My Mother is Demanding That I Get Rid Of My Wife's Pregnancy Because My Sister Can't Have Children..

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  • @DeidresStuff
    @DeidresStuff Місяць тому +302

    So two adults in a stable marriage, both gainfully employed with savings in the bank, should abort their child because sister wants to be first? I can't even with some people.

    • @MarionRobbins
      @MarionRobbins 14 днів тому

      its a fake story how are you falling for this???

  • @vamaranthus4555
    @vamaranthus4555 2 місяці тому +624

    OPs mom should never be allowed to see the grandchild. Asking OP to abort should be made public every time she pressures a meeting

    • @Mop222
      @Mop222 2 місяці тому +49

      Yep, I would tell that child what their grandma had wanted. I would never let the mom and sister near my kid. Are there really such people in this world?

    • @erinstanger416
      @erinstanger416 Місяць тому +12

      Yes it’s very common for women to be pressured into having an abortion.

    • @mirandaandrews2872
      @mirandaandrews2872 Місяць тому +1

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @emmamae1960
      @emmamae1960 Місяць тому +8

      That was my thought, too. Move far away, break contact. Period.

    • @ZimVader-0017
      @ZimVader-0017 Місяць тому +12

      ​@erinstanger416 Which is why women cannot lose their rights to their bodies and why Roe v Wade being overturned is horrible.
      I've seen both phenomenons:
      - People pressuring women to get pregnant (The clock's ticking!, You'll regret it later!, I want grandchildren!)
      - People pressuring abortion because it's not convenient for THEM, example the story in the video, and all of those "men" who got their mistresses pregnant and don't want the wife to find out or pay child support.

  • @atl7368
    @atl7368 2 місяці тому +531

    Well if it’s any comfort for the sister, Op cant get pregnant either 😂😂

  • @pixie_the_rabbit6833
    @pixie_the_rabbit6833 2 місяці тому +206

    Buddy, your family is sick!! Please, don't let your family anywhere near your wife and baby. Move them far, far away! Your pregnant wife is in danger. Your baby's life is in danger and will continue to be after being born.

  • @DrownedInExile
    @DrownedInExile 2 місяці тому +221

    Ending a pregnancy is not a decision to be made lightly. Mom even asking that just to spare her precious golden brat's feewings??? Who freaking does that? Glad OP went NC instantly, but he should have gotten her to ask in text, and outed her to everyone. Glad the father is on OP's side, but he should throw his wife out with his bratty daughter.

    • @RRelationshipTales
      @RRelationshipTales 17 днів тому +3

      Absolutely! That kind of request is not only unreasonable but emotionally manipulative. Good on OP for standing their ground.

    • @MarionRobbins
      @MarionRobbins 14 днів тому

      its a fake story

  • @GillianBergh
    @GillianBergh 2 місяці тому +147

    If someone demand you kill your baby, being 'a bit harsh to them', is nothing.

  • @slyph63
    @slyph63 2 місяці тому +129

    How dare that old bat call the op selfish after she dared to ask her son to abort his child to make his selfish narcissistic sister feel better. You were right in what you said. Some people should be told the truth

    • @GillianBergh
      @GillianBergh 2 місяці тому

      If the sister can't get pregnant - it steers me towards agnosticism - that maybe there is a God. OP's egg donor should have no 'grandparent rights.' A normal woman would not expect one of her children to abort any children until their favourite manages to get pregnant. I would not trust them to harm the child if they have any access.

  • @66DoodleGal
    @66DoodleGal Місяць тому +22

    “We want to be involved in the child’s life!”
    “The child you wanted dead? Are you dying of dementia???”

  • @sallymander7863
    @sallymander7863 Місяць тому +60

    I wasn’t fortunate enough to have children, it hurt very much especially when I heard about other people having babies - but I never thought that other people should stop having children for my sake. Incredible. 😳😡

    • @trenae77
      @trenae77 Місяць тому +9

      Same here on never getting pregnant. I told my friends that God gave me healing every time they let me share in their joy. Be it time spent with little ones or witnessing moments shared on Facebook.

