THE CLOSURE DNA SHOW: SEASON 7 EPISODE 24

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  • @Hep-Chics
    @Hep-Chics Рік тому +156

    Tinashe Mugabe is a national treasure. We pray that Wisdom from above and professionalism continue to be his diadem in all his endeavours

    • @davidjage6035
      @davidjage6035 Рік тому +4

      Learnt a new word today. Diadem. ''an ornamental jeweled headdress signifying sovereignty,,

    • @similarmasese8710
      @similarmasese8710 Рік тому +4

      And also dont forget the camera man pray for him too. He balanced the equation in and out of the room and the repetition of enda unotenga e$4 speaks volumes. Mama is an abuser

    • @preciousnyanyiwa5286
      @preciousnyanyiwa5286 Рік тому

      I just cried weduwee😭😭😭😭😭...chiiiko hama dzemurume

    • @josephmalaba9003
      @josephmalaba9003 Рік тому

      ​@@similarmasese8710mp

    • @user-kc7uc3ge4w
      @user-kc7uc3ge4w Рік тому

  • @alfredamanenji1921
    @alfredamanenji1921 Рік тому +31

    Aah ndarwadziwa how i know them ,they used to be lovely ....ndakambobatwa bhoo pamba apa with the couple vachitonyatsodanana

  • @kudakwashejerrymukaro3905
    @kudakwashejerrymukaro3905 Рік тому +16

    This show taught me to listen to the whole story before judging anyone. Keep it up Mr Mugabe.

  • @kamutanhosevria6455
    @kamutanhosevria6455 Рік тому +4

    My first cry on Tinashe Show😭😭😭. Zvinorwadza izvi. Lord guide and protect this Lady and the 5 kids🙏🙏

  • @tanyamilewski5700
    @tanyamilewski5700 Рік тому +479

    These kids need to be taken from the mother until she is emotionally stable. Continuous threats of killing them and screaming in front of them it too dangerous for the kids. She needs a lot of help herself before she can help others

    • @diasporanbuildingahomeinzi9622
      @diasporanbuildingahomeinzi9622 Рік тому

      It was very uncomfortable to watch, Tinashe should not have broadcast this episode as the mother is clearly vulnerable and mentally unstable.

    • @pacie92
      @pacie92 Рік тому +11

      True something is amiss with the lady

    • @tngamez4726
      @tngamez4726 Рік тому

      I strong agree with you

    • @giftmakina167
      @giftmakina167 Рік тому +3

      What kind of help are you talking about

    • @munashe89
      @munashe89 Рік тому +3

      how about never giving her back the kids. We can not trust her to cook for them or sleep in the same house. She is not a mother but a monster

  • @lornahvambe1742
    @lornahvambe1742 Рік тому +22

    I cried when she was screaming hugging her kids hakuna chinhu chinorwadza kudarwo nemurume wako waunenge uchiti Mwari akupa akunyaradza senherera ogarwa dare pasina hama yako they take advantage because hauna anokumiririra this is so sad may God comfort her

    • @EddiDube
      @EddiDube Рік тому

      This woman has mental issues. The husband is going through a lot of abuse. The way she responds is out of this world. You dont respond that way to strangers even though you are bitter

    • @samanthakane9986
      @samanthakane9986 Рік тому +8

      Nherera at 38 here? Dzidzai kuzvimirira se munhu mukuru

  • @victorzvigweru7212
    @victorzvigweru7212 Рік тому +41

    I think it’s high time Tinashe start traveling with counseling team

    • @Millieped
      @Millieped Рік тому +3

      He does, they have counselling after each episode only that it's not aired as it is done privately.

    • @victorzvigweru7212
      @victorzvigweru7212 Рік тому +2

      @@Millieped okay thats good to hear..zvakarongeka then

    • @nellyvictorian8369
      @nellyvictorian8369 Рік тому

      The husband acted on the allegation from muzukuru and his friends and he was so sure kuti the result will prove the lady wrong.

  • @lee-attheasker4689
    @lee-attheasker4689 Рік тому +20

    I can relate to this lady's situation, way back in 2017 i was in an abusive marriage exactly like this one, with controling in-laws and a useless husband who was always siding with his parents, i wasn't crazy, but I was hurt, broken 💔💔💔, i thought that dying was the answer, wanted to poison the bastard, my daughter and I but God worked wonders on me, I gained strength and moved out of our matrimonial house. Here I am today free soul , the hatred has gone. If I think of the murder I was planning i feel scared, I understand this lady, pain changes us. May she find healing in Jesus name. May the mercy of the Lord locate her.

    • @marg86
      @marg86 Рік тому +2

      Hugs to you❤

    • @ModestaMichenga-xe1od
      @ModestaMichenga-xe1od 8 місяців тому +1

      You're strong

    • @nicholaskatuna1944
      @nicholaskatuna1944 7 місяців тому

      Do you condone adultery. She didnt dispute it only to resort to commiting suicide. Revisit the behaviour of this woman

  • @lincolnyoung3519
    @lincolnyoung3519 Рік тому +79

    I'm not a psychologist but it's pretty clear that this lady suffers from depression and she needs help

    • @tapiwamutikani6034
      @tapiwamutikani6034 Рік тому +1

      Apa Sakura uzunze Siya mufaro kana bopoto ndokufamba kwako uri rufu Haruna parusingazosviki uchasvika kwese sekudaro

    • @ivy-er1te
      @ivy-er1te 5 місяців тому +2

      Akajaidzwa. the least she could have done is be civil with the DNA man

  • @simbasanhanga8486
    @simbasanhanga8486 Рік тому +257

    The way she cried shows that she has been through a lot.....sometimes Relatives contribute to the downfall of many marriages

    • @liyanadaimond1449
      @liyanadaimond1449 Рік тому +11

      Yaa papakaipa mrume azonyara mwana ndowake bt hazvireve kuti mai havaite misikanzwa vanoita vakangwara hava batike

    • @liyanadaimond1449
      @liyanadaimond1449 Рік тому +2

      Hamawo pliz msapindira kumirira kudzinga mkadzi after hearing maresults abuda achinzi mwana hasi wemurume ,zvakaipa ,tisaita moyo yakadaro apo tine zvinzvimbo kuma church

    • @jackienyamadzi2107
      @jackienyamadzi2107 Рік тому +11

      ihwaga mukadzi uyu

    • @sekuruvaJamella1078
      @sekuruvaJamella1078 Рік тому +16

      Maya musavharwa. She is a tactical player and a master in her games. She admitted in a clever way but said kids are clean . More over how can a married woman allow to accommodate another married woman with a boy friend?

