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Pressing on your eyelids is a known relaxation technique, it presses on the vague nerve.
As someone who has an actual diagnosed mental disorder, I can't imagine making it my whole personality online. It's embarrassing (and attention needy) to limit yourself to it.
I hardly talk about my diagnoses unless it’s needed. Like if I have a panic attack, and need to explain I’m ok I just have a panic disorder. But I don’t make it my whole personality. I don’t walk around with a shirt with big bold letters “I have ocd and ptsd”
I have literally spent my whole adult life trying to separate myself from mine. I have Bipolar 1 with psychosis and while I’m not ashamed of it, I certainly don’t want people to associate my name with my mental health. I have plenty other enduring qualities 😂
Yeah I need to go on disability because I have severe enough adhd anxiety and depression and I can’t imagine going on tiktok to join the “community” it’s like going “hey i’m in the high blood pressure community!” like why base your whole personality on having high blood pressure or allergies that’s just how dumb they sound
Tics and roses is a clown
As sometime with an actual mental illness I'd just like to say whoop whoop whoop whoop whoop
As a clown, I'm offended we are being compared to disorder fakers
LOL😭
Same, as a clown, this angers me >:(
It's ok you're funny haha, they're funny ut-oh
I literally have permanent self harm scars on my arms from scratching to other things from when I was depressed and seeing these kids on tik tok say benign things like rubbing your eyes to other things are self harm pisses me off. My skin is permanently marred because I couldn't handle my mental state for years but apparently mental illness is just doing random normal things now...
Yup same, ended up hospitalized with stitches for my sh issue many years back. My legs and arms will never look the same and the scars no matter what I do will NEVER be unnoticeable. It gives me deep regret, it’s not something I often talk about, and it’s not something I like to show with the world. It embarrasses me, even if I can’t change the past and know I was in mental distress when it happened, I’m not PROUD. But apparently flicking yourself, touching your eyelids, and biting your fingernails is self harm now. Telling the world constantly on camera, making light of it, and minimizing the issue to poking yourself too hard is normal and acceptable now.
(I guess if you’re chewing your fingers til you bleed and don’t stop, that could be seen as sh, but chewing your fingernails is not the same thing ffs)
yeah my burned 2nd degree burned skin holes or neither deep scarring wont ever 100% heal and the skin will not be as elastic causing problems
Similar here. Tattoos over most of mine now. But I still need to wear a hairband/elastic band on my wrist to help sometimes when I'm feeling stressed/distressed as my go to years ago would be to SH. So pinging the hairband/elastic band helps. But by these terms, that IS self harm and it baffles me. Like, no, it's a self-soothing thing, a preventative, an alternative - whatever you wanna call it. It's not SH. Jesus wept. - also hats off for getting through, hope you're doing okay.
Same, finally after years beat that demon into submission along with all the others and got tattoos over most of my scars, I’ve still got more to cover but seeing them now it’s more of a reminder of how far I’ve come. We’re all strong amazing people, I hope y’all know it! ❤
same, my scars will never fade. but i cant imagine how insanely these people must suffer to press down on their eyelids on purpose, that must be *so* hard to deal with.
Epileptic here. When u have a seizure, and r seen by a doctor as a result, that doctor has an obligation to notify the dmv. Then u are not legally allowed to drive for 3 to 6 months/ and or until ur doctor gives u a letter of medical clearance that your seizures are under control. Some ppl might have 1 seizure in their life, or a few when they r older, many factors. All in all, if that girl does have a condition where she randomly goes into seizures (with or without a warning), her doctor she be kept aware and no she shouldnt be driving. I'm allowed to drive providing I take my meds properly n get sleep, going on 8yrs seizure free. Idiot's like her make honest people like me, struggling with seizure disorders, look deceitful and ignorant. When I am not able to take my meds (stomach bug etc) or didnt sleep properly I DO NOT DRIVE AND KEEP MY ASS HOME. Out of not just precaution but respect for the general public. Driving when seizures are a possiblity is the same as drunk driving. U DNT HAVE THE RIGHT TO RISK OTHERS LIVES
Yup and between the retesting and the reinstatement fee $1200 and 6 months after my one and only siezure I was able to get my license back, I understand pulling the license but really $700 for a nurse to ride during the road test is too much
@@jimmiedmc1 goodness I'm sorry to hear that u had to pay n jump thru so many hoops, were u living in canada at the time(asking cuz canuck in ur name) I live in canada n didnt havent to pay for my EEGS, MRIs letters for the dmv. And part of why I was able to go back to driving so easily at times was because my doctor knew that as long as I took my meds, I'm safe, without her approval/confidence I would have had alot more things to prove
6 months is lucky, in germany you can throw your drivers licence in the bin. No driving until you're 2 years seizure free.
