Avoid This Man in Penang, Malaysia! 🇲🇾

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  • @WildCARLOSappeared
    @WildCARLOSappeared  Рік тому +6

    ‼ Follow me on Instagram for my live location + behind the scenes: instagram.com/realwildcarlos

    • @sweelinkoh3983
      @sweelinkoh3983 Рік тому +1

      Apparently the girl who took order was not Malaysian but a foreign worker properly from other south east Asia country. She didn’t get what you want and misunderstood that you didn’t want to order any drinks. So she call the man, properly the boss of the coffee shop to handle when there is customers refuse to order drinks. She passed the wrong message to the man, that’s why the man seemed very unfriendly at first.

    • @auser5275
      @auser5275 Рік тому +1

      Avoid Chinatown to avoid unpleasant experience. That's my motto for my travel.

    • @CVYR490
      @CVYR490 Рік тому

      @@auser5275 Don't you need to worry out going to China Town because they wont even welcome barbarian people like you because everywhere you go you behaved like a monkey and rude. So back off.

    • @WildCARLOSappeared
      @WildCARLOSappeared  Рік тому

      @@CVYR490Bavarian? 🥲 I'm from Lower Saxony

    • @CVYR490
      @CVYR490 Рік тому +1

      @@WildCARLOSappeared Regardless where you are from. Its your behaviour

  • @RY-on1th
    @RY-on1th Рік тому +194

    There are so many comments trying to rationalize this situation. But bad experience is bad experience. We can't attempt to deny Carlos feeling and expect every tourist to know all the unspoken rules. This is not even something that can be studied on tourist leaflet. Please be kind and acknowledge the bad experience our tourist has had. If we are being defensive, we will stop thinking how to improve our hospitability.

    • @WildCARLOSappeared
      @WildCARLOSappeared  Рік тому +20

      That's pretty much the same thoughts that I had as well

    • @hellosonirs
      @hellosonirs Рік тому +19

      this is rude, melayu people always smiling and honour every guest who coming to ours country, but in this vidio they are not melayu, i dont know, they people embarassing melayu country

    • @Madafakaa420
      @Madafakaa420 Рік тому

      ⁠@@hellosonirs diam la bodo pigi sembahyang lagi baik..buat komen bodo kat sini untuk apa babi.

    • @undertaker4476
      @undertaker4476 Рік тому

      @@hellosonirs are you joking...some of malay people are toxic too.. the attack jay chow ig for his concert..they attack coldplay concert..google "abang blazer merah" he assault sabahan people...

    • @yugdead2451
      @yugdead2451 Рік тому +5

      ​@hellosonirs your english is the best.. go ask ur mum to buy you some diapers first.

  • @marvinftlee
    @marvinftlee 9 місяців тому +5

    To anyone who thinks the server was trying to be a jerk, watch the sequence after 17:25 and see if it changes your mind. I think it was a moment of misunderstanding with no ill intent on either side.

  • @sara.cbc92
    @sara.cbc92 Рік тому +48

    Miscommunication. The rude person was actually the waitress that didn't even bother to understand you. She just walked away telling the man to 'deal' with you. This kind of bad service is very common in South East Asia.

    • @Ren-oe8up
      @Ren-oe8up Рік тому +4

      Misunderstanding. It's a language and culture communication problem. 13:05 the black t-shirt waitress has no patience to attend to Carlos, whom a tourist who does not understand the local culture of ordering a drinks while sitting down on a table. She then wanted the man to attend, her impatience shown letting the man to think the customer is reluctant to order a drink instead of a language barrier between her.

    • @maybox2084
      @maybox2084 Рік тому +8

      Im quite sure the girl is foreign worker eiter fr vietnam or mynmar, u kkow now in Malaysia we can see abundace of them

    • @kenken3000
      @kenken3000 Рік тому +2

      @@maybox2084 it's worse when you know these workers instead of the locals are cooking the so-called "Malaysian" cuisine. Any locals in Klang Valley would vouch for that. Too bad that only Penang preserves the "authentic" Malaysian food.

    • @chocolatefrogs1992
      @chocolatefrogs1992 Рік тому

      @@maybox2084yep. She sure doesn’t look Chinese.

    • @zacklim2511
      @zacklim2511 Рік тому

      Most of waitress in chinese restaurant is foreigner, most of them are low class society with a bad attitude

  • @davidteh7909
    @davidteh7909 Рік тому +63

    Most of these coffeeshops in Malaysia are owned by the drinks stall owner. The other stall rent the space from the drinks stall owner. So minimally, you need to order something from the drinks stall to be able to sit down at a table.

    • @Verdeniza
      @Verdeniza Рік тому

      Stupid system

    • @maybox2084
      @maybox2084 Рік тому +14

      He did order drink "nutmeg" but foreign server didnt understand him & those local boss should give a proper training

    • @bladekhaira
      @bladekhaira Рік тому +10

      coz he wanted a nootmeg drink

    • @munster1404
      @munster1404 Рік тому +6

      If the drink stall is the anchor tenant, the owner has no worries about revenue since they're receiving rent from the other stores, I can never understand the rationale behind rules such as corkage fee or compulsory order of drinks.

    • @Verdeniza
      @Verdeniza Рік тому

      @@munster1404 only in stupid malaysia 🤣🤣🤣

  • @fireslasing8538
    @fireslasing8538 Рік тому +51

    I am a penangite. I think you misjudged that gentleman who you claim was rude. He was not rude but unfortunately he was scolded by you for nothing. Firstly, let me explained to you. In Penang, the coffee shop/restaurant and the hawkers that sell he food are totally different person. The hawkers(sub tenant) rent the place from the shop(main tenant) to sell their food. They don't sell drinks. Drinks you have to order from the shop. You can say they are different entity.The first and the second attempts you ordered your drink from the food seller/hawker. Since they sell only food they did not bother to take your drink order. The third attempt you ordered your drink from a young girl who don't understand what drink you want maybe from your different pronouciation of the drink. Your fourth and fifth attempt was from that unlucky waiter whom you misjudged him as rude. From what I see is he tried his very best to be nice to you but unfortunately you release your frustrations on him by raising your voice. Anyhow he still recommended you the ambla Juice which you claimed was nice. Maybe you should thank him instead of misjudging him. Another point I would like to highlight to you is that in Penang there are certain coffee shops/restaurant( main tenant )who charge a certain fee for those customers who don't ordered drinks from them. The reason is that you occupied their tables/chairs and they don't earn anything from you. They have to pay rental for their shop and if you don't ordered any drinks from them they don't earn anything from you.

    • @henryyeoh8610
      @henryyeoh8610 Рік тому +8

      Then the coffee shop/restaurant should bloody PUT A BIG SIGN and clearly stated CUSTOMER should purchase a drink if they want to sit down inside. There is no need to be rude when he was triying to explained to his customer!

    • @duderandom1266
      @duderandom1266 Рік тому +9

      ‘I don’t care!’
      Rude enough for tho

    • @HJun88
      @HJun88 Рік тому +13

      I’m penangite too but this waiter/owner who runs a business in tourist spot couldn’t even understand simple English yet being rude to the guest is such a turn off dude. Stop explaining . Wrong is wrong

    • @rambo0071
      @rambo0071 Рік тому

      Hes rude idiot he know carlos buy banhmi outside his shop

    • @Ario26
      @Ario26 Рік тому +3

      @@HJun88 I agree with you, they should upgrade their language skills or learning how to use technology to deal with language barriers. There are a ton of app to translate language, both written or spoken

  • @Wes-k6o
    @Wes-k6o Рік тому +47

    You were kind of rude bro, you did not ask that guy 4 times but instead you asked the bahn mi lady and guy for the drink and they don’t even work there. You also raised your voice right away when he remained calm.

    • @WildCARLOSappeared
      @WildCARLOSappeared  Рік тому +13

      How can tourists know it's not their restaurant if no one explains it to you? And that guy clearly raised his voice first and he constantly interrupted me while talking.

    • @Wes-k6o
      @Wes-k6o Рік тому +25

      @@WildCARLOSappearedthose stalls are all on the outskirts of the restaurant and you got vietnamese food, where you sat was Chinese food. You would think after seeing that you ordered from a stall outside the restaurant and a completely different cuisine that they are not affiliated. I didn’t hear him raise his voice first and if he did you said you’ve asked him 4 times which isn’t true so I would get mad too honestly. 13:43 is where the conversation started and you did raise your voice first he just said sir can you please while pointing at the menu. Like you also said your pronunciation also wasn’t the best although I can understand you this is an Asian country. I love your vlogs but I do think you were in the wrong for this one. If anything the bahn mi lady although very nice steered you wrong without informing you that sitting there isn’t free.

    • @imjuzsayin..5017
      @imjuzsayin..5017 Рік тому +11

      NUT meg vs NOOT meg

    • @genelee5552
      @genelee5552 Рік тому +9

      ​@@imjuzsayin..5017betul tu... Org tak paham dia punya pronunciation...