    • @hlonipanikatayi5995
      @hlonipanikatayi5995 Рік тому

      Very true

  • @flossykandy8113
    @flossykandy8113 Рік тому +13

    The man is being abused by this abusive woman. She has experienced loss and bereavement and being an orphan doesn’t excuse such abusive behaviour. She is psychologically abusing her children as well. She is searching love, and it’s possible she is sleeping around. All 4 children should have been DNA tested and veChild Welfare should intervene to protect the kids from the mother.
    The father needs support too, what a mess!

    • @rojamillerover
      @rojamillerover 9 місяців тому

      She is 💯 abusing and manipulating this man and l feel sorry for him

  • @jeffreyzengeya1649
    @jeffreyzengeya1649 Рік тому +15

    this is one of the most heartbreaking cases. I think professional counsellors are needed to help deal with such cases

  • @tinarumbie560
    @tinarumbie560 Рік тому +11

    Mhinduro dzamai ava soo kaaa 🙌🙌🙌🙌 .... Zvakaoma veduwe hustubborn hwacho surrender 🙌

  • @franknyashamasvaure9760
    @franknyashamasvaure9760 Рік тому +70

    Mr DNA is very professional. Thumbs up

  • @munyaradzikusvayi1784
    @munyaradzikusvayi1784 Рік тому +4

    emotional episode it was, her reaction was expected, vavakaita kudumbirwa zveshuwa, thanks to Tinashe,you handled them well

  • @madamjay2877
    @madamjay2877 Рік тому +3

    The most touching episode ever. Ndarwadziwa veduwee😢😢😢😢

  • @monicamutandwa630
    @monicamutandwa630 Рік тому +32

    I usually don't comment but this one hit me hard . I see here, evidence of a society that needs healing,.This is not just about the child but about deeper personal issues that need to be resolved.Tinotenda VaMugabe nebasa ramuri kuita.

  • @markmax3112
    @markmax3112 Рік тому +25

    Tinashe i salute 👏
    This was tough mai vanotyisidzira ava surrender.
    Even dzinza rako they are blessed to have you.

    • @lindahkashanje4445
      @lindahkashanje4445 Рік тому +2

      Amai Ava bodo ah

    • @lindahkashanje4445
      @lindahkashanje4445 Рік тому

      Pamberi pevana hre musadaro imi chiii nhai

    • @markmax3112
      @markmax3112 Рік тому

      @@lindahkashanje4445 we are commenting maturity and professionalism of Tinashe to manage handling that situation.

    • @gracie2world
      @gracie2world Рік тому +1

      Ende type iyoyi inohura zvekuti pfee yozozvivhara nekuchema kutyusidzira vamwe nekuda kuzviuraya

    • @gushungokay5935
      @gushungokay5935 Рік тому

      Mai avo kuhura vanogona vakahura sure murume uyo haapengi asi manje mukadzi anonatsoziva kuti kana riribonde nechikomba vakaita vakadzivirira so mwana haasi wechikomba y asirikuda kudaira zvekunzi wakahura ukatikumbira ruregerero kumurume

  • @veekm2017
    @veekm2017 Рік тому +9

    Season 7 has brought us some real deep and serious cases ooo .It's not just drama it's reality ,it's life it's emotional Yoooo .

  • @shumi1199
    @shumi1199 Рік тому +3

    “Pari pavana andidi kunyeperwa….mhosva dzangu adzitongwi pavana vangu”
    Ok

  • @rue5548
    @rue5548 Рік тому +13

    I cried so much for this women. Pakaipa and for all the relatives who are there nevakadzi varipo pashayawo avabata. Women learn to support one another nekusapindira zvisipo. Kuuya kukokwa kuti mudzinge umwe imagine uriwe

    • @gracie2world
      @gracie2world Рік тому

      Ko kana achihura ungasekerere kuti hama yako ihurirwe here

    • @vunganayimakanhiwa2410
      @vunganayimakanhiwa2410 Рік тому

      Murume anoti ane evidence. Odzoka zvakare oti haana evidence.
      Muchishona tinoti gomba harina mwana.
      Murume ngaawane mumwe mukadzi wekupedza nyota . Kuona kwangu Mai ava is not controllable. Zvekuhura ndeimwe. For the sake yevana ngaarege Mai vari pamba Nevana vavo.

  • @shumiraimutsambiwa7711
    @shumiraimutsambiwa7711 Рік тому +14

    Dai vana vese vakauya for testing bcz chero uyu akaita positive the father is will still doubt the other three

  • @siphosenkosimpofu2128
    @siphosenkosimpofu2128 Рік тому +5

    almost cried watching this yoh, this woman went through a lot shem.........she needs councelling

  • @brooktanadiwa
    @brooktanadiwa Рік тому +13

    Though I empathize with the lady for being abandoned.
    She also has dirty hands. As mothers it’s an instinct we possess to shelter our kids from such drama. There was no need to throw herself in her kids arms and leaving the kids to comfort her. That’s burdening and traumatizing them
    If we love our kids as we all claim we don’t resort to death.
    Counselling is needed. The same children you threaten to die with and for in future can resent you for wanting to end their lives

  • @cctaku1541
    @cctaku1541 Рік тому +247

    Tinashe needs therapy too after going through madrama aya, we need to take care of our DNA man , he is going through a lot mmmm

    • @damview3628
      @damview3628 Рік тому +9

      True some of these cases are exhausting him physically and mentally.

    • @chirewacorreta3646
      @chirewacorreta3646 Рік тому +2

      Kkkkkkkk ayas bota family

    • @cdechirume2979
      @cdechirume2979 Рік тому +2

      It's business as usual for him. And intertainment for u guys

    • @vimbaikhumalo7337
      @vimbaikhumalo7337 Рік тому +1

      I agree❤ 100% he is a human after all

    • @ponciangwadagwa
      @ponciangwadagwa Рік тому +6

      Mai itsotsi sei vachishaya zvokutaura Ishavi chairo rekusundirwa nehama dzavasingazivi

  • @Prism446
    @Prism446 Рік тому +217

    I understood the lady's responses very well .If you are fed up of a situation you just become numb to it .I experienced so much emotional abuse from my in laws & wasn't getting support from my husband .To a point that they asked for forgiveness but there are times when I visit my in laws & all those experiences just come & i find myself very emotional .One day I got out of the house like m going to the car with my son & I couldn't cry in front of my child so I just left without saying bye .I got very very emotional .Some in laws can dig a grave for you 😭😭.I cant even send a good morning message , when they send them to me it spoils my day completely .