I wasn't able to get my driver's license until I was 22 years old with a child. I didn't get mine till I had an EEG with no seizures after being off my meds for a month. I grew out of them. How I know I don't have them anymore? I haven't had a migraine since I was a teen. My migraines were triggered by excessive seizure activity. I actually had the true absence seizures. I wasn't even diagnosed till I was 10/11 years old. I was diagnosed with ADD before I was diagnosed with seizures. So it was very difficult to tell how often I was seizuring. I could blink and have a seizure and just keep going. That's why I didn't get my driver's license till at least 9-10 months after my last normal EEG without meds. I wouldn't take the risk.
@@ghostofaforgottenweedle It’s the same here in Australia
"you can't control DID"
Yes you can. It's called therapy. What, these kids think a therapist is just gonna diagnose DID and be like "okay that's what you have, off on your merry way". No. DID is the symptom, trauma is the issue, by working to resolve the trauma the symptom goes away.
As someone actually diagnosed with DID i could not agree more. There are parts that are a bit hard to control but its not completely uncontrollable with therapy and working through trauma is the best treatment. Also its hard to imagine people wanting DID and wanting the attention from it. I find myself in places I don't recognize and its terrifying. I cant remember my childhood. And I am only a mild case.
@@sorrylieutenanthank3026 I used to know someone with DID (although I didn't find out until a few years after she passed away). She would go into fits if anyone pointed out a flaw in her makeup or if she lost something. She would go frantic and then snap out of it, asking "what just happened?" My friends and I helped her through it, we would help her search for the thing she lost, etc.
I remember I had a party at my house and she lost her ring in our pool. She raged, told us she felt like burning things, so my dad gave her a bunch of wood logs and said, "we have a fire pit. Burn these." My mom gave us a bowl of marshmallows to toast. We told her we would search for the ring in the daylight and my mom found it. We all knew something big was going on with her, just didn't know how serious it was. Support from friends can also help.
You can definitely have trauma as a baby, but it’s not going to manifest as DID because personality doesn’t develop until years later. Trauma that young is going to manifest more as subconscious reactions which can be tricky to figure out triggers and how to control them when you’re older, because the causes are pre-memory.
this is true! trauma that young is more likely to cause reactive attachment disorder if anything
Trauma from this early usually sits in our nervous system. I also doubt it would manifest as DID.
I was so confused about why they were trying to say that birth trauma could cause DID? Like there can be alters of personalities if there is not personality😭
a trauma based disorder doesn’t need trauma? okayyy someone needs some hobbies🤚🏻😭
Being an epileptic who's seizures are controlled with medication. I'm still uncomfortable with the idea of getting a license, I would not only be putting myself at risk, but I would be putting everybody else at risk.
Honestly I’m literally the exact same way. I’m also an epileptic. So even when I’m allowed to start learning I’m just really nervous to but my family has it so I kinda have to learn when I’m able to
I agree. I also have grand mals and petit mals, so my neurologist advised me not to drive or operate any vehicle, even a bike.
Depends on how good your medication is and what kind of epilepsy you have. My uncle has been taking meds for his epilepsy for decades and hasn't had seizures anymore since taking them, so he is driving. If you still have seizures from time to time, even if they are rare, I would definitely advice against driving though.
I'm an Epileptic as well. My Neurologist has banned me from driving until I'm 2-3 years seizure free. I'm completely uncomfortable driving in general, so I have no clue how I'm gonna take it if I get to.
I renovated my headspace too but instead of some 5-minute-crafts DIY like these didiots, i hired a contractor (doctor) to give me a full renovation (antidepressant and weight loss)
Thank you for actually getting help and not trying to display it on social media for views. I've been arguing with those losers for the past two days and the majority of them don't seem to want help. It is very frustrating but it makes my day to see someone with some actual common sense.
😂 "Didiots" 😭
These people really are in a way suffering from an actual psychological issue.
I.e Narcissism, Attention Deficit disorder, Fatherly absenteeism, and extreme Cringe
Don't forget etc. Etc. is the worst
Yeah, you forgot etc.
They are not-disabled people who have no idea what it is like to be disabled and the pain and humiliation associated with it. They need to get off the internet and focus on self-betterment and personal success rather than getting empty praise (and not even alo t of that), on the internet.
Yo, don't lump them with ADHDers, we don't want em! 😂
What does ADHD has to do with them faking illnesses?
14:47 I'm pretty sure declaring that she drives around with seizures (detectable or not) that she knows could cause a car crash could be used to lay down some form of reckless driving charges against her. "Don't worry I drive carefully" is exactly what repeat DUI drunk/high drivers say to try to get out of trouble, and then they "have no idea how it happened" when someone dies...
But she doesn't have to worry about that, because she doesn't actually have siezures.
