The OP's mom has lost her right to call herself a mother because she wasn't one in the first place for sure and never will plus she's forgotten about an old saying:every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child and that reality suits her perfectly well big time plus for her paternal uncle he should be ashamed of himself for what he did to his own brother before he died by having an affair with his sister in law and marrying her after his brother's death, shameless, disrespectful and inhumane as well plus for him to ask his parents for both forgiveness and financial assistance is totally absurd as well, let's hope that if he does get what he wants,he doesn't blow it big time for good measure and his niece leave both him and her bio mom behind period.
I can't really tell you what you should do. I can only tell you what I think you should do. If it had been me in your situation I wouldn't have gone to see Julia and I wouldn't be talking to her just be happy would the parents and family members that love you and care about you but I do feel that you should just go no contact with your mom and your dad's uncle.
I envy her mother for having a choice . Here in ireland, due to Catholic morality, when i was born in 1975, adoptions were forced. No single mother could keep a child . Worse case scenario, a mother could end up in a mother and baby home or magdelene laundry, where babies died .
The OP's mom has lost her right to call herself a mother because she wasn't one in the first place for sure and never will plus she's forgotten about an old saying:every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child and that reality suits her perfectly well big time plus for her paternal uncle he should be ashamed of himself for what he did to his own brother before he died by having an affair with his sister in law and marrying her after his brother's death, shameless, disrespectful and inhumane as well plus for him to ask his parents for both forgiveness and financial assistance is totally absurd as well, let's hope that if he does get what he wants,he doesn't blow it big time for good measure and his niece leave both him and her bio mom behind period.
I can't really tell you what you should do. I can only tell you what I think you should do. If it had been me in your situation I wouldn't have gone to see Julia and I wouldn't be talking to her just be happy would the parents and family members that love you and care about you but I do feel that you should just go no contact with your mom and your dad's uncle.
OP should should tell her mother to cry me a river, go NC with her. Get therapy. Get a restraining order. Mom is a psycho!
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I envy her mother for having a choice . Here in ireland, due to Catholic morality, when i was born in 1975, adoptions were forced. No single mother could keep a child . Worse case scenario, a mother could end up in a mother and baby home or magdelene laundry, where babies died .
I could've sworn it said son at the beginning and now it's saying daughter I'm confused.
Yeah they are very confusing