    • @henryyeoh8610
      @henryyeoh8610 Рік тому

      I am with you. The coffee should put a sign to informed their customers.@@WildCARLOSappeared

  • @naadeel8562
    @naadeel8562 Рік тому +64

    😂😂 I think this situations is a funny one..both are having miscommunication which involves WORD PLAY..This situation happen because the girl thoughts Carlos didn't want to order when he said 'NUTMEG DRINK' because she might understand and heard it as 'NOT MAKE DRINK'..that is why she pointed out the rules..at this point she might think U are rude by telling her to not make a drink so that is why she pass it to the man..but the man I think also understand U as the girl did which is 'NOT MAKE DRINK' thus he thought that U didn't want to follow the rules and he also might think that U are rude on keep repeating not making drink for U when U actually said 'NUTMEG DRINK' so he started to said U need to go outside if U don't want to drink..only then the man seem to understand after U point it out on the menu..that is why the man started to speak in lower tone and treat U nice and friendly in the end. I think this only happen because of the 'NUTMEG DRINK' order. It might be different if U order others drink.

    • @WildCARLOSappeared
      @WildCARLOSappeared  Рік тому +18

      I agree with you. That nutmeg drink almost got me into a lot of troubles hehe

    • @shannenss
      @shannenss Рік тому +9

      this comment from @naadeel8562 deserve to be pinned. You explained it so well

    • @hashbr6wn
      @hashbr6wn Рік тому +12

      @@WildCARLOSappearedu need to apologize to the chinese guy in your thumbnail for all the miscom caused by your noot make drink

    • @kenken3000
      @kenken3000 Рік тому +1

      A drink vs. a reputation. The shop workers chose the former aka a few ringgit drink. Disappointing. I'd fire them if I were the shop owner.

    • @hashbr6wn
      @hashbr6wn Рік тому

      @@kenken3000 keep licking Shole Ytrash dick and u will be proud to the rest of yo life 😊

  • @bxnjaminyeo
    @bxnjaminyeo Рік тому +83

    Generally coffeeshops do not allow guests to bring in outside food and drinks. But I have to say the staff handled this very poorly.

    • @WildCARLOSappeared
      @WildCARLOSappeared  Рік тому +20

      Yeah it's their rules, absolutely. But I agree with you that someone should have explained it better to newcomer tourists

    • @donwmz
      @donwmz Рік тому +7

      He ordered a drink!

    • @ameirazizol6745
      @ameirazizol6745 Рік тому +4

      ​@@WildCARLOSappearedbro you don't need to be a newcomer to understand what is happening. Even in your own country a lot of restaurants are using the same rule. In this video the man was right and maybe in your own country you're not doing this but in foreign country you do as you like

    • @goldkwi
      @goldkwi Рік тому +5

      But it is NOT NORMAL for coffeeshops to charge money for people not buying a drink

    • @ladykopnazz5860
      @ladykopnazz5860 Рік тому +8

      ​​@@ameirazizol6745 bro, the guy ordered a drink! The waiters don't even know their own menu in English. He spoke good english. I could understand Carlo. The waiter could've at least ask him if he can't understand Carlo. Not ignore him & being rude!!

  • @Geminidreamer1
    @Geminidreamer1 Рік тому +57

    I was from Penang I am so sorry you experienced this. Penang coffee shop owners can be very rude

    • @danielloh1174
      @danielloh1174 11 місяців тому +4

      very very keongkan

    • @Sodierof4tuneBabi
      @Sodierof4tuneBabi 8 місяців тому +2

      boycott this coffeeshop

    • @baji5894
      @baji5894 4 місяці тому

      ​@@Sodierof4tuneBabiBoycott by who?you ha.

  • @TomSau9
    @TomSau9 Рік тому +10

    I feel the guy just didn't understand initially. And wasn't helped that you asked several people before and they didn't explain it to you. Just a misunderstanding

  • @FREDWALKERINDO
    @FREDWALKERINDO Рік тому +8

    13:40 The food stall is not very friendly based on its gestures, it is said that Malaysians are very good at speaking English, in fact they are not, the seller should be more patient with serving customers.

    • @minangjayamulia
      @minangjayamulia Рік тому +6

      He's chinese malaysian bro, he's proud of his chinese language more than any language including malay language

    • @knock-knockwhosthere9933
      @knock-knockwhosthere9933 Рік тому +2

      Those early ones whom he ordered the juice from are the ones not Malaysians...

    • @raychabaharuddin3399
      @raychabaharuddin3399 Рік тому +2

      It is first necessary to assess your own English ability in order to determine whether someone speaks good English. When your English writing is so poor with grammatical errors so obvious, you cannot possibly know that someone's English is not good.

  • @benjaminstephen97
    @benjaminstephen97 Рік тому +9

    Ive been to malaysia. 1 is west, 1 is east. If u wanna find for the friendly malaysians, go to the east. U can learn more culture unlike in the peninsular. More rude humanity compare to the east. Especially the capital, kuala lumpur. It is ashame it is the capital but the people there is quite arrogant compare to the people in east malaysia. Kuala lumpur is a nice place but the people is not. I rather go to the east

    • @beetledune9264
      @beetledune9264 9 місяців тому

      They love playing race card is it.

    • @7Siniestro7Pistolero7
      @7Siniestro7Pistolero7 5 місяців тому +1

      @@beetledune9264The whole country plays the card. Nothing new here.

    • @Vyes2024
      @Vyes2024 Місяць тому

      Not all peninsular state are rude.. Please try come to East coast of peninsular like Kelantan and Terengganu..Their People have better hospitality and food too..

  • @kamarulhisham3203
    @kamarulhisham3203 Рік тому +5

    come to kedah state... food is more cheap in kedah... kedah is near penang state... take train from butterworth, penang to alor setar, kedah... go to gunung jerai in kedah if you want cold climates weather 😊 ...kedah have many waterfall

    • @千苒-c9u
      @千苒-c9u Рік тому

      But kedah portion is smaller?

    • @Millielai12
      @Millielai12 10 місяців тому +2

      ​@user-zw3ef5ri8f But u can try more different food? Idk if it is smaller portion or not. Char kuay teow budget Malay style at Pasar malam was $2.

  • @leeanlh
    @leeanlh 10 місяців тому +22

    After seeing this video i guess the sentiment of malaysian shop owners and ppl would be to avoid this guy (you) instead for shaming the guy over such a small matter

    • @DotAzam
      @DotAzam 10 місяців тому +4

      nah screw that, nobody should be that rude to a customer.

    • @pmq8881
      @pmq8881 9 місяців тому +7

      ​@@DotAzamAs a person from penang, yeah I absolutely agree with you.

    • @kai-j1b2i
      @kai-j1b2i 5 місяців тому

      disagree

  • @dalem6597
    @dalem6597 Рік тому +3

    Did you ask to film inside the gentleman’s premises prior?

  • @m04z
    @m04z Рік тому +34

    If you go to any Malay restaurant you can order anything without even care if you want to order drinks or not. Just pay what you eat.

    • @bloggerhock
      @bloggerhock Рік тому +3

      I don't think I can totally agree with you... It is not about race or ethnics group, a lot of time it gets to do with locations. The more tourist-popular and business competitive a location is, the more common such practice will be becomes. I have visited Malay/Mamak restaurants in Malaysia that has the similar rule. On the other hand, I would also say such rule is not as common in Malay/Mamak restaurants because both foods and drinks are operated by the same owners.

    • @andreakazyncski4518
      @andreakazyncski4518 Рік тому +4

      Someone is being racist here 😂

    • @m04z
      @m04z Рік тому +16

      @@andreakazyncski4518 it's not racist but that's the truth. Sometimes truth hurts

    • @PerikatanNasional2023
      @PerikatanNasional2023 Рік тому +2

      Malay is harga sembelih

    • @m04z
      @m04z Рік тому

      @@PerikatanNasional2023 name one place where price affordable

  • @Gigabites_69
    @Gigabites_69 Рік тому +82

    Bro honestly the guy didn’t deserve to be in your thumbnail, he helped you, and respected you, + it’s sounded more like a misunderstanding or not heard. U both were chill after that no need to push it even more bro

    • @coronavirus5688
      @coronavirus5688 Рік тому +20

      so you mean youtuber deserve to be treated this way then? Even if you dont understand you could say you dont understand what youtuber is saying. youtuber is already EATING AT THE TABLE. and you ask people to leave? like some kind of a dog?

    • @brandonwoo8299
      @brandonwoo8299 Рік тому +13

      Seriously? That is what you call help?

    • @GalvinTechID
      @GalvinTechID Рік тому +16

      cant believe any sane human being accept that kinds of treatment, misunderstood or not, they way he treated him was WRONGG. Don't normalize bad behavior.