I went to therapy to try to heal and I ran into several of these, "I have trauma from being told no from when I was two," type people. They made it into a contest. It was gross. Here I am trying to keep it together for my child. Dealing with flashbacks, PTSD, nightmares, disassociation because I still have to deal with my abuser, and a slew of medical issues made worse by all this stress. I'm just trying to heal and I can't even stand using the terms I need to use because they've been watered down and I'm afraid that people won't believe me because of these people and the abuse I suffered. Survivors tend to over share and get caught up from being manipulated and gaslit. I had to leave the group. I just couldn't deal with it. I see two different therapists on my own now and it's ah... It's a process. Let's just say... But I am trying and I am slowly getting better, I think...
The fact that you want to get better sets you apart from these clowns. Best wishes, I hope you get where you want to be
As someone who has been diagnosed with epilepsy by a doctor. I can say the girl is full of 💩 I know when my fits were going to happen but even then I was not aloud to drive. Even just a hand twitch & you’re back to square one like I was. Thankfully I have been fit free for a fair few years now & the last twitch was about 3 yrs ago I have now not long past my driving test 🥳
Best of luck with your driving test, the DVLA (governing body for drivers in the UK) are strict about medical conditions, definitely including seizures.
@@ItsBigBrainTime101 thank you, I’ve already past it. They really are strict. I felt defeated when I had one single hand twitch. But I know my signs & exhaustion is one of them which is why I had the hand twitch but thankfully I am in a better place & know what things can lead me to having trouble with my epilepsy.
As well as the meds say don't drive
@@Troubleshootingg my meds thankfully don’t say that, they have the usual either have food before or after & not to have caffeine 30 mins after I take them.
My mom has epilepsy! And I did too as a child, I grew out of it but she did not. I’ve had to save her life before because of it. It took her years to get her license back after her last bad one! It’s mostly stress induced and she seriously lost movement in her legs before she had me. Like she had to crawl on the floor to get it her phone to call 911. It’s not fun
13:03 I was subjected to continuous emotional and mental abuse almost my entire childhood. I actually do have severe struggles as an adult because the things said to me were reinforced repeatedly. I'm working on myself but it still affects me. It's not laziness. In these TikToker's cases though.....
yeah
I don't think these people faking autism realize how much it hurts the actual community. As a parent with 3 boys with Autism, it is 100 percent mocking them. It's absolute bullshit. 💯
There's quite the difference between knowing and caring.
i’m in this video, but diagnosed and have been since i was 4. don’t believe everything u see online 🎉
I've heard a lot of people in the autistic community are okay with self diagnosing. There's also websites with tests (example: RAADS-R) that people often bring in with them during diagnosis that professionals take into consideration when testing officially. Personally, I believe self diagnosis is valid for autism due to the amount of resources and research out there that people have easy access to. Not only that, but getting an official diagnosis is incredibly expensive, though is encouraged if you're able to afford it. I blame our psychological healthcare system for not being more accessible if anything.
and since I have it (diagnosed at 13, so ages 3-12 were a nightmare for me) it makes my blood boil. They have NO IDEA the hell I went through with people picking on, belittling, insulting, and bashing on me 4 my behavior
@@chloejxhnsxn Where?
Oh God the self-harm one actually made me pretty angry but I'm also just laughing at it, not to make this too personal or graphic but because of self-harm I've been in the hospital for stitches a couple of times. It was the darkest and most miserable time of my life and kids on tiktok are now saying that pressing down your fucking eyelids is self harm???? Please go outside, please please please go outside and reconcile with your family my god
I'm so sorry you went through that, I hope things are better for you now! ❤
@aimeet7537 thank you so much, and yes after 3 years of hard work an constant treatment I've been clean for some time now! :D
I miss my colorful hair but I don't want to be grouped in with these people 🙃
As someone who is on the Autism Spectrum, actually has a diagnosis and paperwork to prove it and is currently enrolled in a college program that requires said paperwork to register and before I even got here, had to mask my entire life and didnt even realize I was doing it, go to therapy. Masking WILL NOT get you where you need to be.
do you have any kind of in-home assistance? that can't mask it, but can help manage it
I’m actually diagnosed with ASD (autism spectrum disorder) by a psychologist. I just want to let you all know that dancing and listening to music can be a stim (self stimulatory behavior). But not all dancing is stimming. Listening to music on repeat is a way to seek out auditory sensory input which may help calm an autistic person. But everyone stims (shaking your leg, biting your nails etc are stims) so just because you do it doesn’t make you autistic. Autistic people just stim more often more intensely and for a more important reason such as emotional control or to calm during extreme stress plus many more reasons (that depend on the individual). Also stimming isn’t the same as tics. Stims can be controlled tics are involuntary movements. But just because stims can be controlled doesn’t mean they should stop stimming as not stimming can actually do more harm than good. For me if I don’t stim during a stressful situation my likelihood of having a panic attack goes up. Sorry for this long message but I think it’s something that people should realize.
