ED BEFORE & AFTER PHOTOS, SH IN SCHOOL & SU!CID3 PREVENTION MONTH
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- Опубліковано 6 вер 2020
- Just a little mini mental health video to brighten your mondays :D love you all please leave any request for future mini mental healths in the comments! Don't forget to like and subscribe before you go xx
ED BEFORE & AFTER: 2:10
SH IN SCHOOL - 9:25
SUICIDE AWARENESS MONTH: 18:45
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stephanie cohen yes
Oml I watched that video because I saw my friend post that u shouldn't watch it on sc and I almost had a panic attack 🤮😭
Shan Louise it traumatised me
i watched it when it happened, may he rest peacefully. 💔
you hit the nail on the head with "if you are seIf-harming, *there is a problem* ", no matter what the reason you do it.
If you seIf-harm because your friends self-harm, *there is a problem* ,
if you seIf-harm out of curiosity, *there is a problem* ,
if you seIf-harm for attention, *there is a problem* ,
if you seIf-harm FOR ANY REASON, *there is a problem* and YOU DESERVE HELP AND CARE!
As you said, seIf-harm is a SYMPTOM of a deeper issue, which is a problem that needs to be addressed, NOT dismissed.
Thank you. ♡ I would like to add: no matter how "bad" oder not bad it is. Even it is very "small" -> there is a problem.
same with ed’s
If I cut but don’t bleed does that count as self harm? I scratch myself with a knife and it leaves marks but they disappear by the next day (no blood drawn)
@@iquestionmyself9678 I would say yes, that counts. It is an unhealthy behavior, a form of agression turned against yourself. I woul take it seriously and not make you feel worse for it "being not bad enough". It matters, you matter. ♡ Take care and get the help you need.
trying to get people to notice your cuts/scars yet hiding them once they're seen is also something i did/do. it's a vicious cycle in my mind
As for the Ed point of veiw I feel like Body pictures aren’t necessary; eating disorders are a mental disorder with physical aspects not a psychical disease
S3LF-H4RM FOR ATTENTION still means that you are unwell and *need help* . What healthy mind thinks of deliberately injuring oneself to get attention? Clearly your emotional needs are not being met! Clearly you need more support!!
Self harm in school is such a difficult topic to discuss.. I remember I was first introduced to it at the age of 12 because I had a friend who was struggling with depression and was doing it. Then I started doing it at 13 and life genuinely became difficult. I wouldn't ever blame the friend but I found out that people do that through that friend.
But the competition is definitely extremely scary.. I used to be part of a friendship group (at the age of 13-15) were all members of it struggled with their mental health and at the time I didn't realise it but now looking back, they were all in competition with each other for "who's most depressed and has the hardest life" which is upsetting because it was the only thing that made them feel valid. It was definitely triggering because it was expected to struggle once you entered the group. Even now, I believe they're all still friends and they're all around 18 now and from what I've seen/heard they're not helping each other which just makes me sad.. Competition is really destructive and damaging and NEEDS to be talked about.
Also, with suicide prevention month, I think it's amazing for awareness but I don't like how some people only talk about it in that time period eg by making a post on social media. Suicide is relevant every single day and should be talked about. But this goes for anything else. For example, pride month, people only talk about the difficulties of the LGBTQ+ community in that time period then forget it after that and talk about it less.
Also, pls make that video on trigger warnings 🥺💘
When I was under CAMHS DBT as opposed to adult care - as teenagers we were all told not to accept eachother on social media because of the whole “competition” aspect of things, I think especially with EUPD/BPD minded teens we definitely didn’t help one another when we created a group chat to spite the therapists - I think the only thing that can be helpful is sharing positive things during group - or if you’re gonna add eachother in social media, only be positive in conversation because there were a few times where if one person felt suicidal we all immediate became suicidal and couldn’t help eachother out of the situation...
It’s so sad and difficult.