    • @sxumm7r
      @sxumm7r Рік тому +4

      Agree,and the fact he put the title telling us to avoid him,I think the rude one is the yt guy does that
      I can kinda see why the blue shirt guy sounded rude and like u said,it does sound more like misunderstanding and before yt guy leave,the blue shirt guy gave him change/just gave him money as apologies

    • @sxumm7r
      @sxumm7r Рік тому +1

      ​@@coronavirus5688and what if he dk how to say he don't get it/don't understand?
      Both of them does not deserved to be treated this way
      Idk if u know or not,but usually there are restaurant that doesn't let u stay if u didn't order food or drinks from their shop,it's like living in someone's house rent free or does whatever u want and not what the house owner who invited u thinking u would respect and follow the house rule. So using that kind of logic,if ppl go to his restaurant and not ordering from his restaurant ,the owner can't earn money for himself and his employee.
      if u think a guy doing his business earning money is rude then it is also rude that yt guy calls him out like that and being like how some ppl in Twitter trying to "cancel "ppl right? There are way worse thing human do and this blue shirt guy who don't understand a yt guy saying nutmeg with a wrong pronunciation until he pointed it out(not hating just stating ppl there read it as nut meg not nootmeg) and thought he said he drank a nutmeg juice before arriving there so he doesn't want a drink
      In the end ,yt guy ordered another type of drink and everything was calm again so why posting and hating on someone who u alrdy just solve the prob?

  • @show68channel57
    @show68channel57 Рік тому +39

    16:48 I don't think the asian guy was that bad.
    It's just that he don't quite understand what you were saying due to your heavy accent,
    sometimes I had to play it back again to hear what you were saying as well😅😅

    • @WildCARLOSappeared
      @WildCARLOSappeared  Рік тому +12

      Maybe you're right. But that's not how you treat customers. Keep fixing on the problem doesn't solve the problem. Finding a solution matters.

    • @strikeforce8617
      @strikeforce8617 Рік тому +9

      If he didn't point out the drink nutmeg on the board, I myself don't get it too.
      In fact, what the heck is nutmeg...

    • @WildCARLOSappeared
      @WildCARLOSappeared  Рік тому

      I had it once in a soup. It caused a nice strong taste

    • @emman2702
      @emman2702 Рік тому +1

      @@WildCARLOSappeared but the title of your content is not fixable.poor guy must be avoided

    • @duderandom1266
      @duderandom1266 Рік тому +4

      It’s written there on the wall. He should knw his own menu. Nutmeg

  • @alhudafrozen2717
    @alhudafrozen2717 Рік тому +3

    Its okay just a miss communication...the green drink u had is from a fruit that is call ambra (Ambarella fruit, also called golden apples or jew plums, are sweet and spicy tropical fruits that can be eaten both ripe and unripe) n the small fruit u had is asam boi (salted dried plum)

  • @andresiaw7895
    @andresiaw7895 11 місяців тому +14

    Wait till you visit Hong Kong....then you can tell me who's ruder

    • @casperlim2456
      @casperlim2456 4 місяці тому +1

      Why need to get the difference between which country more rude lol

  • @nafishaziq
    @nafishaziq Рік тому +21

    He said no nutmeg juice bro what's ur problem? 13:54

    • @WildCARLOSappeared
      @WildCARLOSappeared  Рік тому

      He talked quietly and furthermore if you cannot see a person's mouth it's even harder to understand. I just understood 'outside'

    • @akimamin7670
      @akimamin7670 10 місяців тому +4

      You are in a multi cultural country but your waitresses doesn’t seem to understand english at the slightest. That is the problem and then pushing it to your male colleague without explaining anything 🤦

  • @adeyz
    @adeyz Рік тому +49

    The food you ordered outside at the food stalls isn't a part of the restaurant establishment. When you didn't order drinks or food, from his restaurant, he's thinks you're only using his restaurant tables and chairs and his restaurant eating areas to eat the stuff you bought from outside. That's why he was annoyed. Once you became his customer by ordering drinks from his restaurant , he treats you as his customer, as how a customer should be treated.

    • @WildCARLOSappeared
      @WildCARLOSappeared  Рік тому +17

      Mh but the Banh Mi seller advised me to go inside the restaurant. And in the beginning I didn't even notice the sign that you have to order a drink. Communication is key and if there's a lack of communication or no one explains the important things, something like in the video can happen. On the other hand I don't say that I'm super innocent in general. But what the guy did is not the way how you treat people / customers / win new customers. Especially cause I tried to order a drink a couple of times with multiple persons

    • @adeyz
      @adeyz Рік тому +35

      By the way, we have rules, regulations, more like a guidelines here in Malaysia , to do and what not to do. We're definitely not like Indonesia where you can do literally anything as you please. So, obey the laws, respect the culture, the people, and the people's way of life (I'm from KL and I too have to adjust to the way of the Penangites when I visit there) and we'll all get along fine. Cheers.

    • @ravinepz
      @ravinepz Рік тому +10

      That's still rude, he is a tourist, everything should be allowed for foreigners, owner lost humanity here

    • @digiedaw_
      @digiedaw_ Рік тому +20

      @@adeyz what do you mean "you can do literally anything as you please"? in Indonesia we have rules and culture to obey too, but you don't have to be rude to say it to someone who didn't know it, especially to foreigner who used to live with different rule and culture

    • @adeyz
      @adeyz Рік тому +1

      ⁠tell that to your countrymen in the comment section 😉

  • @preetambeeharry
    @preetambeeharry 10 місяців тому +22

    Carlos is creating sensation to get lots of "likes". The shop owner was kind, returning the "changes".

  • @baddoggi4238
    @baddoggi4238 Рік тому +52

    What I hate about Penang is you have to order from A or B in order to sit down and enjoy your food. When you ordered some food, the drink stall would force you to get some otherwise you can't sit. They are in this together which I find it super lame. If the same situation happened with me and the waiter here, I would be pissed as well. I'm an overseas Malaysian and I do feel you bro.

    • @MamuWizz84
      @MamuWizz84 Рік тому +8

      Dont come to penang then 🤷🏼‍♂️

    • @Ario26
      @Ario26 Рік тому +36

      @@MamuWizz84 what an awful and arrogant response 🤣

    • @bloggerhock
      @bloggerhock Рік тому +5

      @baddoggi4238 Foods and drinks are usually not under the same business operators in most coffee shops setup in Malaysia. The drinks are usually sold by the coffee shop owners who supply the space and tables and chairs, also rent out the stall to different food hawkers. Being able to make a few bucks here and there from customers who eat there is part of their small business operations. Each country has its own culture and ways of doing things. While I would agree the local business owner should have acted a little "friendlier", but as tourist, it is also important for one to under the cultural differences and ways of how locals do things. Isn't that is part of traveling?

    • @GoodGood-vb8gm
      @GoodGood-vb8gm Рік тому

      I saw one Penang woman taking her Singaporean friends to look for 'good food' in a Penang street. She took them to buy some noodles and bungkus them and took her friend all the way to a coffee shop so that they could sit down and it. The coffee shop is not a public park. The owner has to pay rent and electricity and water bills (you can use its toilet). Therefore, she and her Singaporean friends had to buy drinks from that coffee shop. The coffee shop needs to earn money to exist or else people would have to stand and it and pee where?

    • @xijinpig7978
      @xijinpig7978 Рік тому +1

      Penang will be better under British Administration

  • @izzym1913
    @izzym1913 Рік тому +4

    Its just a small.misunderstanding dont make a big issue ojt of it

  • @bt6508
    @bt6508 Рік тому +13

    It is mind-boggling, the majority of Chinese Malaysians do not speak their national language Bahasa Malaysia. Can you imagine the Chinese of the Philippines or Thailand or Indonesians or Australians or France do not speak their national language and insist on speaking Chinese? It won’t turn well. But hey Malaysians are happy and proud about this, who are we to judge?

    • @yourmother9760
      @yourmother9760 Рік тому +2

      Bukan majority bro, aku seorang cina, kebanyakan kawan cina saya boleh cakap melayu.

    • @azmanamir2523
      @azmanamir2523 Рік тому +5

      ​​@@yourmother9760kebanyakan kawan kamu, kebanyakan kawan saya ramai tak boleh cakap BM.

    • @yourmother9760
      @yourmother9760 Рік тому

      @@azmanamir2523 Kamu dari mana? Mungkin kebanyak orang cina di kawasan kamu tak boleh cakap BM.

    • @azmanamir2523
      @azmanamir2523 Рік тому

      @@yourmother9760 kampung lahirnya Chin Peng

    • @genchwan
      @genchwan Рік тому +7

      I'm pretty sure more than 95% of Chinese Malaysians can speak BM. Which jungle are you from?

  • @KahKahKah3x
    @KahKahKah3x Рік тому +6

    i once treated like this because i brought drink from outside.. in penang also.. i eat nasi padang there and i dont know the one who sell drinks is the owner.. but the auntie is yelling like crazy.. scolding me for bringing outside drink.. everyone looked at me.. to be honest, this bro in the video is not rude at all.. just a little bit misunderstanding.. is that you called yelling, u should see the auntie that scold me..

