Number 3= Status Money Prestige Their social network thus social status rubs of on the woman. Well he is more confident. A young man has more to worry about like money or carreer. The older man has already secured both. So he has more to be confident ABOUT. It is not an inate quality of older men but his circumstances change. An older man who has not achieved succes ranks lower than the younger man.
@@ladystyles1174 As long as two consenting adults are of legal age, an age gap is an insignificant thing to worry about. With that lowkey shaming comment you posted, I'd guess you're on the wrong side of 30 at best.
Young men: instead of wasting your twenties chasing girls, focus your abundant energies consistently on your health and well-being, your education and your career and on interesting or adventurous activities or hobbies. If you can avoid any/too much debt, all the better. Be totally independent but maintain a few close friendships. By the time you're in your thirties, you will *NOT* need a dating app!!
I just found Courtney’s channel and I’m shocked at how mature she appears to be while being so poised especially now hearing that she’s only 25. The world needs more “influencers” to be proud of so I’m encouraged.
@@raghavnamasivayam5098 It’s hard to tell with makeup these days. Some 16 year olds look 30. I think this is why I seem to prefer women that don’t wear much or any.
Men are attracted to younger women because biologically they can produce children and are more likely to survive the process. Women are attracted to successful men because biologically that maximizes the likely hood of success for her children. It’s that simple, there’s no reason to be bitter about it, it’s just nature.
If this was actual nature, younger women nor older women would be attracted to older men. Younger men are on average healthier, stronger, faster and more agile which suits them better in the protector role and in a world without money, the provider role because what man has more chance to hunt down a deer. A strong, fast, agile, young man or an older man with back problems. They are also more virile and have healthier sperm which translates into having healthier offspring. The only reason that some younger women prefer older men is because in this modern world, capitalist society of ours, older men have a 10-20 year head start to financial success over younger men. Older women might feel that a man of her own age might be more relatable to her than a man younger than her but if were talking about purely natural, biological, lizard brain instincts which older men like to reference, than older women also prefer younger men. In the animal kingdom, younger, virile males are always more attractive to both younger and older females than older males. Look up the word "dagga boys" if you want to see the proof. So this whole "it's in their nature" argument doesn't hold up at all. It all comes down to the social construct of money and financial success for older men. This is also the reason why older women have more lustful fantasies about younger men than vice versa.
21 years apart with my wife. Everyone said I’ll give it 2 years. They are all divorced and we are still going strong at 23 years. My career is over now and I support hers. I always used to say... I don’t like all young girls, I like that young girl.
Nice. My mom was 30 years younger than my dad, they were together for life. And he wasn’t rich- college professor & peace activist. Not exactly rolling in bucks. 😆
I am now sixty-two years of age and I have not been with a woman for almost twelve years, but I try to keep myself in good physical shape regardless. In the last year I found myself working in an environment that was occupied by many women, some very young others closer to my age. I realized that some older ladies were interested in me at first, but a larger majority of "interested" women were much, much, younger. Until this event, I have never been thrust into a work situation where my attention was so highly sought after.
You are right, Courtney! Since I have been getting older women & girls have been hitting on me. I keep my body in good shape but doing, weights, cardio, and yoga (I just became a yoga instructor). I started to see that some women have hit on me in front of their husbands or boyfriends. That never happened to me when I was 25 years or younger. Courtney, this is true of ALL women i.e. older, younger, White, Mexicans, Black, Asian, Middle Eastern, Jews, etc. Even if the women are Police Officers, lawyers, entertainers, my landlord, women taller or shorter than me, well educated, or non-educated.
When the storm comes and I'm struggling will they stay or will they leave? I think i know what they will do. Just remember everyone wil face tough times in life in including (Billionaires) ?when that time comes modern women will run. But, that dosen't mean everybody but most girls.
Im 45. I have been through a lot. Older or say "MATURE" men do not have any time for games. All we do is develop ourselves more and more each passing year. Men increase in Value in Age through experience and Calmness. Trust me, being Calm in ANY given situation is such freedom. Boys play Games, older Men achieve Goals. One after the other. At 25? some (or most) men have not figured out yet what they want. I say Some. At 45? a Man's reputation IS HIS asset. We have had many battle scars. We are still learning. Older Men have their emotions in Check.
At 55 I am surprised at how much 30 something women like talking to me. My advice I would give my younger self is to be relaxed with women and don't dodge their emotions or any s*** tests. Women love to feel comfortable and when you act like you can handle anything life throws at you including all of their emotions, issues or anything else they share they want to be with a man like that. If a woman feels like you are their "rock" and a calm in her storm she will want to be with you.
@@daquieshakeaundra2854 I already live with a 28 year old woman I have a daughter we separate and got married and divorce with a 27 year old woman. For me is enough. Is better to be single and only date.
I agree with you, Courtney. After divorce with 2 boys, I got this much younger, talented beautiful woman stand next to me and have been together for the last 5 years. Age is just a number, it’s the personality, the chemistry, the love that gets you together, and keeps you going strong. Keep up with your good works. Thank you.
@@thefox47545 Sorry to hear that sir, however, at 37 it should be the prime time to meet someone and setup a family. I would say it’s not difficult to meet someone, but it’s hard to meet someone you like and love. So go out there, meet new people, and show your personality. No one looked at me either before they knew me. You need to meet them, and through the interaction, they know you and they fall in love with you as a person. I wasn’t out there to look for someone particularly much younger than me, I met her through friends circle, and it just happened. A few points to mention as well: 1. Always try to be the better version of yourself and have the confidence and belief in yourself, cos your charm and pleasant personality will shine through it, and girls love a confident man (not cocky as mentioned by Courtney before); 2. Don’t chase the girl/woman, but chase your own excellence. Woman will only marry up, not down. 3. Age is just a number, they fall in love with you as a person once they know you, so make sure you keep your heart young, cos you will need it if you meet a younger woman. 4. Nothing is forever. Free your spirit. Have a positive attitude, the positive people and energy will come around you. Man loves a woman through giving and provide, and woman loves man for who he is and what he can provide. I wish you the best. Cheers.
