【The Boyfriend】Shun “What's in my mind”

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  • @beau8631
    @beau8631 2 місяці тому +285

    “ I grew up with a different kind of common sense “ might sound like an excuse for someone else but that makes me fall in love with him. He knows himself and he trying his best on his own way. I wish him nothing but genuine happiness in his life from now on.

    • @ananyaa6664
      @ananyaa6664 2 місяці тому +24

      I couldn't agree more with you. Although my life is nothing like his, I just get him. I get his insecurities, his desires, his tantrums, his authenticity, his little efforts to mend relationships because I can somewhat sense how hard that can be for someone like him!

    • @Caty_8
      @Caty_8 Місяць тому +7

      Also he didn’t come in to try to sell himself by acting up. He wanted someone who was willing to look deeper into his soul and he too wanted to do same and not to be pressured or rushed. In the end today Dai is full of praises and deep respect for Shun. Now that is realness!

    • @beau8631
      @beau8631 Місяць тому +3

      @@Caty_8 Shun is definitely worthy 🤍

    • @beau8631
      @beau8631 Місяць тому +1

      @@ananyaa6664 Ikr, if you get him you get him

  • @lazedaisies
    @lazedaisies 2 місяці тому +113

    what i love most about shun is that he’s honest with his feelings and there’s always a reason for his actions made towards dai. he’s actually a delicate person even though he puts up a tough front. i’m happy that he’s found love with dai and hopefully they’ll last long ❤

  • @DanmeiJie
    @DanmeiJie 2 місяці тому +85

    Omggg I'm crying bcz of this edits 😢 it really pictures that Shun want a serious relationship not just some flings and have fun, and he was trying and hoping Dai share that same thought, cz actually he already fallen for Dai, and he doesn't want to lose him too.

    • @spaceyume
      @spaceyume  2 місяці тому +14

      @@DanmeiJie Exactly😭And the greatest part is, even he’s still not that sure, he was able to make that move and say “I Love you, I want to see you every day”

    • @cathystussi7165
      @cathystussi7165 2 місяці тому +9

      @@spaceyumeand now they see each other every day. What a great love story. I love how mature they are for being 23 and 24 years old.

    • @DanmeiJie
      @DanmeiJie 2 місяці тому +15

      ​@spaceyume , Ikr??? he doesn't want to lose him so he brave himself. People only see the moody him but not how serious he is with Dai, boy even said it himself to Dai he never jump into relationship for FUN and I think that's when Dai get more serious too.
      I'm so glad you able to picture it in this edit, honestly u doin him justice more than Netflix 😭🤌

    • @AhdndhVsnshsb
      @AhdndhVsnshsb 2 місяці тому +5

      ​@@DanmeiJieyup i also think the same. The moment shun said that he never be in relationship just for fun, is the moment that Dai really take serious about his and shun feeling

  • @TJSIlver
    @TJSIlver 2 місяці тому +50

    this edit is sooo beautiful .
    If Dai sees this, he's gonna cry a river 😭😭😭

  • @NatureLover-on7bp
    @NatureLover-on7bp 2 місяці тому +90

    It's a beautiful edit. It perfectly captures Shun's side of their love story.
    Honestly, I'm so happy for them...❤ It makes me feel like I want to find my true love 😂

  • @Hisoka1127
    @Hisoka1127 2 місяці тому +50

    OMG!!! This is the best DaiShun edited video that can be used in their wedding day. Thank you for your hard work. You guys can send this video to your friends and welcome them to DaiShun nation.

  • @lovemoon.105
    @lovemoon.105 2 місяці тому +47

    I hope this video will make people understand Shun's vision. We often paint people as black or white but forget that we are just human driven by our emotions. In the show Shun is a young boy trying to find a place for himself in the world, trying to find someone who he can come home to. Even if many may not agree with some of his actions in the show but I hope people will atleast try to understand where he is coming from.

  • @hiitsme2024
    @hiitsme2024 Місяць тому +4

    This was such a beautiful edit. Had me teared up the whole time. I love how Shun kept his priorities straight and how Dai managed to undertand amd handle it. After all that they went through they're so in love now and tht's what matters.

