10 Dai Shun jealous & possessive moments from Shun’s defence lawyer! The Boyfriend

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 248

  • @jessicajardim118
    @jessicajardim118 2 місяці тому +329

    Shun denying that he's jealous was the highlight for me. They can't even fool their own friends lol

    • @redlurv
      @redlurv 2 місяці тому +20

      @@jessicajardim118 the key there was he couldn't even fool himself. He kept watching and getting nervous...when they made eye contact when Dai got his drink while eating a banana, Dai saw right through him, went back and just had fun. He knew he was doing nothing wrong. Am always insecure and making scenarios in my head, that doesn't my partner will forsake all other friendships, it just means my partner will show me that they can make friends yet still be loyal to me

  • @ishijaki4
    @ishijaki4 2 місяці тому +611

    Maturity is when u guys realised Shun is the only contestants who is there looking for long lasting relationship he isn't there to look good in front of camera/he isn't their to win audience heart/ he is there to find a partner (trustworthy ,loyal partner with whom he can get married and starts his own family) he isn't trusting blindly or faking his love for dai or doing lovey dovey stuff to please audience.. Remember when iSAC was leaving show almost everyone cried but shun didn't even cried / he didn't even care about other shun was being himself eating 😂. It's a show where everybody wants to show their good side ,but shun is rechecking dai bcz of his doubt (which someone correct). He isn't rushing or faking just to please audience he ia their for himself

    • @ramonaflowers2813
      @ramonaflowers2813 2 місяці тому +61

      Oh I disagree Shun didn't cry because he's used to people leaving he protects his heart. He is a strong person. I think everyone is being themselves Genshi has my whole heart he is so sweet and soon deep with Ryota and seeing his heart break in a thousand pieces was overwhelming. I love Alan too he's been through a lot as well and though he's so positive and bubbly he has his flaws, and he actually turned off Kazuto with his forwardnes. And my gentle giant Usak that scene broke me when he left he couldn't help his personality he was so shy and awkward just wanted to hug him.

    • @unfilteredjosh906
      @unfilteredjosh906 2 місяці тому +27

      This is so wrong because I think Shun is one of the most hardworking there when it comes to the cafe truck. He's always so focused when he's assigned to work. That goes to show that he isn't just there for himself

    • @redlurv
      @redlurv 2 місяці тому +17

      @@ishijaki4 I hate reality shows because they create personas that don't stand up to their critiques. Shun is a red flag for not being honest about what he sees in Dai and that hasn't changed in 6 episodes. He does not communicate what he wants, he just makes statements and expects that by some miracle things will work out in his favor 🥺

    • @kpop4815
      @kpop4815 2 місяці тому +23

      Yes. He's so real. The fact that he can pull anyone he want but he has no interest in anyone 😅 yet people call him red flag

    • @valizvaliz
      @valizvaliz 2 місяці тому +4

      Estoy muy de acuerdo, al menos eso pienso también, lo único con lo que no estoy de acuerdo son los momentos de confusión por los que hace pasar a Dai, eso de "me acerco yo, pero tú no me toques" creo que ese tipo de comportamiento es injusto. Aunque también soy consciente de que no todo lo que ocurre en Green Room va a salir en los episodios, pienso que hay muchas cositas que no sacan con tal de generar drama y entretener.

  • @lilrose7936
    @lilrose7936 2 місяці тому +152

    I really feel for shun. I cant imagine never having love, even from the people that are suppose to love you unconditionally. He has trauma from past relationships and the people who brought him into this world. he was abandoned, raised in an orphanage, and had to live without family and love all his life. Its obvious that he struggles to understand love but he wants to be able to. I don't think he's a red flag like other people keep saying. I just think he does not know how to react to love. People only know what they're taught and as we see he hasn't had any teachers. I learned what healthy love is from my parents but he doesn’t get that. He has to learn what love is and how to accept it by personal experience and not observation. He's on this show which shows how badly he wants a home and family that he never got to experience. Im glad he told dai about his past so dai can understand the background and experinces hes working off of.

    • @cathystussi7165
      @cathystussi7165 2 місяці тому +8

      @@lilrose7936 Bingo! You said he does not know how to react to love. YES! When you’re a child your parents teach you what love means, how to behave with love (unfortunately they also teach how to hate) etc. He didn’t have that. The people in the orphanage were probably too busy to show parental love. He lived in the orphanage for 18!!!! years for goodness sake. I really feel for this young man. He will find someone who will love him unconditionally and I hope it’s Dai. They are both young (but they are pretty mature for their age) so they have plenty of time for loving each other.

    • @elirini6706
      @elirini6706 2 місяці тому +2

      I don't know what more to say you said it all.... I'll just cry for shun-chan 😭💕💕💕✨

  • @scob28simrandesai40
    @scob28simrandesai40 2 місяці тому +106

    When introvert fells in love with extrovert 😂😂😂

  • @abhinavkumar7443
    @abhinavkumar7443 2 місяці тому +95

    SHun is the only contestants i want to protect at all cost ❤ this man deserves whole world happiness

    • @ocloudsexol586
      @ocloudsexol586 2 місяці тому

      LOUDER!!!!

    • @kuroneko7022
      @kuroneko7022 28 днів тому

      And how are you going to protect him? Just curious. 😂

    • @lailaesguerra5115
      @lailaesguerra5115 24 дні тому

      ​@@kuroneko7022 maybe by supporting him in his journey as an artist or by including him in my prayers😊

  • @boyslove5077
    @boyslove5077 2 місяці тому +101

    I dont think shun trying to make dai change his extrovert personality as some comment said in other social media he just scared he wont be able to match his personality because he is a introvert but i think dai like peaceful and quite environment with him he doesn't seem to be getting bored by it i am introvert i can understand shun on so many level but dai really trying to keep up with him is so nice

    • @raelenehollier3335
      @raelenehollier3335 2 місяці тому +4

      I agree with you 2 Introvert match same as 2 extroverts, I feel the love they have for each other I hope they both work through the challengers.🎉❤

  • @Jwkaghm5498
    @Jwkaghm5498 2 місяці тому +87

    I know so many of you guys might think Shun is overreacting (but only a person who hav been through same situation/condition can understand why shun action iis like this) i can relate to shun , it's not easy to trust someone, in my case whenever i see someone who acts clingy/sweet/kindness i question myself a lot is that person real or fake ,i have trust issue to avoid this we usually want to be friends with them in order to understand their real personality ( shun said dai is so excited, that's why he has problem with their vibes) but in reality i thinks shun is questioning himself is this person showing his real " excitement" "real smile" "real happiness" or he is doing this just for show in order to look cool afterall in the ends this is juat a reality show , shun isn't people pleasure he is being real with his feelings.