    • @ruelynkassie
      @ruelynkassie Рік тому +3

      hugs dear I hope you get all the healing you need

    • @munyaradzibiri7690
      @munyaradzibiri7690 Рік тому +8

      I hope you are not making your husband look after kids that are not his.If you are fed up with someone just pack your bags and go to someone you are not fed up with.

    • @maitawana
      @maitawana Рік тому +3

      @@munyaradzibiri7690 what a stupid response. You show how dumb you are!! This woman is clearly hurt and all you can think of in your stupid childish head is putting her down because you are used to looking down on women. You are a fool

    • @ellenmapiko4947
      @ellenmapiko4947 Рік тому

      Hugs dear

    • @KatiyoKatiyo
      @KatiyoKatiyo Рік тому +16

      Not wanting to judge you on what happened to you, I think murikusanganisa nyaya, paita hupfambi apa ndohwakonzeresa vanhu vatsvage chokwadi

  • @georgemabwe446
    @georgemabwe446 Рік тому +12

    Being the father of the child does not necessarily mean the wife wasn't promiscuous. The woman's denial to answer questions of apologizing to her husband for extra-marital relationships indicates that akambobuda mumba. The father was wrong to stop supporting the family without results. The woman is a controlling freak to the extend of trying to use death as a weapon to justify her stay and prevent further tests on other children. Once bitten twice shy, Dude gets entire children tested so that you have long lasting peace with them

  • @Amzyshayyu
    @Amzyshayyu Рік тому +6

    I hope Tinashe you offer full counseling for the emotional damage that are left after opening up. It’s really important. You are very professional 👍🏽 for the good work. Please ensure these families are left in a better place mental health wise.

    • @simbamukaro6931
      @simbamukaro6931 Рік тому

      thanks to the professionalism that was exercised by Tinashe , butb Amai avo is a player , skilled player , vanohurira murume , she acted so welll , the drama was so good , vatokwana kwana mu Tinashe Mugabe foundation. thanks DNA man ,,,,, thumbs up to you.

  • @millicentmbulayi5782
    @millicentmbulayi5782 Рік тому +36

    We all now need counseling this episode was disturbing honestly but the truth will set us all free takuda kutongoziva kty vana vese ava ndevababa ava here because if we never find out just like the forongonya case we will be traumatized for life.

    • @futsuwanglu
      @futsuwanglu Рік тому +2

      Forogonya final I think yakachengeterwa Christmas

    • @ndlovu1699
      @ndlovu1699 Рік тому

      For sure

    • @lindakaringa735
      @lindakaringa735 Рік тому

      @@futsuwanglu 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂lets hope soo , coz its been long , we tied of waiting heyy

    • @user-cf7ds5tb5g
      @user-cf7ds5tb5g Рік тому

      Shumba inopakupandukira mangwana yokudya

  • @lorrainesmoke2585
    @lorrainesmoke2585 Рік тому +62

    Thumbs up to Tinashe...the calmest gentleman ever

    • @Nakathabo
      @Nakathabo Рік тому +5

      He deserves an award. Yangu forogonya yakwira, ikafashukira listening to this woman achiitira Tinashe attitude. Chai 🙆‍♀️

    • @tsitsimutombo2216
      @tsitsimutombo2216 Рік тому +3

      Uu,inini hangu mapinduriro ake mukadzi uyu haana kunyatsondibata mushe,zvega zvinoratidza kuti she is a hard nut to crake.Munhu chaiye anotya Mwari haataure mutauriro iwoyo.Pane zvakawanda zvakavanzika kuseri uko.She is a manipulator.Dzikafambirwa tinonzwiririra apa.

    • @chidoskolah1401
      @chidoskolah1401 Рік тому +1

      I second u,,,mans really managed to keep his cool,, imagine u tryna help someone n they b giving u an attitude,,,.,

    • @gretamadake2702
      @gretamadake2702 Рік тому

      @@Nakathabo kana neni ufunge ndasvotwa zvokuti ndapotsa ndapinda mufon kuti ndinomupa mucheka wembama

  • @solviahndlovu7062
    @solviahndlovu7062 Рік тому +36

    This is heartbreaking 💔 😢, this woman is going through trauma, the husband's family is somehow contributing to retraumatizing her. 20 dollars upkeep oh noooo. The husband is heartless. Tinashe God bless you,this was am emotional episode, kudos for keeping it together throughout the whole episode.

    • @revesayimutede3722
      @revesayimutede3722 Рік тому +4

      I don’t like Mr Pink Shirt’s attitude. Toxic

    • @trinitymusonza4273
      @trinitymusonza4273 Рік тому

      It's means husband's family was contribute for the downfall of the marriage

    • @lavendermariagutsa8844
      @lavendermariagutsa8844 Рік тому

      It's heart breaking mmmmm , this man is heartless

    • @mandytaziva3750
      @mandytaziva3750 Рік тому

      Aiwa ka but she's cheating on her husband. Evidenced produced and she refused to comment

    • @letsomateke7065
      @letsomateke7065 Рік тому +1

      ​@@revesayimutede3722 Mr pink shirt imharadzi havavaki zvachose

  • @joyleenchibanda8346
    @joyleenchibanda8346 Рік тому +7

    DNA Man to the world 🌍🌍 keep up with the good job 🤞

  • @shebs2207
    @shebs2207 Рік тому +43

    Vaigara kuchitungwiza futi kkkkkkk Aiwa Chitown mukombe matora🤣🙌

  • @joycekudzaimarire5430
    @joycekudzaimarire5430 Рік тому +295

    I'm a woman too ,but as much as this story is concerned I also think besides the mother and children, the man also needs counseling he has been through a lot he might also be traumatized and suffering from emotional abuse,it's not easy for a man to end up reaching a decision to leave the home he built plus just because the woman cried n the second born is his doesn't mean the woman didn't cheat. There are always two sides to these stories and in the society we leave woman are always labeled as victim n innocent if the results comes in their favours

    • @mistoniful
      @mistoniful Рік тому +43

      The man mentioned it during the discussions that she cries and asks for forgiveness. So it's part of her trick to cry and invoke emotional blackmail.