Courtney, what you are saying is what I've been trying to get my single guy friends to understand for years. A guy seeking a serious relationship in college is a roll of the dice, simply because all he has to worry about is getting his next term paper done on time. But say that a guy finishes school, develops marketable skills, gets into a decent paying job, learns to manage his money, even starts investing, purchases some real estate, and gets a decent, reliable car - by his mid 20s. I get it, that takes a lot of work, independence, and discipline. I just wish more young guys would realize how desirable that is to a lot of women. Inevitably, this man will become quite selective of what girl he will share his life with - he now has a lot to lose by being in a bad relationship. You said one time that if a guy would focus on himself to improve himself, that women, definitely high quality girls, will come and take interest. I can testify to that statement.
@@MrAhuraMazda That's exactly what I'm saying. What are good looks and a "great personality" worth in someone who can't even learn to manage their money? Don't you have those things I listed? If you don't, why not? You think you're held back? You're not. We're surrounded by lazy people, they're lazy because they're comfortable. And then they wine and bark about how victimized they are. It's a load of BS. Is this all egotistical? Of course it is. I won't just admit that I'm an egotist, I'll promote it. No one EVER achieved anything in this world who wasn't. You see, I said that girls would take interest in a guy like this, and they do. And that's where all the biggest problems can come in. There are a lot of hour-glass figures with a ton of makeup and long hair out there. The thing is, you want a girl who is just as much an egotist, someone who wants more than just comforts. It's the women who just want to be comfortable who are lazy, and who want a guy who will feed her laziness. This will ruin him. The world is yours, my friend, take it.
"Girls wait at the finish line and get with the winners." 18 yr old girl to a 26 yr old guy: "You're too old for me" 18 yr old girl to 33 yr old Zac Effron: "He's SO hot"
Definitely know what I want since I am an “older man”. Thanks for this Courtney! Key statement for me now that I’m divorced and single; “ she has to add value to my life “.
Either you have a good psychology degree or are wise beyond your years. Or both. I am in my 50's and impressed by your insight. Taught me a few things...
I am a mature, experienced and by most standards, successful guy. I have generally only dated or been married to a woman at least 10-12 years younger. So I definitely know of which I speak. I agree with the security, maturity, experience, income attributes. The problem comes in when your partner expects an above average income, but complains and does not understand that in order for her to enjoy the fruits of your labor, she must except the extraordinary amount of time and work required to generate that income. If she complains that you spend too much time working, then she is a spoiled brat, and needs a dose of real life.
Scott: in today's world age isn't a big thing like it was to our parents & grand parents. I have dated women older & younger. Most of them hit on me because I take great extra care of my body. I like it when a woman takes care of her body no matter what age she is!
@@scottschumacher5844 hahaa no, its derived from evolutionary biology and backed by data , that's why I recommended the book, you clearly havent read it
A lot of this really comes from self experience, some of us guys just go through a lot and it really depends on how we handle the situation if we keep making the same mistakes it won’t change us for the better. That being said it doesn’t take only one experience, it takes multiple experiences from all areas, finances, health, social, etc.
I love the honesty in this one, especially the financial aspect- let’s be real, none of us, man or woman want to be struggling financially as we get older, so its only natural to want to look for a partner who is financially capable. Thank you for this Big Sis! Always helps to hear from a lady who keeps it 💯.
The issue or problem I have with placing money above complementarity is that there will always be other men(in my case) with more money than I have, but the women I know seem to forget that acquiring and keeping lots of money takes a lot of time away from loved ones. Sometimes, to their near total exclusion. Only for these women to lose interest in their own husband's in search of male attention other than their husband's. Both are right and both are wrong. There is, therefore ample room for negotiating more male/husband attention for comparitively less monetary compensation.
Basically it's all entirely about money in this country and that's partly because the middle and lower class got fucked to the point we basically can't afford to have a home or family anymore unless you are at least upper middleclass if not lower upper class.
I'm 39, unlucky with women of age between 26-33, which people say is my "marriage material age", but younger girls like me and I never try to downplay my age. I like their energy and decency, some generations are more stable in mind and more decent than the older generations. I don't really know what they see in me, I'm depressed and financially ruined guy. In recent years I've been dating women that 20 years ago would be in my mind way over my league.
I’m 25 & dating a 35 year old , when we first started talking she said I was very mature for my age. She told me that in her experience the men she’s dated/talked to in the past have came off as too needy. Everyone & every situation is different.
Dude, if she’s 35 she is just about to slam into The Wall and single guy’s her age (and a bit older) are dating chicks in their 20s. She can say what she wants about them being “needy” or whatever. The fact is, her shelf life is just about at expiration date. Biology is a harsh reality.
My Sister married a guy 15 years older than her and the guy is totally broke. I used to think my sister was nuts but now I think she's a genius. This guy treats her super well and takes very good care of her and has been an excellent dad (he had kids from prior marriage so he knew how to deal with kids) My sister could not be happier and I couldn't have been more wrong about him in the beginning.
Damn right Im older single now not broke raised 3 daughter's Im looking for a 20's female Ive tried to connect with 40ish/50 no way Im too fit athletic healthy fit Im going for it as long as someone will have me and they don't have to be a beauty queen just loving/fun/bossy lol I don't mind a bit as long as there is affection I can still raise kids Im retired do house work cook clean take care of a house cars lawns Ive done and would do it again even at 60 Im high natural Italian energy look me up!
I am 29 I like this guy who is 41 we like each other a lot ! He born in 1980 and I born in 1992 . He knows what he need and want to . We have a lot of in common to some not in common to . Thanks for the video !