  • @Thatsverynoice
    @Thatsverynoice 2 місяці тому +70

    Thanks for this, I swear these 2 are giving me so much anxiety 😢 just want to give them both a hug then shut them in a room together to sort things out.

  • @nomoreDreams-fq1dc
    @nomoreDreams-fq1dc 2 місяці тому +26

    Shun was abandoned, was bullyed in orphanage, his past lovers even though one loved him failed to give him family like feeling , shu. Wants someone who he can trust and have long lasting relationships rather than just acting cute for show
    I hope shun gets his happiness 😢 rooting fr both

  • @janviviri3452
    @janviviri3452 2 місяці тому +36

    Here’s what I think and i wrote it just now somewhere else, so just gonna copy paste.
    I don’t understand why people are fighting over taking sides here. I understand both of them. Dai is a very cheerful and energetic person and he is actively approaching the person he’s attracted to which is just fine, but I also understand why shun is the way he is. It may not be visible but shun is very insecure and always guarded. He doesn’t like to feel at disadvantage in a relationship which is why he gets defensive and fears taking the wrong step. From the very beginning he expressed his plans to marry and adopt children so this process of finding a partner is a much serious one for him, which is why he is very hesitant and in denial. Dai comes on very strong which is something shun clearly stated he disliked in the beginning. I kind of understand when he said he found dai’s energy exhausting but he seems to also be drawn to him. It’s like he is attracted to the person he is but can’t see himself in a relationship with him. At the same time shun is being very harsh and confusing which is not allowing dai to take a decision. It is understandable that dai is frustrated with shun’s behaviour but at the same time, I feel like this push and pull is keeping him interested in shun. like he mentioned before, dai never met someone like shun and finds his ambiguity refreshing and enticing. Shun is very bad at expressing himself and actually goes the opposite of what he should be doing. He said he doesn’t want to see dai or hear his voice but it seems to be more because of how conflicted dai makes him feel with himself(as in being at war with your heart?) rather than him actually disliking dai. Shun not experiencing familial love and having bad experiences in relationship is one thing that gives some context to him pushing dai away because dai offers way too much than shun can handle and the photo incident seemed to have left a picture painted in shun’s head over the similarities with his ex that might be a barrier for him because unlike everyone else, shun has a clear agenda of finding a partner to grow old with which leaves him with a great burden and paranoia of not repeating his past mistakes and choosing the wrong person. I feel like dai is the one to put efforts between the two of them because shun is defensive and retreats when facing an obstacle. I do think they compliment each other well and their dynamics seem to work. The only question left is will dai be able to give shun the family he desired? And will shun learn to cherish dai and handle what he offers? But before that, they need sort the differences between them.

    • @cathystussi7165
      @cathystussi7165 2 місяці тому +1

      @@janviviri3452 Excellent summation of the episodes. One is an introvert and one is an extrovert. My husband and I are the same way. It can work. Having a partner who’s an extrovert can be exhausting. Being with an introvert can also be exhausting but in a very different way. I really think they will figure it out if they really want to be together. I’m not sure where they both live???????

  • @Fujoshi13
    @Fujoshi13 2 місяці тому +44

    This show keeps me up at night. Not one day since the first airing I haven't have a thought for them. I understand Shun so much. Being introverted attracted to a super flirty extra-extrovert is exhausting and very scary. The insecurity is so much greater than falling for a regular person. Shun needs to learn to trust himself more and Dai needs to calm down with the flirting in my opinion. I love them both.

  • @j_scott
    @j_scott 2 місяці тому +78

    Nnnnggghhh, these two will be the death of me! I was waiting for lightning to strike when Shun claimed to not be jealous. Sure, Shun. Right.
    LOVING this show.

    • @Fujoshi13
      @Fujoshi13 2 місяці тому +4

      Same here. They are killing me.

  • @Caty_8
    @Caty_8 Місяць тому +5

    You nailed it! Dai wasn’t cutting it at all with his play boy traits. Shun is definitely sure of what he wanted and not going to settle for less! The two faced fox ikuo was chasing both kazuto and Dai…that boy was always putting Shun down to Dai and making sure he glued himself to Dai side all the time. Joined the show lately and without knowing nothing about why Shun was cautious to fall for Dai. It was a funny and dirty move he made under the pretences of being nice and trying to help when he asked Shun to come and discuss Dai in front of everyone. Imagine my disgust when he read a love letter to Dai! I was like so when did you write this out? After Shun and Dai night together?
    Ikuo is all kind of slimy 😮
    This a person who called out kazuto to tell him it fell for him since day one… while all still scheming to snatch Dai. Ikuo must have been missed informed about a BL drama…And what are the odds for Alan, who confessed to have slept with Dai!
    Being authentic and principled is what made Shun stand out and Dai could see it. Shun is a keeper not a good time seeker👍

    • @kuroneko7022
      @kuroneko7022 Місяць тому

      Well, his surfer ex didn’t keep him. Cheated on him over and over. Shun brought a lot of baggage into the game, walking in the first day saying there was nobody he was interested in. Then saying Dai had the ideal body. Is that interest, Shun? 😂

  • @cathystussi7165
    @cathystussi7165 2 місяці тому +17

    OMG you need to be a psychologist in the world of gay dating shows. Fabulous analysis!

