tas mus li xwb os. Nyab, koj tus fb yog li cas os.
Sounds like my story. My hubby was the black sheep of the family and very hardheaded as well but he loves me unconditionally and protects me against his parents when we first got married. After almost 3 decades, my in laws has changed and they are as different as night and day to us now. I am thankful to see this change in them. I know many Nyabs out there never see this.
Zoo siab nrog koj me niam tais aw kuv twb ntsib txoj kev raug niam pog tsim li koj thiab tiamsis kuv tsis muaj moo li koj es kuv tus txiv nrog lawv ub ib tog kuv thiaj tawg plho khiav dim plaws lawm koj mas tau ib tug txiv zoo kawg li os hlub yus mus ib txhig yuav tiv thaiv yus mus kom txog hnub tuag ces li ko tiag niam tais
Kuv tau tu niam pog twb g nyiam kuv thiab lo nws tus tub tseem tuaj2 niam pog tog xwb nws hais tia 6 kuv tias nws niam ce coj zoo tshaj plawslawm xwb no
My mil is also a monster in law too, just not this horrible because she can't drive, if she was independent she would be worst. Now she's in her elderly age and living with us.
As a nyab why spend so much energy focused on a person who WILL NEVER ACCEPT YOU? After a few years, focus on you, your husband and family. You’re energy is exerted to the wrong. Let them be as they are, bitter and evil to the world.
Glad you have a loving husband who supports and fight for you. Can't change people and their behaviors, they have to want to change for themselves for it to work. In life, there will people who like you, who dislike, who you love, and who you don't love and vice versa. At the end of the day, choose the battles that is worth fighting for. No need to change someone's mind if they already made up their mind. Glad, you've made different choices for your children and daughter-in-laws because of the experience you had with your evil mother-in-law.
Cas koj niam pog yuav tsim koj,npaum li kuv tus tsim kuv thiab os ,txhua lo lus koj muaj ces kuv yeej ntsib tag nrho thiab os, tiam sis kuv ho tsis tau kuv tus txiv txoj kev hlub li koj tau koj tus os, tab sis kuv ho zoo siab tias nws ho tsis yuav ib tug thiab tiam sis yog nws yeej nrog,nws tsim txom yus khaub hlab tas lawm es txoj sia tsis tu xwb mi niam,phauj aw
Neeg lim hiam li ntawd txoj kev nws foom yus rov qab raug nws xwb os. Lim hiam yeej tsis tau ntuj ntoo. Siab qhia neeg li ntawd yeej tsis xav tau nws thiaj niag khoob hmoov siab phem. No one will understand unless they wear the shoes themselves. Phem li ntawd tuag lawm los yeej phem.
Yog kawg tau tus txiv coj li koj tus no mas thiaj li xav nrhab ceg rau txhua hmoo os. Yog cov txiv uas zoo li peb cov ua luag nrog luag niam luag txiv ua ib nqag rau yus xwb ces yeej tsis xav nrhab ceg rau li nawb.
Hais txog cov Niam pog siab phem lim hiam no ntsim ncaws tsis muaj ntsoo xwb . Nws xav tias nws yog leej Niam lawm ces nws yuav ua phem li hais phem foom li cas rau Tus nyab lo tau , kev npam tsis xav tias Koj yog tus laus tus hluas yog siab phem lawm ces yeej npam. Nws ua yus fwm tshaj ces yog Niam yug yus xwb dhau tus sab nrau tsis liam li.
Koj tus niam pog zoo li ko phem npaum ko yeej tsi tsim nyog hlub tuag lo tsi tsim nyog quag tsi tsim nyog pub rau koj noj yog kuv ntse kuv tsi ok ok li os yog tau tus phem npaum li ko
Niag pog ruam koj tuaj qhia kom peb coj ruam li koj no lov? Koj tus txiv mas thia yog neeg ntse thiab hlub koj tshaj. Yog nws tsis hlub koj ces koj mag luam pluav tag lawm. Nej txhob kawm tej tug poj niam ruam2 li no coj los ua nej lub neej nawb. Nws lucky uas nws tus txiv hlub2 nws xwb, tsis li ces nws noj quav lawm xwb os. Koj tsis tau ua txhaum mas tsis muaj kev npam li nawb. Txhob ruam li tus pog no tsam koj mob stroke thiab plawv nres tuag nawb.