12 years is nothing much. My Mum was 12 years younger than my Dad and they had a great relationship. She passed away before he did and it broke his heart.
so true, women never attracted to me in my 20s, but as i have changed my style, worked on my body,have more confidence, more successful in my job at my 35,so i can say many women which are quite young compared to me are more than just interested in me
For settling down Just wait for gen alpha gurls to grow up. Gen z gurls are crazy with their suggardadd like courtney and high body count Millenial gurls are clapped
I’m 58 and happily married. If somehow, God forbid, I wound up single, I would never consider dating at all. Women want $ and I’ll be damned if I’m going to give away all I’ve worked for. Too many are entitled and are clever enough to hide that well while they also bring nothing substantive to the table. I see this frequently in others’ relationships and am grateful to have dodged the bullet!
On man Courtney Ryan!! I'm a divorced older guy, have everything one would want, younger women, money, nice places to live. I still find you're engaging and honest, and that I am strangely attentive to your voice and wisdom. Nice.
She already has her lineup of sugardadddizz complete. Dude don t settle down for her, Gen Z girls they are for the street. Don t even try millenial gurls are not fresh anymore. Wait for the GEN Alpha gurls born in 2010 to 2024 to reach19yo and beauty pick. Some highschool girls are already following 30yo men on instagram. And my teen sister said the body count chzllenge is really trendy amoung them. Another fierce competition is coming soon on the market.
You style your hair beautifully and looks very nice today darling girl! I think the common reason either genders go for someone older is because of maturity. We get tired of drama and pettiness as time goes on
Men, do not hesitate for one moment to put a restraining order against your female partner if you feel your safety and health is in jeopardy. Placing a permanent restraining order on my female ex-partner was absolutely the wisest protective move of my adult lifetime. My only regret is not doing it years earlier. Men, be safe!
Women love gentleman. Even if a man is a "simp" if the man takes care of his body and respects her and her children & family than she will overlook any simping! Her family will love & like him too!
And when you're 55-60 she sleeps with her 25 year old fitness instructor! Younger women are a liability! You'll always or eventually worry she'll meet a younger guy than you. Dating them for a few months is best, then next 1 for few months, then next 1 for few months.
I always assumed older men had more maturity and were stronger and more stable emotionally and financially but it's not always true. In fact, it's hardly true and here is why: When they're older they are often divorced and/or have kids which means, they are broken (again both financially AND emotionally). Therefore, they are often looking for someone younger to boost their ego, be a mommy for their kids, and no matter how much money they make - they will be giving away 1/2 in child support and/or alimony. They don't have anything left to give (money - unless they are super wealthy) or love (because you will most likely be a last priority behind their kids and the memories of their failures in the past). This may sound pessimistic but it's absolutely realistic. Finding someone who is older without baggage is nearly impossible. And finding someone who has worked through the psychological mess of their past is very rare too. In a rosy, theoretical world - this girl's ideas are what we all think and what we all want to believe - but the reality is often what I wrote above. If you're in your 20s - you won't believe me, if you're in your 30s - you're starting to see this, and if you're in your 40s - you know that more often than not - I'm right. If you're young and reading this, stay positive, but be perceptive and keep what I wrote in the back of your mind.
1 of the fashion/style things I have learned when my beard converted to salt and pepper, is that wearing dark clothing on top works better with it. Having a grey/white chin tends to not look as good wearing a white shirt, as it does a black one. Well, that's my perception anyway.
Courtney sounded a little jelly of J-Lo. "She's like 50 and beautiful. Prettier than me, whatever" 😂🤣😂. J-Lo is hot for her age but I would pick Courtney any day of the week over her.
You shouldn’t need a video to know that means she’s not interested in you. If a girl is not giving you her attention or trying to talk to you/hang with you - assume they’re not interested, and move on.
I do not look forward turning 33 this year. I look forward securing enough cash flow sources to let them be a constant through out the rest of my life. SHOUT OUT TO THE COACH GANG!
I'm Italian, I'm trying to earn an advanced English certification and to make me a better person. Your videos are great for both these achievements. Thank you.
@@CourtneyRyan I'm from the southern part of Italy. The name of my region is Puglia. The city in which I live is on the Eastern Coast. I found your channel because your boyfriend's one. I'm also passionate about high end watches.
The other reason I married my older husband (he is four years my senior) was his kindness and compassionate nature as well as his acknowledgement of and our relationship with God. Older men are also more attractive than younger guys, who I see as only friends. Younger guys hitting on us older women frankly will always be a turn off for me. I’m just grateful I found the love of my life in my older husband Frank.
@@rathelmmc3194 no woman that knows her self worth chase nobody, get it. And it's very common to woman to put their life on hold for a man so he can achieve his goals, stop victimising
@@marte1376 That's not my experience. There's a reason women complain that men are thirsty and it's because of men overvaluing the woman and they don't like it. Women, on average, want men that are "powerful" (feel free to define that how you want) and they'll chase those men. And I'm not saying they chase them in the same way men pursue women. Women make themselves available to those men.
*They know what they want *They are mature and responsible (They don't do stupid "college boy" stuff) *They emit a sense of security *They fall asleep faster
It depends, I don't mind older men but within a reasonable age range. I like men who are old enough to be my older brother NOT old enough to be my dad.
52 and dated 21 thru 50... now with a 26 year old... by far I prefer younger women... more fun, more sexually open minded, more relaxed and less baggage..
Thank you for another quality video. You seem very genuine about your content. I personally appreciate that. I am a medical professional who happens to be 50. My new girlfriend happens to be 27 and a Physician. I make a pretty good living, but she is the breadwinner. She’s not seeing me for my money. This seems refreshing in some way. I feel like we are on even ground if that makes sense. There is some basic truth to what we have at this point. Off to a good start. Anyway, thought I would share. Take care.