  • @K.M.Peverell
    @K.M.Peverell 2 місяці тому +2

    You were so right there. Loved your commentary and my love to Shun and his vulnerability, also my best wishes to Dai and Shun. Wish them a life of happiness together.

  • @worker_bee07
    @worker_bee07 2 місяці тому +37

    Okay I don't care if afterwards we get know that all of this was scripted because the story line, character building is better than any of the current bl series you can think of. ❤❤❤ Eagerly waiting for next episodes 😍😍

    • @makatoshinkai
      @makatoshinkai 2 місяці тому +21

      Man they are real gay people, they wouldn't expose their sexuality Just for an script ( being a queer I can guarantee) .. maybe some moments are script but not all ..

    • @Fujoshi13
      @Fujoshi13 2 місяці тому +4

      Impossible to be scripted in my opinion. It's set in Japan, a still conservative Country and being Queer in Japan is not as open as it is for us in the west. It take for some of them lots of courage to expose themselves. I know in the Americas lots of those shows are in fact scripted to spick the audience but I doubt they do the same in Asia.

    • @ishijaki4
      @ishijaki4 2 місяці тому +4

      It would be better if u said this for Straight dating show but for gay dating show its different (

    • @worker_bee07
      @worker_bee07 2 місяці тому +3

      I am not questioning their sexuality, I also think their are gay, I am just saying in past dating shows we have seen that the contestant play the part to get fame but not actually like the individual they are with, so it could be same here as well, you never know.

    • @Queenluna25
      @Queenluna25 2 місяці тому +1

      If it was scripted shun wouldn't have come to this show because of what he has faced in his past and he doesn't have a family too, he wouldn't even have risk his mental health by to this show so u are loud and wrong

  • @User80840
    @User80840 2 місяці тому +9

    To be honest..I really feel for shun...I just want him to be happy in future..his past was already so bad ..I hope dai will understand shun' s feelings.. because as a introvert it's too difficult to express yourself...❤❤..

  • @htetyaminmyat2579
    @htetyaminmyat2579 2 місяці тому +3

    I think Shun is wearing those sunglasses just to cover his teary eyes 🥹

  • @rachelh1796
    @rachelh1796 2 місяці тому +20

    Shun & his peak cat energy😂🫠 Dai hang in there my boy🥹

  • @ellenois2
    @ellenois2 2 місяці тому +15

    I'm addicted about this show especially DaiShun ❤

  • @jennyparis591
    @jennyparis591 Місяць тому +2

    SHUN ES NOBLE..
    UN DIAMANTE✨️

  • @aquabonsu1
    @aquabonsu1 Місяць тому +1

    Girl, your commentary is so funny... top tier!

  • @xu0137
    @xu0137 Місяць тому +2

    Shun's eyes tells everything.

  • @toyascott6586
    @toyascott6586 2 місяці тому +5

    Talk about a perfectly on point analysis!!! 🎉❤🎉❤

  • @sheonteecochrane4859
    @sheonteecochrane4859 2 місяці тому +4

    You summarized this so perfectly ❤❤❤

  • @ushashisarkhel4264
    @ushashisarkhel4264 2 місяці тому +20

    This show is just ❤❤❤

  • @krishadahal295
    @krishadahal295 2 місяці тому +18

    I thought the same thing when Dai said he likes Ikuo to Ryota because he knew Ikuo and Shun are close and his message would be conveyed well. What a player 👏🏻👏🏻

  • @mariaamaka
    @mariaamaka 2 місяці тому +1

    Girl, U are awesome! Ur edit is amazing! Love ❤U!

  • @KdramaElla
    @KdramaElla 2 місяці тому +4

    They are the most emotionally chaotic couple in the show. Lovely all the same

  • @neve1393
    @neve1393 2 місяці тому +2

    At this point Dai has the right to go after who ever he wants. He was aggressive in his approach and backed off, and then Shun got interested.
    But the relationship only progresses according to Shun's preferences not Dai's. Dai took him seriously, listened and actually heard about his trauma and didnt pity but sympathized with him.

  • @smitarathkar3364
    @smitarathkar3364 2 місяці тому +2

    I feel that same what you expected here ...shun is very pura and emotional person.i like shun very much.he is hungry only for love and attention.

    • @kuroneko7022
      @kuroneko7022 Місяць тому

      Honey, nobody is PURE except an infant.😂
      Shun knows what he’s doing by jerking Dai around and I don’t like that Dai keeps putting up with it.But, oh well.

  • @lundisoso
    @lundisoso 2 місяці тому +4

    I'm happy you made this video I got a better understanding of them. I'm going to watch the show now

  • @Anelta_Rant
    @Anelta_Rant 2 місяці тому +6

    This was so fun to watch. Maybe you should join the panelists

  • @theaolivia6989
    @theaolivia6989 2 місяці тому +15

    I am sorry but maturity is realize not everything need to cater with your need, Shun need to realize he can't trauma dumping to Dai, Dai is just easygoing people, i hate when people say he use Ikuo to make Shun jealous..
    Dai is not that calculated, and just because Shun had hard time adjusting with others people doesn't mean Dai too
    from the Dai Mom IG, we realize Dai is growing up, with parent that fully supports his decision and caring. He loud on his love, because he grow up that way, if Shun had a problem with Dai personality and want to be just friend, leave that man alone so he can be with someone that appreciate his personality
    If S

    • @MrShelma27
      @MrShelma27 2 місяці тому +1

      вы знаете, я с вами согласна! мне не кажется, что Шун "осторожен", мне кажется, что он "труслив". можно бояться темноты, но выпустить руки вперед и идти. ты пришле на шоу, где за короткое время надо найти /понять/ любить. я бы еще понимала, если бы он на камеру говорил, что неуверен и что не доверяет, но он это обсуждает и манера его обсуждения мне не очень понятна. он откровенно говори, что ему не приятно взаимодействия Дая с Инуи, но пойди скажи это Даю. Этот парень честен с тобой.

