Paul, you are so kind and thoughtful in providing this needed information for sweet Jenny, Kyle and others! I’ve followed Jenny for a long time. I cried for them yesterday when they posted their scan results update. I’m keeping you, Jenny and Sarah (the pog family) in my prayers everyday! ❤️🤗🙏
I just started watching your cancer journey tonight. I watched Jenny Apples Journey and the POG family. And I know they both have passed away. I’m praying for you Paul in Perth.
Thank you Paul for your act of kindness to Jenny and Kyle as well as everyone else. It reminds me to get my affairs in order. While I do not have a terminal illness, I am 75 years old with chronic conditions. I can’t believe Sarah and Jenny both have been told they are terminal. Praying for them and anyone else facing cancer. It is certainly a cruel disease. 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you Paul for showing immeasurable kindness to the Pog family as well as Jenny and Kyle. Their journey has been all inspiring as is yours. This information for Jenny and Kyle and everyone really, is so well thought out and I know I will use it when the time comes. Praying for you dear one as always! 💙
Jenny Apple and Sarah POG updates yesterday were truly heartbreaking and my heart goes out to them and their families. Paul you are totally selfless and your advice to tidy up one's personal affairs before passing is so detailed and valuable and I am sure the POG and Apple family will find this invaluable. Thank you for just being your true authentic self and sharing yourself with us all. ❤
First, I would be honored to call you friend, and anytime you want to reach out to me, I would love that! Thank you for the love and shoutout, a few of your cubbies have stopped by to say Hi and I love it! Your list, for Jenny, was absolutely FANTASTIC! My husband was killed, when we were struck head on by a drunk driver in Feb of 2021. His death was instant, and I was critically injured, not expected to survive. My family took all of our important papers from our home, trying to sort through everything. It was very difficult for them. We didn't have ANYTHING in order! No will! Nothing! Now, I have a team of lawyers, one who handles all of this for me, as well as now I have a filing cabinet, with all of my papers in order.....along with passwords and bills and accounts to everything! This is so important! Passwords and links! SO IMPORTANT! You have methodically thought out even more than I have.......and so I will be utilizing your list here to help me and my family even further. THANK YOU!!!!! God Bless you and your purpose/calling in helping so many as you move forward. I am praying feverishly for you my friend! hugs, Heather xoxox. thekneadyhomesteader@gmail.com
Thank you so much Heather. I'm sad with the news of your husband. I've noted your email address if you would like to edit (delete) that bit. We are indeed friends. Paul.
What a lovely video, Paul. I just recently started watching you, but you truly seem like such a beautiful soul. I also watch Jenny Apple's channel and the POG Family. You are all going through such journeys. I am sending you all the love I can muster up!
I've been subscribed to jenny and Sarah forever and the last news within weeks of each other is heartbreaking. You are so invested in helping others and I love you for that. Lots of love from uk.
I'm too, Jenny, Sarah and their husband are so strong and such wonderful people. It's absolutely heartbreaking that both have terminal cancer and that both these families have small children.
I am healthy and 83 years old but at this age nobody knows when they might die or how. I have done all of.the things on your list now before I am ill. I chose to donate my body to a university medical school to do whatever is useful with it. It solves the funeral arrangements problem, it solves the financial expense of a funeral and it does some good too. A future doctor may learn anatomy or surgical techniques and save lives and maybe the doctors will be able to use tissues, though mine are wearing out as I age. I post this as a thought that someone might consider as a legacy gift. I decided to get my end of life tasks done early because I was the executor for my parents will and there was plenty to do, though they had made their wishes known in advance. I am not being morbid. I am being considerate as are you, Paul. I want the end of my life to be as easy as possible for those who are left behind. I thanked Jenny Apple and Kyle for their last vlog for teaching the rest of their You Tube family how to live and die gracefully. The POG family in their way have done the same. Now you, in your logical and charming way are adding to the knowledge that too many have not grappled with as they age. Death sneaks up on all of us and we have no idea when or how we might need to think about this subject. I am free now to live completely and to end neatly and within my own ethical and moral requirements. So thanks, Paul for your contribution to this little task that some of us may wish to learn about before a final crisis.
Thank you Helen. It's great to hear that you have your final affairs in order. And I love that you are donating your body to a university medical school. My first degree is in IT, but my second degree (that I didn't finish) is in Medical Imaging. Several of the units involved anatomy classes with bodies of donors. I can first-hand report that there is no book substitute for handling the real thing. Thank you so much for contributing to that educational process. It truly helps, and is beyond value. Paul.
Thank you Paul. I'm also a subscriber to the POG family and Jenny and Kyle Apple's channels. There's so much parallel between these wonderful women and the kindness woven into their beings is what I see in you as well. I will keep praying for all of you as you continue on your journey's and thank you for so quickly responding to Jenny's request. Your list is also helpful for so many others and loved ones in similar circumstances ❤
I have watched Jenny Apple for almost a year now and am saddened by her diagnosis. It is so kind of you to share your end-of-life list. It is very helpful not only for Jenny but also for everyone to be better prepared for the end. I plan on using it myself (husband and I are in our 70's). God bless you, prayers for comfort and peace.