Koj niag niam pog ko puas Tau tuag naj. Yog yuav koj es nws tseem kom koj mus nrog ob tug kwv pw yog khib npaum li ko ces nws kum los nrog nws tus tub pw xwb tsis tas mus yuav poj niam rau tus tub li os thaum twg tub xav ua ces niam nrhab rau tub xwb mas tseem yuav yuav poj niam rau ua dab tsi nawj
Peb txhua2 tus ntxhais mus ua nyab rau sab nraud raug ntxub tsimtxom. Thaum tau los ua niampog ces pheej tig tsim nyab, ntxim ntxub tiag2. Zoo kawg uas nws ntxub2 koj thiaj tsis ua dab🧟♀️los hem koj.
Hnov lawv piav Tia's nkawv ob niam txiv ntxias pog laus thiab yog laus yuav nkawv es tos nkawv tuaj txog Tim mekas es thaum tau ntaub ntawv tas nkawb muab lawv nrauj ces nkawv mam rov los sib yuav Dua Tim mekas no es puas yog na?
Tus neeg siab phem li koj tus niam pog no foom koj los yeej tsis npam. Siab phem tiag tiag li. Nws yog tus npam lawm. Koj txoj hmoo zoo heev Koj tau tus txiv hlub hlub koj thiab tsis ntxeev siab rau koj. Ua zoo yeej tau zoo.
Never understood the hand and feet washing and giving to pregnant women to drink. Like over my dead will I drink someone's nasty sweat and dirt off their body! Lol
wow. I'm envious of your husband! what a great guy!!!! you are so lucky
Lii
Zoo tshaj plaws koj tus txiv ua taus txiv tiag2 rau koj thiab tej me nyuam zoo kawg Neeg phem yeej npam, neeg Phem ces ua dab los yeej phem
Haub yau, cov laus no ces yeej coj tsis ncaj hlub tsis sib xws li os. Kav liam, nws tsis pab yus ces yus thiaj tsis tshuav nws nqi os. Thiab siab phem li ntawv yus thiaj txawj ua zoo rau yus cov os mog! Nrog koj zoo siab rau koj lub neej os!♥️
It’s always good to have a husband who can stand up for himself and his wife.
What a stubborn mother. We only live once, so it's pretty sad that she wasted her whole life holding a grudge towards her son and used it against her nyab & grandkids. She could've spent it with them in happiness. What a waste of a lifetime spent and a sad way to end it.
Good love story. Wish we listeners could use this story as a role model.
You're lucky, your hubby helps you. My hubby let's me fend for myself only. He doesn't get involved, so I'm on my own.
Im with you all the way! Sucks big time to be a nyab they don't like!!!
@@pamvue8258 my hubby's the type he dont want to side & be in between so he just stays out of it. I'm not a very traditional or nowadays Nyab either. But I'm glad my parents remind me to be good & excuse the mil a lot.
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Niam tij nkawm niam txiv no kev coj hauv lub neej raug kuv lub neej ib nrab lawm foom koob hmoov zoo siav ntev
Cas koj zaj neej neeg niam zoo kiag li kuv zaj thiab os. Yog lawm vim wb tau ib tug niam pog tsis hlub wb es wb thiaj txawj2 hlub wb cov nyab os tus me niam tsev aws. Uas tsaug uas koj muab koj zaj neej neeg los tham .
Hateful MIL like yours don't deserve your Love! You owe her nothing... Used to have a hateful MIL like this...Marriage was hard. Blessed to have a loving MIL now!!! You are blessed to have a loving husband & children ❤
Niam tais ua tsaug koj hlub koj cov nyab. Kuv tus niam pog los phem li koj tus thiab. Kuv xav li koj thiab kuv yuav hloov es txhob ua li kuv tus niam pog. Thov vajtswv foom koobhmoov rau koj thiab ntsev neeg
Kuv ib yam thiaj. Tau lub neej zoo li no mam chim siab nyuaj siab xwb. Tabsi kuv yuav hloov li koj hais es txhob ua li tej niam pog ua...tabsi ua qhov zoo.
