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You're cute. You've got a good face for UA-cam. I just wish your criticisms were more articulate and informed. This video was pretty good but in others, you misinterpreted or misunderstood comments about certain disorders, etc and spread misinformation as a result. Not intentionally but for me it still turns me off of this content.
I just imagine she woke up and said to herself "hey let's fake cancer today for clout" and didn't give it any more thought then that, her children deserve so much better then to be lied to by someone they trust.
what a horrible thing to do to your children...letting them think their mommy is on the verge of death!! It's absolutely mentally scarring for anyone, let alone children!!
not to be a negative Nancy or anything, but in the beginning of 2020 my mom told me she was diagnosed with stage 2 ovarian cancer. she went through many procedures and surgeries. she worked in the special needs department at my highschool and teachers were donating pto time to her so she could get her surgeries and chemo/radiation without worry. it was just me and her. many long nights. she never posted about it besides about "look at my girl" or even "today was a good day" never asked for anything, never reminded anyone. just lived as best she could considering her circumstances. my mom made it. she's a survivor. her endometriosis was so severe they had to call in a big specialist to Montana. the scar tissue was the size of a soft ball once removed. my mom did it. worked everyday without complaints. these people doing these things are sick in another way and it's just sad. Edit: it was spreading rapidly but we never mentioned death. we were hoping for the best but prepared for the worst. thanks for reading if you did. have a good day!
@@yvettebowles9011 im so incredibly sorry to hear that. i try not to take my time with her for granted especially since then. im really sorry again, i can't imagine the pain you're going through. keep your head up even though it gets hard sometimes.. i don't know what else to say other than look back on your times together and smile. it won't ever stop being painful but it will get easier to manage. i wish absolutely nothing but the best for you. please take care of yourself and love those around you. thank you 😊💕
My childhood bully's mom actually did this. We were next door neighbors (side note: imagine being neighbors w/ ur bully and not being able to go outside without being harassed. Then even at school the harassment didn't end. That's how bad it was) and his mom had shaved her head and was telling everyone who'd listen that she had cancer. It turned out she didn't and basically everyone on our block knew about it. The whole family ended up moving bc of how much she humiliated them and the husband divorced her right after. It's like the universe gave me some sweet revenge... I know it's evil but i don't even feel bad bc he made my social life hell. Funny thing is, I don't think she even did it for money. Like it was purely for sympathy from her neighbors. That's so pitiful.
Lmao she basically was like "Wow, so Sofia Vassilieva can pretend to have cancer in a movie but when I pretend to have cancer suddenly it's a problem???"
This hits me extra hard since my dear Aunt died of Stage IV ovarian cancer almost a year ago. She fought it off 4 times in 6 years and it finally got her the 5th time around. She was a true fighter and was the most pleasant person even to the end. I want these people who fake conditions for internet clout to seriously burn in hell. They are complete trash and deserve nothing but the worst.
New years day 2022 my uncle found out he had a brain tumor and instead of fighting it he just spent his time getting his things in order and giving people things for helping him, he ended up doing the Right To Die thing less than a month before his birthday. None of us are really over it because we're still in shock. I can possibly imagine being this person's family and being put through that just to find out it's a lie, almost like at that point you wish she didn't lie. Some people are truly sick and disgusting and need to be put down
@@TheDeviIDogg I'm really sorry about your uncle. My grandpa died January 3, 2001 when I was 14 from liver cancer and it was so devastating. My great grandmother, who was like my mother, ended up dieing 9 months later on October 3rd from what we all believe was a broken heart. My grandpa was her baby. So we had a double whammy that year. I definitely understand the pain. I agree people like her don't deserve to be a parent and should be sterilized and jailed.
being visibly disabled is weird. when I started needing to use a wheelchair, people would just walk up to me and give me gift cards. so odd. now I wear headphones when I'm out and focus on what I'm doing so that I don't notice the sad eyes.
Wow. Never thought about this aspect of being disabled. People don't look at you for you anymore, they just see the wheelchair and automatically assume your life is over. Hope you're alright and doing great
Holy goddamn, I used to do this because my mom has told me since childhood to show disabled people my sympathy for their illness. I just realized how awkward that stuff is and I'm sorry for doing it.
@@alkalinga5037 I am sure there are times it has been appreciated though, when you've done things like that. So you shouldn't feel too bad about it. It might feel weird and awkward in some cases, but if it is a disabled person who is not financially well off, then having someone give them gift cards, or pay for them, would probably be very much appreciated. People just need to use discretion and common sense.
Fr when I was a kid I had an oxygen tank for a while that I would drag around in a roller bag with the tubes up my nose and all and people would always offer me seats, help me with things I didn’t even need help with, and just look at me with that sad “awww poor sick child” look. I was so glad when my lungs were good enough to get back off it so I didn’t have to deal w oversympathetic people. Also, people would always tell my mom “she shouldn’t be running around / playing when she’s sick like that” like girl maybe I can’t run a marathon but I can do normal things. That’s the whole reason I have the oxygen 🙄
Whhhhaaatttttt I'm a wheelchair user and I've never ever had anything like this happen to me. Maybe I give off scary vibes cause of my constant pain face.
I'm so heartbroken watching this and knowing there are people who do this, especially with the fact that I lost my grandfather to stage four lung and brain cancer. He was the man who saved and raised me, he was the one who raised his voice at judges and officers for me, he was the one who always tried to cheer me up when times were hard. It broke me hearing that he had cancer. It completely shattered me seeing his dead body and speaking at his funeral. His last living moments were in pain. He couldn't keep anything down, he could barely walk, it hurt to breath, and his brain was haywire. It makes me sick and livid knowing people would fake this type of stuff. It's painful for the patient and heart wrenching for the family
I knew a woman like that. She shaved her head etc and had everyone feeling sorry for her. She looked very thin and ill though, but…..……She was and still is a crack and smack head, who has never had cancer…….Around 3 weeks after she finally got caught out, her partner was diagnosed with liver cancer, then died just last year in 2021. She used to be seen bringing him down and saying “he’s always faking that he’s sick to outdo me.”……….He actually had the disease she was faking.
I knew a faker as well but she wasn't even good at it. She was fat, so she didn't even look ill, just bald. And her teenage daughter told everyone she was faking. Like she was found out by everyone in the neighborhood within a month.
absolutely vile. She never cared about him. RIP to him, he didn't deserve to live such a short life with a woman who doesn't have any humanity in her. Condolences..
This infuriates me... my mum is fighting ovarian cancer right now... this lady will never know the pain and struggle of going g through this...what a horrible person
@@bostonmeadhorn4897 for me it's a fear of being harmed or cornered, it may be different for others though. youtube can be a good distraction so you can enjoy yourself, if that makes sense.
I lost older sister to ovarian cancer and seeing this woman faking it makes me angry. The family and friends are going through just as much hell as the cancer patient. She preyed upon these people's emotions and goodwill for attention and money.
I was 10 years old when my mother got cancer for the first time (she's a multi cancer survivor at this point) and It was absolutely traumatizing for me as a kid to watch all her hair fall out and watch her go through surgeries and things. I can't imagine faking it and lying to your kids....
I feel so bad for my kids watching me fall apart. I don't have cancer but a complex connective tissue disorder that causes wayyyyy too many painful comorbid conditions. I feel like it must be embarrassing for them to push my wheelchair and help me so much. The very worst part is that it's genetic. I am so so so very you had to grow up like this, that she went thru so very much too. I'm just so very sorry. I hope she's doing okay now. I hope you are too.