This is actually also really useful list for someone not currently diagnosed with cancer/on a timeline, especially the digital footprint. Thank you, Paul. ❤
I have saved this video and also taken notes. This is so useful even though My husband and I are not ill. We never know what tomorrow brings. Thank You Paul. God bless.
You’re so much more than interesting and kind. You should also be remembered for the love you gave, the friends you made and the generosity you have given.
Thank you sooo very much for all the comments on the others involved with this horrible disease!! Prayers for all of you - hugs, strength and peace for all!
Dearest Paul, You are currently undergoing chemo still processing the diagnosis of the rare PMP but you took the time to help others. This so gracious and appreciated. Your list is useful to everyone as tomorrow is not a guarantee. It’s getting your affairs in order. You’ve made what could be a difficult task after someone’s passing a lot easier..thank you and bless you!
What great information not just for Jenny and Kyle but for all of us who are battling cancer. I have been following Jenny Apple and Sarah Pog since my diagnosis and my heart breaks for them and their loved ones. I have only recently found you and l have added you to my prayer list also. I am praying for peace for you all. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
This is the first time I've ever seen this. Paul you have so much to offer to All of Us, with what you put out there and say. It's got me now thinking about My Will in how I'd like it done. I'm in my early 60s and I have been putting doing a will Off but... I know it needs to be done. Same with my husband, he needs to do one as well. And yes I have been following Jenny Apple's u-tube ch. And I 😢 continue to say lots of Prayers for Jenny and Kyle and their family. I will keep Sarah , in my prayers as well 🙏 God Bless You
I am 45 and gratefully very healthy, but I recommend this list as important to everyone. We never know when our day might come. I work in life insurance, so I think about these things regularly. Thank you! ❤
The POG family are such a lovely family. Josh and Sarah have touched so many hearts ❤I pray 🙏 Sarah will pass in peace 😢 filled with all the kindness and love she deserves
I only recently found your channel, Paul, and first let me say that I am saddened by your diagnosis, but also awestruck by your determination to be helpful to others. You are a kind and good man. I also follow Sarah and Jenny along with a couple of others, who have been diagnosed with terminal cancer. I’ve learned a lot by following their cancer journeys, and now along with everyone else that loves them face the sad conclusion of their stories. Thank you so much for making this video for Jenny and Kyle. Also, thank you for making this list for me. Although I have not been found to have a terminal illness, I am disabled, and have had an increasingly serious decline in my health. I know that I need to prepare for my husband, all of this information and having this list is such a blessing. So thank you. Sending you my best wishes and keeping you in my prayers. 💛💛🙏🏻🙏🏻
My husband has cancer and this was so helpful to me. I want to thank you Paul for your kindness in sharing this. I am going to use this as well very helpful. May you have peace and calm on the days ahead. My prayer is for you to be protected and surrounded with love. I have followed Jenny for a long time and have watched some of your videos, I subscribed today and will be going to Sarahs page as well. I have not seen her videos so thank you. God Bless
Paul, your channel just popped up in connection withe Jenny's name I expect. This is an extremely helpful list for many. Not only for those who have been given a terminal diagnosis, but for anyone who is dealing with any illness or just for those who are not spring chickens. I should have the things on this list organized by now, and I don't. So, thanks , I'm going to hop to it. Best wishes.
What a blessing this video is to not only Jenny and Kyle but many other folks navigating end-of-life now and in the future. Blessings and gratitude to you Paul for this gift 🙏🏻💖
Your kindness and generosity are evident in this sharing of critical information. Thank you, from all of us, for providing us with this guidance. It actually applies to all of us, at one time or another, but for those of us who are “getting on in years,” it is also important. Thank you, thank you, thank you. Much love and admiration, Paul. Love you.
Beautiful soul, may many blessings find you and bring you comfort as you have gifted to us. Your information is so well conceived and presented. Thank you!
As a former ICU nurse, these are wonderful tips for anyone to use NOW. I’ve seen so many people die of sudden illnesses (heart attacks, strokes, trauma) and leave their family in a mess. My own father did this and it was a NIGHTMARE to sort out his estates. Please get your affairs in order. Another helpful hint is to have a list of your creditors, their contact information, account numbers, etc as this information will be needed in the estate.