    • @SailorMusicCat
      @SailorMusicCat Місяць тому

      I have genetic disorders that mean it'd probably be a bad idea not only for my own health(especially as I also have mental disorders...one of which despite what studies say has *never* skipped a generation in the family that I likely couldn't stay on meds for and just...Bad Idea) but it'd be a 50/50 chance if the kid inherited the disorder and while my brother has some signs but is mostly fine Mom, who we inherited it from, and I are badly disabled. I'd wanted to have a kid of my own(that I birthed although if I was in the situation I would not turn down adoption or the like) since I was a little girl so recognizing this was a devestating moment. Even now it sometimes hurts despite it being years since I first realized this. Sure maybe it'd hurt sometimes because feelings are like that but I would never try to tell someone, especially family!, they couldn't have a baby because I shouldn't! Just absolutely horrible.

    • @RRelationshipTales
      @RRelationshipTales 17 днів тому +2

      That’s heartbreaking, I can't imagine the pain of not being able to have children. It’s so selfish for anyone to think others should stop having babies because of that.

  • @InspirationalTrueStories69
    @InspirationalTrueStories69 2 місяці тому +63

    OP's mother should not be allowed to have any contact with the grandchild. It’s unacceptable for her to pressure OP into considering abortion, and any time she tries to arrange a meeting, that request should be publicly acknowledged. Her behavior needs to be held accountable.

  • @lunaskye621
    @lunaskye621 27 днів тому +8

    I’m disgusted that the mother would suggest killing an unborn child just to pacify a spoiled brat. My god, people are disgusting.

  • @amyshehi4731
    @amyshehi4731 2 місяці тому +82

    She wanted to kill her grandchild. Unforgivable.

  • @MH_Prof
    @MH_Prof 2 місяці тому +65

    Honey, tell your mother she doesn’t get a vote on whether or not this pregnancy goes forth. She’s got a lot of nerve. Shut her down now. Your sister’s infertility has nothing to do with your child. You’re right, that was absurd. Time for your sister to grow waaay up.

  • @LittleMissEmerald
    @LittleMissEmerald Місяць тому +50

    Thats not a grandmother. Thats a plotter of unalivement

  • @claireleone
    @claireleone 2 місяці тому +74

    Its nobodys fault she cant get pregnant.. As for the mother , id never speak to her again

    • @darylgreenway8137
      @darylgreenway8137 Місяць тому +16

      Yeah she actually expected them to kill their baby so their sister wouldn't feel bad. Talk about psychotic.

    • @stephanien6237
      @stephanien6237 Місяць тому

      There’s no evidence that she can’t ever get pregnant. I am doubting the suppose medical work up, given that they seem to only be evaluating the sister and not her husband as well about 50% of infertility due to the wife 40% to the husband and 10% to aspects of both of them.

  • @anime_____lover942
    @anime_____lover942 2 місяці тому +45

    I feel sorry for op dad having to put up with this he really didn't do anything but support op

  • @candaceowens455
    @candaceowens455 Місяць тому +18

    They may try to hurt your children after they’re born.

  • @judithann1570
    @judithann1570 Місяць тому +25

    Don't ever...and I do mean EVER let those two people near your child. EVER!!

  • @luzzapata5472
    @luzzapata5472 2 місяці тому +24

    Guy, your mother is a monster. Happy you are strong. It's not your business, your sister is infertile

  • @saundrahuff5870
    @saundrahuff5870 2 місяці тому +62

    It may be the edible, but am I the only one that freaked out a bit over the teddy bear squish face?

    • @pixie_the_rabbit6833
      @pixie_the_rabbit6833 2 місяці тому +10

      OMG putting that poor teddy into the destructo machine! I wash them in Lysol disinfecting laundry additive, dry them, and give them away...