    • @Mepoddk
      @Mepoddk 2 місяці тому +9

      Dai obviously likes Shun more than Ikou, Shun's past is not something that will be fixed even with a thousand therapies, and here the difference between Dai and Shun is demonstrated, Dai has parents who support him but Shun has no one, and I can assure you that the environment in which Shun lived did not help him at all, even working from a very young age. And you will remain silent when you see what the home house system is like in Japan.

    • @sonamrawat7822
      @sonamrawat7822 2 місяці тому +3

      everyone get insecured when they know those things. if they said they like you and you started to get feelings . will you not be insecure when when another guy came and that person and the guy had sex before and still being touchy touchy. there were so many things which make dai red flag .. maybe you are carefree and like those type of person but i as an introvert would had the same feeling and questions like shun.

  • @littlescully3637
    @littlescully3637 2 місяці тому +4

    Couldn't agree more on you amalyses ❤❤❤
    Dai is sooooo ❤ into Shun, those other guys have no chance!!

    • @kuroneko7022
      @kuroneko7022 Місяць тому

      Yeah, poor Dai being treated so poorly because he loves Shun. I don’t know why he kept trying - it was almost like a challenge he wasn’t going to lose. I love Dai, he’s the perfect boyfriend.❤

  • @silvinha516
    @silvinha516 2 місяці тому +8

    So, I went and watched 2 episodes of the show because I hate speaking without context and I just can't. Reality tv isn't for me at all. I clicked on this video because I adore your content and I agree with you 99% of the time but this is not for me. I feel like our brains are so programmed by all the bl fiction we see, we stop being able to recognise toxic real life patterns because they would make for a good series. This couple is a prime example os that. In an ideal fictional world Dai commits to Shun and helps him overcome his traumas and Shun opens up and begins to heal. But in reality these are two incredibly different people who are bound to hurt each other trying to accomodate their differences.

    • @kuroneko7022
      @kuroneko7022 Місяць тому

      I agree and I don’t think their relationship will last very long - they’re totally too opposite. Eventually, Dai will get tired of putting up with Shun’s drama and sulky actions.
      People being immature saying they’ll probably get married - two guys in their early twenties will have more relationships and are way too immature at that age to tie down with one person.
      But, it’s good theater for people who live vicariously through these sort of dramas.

  • @palazhy000
    @palazhy000 2 місяці тому +4

    I think Dai also faced some drastic problems in his life. In the show's introduction he talked about it unlike what this video says. Other than this fact I really loved your video❤

  • @Beliver-j4i
    @Beliver-j4i 2 місяці тому +2

    Daishun is perfect mach ❤

  • @neve1393
    @neve1393 2 місяці тому +2

    Shun is going to lose Dai if he continues to judge him so harshly

  • @leonardo13x
    @leonardo13x 2 місяці тому +4

    great video...poor shun

  • @laylamohammed6016
    @laylamohammed6016 2 місяці тому +9

    I am way too early, ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh! Love you, girl.

  • @moriah93ohio
    @moriah93ohio 2 місяці тому +1

    This is my first time hearing about this show. I was going to wait until all the episodes were out but I may start it today because of this video

  • @priscillaadom8934
    @priscillaadom8934 2 місяці тому +2

    Girl u r a good story teller wow u nail it

  • @anonymousgrimreaper_00
    @anonymousgrimreaper_00 2 місяці тому +2

    I can relate to shun its too hard for us to trust someone...

  • @faceoffashion6414
    @faceoffashion6414 2 місяці тому +1

    I love, love your analysis. ❤❤❤❤😂😂😂

  • @achuc5200
    @achuc5200 2 місяці тому +11

    These two reminds me of Jiwoo and Seojoon from To my star😊

  • @DorothyBritton-my2yc
    @DorothyBritton-my2yc 2 місяці тому +7

    Shun is a complicated person. He comes with baggage. Being abandoned as a child to be cheated on by an ex. He takes practically everything seriously. When he does smile it is nice to see that side of him. Then there is Dai. He smiles alot and has a carefree attitude and chats to people alot. But alot changes his mind practically every minute like in the club from Shun to a dancer then Alan came in and now Ikuo. Dai has a nature ability to make people chat and feel at ease. Since Shun said he wanted to be friends to Dai. Dai isn't chasing him so hard and Shun likes that. But it is a double edged sword. Dai maybe 🤔 watching 👀 Shun to see how he reactions are to him being with others. And Shun is giving off jealously vibes. But if something does not happen from either one. More on Shun's side. Then I think the chance will be losted and then it will be too late and over.

  • @dneral10.14
    @dneral10.14 2 місяці тому +2

    I Want to watch it so bad but Im scared and I don't want to suffer and wait for a week 😢😂I will wait till all the episode is out HAHA

  • @redlurv
    @redlurv 2 місяці тому +12

    I get what you are saying but I beg to differ in the following ways:
    1. In this day and age, we all have a past so...pull an Elsa and "let it go"...
    2. Dai has been open from the begging that everyone is here for something and Dai is a green flag for everyone except Shun in those moments that makes no sense.
    3. Reassurance and support is double sided. Don't push me away and read into situations...all relationships need open and clear communication.
    4. Dai listened when Shun spoke about being friends but Shun didn't... Let's see the green flag get what it is, Dai respected his choices even though he didn't understand the subtleties....Shun is a mild red flag but Dai is a green flag all the way. He likes Shun and tried not to make him uneasy and took the new guy to have fun but didn't even once hit on him.
    Dai knows his man is insecure and does everything within his power to show his loyalty but Shun is always so closeted In his feelings...here in my world we quantify it on a sentence "things fall apart..."