I have terminal cancer in my bones and liver.. From breast cancer origin.. I live in the uk and we don't have dignity in dying.. You are so lucky that you have this option.. I'm terrified of how my life is going to end.. Your video and list has been so helpful.. I've been putting off so many things and it's made me determined to get things sorted out.. Thankyou..
stay strong. I have now started my cancer treatment. had 4 radiations yet and will have chemo in 3 days. wish you all the best. And i know how it feels. Much love. Sid from Norway
I'm 61 and started to think about putting things in place so if and when I go ,it is easier for the family . Thank you Paul, you are a wonderful soul for sharing this . Gave me and many others good insight on planing ahead,sick or not...your such an educator and inspiration for us all . Big hugs and sweet dreams xx
Paul, ive watched Janny/Kyle a long time an Sarah an her hubby recently as well as yours. Paul thats amazing an so kind. They were talking about the will last night.
Thank you Paul. I lost my husband to melanoma in 2012, he was just 35 years old. I also follow the Pog family and Jenny Apple so your post was pertinent to me greatly. I found a list of passwords/logins to bank accounts especially useful. I wish you all the best.
Thank you, Paul for supporting these wonderful, young people in their devastating time of need. Your very thoughtful lists are also prompting me, age 80, to continue organizing for my survivors. And yes, you are very kind, Paul.
My ex had a condition called "Fuchs Dystrophy", which caused tremendous eye pain and vision complications. He had a corneal transplant, and it literally changed his life. Donating ones eyes is more than helping someone with poor vision...it can literally transform someone's life. Just wanted to throw that out there.
Thanks Sally. No matter what route I take in my final days, my eyes are going to be donated to someone like your ex. This makes me really happy. Thank you for writing to me. Paul.
@@PaulinPerth I want to clarify (in case the meaning was lost) that my comment was not a criticism. You are a HERO, for being an organ donor, and for encouraging others to do the same. Thank you, and I'm so sorry for your pain right now.
I have (had) Fuch’s Dystrophy. Two cornea transplants from 2 different donors made a vast difference in my life. Thank you to my donors’ families for donating their corneas. ❤️🇨🇦
Paul wow I am so impressed. You are not only a very practical and smart guy but also thoughtful and generous. Thank you for sharing not only for the intended recipients, but this is very useful for all of us. Thank you---
Thank you so much! My daughter's mother-in-law has been diagnosed with terminal spiral cell sarcoma. She is in palliative care for pain. Her pain began in December. Her right kidney is dying and shrinking, she has blood clots in her abdomin, not able to eat, vomiting,and has lost 60 lbs. This list will help to get her affairs in order while being overwhelmed with grief and caregiving. Prayers for Paul, Jenny and Kyle, Sarah and family and so many others that find themselves traversing this path in their lives.
I posted the link to Jenny’s website as directed! I’ll post to Kyle’s too, but he doesn’t really seem to read comments (guessing he has too much on his plate!). It’s such a kindness to respond to her obvious need and to share your own process. I think your list is useful for all of us, given that life is unpredictable. BTW I’m sure it felt good to get than engine taken care of! Hope some of those friends are stopping by today!
Paul, you are so kind to dedicate your video to helping others by sharing your knowledge and experience. Such a lovely demonstration of compassion. Thank you for your valuable suggestions and your example of kindness. Hope you are feeling fairly well at the moment. Love & prayers to you, Paul. ❤🙏
Just blown away. These topics are incredibly difficult to face. I appreciate that you have put so much effort into curating the “to do” list. I’m amazed how much you think like me. I love organized, secure systems put in place in advance. My husband doesn’t have this internal need, but one of us will surely appreciate this when the time comes. I hope that you are finding support, love and peace right now. You have enriched my life with this one video. This has been a reminder of all of our value.
Paul, this is so nice of you to post. I follow POG family and Jenny Apple as well as You and my heart breaks for all of you. Thank You Paul for doing this. Prayers for all of you.
When my husband died oh boy what a learning curve. This is GREAT info and will make it much easier. I have since put needed info in a large plastic tub with all paperwork....bank info, titles, deeds, etc...
How kind for you to share this with the Apples. Peace and love to you and may your final time here be filled with the same kindness you’ve extended to others. ❤
You are a kind man, Paul. This information is something everyone should keep in mind, young, old, healthy or very ill. Sending you all so much love, comfort, and prayers.
Your number #2 is very important. I had a dear friend with colon cancer. She never went to the doctor and used nature health products. She was in great shape, athletic and just kept losing weight and getting weaker. When she finally went to the doctor she had stage 4 cancer and was dying. Neither of us thought about needing to think about a care directive. At the very end she was so thirty and wanted water and was denied water and only given a sponge with water and she said that was just miserable. So thinking about the comfort and the very end can be just getting a drink of water. Paul you are so kind to give this information to those that need to think about this. I am not dying so far and do have some of these directives in my directive along with the will.