@@grimegarage09isplop funny you say that. Those 30 something’s are the ones that we’re unable to keep her attention or gain her affection. I’m also not some jealous control freak. If someone wants to cheat, there’s nothing you can do to stop them. I do my best to treat her right and what I’m doing seems to be working. Only time will tell.
She may feel comfortable with you as you give her advise and security which is good. However, girls tend to be sneaky, and we/they know that when you age a bit more, they are going to start looking for younger men for fun. Or maybe she is already sneaky and has some adventures . Normally high value girls don't date guys double the age of us.
As a 52 year male that has been with woman between ages of 20 and 59, They all bring something to the table and you will surprised with the results. Step outside of what you think the perfect woman is. If your confident and sure about yourself you will attract ladies that bring true fulfillment beyong belief. My only complaint about this video is at 9:46 Couerney says "J.Lo is prettier than me" . This is far from the truth. You are stepping up to be a voice for men, and you do an amazing presentation on your platform. Thank you for your time and efforts!!!
She also didn’t mention that older dudes ignore them, which they can’t stand. Attention is plentiful from the younger guys, so it’s worth less (worthless?) in their eyes.
Yep, men in their fifties with their stuff together have no problem with women in late twenties and especially thirties (danger zone!). A friend of mine at 57 is marrying a 35 yo this year.
Women like guys that seem to have control of their life. That is why young confident guys (who project a feeling of mastery over their environment) and older men (who tend to actually have control of their life by that point) are the guys women gravitate to. Few women, i think would enjoy being with a guy that seems to be at the mercy of the world around him.
Would you do a video on the heights of men, why even though short men are still commonplace, why women put out there "i only date tall guys," referring to 6ft and taller?
As a man, I have been attracted to older women - Coz I think they deal with things in a much mature way and don't have fancy expectations in the relationship.
The issue is that more & more women are going for older men these days, meaning that a lot of younger guys are being left in the lurch. This is already having a knock on effect, as a lot of young men have no experience or confidence to mature with.
I’m a 23 year old man and no woman my age has given me any attention. As of now, I’m just doing the one thing I love doing which is drawing. I have a feeling I’m going to die alone.
It is very common and a lot of it is because more and more younger guys refuse to grow up. On the flip side, if a man goes after solely looks he will be sorely disappointed more often than not once the novelty has worn off. Turns out you have to talk to people not just look at them
I've had 19-20 year old women come after me and I am 40+. I do look younger like mid 30s but still it's exciting because of the energy and optimism that younger women have. Less emotional baggage from toxic relationships with multiple men =the kind of women who are really fun to hang out with. Too bad older women look at you like a perv if you're not with some 40+ women.
the older women who dont like that fact that men like younger women just dont want to admit that men like younger women....the men who dont approve are just jealous that they dont have that younger woman!
My boyfriend and I have a 20 year age gap we have been together for 5 years and he just brought up getting married to my mom. He so excited 😆. This is the best relationship I have ever had. Many people has poked jokes and said I give it a year or two, well it 5 years later and we're getting married soon. I can't wait ! ❤️❤️❤️
A very very interesting take on this subject. I personally feel that I know what matters most and it’s not the bar scene or places like that, relationships are meaningful and a blessing to find someone who sees like the sane way Thanks for sharing
@rico yungboy 401 Actually, just don't get married and live the life you want (that includes settling with a woman if you desire), not the one people ask you to. Trying to sleep with girls just for the sake of it is ridiculous.
I related to the living alone. Was married for 23 yrs. Even the last two women I dated felt like I was only one contributing. I want a woman is also secured in her career and provides and pays bills. They’ll have an understanding of this.
You had me until you said the male brain doesn't fully mature until 25 as if it's not the same for women. The older I get the less i believe that beyond the initial sexual maturity women mature any faster than men. I don't see the average 18-30 year old women living more responsible lives than their male counterparts. They're out there making similar poor decisions.
Right! I don't believe that too. Plenty of mature and immature people in all age groups on both sides. If that wasn't the case then women between 25 and older wouldn't have records of immaturity too but do as well.
Older men tend to already have their careers settled and their lives figured out. They have established themselves and are at the peak their earning. So, they are exactly what a woman is looking for.
I have found that women mainly look for confidence in a man. Confidence as a leader; as a provider, and fulfills promises. Not a bull-crapper, a dreamer void of maturity that is all talk and no action... a drifter. The woman definitely looks for a man who is based financially; based in attitude and based in goals... and also a man that is mature and chivalrous. A man who is a gentleman, respectful, a good listener, is courteous and has class. These men are always hard to find because... 1) They are always working, not playing. 2) They are already taken.
As a younger guy I preferred older women. As an older guy I now prefer younger women simply for the fact that they are less likely to have all the non-desirable baggage. Ex: Divorced, single mom, etc. With that being said, I would ultimately prefer to date someone almost my same age, within a year or two difference max but that seems to be the most difficult to find.
"We must truly protect Courtney at all cost." Statements like that encourage thots to act like decent women, to get exactly that attention you just gave. Little overboard my bro. Not saying she is, I like her content, surprisingly neutral (emotionally). Just saying, might be getting to excited, genuinely trying to help.
Dating younger is definitely attractive if you can pull it off 👍 I went on a date yesterday with a 26 year old girl and she barely spoke..you will need to drive the conversations
The only way older men get any consideration is if they come complete with financial security and a "debonair" sophistication & charisma (maturity, class, etc).
@@BlackieNuff Actually, the millionaire serves more people than the janitor. The millionaire gives a job to the janitor and many other people. The millionaire also buys more things that have to be manufactured by people, which means those people get to have jobs, too.