@@theangrytiredzebraim so sure that your kids love you so much don’t ever blame yourself !! I’m sure your a great mommy and they love you with no shame if they push you in the wheelchair it shows they will do anything to support there mommy keep strong !!! I hope your family is doing great just worry about giving your kids all your love them helping you shows how good you raised them 💕
My daughter was diagnosed with brain cancer in 2012 right before her 6th birthday. And I can't stand it when people fake having cancer cause I would give anything to switch places so she wouldn't have it. I have always worked for what I have so far me to ask for help takes a lot. And people told me to setup a GoFundMe and then I was told that GoFundMe takes a big portion of the donations. So I setup a PayPal account for anyone that ever wants to donate can cause I can't just post up saying hey help me. I'm a single mom with no help with anything and now my mom had 4 strokes in less than 6 months and is now bedridden and in early stages of dementia. So I have to take care of her 24 7 and take care of my daughter. We are on the verge of being homeless and I don't know what to do. We don't have any family it's just us. Seeing people like that lady get all this help just disgusted me cause they don't know how it really affects people that are actually going through it. This lady is crazy. And her talking to her kid about her impending death just makes me sick. Cause the weeks my daughter was in the hospital for her IV chemo we could hear other moms screaming from losing their child and I would try to distract her from it. Until one day it happened in the room next to us and we could hear everything. I had to tell her that a mom just lost her child and is very sad. I think she understood what I was saying but I wasn't prepared for her asking me if that was going to happen to her. So hearing these stories just really makes me upset cause if they only knew half of what it feels like.
I had a friend in college who lied to me about having cancer. I even gifted her my birthday money and got about half back from her now husband and baby daddy. Our other friends didn't believe her, looking back I just feel so vulnerable and crappy. Lying about that is disgusting.
It’s not ur fault at all. Ur not stupid or “crappy”. It’s not normal at all to fake something like that so when someone tells you they have cancer, your first human instinct is just to believe them. You’re actually rlly sweet for giving her your money, cause ngl I might set up a fundraiser for a friend but shit I need my money for myself and my rent 😭
I had a friend who would suddenly fall pregnant every single time whatever boyfriend she had was breaking up with her then she would miscarry miraculously and I’m not kidding she pulled this same crap about 15 times after the 3rd or 4th time I stopped believing her all together it was all just too convenient. She then faked cancer and now her most recent one is MS and I feel like Jerk for not believing a word she says. She has two kids and I didn’t believe her that she was pregnant until she was visably pregnant. Her most recent MS lie is ridiculous she is using a walker and has it all “tricked” out with buttons whistles baskets and streamers, it feels so attention grabby but I ask her questions and look like a skeptical jerk all the time. I stayed friends with her up until recently she borrowed money from me while I was vulnerable and it wasn’t nice, she also never payed me back. It was only like 300$ but still she payed her way right out of my life. I guess I’ll put up with lies but scamming will make me never speak to you again and it sad because we were friends since 4th grade and we were pretty close for years and years. When we were kids I’m pretty sure she lied to me about her Mom having brain cancer to cover for her mom’s mental illness also. She was mad once because our friends Mother faked cancer and it was the cancer she was faking she had and I kept think well this is ironic.
She had a drug addiction it basically explains it all. Drugs will make you into someone you never thought you could be that includes lying and hurting your children and everyone around you!
Real People with Real Issues are very rarely the ones to get much needed help. Makes me sick how people can lie like this, collect money and gifts and feel no remorse. I hope those Kids can recover.. can’t imagine what it’s done to them..
Those children are going to need some intense therapy. I would have a very difficult time forgiving or moving on after my mother did this to me!! Poor kids!
my mother lied about having cancer - thankfully she never asked anyone for donations, it was just to get attention and she dropped it pretty quick when she realised it was tricky to keep her stories straight.
my grampa passed away from lymphoma cancer about a couple weeks ago. It’s horrifying how quickly they can go from walking and talking to being stuck in bed, eyes glazed over and unable to communicate. Seeing people fake illnesses like cancer kinda hurts, because it feels like they’re downplaying such a difficult thing to deal with. I was close with my grampa and I lived with him for a couple months when I was young. I’m going to miss him so much but it’s reassuring to know that he isn’t suffering any longer. He was the coolest, funniest guy ever, and my family feels a little out of whack now that he was gone, because he was sort of our rock.
Just for future reference if someone says they have cancer and they’re getting treatment so their hair is falling out.. if it’s evenly fuzzy (obviously shaved) then they likely aren’t getting cancer treatments. My dad and my brother both have prostate cancer and their hair fell out in blotchy patches which were still visible even when they did shave their heads. Hair doesn’t fall out evenly.
Tik Tok infuriated me with the trend of making up with bruises as domestic assault survivors to songs and shit. As a survivor of domestic abuse, it was not at all bringing AWARENESS to the horrific occurrence. Actual victims started to share stories and then others jumped in with fakeness for clicks and views. It wasn't helping people take it seriously because then when someone posted who was an actual victim, they were tormented and bullied for being "fake about it for clicks" and thus silenced again. Using make up and faking something isn't support, it's taking away from the actual epidemic that needs to be heard, it's mockery. If you wanna support a cause, research and make normal videos with information and support groups offerings for people. Making a bruise on your eye and a cut lip, when it's not true for you is insulting and absolutely degrading true victims again
As someone who's mum died at 13 due to 4 types of rare cancers, people like her anger me, people don't realise the impact cancer has on some people, and it's sad that she has nothing better to do with her time. Edit : it'll be 3 years since she passed on the 4th of December this year
You know what really sucks, a lot of us have internal disabilities that hurt like hell you just can't see them from the outside he already have to deal with that worry of someone assuming we're fully able-bodied just because we don't look messed up
in the last six years 5 family members of mine had different kinds of cancer( thankfully only one of them died) seeing something like this just makes my blood boil
My dad was recently diagnosed with cancer. I’m 18 years old and it made me sick from heartbreak to learn my dad might be dying. I can’t IMAGINE how a little kid would feel to be told their mom is dying and then it turns out they’re lying. My dad doesn’t openly talk about it and doesn’t ask for any kind of hand outs. His work sends gifts every once in a while but that’s about it. They’re like $20 each and he’s gotten like 3. It makes me so mad that people lie about this for money. I’ve found that people who have cancer, don’t want to flaunt it. It makes me sick
My mom had ovarian cancer within 3-4 months she was gone from me and my sister. And stage 4 is short term not 2 years. We miss my mom dearly she passed in 2009. 😢
Beer and wine don't need to fall into sexist categories of "beer for men" "wine for women" lol. I'm a woman and I pound beers and my hubby can't handle them so ...
My mom actually had stage 4 ovarian cancer... thankfully she lived (no thanks to the doctors who all told her it was just in her head..) but it boggles my mind why someone would think its cool and okay to fake it...
F*** doctors. I partly blame them for my grandmas death. She had cancer, beginning in the lungs but later spreading to her blood and brain. Nurses treated her like shit, verbally abused her and mocked her for being overweight, they gave her blood clot meds she was allergic to for WEEKS causing insane bruising all over her chest. Because she was allergic to it, it also wasn’t properly working, leading to more blood clots. My family knew something was wrong and pointed out the bruises but it took them weeks to actually test. Then they put her in a wheelchair, moving her for treatment, and left her in a room completely alone. My granny was so weak, she couldn’t hold up her body, she slumped toward, fell, smacked her head against the tile causing a huge knot. I had to watch my grandma die with bruises like she was hit by a car and a knot on her head the size of a tennis ball. I will never trust hospitals with my dying family members ever ever again.
I can't stop thinking about how opposite it was back in the day you weren't getting sympathy help or pity, you were getting bullied and disrespected for being different I did my best to hide of physical and mental issues I had for the longest time until I finally hit a point where I understood all that baggage helped make me who I am today I don't need to hide those parts of myself or be ashamed of them
As someone who had stage 3 uterine cancer and went through chemo and had a hysterectomy and stage 4 breast cancer had chemo radiation and just had a mastectomy recently this shit pisses me off... I never made a go fund me, I still worked I was alone my parents never went with me to treatments I went everyday to radiation alone and my chemo treatments alone because I had no support I struggled to pay rent and Bill's but I got through and people who fake this kind of pain, grief, sadness, sickness, theres a special place in hell for people like this for sure...