You really are a selfless man, you are genuine and warm and have so much empathy. You have a comforting way about you, I am 61 and I have always been described as a empath, I have lost three partners, one in a accident, one with sudden illness and my beloved Paul with inoperable cancer x The pain I feel when I don’t even know is indescribable. I continue to pray for you Sarah and Jenny, and all the people suffering with illness sadness and loss. Xxxx
I have just subscribed to Jenny’s channel and have watched several of their videos tonight. I, literally, just finished watching one and then I got notification of yours. You are in my thoughts often, Paul. Xx
Paul, I want to say thank u so much for putting this out across UA-cam for Jenny and Kyle to find easily. I know it will help her immensely. I want to say how interesting I do find u and I wish i would of found u earlier on, but I will indeed go in and watch ur videos. You have succeeded in both being interesting and kind and one more... inspiring. I will pray for u. May God keep His heavenly arms wrapped around u and ur family for strength.
Hi Paul, I was so upset yesterday after watching Jenny’s video, I have been watching them for a long time they truly are an amazing family. I’m sure your To Do list will not only help Jenny but many more people, it has certainly given me something to think about. Take care 💕 xx
Thank you , Paul, for your kindness, and caring soul, while you battle your own journey. May God bless and keep you in His care. People like you are rare, and so needed in this cruel world. Much love and prayers.
I just found your channel, I follow Jenny, the Pog family and some others who have cancer, there are so many. It’s just heartbreaking. Thank you for doing this.
Very heart touching & such a great tribute to help others that need guidance during this difficult time. I have followed Jenny for quiet some time now. Praying for you🙏🏻 It is hard to see anyone deal with cancer.
How wonderful for you to do this Paul, especially in your own state of demise. I found your channel by following Jenny’s story. I wish you the best Paul. With heartfelt sadness, Susan in USA. KY
Hi Paul, I love how you are sharing this out of the kindness of your heart, this world needs this, your amazing! 😊 I also live in Perth and have been following Jenny's youtube journey since around Christmas 2022.
Paul ,you are a wonderful man to do this act of kindness to all of these suffering. Jenny and Kyle’s lastest video was heartbreaking, as I have watched them for years. Sending prayers to all of you from South Carolina, USA 🙏🙏
Thank you so very much for laying this out so clearly and concisely. Absolutely wonderful advice... So straightforward and so thorough. You left nothing out. Invaluable information. Thank you, Paul. 🤍
Hello Paul. Reaching out to you here from Upstate SC in USA. Heather (Kneady) pointed us to you to show you we care and are praying for your journey right now. Thank you for trusting the path and sharing your experience, as well as, your vast knowledge of life with so many of us.
Thank you Paul for your selflessness. I saw Jenny’s vlog yesterday which saddened me. The world needs more people like you, Jenny and Sarah.
I am heart broke for her and her family, especially her 2 young babies.
agreed, wonderful souls!!
Paul, you are so kind and thoughtful in providing this needed information for sweet Jenny, Kyle and others! I’ve followed Jenny for a long time. I cried for them yesterday when they posted their scan results update. I’m keeping you, Jenny and Sarah (the pog family) in my prayers everyday! ❤️🤗🙏
So Sad to hear about Jenny and worried about her and Kyle’s state of mind. Also sad for her two children and the rest of her family.
I was so sad too and cried so much 😢
Compassionate sharing. Invaluable. ❤
I just started watching your cancer journey tonight. I watched Jenny Apples Journey and the POG family. And I know they both have passed away. I’m praying for you Paul in Perth.
Thank you and blessings
Thank you🙏❤️🙏
Thank you Paul for your act of kindness to Jenny and Kyle as well as everyone else. It reminds me to get my affairs in order. While I do not have a terminal illness, I am 75 years old with chronic conditions. I can’t believe Sarah and Jenny both have been told they are terminal. Praying for them and anyone else facing cancer. It is certainly a cruel disease. 🙏🙏🙏
Praying for you also Rose Tovar ❤️🩹 🙏🏽 ✝️
And both have the same kind of brain cancer, very agressive with unpleasant symptoms
Thank you Paul for showing immeasurable kindness to the Pog family as well as Jenny and Kyle. Their journey has been all inspiring as is yours. This information for Jenny and Kyle and everyone really, is so well thought out and I know I will use it when the time comes.
Praying for you dear one as always! 💙
@@dharobed3329 Aww, thank you very much. We can all use prayers. May God bless you.
Plenty in common all reaping the rewards of the cancer/ clot shot.
Jenny Apple and Sarah POG updates yesterday were truly heartbreaking and my heart goes out to them and their families. Paul you are totally selfless and your advice to tidy up one's personal affairs before passing is so detailed and valuable and I am sure the POG and Apple family will find this invaluable. Thank you for just being your true authentic self and sharing yourself with us all. ❤
It's so sad about Jenny and Sarah I watch all of them. 🙏🙏❤️❤️
It was sad to hear Sarah’s about a month ago and then I got really hard to hear about Jenny just recently
I can’t agree with you more. So heart breaking.
Beautiful Paul, just beautiful. What a gift 💝
I will pray for you as I pray for Jenny. 🙏🏻❤️✝️
Love your super kindness…bless you
Thank you Paul; this is helpful and useful and are steps most of us should take. Really thoughtful and kind. I wish you the best.