    • @anskariaphillips7469
      @anskariaphillips7469 Рік тому +2

      I totally agree with you Joyce.

    • @tauraifuramera920
      @tauraifuramera920 Рік тому +2

      Wisdom😎

    • @crispenadhonzi4067
      @crispenadhonzi4067 Рік тому +21

      I always say that the alledged father is the bioligical one does not exonnerate the mother from being a two timer....

    • @fortula.tichwagoramuog8784
      @fortula.tichwagoramuog8784 Рік тому +20

      Men are abused in many relationships and yet women always cry victim!Varume vari pama one veduwe!

  • @Tindom
    @Tindom Рік тому +6

    The man mentioned it that she cries and asks for forgiveness. It has always been her trick. He must test the remaining kids.

  • @elsamakomichi8894
    @elsamakomichi8894 Рік тому +4

    The wisdom you have the DNA MAN is from above may God keep on increasing.cases you are handling umm God help us🙏

  • @faithmotsi4618
    @faithmotsi4618 Рік тому +17

    This woman has attitude ..this guy must run with his life

    • @PatriciaMabhiza
      @PatriciaMabhiza Місяць тому

      What do you , tumwe turume imbwende chaidzo , why do you listen kuvanhu , baba ava neHama dzavo havanyari, vakadzi vazhinji are being abused in the name of marriage, unoshungurudzwa kusvika pa extend yekushaya chimiro mucomunity

  • @nondo2.045
    @nondo2.045 Рік тому +72

    I know Tinashe is running a business but I just wish all 4 kids were tested. I believe this result isn't going to bring much closure, because he'll still have doubts on the rest of the children.

    • @talentshambare4430
      @talentshambare4430 Рік тому

      Yess

    • @badanile1781
      @badanile1781 Рік тому +4

      He is just trying to escape support was he not sleeping with the woman Women has to use their brain..making babies its not worthy 2 is enough. Now 5 kids struggling alone as a single mom its a burden to carry and emotional stress..

    • @fortula.tichwagoramuog8784
      @fortula.tichwagoramuog8784 Рік тому +1

      Tinashe can your foundation please assist with DNA for the rest of the kids.This man has serious mental issues!

    • @Rosiebigbaby
      @Rosiebigbaby Рік тому

      @nondo true hey

    • @trymorekamanura4266
      @trymorekamanura4266 Рік тому

      Ichokwadi chokwadi chokwadi pavana vese ava pane vasiri vababa ava

  • @lydiamusarapasi8316
    @lydiamusarapasi8316 Рік тому

    Thank you Bota man , heyi this family need God. Bba ava ngavasiye kungonzwa inzwa makuhwa

  • @spikybuttrue8569
    @spikybuttrue8569 Рік тому +27

    Recognising mental health crisis and realising that it's a health event that must be taken as seriously as a heart attack is definitely an evolutionary process. As a nation, I hope we get there soon, especially for the sake of our children

    • @alim3611
      @alim3611 Рік тому

      i am sorry but you cannot excuse bad behaviour using the " mental health " card ..
      all this threatening to commit suicide is just being dramatic

    • @jom1089
      @jom1089 7 місяців тому

      Any form of suicidal ideation is a symptom of poor mental health especially a threat to kill one's children. Its the goat of poor mental health. She needs psychiatric help to stabilise. Sending your own child to buy medicines to kill yourself is totally unacceptable, the police should have been called promptly.

  • @nondochirau9664
    @nondochirau9664 Рік тому +7

    Ndazochemawo hangu,varume chengetai mwana makamirira maresults kwete kuti mwana atadze kuenda kuchikoro sure zvorwadza.Ndazovarwadzirwawo sure

  • @gibsontawabarira7394
    @gibsontawabarira7394 Рік тому +85

    Don't blame this woman for rude responses, you have to know every woman if she gets treated badly for quite long time she may turns into an animal. This all sorts of rough is true reflection of what this man treats his woman.

    • @talentshambare4430
      @talentshambare4430 Рік тому

      I totaly agree with u

    • @leonardjokochoko3805
      @leonardjokochoko3805 Рік тому +5

      It is distressing to note that this lady has suffered a lot at the hands of his hubby. However, the husband, wife and the kids are also victims of a broken family setup here. This is a broken family, which I doubt can be restored.
      The woman is a rude person. Tinashe spoke to her first trying to understand and she was suspicious of him. That is a reasonable suspicion but why being rude to a stranger?

    • @EddiDube
      @EddiDube Рік тому +9

      Is threatening to kill innocent children ok. This woman's behaviour is uncalled for. The way she relates with her husband is why they are in this mess. Its torture to be married to this kind. The man is wrong but the woman is worse

    • @Smileyface908
      @Smileyface908 Рік тому +1

      So she projects her suffering on traumatising her children. Sending the child to go buy poison to end it 😤. You’re wasting your sympathy on that woman sorry 😣

    • @Smileyface908
      @Smileyface908 Рік тому +6

      @@EddiDube - good question 👏🏾and who on this planet earth would want to be married to such a woman. She’s also an unfit mother 😢

  • @munyaanesu
    @munyaanesu Рік тому +2

    💔💔 this is depressing. no1 should live ane stress everyday muhupenyu hwake

  • @bb_wadzi
    @bb_wadzi Рік тому +5

    I know she’s been through a lot but she’s burdening her children to carry her. That’s unfair to the children.I hope that she will not hurt her children
    Baba is disturbing, anowana sei Mari for DNA achishaya mari ye school fees 🚮

  • @thandiwejabulani3678
    @thandiwejabulani3678 Рік тому +16

    I think she's going through a lot saka Kana achisangana nezvakawanda unotoita sebenzi

    • @Knit_Chat-23
      @Knit_Chat-23 Рік тому

      My heart bleeds for those vulnerable children.