@@rlh125 Hah, on what planet does THAT happen? Millionaires and billionaires may create the jobs, but you know what they do with them? They OUTSOURCE them. Either overseas, or they give them to the (illegal!) immigrants HERE who don't wanna make waves about their status and so will take whatever job they can find, even if it's for peanuts. That's what those rotten rich people do ; they "serve" and do for themselves, and their bottom line - NOT for people. They can't exploit people who are here legally and who know their legal rights (as far as employment goes).
@ET Music I said “A 55 year old janitor isn’t going to get a high value young woman. A 55 year old millionaire is.” I didn’t say a guy in his 50s couldn’t date a younger woman. I said a poor guy in his 50s isn’t going to date *high value* younger women, whereas a rich guy in his 50s IS going to. Your experience doesn’t contradict my point. I didn’t say the ONLY guys in their 50s who could date high value young women are rich guys. Money isn’t the only thing women value. They value status. They value security. Maybe you have one or the other or both. Or maybe you look younger than your age (I do and I’m 56). Or maybe we would disagree about how high value the young women are that you’re dating.
If you're 46 and put that much emphasis on a woman's looks, then you probably don't have much experience with beautiful women. You want a beautiful woman that also doesn't give you a headache when you spend time with her. It's a rare find these days.
It's important to note that when you're talking about marriages ending because of finances it's not usually because there's not enough money but rather how it should be spent.
This women are attracted to older men not necessarily true. It highly depends on the actual woman. One of my previous co-workers, a 21 year old girl said, she started there at the same time with a 30 year old guy, who was really into her (quite quickly) and her rejecting line was "Sorry, I already have a dad, and I'm not into them". Of course she said she wasn't that harsh, but it was the main message. She also said there was nothing wrong with him, but based on his age it couldn't work for her. By the way those women, who really think older guys are better for these reasons will end up more than disappointed a few times. Some 30-40 year old man in my environment are quite unreliable and they can act immature aswell. Most men over 25 know what they want, but there can be exceptions too. These statements about women and older men are not facts, this whole topic is heavily personality dependant...
I know what I want and I'm mature and responsible. I've never met a woman my age who appreciates these qualities. I believe most of them care about one thing (at least at first): looks.
I liked always older men, but never had a boyfriend (im 22) its just a mixture of my insecurities, shyness, changing moods, not having an environment around me to help me build a connection with an older men, also most of them have a wife and kids, so i m not sure what to do. I felt in love with a very intelligent,charming men he s like my father s age,he has a great work status, has a good sense of humour, is charismatic, but of course has a wife and a kid, and i ll probably never see him again. Maybd thats better cause i d probably freak out again.
I hope you just mean older relative to the average college age. I consider 30s still a young man. But I'm 29 in college and feel like Billy Madison sometimes.
Haha same. Went to college after the military, was 24 when everyone else was 18-20, and some 21s. Was considered the older weird guy because I tried to talk to girls. So I just kept to myself for a few years
Summary:
1) They know what they want.
2) They are more mature and responsible.
3) Sense of security.
Number 3=
Status
Money
Prestige
Their social network thus social status rubs of on the woman.
Well he is more confident. A young man has more to worry about like money or carreer. The older man has already secured both. So he has more to be confident ABOUT.
It is not an inate quality of older men but his circumstances change.
An older man who has not achieved succes ranks lower than the younger man.
@@thijsjong You Said It !!! God Bless You Best Comment I've Seen
Typical women thing to make three points a ten minute video 😂😂
@Hubert Harmon When Will You Though ??????!!!!!!! That Shit Nasty Homie
@@ladystyles1174 As long as two consenting adults are of legal age, an age gap is an insignificant thing to worry about. With that lowkey shaming comment you posted, I'd guess you're on the wrong side of 30 at best.
Young men: instead of wasting your twenties chasing girls, focus your abundant energies consistently on your health and well-being, your education and your career and on interesting or adventurous activities or hobbies. If you can avoid any/too much debt, all the better. Be totally independent but maintain a few close friendships. By the time you're in your thirties, you will *NOT* need a dating app!!
Why can’t I talk to women and get money at the same time?
Simp dads beget entitled Karens
Good advice; I've never needed a dating app as for the biggest part of my life they never existed and I managed very well without them.
im 27 got make everything count before my erections slow down over time. Im slanging any female I see.
@@Awaiting_YHWHs_Return you can do that if you want let’s see how that works out for you
“Women don’t care about your struggles. They wait at the finish line and pick the winners.”
Then men don't care about girl's struggles,.They wait at the young line and fuck the beauties
@@crainwang9976 😂😂😂😂😂
That’s true man. Women don’t care about what you want. Only what you have.
Then struggle and win
@@crainwang9976 Shouldnt be born ugly and should take care of yourself before you hit the wall
I just found Courtney’s channel and I’m shocked at how mature she appears to be while being so poised especially now hearing that she’s only 25. The world needs more “influencers” to be proud of so I’m encouraged.
I had the same thought. She has the reflection and insight that I hear from woman in their 30s.
Just wait for the gen alpha girls to grow up.
Don t settle for Gen Z girl like courtney they already have their suggardad
@@lwwells does she look
30 +
@@daquieshakeaundra2854 why though
@@raghavnamasivayam5098 It’s hard to tell with makeup these days. Some 16 year olds look 30. I think this is why I seem to prefer women that don’t wear much or any.
I enjoy younger women-not just for looks, but because of their energy, and optimism, and fun. And, they usually have no kids.
And they can actually have kids
So because of their looks 😂, not judging, why would you go for same age or older since her financials won't matter to you anyway
Even the young ones have kids these days
@@masterofdisaster492 most don't don't be stupid... Most guys are broke so 🤷
Bingo
Men are attracted to younger women because biologically they can produce children and are more likely to survive the process. Women are attracted to successful men because biologically that maximizes the likely hood of success for her children. It’s that simple, there’s no reason to be bitter about it, it’s just nature.