    • @redlurv
      @redlurv 2 місяці тому +1

      And Alan's appearance is Shun's wake up call

    • @redlurv
      @redlurv 2 місяці тому +3

      Also don't expect ppl to conform to you, let all compromises are 2 sided

    • @Armoaty
      @Armoaty 2 місяці тому +15

      Just "let it go"? Pls don't go about dismissing people's traumas and fears. Shun has a lot to be cautious about. He obviously hasn't been loved properly before and is wary of being hurt again. Even a child would run from fire after being burned. The fact that he's on the show facing that fear is admirable

    • @redlurv
      @redlurv 2 місяці тому +4

      @@Armoaty I am not dismissing. Am just saying that everyone has a level of trauma and we can't expect people to handle our traumas for us. For example, I am a r*** victim and get skittish around new people. I don't expect people around me to miraculously know what I need. I have to explain myself and communicate effectively with people I feel safe around. No assumptions, just communication and self driven desire to have better situations surround me.

    • @Armoaty
      @Armoaty 2 місяці тому +7

      @@redlurv I'm sorry you had to go through that, and I'm glad you found the strength to get up and seek better for yourself.
      But everyone is different. You can't expect everyone to be able to be as strong.
      1. I've been SA'd and bullied for a significant portion of my 27yrs of life, with the first 16yrs spent with an abusive narcissist father and an avoidant mother. I've had no emotional or romantic security, and can TOTALLY empathize with Shun's reluctance.
      2. Because of those fears, further aggravated by even more negative experiences from the opposite sex, I have a lot of work to do with therapists, so I sought help, I spoke up.
      Guess what?
      In my country, very similarly to most Asian countries, I was told to "get over it and stop seeking attention". Called weak and spoken down on even by friends and mentors I thought I could trust.
      People had that same mentality you have. If I could get over it easily, everyone should(even though it's most likely they're in denial or using some other negative coping mechanism). So I learnt to NOT COMMUNICATE to avoid the hurt and misunderstanding.
      Again: Thankfully you were able to "let it go" so easily and had such good support to make it so easy, but not everyone is that lucky.
      Most of us had to go it alone, and are still going it alone.

  • @stephaniegyamfi3514
    @stephaniegyamfi3514 2 місяці тому +2

    you explained as it is😂😂😂😂

  • @irelandgirl3
    @irelandgirl3 2 місяці тому +1

    :D I saw you posted this, and I just had to go watch the show before looking at this video. I totally agree with you about Dai and Shun. I can't wait for this week's episodes to see what's gonna happen next.

    • @BLFANEDITS
      @BLFANEDITS  2 місяці тому +1

      Can't wait for tomorrow!

    • @irelandgirl3
      @irelandgirl3 2 місяці тому

      @@BLFANEDITS me too! I NEED to know what's gonna happen with those two.

  • @lilylilac4253
    @lilylilac4253 2 місяці тому +1

    I hope there more personality like 'DAI' outside...
    Dai is 'the whole green forest'

  • @pxx2896
    @pxx2896 25 днів тому

    Amazing analysis and so so funny 😆

  • @Justchill963
    @Justchill963 2 місяці тому +1

    Guys like dai are rare

  • @cherrylhirsch7738
    @cherrylhirsch7738 2 місяці тому +1

    You are spot on!!!

  • @notyourcupoftae
    @notyourcupoftae 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank god someone who think like me i think no one is serious red flag here it's just two people with different perspectives towards life 🤷🤷 i understand shun because i am also like him it's not like we are only protecting ourselves to avoid people who is opposite from us , we avoid people because we don't want them to change anything for us unless until we sure that they himself willing to , i aslo like the way dai not try to hide anything about himself just because he like shun i love his honesty it's shows that he is not a shady person or anything he know what he want and do and he don't feel the need to hide it......

  • @ramonaflowers2813
    @ramonaflowers2813 2 місяці тому +2

    Shun is down bad 😢 he really spiraled from not brong worried to going to the lighthouse to get a better look at his msn fliet with someone else to being do mad he cant even look at Dai😂 oh but he's not jealous

  • @melaniewells1897
    @melaniewells1897 2 місяці тому +2

    Excellent breakdown of emotions,actions of both. Still gives me high introverted anxiety,whilst watching.Will Shaun leave past trauma behind to trust ,the one? Will Dai only see the one for him,or still be looking for a better physical look?yin and yang is complicated,the push,pull to co exist as ONE. Giving me heart failure these two.

  • @ahgastray1884
    @ahgastray1884 2 місяці тому +1

    Shun is really handsome

  • @maijastiinapietila9246
    @maijastiinapietila9246 6 днів тому +1

    I say: Dai ikuo, that scene was a sad one, just like Shun said Dai didn't prevail but ikuo did everything I didn't like either, I didn't like ikuo either. Shun was really sad, Shun couldn't even disappear Shun must have cried, the sunglasses were covered. but everything turned out well in the end with Dai Shu, they became a couple. the program was good, the joy disappears Shun Dai always talked things out and always settled arguments before going to sleep.I say: Shun's family Dai admits that Shun never had, now he has a family and a wonderful boyfriend to live with, happily together, Shun Dai eternal couple

  • @pennyspaw1819
    @pennyspaw1819 2 місяці тому +1

    Omg each and every word is so true... 🙎🙎

  • @rajeshvijayaram815
    @rajeshvijayaram815 2 місяці тому +7

    Dai literally connects with everyone and that not good. shun deserve better someone new came and Pampers him take care of him ,and take him next level and shun deserve to be happy with a better person

    • @jessientsmbole-ti1nb
      @jessientsmbole-ti1nb 2 місяці тому +9

      Nooo! Being cheerful and reacheable is not a redflag! Dai is trying, shun is trying, viewers are also trying. Shun should take the risk

    • @Queenluna25
      @Queenluna25 2 місяці тому +3

      U think it's a bl drama u are watching 😂😂well too late.. They are together already

    • @rajeshvijayaram815
      @rajeshvijayaram815 2 місяці тому

      @@Queenluna25 well we see what's going to happen in the future

    • @Queenluna25
      @Queenluna25 2 місяці тому +3

      @@rajeshvijayaram815 enjoy the moment now and leave the future for them.. If they decide to go their separate ways in the future it's fine and it's no one's business☺️

  • @ellenois2
    @ellenois2 2 місяці тому +4

    This has to be a BL drama , I'm loving it!