    • @WildCARLOSappeared
      @WildCARLOSappeared  Рік тому +1

      Oh sorry for your bad experience. But you don't have a problem. Usually the people who act like this including yelling have much bigger inner conflicts 🤗

  • @MeijieKook
    @MeijieKook Рік тому +14

    I admit Indonesian people are much more friendly by watching ur videos

    • @WildCARLOSappeared
      @WildCARLOSappeared  Рік тому +13

      So far Indonesian people are definitely more extroverted and funny. Maybe it's because Malaysia is more developed than Indonesia and there are also many Chinese people who sometimes only focus on business. On the other hand I've been in Malaysia for not even 1 month. And I was in Indonesia for 3 years. That makes it hard to give a proper conclusion.l ✌️

    • @Rairahman-e5g
      @Rairahman-e5g Рік тому

      Sekarang Indonesia lebih maju juga, silahkan di ceck. Terbukti Indonesia menjadi tuan rumah G 20

    • @yourmother9760
      @yourmother9760 Рік тому +1

      @@WildCARLOSappeared Not all chinese people are like that, maybe in more in Penang, but if you go to somewhere like KL or Selangor this type of treatment wont happen much

    • @maxwellsvlog6218
      @maxwellsvlog6218 Рік тому

      @@yourmother9760
      Exactly, and well said. KL and Selangor are cities and don't have such unetiquette or rude behavior.

  • @imjuzsayin..5017
    @imjuzsayin..5017 Рік тому +3

    There're many hateful comments here. I don't think Malaysian viewers will watch this channel. Hopefully this channel growing as you travel from a country to another country

    • @WildCARLOSappeared
      @WildCARLOSappeared  Рік тому +1

      What can I say. Vlogging in Malaysia makes rather economically sense if you have a huge audience that keeps watching your videos wherever you go. Most of the locals usually only watch content from their own country. I think people from 1st world countries don't care that much about their own country. For example I wouldn't watch an Indonesian guy traveling in Germany. But I would maybe watch him traveling in 3rd world countries if he is has a cool personality. My channel will keep growing 🚀 even though we still depend on an algorithm, but it's a smart and fair algorithm

    • @imjuzsayin..5017
      @imjuzsayin..5017 Рік тому +2

      I don't know another country but Malaysian watching travelers' contents in Malaysia. They did it for algorithm too

    • @WildCARLOSappeared
      @WildCARLOSappeared  Рік тому

      But not many people live in Malysia. And beside that there are many Chinese and South Asian people, not sure if they like to watch vlogs like this. It is what it is

    • @imjuzsayin..5017
      @imjuzsayin..5017 Рік тому +5

      It's not about how many people in a country. It's about how many people attach to social media in that country. You might want to see another German travel vlog such as KenAbroad

    • @beetledune9264
      @beetledune9264 9 місяців тому

      Malaysia tak power macam jiran sebelah,,berapa juta jer banding Indonesia.Saya lebih suka utuber yg jujur daripada 24jam cakap baik2 ker,well i know la some malaysian memang cam s-ial punya cakap.rasis jgn ckp la.

  • @irishque
    @irishque Рік тому +17

    17:23..u dont call tht rude..just one misunderstanding bcoz of language barrier. u dont need to vilify this guy tht way

    • @KK-jq5yx
      @KK-jq5yx Рік тому +5

      its rude. period.

    • @irishque
      @irishque Рік тому +5

      @@KK-jq5yx its not!! PERIODDD!!!

    • @HJun88
      @HJun88 Рік тому +1

      It’s rude.

    • @irishque
      @irishque Рік тому +3

      @@HJun88 ITS NOT

    • @雷鳗鱼
      @雷鳗鱼 Рік тому +1

      its seem rude to me, granted i seem worse from penang, doesn't mean this is not based on the body language, luckily its the young chinese man, if aunty uncle would be much worse

  • @haritswijaya9701
    @haritswijaya9701 Рік тому +26

    Beda banget sama chinese indonesia yg ramah tamah, bisa bahasa Indonesia & daerah. Berbaur menjadi 1 dengan masyarakat lokal indonesia. Dan mereka jga nasionalis. Itu lah keunikan indonesia.

    • @hadyfc17
      @hadyfc17 Рік тому +11

      Jelas beda banget broo, Chinese indonesian lebih sopan dan ramah ketimbang Chinese malaysia

    • @fixyous6068
      @fixyous6068 Рік тому +4

      Hello Cina tempat kau pun mati kena bantai dah lupa ?
      Kerusuhan Mei 1998 di medan dan Jakarta .. kau ingat orang Malaysia ni bodoh ?
      Kes pulau rempang tu apa pula? Rakyat sendiri dibantai pemerintah kamu . Hanya seorang Cina bernama tony winata habis rosak rakyat Melayu di Indonesia .

    • @Orang_Sombong
      @Orang_Sombong Рік тому +2

      Karena Chinese Indo itu sudah terkombinasi budaya Dan tradisi jawadwipa yang mengedepankan adab sopan santun, andap ashor marang liyan

    • @teofilol2666
      @teofilol2666 Рік тому

      Indonesians always take advantage of some bad incidents in Malaysia. Smh.

    • @teofilol2666
      @teofilol2666 Рік тому

      They forgot there were worse incidents in Indonesia whereby Indon acting like some uneducated thugs

  • @kimhuynh4975
    @kimhuynh4975 3 місяці тому

    Its not Carlos fault, the the lady making the banh mi said he could sit there. And then when he tried to order from the shop a drink, they didnt understand their own menu and fobbed him off several times.

  • @mariabudi5579
    @mariabudi5579 Рік тому +8

    Mis understanding.. Don't be sad carlos😢

  • @fozil4180
    @fozil4180 2 місяці тому

    Shop owner (Chinese) workers(foreign)Myanmar, vietnam,Indonesia.

  • @auser5275
    @auser5275 Рік тому +3

    You were in Chinatown of Penang. That's why you are experienced this rudeness. I would avoid this part of town. Also, the food item @8:38 is called "banh mi", an iconic Vietnamese food. It's interesting that the Chinese would copy anything that's popular, then ruin the original taste!

  • @fransfrans1726
    @fransfrans1726 10 місяців тому +1

    I think it's a "ataheitte apple"(Kedondong in Indonesia) taste like raw grass and usually added sour plums

  • @65rainz
    @65rainz Рік тому +5

    pack meant to be packing (for take away)

    • @WildCARLOSappeared
      @WildCARLOSappeared  Рік тому

      Yeah that's what I also thought. I just heard that expression for my first time

  • @ebcho1
    @ebcho1 10 місяців тому +1

    Hi there Carlos. Just as local Malaysian from KL like a me who had worked and stayed there. My best advice is stay clear of eating at those coffee shops insisting to ordering drinks over there. Instead you could just do a takeout and head to somewhere else. Honestly, I can tell you that there is no such thing as to force a customer/tourist to order drinks in KL or even in JB. The only sign you will see at most is no outside food, but a must to order drink is uncalled for. This coffeeshop owners are just too bloody profit oriented and they care less about the quality of service. Lastly, do visit places where locals eat and try to avoid touristy food places cause you will later notice the overprice differences.

  • @dewaagung
    @dewaagung Рік тому +15

    For those who curious, that cafe name is Xi Nan Cafe.

    • @pjpororo323
      @pjpororo323 Рік тому +9

      Thank you, avoid at all cost

    • @maxwellsvlog6218
      @maxwellsvlog6218 Рік тому

      Luckily, it was not "Nan Xi " in Cantonese! 😂

    • @jericsantiago88
      @jericsantiago88 Рік тому +1

      Thanks. Planning to go penang soon and will avoid this place. Also strange that some defensively advice that this is normal and expect foreigners to learn the "culture". Rudeness is not a malaysian culture. Its just an isolated bad behavior.

    • @nicholaschoo2369
      @nicholaschoo2369 11 місяців тому +1

      Lmao been there. Service was usual for me as a local. So surreal that it got bad rep

    • @MegaSuehan
      @MegaSuehan 11 місяців тому

      Thank you. Will patronize that place to see for myself.

  • @3sa83
    @3sa83 10 місяців тому +2

    Go to west Malaysia, Sarawak,you will find more delicious food,like kolo mee,Laksa Sarawak and more,we friendly here

    • @WildCARLOSappeared
      @WildCARLOSappeared  10 місяців тому

      That's on my list for my next visit to Malaysia actually 🤗

  • @Hadez77
    @Hadez77 Рік тому +5

    He had ordered food and was eating at the restaurant, he already had a drink at the table, and ordered another drink at the restaurant but was told to leave if he didn't order a drink at the restaurant😢 what a rude service😢

  • @jaturongl1622
    @jaturongl1622 11 місяців тому +1

    He is not that bad. I think its just miscommunication. Plus people in different cultures, they are not expecting you to tip.

  • @fiansonline2498
    @fiansonline2498 Рік тому +10

    In indonesia owner will be happy if there is a foreigner sit in their table even the foreigner did not order. They will taking photo with the foreigner as promotion for their shop.