Thank you Paul
First, I would be honored to call you friend, and anytime you want to reach out to me, I would love that! Thank you for the love and shoutout, a few of your cubbies have stopped by to say Hi and I love it! Your list, for Jenny, was absolutely FANTASTIC! My husband was killed, when we were struck head on by a drunk driver in Feb of 2021. His death was instant, and I was critically injured, not expected to survive. My family took all of our important papers from our home, trying to sort through everything. It was very difficult for them. We didn't have ANYTHING in order! No will! Nothing! Now, I have a team of lawyers, one who handles all of this for me, as well as now I have a filing cabinet, with all of my papers in order.....along with passwords and bills and accounts to everything! This is so important! Passwords and links! SO IMPORTANT! You have methodically thought out even more than I have.......and so I will be utilizing your list here to help me and my family even further. THANK YOU!!!!! God Bless you and your purpose/calling in helping so many as you move forward. I am praying feverishly for you my friend! hugs, Heather xoxox. thekneadyhomesteader@gmail.com
Thank you so much Heather. I'm sad with the news of your husband.
I've noted your email address if you would like to edit (delete) that bit.
We are indeed friends.
Paul.
What a lovely video, Paul. I just recently started watching you, but you truly seem like such a beautiful soul. I also watch Jenny Apple's channel and the POG Family. You are all going through such journeys. I am sending you all the love I can muster up!
You are so very correct this list is very important I'm so grateful for people like you sir❤❤❤ thank you for this
I've been subscribed to jenny and Sarah forever and the last news within weeks of each other is heartbreaking. You are so invested in helping others and I love you for that. Lots of love from uk.
@@bobs1356 The last few weeks it was clear she was worsening.
I'm too, Jenny, Sarah and their husband are so strong and such wonderful people. It's absolutely heartbreaking that both have terminal cancer and that both these families have small children.
this is a wonderful checklist. Very helpful and selfless thing to do
I am healthy and 83 years old but at this age nobody knows when they might die or how. I have done all of.the things on your list now before I am ill.
I chose to donate my body to a university medical school to do whatever is useful with it. It solves the funeral arrangements problem, it solves the financial expense of a funeral and it does some good too. A future doctor may learn anatomy or surgical techniques and save lives and maybe the doctors will be able to use tissues, though mine are wearing out as I age. I post this as a thought that someone might consider as a legacy gift.
I decided to get my end of life tasks done early because I was the executor for my parents will and there was plenty to do, though they had made their wishes known in advance. I am not being morbid. I am being considerate as are you, Paul. I want the end of my life to be as easy as possible for those who are left behind.
I thanked Jenny Apple and Kyle for their last vlog for teaching the rest of their You Tube family how to live and die gracefully. The POG family in their way have done the same. Now you, in your logical and charming way are adding to the knowledge that too many have not grappled with as they age. Death sneaks up on all of us and we have no idea when or how we might need to think about this subject. I am free now to live completely and to end neatly and within my own ethical and moral requirements. So thanks, Paul for your contribution to this little task that some of us may wish to learn about before a final crisis.
Thank you Helen. It's great to hear that you have your final affairs in order. And I love that you are donating your body to a university medical school. My first degree is in IT, but my second degree (that I didn't finish) is in Medical Imaging. Several of the units involved anatomy classes with bodies of donors. I can first-hand report that there is no book substitute for handling the real thing. Thank you so much for contributing to that educational process. It truly helps, and is beyond value.
Paul.
Thank you Paul. I'm also a subscriber to the POG family and Jenny and Kyle Apple's channels. There's so much parallel between these wonderful women and the kindness woven into their beings is what I see in you as well. I will keep praying for all of you as you continue on your journey's and thank you for so quickly responding to Jenny's request. Your list is also helpful for so many others and loved ones in similar circumstances ❤
I have watched Jenny Apple for almost a year now and am saddened by her diagnosis. It is so kind of you to share your end-of-life list. It is very helpful not only for Jenny but also for everyone to be better prepared for the end. I plan on using it myself (husband and I are in our 70's). God bless you, prayers for comfort and peace.
This is actually also really useful list for someone not currently diagnosed with cancer/on a timeline, especially the digital footprint. Thank you, Paul. ❤
I agree, useful to most people I think; what a lovely man he is
absolutely, it could be a car accident, something sudden.
I have saved this video and also taken notes. This is so useful even though My husband and I are not ill. We never know what tomorrow brings. Thank You Paul. God bless.
So beautiful put, I love what you have said, even for a person without cancer. So important to have things done properly
Thankyou for showing and sharing your kindness. Prayers and love to you and your family
You’re so much more than interesting and kind. You should also be remembered for the love you gave, the friends you made and the generosity you have given.
I broke my heart when I saw Jenny and Kyle yesterday thank you for doing this ❤
Thank you sooo very much for all the comments on the others involved with this horrible disease!! Prayers for all of you - hugs, strength and peace for all!