Bro what?? The more disabled I get the fewer friends I have because the less I can go out and do things that everybody else can the less people come around. They don't adjust to my new level of abilities they just push me aside for someone who has their level of abilities
I'm going through the same thing it really sucks. Especially when they think you're just lying and making excuses because you aren't diagnosed and "always seem to be sick" it's bc I am 😭. I hope you find people that'll hangout with you in ways that works for you both. I have 1 good friend that understands and works with my limitations and I work with his. Sometimes it's easier if you find a friend that also has some health issues.
If you pause the video and read what she wrote she said “I still have fluid in my stomach which isn’t making it any easier to breathe.” What?? I’m not doctor but I’m pretty sure you don’t breathe through your stomach. That’s what your lungs are for. 🤦🏻♀️
Ugh it’s scummy people like this women that was the reason that made my coworker try to tell people that I was faking my thyroid cancer to be able to go home early and to have 3 days a week off instead of 2 days a week …. Like it wasn’t even his business as I wasn’t even telling many people other then my managers and close friends and he just happened to overhear (luckily my managers gave him a red coaching for telling lies about me and he did apologize after my grandma (who was angry for him saying such rightfully so) had me show him my stitches from when they removed the cancerous tumor and my thyroid ) but ugh its people like this women that made him just to such a conclusion… it’s sickening
After having heard that little revelation at the end of the segment, I have a nigh certain idea of why she woke up one day and chose severe subterfuge. Only one word and I knew: Heroin. 2 years of first hand experience informs me that one would do just about any damn thing to get that next score. It makes an absolute slave of you, everything you do is for that heron, and you will do everything. Even stupid shit like this example is no problem as long as you got a rig, a spoon, water a lighter and that evil stuff to put in your veins. That monkey on my back had big teeth and claws. I shudder to think about what I became while addicted to it. 'It's the DEVIL, Bobby Boucher!' But, really. No joke. It's almost sentient in how it can 'control' your daily life.
This is terrible!! Also, just a side note - a lot of people make well under $50K a year. Most people I have known make between $20k - $35k a year. But you are right that it's not that much in this terrible economy. Many people struggle to live, even in a 2 income household.
She was born at least in 1991. So, I am a bit confused. How is she a "boomer?" Is it because she was scamming people on tiktok? I mean she does look any older or younger than the one telling the story.
That’s insane if someone told me they had cancer I wouldn’t ever question that. Why would you? Who lies about having CANCER for gods sake?? That’s insane and it sucks that you can’t just trust people and take them for their word in this world
The sheer fact that this woman lied to her OWN CHILDREN about dying…… That’s a whole other level of DISGUSTING! It’s one thing to be a horrible human being and lying to others and scamming people for their well earned money… but to put your own children through the mental ABUSE, TORTURE, and ANGUISH of thinking you’re going to die and they will be left without their “Mommy” is the most heart wrenching, sickening, disgusting, EVIL thing I can imagine!!!!!
a mom at my school did something similar, we had lost our grandfather to cancer and my mom still has non hodgkins 14 years later, my stepfather just got cleared of melanoma after a big surgery and massive scars on his back. I myself have had brushes with breast cancer and it's not fun, it's scary, it takes up all your energy and time and it makes you depressed and anxious. I also have a former aunt who tricked doctors into performing a surgery she didn't need because she wanted attention after her FRIEND was told she had a condition that needed dangerous surgery to treat, so former aunt said she had the same thing, let doctors open her up and when doctors realised she was lying, she was warned and investigated by CPS
I know I'm a little late to the party on this one, but excuse me? Doctors don't just... Jump into surgery without running all kinds of tests and KNOWING that something is serious. You can't just lie to a doctor and get operated on for no reason. That's one of the silliest things I've ever heard. The cost and risk of surgery is measured against the benefit. Only if the benefit outweighs the risk, will they operate. There wouldn't be a "warning" even if you were able to fake something so seriously as to be operated on, someone who was able to somehow do so would likely be charged with some kind of fraud. A CPS investigation? For what? Was she forcing doctors to operate on the kids at gunpoint? WTF are you talking about?
I'm 36, I have been through 7 surgeries, and one of the surgeries was to remove cancer, so I can't understand why anyone would want to be sick like me. I literally can't even go get my own mail because I am allergic to my own sweat and direct sunlight, so this is infuriating. She is not going through the pain, just getting the sympathy and donations. Just sick for anyone to do that crap. I don't get donations, I survive off what I can get when I rarely sell a crochet item, less than a hundred bucks a month, so that is extra sick to me.
My cousins actually lost their mother to braincancer after years of fighting the illness and seeing how it effected them all make this even fucking worse. I am so mad that people actually do this, how can you look at your children's faces and trick them that you are dying.... its beyond cruel
My father died of cancer. I watched him die slowly over the course of a year, hoping with all my child heart that he would be okay. I miss him so much. I'm crying just thinking of him and what happened. I became really emotionless for a while, trying to pretend I was fine and refusing to be sad. Refusing to even cry, because my mom was distraught and I needed to anchor her so she wouldn't sink into depression. It messed with me real bad. And she's tricking her own kids into thinking she's dying?! She's putting her family and spouse through all this turmoil just to get money and attention?!! Congratulations. You made it so that whether you live or die, you're children still lost a mother. She doesn't deserve to be one if she's willing to hurt them like this.
As someone who's sister had stage 4 cancer, this is awful that she fooled everyone who helped her. Cancer is not fun and really painful where your just trying to make and cherish every memory so your kids and family have something to remember you bye.
My grandma that I loved more than anyone died of colon cancer and started to loose her memories it was the saddest thing in my life when. She couldn’t rember my name. She died about a week later and It still has worsened my depression to this day.
As a mum of four living with stage 4 metastatic melanoma, I find these people who fake cancer so disgusting, difficult to watch or understand, thanks for continuing to discuss the topic. How they can look at their children and put them through even saying they have cancer, let alone the lengths they go to trying to convince people they are dying. 🤦🏻♀️
So as someone currently undergoing cancer treatment, I don't know why anyone would fake it. More importantly it's easy enough if you've had cancer (specific cancers), to tell a faker right. There is only one specific chemo that causes hair loss and its only used in about 5 types of cancer. I was on two chemo treatments, the first caused hair loss (and by hair loss, it's EVERY SINGLE HAIR), the hair I missed the most was my nose hairs... but you have no brows, lashes, head hair growth (at all), it's recommended to shave your head when the hair loss starts because it falls out in clumps and from the follicle, this includes leg, arm and vajayjay hair. ALL HAIR. Secondly you get a dosier from your oncologist that is signed and lists all of your treatments, if someone can't show you this then they are lying. The second chemo I was on causes mild hair thinning, but my hair started growing (on my head), the brows, lashes and nasals came later, with the arms, legs and private bits being last. You legit look like a hairless molerat. Also a myth, the only time you lose weight with cancer treatment is if you're dying and the cancer is literally eating you up, because of all the steroids you are pumped full of (because it's an immuno suppresant) its actually more common to gain weight with cancer and have bouts of roid rage (when you have the energy for it). Mostly it's just tears you cry from sheer frustration, in that you have no control of your body.
my grandma did the opposite she told us she wasn’t sick when she knew she had stage 4 ovarian cancer for months and we didn’t find out till my mom found her passed out one day and was rushed to the er she passed like 2 months after
As someone who’s had cancer and has done the whole chemo,radiation (internal and external), surgeries etc. This person is GROSS!! The people I saw at my cancer hospital going through so much pain. How dare she?!
I have just been diagnosed with MBC Metastatic Breast Cancer in July. Previously 2017 Dec I had stage 3 breast cancer and had double mastectomy, full hysterectomy, 5 months chemo, 30 rounds of radiation...and was cancer free in 2019. Now I am stage IV and am a single mother of a 16n yr old boy. I have never thought to try to con anyone for money or help... It's a disgrace!! To also torture your children with such false news is unfathomable. By the way, I am a high school teacher whose salary WAS 40K a year so yes, people make less than 50K a year. Now I am on disability making less. It is very SAD to see someone faking this illness. It is not fair to those who do need help. I am blessed in that, when I do get sick, I have a group of lovely ladies from my church who will bring a meal or pick up food for us. They are willing to do this for us anytime I need BUT I do not take advantage!! Now I am on a chemo for the rest of my life. Also my chemo does NOT make me bald so I don't "look sick" in that way. I am trying to live my life with my son as if every day is my last, trying to make it meaningful and special! This woman needs serious therapy and jail time.