  • @aarzookunwar1282
    @aarzookunwar1282 2 місяці тому +8

    i love this edit !! it perfectly tells how shun fall in love with dai gradually, i love them together (wish them all the happiness💞)

  • @dgp6905
    @dgp6905 2 місяці тому +8

    Wow this edit is chef's kiss. Thank you.

  • @africantae2583
    @africantae2583 2 місяці тому +8

    Thanks for the hard work. We wondered why Shun was ON and OFF... With this detailed edit its obvious and understandable ❤❤❤❤

  • @kuroneko7022
    @kuroneko7022 2 місяці тому +4

    I swear, Dai is boyfriend material. He’s so sweet and thoughtful and loving. ❤

  • @ekinekin3970
    @ekinekin3970 2 місяці тому +8

    Love your edit. It really tells the essence of their love story

  • @taleathamcfarlane4806
    @taleathamcfarlane4806 2 місяці тому +4

    Absolutely fantastic edit ❤ I love DaiShun!

  • @anamatei6933
    @anamatei6933 2 місяці тому +11

    Nu s ar fi potrivit niciunul cu niciun băiat de acolo, sunt făcuți UNUL PENTRU CELĂLALT!❤❤❤❤
    Ii iubesc!😘🤗🕊️

  • @BonBon-g4d
    @BonBon-g4d 2 місяці тому +4

    the best edit on the boyfriend and daishun story on the internet! thank you for this beautiful edit. you made it with love and understanding of Shun as a person who has had a very different life than most of us. im absolutely in love with this edit. P.S. I am staring at the to be continued though :D Waiting for edits on their vlogs.

    • @spaceyume
      @spaceyume  2 місяці тому

      @@BonBon-g4d Thank you very much!Actually I have already made two edits on their vlogs, but since I used Chinese songs for bgm, I need a little bit time to translate then upload to UA-cam. :)

    • @BonBon-g4d
      @BonBon-g4d Місяць тому

      @@spaceyume oh! will be waiting for those edits.

  • @stanlleystanlley4415
    @stanlleystanlley4415 6 днів тому +1

    Dai and Shun are an incredibly beautiful couple and I am very happy about it. You are a terrible match for each other and you are both terribly beautiful guys. Congratulations if you chose each other. Thank you, I am very happy with you.

  • @なりやん-n2t
    @なりやん-n2t 2 місяці тому +8

    美しいSTORY✨
    ありがとうございます♡♡

    • @spaceyume
      @spaceyume  2 місяці тому

      ありがとう❤

  • @taehung8172
    @taehung8172 2 місяці тому +38

    Whoever is calling Shun toxic is speaking from a place of privilege. First of all: 1) his moves are defensive mechanism : Imagine being a baby or a kid who knows that no one will be there for him, and the only one who is going to protect him in this scary world is himself. Being an orphan is way harder than growing in bad environment.. he was alone in this world.. 2) He must have been surprised that some people fall in love at first sight. That's why he wanted to know if Dai was serious or if it was just a temporary feeling. He wanted to understand why Dai liked him. That's obviously because he never experienced unconditional love. He never experienced being cared for; he was abandoned. That's why, when Dai love-bombed him, he was uncomfortable and wanted space and to be just friends. It’s not his common sense-his common sense is fight or flight. 3) Shun made an incredible effort because, at first, Dai wasn't his type. (I’m pretty sure most of us have a type, and it's hard to give someone who isn't our type a chance.) He didn't want to give Dai hope that he would be with him or interested in him just because Dai had a crush on him. 4) He grew and became better. He was afraid because he knew that when he falls in love, he will fall hard. That's why he was stopping himself from falling in love with Dai, trying to find reasons to prove himself wrong-that he doesn't deserve love and that it was just a phase. That’s why he was testing him. 5) You can tell he is neurodivergent. For example, he gets overwhelmed by noise, which is expected because of where he grew up. Any way let's be kind and an understanding people because we have no right to judge a person we know nothing about him or about the demons in his head especially if that person is aware of his problems and is working on himself to be better 🤍🌸

    • @apri355
      @apri355 Місяць тому +1

      You did a great job here. 💯

    • @mztee8107
      @mztee8107 Місяць тому +1

      Hear! Hear! 👏🏼
      Well said. 👍🏻

    • @marycox2040
      @marycox2040 16 днів тому +1

      I agreed whole heartly. Not knowing who will love you. Not having that family emotional love. Being alone. Taken advantage of . Growing up as an orphan. The only love he knew as he mentioned was from his ex who totally was not good for him. Shun needs someone who understands him for him being the way he is. Loving him with respect and trust.