Sad how some Mother in laws hate their nyabs. You don’t have to like them but at least respect them! They’re your son’s wife and partner in life. As long as he’s loved and happy is all that matters. Don’t mistreat them like this woman did to her nyab. Life is rough with someone as bitter and hateful as her MIL. They say your greatest teacher will be those who punish you. They teach you who not to be, how not to be. I’m glad your husband defended you all those times.
I'm so glad your husband stood up for you. Your MIL is mean!
Zoo kawg, kuv tus niam poj los tsis hlub nws cov tub thiab nyab. Nws qhia kom peb paub ua neej xwb. Zaj neej neeg no zoo kawg. Tus zoo thaum kawg always wins!
OMG! most evil mother in law I've ever heard!! How could you treat your own kids like that and still be able to sleep! She's evil and her blessings is nothing! Karma got her! You are lucky to have a very good and loving husband that protects you!
Aww your husband and your step niam yau very sweet only 1%niam yau as good as your in-law niam yau xwb
You have such a good husband who always stand up for you no matter what. There’s not many men’s who can do as what your husband did for you. May god bless you two with long and healthy life.
Aww...I wish I have a sweet love story like this with a night and shining armor by my side. Thanks for sharing your beautiful love story. Best of luck to both of you!
Your MIL was a very unhappy person whose life was miserable because she wasn't happy that her husband had another woman, therefore her anger was put on you because she hate to see you happy or others happy. So much anger and misery turned her dark & evil. A person like that can never change. I feel sorry for her. May God bless her evil soul. You are one lucky woman & your husband is a wonderful man. God bless you & your family ❤
She was a miserable person way before he married a second wife.
Nian yau siab zoo dua niam yug laiv haj yog muaj niam yau neb thiaj tau zoo kav tsin hlub niam yau mog
Koj muaj hmoob heev ua ko j Tau koj tus txiv ziab zoo hlub2 koj o
Those evil MIL needs to be put in nursing home. Dont feel bad when you see an old (hmong) person in the nursing home. It means they are beyond bad aka phem tshaj qhov phem lawm.
Yaj Yang not always true some children are bad to their parents too
🤣 yes!! 👏
@@gaosayvu6554 yeah I know
Tsis koom tiam sis mloog zoo mloog time going so fast.
Love more story like this.
You're so very lucky to have a wonderful, strong and honest husband 💖 ❤
Agree
Nyab Ntsuab Teev aws, koj hais neej neeg thian dab neeg zoo kawg li os. Kuv nyiaj tuaj mloog koj txhuas lub sijhawm tas mus li xwb os. Nyab, koj tus fb yog li cas os.
Sounds like my story. My hubby was the black sheep of the family and very hardheaded as well but he loves me unconditionally and protects me against his parents when we first got married. After almost 3 decades, my in laws has changed and they are as different as night and day to us now. I am thankful to see this change in them. I know many Nyabs out there never see this.
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Zoo siab nrog koj me niam tais aw kuv twb ntsib txoj kev raug niam pog tsim li koj thiab tiamsis kuv tsis muaj moo li koj es kuv tus txiv nrog lawv ub ib tog kuv thiaj tawg plho khiav dim plaws lawm koj mas tau ib tug txiv zoo kawg li os hlub yus mus ib txhig yuav tiv thaiv yus mus kom txog hnub tuag ces li ko tiag niam tais
Kuv tau tu niam pog twb g nyiam kuv thiab lo nws tus tub tseem tuaj2 niam pog tog xwb nws hais tia 6 kuv tias nws niam ce coj zoo tshaj plawslawm xwb no
Tsawg2 tus txivneej Hmoob thiaj tuaj pojniam tog li ko xwb. Koj Muaj hmoo tau tus zoo txiv tsev.
My mil is also a monster in law too, just not this horrible because she can't drive, if she was independent she would be worst. Now she's in her elderly age and living with us.
Mloog koj cov leej neeg kua muag los2 li os
As a nyab why spend so much energy focused on a person who WILL NEVER ACCEPT YOU? After a few years, focus on you, your husband and family. You’re energy is exerted to the wrong. Let them be as they are, bitter and evil to the world.
Glad you have a loving husband who supports and fight for you. Can't change people and their behaviors, they have to want to change for themselves for it to work. In life, there will people who like you, who dislike, who you love, and who you don't love and vice versa. At the end of the day, choose the battles that is worth fighting for. No need to change someone's mind if they already made up their mind. Glad, you've made different choices for your children and daughter-in-laws because of the experience you had with your evil mother-in-law.
cov niam pog ua li ko yog niam pog kev xwb
Great story. You are lucky to have a great husband.