This makes me so mad. I have an autoimmune disease which causes my organs to fail and causes all over body pain and lesions all over my body, I have maybe 4 to 7 years, could be more or less, Dr's can't be accurate. I wish I was lying, the devastation my kids are feeling, how could any mother do that to her kids
My grandma recently passed away from ovarian cancer that spread to her other organs due to negligence by her doctor and it's infuriating to think someone would want to pretend they have it.. not to mention the fact she has kids. Either her kids think she's going to die or she's getting them to lie for her. Either does lasting damage. What absolute trash.
My mom and I used to do a lot of charity work but unfortunately there are so many scammers out there, we had to stop because it was starting to mess with us. There was a woman who we are pretty sure faked cancer. She kept asking for money so that she could uber to the hospital and back, but when we instead offered to drive her there, she ignored us for weeks and then asked for more money for food. She begs on facebook as well and it has been going for a few years. The things you see out there are sick. People lie so much, and in the end it hurts the people who really need it
My husband fought lymphoma and covid with a bunch if other issues and when I see people like this just passes me off so bad. Girl u couldn't handle cancer or that fight...
My grandfather had esophageal cancer and my dad said he died the worst, slowest, most painful death he’d ever seen someone die. It makes me sick you would fake something like this when people suffer beyond comprehension for years only to die in the end. Wtf
My mom passed away from aggressive breast cancer 25 years ago in July, and seeing someone fake having/dying from cancer pisses me off! That IS the most despicable thing to do to children - especially to a 4 year old child!! There’s NO redeemable quality in this person. To do something like this “to make friends,” has got to be the most asinine thing I’ve ever heard in my 52 years being on this planet. She, and she alone, just screwed her children’s minds up for the rest of their lives, because IF someone close to them actually does get cancer, they’re not going to believe that person. Those children, and those she scammed, are the only ones that I feel terrible for. I hope that she gets everything coming to her, and then some more!
As someone who's gone through chemo (due to serious autoimmune disease that isn't cancer) I feel like when people are actually sick, they are less likely to share all of the private details about what they're going through. For me, I realized very quickly that (unfortunately) a lot of "friends" just want to use you for attention so you definitely find out who really cares. *Plus it's exhausting enough just living every day, much less keeping up photos and updates for everyone else*
As someone who lives in the USA, no average worker here makes 50k a year. Most don't even make 30k. I am one of the ones who is under that and i work in one of the highest paying jobs around me. Don't forget ALL the taxes they take from us too. What she did is hella messed up.
I usually don't have issues with bad micke quality but holly shiiii haveing a bass boosted headphones and the microphone popping is just painful. Its like my ears are blocked all over again
When I was in the military we got randomly drug tested 3-4 times a years, I always kind of assumed that would be the same for first responders but I guess not 🤷🏽♀️
To answer your question, I was in a similar incident where a very close friend scammed me. Said friend actually did have her apartment burned down and did in fact lose everything including her cat who I loved very much died, but she scammed me into moving in with me because she would otherwise be homeless, created a gofundme, got thousands of dollars donated to get her household items back and then instead of paying me rent or paying me back for things I helped her with she spent the money on drugs and concert tickets. I still donate to people in need, and it didn’t change my want to help people although it did cause me to lose trust and feel defeated for a bit, I just learned how to be more cautious so people actually in need get help. ❤ it is unfortunate so many shitty people take advantage of others but the truth always comes out on them eventually.
When I was 13 or 14 years old my dad dated this girl Tanya. She said she had cancer I was younger so I didn't really know what kind but she had said she had cancer 2 times before but different kinds. She said she had 4 months to live and my dad let her come stay with us. She would start fights before her "doctor's appointments" so my dad wouldn't go with her. Come to find out she's lied about this before. My dad had called her sister to ask how she was doing with her appointments cuz he wasn't able to go, she thought my dad was going with her. She then told him that she was a pathological liar and had lied about this before and ALOT more. She was a drug addict. My dad knew she took some unprescribed pills because she was in "pain" but she was doing a lot more than he thought.
I recently got my latest biopsy results finally came back normal after couple years of having to get biopsy every 3 months it's a scary nerve wracking experience having to wait for results on it your cells are cancerous or not
Mr. Ablaze, when you said “at that point they should just be I’ll, imagine having to act like it”. Well they do it because they view it as their job. They clock in a 9 to 5 and when no one is looking or when they are somewhere no one knows them, they are having fun. Just like any job.
This is just so evil and seriously disturbing. People can say she is evil but you have to have some mental illness to do this without feeling incredibly guilty! There has to be seriously something wrong in their mind and their hearts!
I find this actually shocking. I could not do that to my kids. I was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis 3 years ago and I havent even told my kids about that or what that might mean going forward. 😵💫😵💫 That woman disgusts me 🤢
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Ablaze I think my gf is losing interest you got any tips?
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You're cute. You've got a good face for UA-cam. I just wish your criticisms were more articulate and informed. This video was pretty good but in others, you misinterpreted or misunderstood comments about certain disorders, etc and spread misinformation as a result. Not intentionally but for me it still turns me off of this content.
I tend to find his clips speaks for themselves and it's hardly like the channel pushes itself as an "A-Z"
guide to spot certain fakes.
I just imagine she woke up and said to herself "hey let's fake cancer today for clout" and didn't give it any more thought then that, her children deserve so much better then to be lied to by someone they trust.
I’m more surprised when it came out that she’s a liar, that she didn’t say, “I actually have DID and my alter is the one with cancer.”
what a horrible thing to do to your children...letting them think their mommy is on the verge of death!! It's absolutely mentally scarring for anyone, let alone children!!
@@Totalchaos0228
Let‘s also not forget the her0in addiction
not to be a negative Nancy or anything, but in the beginning of 2020 my mom told me she was diagnosed with stage 2 ovarian cancer. she went through many procedures and surgeries. she worked in the special needs department at my highschool and teachers were donating pto time to her so she could get her surgeries and chemo/radiation without worry. it was just me and her. many long nights. she never posted about it besides about "look at my girl" or even "today was a good day" never asked for anything, never reminded anyone. just lived as best she could considering her circumstances. my mom made it. she's a survivor. her endometriosis was so severe they had to call in a big specialist to Montana. the scar tissue was the size of a soft ball once removed. my mom did it. worked everyday without complaints. these people doing these things are sick in another way and it's just sad.
Edit: it was spreading rapidly but we never mentioned death. we were hoping for the best but prepared for the worst. thanks for reading if you did. have a good day!
Much love to you and your mother
I'm glad that your mom made it. Unfortunately mine did not. She passed away in February from Sarcoma. Cherish your mom.
@@yvettebowles9011 im so incredibly sorry to hear that. i try not to take my time with her for granted especially since then. im really sorry again, i can't imagine the pain you're going through. keep your head up even though it gets hard sometimes.. i don't know what else to say other than look back on your times together and smile. it won't ever stop being painful but it will get easier to manage. i wish absolutely nothing but the best for you. please take care of yourself and love those around you. thank you 😊💕
@@HederaYoshi me too, thank you! 💕
Your mum is a warrior! I’m so glad that she’s still here with you. What an incredible woman❤
Why is it so hard for people to be decent human beings 💀
Because it's nice to be the doted on Victim if you aren't actually dealing what you say you are. It's disgusting.
Because they would have to think about something else than themselves
If people would stop s1mping for them maybe this would stop.
Because that takes effort, tbh i feel so bad for those kids.