This!! I'm diagnosed with autism by a psychiatrist and my main forms of stimming are dancing and singing lullabies to myself (not exactly "dancing" like in a disco but moving my hands and feet rhytmicaly like when you want to calm a baby but with myself)
Accurate information, thank you for putting it out here.
Facts. I'm pretty good at masking but my need to rock about sometimes annoys people
100%, I’m autistic myself I was diagnosed when I was young and I “dance” (more like bouncing around in a rhythm) when I’m overly excited or sing little songs usally memes (ie “it’s Saturday night and I got no plans, imma sit at home and yell at the moon. GET OUT OF THE SKY!”) to myself
Yes finally someone said it
As a being that stims, stimming for me is just how to deal with overload or extreme emotions. Usually coming in a bouncing motion or fidgeting, based on my understanding of stimming.
5:31 This just sounds like they’re writing a story or creating a universe for a game. That is awesome by itself; you don’t have to apply a pathological title to it to score cool points with your friends. Stop pretending it’s all a “disorder.” Creating fantasy worlds is completely valid. Put your creativity to work in ways that do not disrespect and mock people who actually struggle with debilitating mental conditions.
But if they put it to work, then they wouldn’t be able to use it as a get out of jail free card or earn attention, cash or clout just by existing. They’d have to… ew… actually DO something.
currently in college for psychology: DID is very highly debated. Everyone responds to trauma differently, and a lot of times experiencing exclusion, like being blamed and hurt for things someone else did bc you were deemed the bad one with no evidence, aka black sheep, you tend to develop ppl pleasing tendencies and sometimes even lie to feel included. when this happens in mass quantities, it becomes a cult-like mentality. 1 ppl pleaser wanting to fit in can often attract attention seekers, typically those suffering from some type of personality disorder and often not what they claim to have. BPD, NPD, and APD/psychopath, and some mood disorders like bipolar 1 or 2. that's often why they refuse therapy, bc their symptoms will not align with what is being claimed and a therapist, trained with at least a bachelor's degree, can see right through it. If they don't have a specific list and/or history or have family who can call them out, they'll often slip after a while in therapy, as they get more comfortable. They know this and purposely avoid it.
anyone with eyes can see that these people are faking and therapists majority of the time suck at their job and can’t provide much of anything to anyone with actual mental health issues trauma or disabilities… judging by the way you seem to think a person with bipolar ii would have any reason to seek out and manipulate a people pleaser when they don’t even experience full mania or god complex delusions you seem to generalize people based on diagnosis. That’s not a symptom of bipolar ii.
People don’t quit therapy becuase they’re manipulative and want a specific diagnosis they quit therapy because the majority of you can only help people who are too dumb to solve the most basic problems
A therapist cannot see through someone’s symptoms not aligning with what the patient wants because a therapist needs to be a psychiatrist to diagnose and make that call in the first place. It requires much more than a bachelors but the majority of therapists don’t even have that because it’s not required.
I was misdagnosed bipolar because a psychologist wouldn’t stop telling me i was bipolar for a year until i believed it and she was then arguing with my psychiatrist. I was so convinced i got diagnosed going to the ER because i was suicidal and told i was bipolar for years before that point. I have adhd and ptsd not bipolar.
I didn’t even consider that I had adhd, we refuse therapy becuase it doesn’t fucking help people who have actual mental health issues, disabilities or trauma unless the psychologist has years of experience and specializes in those things.
We refuse treatment for bipolar because the medications are fucking hard on your body and sometimes that can cause as much stress
as the disorder itself!
If you get into the work thinking people are psychopaths and you can tell as a therapist you’re not gonna be much help as a treatment provider.
i’ve been diagnosed with bipolar II and i get “fake claimed” by a lot of people in these kinds of spaces because i’ve learned to manage my symptoms lol
Hey Papa Ablaze! Just a small correction- stimming is NOT involuntary, and it’s also not whole body. Stimming is just a way of self-regulating for emotions. Everyone does it, but autistic people do it more. Autistic people can absolutely stop stimming, it just causes anxiety or some emotion to be stronger because the motion was regulating that emotion.
Also, stimming can be very small things like tapping fingers, or even bouncing your leg. Again, many non-autistic people do it too at times! Stimming does not mean autism necessarily. Hope that helps, love your videos!
The name and references to it are super gay, though.
I remember some girl filming herself like, "Omg guys, NEW STIM UNLOCKED!" like it's something special.
This is what I thought stimming was, too. I don’t have autism but am constantly doodling or fidgeting to channel my nervous energy. Thanks for clarifying!