    • @carolroberts4614
      @carolroberts4614 2 місяці тому +7

      That came up just as I read your comment! That was awful, and so unnecessary!

    • @dkat8087
      @dkat8087 2 місяці тому +3

      No, watching the stuff being done to Teddy Bears in the video is disgusting, even for someone who used to work in a Candy factory🤨

    • @Hinatachan360
      @Hinatachan360 Місяць тому +3

      It looked disturbing to me

    • @itz_r1nn_x
      @itz_r1nn_x Місяць тому +4

      That scene hurt broo

  • @rsstenger5113
    @rsstenger5113 Місяць тому +4

    I suggest permanently go no contact with your mother and sister and file for protective order to protect your wife and child. If they are this vile, nothing would guarantee that they will be nice to your wife and child in the future.

  • @Lyonatan
    @Lyonatan Місяць тому +11

    Sounds like OPs adopted or some shit.
    Dad was like "okay." And mum straight up said he shouldnt have kids...
    Honestly im more flabbergasted by the dads reaction.
    In my family any guy who found out they gonna be grandparents went insane woth joy.
    Also Im gonna add, my sister had a dozen miscarriages before my brothers wife got pregnant, and she was the happiest about it. She actually got pregnant and gave birth a year later, after 15 years of trying at the age of 40.

  • @dramastories8888
    @dramastories8888 Місяць тому +5

    That's an unbelievably difficult and unfair situation. Your family's joy and future shouldn't be compromised because of someone else's circumstances. Wishing you strength as you stand by your wife and baby!

  • @mandydavidson6694
    @mandydavidson6694 Місяць тому +8

    Say... 'Goodbye Mother you are out of our lives' !

  • @corycrawford1770
    @corycrawford1770 2 місяці тому +14

    So, we’re being shown a video of a child’s toy bear being put into a grinder while listening to a story about a woman wanting her daughter in law to get an abortion? WTF?

  • @stephanien6237
    @stephanien6237 Місяць тому +3

    It’s funny hearing narcissists accuse others of narcissism. 😂

  • @aquafebiblue93
    @aquafebiblue93 Місяць тому +2

    These people don't even know wtf narcissism is to be throwing that word around 😹

  • @CarbonFiber-u6t
    @CarbonFiber-u6t 2 місяці тому +21

    1:50 poor teddy

    • @cathyjolivet
      @cathyjolivet 2 місяці тому +4

      Sorrows, sorrows, prayers

    • @carolroberts4614
      @carolroberts4614 2 місяці тому +1

      RIP Big Ted!

    • @Zozette27
      @Zozette27 Місяць тому +2

      The teddy being murdered was more upsetting than the story. RIP teddy.

  • @Onezie1995
    @Onezie1995 Місяць тому +10

    Infertility is a sad issue but I stand by opinion that if you can’t be happy for others getting pregnant and having tantrums about it then you don’t deserve to have children

  • @develyntwocentshenderson5739
    @develyntwocentshenderson5739 Місяць тому +4

    "asking for help with baabbbeee"... amazing how these girls seem to think they are entitled to help from family. ha

  • @SamanthaCox-ow3dp
    @SamanthaCox-ow3dp Місяць тому +1

    I can't imagine ending by unborn childs life just to make my sister happy.

  • @Elithrae
    @Elithrae Місяць тому +3

    When they called him a narcissist, I cackled. Because Mom & sister are absolutely narcs. Mommy raised a Mini-Me. And yeah, Dad should be divorcing the Mom, tbh. If my partner told our kid to get an abortion for ANY REASON other than SAID KID WANTS SAID ABORTION and needs support *or their life is in danger but they are strugglign to make the call,* I would divorce them, zero question.

  • @jtb357
    @jtb357 Місяць тому +7

    I doubt this story is true. However if it is, fact is stranger than fiction sometimes, ending a pregnancy is not up to just the man. It is not like a car you "get rid" off. So ridiculous.