My childhood bully's mom actually did this. We were next door neighbors (side note: imagine being neighbors w/ ur bully and not being able to go outside without being harassed. Then even at school the harassment didn't end. That's how bad it was) and his mom had shaved her head and was telling everyone who'd listen that she had cancer. It turned out she didn't and basically everyone on our block knew about it. The whole family ended up moving bc of how much she humiliated them and the husband divorced her right after. It's like the universe gave me some sweet revenge... I know it's evil but i don't even feel bad bc he made my social life hell.
Funny thing is, I don't think she even did it for money. Like it was purely for sympathy from her neighbors. That's so pitiful.
Being scum must be something that runs in the family, karma truly is a bitch.
Lmao she basically was like
"Wow, so Sofia Vassilieva can pretend to have cancer in a movie but when I pretend to have cancer suddenly it's a problem???"
This hits me extra hard since my dear Aunt died of Stage IV ovarian cancer almost a year ago. She fought it off 4 times in 6 years and it finally got her the 5th time around. She was a true fighter and was the most pleasant person even to the end. I want these people who fake conditions for internet clout to seriously burn in hell. They are complete trash and deserve nothing but the worst.
New years day 2022 my uncle found out he had a brain tumor and instead of fighting it he just spent his time getting his things in order and giving people things for helping him, he ended up doing the Right To Die thing less than a month before his birthday. None of us are really over it because we're still in shock. I can possibly imagine being this person's family and being put through that just to find out it's a lie, almost like at that point you wish she didn't lie. Some people are truly sick and disgusting and need to be put down
@@TheDeviIDogg I'm really sorry about your uncle. My grandpa died January 3, 2001 when I was 14 from liver cancer and it was so devastating. My great grandmother, who was like my mother, ended up dieing 9 months later on October 3rd from what we all believe was a broken heart. My grandpa was her baby. So we had a double whammy that year. I definitely understand the pain. I agree people like her don't deserve to be a parent and should be sterilized and jailed.
@gb342002 it sounds like your aunt was a true warrior. ❤️
being visibly disabled is weird. when I started needing to use a wheelchair, people would just walk up to me and give me gift cards. so odd. now I wear headphones when I'm out and focus on what I'm doing so that I don't notice the sad eyes.
Wow. Never thought about this aspect of being disabled. People don't look at you for you anymore, they just see the wheelchair and automatically assume your life is over. Hope you're alright and doing great
Holy goddamn, I used to do this because my mom has told me since childhood to show disabled people my sympathy for their illness. I just realized how awkward that stuff is and I'm sorry for doing it.
@@alkalinga5037 I am sure there are times it has been appreciated though, when you've done things like that. So you shouldn't feel too bad about it. It might feel weird and awkward in some cases, but if it is a disabled person who is not financially well off, then having someone give them gift cards, or pay for them, would probably be very much appreciated. People just need to use discretion and common sense.
Fr when I was a kid I had an oxygen tank for a while that I would drag around in a roller bag with the tubes up my nose and all and people would always offer me seats, help me with things I didn’t even need help with, and just look at me with that sad “awww poor sick child” look. I was so glad when my lungs were good enough to get back off it so I didn’t have to deal w oversympathetic people. Also, people would always tell my mom “she shouldn’t be running around / playing when she’s sick like that” like girl maybe I can’t run a marathon but I can do normal things. That’s the whole reason I have the oxygen 🙄
Whhhhaaatttttt I'm a wheelchair user and I've never ever had anything like this happen to me. Maybe I give off scary vibes cause of my constant pain face.
I'm so heartbroken watching this and knowing there are people who do this, especially with the fact that I lost my grandfather to stage four lung and brain cancer. He was the man who saved and raised me, he was the one who raised his voice at judges and officers for me, he was the one who always tried to cheer me up when times were hard. It broke me hearing that he had cancer. It completely shattered me seeing his dead body and speaking at his funeral. His last living moments were in pain. He couldn't keep anything down, he could barely walk, it hurt to breath, and his brain was haywire. It makes me sick and livid knowing people would fake this type of stuff. It's painful for the patient and heart wrenching for the family
I am so happy that you got to have a fantastic grandfather in your life! He’s not suffering anymore thankfully.
I am wishing you the best.
I knew a woman like that.
She shaved her head etc and had everyone feeling sorry for her.
She looked very thin and ill though, but…..……She was and still is a crack and smack head, who has never had cancer…….Around 3 weeks after she finally got caught out, her partner was diagnosed with liver cancer, then died just last year in 2021.
She used to be seen bringing him down and saying “he’s always faking that he’s sick to outdo me.”……….He actually had the disease she was faking.
This woman was a heroin addict as well and used cancer to cover it up
I knew a faker as well but she wasn't even good at it. She was fat, so she didn't even look ill, just bald. And her teenage daughter told everyone she was faking. Like she was found out by everyone in the neighborhood within a month.
absolutely vile. She never cared about him. RIP to him, he didn't deserve to live such a short life with a woman who doesn't have any humanity in her. Condolences..
@@sprigatoni it's a good thing that being a liar is not genetic. the good kid knows not to tolerate a liar of a mother
This infuriates me... my mum is fighting ovarian cancer right now... this lady will never know the pain and struggle of going g through this...what a horrible person
Well...maybe she will one day. If she does hopefully her children and husband have stopped caring for her by then.
watching you whilst facing my fear of eating alone in public. thanks for keeping me company
Omg I also watch UA-cam while eating alone in public
@@GINEP1G it's my biggest fear, so i watch youtube to comfort myself. mostly i watch ablaze
I'm curious, why fear eating alone in public? What's to fear about it?
@@bostonmeadhorn4897 for me it's a fear of being harmed or cornered, it may be different for others though. youtube can be a good distraction so you can enjoy yourself, if that makes sense.
i had this fear till i became a psychologist. now i’m obsessed with the silence. good job facing your fear!
I lost my mother to cancer and this truly fills me with an immeasurable amount of rage and pain ..
I lost older sister to ovarian cancer and seeing this woman faking it makes me angry. The family and friends are going through just as much hell as the cancer patient. She preyed upon these people's emotions and goodwill for attention and money.
I was 10 years old when my mother got cancer for the first time (she's a multi cancer survivor at this point) and It was absolutely traumatizing for me as a kid to watch all her hair fall out and watch her go through surgeries and things. I can't imagine faking it and lying to your kids....
I feel so bad for my kids watching me fall apart. I don't have cancer but a complex connective tissue disorder that causes wayyyyy too many painful comorbid conditions. I feel like it must be embarrassing for them to push my wheelchair and help me so much. The very worst part is that it's genetic.
I am so so so very you had to grow up like this, that she went thru so very much too. I'm just so very sorry. I hope she's doing okay now. I hope you are too.
@@theangrytiredzebraim so sure that your kids love you so much don’t ever blame yourself !! I’m sure your a great mommy and they love you with no shame if they push you in the wheelchair it shows they will do anything to support there mommy keep strong !!! I hope your family is doing great just worry about giving your kids all your love them helping you shows how good you raised them 💕
@@MelodyMelody-oc5mo you are so kind and sweet, thank you so much 🙏🏼
@@theangrytiredzebra your welcome beautiful I hope everything gets better 🤍🤍
My daughter was diagnosed with brain cancer in 2012 right before her 6th birthday. And I can't stand it when people fake having cancer cause I would give anything to switch places so she wouldn't have it. I have always worked for what I have so far me to ask for help takes a lot. And people told me to setup a GoFundMe and then I was told that GoFundMe takes a big portion of the donations. So I setup a PayPal account for anyone that ever wants to donate can cause I can't just post up saying hey help me. I'm a single mom with no help with anything and now my mom had 4 strokes in less than 6 months and is now bedridden and in early stages of dementia. So I have to take care of her 24 7 and take care of my daughter. We are on the verge of being homeless and I don't know what to do. We don't have any family it's just us. Seeing people like that lady get all this help just disgusted me cause they don't know how it really affects people that are actually going through it. This lady is crazy. And her talking to her kid about her impending death just makes me sick. Cause the weeks my daughter was in the hospital for her IV chemo we could hear other moms screaming from losing their child and I would try to distract her from it. Until one day it happened in the room next to us and we could hear everything. I had to tell her that a mom just lost her child and is very sad. I think she understood what I was saying but I wasn't prepared for her asking me if that was going to happen to her.