I do it when I get excited for food lol or when I’m watching a excited movie. We watch the new spider man movie and I kept shaking my hand, I make the phone jester then shake it side to side like a surfer dude. I don’t have autism but it happens when I get excited or nervous.
For me it's almost like a sneeze. I can control it to an extent but the more I push it off the more overwhelmed I get and mine is not full body if I'm stressed. I will fidget with jewelry or shake my hands usually at my side. And if I'm excited then I usually bounce around on my toes. And flap my arms like a bird
Why do u love his videos? Have u seen him accusing actually diagnosed autistics? Saying the r word several times and calling someone it then has the audacity to mock stimming. He doesn’t care what autism stims actually are he will just mock anyways don’t waste your breathe on this ignorant fool
I suffer from seizuers and even tho I can feel them in advence im not allowed to drive.. its still dangerous 14:41
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My cousin was epileptic. You have to go a certain number of years without a seizure to be allowed your driver's license. But people constantly lie to their doctors. She did.
In my state, you have to go 6 months
2 years in my state.
i have to be 4 years seizure free.
As a sufferer of etc I can confirm it is *indeed* a terrible symptom
Stimming isnt just when having a melt down
Its actually usually the opposite
Stimming in usually small subconscious movements to calm your nervous system essentially
So if you bounce your leg, use a fidget toy, play with your hair, bite at your lips/nails
Any of these kinds of background stimulating behaviours
Thats what stimming is
having trauma in that infant stage just doesnt seem like enough to actually cause such a severe disorder. DID comes from prolonged and consistent trauma, and one traumatic instance as an infant is not either of those... as a baby, straight out of the womb, i dont think your brain is cognisant enough to hold those memories, or understand that whats happening is bad, or to even process it beyond physical feeling of pain and crying as a result. so thats pretty wonky for them to say things like that
This is exactly right!!
Hey daddie! Lol i have seizures and i was able to get my license back after being on meds and being seizurefree for 3 years
Don't call random people you don't know, "daddy".
@@kennethcook8598 hey Cook, Im sorry your not getting called daddy and your feelers are hurt.
@@kennethcook8598daddy-bossy boots you are
@@kriswolfiecabrera9035 I get called daddy, and other names like it by many women, not that you'd know what that's like. But don't engage in sexually charged comments on the internet. It's weird. I'm guessing that from your furry profile, you're also on a pedophile watchlist.
@@kennethcook8598 You're funny
Always well done vids sir ablaze, glad to see u back.😊
Thank you! :)
I was sad once, so now I'm going to claim depression and try to get on antidepressant medication. Also I sometimes have experiences that don't turn out that well so now I'll claim PTSD and trauma. Also I'll claim to be autistic because the trendy implication is that I'm in some ways a savant even though I'm dumb and talentless AF 🙄
I am so sick of people saying that quirky characters in media are "Autistic coded"
as a person who suffers from legitimate and legitimately diagnosed mentally health and trauma issues, i can't imagine building a personality and social media brand around my mental health and trauma. people who actually suffer from mental health and trauma issues tend to minimize their issues, many will even be so caught up in their own delusion that they will adamantly insist they *have no* mental health and trauma issues. these kids faking having issues for tiktok clout need to recognize their actual diagnosis: hypochondria and munchausen's syndrome.
As a literal diagnosed system, this is the most annoying thing. The horrid stigma these people cause is horrible. I and other actual systems can’t be themselves. And YES you need trauma to be a system. It is a trauma caused disorder or a trauma disorder. I have to see a specialist in trauma for this! Yes unfortunately you need it to have this. Besides why would you even want this literal life debilitating disorder. We have to tag comments to know which alter wrote stuff and to attempt to document alters. Can people seriously just not… - Jayden
13:45 there is nothing wrong with saying the word retarded.
Reupload from early 2023
15:55 A seizure is a disruption in normal electrical brain activity- a "burst of uncontrolled electrical activity between brain cells". Any disruption in the normal activity would affect the patterns and/or frequency of the brain waves on the EEG. Seizures show up on EEG.
I feel sad for these kids. A lot of them seem like really creative, nerdy types that are just lonely. Hopefully most of them will get more integrated into real-life communities and leave this stage behind. It doesn’t excuse what they are doing in ANY WAY. I just fear they start as basically healthy people who begin faking until they develop a complex and spread it to others
I agree
Back in the old days we called these imaginary friends. Since when did using your imagination become a disorder?
When schizophrenia when discovered. Joking around aside, ya, the way they’ve been using them is horrible
according to different articles ppl with autism do have ahigher probability of developing scoliosis. :) just fact checking
As someone who’s been in a rather consistent and constant state of disassociation to some varying degree for many years, I wish I could actually control and turn it off like these fuckers do. I truly wish it was that simple
As someone who disassociates that’s not how it works you can’t just turn it on and off. I disassociated during all of my births and I wish I could remember. When my little was in the NICU I don’t remember much of that time until we brought him home. My boyfriend said it was like I was on autopilot like I was there I was doing everything normal but just my personality was very flat. Like I had no emotions.