Sim no Kuv tsis raug Niam Pog tsim tabsi mas Kuv raug txiv Yawg tsim mas thiaj txawj kho siab tu siab Tiam no tuag ua dab los tseem chim siab
Tos mloog lawm nawb
Leej twg g tau ntsib cov niam pog phem2 li no ma txhob maj tu siab nawb cov niam pog phem ma yeej phem tiag22222 li g paub hai li laem
Cas koj niam pog yuav tsim koj,npaum li kuv tus tsim kuv thiab os ,txhua lo lus koj muaj ces kuv yeej ntsib tag nrho thiab os, tiam sis kuv ho tsis tau kuv tus txiv txoj kev hlub li koj tau koj tus os, tab sis kuv ho zoo siab tias nws ho tsis yuav ib tug thiab tiam sis yog nws yeej nrog,nws tsim txom yus khaub hlab tas lawm es txoj sia tsis tu xwb mi niam,phauj aw
Lub neej zoo..lub neej ruaj vim tau tus Txiv hlub yus. Hlub hlub koj tus Txiv nawb mog .
Neeg lim hiam li ntawd txoj kev nws foom yus rov qab raug nws xwb os. Lim hiam yeej tsis tau ntuj ntoo. Siab qhia neeg li ntawd yeej tsis xav tau nws thiaj niag khoob hmoov siab phem. No one will understand unless they wear the shoes themselves. Phem li ntawd tuag lawm los yeej phem.
Yog kawg tau tus txiv coj li koj tus no mas thiaj li xav nrhab ceg rau txhua hmoo os.
Yog cov txiv uas zoo li peb cov ua luag nrog luag niam luag txiv ua ib nqag rau yus xwb ces yeej tsis xav nrhab ceg rau li nawb.
Your hubby is soooo awesome! Your mil is soo mean! Omg! I am happy you learn to be a good mil for your dil.
The mother in law should received the “Worst Mother” ever for not loving her son. What kind of mother is that. I love my kids equally.
Ua ca yuav muaj tej tug niam pog haib ua luaj ne yom leej twg yog niam pog ce kav tsij kawm es pauv tsi txhob ua li cov laus thaum ub lawm nawb
This mother in law sounds like a typical Hmong mother in law in reality or in movie. 🙄 eyesrolls!!!
Blessed to have a mil that love me. Lol I’m the lazy Nyab so my mil help me more too ahaha
Mloog li koj tus niam pog khib2 koj tus txiv heev sub tsis yog nws muaj siab rau nws tsuas tub los
Ua cas yuav muaj cov niam pog phem ua luaj li nws twb yog poj niam thiab sav niag poj hmoob phem ntawd na
niam pog phem txhob ua zoo rau
Hais txog cov Niam pog siab phem lim hiam no ntsim ncaws tsis muaj ntsoo xwb . Nws xav tias nws yog leej Niam lawm ces nws yuav ua phem li hais phem foom li cas rau Tus nyab lo tau , kev npam tsis xav tias Koj yog tus laus tus hluas yog siab phem lawm ces yeej npam. Nws ua yus fwm tshaj ces yog Niam yug yus xwb dhau tus sab nrau tsis liam li.
Obyo ! Niag niam pog comviab limhiam lino ces muab xa dab kiag xwb lomas. Ntshe niaj hnub no tseem nyob pem nyuj bag teem raug txim vim siab phem.
What a wonderful husband you have. Wished mine was like that.
Yim ped tias nyob uas yim nrad cem cem li cais ua ib sab mus mog !
Niam tais cob tsis tau cais cia niam pog
Mam ghia thiaj paub tab yod !
Koj tus niam pog zoo li ko phem npaum ko yeej tsi tsim nyog hlub tuag lo tsi tsim nyog quag tsi tsim nyog pub rau koj noj yog kuv ntse kuv tsi ok ok li os yog tau tus phem npaum li ko
Horrible evil mother in law.