So hearing these stories just really makes me upset cause if they only knew half of what it feels like.
i hope everything is well for you 🙏💗
I had a friend in college who lied to me about having cancer. I even gifted her my birthday money and got about half back from her now husband and baby daddy. Our other friends didn't believe her, looking back I just feel so vulnerable and crappy. Lying about that is disgusting.
It’s not ur fault at all. Ur not stupid or “crappy”. It’s not normal at all to fake something like that so when someone tells you they have cancer, your first human instinct is just to believe them. You’re actually rlly sweet for giving her your money, cause ngl I might set up a fundraiser for a friend but shit I need my money for myself and my rent 😭
I had a friend who would suddenly fall pregnant every single time whatever boyfriend she had was breaking up with her then she would miscarry miraculously and I’m not kidding she pulled this same crap about 15 times after the 3rd or 4th time I stopped believing her all together it was all just too convenient. She then faked cancer and now her most recent one is MS and I feel like Jerk for not believing a word she says. She has two kids and I didn’t believe her that she was pregnant until she was visably pregnant. Her most recent MS lie is ridiculous she is using a walker and has it all “tricked” out with buttons whistles baskets and streamers, it feels so attention grabby but I ask her questions and look like a skeptical jerk all the time. I stayed friends with her up until recently she borrowed money from me while I was vulnerable and it wasn’t nice, she also never payed me back. It was only like 300$ but still she payed her way right out of my life. I guess I’ll put up with lies but scamming will make me never speak to you again and it sad because we were friends since 4th grade and we were pretty close for years and years. When we were kids I’m pretty sure she lied to me about her Mom having brain cancer to cover for her mom’s mental illness also. She was mad once because our friends Mother faked cancer and it was the cancer she was faking she had and I kept think well this is ironic.
She had a drug addiction it basically explains it all. Drugs will make you into someone you never thought you could be that includes lying and hurting your children and everyone around you!
That's telling us all we need to know about her that she don't care about her kids cause why would you put your kids throughout this
Real People with Real Issues are very rarely the ones to get much needed help. Makes me sick how people can lie like this, collect money and gifts and feel no remorse. I hope those Kids can recover.. can’t imagine what it’s done to them..
Those children are going to need some intense therapy.
I would have a very difficult time forgiving or moving on after my mother did this to me!! Poor kids!
my mother lied about having cancer - thankfully she never asked anyone for donations, it was just to get attention and she dropped it pretty quick when she realised it was tricky to keep her stories straight.
my grampa passed away from lymphoma cancer about a couple weeks ago. It’s horrifying how quickly they can go from walking and talking to being stuck in bed, eyes glazed over and unable to communicate. Seeing people fake illnesses like cancer kinda hurts, because it feels like they’re downplaying such a difficult thing to deal with.
I was close with my grampa and I lived with him for a couple months when I was young. I’m going to miss him so much but it’s reassuring to know that he isn’t suffering any longer. He was the coolest, funniest guy ever, and my family feels a little out of whack now that he was gone, because he was sort of our rock.
My daddy passed from pancreatic cancer in 2020..he was the rock on our family. I am so sorry you are going through this 💔
Just for future reference if someone says they have cancer and they’re getting treatment so their hair is falling out.. if it’s evenly fuzzy (obviously shaved) then they likely aren’t getting cancer treatments. My dad and my brother both have prostate cancer and their hair fell out in blotchy patches which were still visible even when they did shave their heads. Hair doesn’t fall out evenly.
Tik Tok infuriated me with the trend of making up with bruises as domestic assault survivors to songs and shit.
As a survivor of domestic abuse, it was not at all bringing AWARENESS to the horrific occurrence.
Actual victims started to share stories and then others jumped in with fakeness for clicks and views.
It wasn't helping people take it seriously because then when someone posted who was an actual victim, they were tormented and bullied for being "fake about it for clicks" and thus silenced again.
Using make up and faking something isn't support, it's taking away from the actual epidemic that needs to be heard, it's mockery.
If you wanna support a cause, research and make normal videos with information and support groups offerings for people.
Making a bruise on your eye and a cut lip, when it's not true for you is insulting and absolutely degrading true victims again
Hold my beer...or wine bc we're not sexist. Bruh 💀😆
As someone who's mum died at 13 due to 4 types of rare cancers, people like her anger me, people don't realise the impact cancer has on some people, and it's sad that she has nothing better to do with her time.
Edit : it'll be 3 years since she passed on the 4th of December this year
You know what really sucks, a lot of us have internal disabilities that hurt like hell you just can't see them from the outside he already have to deal with that worry of someone assuming we're fully able-bodied just because we don't look messed up
in the last six years 5 family members of mine had different kinds of cancer( thankfully only one of them died) seeing something like this just makes my blood boil
This is why decent ppl are LESS likely to help out/donate nowadays, bcoz of scammers/fakers like this
My dad was recently diagnosed with cancer. I’m 18 years old and it made me sick from heartbreak to learn my dad might be dying. I can’t IMAGINE how a little kid would feel to be told their mom is dying and then it turns out they’re lying. My dad doesn’t openly talk about it and doesn’t ask for any kind of hand outs. His work sends gifts every once in a while but that’s about it. They’re like $20 each and he’s gotten like 3. It makes me so mad that people lie about this for money. I’ve found that people who have cancer, don’t want to flaunt it. It makes me sick
Faking an illness for attention is the only sick thing about her
My mom had ovarian cancer within 3-4 months she was gone from me and my sister. And stage 4 is short term not 2 years. We miss my mom dearly she passed in 2009. 😢
Beer and wine don't need to fall into sexist categories of "beer for men" "wine for women" lol. I'm a woman and I pound beers and my hubby can't handle them so ...
Right?! The “hold my beer” wasn’t sexist to begin with, but adding the “wine for women” made it sexist. XD
bro said "or wine, if you're a woman, we're not sexist" like... that was a joke, right?
My mom actually had stage 4 ovarian cancer... thankfully she lived (no thanks to the doctors who all told her it was just in her head..) but it boggles my mind why someone would think its cool and okay to fake it...
F*** doctors. I partly blame them for my grandmas death. She had cancer, beginning in the lungs but later spreading to her blood and brain. Nurses treated her like shit, verbally abused her and mocked her for being overweight, they gave her blood clot meds she was allergic to for WEEKS causing insane bruising all over her chest. Because she was allergic to it, it also wasn’t properly working, leading to more blood clots. My family knew something was wrong and pointed out the bruises but it took them weeks to actually test.
Then they put her in a wheelchair, moving her for treatment, and left her in a room completely alone. My granny was so weak, she couldn’t hold up her body, she slumped toward, fell, smacked her head against the tile causing a huge knot.
I had to watch my grandma die with bruises like she was hit by a car and a knot on her head the size of a tennis ball.
I will never trust hospitals with my dying family members ever ever again.
I can't stop thinking about how opposite it was back in the day you weren't getting sympathy help or pity, you were getting bullied and disrespected for being different
I did my best to hide of physical and mental issues I had for the longest time until I finally hit a point where I understood all that baggage helped make me who I am today I don't need to hide those parts of myself or be ashamed of them
As someone who had stage 3 uterine cancer and went through chemo and had a hysterectomy and stage 4 breast cancer had chemo radiation and just had a mastectomy recently this shit pisses me off...
I never made a go fund me, I still worked I was alone my parents never went with me to treatments I went everyday to radiation alone and my chemo treatments alone because I had no support I struggled to pay rent and Bill's but I got through and people who fake this kind of pain, grief, sadness, sickness, theres a special place in hell for people like this for sure...