  • @ShakepearesDaughter
    @ShakepearesDaughter 5 днів тому

    You spoke the truth. No apologies necessary. Hold your ground. Bullies love to twist things around. And of course get sympathy. Sick system. Stay no contact.

  • @RedditSleepWhisper-j9n
    @RedditSleepWhisper-j9n Місяць тому +1

    It’s deeply troubling when family members impose their own desires or expectations on such personal decisions, especially one as sensitive as a pregnancy. In this case, the mother’s demand disregards both the couple’s happiness and the sanctity of their choice to start a family. Supporting the sister in her own journey is important, but it should never come at the cost of another’s family and well-being

  • @DawnCibelli
    @DawnCibelli Місяць тому +3

    When I read a story like this, I can't help but pray that it's made up and not real. While my family had no angels, I can't even comprehend this level of toxicity (is that even a word?). Sure we had fights and said mean things to each other, and had periods of time when some siblings wouldn't talk to each other, but in the end, we're still family, and would help each of if really needed.

  • @msj793
    @msj793 Місяць тому +3

    Honey you talked to her longer than I would have. The way I would have hung that phone up🙄. Ridiculous!

  • @RobertAnderson-xp4mo
    @RobertAnderson-xp4mo 2 місяці тому +13

    I hope that this story is fiction, because I cannot believe that there are people like the mother who would say something so cruel.
    Looking at this situation from another angle, why didn't OP inform the two nasty women that since he is the older sibling, he should have the first 'grandchild.' I'd bet that would really change the discussion.
    Props to the dad for keeping out of this insane request, and to the sister's husband for divorcing her, and to OP and his wife for going NC with the evil mother.

    • @OfficerJohn112
      @OfficerJohn112 2 місяці тому +1

      there are actually families out there who do this

    • @Hinatachan360
      @Hinatachan360 Місяць тому

      Mark Hamil pressured his son's finance to abort his grandchild, so yes, it does happen

  • @SoliacTrahkorsky
    @SoliacTrahkorsky Місяць тому +1

    Lmaoo im GLAD the sister can't get pregnant. I cant imagine what the child would be dealing with

  • @Queen-Blue
    @Queen-Blue Місяць тому +1

    Blocked 🚫 and NO CONTACT!!!
    That's IT... That's ALL!!!

  • @jacquieowen5340
    @jacquieowen5340 Місяць тому +1

    And if it was the other way round, would she tell your sister the same, enjoy your child.

  • @BraveryWing26
    @BraveryWing26 7 днів тому

    "I cant prioritize my family" YOUR WIFE AND CHILD ARE YOUR FAMILY OP.

  • @JenniferJohnson-l3r
    @JenniferJohnson-l3r 2 місяці тому +13

    @10:23
    Nice come back OP.
    Some people aren't allowed to breed bc something is wrong with them inside and outside. Just rotten humans. Especially that birth mother 🤮

    • @stephanien6237
      @stephanien6237 Місяць тому

      No. Not a “nice comeback”. But a low dig. OP sunk so low with such an awful taunt and is rightfully ashamed.

  • @NessieNice
    @NessieNice Місяць тому +2

    "Let me see my grandchild!"
    "Before you wanted him aborted, now you might wanna kill him. So no."

  • @Maggie-h1j
    @Maggie-h1j Місяць тому +7

    A year and a half is not a lot of time to try and get pregnant! The sister calling herself infertile is premature!