It wont be long until they start showing us their animal crossing Islands and claming it is their head space😂😂😂
People with real DID dont go around telling people about it. Try to hide it because they dont want people to think they're crazy. BTW 107 different people in your head would be completely insane 😂
Birth trauma would not result in did, DID results when the child is in an unsafe situation and literally for the sanity and future safety of themselves cannot cope with the situation the brain decides to hold and keep those traumatic memories somewhere else to be able to survive the trauma.... Most people who have DID will have had to dealt with TRAUMA by age 9 after age 9 the child mind has solidified and no longer fragmented (this is why imaginary friends and having rapid interests are not a concern)
Hope that made some sense
1:50 as someone who has been trying to get therapy for over 30 years Im not surprised at all if people dont want to try... I've been dropped and passed around all my life and non of them even cared... so... there is that
System of a Clown
As far as I'm aware, integration isn't usually used correctly. For therapy, integration lowers amnesia walls between alters and fusion is where they come together into one cohesive person. Two different types of therapy that can happen together, or sometimes integration is all a professional recommends. It's all super variable due to the low amount of real cases. It makes it difficult to pinpoint what therapies are helpful in a more general sense
Yes, these terms are often used interchangeably, when they aren't actually. I've recently came across a video from the channel MultiplicityAndMe, where Jess told that she had her final fusion, and she just explains a bit about the whole experience and the therapy options. Super intresting video for those who are interested to ACTUALLY learn something real about DID.
the girl saying pressing your eyes is sh is ridiculous i have huge ass scars all over my body that'll never go away it's insulting to people who have genuinely struggled with sh to say things like that are sh
People claimimg they have a disorder is like being a vegan. They feel the need to bring it up every 2 seconds. They make it their whole identity.
I have ocd and it drives me nuts when someone is cleaning and they go “oh I’m so ocd” being clean and wanting things to look nice isn’t ocd 😭 feeling like the world is going to end if you don’t fix this bed sheet. Or your brain going 50 miles a minute on everything and having to check the same thing so many times that you memorize every detail but still feel like something is wrong.
I have a form of ocd that’s the more obsessive form and I will obsessive over things to the point I’m sick, it’s also called the “pure o” its more intrusive thoughts and paranoia. Like I don’t repeat things a lot I do but not enough where is super noticeable
heya! ive been watching for a couple months now and the girl the second video is kinda right. i was diagnosed with adhd professionally and i do tend to hyperfixate on people and think its love or something like that. so she was half right because i know that all people with adhd dont do what i do. just wanted to share my thoughts on that lol, luv ya ablaze!
people without adhd do this too 🤷♀️
@@zoeyelh fr 😂
@@zoeyelh yeah this happens to a lot of people, it’s not ADHD specific.
I've got ADHD (diagnosed) and I've never hyperfixated on a person. Some people without ADHD get intense crushes and obsessions with people. I think there's the risk in communities around various conditions where someone will say "I do X, is it because I have ADHD?" and then a load of others will be like "YASS, I do that too! omg I never knew that was an ADHD thing" and what is usually just a fairly common thing that people do, will get pathologised into a trait of the disorder because a community of people with said disorder find they have it in common.
Papa Ablaze, I used to have seizures and was aware when I was about to have one to a point where I could tell someone in the room and lay down before having one, I wasnt allowed to legally drive still, not until I went a year without a seizure from medication (9 years without one now thank you science) 😁
I absolutely love how condescending these people are while talking about their "disorders." Like anyone who questions her for claiming to have had DID as a baby is a moron while she spouts off some of the dumbest crap you've ever heard
The thought of a baby dissociating 💀
@@puchipuchi808 she's been dissociating since she was in the womb!
I mean... 150 PLUS ETC.... wow. 🙄
You made my night... I needed to laugh.. thanks Ablaze
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Stimming isn't exactly uncontrollable, it's difficult to control. It's a response to stress or strong emotions to help self regulate so it doesn't end well for me if I try not to. It's not only a response to overstimulation but often is.
So I get you do this for entertainment and I don't blame you for the content, but I really just want to deck all these kids because this bs is insulting and frustration to people who actually deal with this stuff
just fyi stimming isn't really uncontrollable, but it's kind of like breathing... you just kind of do it, but you can also be conscious of it and control it, but usually you just do it without thinking.