  • @naomimt987
    @naomimt987 2 місяці тому +3

    These lyrics fits so perfectly 😍!

  • @reinajayden4785
    @reinajayden4785 2 місяці тому +1

    fantastic edit ❤ loved seeing them grow into the beautiful couple they are today

  • @rgmalpass1918
    @rgmalpass1918 2 місяці тому +6

    OMGGG🥰🥰 Shun is like a idol is very pretty 🔥

  • @danygom5504
    @danygom5504 2 місяці тому +5

    i’m so happy for them☺️🤏🏻

  • @divaaaprlia
    @divaaaprlia 2 місяці тому +5

    thank you for made this omg❤

  • @MonicaGanuelas
    @MonicaGanuelas 2 місяці тому +4

    i love this edit thank you

  • @kshitijaj986
    @kshitijaj986 2 місяці тому +4

    it's a beautify edit...

  • @GeraldineHaines
    @GeraldineHaines 2 місяці тому +3

    Best edit I’ve seen ❤❤❤

  • @BT-rf7qt
    @BT-rf7qt 2 місяці тому +1

    So touching. All the best to ShunDai❤

  • @ごみごみ-m2d
    @ごみごみ-m2d 2 місяці тому +2

    this is so beautiful im crying

  • @kiwigirljacks
    @kiwigirljacks 2 місяці тому +5

    This was beautiful. As someone who had a very traumatic childhood also, I truly understood Shun. His confidence will grow as he ages, I believe. And his ability to allow himself to be loved, knowing he deserves it. We can only speculate at what he’s been through but it seems like a lot. I hope he can get healing from his past (therapy will be good) and his relationship with Dai continues to be a blessing for them both. Dai is a special guy also ❤

  • @rinsha33
    @rinsha33 2 місяці тому +4

    Joshua’s cover version ❤

  • @zhejiangyingfengopticalcom6306
    @zhejiangyingfengopticalcom6306 2 місяці тому +4

    Please release more moments of ShunDai.

  • @BTSARMY-hd2zg
    @BTSARMY-hd2zg 2 місяці тому +7

    Dai y shun juntos por siempre the boyfriend 🌈💛⭐️🌠🌌🌅🌄🎇🦋🇯🇵💜⭐️💛🌈🌠🌌🌈

  • @dianamarciagomesbenicio1076
    @dianamarciagomesbenicio1076 2 місяці тому +3

    A química entre eles é impressionante, casal super fofo, DaiShun aqui do Brazil uma super fã🔥❤️❤️❤️❤️🇧🇷🇧🇷

  • @НаташаВиноград
    @НаташаВиноград 2 місяці тому +6

    Такие трогательные и милые. Мальчики чудо❤❤❤❤

    • @Gulnur_Zhumaeva
      @Gulnur_Zhumaeva Місяць тому

      Здравствуйте. Прошу прощения! Можете подсказать название? Или где я могу посмотреть?

    • @НаташаВиноград
      @НаташаВиноград Місяць тому

      @@Gulnur_Zhumaeva Простите, пожалуйста. Я сама ищу, где все можно посмотреть.

  • @chelaosterberg
    @chelaosterberg 2 місяці тому +2

    « do you know who a confidant is? I do, I’m listening. ». Winter Begonia theme song.

  • @allyzavallar4847
    @allyzavallar4847 2 місяці тому +3

    This is beautiful 😫❤️

  • @marilynegoogan6463
    @marilynegoogan6463 2 місяці тому +2

    stay strong good health shundai🙏🥰🥰🥰

  • @7476-n5j
    @7476-n5j Місяць тому

    I love this beautiful couple so much! I couldn't stop watching them even now, I still do. Aphrodisiac 💯😍🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @DiemTrinhNguyenTran
    @DiemTrinhNguyenTran 2 місяці тому +4

    i love this videooo

  • @guadalupemendez8956
    @guadalupemendez8956 2 місяці тому +12

    I am happy for both of you 👧😊🖐️👍🫰❤️❤️

  • @Gemma-j3e
    @Gemma-j3e Місяць тому +1

    Shun looks like South Korean oppa than Japanese not until he speak, very gorgeous man 😘