Bro what?? The more disabled I get the fewer friends I have because the less I can go out and do things that everybody else can the less people come around. They don't adjust to my new level of abilities they just push me aside for someone who has their level of abilities
I'm going through the same thing it really sucks. Especially when they think you're just lying and making excuses because you aren't diagnosed and "always seem to be sick" it's bc I am 😭. I hope you find people that'll hangout with you in ways that works for you both. I have 1 good friend that understands and works with my limitations and I work with his. Sometimes it's easier if you find a friend that also has some health issues.
I'm a little shocked and saddened you didn't go for the Monty Python, "I got betta.."
If you pause the video and read what she wrote she said “I still have fluid in my stomach which isn’t making it any easier to breathe.” What?? I’m not doctor but I’m pretty sure you don’t breathe through your stomach. That’s what your lungs are for. 🤦🏻♀️
Ugh it’s scummy people like this women that was the reason that made my coworker try to tell people that I was faking my thyroid cancer to be able to go home early and to have 3 days a week off instead of 2 days a week …. Like it wasn’t even his business as I wasn’t even telling many people other then my managers and close friends and he just happened to overhear (luckily my managers gave him a red coaching for telling lies about me and he did apologize after my grandma (who was angry for him saying such rightfully so) had me show him my stitches from when they removed the cancerous tumor and my thyroid ) but ugh its people like this women that made him just to such a conclusion… it’s sickening
My sister had ovarian cancer at 19 years old. She's fine now, but it was traumatizing. Its fucking disgusting.
After having heard that little revelation at the end of the segment, I have a nigh certain idea of why she woke up one day and chose severe subterfuge. Only one word and I knew: Heroin.
2 years of first hand experience informs me that one would do just about any damn thing to get that next score. It makes an absolute slave of you, everything you do is for that heron, and you will do everything. Even stupid shit like this example is no problem as long as you got a rig, a spoon, water a lighter and that evil stuff to put in your veins. That monkey on my back had big teeth and claws. I shudder to think about what I became while addicted to it. 'It's the DEVIL, Bobby Boucher!'
But, really. No joke.
It's almost sentient in how it can 'control' your daily life.
This is terrible!!
Also, just a side note - a lot of people make well under $50K a year. Most people I have known make between $20k - $35k a year.
But you are right that it's not that much in this terrible economy. Many people struggle to live, even in a 2 income household.
She was born at least in 1991. So, I am a bit confused. How is she a "boomer?" Is it because she was scamming people on tiktok? I mean she does look any older or younger than the one telling the story.
That’s insane if someone told me they had cancer I wouldn’t ever question that. Why would you? Who lies about having CANCER for gods sake?? That’s insane and it sucks that you can’t just trust people and take them for their word in this world
The sheer fact that this woman lied to her OWN CHILDREN about dying…… That’s a whole other level of DISGUSTING! It’s one thing to be a horrible human being and lying to others and scamming people for their well earned money… but to put your own children through the mental ABUSE, TORTURE, and ANGUISH of thinking you’re going to die and they will be left without their “Mommy” is the most heart wrenching, sickening, disgusting, EVIL thing I can imagine!!!!!
This feels like the worst improv ever. Did she ever think about how this would end? “All your money cured my TERMINAL(!) cancer”
a mom at my school did something similar, we had lost our grandfather to cancer and my mom still has non hodgkins 14 years later, my stepfather just got cleared of melanoma after a big surgery and massive scars on his back. I myself have had brushes with breast cancer and it's not fun, it's scary, it takes up all your energy and time and it makes you depressed and anxious. I also have a former aunt who tricked doctors into performing a surgery she didn't need because she wanted attention after her FRIEND was told she had a condition that needed dangerous surgery to treat, so former aunt said she had the same thing, let doctors open her up and when doctors realised she was lying, she was warned and investigated by CPS
I know I'm a little late to the party on this one, but excuse me? Doctors don't just... Jump into surgery without running all kinds of tests and KNOWING that something is serious. You can't just lie to a doctor and get operated on for no reason. That's one of the silliest things I've ever heard. The cost and risk of surgery is measured against the benefit. Only if the benefit outweighs the risk, will they operate. There wouldn't be a "warning" even if you were able to fake something so seriously as to be operated on, someone who was able to somehow do so would likely be charged with some kind of fraud. A CPS investigation? For what? Was she forcing doctors to operate on the kids at gunpoint? WTF are you talking about?
This slightly enrages me... My husband died of cancer in February,,, he battled for a long time .. this is so screwed up in so many ways
I used to live with these kids who's mom lied about having terminal stage 4 bone cancer.
She wanted to be the main character.
I'm 36, I have been through 7 surgeries, and one of the surgeries was to remove cancer, so I can't understand why anyone would want to be sick like me. I literally can't even go get my own mail because I am allergic to my own sweat and direct sunlight, so this is infuriating. She is not going through the pain, just getting the sympathy and donations. Just sick for anyone to do that crap. I don't get donations, I survive off what I can get when I rarely sell a crochet item, less than a hundred bucks a month, so that is extra sick to me.
Wow that sounds like an incredibly frustrating way to live and I’m sorry things aren’t easier for :(
@@ellecapone1337 it is so frustrating, I would give anything to be able to do half of the things most people take for granted.
My cousins actually lost their mother to braincancer after years of fighting the illness and seeing how it effected them all make this even fucking worse. I am so mad that people actually do this, how can you look at your children's faces and trick them that you are dying.... its beyond cruel
My father died of cancer. I watched him die slowly over the course of a year, hoping with all my child heart that he would be okay.
I miss him so much. I'm crying just thinking of him and what happened. I became really emotionless for a while, trying to pretend I was fine and refusing to be sad. Refusing to even cry, because my mom was distraught and I needed to anchor her so she wouldn't sink into depression.
It messed with me real bad.
And she's tricking her own kids into thinking she's dying?! She's putting her family and spouse through all this turmoil just to get money and attention?!!
Congratulations. You made it so that whether you live or die, you're children still lost a mother.
She doesn't deserve to be one if she's willing to hurt them like this.
As someone who's sister had stage 4 cancer, this is awful that she fooled everyone who helped her. Cancer is not fun and really painful where your just trying to make and cherish every memory so your kids and family have something to remember you bye.
The cooling effect that kind people will feel moving forward to help legit sick people is absolutely what makes me sad
My grandma that I loved more than anyone died of colon cancer and started to loose her memories it was the saddest thing in my life when. She couldn’t rember my name. She died about a week later and It still has worsened my depression to this day.
As a mum of four living with stage 4 metastatic melanoma, I find these people who fake cancer so disgusting, difficult to watch or understand, thanks for continuing to discuss the topic. How they can look at their children and put them through even saying they have cancer, let alone the lengths they go to trying to convince people they are dying. 🤦🏻♀️
So as someone currently undergoing cancer treatment, I don't know why anyone would fake it. More importantly it's easy enough if you've had cancer (specific cancers), to tell a faker right. There is only one specific chemo that causes hair loss and its only used in about 5 types of cancer. I was on two chemo treatments, the first caused hair loss (and by hair loss, it's EVERY SINGLE HAIR), the hair I missed the most was my nose hairs... but you have no brows, lashes, head hair growth (at all), it's recommended to shave your head when the hair loss starts because it falls out in clumps and from the follicle, this includes leg, arm and vajayjay hair. ALL HAIR. Secondly you get a dosier from your oncologist that is signed and lists all of your treatments, if someone can't show you this then they are lying. The second chemo I was on causes mild hair thinning, but my hair started growing (on my head), the brows, lashes and nasals came later, with the arms, legs and private bits being last. You legit look like a hairless molerat. Also a myth, the only time you lose weight with cancer treatment is if you're dying and the cancer is literally eating you up, because of all the steroids you are pumped full of (because it's an immuno suppresant) its actually more common to gain weight with cancer and have bouts of roid rage (when you have the energy for it). Mostly it's just tears you cry from sheer frustration, in that you have no control of your body.