    • @jeannettecampbell8862
      @jeannettecampbell8862 Місяць тому +1

      Sister is definitely overreacting about being infertile. Did sis’s husband/boyfriend get a full work up or just her? That doesn’t give her any right to be a monster

  • @KristenCrosariol
    @KristenCrosariol 2 місяці тому +3

    Yes, what you said about your sister not being able to have a child was harsh, but considering the situation and what they were putting you and your wife through it’s understandable how you said something out of frustration and anger. I really wouldn’t dwell on it if you feel the need to block them from your life for a while then do so concentrate on your wife, your baby and the happy family that you want to build maybe in the future your mother will see what she was asking you to do was unacceptable and horrible, and you your sister in time may come to regret how she had treated you through your life. but for now, worry about your family and what you need to build a stable and happy home for your child

  • @Allie_phelps
    @Allie_phelps Місяць тому +3

    I don’t think in any way what he said was wrong. He was 100% right. He maybe could’ve picked better wording but… who would think of better wording when the mother told him to end his child’s life because “poor sister” can’t get pregnant or deserves to be pregnant first even though she younger. Maybe the mother should learn not to be a narcissist because she is the real narcissist in this whole story. I’d bury them in social media with the whole truth and let everyone decide who’s the real asshat

  • @mariewilliams3524
    @mariewilliams3524 Місяць тому +1

    OP I will also invite you to get a lawyer and keep documents of her because this sounds crazy

  • @Tabi_12UrGirl
    @Tabi_12UrGirl 2 дні тому

    That sounds horrible and the teddy bear getting shredded made me cry 😢

  • @nayanar3658
    @nayanar3658 Місяць тому +1

    Why is no one talking about that poor teddy bear!!!!

  • @saramccormack3025
    @saramccormack3025 Місяць тому +4

    Both mother n sister r showin their truly ugly selfish side th@ is entitled n narcissistic. If the mother carries on she'll lose her husband 2.

  • @ethanhanover3263
    @ethanhanover3263 2 місяці тому +5

    She's absolutely a failure as op's mom. No good mom would make their son abort their future child

  • @rM-xk9ob
    @rM-xk9ob Місяць тому

    Move away if you can, do not never every let your sister or Mother near your wife or child. They are dangerous.

  • @GillianBergh
    @GillianBergh 2 місяці тому +1

    The mother knows damn well that what she told her son to do was wrong. If she truly felt it was all right, then why not tell the rest of the family ? They'd understand? Right? {NOT!}

  • @marymorris6897
    @marymorris6897 Місяць тому

    Twelve minutes into the story OP says he blew up when they pushed him to the limit. This is a standard narcissistic tactic, to push someone to the limit. Then when they blow up, you feel justified and blame everything on them. Yeah, a friend I had did that to me. She had hidden her hostility for many years, then let it out in a most underhanded and deceitful way.

  • @jemase7931
    @jemase7931 Місяць тому

    The sister wasn't the one who said the thing to him. The mother was. The sister was just off living her own life. She wasn't contacting him , but he wasn't contacting her, either

  • @candaceowens455
    @candaceowens455 Місяць тому +2

    Also, what pregnancy? You said terminate the baby. That’s what she did. There is no grandchild in existence for “Her” .

  • @develyntwocentshenderson5739
    @develyntwocentshenderson5739 Місяць тому +1

    from what I see 'happy faaamily' is a total and complete lie. the damage an unbalanced girl like this would inflict on a child?? no one stops to think about this

  •  Місяць тому +2

    Keep insane mum away from your baby. What sort of grandmother will she be.

  • @Xykscyr
    @Xykscyr 2 місяці тому +3

    I really can't believe this

  • @elisonholace4033
    @elisonholace4033 Місяць тому

    If i were OP the only response the mom would get would be "Since you wanted my son to be aborted you're free to act like he was.".

  • @amandawitherspoon3988
    @amandawitherspoon3988 Місяць тому

    I had to watch this twice. I was enjoying the stuff on the screen so much that I couldn't pay attention to the words. 😊

  • @natalieas8740
    @natalieas8740 Місяць тому

    OPs mother is evil and should never see the child ever!
    The only thing harsh was what OP said about the sisters fertility but was his response to major provocation. Mother hasn't apologised for telling OPs his wife should abort. Sister is bonkers too.