    • @WildCARLOSappeared
      @WildCARLOSappeared  Рік тому +4

      This is something what I generally don't understand. If there's someone filming, obviously making a video for youtube, why the owners or staff don't try their best to satisfy that customer? I mean I don't expect being treated like a king and that's not the point. But it can be a pretty good move to get some more customers in the best case. Or even many more customers. Instead most of the staff is just lazy or they just give you an average customer service. At least if I was a restaurant owner, I would take the chance. And beside that it can be so much fun for both having a meaningful conversation or just joke around a bit

    • @hobby_garage1767
      @hobby_garage1767 4 місяці тому

      Most of the workers who serve in this video are Indonesians lol.. those who refuse to serve are also like Indonesians.. this is the Malaysian Chinese area,malay Malaysia will not work in Chinese stalls because the food is haram.. most of them are Indonesian workers..

  • @thesecondtcchannel350
    @thesecondtcchannel350 Рік тому +4

    As a Penang citizen i hate those kind of "Kopi Tiam" Coffee Shop owners. They force people to order something to eat from the stalls and they are brutal. You did order though, he is just terrible at English and didn't really know how to proper handle the situation. I hope you enjoyed the rest of Penang.

    • @WildCARLOSappeared
      @WildCARLOSappeared  Рік тому +1

      Penang was nice. But the food is a bit overrated in my opinion. What do you think?

    • @ktng3176
      @ktng3176 11 місяців тому +1

      ​@@WildCARLOSappeared
      Indeed, Penang food is so, so only.
      Nothing really special. 😅

    • @ukchatman4920
      @ukchatman4920 11 місяців тому

      @@WildCARLOSappeared totally agree with you the food is way overrated we went to many popular places and was disappointed

  • @Ccb88888
    @Ccb88888 Рік тому +18

    This happened to me in Penang too when I visited in 2017. I only ordered food. Did not want to order a drink- but the drinks guy was pissed. I had a medical condition which meant I could only drink sterilised water- which I drank from my water bottle- which I sterilised every evening……I was super paranoid about eating and drinking in Georgetown- I had never seen so many rats in my life! The food tasted good- but the rats really put me off my food….

    • @bloggerhock
      @bloggerhock Рік тому +4

      I am sorry to hear about your medical condition. But to be fair and honest, foods and drinks are usually not under the same business operators in most coffee shops setup in Malaysia. The drinks are usually sold by the coffee shop owners who supply the space and tables and chairs, also rent out the stall to different food hawkers. Being able to make a few bucks here and there from customers who eat there is part of their small business operations. Just sharing that so you are aware and understand the cultural differences, And if you are concerned about the hygiene of street foods or hawkers, and I would also suggest you go to more established dine-in restaurants or fast foods. There are plenty of such options in Penang/Malaysia.

    • @雷鳗鱼
      @雷鳗鱼 Рік тому +5

      sorry bout that,unfortunately most chinese kopitiam are operate like this, we local already accustomed to this kind of culture, not saying this is good, but there's nothing to be done, but most eatery like cafe or malay operate one would be much more friendly than chinese kopitiam,some hawkers street food do have hygiene problem i agree with that, i also suggest only to visit dine in restaurants since u have medical condition, do give malaysia another chance next time

    • @GoodGood-vb8gm
      @GoodGood-vb8gm Рік тому

      Then, respect the restaurant's rule and pay RM$2.00 for using its premises. Don't you know when Angmos go to less developed country, they think their five-cent coin is as big as the wheel of a bullock cart?

    • @Ccb88888
      @Ccb88888 Рік тому +5

      @@GoodGood-vb8gm This system is stupid. Why confuse tourists with such a system? Nobody is disputing the drinks stall holder's right to get payment, but since the food stall holders are his tenants, the rent is already baked into the food prices. Besides, I shouldn't get aggravation from the drinks' stall due to a medical condition.

    • @MrWalter2202
      @MrWalter2202 Рік тому

      Rats? In which month have you been there? I was there from January to February and I saw almost zero!

  • @jasonli991
    @jasonli991 Рік тому +1

    It's merely a misunderstanding. Since English is not their native language, it's helpful to speak slowly and use complete sentences. For instance, saying "I want to order a nutmeg juice" will ensure clarity, as the word "nutmeg" may sound like other words, causing confusion.

  • @arisirawan9832
    @arisirawan9832 Рік тому +40

    In Indonesia, regardless of ethnicity, they have the same friendliness, bro. Sometimes the only problem is language, but I think they try to remain friendly 😊😊

    • @WildCARLOSappeared
      @WildCARLOSappeared  Рік тому +4

      With language barriers it's more fun usually 😀 even though more complicated too

    • @arisirawan9832
      @arisirawan9832 Рік тому +4

      @@WildCARLOSappeared Yes, bro, because in Indonesia there are many languages, there are many characters, so every time you visit a place in Indonesia, it's like in other countries, bro...

    • @WildCARLOSappeared
      @WildCARLOSappeared  Рік тому +2

      That's so true. Your country is soooo diverse 🤩

    • @amigeomahadi7587
      @amigeomahadi7587 Рік тому

      @@WildCARLOSappeared nobody ask you some money

    • @RiveriaAllas
      @RiveriaAllas Рік тому +16

      ​@@WildCARLOSappearedIndonesia and Philippine is friendly country, not like Malaysia...

  • @eonwalk
    @eonwalk Рік тому +5

    😅 he looked so id1ot when you point at the menu.. LOL

  • @mizitige
    @mizitige Рік тому +8

    welcome to penang bro, i firstime go visit in there i fight with chinese guy at cafe it, haha

    • @WildCARLOSappeared
      @WildCARLOSappeared  Рік тому

      Hope you won the fight bro 😀 Kidding. What happened that there was a fight? 😳

    • @mizitige
      @mizitige Рік тому +3

      ​@@WildCARLOSappearedthe lady in ur video rude first, maybe bec she has period, but her husband at last he treat u nice back, so its zero2 situasion, this is not first time i see penang ppl rude with tourist 👍🏾

    • @WildCARLOSappeared
      @WildCARLOSappeared  Рік тому +1

      Which lady do you mean? 🙃

    • @baji5894
      @baji5894 4 місяці тому

      ​@@mizitigeDon't expect Chinese people's won't fight back huh

  • @AriaPearls
    @AriaPearls Рік тому +1

    Maybe What they heard was 😂 “I order a “not make juice /not make drink”.
    The waiter: sir you must at least order one drink or sit outside..
    You: for the fourth time “not make drink”
    Nutmeg drink❌
    Not make drink ✅
    😂😂😂😅😅

  • @midlands8819
    @midlands8819 Рік тому +26

    I cant blame the guy in blue tbh. They clearly didnt understand what you said when you mentioned 'nutmeg' because of your accent. You need to stop and think where you went wrong Carlos. In the end the guy still recommended you a juice and you loved it

    • @fidprudentialbsn45
      @fidprudentialbsn45 Рік тому +7

      Nahh the worker is rude, even when the white guu asking the girl for it she was just showing an act of rude and dont care and no care at all and even the chinese man is rude and showing an act of rude, they dont represent malaysia i think these guys is chinese from china and chinese in mlysia, you dont to that to a customer who wants to order a drink for the 5 time and you show them you dont care? Wtf is that

    • @sxumm7r
      @sxumm7r Рік тому +2

      ​@@fidprudentialbsn45 I hope u're not racist with one of ur sentence,a country/race doesn't define all of the ppl from there,some can be rude but there are ppl that are not,ppl are not born to be that way,but was learn to be that way. Imagine being called rude bcs ppl judges on where u are from and not who u urself are
      now next thing,
      tbh it's a lil rude for the girl in the store to just hand the ordering to the blue shirt guy but if I didn't hear it wrongly,she said no more(nutmeg) then call the blue shirt guy to take his order,the blue shirt guy may misunderstood that when the guy said nutmeg and that he thought he said he had a nutmeg drink before coming to his store and eat ,that's why he said he don't care and asked the guy to order a drink(it does sound rude,it could be a language barrier prob or he was actually rude but I honestly can't rly say much based on this vid)
      Tho based on this vid,I think he's not that rude, like blue shirt guy gave the change/apology cents to him and showing thank you gesture ,and in one scene where this guy showed the blue shirt guy taking someone's order,he was asking calmly and pointing the menu with manner to a customer
      No hate but when yt guy said he ordered 5 time,u can't rly blame it all on the blue shirt guy,alot of shops like this have foreign workers that don't speak English,some can't even speak bm/mandarin,some shop owner do teach them some basic words in certain language for taking order purposes but some dont even do that,plus I think some of the ppl he asked doesn't even work at that shop hence no order was taken.
      ik it's long but it is to prove my point/opinion in this vid

    • @aidilfikry8478
      @aidilfikry8478 Рік тому +3

      @@fidprudentialbsn45 ckp pakai lepas je ko ni, haha 5times dia order tu dngn org yg keje stall depan, dorang plk x fhm english language dan girl yg rude tu dia pun x faham english dan tingkahlaku dia plk agak rude depan customer time tngh makan, tu yg tourist turn off, yg lelaki tu dia x rude cuma tegas, sbb mat salleh tu kata dia dh order air beberapa kali kt luar, dan laki tu dh ckp, stall luar lain2 x sama, ko dngr la video ni btl2 sblum komen, ayat english ko tu mcm nk kata tu smua chinese, ko tngok btl2, kt luar tu nepal indonesia ada skali, ko fhm kn dlu video ni, jgn nk memalukan malaysia dngn komen mcm ni, komen kena jujur dan bijak