  • @rosemasu9706
    @rosemasu9706 Рік тому +8

    Baba vane voice remakuhwa chairo ava 😂😂😂 ndaibatwa panouraya Mr Mugabe panouraya papi kkkk mune basa guru

    • @cmm4930
      @cmm4930 Рік тому

      😂😂😂😂

  • @evelynsatumba3648
    @evelynsatumba3648 Рік тому

    Ndarwadziwa hangu but mama vanoda counselling chaiyo rough vanayo zbawo mwari akubatsirei Mr Mugabe job welldone

  • @sandrazembe4268
    @sandrazembe4268 Рік тому +2

    This man is taking an advantage of her because of her because haana hama weduwee dziri padhuze why did I tear up as well😪

  • @lawrencechisi4851
    @lawrencechisi4851 Рік тому +22

    Mr Mugabe u are doing a great job,providing answers and healing families,this episode has taught me so many things,

  • @Ishmael4513
    @Ishmael4513 Рік тому +10

    Praying for you DNA Man and your family. Basa raunobata rakaoma. May the Almighty continue to shower you with blessings and wisdom.🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @MrWisy19
    @MrWisy19 Рік тому +3

    Yah this has been a tough episode not even easy for me as a viewer to watch, while kudos for the job the DNA man, well l noticed that of all the allegation that are being said against the wife there is more probability that it may be true, how ever by mere looking at the wife's face, she is rude and plays hard nut to crack ende type iyo once wapinda mu marriage nayo uripama hwani, last but not least the level of abuse imposed on children is unimaginable hmm.

  • @tanikaandrea4584
    @tanikaandrea4584 Рік тому

    Nhasi ndaona kuipa kwekushaya Mari dai ndiri rich ndaitsvaga amai ava ndivabvise Pavari apa she need peace to heal and kunyatsochengetwawo munbu uya akungoti chauya chauya ndachema hangu it is well mama

  • @innocentsithole5216
    @innocentsithole5216 Рік тому +35

    I salute you Tinashe. You are so calm yet determined. you are my hero. it is not easy to handle such cases.

  • @leonmanjeese3488
    @leonmanjeese3488 Рік тому +10

    No matter bad people treat you, suicide should never be tolerated and i think those children needs protection. Anotogona aihura but mwana oita we murume and it's everyone's right to be so sure of paternity. The were strong accusations of promiscuity and she declined to answer after the man said he has full evidence. So to me vaihura zvavo asi vasingaite vana nechikomba

  • @hazelvusi
    @hazelvusi Рік тому +11

    This woman’s screaming made me cry too , the emotional abuse and disgrace from husband who lack confidence and trust themselves , sorry mama, I can see you believe in God Almighty, may you find strength ❤

    • @carla-annmakumbe
      @carla-annmakumbe Рік тому +3

      Ko the way she abuses the husband, constantly threatening to kill herself, that's not right.

    • @gracie2world
      @gracie2world Рік тому +3

      Ummm ko divi remurume hamusi kurwadziwawo wani nekuhurirwa achiregerera

    • @shingiraichikomo3846
      @shingiraichikomo3846 Рік тому +1

      Which abuse are u talking abt?

    • @hazelvusi
      @hazelvusi Рік тому +1

      @@shingiraichikomo3846 if you can’t identify it yourself, that is not my funeral

    • @nellydube3664
      @nellydube3664 Рік тому

      It was heartbreaking to see her crying...

  • @laurainegarudzo1941
    @laurainegarudzo1941 Рік тому

    Ndatanga ndichiseka mhinduro dzaAmai ava but magumbo ndachema kani nhai Mwari wangu. Ndarwadziwa veduwee this woman went through a lot

  • @ruthmunhambi3127
    @ruthmunhambi3127 Рік тому +8

    Mai ishwindi chaiyo , mwana anogona kuita wababa ava asi ami vanedambudzimbo rechipfambi chairo

  • @artwellmanyengavana8001
    @artwellmanyengavana8001 Рік тому +16

    Awesome work from the editor and camera person especially pabuditswa tsoka yamai ichitamba tamba.

  • @stars1531
    @stars1531 Рік тому +8

    Haaaa this episode yandidzosera kumashure, I recall what I went through 6years ago. I was emotionally drained,physically abused from him and his relatives. munhu had all accusations of negative things and being promiscuous supported by idzodzi hama idzi. Kutosvika pakumutsvagira mukadzi ndiripo hangu zvichinzi mzukuru yet she was fighting me everyday. He made me scared to consider marriage ever again and don't see myself giving birth again! Nanhasi I've committed to pay for private dna only if he shows up but haadi kuzvinzwa and when I went kucourt to ask for dna vakati havasati vambozvinzwa kuti mkadzi requests for dna but I wanted this for my peace.ongogara asingachengete hake asi achiziva it's his child.anoti zvakandiomera but how can he afford toyota hilux,prado,Ford ranger kana zvakaoma? Vamwe varume maronda emumhino chaiwo..zvinondirwadza deep down inside me but I find comfort in prayer all the time...ini ndakabatwa mabody parts anorwadza shame!

    • @ruvarashemasaya3327
      @ruvarashemasaya3327 Рік тому

      Sorry dear I really understand your pain. May God bless you and your child

    • @maryjonga3435
      @maryjonga3435 Рік тому

      It is well.

    • @flosyg841
      @flosyg841 Рік тому

      I feel ur pain. I have been thru a similar experience, I thank God I am now happier but commiting again mmmmm

    • @oliverchipoyera
      @oliverchipoyera Рік тому

      Just forgive my sister

  • @rosezawanda3863
    @rosezawanda3863 Рік тому +1

    Yaaa Tinashe Mugabe is a strong guy God bless you

  • @claramunhu5523
    @claramunhu5523 Рік тому +9

    That wail gave me shivers. The wailing of mukadzi arwadziwa zvomene😢

  • @phoebechimuriwo9145
    @phoebechimuriwo9145 Рік тому +24

    Handioni murume uyu ari wrong Ini nkt the fact yekunzi mwana abuda achinzi ndewake doesn't mean kt amai havana zvawakaita. Mukadzi anogona kutohura big time kunze uko asi achitozviudza kt haafe akaita mwana ne chikomba paanodira mwana pese anotoita ne murume wake we kumba asi mjolo uchitoitwa zvawo. Murume nematsananguriro ake anoratidza kt ane zvaakabata nkt haanganyepere munhu kt mukadzi akatombobvuma akati sorry. Asi zvese izvozvo mukadzi arikuzviramba. I tsotsi mai avo vane nyaya yavo that's why warikuramba kudaira even 1 word pane zvirikutaurwa ne murume wavo because varikutya kuitwa qoute mazwi avo.