    • @Queenluna25
      @Queenluna25 2 місяці тому +1

      It's not a bl drama cmon it's a reality show, they are real people with real emotions

    • @ellenois2
      @ellenois2 2 місяці тому

      @Queenluna25 I mean their story is good enough to be write as an inspiration bl drama . Of course I know it's a reality show .

  • @yoyiportillo1286
    @yoyiportillo1286 2 місяці тому +2

    Hola !! Seria lindo que la narradora lo isiera tambien en español !!!! Miles de gracias 👏👏👍👍

  • @princessle3095
    @princessle3095 2 місяці тому +1

    i wish the show had longer episodes

  • @abhinavkumar7443
    @abhinavkumar7443 2 місяці тому +1

    Ahh Love your video ❤ can you please bring part 2 next Tuesday

  • @junibit
    @junibit 2 місяці тому +1

    thank you so much hahahha u explain me lol

  • @JazAgain
    @JazAgain 2 місяці тому +18

    I do NOT want Shun and Dai to end up together. Shun is way too complicated and then he plays with Dais feelings. I understand hes been through some heartache but that doesnt mean he should treat Dai like an annoying puppy. He wants things on HIS terms and his terms only. That doesnt bode well for the future if they were to end up together.

    • @makatoshinkai
      @makatoshinkai 2 місяці тому +20

      You aren't mature enough to understand shun feelings ❤

    • @JazAgain
      @JazAgain 2 місяці тому

      @makatoshinkai you aren't mature enough to accept that people have opinions and perspectives that are different from your own. Also, you know nothing about me. So stfu....respectively.

    • @makatoshinkai
      @makatoshinkai 2 місяці тому +4

      ​@@JazAgain you aren't mature enough to understand difference between criticism or point ( I didn't criticism u that u are wrong I just said u aren't capable enough to watch what he might be feeling)

    • @JazAgain
      @JazAgain 2 місяці тому +9

      @makatoshinkai I didnt mention the words criticism whatsoever so stop. What I said was you know absolutely nothing about me to make that statement, which is a fact. Who are you to decide how mature I am? Im mature enough not to get in my feelings about other peoples perspective on a matter and then make unsubstantiated judements just because I didnt like what they said. Your acting like a baby who didnt get their way.I said what I said. Shun treated Dai terrible and he was being selfish of Dai's feelings. A troubled past with relationships is no excuse to be like that. Period.

    • @makatoshinkai
      @makatoshinkai 2 місяці тому +1

      @@JazAgain shun treated dai terribly 🤣 lol are u drunk he already drew line between them .. u aren't mature enough to put yourself in shoes of shun.

  • @crisneri25
    @crisneri25 2 місяці тому

    Hahahaha I'm kind a like your humor 😅 by this reaction video😅

  • @isabelmorsanchez8887
    @isabelmorsanchez8887 2 місяці тому +1

    Shun es muy guapo😊😊😊😊

  • @rajeshvijayaram815
    @rajeshvijayaram815 2 місяці тому +1

    Dai ,I am feeling right about him

  • @YvonneElzebroek
    @YvonneElzebroek 2 місяці тому +1

    I think the are a great magic couple

  • @Simran.g9398
    @Simran.g9398 2 місяці тому +4

    My opinion: you are so positive about Dai but I have my doubts that once Dai gets Shun , he will get bored and move on. Its forbidden fruit attraction for Dai.
    Dai is not what Shun needs. But unfortunately shun wants him. Dai just want someone to be with in relationship in the show for viewership so i think thats why he tries to build connection with everyone. He is good as a human btw even open and mature.
    You are so true about Shun's introvert personality. I also experienced everything you said about shun's reactions. It's so similar to "To my Star" only true introvert can understand shun.
    Obviously i don't want to romanticize shun's behaviour ( his abondonment issue)because its toxic for Dai. He needs someone like in "To My Star"❤

    • @BLFANEDITS
      @BLFANEDITS  2 місяці тому +1

      You are not wrong.

    • @Simran.g9398
      @Simran.g9398 2 місяці тому +1

      @@BLFANEDITS Hi, so I guess I was wrong about Dai.
      I just watched epi 8 . Aaaaaaaaaaaa🥵🥵😍😍❤️❤️🥺🥺😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 he proved me wrong with his understanding of Shun's energy and he fell too deep 🫣🤣

    • @kuroneko7022
      @kuroneko7022 Місяць тому +1

      I agree: they really are not for each other. Dai will tire of trying to uphold and console Shun over and over. He’s not a therapist and he’s still very young. They both have plenty of time to find a future match - there’s no rush. They’re young, have fun and get your life in order before latching on to someone else to with your burdens and problems that you haven’t dealt with, expecting them to heal you. That’s not how it works.

  • @gincatt4783
    @gincatt4783 2 місяці тому +3

    The show is over! Shots of them are popping up like they are doing the mall tour!! It’s half scripted and we know this!! Entertainment only!!! They are actors now and have a SAG card !! 😂😂😂

    • @ishijaki4
      @ishijaki4 2 місяці тому +4

      Grow up they aren't actor they real gay people, you guys were acting same when hisman2 was getting popular we know junseong and seongho doesn't even know how to act .. seaspirit is the proof..(not everything u guys see are fake BL ) to be honest now i know why some real LGBT people BL fans they don't know how to separate reality or reel

  • @Israelite1129
    @Israelite1129 2 місяці тому

    great analysis... one critical scene is missing though.... the piano.

  • @3stanblueboi295
    @3stanblueboi295 2 місяці тому +6

    Sorry, but dai is just so red flag. He needs to change being a play boy if he really wants to when shun’s heart

    • @BLFANEDITS
      @BLFANEDITS  2 місяці тому +1

      He might not be a playboy. We don't know his personal life.