How nice of you to do this. You are going through your own sad situation and still helping others. Bless you
Dearest Paul,
You are currently undergoing chemo still processing the diagnosis of the rare PMP but you took the time to help others. This so gracious and appreciated. Your list is useful to everyone as tomorrow is not a guarantee. It’s getting your affairs in order. You’ve made what could be a difficult task after someone’s passing a lot easier..thank you and bless you!
What a wonderful person you are. May God Bless you each and everyday.
What great information not just for Jenny and Kyle but for all of us who are battling cancer.
I have been following Jenny Apple and Sarah Pog since my diagnosis and my heart breaks for them and their loved ones. I have only recently found you and l have added you to my prayer list also. I am praying for peace for you all. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
This is the first time I've ever seen this.
Paul you have so much to offer to All of Us, with what you put out there and say.
It's got me now thinking about My Will in how I'd like it done.
I'm in my early 60s and I have been putting doing a will Off but... I know it needs to be done.
Same with my husband, he needs to do one as well.
And yes I have been following Jenny Apple's u-tube ch.
And I 😢 continue to say lots of Prayers for Jenny and Kyle and their family.
I will keep Sarah , in my prayers as well 🙏
God Bless You
I am 45 and gratefully very healthy, but I recommend this list as important to everyone. We never know when our day might come. I work in life insurance, so I think about these things regularly. Thank you! ❤
The POG family are such a lovely family. Josh and Sarah have touched so many hearts ❤I pray 🙏 Sarah will pass in peace 😢 filled with all the kindness and love she deserves
Less you, and yep I 🙏 that too.sarah is so precious. Gently kind soul.xxxbless you too.
@@hetty2974 she and the family kindness and blessings to you and yours xxx
I only recently found your channel, Paul, and first let me say that I am saddened by your diagnosis, but also awestruck by your determination to be helpful to others. You are a kind and good man. I also follow Sarah and Jenny along with a couple of others, who have been diagnosed with terminal cancer. I’ve learned a lot by following their cancer journeys, and now along with everyone else that loves them face the sad conclusion of their stories. Thank you so much for making this video for Jenny and Kyle. Also, thank you for making this list for me. Although I have not been found to have a terminal illness, I am disabled, and have had an increasingly serious decline in my health. I know that I need to prepare for my husband, all of this information and having this list is such a blessing. So thank you. Sending you my best wishes and keeping you in my prayers. 💛💛🙏🏻🙏🏻
Thank you for sharing
I found you this morning in my feed. As I am faced with lung cancer I appreciate all the experience you can share. Thank you and appreciate you
Paul, I think you’re interesting and incredibly kind! ☺️🌻
What a huge help.
The first video I watched of you. Today i watched CU 146 and am crying happy tears!! What a way you came along... ❤
My husband has cancer and this was so helpful to me. I want to thank you Paul for your kindness in sharing this. I am going to use this as well very helpful. May you have peace and calm on the days ahead. My prayer is for you to be protected and surrounded with love. I have followed Jenny for a long time and have watched some of your videos, I subscribed today and will be going to
Sarahs page as well. I have not seen her videos so thank you. God Bless
Thank you. Please note that I updated the list in CU#36. Paul.
Paul, your channel just popped up in connection withe Jenny's name I expect. This is an extremely helpful list for many. Not only for those who have been given a terminal diagnosis, but for anyone who is dealing with any illness or just for those who are not spring chickens. I should have the things on this list organized by now, and I don't. So, thanks , I'm going to hop to it. Best wishes.
Thank you for sharing with us ❤❤❤❤
What a blessing this video is to not only Jenny and Kyle but many other folks navigating end-of-life now and in the future. Blessings and gratitude to you Paul for this gift 🙏🏻💖
Your kindness and generosity are evident in this sharing of critical information. Thank you, from all of us, for providing us with this guidance. It actually applies to all of us, at one time or another, but for those of us who are “getting on in years,” it is also important. Thank you, thank you, thank you. Much love and admiration, Paul. Love you.
Agreed.
Thank you for being so supportive and thoughtful. 😊
Wow..that’s awesome! Thank you for giving this to Jenny and Kyle.
Beautiful soul, may many blessings find you and bring you comfort as you have gifted to us. Your information is so well conceived and presented. Thank you!
Thank You Paul, You Are So Kind And Thoughtful. God Bless You 🙏💙. Western Upstate New York here 💕
Your kindness is inspiration. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
As a former ICU nurse, these are wonderful tips for anyone to use NOW. I’ve seen so many people die of sudden illnesses (heart attacks, strokes, trauma) and leave their family in a mess. My own father did this and it was a NIGHTMARE to sort out his estates. Please get your affairs in order. Another helpful hint is to have a list of your creditors, their contact information, account numbers, etc as this information will be needed in the estate.
Ah! Thank you! I will add creditors to my master list. Great addition. Thank you. Paul.