    • @lissas445
      @lissas445 Рік тому +1

      true ipapo mai avo itsotsi

    • @lubelihle
      @lubelihle Рік тому +1

      Yah itsotsi cchaizo she's just trying to cover up by being rude

    • @user-rl4wl3rv5u
      @user-rl4wl3rv5u 14 днів тому

      Kunyepa kwako iwe.plys kana akahura zvino basa reiko its haahuri?

  • @melodymapingure1568
    @melodymapingure1568 Рік тому

    Yes she is going through a lot asi ngaadzidze kutaura mukadzi uyu.Baba ava must go ahead nekutesta vamwe vana vasara then voita break it poitwa co- parenting .Kugarisana murugare kunogona kunetsa

  • @abigailkubvoruno9978
    @abigailkubvoruno9978 Рік тому

    Hama dzakaona kuti hamuna bond dzokuitai mapenzi kusvika mati Amen..

  • @faraibarnsymaestro1830
    @faraibarnsymaestro1830 Рік тому +14

    Guys munenge muchinyenga vanhu vakadai ava muri blindfolded here 😂😂😂 ava ndovanokupisa nemafuta wakarara kana kuchekwa volaz 😂😂😂

    • @muchenashumirai6984
      @muchenashumirai6984 Рік тому +2

      Hongu mai makatadzirwa but muri stubborn ,munenge murikutongwa nemademon

    • @veronicadiza6431
      @veronicadiza6431 Рік тому

      Gegee 🤣 hanzi zviwuya hazviwananane😛

    • @oliviazhanje1582
      @oliviazhanje1582 Рік тому

      gegegege mazondipedza manje idi unopiswa nemafuta kana kupisirwa mumba

    • @kbgroup6072
      @kbgroup6072 Рік тому +2

      Kkkkkkkkk unoenda Apo rakacheka nyika

    • @HenrySali-vm2qm
      @HenrySali-vm2qm 2 місяці тому

      Inini ndatova vengawo avoo

  • @mellisatatendachiraga5012
    @mellisatatendachiraga5012 Рік тому +19

    I swear this episode got me so much especially the part the lady cried 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭shiz been in so much pain vachingoti it's okay my situation chaiyo haaa ndachema navo amai Ava 😭😭😭😭

  • @wisdomshumba8614
    @wisdomshumba8614 Рік тому +5

    Tough episode Mr Tinashe. Social work should intervene.

  • @teeliving4
    @teeliving4 Рік тому

    Very sad situation. Sunungurai amai avo and test all the children. Ngavagare kure nehama dzemurume, zvinorwadza hazvo starting from zero but unenge wane freedom. Baba ava vanodzwisa tsitsi , but hama l feel hama dzavo imharadzi

  • @ellenhanirietta9278
    @ellenhanirietta9278 Рік тому +14

    Muromo wamai ava istate house yeRough vakazviregerera …you can hire me mr Mugabe ndinenge ndichipa mambama vanokurafurai during the break

    • @chiyenyumba7135
      @chiyenyumba7135 Рік тому +1

      Asvitswa ipapo nemurume uyo nehupenyu hwaararamiswa

    • @linnetbhasvi8115
      @linnetbhasvi8115 Рік тому +1

      @@chiyenyumba7135 very true vanhu nemabatiro avanokuita vanoita kuti uite humwe hunhu hwawanga usina

  • @pascalmarufu6242
    @pascalmarufu6242 Рік тому +34

    The results do not nullify the alleged infidelity which the husband said in her face.

    • @faithmoyo3520
      @faithmoyo3520 Рік тому +4

      I thought the same and no one raises that fact.

    • @chiyenyumba7135
      @chiyenyumba7135 Рік тому

      Kune varume vanonyepa.... Munhu anoruka nyaya yekunyepa igoita chokwadi. His allegations do not match his actions why is he still with her????? He can't even admit he is with her bcoz he loves her... He keeps going back to her. Y also say he will decide after results

    • @ttfam8742
      @ttfam8742 Рік тому +1

      You do know ukaramba wongonzi adarika nepano uyo ndewako unopedzesera waakuti ehe zvamaona ndizvo. Mai avo vakapinzwa muchipostori chaimo gara une musvuu nedhuku. Apa murume wacho frm January no kuuya ari kudyepi

    • @wisecounsel6135
      @wisecounsel6135 Рік тому

      @@chiyenyumba7135 loving her doesn't mean she is not doing anything. Maybe he just wanted a peaceful and successful family life

    • @chiyenyumba7135
      @chiyenyumba7135 Рік тому

      @@wisecounsel6135 kikkkkk hakuna zvakadaro. Murume uyo has low self esteem and confidence he doesn't think he is good enough for that woman... Thats why he is obsessed that plenty men are after her I think mukadzi wacho anonyanyakumunakira kikkkkk he can't handle her.

  • @kaychichi239
    @kaychichi239 Рік тому +4

    The government should seriously look into getting DNAs done at birth because imagine the abuse woman and children are going through with these disputes for years

  • @lumusara5752
    @lumusara5752 Рік тому

    Hama ,hama ,hama senge muzukuru uyo dambudziko chairo .Ndati ndinyore zvaanozoverenga muzukuru ndiwe mhunzamusha.Hauvake

  • @edgetonkwaramba3848
    @edgetonkwaramba3848 Рік тому +8

    Kugara nemunhu akadai mumba unenge uri pama1

  • @tendaimachapu3944
    @tendaimachapu3944 Рік тому +9

    Please please please Tinashe do something about this case .That lady needs professional help and deliverance

  • @faithchakamba5379
    @faithchakamba5379 Рік тому

    I wish mr tinashe to come kunyaya yangu one day.my husbund left me for nothing yet I am pregnant.nekuda kwema in laws vakamudza kuti mukadzi wako anofamba achizviti ari single yet it's a lie.ndongonamata Mwari andibatsire ndishandire mwana wangu

  • @FavoredbyGod123
    @FavoredbyGod123 Рік тому +5

    As mothers I think we need to protect our kids not use them as blackmail or involve them in issues between parents. If you love them you won't kill them but you will rather fight for them. Killing them is only trying to prove a point and make someone feel guilty for that. I feel for the kids. This will follow them their rest of their lives. She is selfish to only think for herself and not her kid's future. She had a chance to choose the man she loved it's not the kid's fault. If she really love them like she think she does she will protect them, fight for them and give them an opportunity to make their choices. Why is she trying to show her pain by threatening to kill the kids infront of them.