I’m autistic and agree with this statement. Just wanted to let you know sadly he don’t care. He’s done previously lots of videos calling out creators who haven’t faked autism yet called them the r slur as well as mocked autistic stimming as well as sensory issues
Agreed all the way up until saying the r word is “just a word”. It would’ve made more sense to say that, that word just doesn’t bother u but to say it’s just a word disregarding what it means or makes other people feel, insinuates there aren’t meaning behind certain words including slurs lol. Just say it doesn’t offend YOU therefore u don’t care if people say it but to say it and then say it’s just a word as if it doesn’t have a meaning and make fun of anyone who may feel upset by it, is extremely off putting
So these “head mates” are they just characters they’ve made up daydreaming? That really seems like what it is. I do that. I think most people do that. That’s just daydreaming, not DID.
Stimming is not just moving your whole body or anything like that. Stimming is "self-stimulating behaviour". It is actually something that some people with autism or ADHD do to calm their sensory systems, some as to not overload and some when they are overloaded. Some do it when under stimulated, too.
My son has autism and ADHD and he does different stims depending on why he is doing it. He whistles as a happy stim, clicks his tongue to reduce stress and spins around / walks around in a circle when is is overloaded. So /technically/ she is right about the whole "dancing can be stimming".
hi!!! yes, stimming is a way to self regulate, however it’s not necessarily ‘moving your whole body uncontrollably’. even neurotypical people can stim, just to a lesser degree! lots of repetitive behaviours can be stimming. it can be something as subtle as finger tapping or knee bouncing, which a lot of people happen to do unconsciously when they’re nervous (not always, just a very common example!). common stims seen in neurodivergent people can be hand flapping, rocking and spinning. they can even be vocal, echolalia can also be a form of stimming in which a person repeats what they hear. it doesn’t have to involve the whole body!
Or in my case, scratching and gouging at my hairline or biting the skin on my fingers till I bleed! So quirky 😊
im diagnosed with trichotillomania & dermatillomania so i can kind of relate 😅. however it’s a compulsion/urge rather than a stim personally! i hope you can get the help you need to reduce its severity. :)
nah my favorite thing has got to be the fact that you respect everyone's pronouns even if they're being dumb fakers who only want clout. Honestly I respect you so much for that.
I stim (finger tapping). But I don't conduct a f-ing orchestra 🤣
Also "Santa didn't bring me an Autism diagnosis"... 😂WTF is wrong with these people?! Why do you want one?! It's NOT quirky, and it's NOT fun! Have mine, you'll find out!
Off-topic, but what game is Ablaze playing? I'd love to give it a try.
As someone with a neurological disorder (familial Hemiplegic migraines with absence seizures) that come on with warning symptoms that give me at most 5 minutes, I CANNOT drive. It is NOT safe. If that person really has seizures, they need to stop driving because they’re endangering themselves and others. It’s a hard pill to swallow, but it’s necessary. If they’re faking - c’mon, at least commit to the bit hun 🙄
The new and improved headspace person just made room by removing their brain lol
yo ablaze have you ever seen the documentary 'the city that caught tourettes'? i just dont know what to think of it, im curious to know what you think :') its on youtube btw
The person that was " on the run" literally caught themselves up saying "ppl commenting on my... our. Our platonic partner video " 😅😂😂😂😂😂 bro come on
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Lets go my nerotypical friends lets confuse the fakers shall we, unmask how you really fell inside 321
" 😟 (AAAAAAAAAAA i just wanna go home be with my cat but i have to pay my bills so i must work myself to death under a capitalist opressive system AAAAAAAA)"
For the seizure one: that's just selfish. I have non epileptic seizures that don't show up on EEGs and have had them since I was 16, and like... there is NO way I should be allowed to drive, and neither should that person. Especially if they're triggered by light sensitivity. If they don't have it medically recognized on their history that's the fault of their neurologist, but as someone with NES, my neuro does Not want me behind the wheel unless I'm legally passing the requirements of seizure-free activity (my state it's six months seizure free, which I have not been since they've started). The *only* situation I could see them being able to drive is if they qualify under the amount of time seizure free for their state, which tends to be a number of months, up to a year.
I used to have colored hair but I didn't want to be grouped in with these people so I've gone back to my natural color (this is a joke, I just got sick of bright colored hair)
How can I dislike a TikTok in a UA-cam video without having a TikTok? This is appalling as someone who was diagnosed as autistic at 9 and immediately put into ABA and then put in foster care when my mom did not want to try to parent an autistic teen at 14.
I have cptsd. That's not how disassociation works. Most of the time i have to force myself out of it if i even realize it's happening. Your brain gets so overwhelmed it just checks out.