You are so bloody brave. Know you are loved and appreciated. Thank you.
I am 41 with severe health issues. I have told my husband what I want, how I want to be buried, everything. It sucks when people are dying so young. 😢
@@HomeNGardening Yes it does suck. I'm with you.
I have terminal cancer in my bones and liver.. From breast cancer origin.. I live in the uk and we don't have dignity in dying.. You are so lucky that you have this option.. I'm terrified of how my life is going to end.. Your video and list has been so helpful.. I've been putting off so many things and it's made me determined to get things sorted out.. Thankyou..
stay strong. I have now started my cancer treatment. had 4 radiations yet and will have chemo in 3 days. wish you all the best. And i know how it feels. Much love. Sid from Norway
This is very lovely Paul❤ well done 😊❤
I follow Jenny and The POG family! Praying for you all from Mississippi USA
I'm 61 and started to think about putting things in place so if and when I go ,it is easier for the family .
Thank you Paul, you are a wonderful soul for sharing this .
Gave me and many others good insight on planing ahead,sick or not...your such an educator and inspiration for us all . Big hugs and sweet dreams xx
Such a lovely, kind video. Every blessing to you dear Paul.
Paul, ive watched Janny/Kyle a long time an Sarah an her hubby recently as well as yours. Paul thats amazing an so kind. They were talking about the will last night.
Thank you Paul. I lost my husband to melanoma in 2012, he was just 35 years old. I also follow the Pog family and Jenny Apple so your post was pertinent to me greatly. I found a list of passwords/logins to bank accounts especially useful. I wish you all the best.
These are some of the things all of us should be doing!
Thank you, Paul for supporting these wonderful, young people in their devastating time of need.
Your very thoughtful lists are also prompting me, age 80, to continue organizing for my survivors.
And yes, you are very kind, Paul.
My ex had a condition called "Fuchs Dystrophy", which caused tremendous eye pain and vision complications. He had a corneal transplant, and it literally changed his life. Donating ones eyes is more than helping someone with poor vision...it can literally transform someone's life. Just wanted to throw that out there.
Thanks Sally. No matter what route I take in my final days, my eyes are going to be donated to someone like your ex. This makes me really happy. Thank you for writing to me. Paul.
@@PaulinPerth I want to clarify (in case the meaning was lost) that my comment was not a criticism. You are a HERO, for being an organ donor, and for encouraging others to do the same. Thank you, and I'm so sorry for your pain right now.
I have (had) Fuch’s Dystrophy. Two cornea transplants from 2 different donors made a vast difference in my life. Thank you to my donors’ families for donating their corneas. ❤️🇨🇦
@@loiscassels8966 Wait you can see using donated eyes??? Or am i missing something? If so , that's insanely amazing.
Don't forget the POG family!! Sarah is in hospice care now, three young children and a wonderful husband Josh
Paul wow I am so impressed. You are not only a very practical and smart guy but also thoughtful and generous. Thank you for sharing not only for the intended recipients, but this is very useful for all of us. Thank you---
So Wonderful that you did this for them. God bless you. So wonderful.❤❤
Thank you so much! My daughter's mother-in-law has been diagnosed with terminal spiral cell sarcoma. She is in palliative care for pain. Her pain began in December. Her right kidney is dying and shrinking, she has blood clots in her abdomin, not able to eat, vomiting,and has lost 60 lbs. This list will help to get her affairs in order while being overwhelmed with grief and caregiving. Prayers for Paul, Jenny and Kyle, Sarah and family and so many others that find themselves traversing this path in their lives.
Thank Paul. My heart aches for you. I have been following Sarah and Jenny. I just found you. I will be following you and praying for you
I posted the link to Jenny’s website as directed! I’ll post to Kyle’s too, but he doesn’t really seem to read comments (guessing he has too much on his plate!). It’s such a kindness to respond to her obvious need and to share your own process. I think your list is useful for all of us, given that life is unpredictable. BTW I’m sure it felt good to get than engine taken care of! Hope some of those friends are stopping by today!
Paul, you are so kind to dedicate your video to helping others by sharing your knowledge and experience. Such a lovely demonstration of compassion. Thank you for your valuable suggestions and your example of kindness. Hope you are feeling fairly well at the moment. Love & prayers to you, Paul. ❤🙏
Oh you are an amazing person Paul, the world is a better place because you are in it ❤❤❤
Thankyou for your support for Jenny ❤
Just blown away. These topics are incredibly difficult to face. I appreciate that you have put so much effort into curating the “to do” list. I’m amazed how much you think like me. I love organized, secure systems put in place in advance. My husband doesn’t have this internal need, but one of us will surely appreciate this when the time comes.
I hope that you are finding support, love and peace right now. You have enriched my life with this one video. This has been a reminder of all of our value.
Paul, this is so nice of you to post. I follow POG family and Jenny Apple as well as You and my heart breaks for all of you. Thank You Paul for doing this. Prayers for all of you.