  • @christieultd
    @christieultd Рік тому +7

    This one made me cry. Whether she cheated or not, this woman has been through a lot. Vana worse coz when/ where two bulls fight the grass suffers.
    Instead of kuisa tumitemo twekuita reduce age of consent pavana hurumende dai yaisa mutemo wekuti hama hands off maaffairs evakaroorana. Look how they have confused this guy, teaming up nenhema and feeding this guy poison just because havasi kuda this woman. Kazhinji kacho murume anenge ari iye ari kutocheata.
    Chero the way muzukuru talked anga atoita conclude kuti mbuya vari kurambwa nhasi. Atenge achifarira kuparara kwemba ya sekuru. If they had evidence they did not need the DNA man. Munhu abatwa hanti nyaya inoenda kudare yotongwa DNA tests ozoitwa hawo. How can muzukuru say pane chokwadi asi hapana umboo. Nxa!!! Kutochena ndebvu and lack wisdom kusvika pakadai. Kutoda kuisa bad spirit in the DNA, just listen to the nonsense the old man is saying. How can he say vana ishumba, mhandu. Ivo muzukuru ndiyo mhandu. Kutadza kuvaka..........
    Mhuri iri kungofungira or trying set up just to get rid of this woman.
    Baba, mai nevana all need counseling and should be kept away from magora emhuri iyi.
    Man out there, man up musashungurudze mhuri.
    To the DNA man l say, keep up the good work vaMugabe. Eish, this one was a big one yet you still managed to control the situation. You are amazing
    I wish we could see the tomorrow yemhuri iyi.

  • @ree1993
    @ree1993 Рік тому +6

    Mr Mugabe, i pray you have a good support system and even therapy of your own. This work is heavy.
    We salute you DNA man 🙏

  • @nokhuthulabangwayo1073
    @nokhuthulabangwayo1073 Рік тому +2

    I cried watching this episode and to think that I can related to some of the issues happening makes it worst. Kana please imbomirai kuridza pito pamarriage dzevanhu. Leave the two to sort out their issues mozopindira kana masheedzwa. Sure kutoona mumwe mukadzi akabata ka purse achironga kunodzinga umwe mukadzi pamba pake. The society is evil sure.

  • @unitegombe2792
    @unitegombe2792 Рік тому +1

    Always following the DNA shows ndisingacomment but this one came with a push. I'm not judging but from what i saw there is a lot behind this case. Hazvisi nyore kuti munhu asvike pakuti paitwe matest. Pane nyaya apa takatarisa response yaamai zviri paviri it might be kuda kuvhara nyaya dzavo or too much depression. Pakutoda vana mazvikokota vecounselling apa. In case of kids please parents nyaya ndedzenyu hadzinei nevana. Thanks to DNA man. Keep up the good job.👍👍 just finish the testing of the other kids

  • @Chiravirwa
    @Chiravirwa Рік тому +7

    I'm a woman but result riri kuti mwana ndewake but izvozvo hazvirevi kuti mukadzi haasi kuhura. Uyu mukadzi akaregererwa haana kana hunhu unotoona chero madaviriro aiita DNA man. I feel sorry for baba ava munhu ari calm achiidhonzwa panouraya nemukadzi asi ongozonzwira tsitsi kuti mukadzi inherera. Baba vari munhamo havo ava

    • @Rebel4Right
      @Rebel4Right Рік тому

      Ndokuwanepi ndikupe kokokora

    • @Chiravirwa
      @Chiravirwa Рік тому

      @@Rebel4Right 😂😂😂😂ngaiuye kokora

  • @miriambanda1670
    @miriambanda1670 Рік тому +6

    Big up Mr Mugabe hazvigonekwe nevakawanda zvamunosangana nazvo mune bsa ....but tokumbirao part 2

  • @sibonginkosisibanda6793
    @sibonginkosisibanda6793 Рік тому

    This is so painful andisati ndambochema hangu since ndichiterera Tinashe but apa ndarwadziwa hangu story of my life

  • @YVChimombe
    @YVChimombe 4 місяці тому +1

    Mukadzi anorema uyu 🙌 haiwa

  • @cathrinemusikavanhu2940
    @cathrinemusikavanhu2940 Рік тому +16

    I hve never prayed for the results to be positive....this was emotional episode I found myself crying 😭 may God heal broken women not to think about Suicide

    • @lindachikeya5578
      @lindachikeya5578 Рік тому

      Very emotional ndomboseka but apa ummm

    • @mandisincube1010
      @mandisincube1010 Рік тому

      Ndachema this story is painful but this lady anofano gadzirisa hufambi

  • @fionamukwena1823
    @fionamukwena1823 Рік тому +42

    This lady has been through a lot , she really needs help . It’s so heartbreaking .

  • @JulietMaroro-qz7zh
    @JulietMaroro-qz7zh 9 місяців тому

    What l have come to realize in life is kunze uku kune vanhu vanoruka nhema kuita chokwadi .Vamwe vanhu vane nhema

  • @preachermashoko1711
    @preachermashoko1711 Рік тому

    its also possible kuti mother ava vaitovewo nemusikahwa but was faithful pakuita make sho kuti vana ndevemfes .

  • @user-rr1jj5wv2g
    @user-rr1jj5wv2g Рік тому +24

    Yaaaa I feel for the mother cz it's not easy kuti urinherera haunawo kana wekuudza nhamo dzako apa baba avoo ngaasadaro imagine the drama in front of the kids Heyyy. Mama god will always be there for you in your situation. My last words thank you so much Mr Mugabe and crew for the counselling God bless you abundantly in your life and your families.

    • @clearerams825
      @clearerams825 Рік тому +6

      Kobaba ava vaita sei? He is right to conduct DNA tests. Fact yekuti mwana 1 aita wababa ava doesn't mean vese ndevake.

    • @Sama7941
      @Sama7941 Рік тому +4

      Ok but i thought nherera is mwana asina vabereki. To me she doesnt look like a kid. Its not necessary to keep labeling her as that. Its sad but she has to accept her situation and deal with it. Anyways the husband is such a horrible man. He seemed crazy even before hearing the woman’s story.