  • @davidbulmer1944
    @davidbulmer1944 Місяць тому

    Shun has had le😊a😊rn about himself with no help or support from family. His self knowledge at that time was😊 impressive given the circumstances. His growth in his year with Dai is so gratifying. Clearly he has found his perfect person/soulmate.❤❤❤❤

  • @pertuniamannzwa9907
    @pertuniamannzwa9907 2 місяці тому +2

    Best video ever❤❤❤❤

  • @bntshiabalaskhar3731
    @bntshiabalaskhar3731 2 місяці тому +2

    shun i hope you are now happy❤❤❤

    • @kuroneko7022
      @kuroneko7022 Місяць тому

      I hope Dai is happy, too. ❤

  • @Dazirignon
    @Dazirignon 2 місяці тому +3

    C’est trop mignon ❤

  • @pohboonyeo8768
    @pohboonyeo8768 2 місяці тому +3

    He asked :"What do you think is the best thing about summer ?"
    He looked at him :" At this moment , there is sea breeze , coffee and you ."

  • @raelenehollier3335
    @raelenehollier3335 2 місяці тому

    See the guy prowling around S/ D!.🤔

  • @madhumitakar7277
    @madhumitakar7277 2 місяці тому +2

    Can we get a DaiShun's series!!!!! Pleaseeeee😍😍😍🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

    • @roadhouse_blues8081
      @roadhouse_blues8081 2 місяці тому +3

      Ikr...I wish they had a youtube channel, where they would post their everyday vlogs with all their fights and bickering..

    • @hassancall
      @hassancall 2 місяці тому

      @@roadhouse_blues8081they have a UA-cam channel now,so pls subscribe

  • @SameThanks-s8t
    @SameThanks-s8t 2 місяці тому +2

    Оба такие милые

  • @alienbride101
    @alienbride101 2 місяці тому

    What's the name of the song played on the second half?

    • @spaceyume
      @spaceyume  2 місяці тому +1

      @@alienbride101 the light

  • @ShristiKhadka-qh6wd
    @ShristiKhadka-qh6wd 14 днів тому

    Guys where to watch boyfriend night eng sub besides Netflix plzzzz can someone say 😭😭😭😭

  • @josineteviana464
    @josineteviana464 28 днів тому

    Desejo toda felicidade do mundo pra daí e shun, que eles se ame pra toda vida❤❤❤❤❤🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷

  • @ThabileDiliza
    @ThabileDiliza 2 місяці тому

    How I wish I could post this on tik tok wher Shun got hate the most😢

  • @ilovepiegeon4101
    @ilovepiegeon4101 Місяць тому

    where can i found all episodes plz someone tell me🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

    • @jinan0506
      @jinan0506 Місяць тому

      It's on Netflix!
      It's a love reality show called Boyfriend!

  • @luizamaria401
    @luizamaria401 27 днів тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @syaniisya
    @syaniisya 2 місяці тому

    It’s really hard to listen someone like Shun without having bad thought about him. He must be faced this kind of treatment by many people, especially from his ex.
    I really hope they can be together for really really longtime. Their happiness looks equal for me ❤

  • @neaturexiong
    @neaturexiong 2 місяці тому +3

    Shun's personality and outlook on life are so negative sometimes, I just really hope they work out and he doesn't throw away such a genuine person like Dai just because of his insecurities. No matter how patient or understanding a person is, they too can get tired or worn out if a negative person tests them over and over again. I hope Shun truly wakes up and sees what he has instead of constantly comparing Dai to his precious relationship. Hope they stay happy, their relationship stay healthy and the both of them make it. ❤❤❤

  • @MariaDosocorro-dp4px
    @MariaDosocorro-dp4px 2 місяці тому

    Dai é mais tranquilo e espera e Shun administra a relação.