    • @fidprudentialbsn45
      @fidprudentialbsn45 Рік тому +1

      ​@aidilfikry8478 point dia kat sni, klu dia slah order ngan ngan pmpuan tu pn apa mslaah dia pmpuan tu ckap elok2 pggl pkrja yg llaki tu cara elok, ni x, main hayun2 tngn mcmtu ja, laki cina tu pn apa yg ssah sgt nk ckap ja elok2, kita ni sbagai org mlysia kna layan ttamu la elok2, xda pn org putih maki2 kan, ko nk prtahan bnda salah, xheran la mlysia ni makin ramai org mcm ni, sbab ramai mntaliti mcm tu, org putih ni dtg mlysia buat video nk promote mlysia kat tourist juga, jd tnjuk la cntoh baik2, nk ikut emosi smua org bleh buat, klau buat jd bdoh la mlysia kat mata ngara lain

    • @muhammadsyarif3985
      @muhammadsyarif3985 Рік тому +2

      Rude is rude man

  • @GalvinTechID
    @GalvinTechID Рік тому +4

    It's rude and anyone says otherwise is delusional, this is NOT how you treat a clearly tourist/foreign person. What disgusting is how many Malaysian in the comment appropriating his behavior ewww I'm glad I didn't live there.

    • @雷鳗鱼
      @雷鳗鱼 Рік тому

      yes this is indeed rude, granted it can be way worst if its the uncle aunty from kopitiam, but overall most eatery by malay is friendly, u can look into other malaysia travel video if u dont believe me, the problem is chinese kopitiam culture problem and we local already accustomed to that, but u can totally avoid it by not visiting any of the kopitiam if u do not like it, overall the people are still nice and friendly here

  • @badrulsamsudin7432
    @badrulsamsudin7432 Рік тому +2

    Location : XI NAN CAFE
    353, Chulia St, Georgetown, 10200 George Town, Penang

    • @WildCARLOSappeared
      @WildCARLOSappeared  Рік тому

      Oh, I guess they deleted some of their newest reviews. Last time I checked their google maps, they had plenty of 1star reviews hehe

  • @RizzPriset
    @RizzPriset Рік тому +3

    Bro, I want to ask, is it better to eat in Malaysia or Indonesia?

    • @MrCntrl_
      @MrCntrl_ Рік тому +3

      ofc indonesia

    • @WildCARLOSappeared
      @WildCARLOSappeared  Рік тому +6

      I can's say it so far, cause I was in Indonesia for 3 years and I tried so much there. In Malaysia all together I have been for 1 month.

    • @RiveriaAllas
      @RiveriaAllas Рік тому +2

      ​@@MrCntrl_Philippine better😂

    • @MrCntrl_
      @MrCntrl_ Рік тому

      @@RiveriaAllas not rly, the fastfood is good but the st food ain't good, sorry bro

    • @gojosatoru7836
      @gojosatoru7836 Рік тому

      ?

  • @roybuffet7542
    @roybuffet7542 Рік тому +5

    Tourist should come to visit Sarawak. You will feel the difference in courtesy, polite and friendly attitude where you hang around compare to penang. I agreed that most of them doing business with a rude and unfriendly way. Everything is about money. This is the only state in Malaysia that you should not consider for holidays. Rude, bad attitude and you are forced to purchase drinks or else you need to pay for entrance fee even you order food but yet serve you with the unwelcome behaviour. This will not happen to Sarawak at all. You will love Sarawak after your visiting. Food is much cheaper and people here are courtesy and you are freely to sit anywhere without paying anything and always being welcome without paying anything when entering any food parade here. No one will force you to purchase any food or drinks. No crap policies like penang. Should boycott visiting Penang food parade. Teach them a lesson when they don’t have business.

    • @EdwinThePooh
      @EdwinThePooh Рік тому +2

      Hi friend, unfortunately I have experienced the same in food courts in Sibu, Sarawak too. Same thing, no drinks ordered, no seating. However Sarawak is a much friendlier place than Penang for sure.

    • @MonsterHunter0000
      @MonsterHunter0000 11 місяців тому +1

      Food is cheaper?? U sure??

    • @AkuCintaIslamVideo
      @AkuCintaIslamVideo 11 місяців тому

      @@MonsterHunter0000 We can guess where did he eat 🤣

  • @decTac
    @decTac Рік тому +8

    As if you're owned by Indonesians, better stay there only..ha ha

    • @baji5894
      @baji5894 4 місяці тому

      Can you explain what you trying to say

  • @bennology88
    @bennology88 Рік тому +17

    im from penang, im sorry for ur bad experience.. obviously it's their mistake, not your fault...
    i hope u enjoy ur penang trip anyway and come again~

    • @Hadez77
      @Hadez77 Рік тому +2

      Please ask them, He came peacefully and well to your place, please respect tourists who behave well not chase away

    • @yoppiear
      @yoppiear 11 місяців тому +2

      He had already ordered food, why did they insist him to order a drink as well? Very rude society.

  • @jenntan1277
    @jenntan1277 11 місяців тому +2

    tbh with the accent, "nootmeg" doesn't sound the same as nutmeg to someone whom first language isnt english. It kind of sounded like "not make drink"... But the staff could have handled it better.

    • @WildCARLOSappeared
      @WildCARLOSappeared  11 місяців тому

      I agree with you with both 💪🏼

    • @7Siniestro7Pistolero7
      @7Siniestro7Pistolero7 5 місяців тому

      What nonsense, the vlogger clearly started that he ordered a drink so how does any sane person can think he said “not make drink”? Stop condoning such rude people in Malaysia.

  • @AzlindaRosAbdulAziz
    @AzlindaRosAbdulAziz Рік тому +15

    Dear Carlos,
    As a Malaysian I'm truly sorry about what happened to you... It is not Malaysian hospitality but sometimes the language barrier do become a problem when they don't understand what you're trying to say.
    Still some people just don't know how to treat others nicely... I'm really sorry for that...
    I hope you don't feel regret coming to Malaysia just because one man's action. Malaysia is actually a very great place for you to explore...some glitches are normal but I hope you enjoy staying here....

    • @whybotherha1021
      @whybotherha1021 Рік тому +6

      Amboi. Sampai mcm ni. Jgn soft sgt.

    • @knock-knockwhosthere9933
      @knock-knockwhosthere9933 Рік тому +5

      13:43 you can keep replaying the incident when Carlos was approached by the guy with glasses (X) and put yourself in the X's shoe. Was X really rude? X was trying to explain but X was labeled rude right away. If X was a rude person, X would not be entertaining the other foreigners, isn't it.

    • @mrniceman8683
      @mrniceman8683 Рік тому

      @@Msnanashahida melon negara racist no 2 di dunia 😂..
      Malaysia masuk dalam daftar negara paling rasis nomor dua di dunia dengan point indexs 6,32 per tanggal 27 September 2022. Hal tersebut diketahui lewat hasil survei yang dilakukan oleh Index Mundi yang memperlihatkan urutan negara paling rasis di dunia, Negara Jiran Malaysia menduduki peringkat kedua.

    • @ranggaaditya1260
      @ranggaaditya1260 Рік тому

      ​@@Msnanashahidahahaha opini yang sangat bodoh kawan

    • @muniramoon1012
      @muniramoon1012 Рік тому +2

      Softnyer awak. Lelaki tu x nampak rude pun. Lelaki tu lagi better dari carlos. Malaysian hospitality ada tahap dia, takkan sampai kena pijak kepala still nak kena soft? Awak memang layak dgn mentaliti indonesia.

  • @BlueStrawberry-f2t
    @BlueStrawberry-f2t 4 місяці тому +2

    Owner cina, pekerja warga asing bangla, filipina, konoha

  • @melonusk6120
    @melonusk6120 Рік тому +15

    he thought you gonna nutmeg him (in soccer) therefore he is angry

  • @ariffizwanhashim7609
    @ariffizwanhashim7609 9 місяців тому +1

    Can we malaysian complain how european treat us esp in restaurant?

  • @heikotekoto9168
    @heikotekoto9168 Рік тому +8

    Some of the Penang kopitiam owner do behave like that. They treat everyone with the same behave no matter you are local or foreigner. Maybe that’s their culture and local Penang people don’t mind.

    • @starletlianhua4235
      @starletlianhua4235 Рік тому +4

      No! Malaysian mind! This is politeness that we should all practice, especially in food and service industry. I personally hate this type of rude person too! U have a mouth and language to explain, especially to tourist! Should boycott this kind of rude owner!

    • @heikotekoto9168
      @heikotekoto9168 Рік тому +6

      @@starletlianhua4235 Is most of the local Penang mind. For those who live out of Penang I can say most of them don’t accept this type of culture. Living cost at KL Selangor is much more higher than Penang, but kopitiam owner will not forcing customer to order beverage.