    • @JayJay-mr5ln
      @JayJay-mr5ln Рік тому +4

      Chihure chiripo why do yall jss wanna see her emotions kunzi mwana ndewe mdhara uyo doesn't hide chihure chamoms iyo

    • @nandimzanzi
      @nandimzanzi Рік тому +1

      @@JayJay-mr5ln Lies this man has a small house.He even claims she did something to make him come back.haana kukwana

    • @gracemupita1801
      @gracemupita1801 Рік тому +2

      Baba awo mushushi mukuru anongotiza tiza pamba for no reason wakazara Shanhe chete.

  • @danieltakundwa1971
    @danieltakundwa1971 Рік тому +77

    This according to my assessment this has been Tinashe's most difficult episode,,,imagine asking more than ten questions and getting one answer "handizivi" you need wisdom to circumvent and bring the person to reveal the information that you desperately need but still the person remain adamant''' amai ava is being used ne spirit yakaipa,she resort to wanting to taking her life pamwe nevana kana vaona kuti nyaya dzasvika pakaipa,,,it seems she abuses her children zvakare,,, listen When she gives orders to the child to go and buy something to kill themselves...mmmmm baba varipa tyt avo...kuchema kuda kuvhara nyaya ye dna in future zvachose...baba ngavaite mamwe ma tests evamwe vana zvakare

    • @dianamainana4910
      @dianamainana4910 Рік тому +2

      Kkkk madam Boss’s team

    • @Love26374
      @Love26374 Рік тому

      It’s not a spirit but it’s a mental illness. She is probably suffering from depression or PTSD

    • @wilmarmarara2448
      @wilmarmarara2448 Рік тому

      But in other side she cheats with other men and protect not to have different kids toteins. So that she can get money to put the food on the table

    • @davedave2103
      @davedave2103 Рік тому

      All episodes are tough foe Tinashe but you're right he earned his cash this time round I mean other ava has emotions running wild. I would have thought she has watched a few episodes of people who come out victorious. Ngatibvire

    • @gabrielmaswoswere5659
      @gabrielmaswoswere5659 Рік тому +1

      unbalanced assessment in my view, clearly she has been mistreated by this man, $20 for her and the kids is nowhere near enough. There's no evidence at least from DNA results to show that she was indeed cheating. It would not be far fetched to think that because of the struggles her kids are going through kudzingwa kuchikoro and all plus her struggling to survive, that she'd be mentally unhinged.

  • @tanikaandrea4584
    @tanikaandrea4584 Рік тому

    I don't knw some how I even cried with this lady she has being thru alot and kutoona kwangu hama dzemurume ndidzo dziri kukonzera muzukuru kubuda achitaura zvakadaro now mwana ndewe hama yako pachaitq kugarisana here ndaona kuti munhu ukashaya munin'ina mukoma mwana waamai or wababa vako panyika unoitwq bhorq nevarume co unenge usina anokumirira. Baba ava havasi responsible havatoda family and I believe he was hoping kuti vabude asiri wake mwana pakadai thrust hapachina ukangoona wanzi hande kumadna ziva kuti hapachina thrust and without thrust hapana marriage

  • @sheenbaby
    @sheenbaby Рік тому +2

    Dear men. Choose to be honourable in any case. Don't hurt people's daughters. Especially when you're involved with someone who's from a broken background. Don't hurt people's daughters. Be honourable

  • @maggiemuyambo9387
    @maggiemuyambo9387 Рік тому +116

    I haven't cried in any of Tinashe's episodes but today I cried surely some man can be so wicked. I hope this woman gets enough counselling and I pray that she realises that there is life after this predicament

    • @tariromhlanga6556
      @tariromhlanga6556 Рік тому +36

      I think there are 2 sides to every story she might not be very innocent as well plus in life sometimes self control is very important.. She also is being abusive to her kids and no respect for others see how she was responding to Tinashe.

    • @learnmoregaranowako3635
      @learnmoregaranowako3635 Рік тому +26

      Man wicked ?? Aaa imi...that woman is clearly sick and all those kids should be taken away from her as she gets treatment.

    • @sukaimasvingise2051
      @sukaimasvingise2051 Рік тому +16

      Mai ava ndi drama queen 👑👑 very starbone kushaya anovaudza kut vakauraya vana vachano changa muka vava kujeri handiti vaibatwa vo apologizer vana vanogona vari vemurume but hazvirevi kuti vaisaita chipfambi

    • @KatiyoKatiyo
      @KatiyoKatiyo Рік тому +10

      If she is a Saint why on earth would you want to kill yourown kids nomatter how wronged

    • @ruthm7205
      @ruthm7205 Рік тому +10

      This woman is a drama queen, I feel sorry for that man,I wonder how he could even manage to put up with such, feel sorry for the poor kids too. He should goahead and test all the kids even vari vake he should leave that drama queen otherwise kushungurudzwa akuperi

  • @devotedgombakomba1903
    @devotedgombakomba1903 Рік тому +7

    The woman went through a lot,I can fully understand her situation.But thanks the situation has been resolved.I hope there a many cases like these which need resolving

  • @lydiat7636
    @lydiat7636 Рік тому

    Inga zvakaoma hazvo zvinodangana na Tinashe Mugabe mu basa rake hooooo Forogonya party 2that woman is very emotional

  • @michelledongo5821
    @michelledongo5821 9 місяців тому

    Ndarwadziwa .... sometimes life is not fair kuona munhu munhu achema kudai anenge arwadziwa zvakaoma

  • @Mundau_wekanyi
    @Mundau_wekanyi Рік тому +4

    Ummm guys let's not jus say she's rude. Hapana anomirawo nemukadzi uyu, infact they are taking advantage of kuti haana Hama dzepedyo chete. She's fed up neku abuswa nefam yemurume. Hama dzemurume hadzisi dzako. Chii chinoratidza kuti murume Ari straight. I'm touched 🥲

  • @opahmurozoki1506
    @opahmurozoki1506 Рік тому +8

    I sympathize namai ava she has gone through a lot. May God be with this family.

  • @maishandymaishandy7865
    @maishandymaishandy7865 Рік тому

    Mai avo vatambudzwa nezirume iro kusvika pa extend yekuti chero kuramba mhosva dzavarikupomerwa hazvichashande... Kune varikuti mai ava varikuhura inyaya yekuti hamusati masangana nenyaya yakadai... Kana wakashungurudzwa kana murume haudi kana kumuona..

  • @rosezawanda3863
    @rosezawanda3863 Рік тому +3

    Mr Tinashe the most composed and cool guy haaa he has been to hell and back yet he has managed to keep his sanity