  • @mariadefatimaalmeidafatima2082
    @mariadefatimaalmeidafatima2082 2 місяці тому

    Poderia ser legendado em português

  • @CarmenRamírez-f8y
    @CarmenRamírez-f8y 2 місяці тому

    Hey traducción al español 🙏🙏🙏🙏💜🩵🤍🧡♥️💛💚🩷❤️

  • @irenegruber6901
    @irenegruber6901 28 днів тому

    🫰🫰🫰

  • @shambhavi1357
    @shambhavi1357 16 днів тому

    I really really really really wish them both well for ever and ever and ever❤🍀🪄

  • @stellasteven4077
    @stellasteven4077 2 місяці тому +1

    熊吉妈 是你吗🥹

    • @spaceyume
      @spaceyume  2 місяці тому

      @@stellasteven4077 哈哈是我,这是个有着10几年网龄的老账号哈哈哈哈哈哈

  • @kuroneko7022
    @kuroneko7022 Місяць тому

    Shun really was making demands on Dai telling him to show him? He was really saying Dai overreacts? That’s a part of Dai’s personality, he’s an extrovert!
    He says Dai was least of the ones he liked at first? Well, Mr Shun, who else was chasing you? When letters were written and put in mailboxes I only saw one for you, that was from Dai and it was anonymous. Dai had about three in his box so it’s not like he didn’t have choices.
    You wanted Dai to prove so much to you but what did you prove to him? He didn’t make demands on you, he just wanted you to like him because he already liked you.
    Dai was so patient and kind. I would have walked away from Shun, trying to give me orders!
    Dai, you have a good heart. I really thought you were better suited to Ikou. Please stop trying to be a pleaser and remember that it is not your job to solve Shun’s problems he brought into the relationship - only the ones the two of you make together.

    • @kushaniperera57
      @kushaniperera57 Місяць тому +3

      Just because someone liked you does not mean that you automatically should like them also. Shun's had his priorities from day one. It just that Dai decided Shun would be his end game from the day one also. There are no right or wrong in their relationship. Dai just decided he does not want to give up on Shun no matter what. And that is what made Shun fall for him also. He was looking for someone who had only eyes for him.
      Shun was firm on what he wanted in a relationship from the start. Dai just took some time to grasp the meaning of his unsaid words and adjusted himself to make Shun secure in a relationship. Because Dai knew he WOULD HAVE to put more work in the relationship in the start. And looking at their recent interactions, I would say Dai took the biggest gamble in his life and won. That man is super loved by Shun. What more else would you want for Dai?

    • @ninomi0_o
      @ninomi0_o Місяць тому

      Shun was thinking about getting married, and 0 to 1 is difficult but 1 to 50 is fast . That’s why he so cautious.
      In a way, I think he participated in the most serious state of the cast.
      It’s just a process where different people meet and match each other perfectly. They‘re now in a perfect relationship.

    • @kuroneko7022
      @kuroneko7022 Місяць тому

      @@kushaniperera57
      I just wanted him to be happy. I didn’t want him to be hurt. Whatever Dai did and with whom before they met was none of Shun’s business and vice versa.
      If we all held people by their past relationships (unless they were violent or something ) that wouldn’t be right. The photos on Dai’s phone were before he knew Shun.
      When he was trying to talk to Shun to reassure him and Shun cut him off saying he didn’t want to hear it, I saw the hurt on his face but he didn’t say anything.
      I still don’t know why Shun made all those demands but Dai kept reassuring him - well, he made his choice.
      I see where Shun liked Dai regardless of what he was saying. I hope they will be happy for a long time. ❤

  • @ieashadissanayake7965
    @ieashadissanayake7965 29 днів тому +1

    අම්මා අම්මා අම්මි ෙග සිතුවිලි; කලු ගැනුන්ට ති ෙයන් ෙන පහත් තැනක්ද තමාත් කලු ගැහැනි ෙයක් නිසා තමන්ට ලැ ෙබන් ෙනත් පහත් තැනක් තමයි අම්මි ෙග සිතුවිල්ල අම්මයි මමයි ම ෙග් අම්මා විතරක් ෙන ෙවයි අනිත් අමිමලා හිතන් ෙනත් එ ෙහම තමා අම්මයි මායි හැමතිස් ෙසම සත්‍ය පමනක් කතාකරන කාන්තාවන් අ ෙප් කටින් පිට ෙවන් ෙන සත්‍ය විතරමයි එ්ක තමා අම්මා ෙක ෙනක් ෙග ගතිගුන අම්මා.... අාදර අම්මා.... අම්මයි දුවයි අම්මයි මමයි 😊

  • @nisham4477
    @nisham4477 2 місяці тому +1

    Someone hire @spaceyume