    • @maxwellsvlog6218
      @maxwellsvlog6218 Рік тому +2

      We do not practice such uncivilized business etiquette in Kuala Lumpur and klang valley

    • @Bestow3000
      @Bestow3000 Рік тому +1

      Bs. That's a horrible mentality to have. No way anyone should learn from them. I was born and raised here in Penang and this is NOT how you treat people. If I was treated this way which thankfully I haven't because there's no pronunciation barrier...I won't let them treat me that way.

  • @jopollard7836
    @jopollard7836 Рік тому +1

    I have a question for you. I’m due to go to KL in December for 4 days. Solo female traveller. KL doesn’t look too friendly would I be better heading to penang? First time solo so have some apprehensions

    • @ZandraTravels
      @ZandraTravels Рік тому +6

      Sorry for interjecting but you'll be absolutely fine travelling alone. I did it recently and I'm doing it again very soon, so as a female just use your common sense and intuition in situations and more importantly know your currency conversion so you don't get scammed on prices.
      Travel light and act confident in any situation. Use your gut instinct and walk away if it doesn't feel right. Don't tell people you're travelling alone it's none of their business. You're meeting your husband, brother, best friend etc but also don't overthink it. You'll have a wonderful time and feel independent and liberated. I admire you and hope you have many amazing adventures. The world is your oyster so don't avoid one place over another unless the locals have advised that it's dangerous. Safe travels 😀

    • @jopollard7836
      @jopollard7836 Рік тому +2

      @@ZandraTravels thank you 😊

    • @ZandraTravels
      @ZandraTravels Рік тому

      @@jopollard7836 my pleasure 😊

    • @fixyous6068
      @fixyous6068 Рік тому +2

      Kl is 100x better than Jakarta . J have never seem tourists saying Jakarta is the best city in Asean , i can send u videos of foreigners making KL their most favourite place in south east Asia .
      Did u also know Jakarta is the most polluted city in the world ? Among tje biggest slums in Asia ? And in malaysia indonesians are tje major foreigners who are put into jail for many crimes?
      And Please Google “ pulau rempang “ or on UA-cam , the indonesian authorities are expelling their own people for not wanting to move out From their island .

    • @imjuzsayin..5017
      @imjuzsayin..5017 Рік тому +2

      Don't limit yourself to explore. Every countries have their plus & minus. Don't even heard what people said about KL or Jakarta or elsewhere. Go there to feels & experience it by yourself. Unless you're a tourist not a traveller

  • @kaneidareyue7715
    @kaneidareyue7715 11 місяців тому +5

    You really need a Malaysian Chinese person to show you around what's food to get. Also yea the cafe can be strange to order sometimes. So jealous you in Malaysia - I can't wait to go back there again. The problem with Malaysia is that you can only eat so much per day.

  • @SynHong
    @SynHong Рік тому +2

    Silly Carlos. Making food video but picky ASF!
    Going to Penang but going for Vietnam food! What a dingdong

  • @tiny_fern
    @tiny_fern 11 місяців тому +9

    😂😂 it's cute how when you wanted to order the nutmeg juice, you said "permisi" which Indonesians often use it but not malaysians. usually they'll use "maaf" or often times, "tumpang tanya".

  • @rahul19967
    @rahul19967 Рік тому +73

    Its sad on your part for posting his photo in thumbnail and saying " Avoid this man"? You are nobody dude.. Whatever happened doesnt give you any right to just post his photo and say " Avoid" He is human being too. Just accept that it was miscommunication and leave it. Just because you have youtube channel doesnt mean you will just insult anyone. DISLIKE!!❌

    • @Walter-travel
      @Walter-travel 8 місяців тому +5

      so we cant post our own opinion online ? only post the optimistic to the world ?

    • @rahul19967
      @rahul19967 8 місяців тому +2

      @@Walter-travel posting your opinion about something and posting somebodys face on internet with headline" avoid this man" there is big difference. You are exposing him as if he is criminal. just think how you will feel if somebody does the same with you..!

    • @basedneutral1173
      @basedneutral1173 7 місяців тому +5

      @@Walter-travel That is not an opinion, thats framing and cyber discrimination. Who tf randomly puts a stranger faces on thumbnails and insults them through internet??

    • @7Siniestro7Pistolero7
      @7Siniestro7Pistolero7 5 місяців тому +1

      @@rahul19967Well that guy was downright rude and he should be famous for being rude. Thanks to this guy for exposing such rude idiots so that we can avoid such establishments.

    • @7Siniestro7Pistolero7
      @7Siniestro7Pistolero7 5 місяців тому

      ⁠@@basedneutral1173Are you bloody new to the internet? He mentioned avoid this man, ppl like you click it to know why we should avoid this man. And how did he discriminate this rude fella? All I see if this obnoxious Chinese guy discriminating the vlogger unless you saw something and got triggered cause the Chinese guy is your f buddy.

  • @jessiekam
    @jessiekam Рік тому +5

    Most shop in Penang must order drinks. food operator and drinks operator is different owner. The guy suddenly become friendly could b feel guilty as his kind of not so friendly. As a local I also feel is a bit hard. 😅 hope you still enjoy Penang 😂 the beef noodle from this shop is good 👍 .

  • @nishamir_bib75
    @nishamir_bib75 Рік тому +3

    Banyaknya negatif komen dalam nie dari Indonesia...ini semua salah faham saja...sorang pakai mask tidak berapa jelas suaranya...yg sorang lg dengan loghat bahasa tidak berapa di fahami...masalah komunikasi

    • @WinterisComing232-m2c
      @WinterisComing232-m2c 2 місяці тому

      Kalo gitu kamu cuma membenarkan orang malaysia penalarannya rendah. Macam iq rendah

  • @NurAmira-d4p
    @NurAmira-d4p 3 місяці тому

    Chinese at Penang almost always rude. . They do not accept if you bring drink from other shop... Keep smile..

  • @SanDex-V-Felix
    @SanDex-V-Felix Рік тому +31

    This vibe is totally different from ur indonesian series from the beginning 😢
    💝🇱🇰

    • @WildCARLOSappeared
      @WildCARLOSappeared  Рік тому +16

      Yeah, that's true 😀 But I will check out some local Malaysian areas soon. I gotta go out a bit further from the touristic parts

  • @haha4581
    @haha4581 11 місяців тому

    Dear Carlos guy,
    He is not being rude, you as tourist perhaps need to ask permission in the first place, right?
    Don't have the mindset that the locals will accommodate your 'needs' and you can do what you want when you visit Asian countries.
    You can try bring sandwich and sit in Italian restaurant in Venice, I will be surprise if they don't chase you out.
    He is 100% more nice compare most of the restaurant owners in HK...

    • @WildCARLOSappeared
      @WildCARLOSappeared  11 місяців тому

      99% of the people here in the comments share another opinion. But that's fine. I also sometimes don't share the opinion with the majority

  • @M_Jono
    @M_Jono Рік тому +7

    Many Malaysian chinese seller are rude I agree , I am Indonesian and I encounter this kind of people alot.

    • @L20241
      @L20241 Рік тому

      Chinese are bloody rude as a msian Indian living in California I totally DO NOT miss msian and Singaporean Chinese!

    • @baji5894
      @baji5894 4 місяці тому +2

      Yeah we remembered 1998

    • @kbchris3233
      @kbchris3233 3 місяці тому

      then go back where you came from.

  • @BoyPenTa-o8b
    @BoyPenTa-o8b Рік тому +2

    Better travel in the Philippines. Why?? Because even vendors can speak English even though they just finish high school 😢 plus people in the Philippines are mostly hospitable

    • @yourmother9760
      @yourmother9760 Рік тому

      Most malaysians know english too bruh, even after elementry school, its just that this one guy doesnt. And a lot of malaysians are also hospitable.

  • @sly-vlog
    @sly-vlog Рік тому +2

    The shop guy should give a drinks menu for the customer to order…case solved

  • @PranicEnergy
    @PranicEnergy 10 місяців тому +1

    I am not a Malaysian. But I think this blogger is a petty fellow. There will always be people who are less intelligent and who lack social grace. That chap would not have been working as a waiter in a coffee shop if he had been otherwise.There is no need to post his faces on social media for the whole world to see and to shame him. I guess this is your way of taking revenge.

  • @genelee5552
    @genelee5552 Рік тому +9

    Lol... Its ur accent...nutmeg not nootmeg

  • @hsincheung
    @hsincheung 11 місяців тому

    the waiter misunderstands your pronunciation. actually he should not ask to dine out if you dont order beverage from them..
    Also earlier on there is a lady, but that lady is not local malaysian, she is a foreigner. we as locals also sometimes find it hard to communicate with them as well.. so due to communication barrier, it's recommended to point at the menu on what you really want.