When my husband died oh boy what a learning curve. This is GREAT info and will make it much easier. I have since put needed info in a large plastic tub with all paperwork....bank info, titles, deeds, etc...
Your a great person!
This is a great list and should be done by everyone now. You never know when it's your time.
How kind for you to share this with the Apples. Peace and love to you and may your final time here be filled with the same kindness you’ve extended to others. ❤
I have followed all 3 of the channels you spoke about for years now and my heart is so heavy but what a wonderful video, thank you so much.
You are a kind man, Paul. This information is something everyone should keep in mind, young, old, healthy or very ill. Sending you all so much love, comfort, and prayers.
Paul that’s called unconditional love in what you have done, well done and lots of love back at you. ❤
Your number #2 is very important. I had a dear friend with colon cancer. She never went to the doctor and used nature health products. She was in great shape, athletic and just kept losing weight and getting weaker. When she finally went to the doctor she had stage 4 cancer and was dying. Neither of us thought about needing to think about a care directive. At the very end she was so thirty and wanted water and was denied water and only given a sponge with water and she said that was just miserable. So thinking about the comfort and the very end can be just getting a drink of water. Paul you are so kind to give this information to those that need to think about this. I am not dying so far and do have some of these directives in my directive along with the will.
God bless you , Paul. I pray for peace in your journey. You are very kind and thoughtful to be thinking of others during your own time of need. ❤❤❤
This was very informative. Thank you for this video. God Bless you, Jenny and Sarah.
You really are a selfless man, you are genuine and warm and have so much empathy. You have a comforting way about you, I am 61 and I have always been described as a empath, I have lost three partners, one in a accident, one with sudden illness and my beloved Paul with inoperable cancer x
The pain I feel when I don’t even know is indescribable.
I continue to pray for you Sarah and Jenny, and all the people suffering with illness sadness and loss. Xxxx
You are an amazing person for being so concerned about people struggling with terminal illnesses, sending love and support to you..♥️
I have just subscribed to Jenny’s channel and have watched several of their videos tonight. I, literally, just finished watching one and then I got notification of yours. You are in my thoughts often, Paul. Xx
Thank you Paul. I can appreciate how this will help people who are terminal but also for everyone to think about. God bless
Paul, I want to say thank u so much for putting this out across UA-cam for Jenny and Kyle to find easily. I know it will help her immensely. I want to say how interesting I do find u and I wish i would of found u earlier on, but I will indeed go in and watch ur videos. You have succeeded in both being interesting and kind and one more... inspiring. I will pray for u. May God keep His heavenly arms wrapped around u and ur family for strength.
Hi Paul, I was so upset yesterday after watching Jenny’s video, I have been watching them for a long time they truly are an amazing family. I’m sure your To Do list will not only help Jenny but many more people, it has certainly given me something to think about. Take care 💕 xx
Thank you so much, Paul, for your kindness. I have just subscribed to the channel of Jenny Apple. Sending love and support to all of you.
You very nice person I have not watched u before. I thank u have made peace with it
Thank you , Paul, for your kindness, and caring soul, while you battle your own journey. May God bless and keep you in His care. People like you are rare, and so needed in this cruel world. Much love and prayers.
I just found your channel, I follow Jenny, the Pog family and some others who have cancer, there are so many. It’s just heartbreaking. Thank you for doing this.
Very heart touching & such a great tribute to help others that need guidance during this difficult time. I have followed Jenny for quiet some time now. Praying for you🙏🏻 It is hard to see anyone deal with cancer.
God Bless you Paul. your video showed in my feed… your a thoughtful man to help Jenny and Kyle. I will add you to my prayer list. 🙏💔🙏
How wonderful for you to do this Paul, especially in your own state of demise. I found your channel by following Jenny’s story. I wish you the best Paul. With heartfelt sadness, Susan in USA. KY
Hi Paul, I love how you are sharing this out of the kindness of your heart, this world needs this, your amazing! 😊 I also live in Perth and have been following Jenny's youtube journey since around Christmas 2022.
Prayers for you Paul🙏
It’s such sad day. I’ve been watching Jenny and Kyle through their cancer journey. I wish I could go through the screen and hug them both. 😢
You are amazing.
Thank you, Paul in Perth, for sharing this video.
Paul ,you are a wonderful man to do this act of kindness to all of these suffering. Jenny and Kyle’s lastest video was heartbreaking, as I have watched them for years. Sending prayers to all of you from South Carolina, USA 🙏🙏
Thank you so very much for laying this out so clearly and concisely. Absolutely wonderful advice... So straightforward and so thorough. You left nothing out. Invaluable information. Thank you, Paul. 🤍
Hello Paul. Reaching out to you here from Upstate SC in USA. Heather (Kneady) pointed us to you to show you we care and are praying for your journey right now. Thank you for trusting the path and sharing your experience, as well as, your vast knowledge of life with so many of us.
How very kind and thoughtful of you❤