  • @oliviaking9133
    @oliviaking9133 2 місяці тому +9

    Some ppl are nothing but stupid and selfish smhhhh🙄🤣😂

  • @themayhemofmadness7038
    @themayhemofmadness7038 Місяць тому

    OP would be doing harm to his child(ren) if he let those two horrible people anywhere near his child(ren).
    And it’s rich that they call OP narcissistic. If anyone is the narcissist, it’s the mom and sister.

  • @earniemaedeen2703
    @earniemaedeen2703 Місяць тому

    As a mother and grandmother I can not imagine asking one of my children to abort a pregnancy so the sibling can be the first to have a child. That is just completely insane.

  • @thleu5149
    @thleu5149 Місяць тому

    Don't feel too sorry for your dad, he's part of the reason why your sister is so spoiled. He's reaping what he's sowed.

  • @pattimorris3965
    @pattimorris3965 Місяць тому

    If my MIL said that she would Never see that child.

  • @AzolaSibabaliwe
    @AzolaSibabaliwe Місяць тому

    Even if you guys were close, its nits to take such measures to please a family member

  • @AkhtarM28
    @AkhtarM28 Місяць тому

    OP’s mother is a monster. Wanting a child to die before being born because her precious brat cannot get pregnant 😂 come on!

  • @RobinClark-k1q
    @RobinClark-k1q Місяць тому

    Congratulations on the birth of your chubby cuddly bundle of joy and love ❤❤❤😊🎉You have done nothing wrong,block everything you have on your profile and FB 😊

  • @mirandaandrews2872
    @mirandaandrews2872 Місяць тому

    I loth it when people tell the truth then feel guilty about it. Its kindness. Very confused to other acts like generosity. Its telling people who act out on their actions. Telling people what they dont want to hear.

  • @joysgirl
    @joysgirl Місяць тому

    I had to cut a toxic parent out of my life, my father. I endured years and years of mental and emotional abuse that carried over to my husband. Even after an 8-year separation and allowing him yet another chance, it was disasterous. I put him on a plane, gave him a kiss on the forehead and said my final goodbye. He kept trying to call me, leaving abusive msgs, but I rejected all interaction. He passed away this last May; no tears were shed. The weight is gone.

  • @stacy110878
    @stacy110878 Місяць тому

    Here's the thing everybody that's always like I want to have a baby but and they can't have any. But there's ways of becoming a family. There's foster care. There's adoption having a surrogate to have the baby.

  • @GillianBergh
    @GillianBergh 2 місяці тому +1

    I though OP'S Dad was going to leave his toxic wife.

  • @HandlingSmilus
    @HandlingSmilus Місяць тому

    His mother casually describing murder is the West’s Mood.

  • @mmgvii8076
    @mmgvii8076 Місяць тому

    this shit is gonna wind up on smosh 😂😂

  • @UBERBadKitty
    @UBERBadKitty Місяць тому

    Your sister needs therapy. Millions of people cant have kids but you dont see them acting like your sister.

  • @Dewey-f6j
    @Dewey-f6j 2 місяці тому +2

    Keep your sister away from your child.she will harm them.and mom should never be a part of the babies life.loke ever

  • @raquelotero259
    @raquelotero259 Місяць тому +1

    Keep your wife away from your crazy mother

  • @RRelationshipTales
    @RRelationshipTales 17 днів тому

    It's unfortunate that your mother tried to pressure you into making such an unreasonable decision. Your focus on your family and your future is the right choice.

  • @marycleary-qe5ou
    @marycleary-qe5ou Місяць тому

    This is crazy. The sister could be pregnant tomorrow ! You certainly ate entitled to a family.

  • @Kinsfire
    @Kinsfire Місяць тому

    "Mom, why do you want to meet the baby you insist be aborted? You clearly didn't want the boy to exist, so why meet this affront to you now?"

  • @SueMcarthur
    @SueMcarthur Місяць тому +1

    Who does the videos for these? The story doesn’t really go with watching a giant teddy bear going through a shredder!