  • @holykucing
    @holykucing Рік тому +4

    Tq for video so i can avoid this restarant😊

  • @muthulingamramiah5546
    @muthulingamramiah5546 Рік тому +1

    Hi Brother, please don't let this ruin your food journey here. However, in the Shop Owner's defense, most restaurants all over the globe doesn't allow outside food and drinks...
    This is quite common and it is not something new or exclusive to this restaurant...
    If you insist on bringing in your own drinks, then it is common to follow the house rules and pay for corkage...
    Please try our Chicken Satay, Lamb Satay, Nasi Lemak, Nasi Kandar and Lamb Dumpling if you get the opportunity...

    • @harris4874
      @harris4874 Рік тому

      seems like he gets the rules....Guy's after a nutmeg juice,but the stall guy is a bit dodgy with the English...got this selective English thing going on stuff like that..The stall guy ain't catching what he's on about and now the owner's angry thinking the guy wants to sit without ordering drinks. Tough break.

    • @muthulingamramiah5546
      @muthulingamramiah5546 Рік тому

      @@harris4874 Yes Brother, I understand, but having traveled so much "The Tourist" should have been able to understand and adjust to the dynamics of a fast paced normal, street side local Coffee Shop... Most coffee shops/ restaurants depend on their peak hours to make the most money and in order to do that, they have to be fast and efficient and they need all the customers to order as fast as possible. If they are out of Nutmeg Juice, the customer should quickly choose another drink option instead of wasting the owner's time by occupying the seat of another potential customer...
      I'm not trying to be rude, but a little understanding from the tourist would have solved this issue...
      Having said that, the lady who tried to take the order initially did seem a little too agitated and impatient which might have triggered such a reaction from the Tourist in the first place...
      In this case, the lady should have been more polite and welcoming instead of being so agitated and unwelcoming... I say it's a mistake on both sides...

    • @ktng3176
      @ktng3176 11 місяців тому

      It's HILARIOUS to me.
      You blamed your CUSTOMER because of your own poor command of English.

  • @SatiagoDeroza
    @SatiagoDeroza Рік тому +7

    Only Indonesia, Thailand, and Philippines who had great hospitality in SEA.

    • @WildCARLOSappeared
      @WildCARLOSappeared  Рік тому +4

      I can approve that all of these 3 countries have extremely friendly citizens

    • @ravinepz
      @ravinepz Рік тому +2

      True

    • @Lahturudek
      @Lahturudek Рік тому +2

      Very True

    • @bt6508
      @bt6508 Рік тому

      And Malay Malaysians have great personalities too. Chinese everywhere are just plain rude.

    • @Msnanashahida
      @Msnanashahida Рік тому +12

      @@wanzmejuez Macam negara dia friendly sangat😅

  • @littleleon7987
    @littleleon7987 11 місяців тому +1

    Better visit another part of Malaysia, such as Borneo. Better than peninsular. I cant stand with their stall shop services oughhh

  • @lucifero9077
    @lucifero9077 Рік тому +4

    He is too ignorant to apologize to the customer 💀

    • @PrimarisAngelusMortis
      @PrimarisAngelusMortis 22 дні тому

      You're a kiasu it's your kind of attitude that doesn't belong to Malaysia and brings down our country's image.
      The customer isn't rude the guy in the blue was.
      You should be polite now to others for your own good or you will be forced to be polite in the near Future

  • @conned
    @conned 9 місяців тому

    He's not rude, it's language barrier,he did try to understand you n take your order, n return your change...the girl waitress is the rude one! So please edit your clickbaits...ha

  • @gfndceqmavhor354
    @gfndceqmavhor354 Рік тому +3

    Thru the whole vid i observed... There is a lady who doesn't understand what drink you mentioned so she shouted to the blue shirt guy to serve you... That stupid lady server is the culprit behind this miscommunication... If i was there i will def scokd that girl who avoid to take order and give me a ignorant face..

  • @Mystic_Edge
    @Mystic_Edge 10 місяців тому

    Malaysia stopidity at its finest ✨️

  • @saikyoukanno23
    @saikyoukanno23 Рік тому +5

    Mantap bang carlos aku suka vlog bang carlos ❤

  • @Mystic_Edge
    @Mystic_Edge Рік тому +1

    Yes this is how real malaysian treat foreigners

  • @aboychullen800
    @aboychullen800 Рік тому +6

    As a penangites, im so sorry for you to experience this, please feel free to visit penang later! there are plenty more to see and eat!

    • @Ogjfdnhgo3193
      @Ogjfdnhgo3193 11 місяців тому

      Penangites always cibai....love to act like penang is big city

    • @aboychullen800
      @aboychullen800 11 місяців тому

      @@Ogjfdnhgo3193 who’s that? maybe your siblings? sorry to hear that bro😢 sorry to hear that your family is like that😭 for now i dont see any malays like this, not being a racist but yah as you can see who’s being rude with tourists? 🫶🏻

    • @Ogjfdnhgo3193
      @Ogjfdnhgo3193 11 місяців тому

      @@aboychullen800 u dont act like u are my family member la...pukimak penang kian

  • @d7adict
    @d7adict 11 місяців тому +1

    It's a communication gap between you and the vendor. Forgive him as he may have grown up within his own chinese community speaking only chinese and lack English compression

  • @ezadmohd1165
    @ezadmohd1165 Рік тому +4

    Love ur blog

  • @Kiik-h9s
    @Kiik-h9s 10 місяців тому

    you need a red laser pointer to point at menu items on a wall (my experience as a nomad in foreign land)

  • @wisdom215
    @wisdom215 Рік тому +3

    Kapan anda kepadang bos carlos?😅

  • @joannadephinelim9445
    @joannadephinelim9445 Рік тому +2

    Penang Chinese were very unfriendly and racist toward foreigner but it depends on the individual while the local Malay, Indian and Siam people were friendly

    • @aldonaufans
      @aldonaufans Рік тому

      Seriously?

    • @joannadephinelim9445
      @joannadephinelim9445 Рік тому +1

      @@aldonaufans yes I am other state of Malaysia working in Bayan lepas Penang this my experience the Chinese community were not that friendly

    • @PokeTomodachi
      @PokeTomodachi Рік тому +2

      All others state Chinese don't like Penang Chinese also , they're very rude and selfish.

    • @maxwellsvlog6218
      @maxwellsvlog6218 Рік тому

      @@PokeTomodachi
      Exactly. Well said

  • @febriumbararusdi9514
    @febriumbararusdi9514 Рік тому +5

    13:05 13:46 the way they treat customers is very bad, not friendly at all, just ordered one nutmeg juice shouldn't not complicated

    • @WildCARLOSappeared
      @WildCARLOSappeared  Рік тому +1

      I agree with you 😅 That was really complicated cause no one understood me. But my pronunciation was also bad to be fair. On the other hand I've never experienced such a rude waiter and I've eaten in little local restaurants probably more than 1000x within the last 4 years

    • @febriumbararusdi9514
      @febriumbararusdi9514 Рік тому +3

      14:07 even he was saying "i don't care" to the customer, so rude!! well, just forget it Carlos, keep exploring buddy 😎✌

    • @arisirawan9832
      @arisirawan9832 Рік тому

      ​@@WildCARLOSappearedIn the last 4 years, mostly in Indonesia, bro😊😊

  • @shannenss
    @shannenss Рік тому

    I am a local I also don't know. Maybe just this restaurant. I don't order drink too unless I fell like it.

  • @jonasgregchan5917
    @jonasgregchan5917 Рік тому +3

    Ha, this kopitiam and this server. So familiar. I stayed at the hotel next door for 3 months and almost ate here everyday, either inside the kopitiam or at the night hawker stalls. The food isn't very healthy and the drinks sweetened. Developed some health issues later. And this male server, I remembered him. He refused to speak to me in Penang Hokkien. Instead only speak in Mandarin, which I am not well versed in. He did it over and over despite me speaking to him in Hokkien. Maybe he is a cyborg covered with human flesh n skin. Programmed to think only one way. Lack of customer friendliness. I sympathize with Carlos. Unfortunately, this guy seemed incorrigible. Unlike the bar in the 1980's US sitcom Cheers, where everybody knows your name, imo here in Lebuh Carnavon food street, they only know what is in your wallet. Spoilt rotten by tourists, I suspect. The food here is mediocre on average with a few good stalls. Am now a local resident and I avoid coming here anymore. 3 straight months eating here is enough. There are plenty of better eating places with cheaper prices and where the 'everybody knows your name' attitude still prevails, here in Penang. Just being a transient youtuber on a few days whirlwind visit ain't gonna allow one to truly savor the heartland of Penang. Just like Singapore, where the best experiences are in the heartland, not the usual tourist spots.

    • @ms.chuisin7727
      @ms.chuisin7727 11 місяців тому

      Why would you expect everyone to know how to speak a language/dialect that isn't taught at school? Hokkien isn't taught at school bruh, mandarin is. His mother tongue might not be Hokkien, only learn mandarin Chinese at school. Why you sound like those white people screaming "Speak English!!!" at anyone who are speaking other languages when you can actually speak mandarin?

  • @George-yz7vb
    @George-yz7vb Рік тому +2

    Penang one of the unfriendly environment especially in Chinese culture