Division of labor, having a girl, and my future on social media (Q&A!) | The Real Stuff

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  • @luciebfink
    @luciebfink  5 місяців тому +3

    Here is a link to the mental load tracker template: docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1GKLHgVUVZFrCWp3_e_OGX9Ybt6jbF5MS1wtEN-8dE8M/edit?usp=sharing. When you go to that link, just go to File -> Make a Copy to create your own! Then you'll be able to add in your own tasks, assign the categories, and decide who owns what. Enjoyyyy 🤍😌

  • @meeradave6012
    @meeradave6012 5 місяців тому +17

    Hi Lucie! Love your podcast! It would be really interesting if you brought on a guest that’s childfree by choice! Would love to hear their perspective

    • @luciebfink
      @luciebfink  5 місяців тому +4

      Working on this!!!!❤

  • @abbottdowns
    @abbottdowns 5 місяців тому +18

    A yearlong detox from social media sounds so interesting! Maybe you could trial run the idea with one month first and see how it goes/beta test some of the potential engagement ideas. Love the idea and am here for it!

    • @luciebfink
      @luciebfink  5 місяців тому +3

      🎉🎉 so smart

    • @baileybeeeee
      @baileybeeeee 5 місяців тому

      @@luciebfink It could also be a seasonal/three-month thing that happens every year. An annual "spring cleaning" of sorts. Detox your social media, detox your mind. It would be something to look forward to and account for in your finances and annual decision-making.

  • @jj-if6it
    @jj-if6it 5 місяців тому +1

    I have to admit I'm pretty dubious about naturopaths. I guess it can't hurt if they're used in conjunction with mainstream doctors

  • @alishamyers68
    @alishamyers68 5 місяців тому +7

    Yes more info about natropath doctor

  • @MeganLarabee
    @MeganLarabee 5 місяців тому +2

    I would be so into a year off of social media but still having a community. But I also agree that beta testing for one month like the other commenter said would be great. Would even be cool to maybe do it twice in a year and build up to the full year eventually. That would give a bunch of people the opportunity to try it out and build buy in to the idea. Not to mention a year feels really daunting as a participant especially with a high price tag

  • @heastwell91
    @heastwell91 5 місяців тому +2

    Hi Lucie, big fan of your UA-cam videos, have been for years. Are you focusing on podcast from now on? Noticing that other UA-cam videos haven’t been coming out recently 😢

    • @luciebfink
      @luciebfink  5 місяців тому +1

      For at least right now while we get the podcast moving, I don’t have the bandwidth to make regular UA-cam videos! But nothing is forever!!❤

  • @cd2659
    @cd2659 5 місяців тому +2

    I'm soooo glad I got swimmers. 😂 our only family vacations are camping so if they weren't swimmers, it would have been miserable.

  • @annika4989
    @annika4989 5 місяців тому +2

    The whole "Don't you feel like missing out?" rhetoric is very similar to 'there is always someone better out there" in current dating culture which makes people constantly swipe looking for the next person rather than invest time and feelings into their current date/partner.

  • @jj-if6it
    @jj-if6it 5 місяців тому

    I really think all our dependance on devices and social media is bad for us. I was quite happy before smart phones, and read a lot more! I'd like to try a digital detox but more like a week at first rather than a year, it might just be too much haha. I honestly think I might be fine without Instagram etc if I could still watch UA-cam videos, as it's just like TV.

  • @jj-if6it
    @jj-if6it 5 місяців тому

    If you like a name the best, I would just use it! Personally I don't think it matters too much if they "don't match" as they're individuals. It never really crossed my mind before to have siblings with similar style names

  • @jj-if6it
    @jj-if6it 5 місяців тому

    Two kids: a boy and a girl. Perfect! That's what I would want, one of each and then you're happy whether you stop or not haha

  • @sweetygirl165
    @sweetygirl165 5 місяців тому

    The remarks about money do make me wonder if you really understand the concept of breadwinner - if both parties make a lot of money, it doesn’t become nearly as threatening as when someone has to rely on the income of their wife to pay bills at the end of the month. 🙏🏼