Right who cares anymore . Accept it .
Correct. Men go for reproductive sex. Women go for a provider and security. 100% instinct.
I never have been attracted to older men. I think that's disgusting, and I don't care how successful he is.
@@ranip7644 The terms men and women are used as generalizations here. Of course not everyone falls into these buckets.
If this was actual nature, younger women nor older women would be attracted to older men. Younger men are on average healthier, stronger, faster and more agile which suits them better in the protector role and in a world without money, the provider role because what man has more chance to hunt down a deer. A strong, fast, agile, young man or an older man with back problems. They are also more virile and have healthier sperm which translates into having healthier offspring. The only reason that some younger women prefer older men is because in this modern world, capitalist society of ours, older men have a 10-20 year head start to financial success over younger men. Older women might feel that a man of her own age might be more relatable to her than a man younger than her but if were talking about purely natural, biological, lizard brain instincts which older men like to reference, than older women also prefer younger men. In the animal kingdom, younger, virile males are always more attractive to both younger and older females than older males. Look up the word "dagga boys" if you want to see the proof. So this whole "it's in their nature" argument doesn't hold up at all. It all comes down to the social construct of money and financial success for older men. This is also the reason why older women have more lustful fantasies about younger men than vice versa.
21 years apart with my wife. Everyone said I’ll give it 2 years. They are all divorced and we are still going strong at 23 years. My career is over now and I support hers. I always used to say... I don’t like all young girls, I like that young girl.
Winning!
You support her career? How?
Nice. My mom was 30 years younger than my dad, they were together for life. And he wasn’t rich- college professor & peace activist. Not exactly rolling in bucks. 😆
@@jpoeng But he had a high status job, I bet she wouldn't have married him if he was a janitor.
@@Coneman3 And your point is… That women prefer intelligent men with a purpose who excel at their calling? Yes. They do.
I am now sixty-two years of age and I have not been with a woman for almost twelve years, but I try to keep myself in good physical shape regardless. In the last year I found myself working in an environment that was occupied by many women, some very young others closer to my age. I realized that some older ladies were interested in me at first, but a larger majority of "interested" women were much, much, younger. Until this event, I have never been thrust into a work situation where my attention was so highly sought after.
yeah sure grampa
@@blackpearL40-y2p Your time will come too greenhorn!
@@blackpearL40-y2p "grandpa"
1:10 they know what they want
3:43 mature and responsible
6:11 sense of security
Rudy: if the man keeps his body in good shape ALL women love that too!
Thank you for saving me the time
You are right, Courtney! Since I have been getting older women & girls have been hitting on me. I keep my body in good shape but doing, weights, cardio, and yoga (I just became a yoga instructor). I started to see that some women have hit on me in front of their husbands or boyfriends. That never happened to me when I was 25 years or younger.
Courtney, this is true of ALL women i.e. older, younger, White, Mexicans, Black, Asian, Middle Eastern, Jews, etc. Even if the women are Police Officers, lawyers, entertainers, my landlord, women taller or shorter than me, well educated, or non-educated.
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Fellas, work on yourself and focus on your purpose. Do that, and you will need to fight them off with a stick. Trust me.
Agreed. 😎
how much wisdom can be put in such a small set of words
When the storm comes and I'm struggling will they stay or will they leave? I think i know what they will do. Just remember everyone wil face tough times in life in including (Billionaires) ?when that time comes modern women will run. But, that dosen't mean everybody but most girls.
@@cool28990 A wise man once said that storms smile at us all. All a man can do is smile back.
Very true👍
you really have a talent for telling it like it is...but in a way that still comes across as very compassionate.
Only 25? You possess much poise, wisdom, and caring for someone so young. I hope God blesses you with a wonderful man soon.
Lmao she's with Teddy Baldasarre
@@mikelinsky Looks like you're bumming, then.
@Peter Jordanson25 is nothing.
She has a boyfriend.
@@EduardoSantos-pv8yo Prayers answered.
If you're an 18-22 year old male, ignore women and acquire currency. (Or, more precisely, the MEANS of acquiring said currency.)
Im 45. I have been through a lot. Older or say "MATURE" men do not have any time for games. All we do is develop ourselves more and more each passing year. Men increase in Value in Age through experience and Calmness. Trust me, being Calm in ANY given situation is such freedom. Boys play Games, older Men achieve Goals. One after the other. At 25? some (or most) men have not figured out yet what they want. I say Some. At 45? a Man's reputation IS HIS asset. We have had many battle scars. We are still learning. Older Men have their emotions in Check.
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Y'all trick off all your pension that's it
At 55 I am surprised at how much 30 something women like talking to me. My advice I would give my younger self is to be relaxed with women and don't dodge their emotions or any s*** tests. Women love to feel comfortable and when you act like you can handle anything life throws at you including all of their emotions, issues or anything else they share they want to be with a man like that. If a woman feels like you are their "rock" and a calm in her storm she will want to be with you.
I’m 55 also and yes is good to date women in their 30s
They think your a father figure
I’m 40 and I didn’t know it would be like this. Women in their 20’s have no quarrels about dating me
@@EXPOSEDBYGABRIELPEREZ dont settle right now wait for the next generztion girl hitting 18yo !!
@@daquieshakeaundra2854 I already live with a 28 year old woman I have a daughter we separate and got married and divorce with a 27 year old woman. For me is enough. Is better to be single and only date.
I agree with you, Courtney. After divorce with 2 boys, I got this much younger, talented beautiful woman stand next to me and have been together for the last 5 years. Age is just a number, it’s the personality, the chemistry, the love that gets you together, and keeps you going strong. Keep up with your good works. Thank you.