I think this is straight CPS worthy
Ruthless. No self-respect. No respect for others. What a terrible human.
my grandma did the opposite she told us she wasn’t sick when she knew she had stage 4 ovarian cancer for months and we didn’t find out till my mom found her passed out one day and was rushed to the er she passed like 2 months after
As someone who’s had cancer and has done the whole chemo,radiation (internal and external), surgeries etc. This person is GROSS!! The people I saw at my cancer hospital going through so much pain. How dare she?!
Has "boomers" changed?? Boomers were the kids born after WWII,... The baby boom.
I have just been diagnosed with MBC Metastatic Breast Cancer in July. Previously 2017 Dec I had stage 3 breast cancer and had double mastectomy, full hysterectomy, 5 months chemo, 30 rounds of radiation...and was cancer free in 2019. Now I am stage IV and am a single mother of a 16n yr old boy. I have never thought to try to con anyone for money or help... It's a disgrace!! To also torture your children with such false news is unfathomable. By the way, I am a high school teacher whose salary WAS 40K a year so yes, people make less than 50K a year. Now I am on disability making less. It is very SAD to see someone faking this illness. It is not fair to those who do need help. I am blessed in that, when I do get sick, I have a group of lovely ladies from my church who will bring a meal or pick up food for us. They are willing to do this for us anytime I need BUT I do not take advantage!! Now I am on a chemo for the rest of my life. Also my chemo does NOT make me bald so I don't "look sick" in that way. I am trying to live my life with my son as if every day is my last, trying to make it meaningful and special! This woman needs serious therapy and jail time.
This makes me so mad. I have an autoimmune disease which causes my organs to fail and causes all over body pain and lesions all over my body, I have maybe 4 to 7 years, could be more or less, Dr's can't be accurate. I wish I was lying, the devastation my kids are feeling, how could any mother do that to her kids
My grandma recently passed away from ovarian cancer that spread to her other organs due to negligence by her doctor and it's infuriating to think someone would want to pretend they have it.. not to mention the fact she has kids. Either her kids think she's going to die or she's getting them to lie for her. Either does lasting damage. What absolute trash.
My guy, did you just call a 31 year old “old” and a “boomer”?! She’s a dumpster human, but damn. Got distracted by that.
My mom and I used to do a lot of charity work but unfortunately there are so many scammers out there, we had to stop because it was starting to mess with us.
There was a woman who we are pretty sure faked cancer. She kept asking for money so that she could uber to the hospital and back, but when we instead offered to drive her there, she ignored us for weeks and then asked for more money for food. She begs on facebook as well and it has been going for a few years.
The things you see out there are sick. People lie so much, and in the end it hurts the people who really need it
As someone who's father is currently in remission from throat cancer, I will never understand why people would fake something like it.
it’s insane someone would do this, it’s truly cruel, my father passed from cancer, this is not okay to fake something to serious
"or Wine if you're a woman. We're not sexist here"
Hmmmmmmmm
My husband fought lymphoma and covid with a bunch if other issues and when I see people like this just passes me off so bad. Girl u couldn't handle cancer or that fight...
My grandfather had esophageal cancer and my dad said he died the worst, slowest, most painful death he’d ever seen someone die. It makes me sick you would fake something like this when people suffer beyond comprehension for years only to die in the end. Wtf
My mom passed away from aggressive breast cancer 25 years ago in July, and seeing someone fake having/dying from cancer pisses me off!
That IS the most despicable thing to do to children - especially to a 4 year old child!! There’s NO redeemable quality in this person. To do something like this “to make friends,” has got to be the most asinine thing I’ve ever heard in my 52 years being on this planet. She, and she alone, just screwed her children’s minds up for the rest of their lives, because IF someone close to them actually does get cancer, they’re not going to believe that person. Those children, and those she scammed, are the only ones that I feel terrible for.
I hope that she gets everything coming to her, and then some more!
As someone who's gone through chemo (due to serious autoimmune disease that isn't cancer) I feel like when people are actually sick, they are less likely to share all of the private details about what they're going through. For me, I realized very quickly that (unfortunately) a lot of "friends" just want to use you for attention so you definitely find out who really cares. *Plus it's exhausting enough just living every day, much less keeping up photos and updates for everyone else*
Of course she's from Illinois 🤦🏻♀️😑 why do you continue to embarrass me Illinois 🤣
As someone who lives in the USA, no average worker here makes 50k a year. Most don't even make 30k. I am one of the ones who is under that and i work in one of the highest paying jobs around me. Don't forget ALL the taxes they take from us too. What she did is hella messed up.
I usually don't have issues with bad micke quality but holly shiiii haveing a bass boosted headphones and the microphone popping is just painful. Its like my ears are blocked all over again
I don’t see how you can be a nurse/doctor and be addicted to any kind of drug my EMT experience has scared me straight out of that area
When I was in the military we got randomly drug tested 3-4 times a years, I always kind of assumed that would be the same for first responders but I guess not 🤷🏽♀️
When I see this it makes me so mad, my mum had stage 4 Ovarian cancer and fought for 4 years before she sadly passed
To answer your question, I was in a similar incident where a very close friend scammed me. Said friend actually did have her apartment burned down and did in fact lose everything including her cat who I loved very much died, but she scammed me into moving in with me because she would otherwise be homeless, created a gofundme, got thousands of dollars donated to get her household items back and then instead of paying me rent or paying me back for things I helped her with she spent the money on drugs and concert tickets. I still donate to people in need, and it didn’t change my want to help people although it did cause me to lose trust and feel defeated for a bit, I just learned how to be more cautious so people actually in need get help. ❤ it is unfortunate so many shitty people take advantage of others but the truth always comes out on them eventually.
When I was 13 or 14 years old my dad dated this girl Tanya. She said she had cancer I was younger so I didn't really know what kind but she had said she had cancer 2 times before but different kinds. She said she had 4 months to live and my dad let her come stay with us. She would start fights before her "doctor's appointments" so my dad wouldn't go with her. Come to find out she's lied about this before. My dad had called her sister to ask how she was doing with her appointments cuz he wasn't able to go, she thought my dad was going with her. She then told him that she was a pathological liar and had lied about this before and ALOT more. She was a drug addict. My dad knew she took some unprescribed pills because she was in "pain" but she was doing a lot more than he thought.
As someone who just lost their mother two weeks ago from multiple illnesses, including ovarian cancer, hearing about this makes me sick..
I recently got my latest biopsy results finally came back normal after couple years of having to get biopsy every 3 months it's a scary nerve wracking experience having to wait for results on it your cells are cancerous or not
Telling people you are lonely and in need of people works...just doesn't usually get you paid, so ...
The irony of her text at 9:18 saying "scam" instead of "scan" is too good to not comment on lol.
These people need hobbies 😭
Imagine faking cancer and then actually getting cancer later on and nobody believes you
"what was she going to do? Just run into the forest and never come back?" 😂
My mom is almost done with chemotherapy for stage 2 breast cancer.
It only takes one bad apple to mess up the whole bunch. It’s just sickening why does she needs to fake cancer? 🤦🏽♀️ sad 😢
Mr. Ablaze, when you said “at that point they should just be I’ll, imagine having to act like it”. Well they do it because they view it as their job. They clock in a 9 to 5 and when no one is looking or when they are somewhere no one knows them, they are having fun. Just like any job.
Hell is too good of a place for this diabolical piece of work.
This is just so evil and seriously disturbing. People can say she is evil but you have to have some mental illness to do this without feeling incredibly guilty! There has to be seriously something wrong in their mind and their hearts!
My then 12 year old cousin went through treatment for leukemia so this makes me physically sick out of anger
I find this actually shocking. I could not do that to my kids. I was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis 3 years ago and I havent even told my kids about that or what that might mean going forward. 😵💫😵💫 That woman disgusts me 🤢
Love that he has the PokéMart theme playing in the beginning 😂😂😂
She told the kids so she could plea out in court-Hypochondriac to the point of Munchousen