NiAm pog phem
yu ua nyab yg yu yg neeg zoo ce lawv txawm g hlub yu lo qhia tej me nyuam hlub lawv pog ma
Niag pog ruam koj tuaj qhia kom peb coj ruam li koj no lov? Koj tus txiv mas thia yog neeg ntse thiab hlub koj tshaj. Yog nws tsis hlub koj ces koj mag luam pluav tag lawm. Nej txhob kawm tej tug poj niam ruam2 li no coj los ua nej lub neej nawb. Nws lucky uas nws tus txiv hlub2 nws xwb, tsis li ces nws noj quav lawm xwb os. Koj tsis tau ua txhaum mas tsis muaj kev npam li nawb. Txhob ruam li tus pog no tsam koj mob stroke thiab plawv nres tuag nawb.
Koj niag niam pog ko puas Tau tuag naj. Yog yuav koj es nws tseem kom koj mus nrog ob tug kwv pw yog khib npaum li ko ces nws kum los nrog nws tus tub pw xwb tsis tas mus yuav poj niam rau tus tub li os thaum twg tub xav ua ces niam nrhab rau tub xwb mas tseem yuav yuav poj niam rau ua dab tsi nawj
Why do you care if she foom foom, you never did nothing wrong to her. You try to love her but she's evil to you.
Puas muaj tej tug niam pog siab phem npaum no nes?
Cia kom nws tuag tsis tu siav nws thiaj li paub los mas com pog siab phem ko na
Peb txhua2 tus ntxhais mus ua nyab rau sab nraud raug ntxub tsimtxom. Thaum tau los ua niampog ces pheej tig tsim nyab, ntxim ntxub tiag2. Zoo kawg uas nws ntxub2 koj thiaj tsis ua dab🧟♀️los hem koj.
Hnov lawv piav ob niam ntsuab teev no lub qi no tsw lwj kawg no es puas muaj tseeb ne
Leej twg Los yeej muaj qe tsw lwj ib yam os cov nyiam nyiam hais luag tej qe mas nws lub haj yam tsw lwj Tshaj
Lawv tsuas hais luaj tej neej neeg dab neeg xwb tsis txheeb tsis ze yus qhov twg li. Leej twg xav mloog los mloog,tsis xav mloog los dhau plaws mus rau xwb mas.
As kuv tsis hais niam ntsuab teev kv hais qhov lawv hais niam ntsuab teev xwb
Hnov lawv piav Tia's nkawv ob niam txiv ntxias pog laus thiab yog laus yuav nkawv es tos nkawv tuaj txog Tim mekas es thaum tau ntaub ntawv tas nkawb muab lawv nrauj ces nkawv mam rov los sib yuav Dua Tim mekas no es puas yog na?
Heev npaum cas los kawg tuag xwb thaum ua neej xwb thiaj heev thaum tuag cais kawg pawv li os
Evil Mother inlaw
Tus neeg siab phem li koj tus niam pog no foom koj los yeej tsis npam. Siab phem tiag tiag li. Nws yog tus npam lawm.
Koj txoj hmoo zoo heev Koj tau tus txiv hlub hlub koj thiab tsis ntxeev siab rau koj. Ua zoo yeej tau zoo.
tus niam pog siab phem li tus no ces txhob nrog nyob cia tawm tsev xwb txhob hais ub hais no tias yog npam, niam pog lim hiam.muab yam twg rau yeej tsis yuav tsis khaws muab tsis nqis dab tsi tsis yuav nws cov lus li.tuag lawm lo tseem phem, saum neej lim hiam nruab dab los yeej tsis haum.
Never understood the hand and feet washing and giving to pregnant women to drink. Like over my dead will I drink someone's nasty sweat and dirt off their body! Lol
Hateful MIL and as a person. This evil person as a person and turns into an evil MIL.
Tus pog no hnav ris luv li no ntxim khoom tseem loj thiab ntxim tseem xav2 sib ua. Tab sis pab ntshuab teev nyab laj tu siab hais tias nws khoom puas tag lawm rau Peb Niag menyuam uas ntej tu txiv nram ntej lawm. Lam qws xwb qhov tseeb txim txaj muag kawg.
Cas mob koj siab thiab khib koj ua luaj na! lawv yuav hnav thiab zoo li cas los tsis yog koj teeb meem koj yog neeg ruam tshaj ruam
Nothing good!!!…Waste time.
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