Where are you meeting these girls!!?? I'm a 37 y/o and can't get a younger girl to take a glimpse at me! And I'm SO done with girls my age or older.
@@thefox47545 Sorry to hear that sir, however, at 37 it should be the prime time to meet someone and setup a family.
I would say it’s not difficult to meet someone, but it’s hard to meet someone you like and love. So go out there, meet new people, and show your personality. No one looked at me either before they knew me. You need to meet them, and through the interaction, they know you and they fall in love with you as a person. I wasn’t out there to look for someone particularly much younger than me, I met her through friends circle, and it just happened.
A few points to mention as well:
1. Always try to be the better version of yourself and have the confidence and belief in yourself, cos your charm and pleasant personality will shine through it, and girls love a confident man (not cocky as mentioned by Courtney before);
2. Don’t chase the girl/woman, but chase your own excellence. Woman will only marry up, not down.
3. Age is just a number, they fall in love with you as a person once they know you, so make sure you keep your heart young, cos you will need it if you meet a younger woman.
4. Nothing is forever. Free your spirit. Have a positive attitude, the positive people and energy will come around you. Man loves a woman through giving and provide, and woman loves man for who he is and what he can provide.
I wish you the best. Cheers.
@@AlanLawSydney Great advice! Thank you so much sir, I appreciate it!
@@thefox47545 you are welcome!
Alan- are you going to marry her? Does she want children? Or are you going to play house
Courtney, what you are saying is what I've been trying to get my single guy friends to understand for years. A guy seeking a serious relationship in college is a roll of the dice, simply because all he has to worry about is getting his next term paper done on time.
But say that a guy finishes school, develops marketable skills, gets into a decent paying job, learns to manage his money, even starts investing, purchases some real estate, and gets a decent, reliable car - by his mid 20s. I get it, that takes a lot of work, independence, and discipline.
I just wish more young guys would realize how desirable that is to a lot of women.
Inevitably, this man will become quite selective of what girl he will share his life with - he now has a lot to lose by being in a bad relationship.
You said one time that if a guy would focus on himself to improve himself, that women, definitely high quality girls, will come and take interest. I can testify to that statement.
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...so you want money, investments, real estate, a car. Just admit it. Not one thing you listed was about the man himself
@@MrAhuraMazda That's exactly what I'm saying. What are good looks and a "great personality" worth in someone who can't even learn to manage their money? Don't you have those things I listed? If you don't, why not? You think you're held back? You're not. We're surrounded by lazy people, they're lazy because they're comfortable. And then they wine and bark about how victimized they are. It's a load of BS. Is this all egotistical? Of course it is. I won't just admit that I'm an egotist, I'll promote it. No one EVER achieved anything in this world who wasn't.
You see, I said that girls would take interest in a guy like this, and they do. And that's where all the biggest problems can come in. There are a lot of hour-glass figures with a ton of makeup and long hair out there. The thing is, you want a girl who is just as much an egotist, someone who wants more than just comforts. It's the women who just want to be comfortable who are lazy, and who want a guy who will feed her laziness. This will ruin him.
The world is yours, my friend, take it.
"Girls wait at the finish line and get with the winners."
18 yr old girl to a 26 yr old guy: "You're too old for me"
18 yr old girl to 33 yr old Zac Effron: "He's SO hot"
911 is just a number too
Hypergamy
Bang on.
I'm kicking on 30 this year and attention from 18-23 yo girls on a rise with each day ☕
@@Anthony-so4go lol same I don’t think I’ve ever had this much attention idk what to do with it
Definitely know what I want since I am an “older man”. Thanks for this Courtney!
Key statement for me now that I’m divorced and single; “ she has to add value to my life “.
John, I find if the older man keeps his body in good shape than ALL women & even girls will be hitting on him!
@@terrytari1891 I notice that 😀
Either you have a good psychology degree or are wise beyond your years. Or both. I am in my 50's and impressed by your insight. Taught me a few things...
Too bad she already has her own sugardads boomer
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Most other channels from women dispensing dating advice downplay the importance of women & money. Thanks for your honesty.
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I am a mature, experienced and by most standards, successful guy. I have generally only dated or been married to a woman at least 10-12 years younger. So I definitely know of which I speak. I agree with the security, maturity, experience, income attributes. The problem comes in when your partner expects an above average income, but complains and does not understand that in order for her to enjoy the fruits of your labor, she must except the extraordinary amount of time and work required to generate that income. If she complains that you spend too much time working, then she is a spoiled brat, and needs a dose of real life.
Scott: in today's world age isn't a big thing like it was to our parents & grand parents. I have dated women older & younger. Most of them hit on me because I take great extra care of my body. I like it when a woman takes care of her body no matter what age she is!
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@@RR-et6zp I have. It’s superficial rhetoric that becomes obvious to the experienced.
@@scottschumacher5844 hahaa no, its derived from evolutionary biology and backed by data , that's why I recommended the book, you clearly havent read it
@@RR-et6zp thank you. But you are a bit late to this dance. Carry on.
I’ve just started watching your videos and I’d like to say how impressed I am with how articulate and well spoken you are.
So was jezebel 😂
A lot of this really comes from self experience, some of us guys just go through a lot and it really depends on how we handle the situation if we keep making the same mistakes it won’t change us for the better. That being said it doesn’t take only one experience, it takes multiple experiences from all areas, finances, health, social, etc.
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I love the honesty in this one, especially the financial aspect- let’s be real, none of us, man or woman want to be struggling financially as we get older, so its only natural to want to look for a partner who is financially capable. Thank you for this Big Sis! Always helps to hear from a lady who keeps it 💯.
The issue or problem I have with placing money above complementarity is that there will always be other men(in my case) with more money than I have, but the women I know seem to forget that acquiring and keeping lots of money takes a lot of time away from loved ones.
Sometimes, to their near total exclusion.