  • @foxgrrrl
    @foxgrrrl Місяць тому +1

    Not the bear into the grinder :c

  • @lisam5596
    @lisam5596 Місяць тому

    Holy poo! I would never let any of them alone with my children! 😮

  • @adam-f6q2y
    @adam-f6q2y Місяць тому +1

    To make the sister happy op can never be pregnant

    • @lindaefraim5895
      @lindaefraim5895 Місяць тому

      Op can’t get pregnant, he’s a man with no uterus

  • @jumanjiday7970
    @jumanjiday7970 Місяць тому

    Tell them to go away,truly toxic.

  • @Touay.
    @Touay. Місяць тому

    restraining order!!!!

  • @Carls_Other_Eye
    @Carls_Other_Eye 27 днів тому

    THE POOR TEDDY 😭

  • @mmgvii8076
    @mmgvii8076 Місяць тому

    10:22 daaaaaaaamn 💀

  • @The_momur
    @The_momur 2 місяці тому +1

    The mom could just as well commit to gifting the sister and her partner some funds to help cover assisted reproduction, thereby keeping it between her and them, so she can quit bossing OP around with her pushy-ass opinions, which are extremely inappropriate.

  • @michelslaura
    @michelslaura Місяць тому

    This sounds like a soap opera !

  • @GothicDollx3
    @GothicDollx3 Місяць тому +1

    Is.. is no one going to talk about the teddy bear getting ripped apart in the background 😢😭

    • @Zozette27
      @Zozette27 Місяць тому +1

      It upset me more than the story being told.

    • @GothicDollx3
      @GothicDollx3 Місяць тому

      @Zozette27 YES! THANK YOU! It made me so sad. I love teddy bears..

  • @Stephanie-q9o
    @Stephanie-q9o Місяць тому

    Oh no!! She really wants your wife to abort your baby - HER grandchild!!! - because your sister can’t have children?!? She would NEVER be allowed around the baby.

  • @darkfan4706
    @darkfan4706 2 місяці тому +5

    Your mother is a hypocrite.

  • @kristyhughes3146
    @kristyhughes3146 Місяць тому +1

    People don’t get pregnant AT you.

  • @lynettephillip2412
    @lynettephillip2412 11 днів тому

    Terminate a pregnancy because someone can't have a baby! SMH

  • @mariewilliams3524
    @mariewilliams3524 Місяць тому +1

    OP I think you need to prioritize your wife and child's well-being and potassium you need to tell your dad what's going on and I will invite you guys to get a restraining order against your mother who sounds like a psycho and your sister add pastry move somewhere

  • @melissamassey5214
    @melissamassey5214 19 днів тому

    Grandparents don't have rights, only parents do.
    My narcissistic mother pulled this one when CPS deemed she couldn't be around my children without supervision (I was already way ahead of them on that one) after someone on their dads side pulled something questionable and they evaluated some of the fitness of the extended family. Only parents get the rights unless ordered otherwise so the title is incorrect and not valid. We, as parents, can offer them privileges when it comes to their grandchildren and dictate whether or not they have a relationship but, especially from a legal standpoint, there is nothing innate or owed there.
    As a child who grew up around a myriad of harmful people, my children have not suffered from having less familial connections and only having a select handful of unconditional and loving bonds.
    To be a true parent in every sense of the word, you cannot allow your child to have any contact with people like that, and it sounds like you have your priorities in order.
    You need to also accept that your toxic family members will never change and even if they do it won't be a result of anything you do or say. I can also promise you that fighting this battle only results in you losing. This is a very common tactic by these types of people and it's actually a way for them to win for you to expend all this energy doing damage control. Anyone who doesn't side with you or believes this is not worth having in your life anyway so they are doing you a favour. My mother attempts to imply I was abusive (despite mountains of evidence to the contrary).
    Give this no more energy and protect your peace and the peace of those that matter.