@@illeatthat I completely understand and sometimes people do have good intentions.. But the illness takes over and you become negative and competitive. I think parents, teachers etc need to be educated on this topic and taught how to address it. What staff did was actually a good idea and people shouldn't assume that competition is attention seeking or a "phase" and it's very serious.
i had a friend like that too she would always try and ask when i last sh and try to be like, oh i self harmed more than you so you aren’t doing it good enough. and things like that and always made it a competition and would get mad when i wouldn’t show her or let her see. and also what didn’t help is that she would always make the excuse that she was the one who went to the psych hospital and she was the one who’s parents knew about her problems and that she was diagnosed and would even self harm in front of me and told me to watch. like she didn’t understand that my problems probably aren’t just depression and anxiety and are way different and she would always put me down. i’m glad we’re not friends anymore and i really do understand how you feel
@@notc0mmonpeopl3 Gosh.. I am so sorry you had someone like that in your life.. I understand that mental illness can control someone and make people do toxic/damaging things but there is a point where the person realises that they've gone too far and need help. I'm glad you're not friends anymore. I hope that person got the help but I'm happy that you don't have to deal with that anymore. I hope you're in a better place, too! 🙂
i see a lot of people in the comments saying about the rolling up the sleeves thing & being embarrassed by it, but just known there is a HUGE difference between attention seeking and SUPPORT seeking. never ever feel like you’re wanting attention in a negative way, it’s only natural that when we struggle we desire to be supported, regardless of what that looks like for you. i know when my self harm was still a secret, so much of me wanted it to stay that way but there was always a part of me which wanted someone to notice. to notice for support- not attention, i hope this helps any of you rationalise those feelings
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ED BEFORE & AFTER: 2:10
SH IN SCHOOL - 9:25
SUICIDE AWARENESS MONTH: 18:45
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i think legislation for safeguarding must have changed because when my teachers found out about self harm they immediately called my parents. And I honestly commend you for being honest about wanting your teacher to see and rolling up your sleeve because I did this too and while I find this embarrassing I know that needing attention isnt necessarily a bad thing and I'm grateful that you were open about that experience xx
i used to do the same thing where i would try to just kind of hint that i was self harming by like slightly rolling my sleeves up or pulling my sleeves down a lot i at first i was thinking in my head like i’m attention seeking but i now realize that i really just wanted help and i’m glad that i’m not the only one who does it
i loved the distinction you made between using "shockingly underweight" 'before' pictures versus showing the 'before' unhappy state of mind pictures which are more helpful and less harmful
I relate to what you said about wanting certain people to notice but denying it whenever you‘re asked so much. I‘d do all the time but none of my teachers recognized or asked about it until I stopped and they saw my scars months later
"things won't change if things don't change"
When you said about the teacher noticing with SH, I can relate so much. I got really anxious watching because I got a flashback from when I was in school and I finally reached out and I was in the office with my head of year (who was amazing!) and other pastoral care (who was also my ICT teacher) and I said about my anxiety/depression/trauma/insomnia etc and my ICT turned round and said “yeah I noticed the plaster in class, you didn’t hide it from me that well” and I just felt so on edge and not judged but judged ya know.
And I remember thinking then why didn’t you ask ? Why didn’t you keep me behind and check in?? I just wanted someone to notice and help me because I wasn’t getting help at CAHMS or home cause I didn’t feel comfy telling the parents. Schools have such a long way to go.
(In regards to competing) Another time was a few days after I turned 18 (so I wouldn’t have to tell my parents and nor could the school) and I had SH’d and I finally told my head of year again after the first time I told her. And she asked to see it (but it was already a week old & wasn’t that bad) so having to say to her “please take this serious, it’s normally worse but this is older and healed” made me compete with myself almost. Like after that I was determined to SH worse just to prove to myself and her that I was depressed. Like I hate the fact that you get to the point where you feel kind you have to prove your depression. She never made me feel judged and was acc really understanding, but having the bad mentality of competing with yourself is so draining
Thank you marie for this video. Very eye opening and I’m glad that someone else had gone through the same as me. And it makes myself and others feel less alone.
I can relate to not wanting anyone to know about self harm so much. I was so ashamed in school and I still am because of the scars and I'm 28 now. There is nothing attention seeking about it, and if you show it and hope to be helped by this person in any way it has nothing to to with wanting attention but with needing someone to see you and be there for you, helping you through very hard times. I also don't get why doctors treat you like it was your conscious and free decision to cut yourself because nobody would ever do this without serious mental illness and out of will. I even had a doctor in the ER refusing to do anesthesia for stitching and told me "You wanted to feel yourself, there you go." which is nothing but barbaric and led to more medical trauma and me nearly dying because of an infection a year later because I was too afraid to tell anyone. Education really needs to happen in the medical field, in schools and everywhere around to raise awareness about how big the inner pain has to be to be able to do something like needing self harm to cope with it. I myself can't relate to how desperate I had to be in this period of my life to hurt myself in these extreme ways over and over again, so I don't expect anyone else to fully understand, but being more empathic and validating with each other would be a good start.