    • @3stanblueboi295
      @3stanblueboi295 2 місяці тому +3

      @@BLFANEDITS if we based it on the episodes, it was mentioned that he hooked up with one of the guys there who just joined them. If that’s not a playboy attitude, then I don’t know what is

  • @daymalmallari7840
    @daymalmallari7840 2 місяці тому +1

    Shun looks like Win of Thai BL

  • @silvinha516
    @silvinha516 2 місяці тому +8

    Let me start by saying that I've never watched the show and was actually watching your video to help me decide if I should watch it or not. I don't think it was your intention at all but Shun comes off as a massive red flag in this video and it makes me not want to watch it at all.

    • @makatoshinkai
      @makatoshinkai 2 місяці тому +10

      Shun Red flag ( do you know anything about him ???? His past is traumatic I think only 1% of the world population can experience what it feels to being abondoned by your close one(mom and dad) in the age when u aren't even 5yrs old... After that when u trust someone and love someone they cheats on you so do you really trust someone blindly just bcz they are being tóo good to you , specially when u are in dating show (and fyi Dai had xxx with another contestants he accepted on show/he is playboy)

    • @abhinavkumar7443
      @abhinavkumar7443 2 місяці тому +2

      If Shun is red flags then I think Dai is red carpet 😂

    • @makatoshinkai
      @makatoshinkai 2 місяці тому +2

      @@abhinavkumar7443 lol 😆 that's my reaction if Shun is red flags then what about other contestants 🤣😆 they are Red carpet

    • @silvinha516
      @silvinha516 2 місяці тому +4

      ​​​@@makatoshinkai Fair. But Dai is not responsible for that trauma. He shouldn't have to compensate for everyone who did Shun wrong. Even without watching the show is quite obvious they are not compatible. There's no bigger red flag from Shun than the fact that he's looking for real love on a reality tv show when he clearly isn't built for that kind of enviroment and attach himself to someone that, by your own words, is a playboy. From what you describe all he knows is people failing him in life so he goes and developes feelings for someone who is bound to do the same. That's not healthy. It's clear from this video that Dai is the type to have fun so if Shun had decided they were better off as friends he shouldn't feel ownership over him. That's not fair.

    • @silvinha516
      @silvinha516 2 місяці тому +2

      ​@@abhinavkumar7443yes. They both are. In different ways but they are. Dai is loose and goes with the flow. Hard to trust. Shun is wounded and has many issues he needs to resolve before he can actually be with someone.

  • @zeniasahabo99
    @zeniasahabo99 2 місяці тому +1

    Espero que eles possam se entender eles são tão fofos, e o sentimentos deles está aí, pq eu fico vendo tanta química nesses dois. Estou torcendo pelo amor, porque só o amor é capaz de tudo e isso está sobrando nesses dois lindos, o resto eles vão resolver com o tempo.
    Dai e Shu❤

  • @Dazzlin826
    @Dazzlin826 2 місяці тому +1

    This was spot on! Shun and Dai made this show so good that it could have been a scripted BL! Netflix needs to pay them lol. Anyways, love Shunderella and Dai Prince ❤😍

  • @ramonaflowers2813
    @ramonaflowers2813 2 місяці тому +1

    I'm obsessed with this series but I'll ve heartbroken if there is only one couple all of these men deserve love I see only green flags except probably Kazuto he's a little hard to read

    • @kuroneko7022
      @kuroneko7022 Місяць тому

      I really wanted Gensei to match. He really liked Ryota but Ryota only liked him as a friend even after Gensei confessed to him and gave him a gift. Poor baby.😢

  • @henriquekarnoski3832
    @henriquekarnoski3832 2 місяці тому +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤LOVE YOU FOREVER CASAL QUE TANTO nos encantou e encanta a cada dia ❤❤

  • @MariaTheresaCabilin
    @MariaTheresaCabilin 2 місяці тому +1

    sometimes confidence can deatroy u

  • @Angel-charlieMaherah
    @Angel-charlieMaherah 2 місяці тому +2

    Truth be told Shun is a complicated person who's tied to his past, his mood swings are just too much and he though some may find it hard to believe Shun is not looking for true love or any type of love,I personally think he is there to prove that his idea of what men are is true that's why he judges and compares dai to his past relation...

    • @sonamrawat7822
      @sonamrawat7822 2 місяці тому +2

      maybe you live in that perspective , but i also thing like shun. one time you said you like the guy and another sec you started calling another sexy and all. maybe you are okay in those type of things but not all. shun was thinking for future, he wants a life partner not short time enjoyment. if you watched it dai always gives mix signal , if a person know the person he likes had sex with a new guy. definitely he feel insecure cause he will think of him as a person who just want fun not want serious relationship. the the past relations you talk about he definitely said when dai said he is BI shun said he can't be compare to girl and etc. there so many point man which give shun mix signals. you call him out just because you're perspectives are different.

    • @Angel-charlieMaherah
      @Angel-charlieMaherah 2 місяці тому

      @@sonamrawat7822 to answer your question I did watch it, Dai never gave any mixed signals he was just being himself, his friendly he likes to talk to people, Shun was rather a disturbed person I'd love to say he was bipolar but it wasn't that serious, he has a sad soul and I don't blame him his been through a lot, an orphan who grew up without knowing what real love was, ended up meeting the wrong people who used and dumping him. So I get it you probably related more to Shun because your that kind of person who either thinks ill of others without a good reason or has a traumatic past like him and it's okay you just need therapy

    • @Angel-charlieMaherah
      @Angel-charlieMaherah 2 місяці тому

      @@sonamrawat7822 I really appreciate you writing all this but just to prove my point do you remember After the romantic night they both had Shun went ahead and stopped talking to Dai, because he refused to wear his shirt and after ignoring Dai and after everyone tried to help them out what reason did he give, that his ex used to wear his shirt as a symbol of his love so when Dai refused to wear it, it showed him that he didn't care about him,(I'd be really annoyed and angry if my love gave me that as an excuse after the silent treatment and giving me emotional stress) but Dai said I understand I promise next I'll do what ever you want me to do and am sorry I didn't wear it please forgive me

  • @leeharu1416
    @leeharu1416 2 місяці тому

    Very well said

  • @arohikanon6625
    @arohikanon6625 2 місяці тому

    Please make a full video of their love story,I mean in details

  • @SherryLoveNyc77
    @SherryLoveNyc77 2 місяці тому +3

    Wait what show is this ?? Is it a reality show?? 😕
    I will check it out 🙂

    • @Thatsverynoice
      @Thatsverynoice 2 місяці тому +2

      The boyfriend its a netflix reality series.

