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The Secret: Why Nigerian Men In South Africa Choose Single Mothers Abroad,But Do Not In Nigeria.
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- Опубліковано 26 бер 2024
- Hello Fam welcome back to the channel,here another chi chat video on what I call the hypocrisy of some Nigerian men living in the diaspora and In South Africa,on their sentiments marrying a women with kids abroad but can’t marry a women with kids in their home country.And the question is do they do this for material gains or what ?
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It’s mainly Nigerian men that has been saying that rubbish in social media, having a child is not a big deal, love is all that matters
My sister real Men definitely go for what they want regardless ❤
I know a Nigerian couple that lives around the corner, but hes always taking trips to Spain. I sometimes go over there when she's gone and "take.care of her". They have kids but I think he has another family elsewhere..
Wow what sort of trip is he taking? Maybe work related?
@@ChimmaFrancherry I think he has another woman. He goes to Nigeria too. I dont know for what exactly. But when he goes. I make sure she's OK, give her some cash, make sure she's good til he returns. It's what good neighbors are for.
Those marriages abroad, are marriages with benefits. Paper!!!
They accept them in diaspora because they don't really have too much choice and it's outside the continent
Also it's not always also favorable for the men bit only for the women. But why majority of them always end up in single mother if they're really good people? Some leave their husband because of benefits or bad friend advice 😢 then they come to regret it all at last
That could be sha,but if truly it is because of the limited choice,they can actually go back home and marry someone so it’s is kind of hard to believe.
Don’t mind those Nigerian men! They are not serious?? That guy is not serious. Igbo’s don’t mind
The way he was saying it with all boldness is cringy eziokwu
They marry them for papers dear but Nigerian men with proper papers they bring their girls from Nigeria I'm sure you understand but as SAns they really don't care they marry you even if you have 4 kids from different father's as long as they love you
That actually another angle that seems profound hey,Mara what do I know😊🤷♀️
Thanks for watching dear
Maybe the Nigerian man who marry women with children in South Africa or abroad do it for one of the following reasons:
They may feel that the Eurocentric Social Norms of South Africa pull them out of the taboo that you are referring to in Nigeria
Because both our culture as well as our Eurocenttic Norms accommodate marrying a person that have children from previous marriages as long as it is done in a dignified where one of the parties had not contributed to the marriage breakdown of the other spouse
Maybe they marry a woman from another wedlock with the intention for financial gains from the stranded single parent woman
I cannot tell which is the correct answer
Just to deviate from your topic:my apology
It is just like to punish a teenager who fell pregnant before completing schooling
In South Africa our approach is that because it gad already happened against our will and we are devastated,; we still feel that it our responsibility not to banish that child to condemnation but to build the child and give her another chance in life
Otherwise my apology to deviate from the main theme
God Bless
Good bless you too,you really shined more like to the topic and that could be a the reason hey
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