Safeguarding in schools and colleges has definitely changed since I was at school. I work in a sixth form college now as a science tech and there's a whole process that everyone in the college has to be trained in. Mental health is taken very seriously now, and obviously so is sh, which is really good. I didn't start self harming until I was 18 so I never dealt with school/college finding out so I don't know what the process was back then but from what I've heard it wasn't great. Great video as always, Marie 💛
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I was wondering if one day once everything’s safe again, you’d do a meet-up in Coventry? I live close to there and I’m sure other fans who live local to you would want to meet you :)
I really appreciated this video! These topics aren't talked about that much but they are so so important, I feel less alone, much love!
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I really loved this video, definitely would like to see more of the mini series! I think it’s great to be able to hear different opinions on topics, it definitely makes me more open minded & considerate of others thoughts on things!
Also the Albie cameos are always very much appreciated💗💗
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on a real note these three topics have been so relevant recently and after a rough week it’s just been nice to hear someone talk about it in a healthier way💕 keep going gorgeous, ur smashing it!!💖💖
Marie, I really liked this video!!! Overall I strongly think your videos are getting better and better, so thank you for that! I really resonated with all the opinions, mostly around sh and wow... thank you thank you for talking about these topics❣️❣️
I have been at war with my mental health recently with school starting again and stuff but your videos have really helped me, thank yoy
SH in school, such an important but neglected topic. You covered it brilliantly! X
really loved this chatty video like how you covered these different topics and included some opinions and ideas of your community :) love you
aww mini mental health monday, what a cute name xx
hey thank you for posting so regularly i really appreciate hearing your voice. i struggle with my own issues which are different to yours but it's nice to know i'm not alone. x
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this was suuuch a good video! if you'd like, could you do one on trigger warnings but in a similar style to this video? lots of love 💕
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Thank you Marie for being such an inspiration and spreading awareness all year round 🙌🏼 You've helped me feel like I'm not the only one which was what I needed through recovery (I'm getting discharged this month 🎉) and of course will always need so please never stop 💕
Every time you upload I get to add it to my gratitude journal :)
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thanks angel!! xxxx
Thank you so much for talking about the 'wanting certain people to know' aspect of SH in school. I honestly thought I was the only one who did this, and I made me feel even worse. I can never admit it when teachers/adults ask me about it either. It's really comforting to know I'm not the only one who has done this.
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I think this is a greattt idea for a new channel series means covering more topics as well that can't take up a holeee video even if I would still watch them as one vido with 80 percent ramble and albi 😂
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I'm currently doing a safeguarding course as I work at a school. This advice has been really helpful. Thankyou Marie
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when you asked "Who likes to be kicked in the face?" I was reminded of the song "I miss the misery" by Halestorm (because of the "I like that kick in the face" lyric in the song)
I'm feeling a plateau much lower than before, but I feel the down slope coming. I live with schizoaffective bipolar type, and these videos are helping me understand where I am, helping me understand my own cycles of psychosis. I just started watching, and I want to thank you for how candid you are with your journey through recovery. Thank you for helping me give myself a sense of perspective in my own journey, and I mean that in a very abstract way. I understand we all experience our own singular psyche.
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As a suffer on Anorexia nervosa and self harm and suicide attempts myself. I'm glad you covered these topics very well. Sending love, you help me so much over the years. I've been in and out of phych wards and A and E. You've helped me inmensely, thank you Marie x
*something* I watched it all, well said
Something. And thank you for your transparency and vulnerability. It gives me the strength to take each day as it comes.
you got this
argh i feel like i got the idea of sh from a friend who struggled with it, i was already struggling and just wanted someone to notice i wasn’t okay, but i feel so much guilt cuz i always feel like i only did it to copy them?? at the same time i also feel like i would have started anyways cuz i wasn’t doing well so yea argh
Hey Marie i love you hope you are well and staying safe
I love those chatty videos.. They helped me so much. Btw, where is your necklace from?