  • @jj-if6it
    @jj-if6it 5 місяців тому

    Wait when did you announce you were having a girl?! So exciting! I just noticed it on Insta

  • @jj-if6it
    @jj-if6it 5 місяців тому

    You put a lot of thought and consideration into names, I bet a lot of parents don't LOL

  • @jj-if6it
    @jj-if6it 5 місяців тому

    Charlotte is pretty popular at the moment; my friend also named her daughter that. I kinda prefer less common ones

  • @heloisebrunet330
    @heloisebrunet330 5 місяців тому +1

    Hy Lucie, you gave such a good laugh about the Daily Mail!! The Fink family seems to be born to create historical quotes in the mail, this is the best father-daughter moment 🤣
    I can't wait for the baby gender episode, having 3 boys, this is definitly something we had to tackle!

  • @CanadianChick811
    @CanadianChick811 5 місяців тому +1

    Just throwing the name Gemma out there, LOL. My older brother's name is Michael (sounds kinda "Milo" ish) and my folks picked it cause the names went together.

  • @katiekyser5719
    @katiekyser5719 5 місяців тому +1

    My Modern Bread and Bagel shipment is arriving today!! I'm moving to NYC in December and I expect to single handedly fund their store xD

  • @jj-if6it
    @jj-if6it 5 місяців тому

    LOL that Daily Mail moment...

  • @amyjohnson9996
    @amyjohnson9996 5 місяців тому +1

    Hi Lucie! I love the idea of a year off social media! I did this a bit last year but without a timeline and took around 3 or 4 months off. I loved it and would love a community to do this with. I know of other influencers who have taken months at a time off of social media for other reasons and to an outsider it seems like they kept a good size of their platform! You could also try a shorter version of it with maybe a month or 3 months etc instead of a full year!

  • @jj-if6it
    @jj-if6it 5 місяців тому

    I've never changed a diaper either!

  • @Kianaonyoutube
    @Kianaonyoutube 5 місяців тому +1

    That article and your family’s reaction is hilarious 😂😂

  • @Marria11
    @Marria11 5 місяців тому +1

    Yea Lucie pls make more of your hip- hop daces😊❤ and thank you so much for your hard work and also for the video❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @FikayomiLawal
    @FikayomiLawal 5 місяців тому +1

    pls can u send more of those ur hip-hop dances. It has been a long time

  • @abril561
    @abril561 5 місяців тому

    I like your "year off social media" idea... but start small! A whole year is a lot to commit to. Both as a subscriber and as a producer. You would have to produce a lot of content a year in advance. Start with a two week program. Maybe a month. To experiment and to flesh out the weak points of your idea.

  • @alexandraviloteau2958
    @alexandraviloteau2958 5 місяців тому

    Great video, and congrats on baby #2! Which sleep book did you follow? This sounds a bit like the "Moms on Call" that my family followed in the beginning. Thanks!

  • @justynab.8601
    @justynab.8601 5 місяців тому

    If this helps make you feel better about managing two kiddos sleeping schedule, our first one was on a rigid schedule like the one you described for Milo, and she was a terrible sleeper. Colics, 15min day naps max, frequent wakings at night up until almost 1 year old etc. Baby #2 was an amazing sleeper from day 1 before we even had a chance to implement any schedule. He’s 8 mos now and still very flexible with his schedule and wonderful sleeper. Hope that’s the case for your family too ❤

  • @cd2659
    @cd2659 5 місяців тому

    Not sure if the year off social media would work. I would not join at this point.

  • @otg247
    @otg247 5 місяців тому

    Love the no social media year 😍

  • @birdie6916
    @birdie6916 5 місяців тому

    Enjoyable and interesting, Lucie! As a yoga instructor and meditation specialist and pranayama teacher in training, I really like your wellness idea. How would you lead this charge? Would you get different certifications or would you hire others with these credentials to lead these tasks? Not looking for a job, LOL, just curious what you're thinking.

    • @luciebfink
      @luciebfink  5 місяців тому +1

      Hire & collaborate with experts who wanted social promotion & potential future client leads!

  • @darcibarreto7756
    @darcibarreto7756 5 місяців тому

    Bom dia Lucie ❤❤❤