So I have diagnosed tourettes and possible conversion disorder (fnd) and or epilepsyand I can’t/ am not allowed to drive. And tbh I don’t think it’s safe she should drive either but yeah you can have a seizure with out it being epilepsy. Called non epileptic seizures
I have a different style of seizures and I can't drive. Her trying to explain spuedo seizures irks me so much. Cus that's not how it works. I feel my seizures come on cus mine are myoclonic (I have a seizure but don't pass out it kinda looks like tic)
I think the only one I disagree with in this video Is the woman talking about Autism And the body. She wasn't saying that she has scoliosis, She said that people who have autism are more likely to have scoleosis.Her series is more about physical symptoms that can come along with autism versus. "Oh I have this therefore I have autism"
As an actual DIAGNOSED Autistic individual with a cocktail of disorders I cant imagine wanting an autism diagnosis because its quirky
I wanted my autism diagnosis because I felt like I was going crazy and had no idea why I was struggling so hard in school or with my friends! The diagnosis gives me some safety and understanding in myself and I still struggle with being cruel to myself on the daily
Quirky my fucking ass if you ACTUALLY had the disorders you wouldn't be using them as an asthetic piece 😒
I also have many people in my head that live in my own other world that I use as a personal escape from reality (no they are not alters, I dont have DID) but one of those characters I have is a small guy named Yuki who has stunted growth and DID, he has one alter Yami. Yuki was abused by his older sibling when he was young and Yami eventually formed to protect him, Yuki often behaves like a younger kid and is often treated like a little kid by his younger siblings despite being the oldest of the remaining siblings at 31 years old, theres actual conflict between Yami and his siblings and they arent different personalities, more like two sides of the same coin, Yami exists to protect Yuki from further harm and trauma and as a result can be snarky and mean to the people around him, but will soften around those hes comfortable with and shares Yuki's core values
this likely is not an accurate depiction of DID and It's not meant to be fully accurate or pass, this is my understanding of DID taken form in one of my characters
Also I dont see the people in my head as Characters I see them as real people who just exist within my mental world, to me they are real people with real lives, yes I can invent them and change their stories but that doesnt make them any less real to me
I love that their basically saying that either their family or someone close repeatedly traumatized them. Peope are gonna think the family first anyways😊
The solution to the problem of introducing new head-space is easy: Battle Royale, last one of the 170+ standing gets the whole thing.
I had a traumatic birth. Was in the NICU very sick for a bit. Guess what, I don't remember it. There for there is no traumatic memories.
As someone with non-photosensitive epilepsy and absent seizures i can confirm, at least in the UK, you need to ve comoletely seizure free for at least a year before being allowed to apply for your licence and learn to drive.
And as an active driver if you have a seizure you have to hand in your licence until you are again seizure free for a year
As somebody with diagnosed with Epilepsy, you're not allowed to drive until at least 6 months since your last seizure.
I have an older cousin that has seizures. Some get bad and others are goofy. He's around 27 I believe or 28. He can no longer drive after totaling 2 vehicles. Im not sure what sets him off and it can be scary at times since his personality does a complete shift from joking and laughing to dead ass serious with a murderous gaze. Hard to really explain. They last anywhere from a few minutes to over an hour. He usually has a certain phrase he sticks to when he's having one which is "awhhh shit" kinda on repeat. He can't work anymore since they happen so randomly. Sucks to see people joking about them. It completely ruined his life
Most times, I don't know I have a seizure until after they are over. But there are definitely auras and signs. But yeah... interesting. Lol
Ablaze ❤❤
As an epileptic person, I don't understand why you would want to drive if there is a risk of having a seizure at the wheel. I don't ever want to drive, even if I haven't had one in years.
legally ppl with seizures cannot drive.. my boyfriend has epilepsy and he has to be seizure free for months to be able to drive
Yet again using the r word. I’m autistic myself but using the word is harmful. You can say it’s just a word but then that just says a lot bout u
All these kids do have severe mental health issue's, but none of the ones they claim to have. So offensive.
Do you know anything about all of this is that masking is an actual term that people with autism use.
I have awful news I just got diagnosed with "Etc"!
hi I was diagnosed by a psychiatrist for asd. Stimming can be dancing and singing as I do that.
grow a beard , it looks good on ya ;) ... and um nice video !
I'd imagine a full beard on Ablaze will make him look like a wizard. Pretty cool tbh
noo don't do that to him 😢
16:43 as a person with grand mal seizures, you cannot have a drivers license after 6 months of having a seizure point, blank, period. It doesn’t matter if you’re very safe at your driving.
Where I live it’s a year after your most recent seizure
Why is it none of them claim to have down syndrome 🤔🤔
reality is gonna hit these kids like a brick someday.
Everyone's just like "so happy you uploaded a new video!", but has no idea that it's a reupload.
IKR? 😂 Just shows how stupid the fakedisordercringe echo chamber really is. And so desperate for bullying. The subreddit must be slow.
You're OC isn't a seperate personality.
The deadpan "you literally did not have to make this video," fucking killed me.
I am glad etc is being talked about more. As I've been suffering from etc since childhood.. I hope we get a flag soon.