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something 💕💕 i feel like teachers don’t know or just generally don’t talk enough about mental health. at my school we didn’t have anyone we could talk to about our problems, mental health etc. and i also don’t remember anyone EVER talking about mental health. it’s so sad. because it’s such an important topic to talk about. talking about it at school would probably bring so much awareness and also maybe show kids that are not struggling with it and don’t know anything about it, that there are kids who are struggling and that they should maybe reach out to a friend or whatever (because it might make them realise that one of their friends might be struggling)
in a maths lesson once in y10 I remeber a guy who I didn't rly like before it made a sh joke with a ruler and I remember just crying because I got extremely triggered and had to temporarily leave, I couldn't tell my teacher which if it was now then I would speak up because it came without notice and I wouldn't want someone to feel the same as I did
Love this
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Also, definitely feel that before and after photos that focus on how you’re feeling seem like a much better idea. Seeing a spark back in someone’s face when things are looking brighter for them and things don’t feel so dark - I want that for everyone.
Self harm is so difficult. I never went to a school (homeschooled) so I don’t know what it’s like dealing with that stuff at school. But I really hope that, just generally, people will be more and more educated and shown by their parents or teachers or whoever, better ways to be. So that any kind of mean words or anything will be less the way to go? Probably too optimistic, I don’t know.
I love love love what you’ve said about sharing your story but not sharing graphic stuff. Being able to share all the nitty gritty details and be seen and heard and accepted with that is important - but is better done in therapy or with someone you trust who is ok to hear all of that. But for sharing your story to spread awareness, let people know they’re not alone, as part of awareness campaigns - I think it’s definitely better to stay away from specific graphic details that don’t need to be there. And could give another person ideas.
These are only my thoughts. I am always willing to hear different ideas, new information, and learn.
Hang in there everyone.
thankyou so much for your thoughts !!! i completely agree ☺️💕
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you have actually talked about sh in school before!! I think it was in your first mh story or like one of your first videos when you "came out" and you were explaining where you were and what happened?
honestly marie you are so amazing thank you so much for sharing your opinion and experience, it's so relieving I guess?? to know someone else shares your opinion on stuff. olive you!! 😘😘
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“Heavily unwell” my mindset when I realised how much my bulimia really effected me 🤣
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i can soo relate to the thought of want to show people indirectly. i mean i didn't want to scare them but i actually want to see they are caring because i felt so bad, lonely and i had such a low self esteem. in my mind i had to do it worst in worst no matter if nobody noticed. in my hope i always wanted to be prepared if someone sees just to make them love me and care😪
hi. i haven’t finished watching the video but would just like to share my experience with sh in school. TW. so i currently struggle with sh and i’m in my last year so secondary school. i told two of my friends by just showing them my arm (this was the day after the very first time i did it) we then went down stairs just to sit and speak to our favourite teacher to take my mind off it hit behind my back one of my friends told her. i was lasted that day called into my guidance teachers office as my teacher had to tell her. we had a good discussion about it and everything going on. at the time i was freaking out as i didn’t know all who knew. turns out my friend ended up also telling one of her others friends which rly annoyed me as i trusted her and i wanted to tell people and teachers when i was ready. to this day all the teachers who know are extremely supportive and very understanding. another thing i would like to add is as i was over 16 they didn’t tell my parents as i didn’t want them too. i have just recently called my gp and i have been referred to CAMHS. i just wanted to let you know as some people will find telling their school scary as they might tell their parents or they might not understand. but if you find the right teacher or friend to tell it will rly help you xx stay strong you’ve got this
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Question for future vids - Have you had lip filler / would you ever get filler or plastic surgery? I love your vids xxxx
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loved this vid and would love a trigger warning vid x
Omg where did u get ur Cleveland crew neck from?????? I’m obsessed😍
I love hearing ur opinions on these topics Marie, u r so well spoken❤️
Please make the video on trigger warnings, I’d love to see it💕
i got it from Tesco 😂😂 for like £8 and yaaassss i think i will do it soon 💗
@@marieroseeee awww thank u so much for replying. U inspire me every single day to keep fighting to recover!! I love u so much❤️ ur so beautiful inside and out💕💕