  • @acta739
    @acta739 2 місяці тому

    So well thought through and articulated

  • @__benx__
    @__benx__ 2 місяці тому

    what episode when Shun saw the pictures?

  • @sreeLekshmi-s4v
    @sreeLekshmi-s4v 2 місяці тому

    Look u better make ur next video on their kisssss... 🎉🎉🎉.. I am waiting for ur wordssss

  • @jordanps1218
    @jordanps1218 2 місяці тому

    Please do more analysis on this show

  • @immagirlonfire
    @immagirlonfire 2 місяці тому +2

    Me too way too early.

  • @AndroidKumar-km8qw
    @AndroidKumar-km8qw 2 місяці тому

    Did the kiss before iku comes or after??

    • @BLFANEDITS
      @BLFANEDITS  2 місяці тому +1

      It will come in future episodes.

    • @AndroidKumar-km8qw
      @AndroidKumar-km8qw 2 місяці тому

      @@BLFANEDITS then when was they kiss episode that is being shown 🤔?

    • @BLFANEDITS
      @BLFANEDITS  2 місяці тому

      @@AndroidKumar-km8qw they show preview snippets

  • @Beliver-j4i
    @Beliver-j4i 2 місяці тому +4

    Daishun is perfect mach not Alan sorry my favorite couple is daishun ❤

  • @brownekat
    @brownekat 2 місяці тому +8

    I'm convinced that ppl are on Shun's side due to pretty privilege. How can yall not see he's a red flag? How many times should Dai be rejected by Shun for y'all to get that SHUN DOESN'T LIKE HIM?
    Shun is an attention seeking drama queen who likes ppl to chase and beg him. I think everyone is forgetting that these are real people and NOT a BL.
    It's OK to glamorize toxic behaviors in a show but not in real life.
    Dai has such a wonderful, friendly, positive, and honest personality. Now imagine what damage Dai will have if he is in a relationship with Shun if this is how Shun behaves at the beginning. Dai would need therapy for years after.

    • @keita4
      @keita4 2 місяці тому +9

      Girullll plse this is not your bl series where one will suddenly fall in love blindly 😂 one will do lovey dovey stiff to please audience , he knows why he is there , If dai wants another partner then it's all of attraction not love and shun is doing smart move bcz he wants long lasting relationship not baby sitting relationship..

    • @brownekat
      @brownekat 2 місяці тому +6

      @keita4 that's my point. IT'S NOT BL. In real life when ppl reject you, you are supposed to move on and that's what Dai has been trying to do but Shun likes to push and pull him and to me that's villainous

    • @miggyceldran183
      @miggyceldran183 2 місяці тому +3

      half right and half wrong. The thing is Shun likes the distance between them when they are friends; Dai isn't too clingy and is just at arms reach. The factor here is that Shun has attachments issues, he wants someone just at arms reach but not farther or closer than that unless he is ready to commit to it. I do think if they ever get together communication is a really big issue unless Dai smartens up and gets Shun's non verbal cues and his disposition (this would particularly be hard for Dai; as he is very open) or Shun being more open
      Shun has fallen for Dai even after the red flags he sees in him (red flag for shun at least). This falls again to Shun's attachment issues, he wants Dai but he is afraid of being disappointed with him. Like the picture, his outgoing nature, his "cute" sentiments to almost everything, his friendliness, his past with Alan and now with Ikou in the picture. These might not be red flags for everyone but for Shun it is. Yet he is still attached to Dai.
      IMHO Shun is like a forbidden fruit for Dai, we don't really know what will happen after he gets that fruit

    • @brownekat
      @brownekat 2 місяці тому +1

      @@miggyceldran183 I mean, I get that Shun is cautious and introverted. However, Shun can't pick an outgoing person, get mad that they're outgoing, tell them he doesn't think it would work out, then get mad again when Dai respects that decision, and try to move on.
      Shun is sending mixed signals and Dai shouldn't have to shrink himself to conform to Shun's ideal type. Thats the problem I have with Shun.

    • @miggyceldran183
      @miggyceldran183 2 місяці тому +3

      @@brownekat I dunno my partner is kinda like Shun and I'm kinda like Dai (and ikou). I just try to understand that not everyone is the same. Shun was never mad that Dai acted as his friend, he actually liked that. What he wasn't happy about was Ikou getting into the space that wasn't really open yet. (Ikou has no fault in this as he was just the oblivious one here)

  • @be_delulu
    @be_delulu 2 місяці тому +1

    Dai didn't realised when he get excited on arrival of other members that he just confessed to the most pretty Boy here..he repeated that mistake for many times and then Shun awake him by friend zoning him then Iku came and he again made Shun upset and that was enough for Dai when he saw that Poker face with glasses hiding his eyes cursing him in every language 😂 after that he came to his senses

  • @Beingbae
    @Beingbae 2 місяці тому +2

    What if its all scripted 😂😂😂😂

  • @Anjalee567
    @Anjalee567 2 місяці тому +2

    Please send a cute guy for shun also...so Dai gets also jealous...joke a apart... it's shun decision in the last

  • @tonimaitland6526
    @tonimaitland6526 2 місяці тому

    Can you make a review of meet you at the blossom ?

  • @joanmanuta1876
    @joanmanuta1876 2 місяці тому

    I agree