Only for these women to lose interest in their own husband's in search of male attention other than their husband's.
Both are right and both are wrong.
There is, therefore ample room for negotiating more male/husband attention for comparitively less monetary compensation.
Basically it's all entirely about money in this country and that's partly because the middle and lower class got fucked to the point we basically can't afford to have a home or family anymore unless you are at least upper middleclass if not lower upper class.
I'm 39, unlucky with women of age between 26-33, which people say is my "marriage material age", but younger girls like me and I never try to downplay my age. I like their energy and decency, some generations are more stable in mind and more decent than the older generations. I don't really know what they see in me, I'm depressed and financially ruined guy. In recent years I've been dating women that 20 years ago would be in my mind way over my league.
I like your raw honesty. Most other channels that cover this same topic downplays the money factor.
I’m 25 & dating a 35 year old , when we first started talking she said I was very mature for my age. She told me that in her experience the men she’s dated/talked to in the past have came off as too needy. Everyone & every situation is different.
Agree! I prefer this age ratio opposed to dating older due to most older men having baggage.
Dude, if she’s 35 she is just about to slam into The Wall and single guy’s her age (and a bit older) are dating chicks in their 20s. She can say what she wants about them being “needy” or whatever. The fact is, her shelf life is just about at expiration date. Biology is a harsh reality.
Now I know why those young women won't leave me. Waw!! You is so knowledgeable!!
My Sister married a guy 15 years older than her and the guy is totally broke. I used to think my sister was nuts but now I think she's a genius. This guy treats her super well and takes very good care of her and has been an excellent dad (he had kids from prior marriage so he knew how to deal with kids) My sister could not be happier and I couldn't have been more wrong about him in the beginning.
Damn right Im older single now not broke raised 3 daughter's Im looking for a 20's female Ive tried to connect with 40ish/50 no way Im too fit athletic healthy fit Im going for it as long as someone will have me and they don't have to be a beauty queen just loving/fun/bossy lol I don't mind a bit as long as there is affection I can still raise kids Im retired do house work cook clean take care of a house cars lawns Ive done and would do it again even at 60 Im high natural Italian energy look me up!
I am 29 I like this guy who is 41 we like each other a lot ! He born in 1980 and I born in 1992 . He knows what he need and want to . We have a lot of in common to some not in common to . Thanks for the video !
12 years is nothing much. My Mum was 12 years younger than my Dad and they had a great relationship. She passed away before he did and it broke his heart.
so true, women never attracted to me in my 20s, but as i have changed my style, worked on my body,have more confidence, more successful in my job at my 35,so i can say many women which are quite young compared to me are more than just interested in me
For settling down Just wait for gen alpha gurls to grow up.
Gen z gurls are crazy with their suggardadd like courtney and high body count
Millenial gurls are clapped
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I’m 58 and happily married. If somehow, God forbid, I wound up single, I would never consider dating at all. Women want $ and I’ll be damned if I’m going to give away all I’ve worked for. Too many are entitled and are clever enough to hide that well while they also bring nothing substantive to the table. I see this frequently in others’ relationships and am grateful to have dodged the bullet!
Lovely work Courtney. Just discovered your Channel. The calmness is refreshing. The depth of thought is way beyond your years..
On man Courtney Ryan!! I'm a divorced
older guy, have everything one would want, younger women, money, nice places to live. I still find you're engaging and honest, and that I am strangely attentive to your voice and wisdom. Nice.
She already has her lineup of sugardadddizz complete.
Dude don t settle down for her, Gen Z girls they are for the street. Don t even try millenial gurls are not fresh anymore.
Wait for the GEN Alpha gurls born in 2010 to 2024 to reach19yo and beauty pick. Some highschool girls are already following 30yo men on instagram. And my teen sister said the body count chzllenge is really trendy amoung them.
Another fierce competition is coming soon on the market.
You style your hair beautifully and looks very nice today darling girl! I think the common reason either genders go for someone older is because of maturity. We get tired of drama and pettiness as time goes on
Men, do not hesitate for one moment to put a restraining order against your female partner if you feel your safety and health is in jeopardy. Placing a permanent restraining order on my female ex-partner was absolutely the wisest protective move of my adult lifetime. My only regret is not doing it years earlier. Men, be safe!
I was waiting for one of the reasons to be "you resemble their dad" 😂
In her case looking at her Instagram this is 100% true
Relationship: Waste
Single: Freedom
Having the self-confidence to thank a woman and compliment her, and wish her well, does not mean a man is thirsty or simping. Negate the hate.
I agree. But it depends on the compliment. "That dress looks lovely on you" goes farther (and means more) than "you are beautiful".
Women love gentleman. Even if a man is a "simp" if the man takes care of his body and respects her and her children & family than she will overlook any simping! Her family will love & like him too!
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Last year I was 44 and was seeing a 27 year old woman for a few months. She said she loved my full beard with a little gray. Lol
I guess thats good for 44...but 27 yr old women are typically leftovers
And when you're 55-60 she sleeps with her 25 year old fitness instructor! Younger women are a liability! You'll always or eventually worry she'll meet a younger guy than you. Dating them for a few months is best, then next 1 for few months, then next 1 for few months.
@@grimegarage09isplop if you r clapped physically ofc she will get her juice out by hotter men. But she will stay by your side if you accept to share.
I always assumed older men had more maturity and were stronger and more stable emotionally and financially but it's not always true. In fact, it's hardly true and here is why: When they're older they are often divorced and/or have kids which means, they are broken (again both financially AND emotionally). Therefore, they are often looking for someone younger to boost their ego, be a mommy for their kids, and no matter how much money they make - they will be giving away 1/2 in child support and/or alimony. They don't have anything left to give (money - unless they are super wealthy) or love (because you will most likely be a last priority behind their kids and the memories of their failures in the past). This may sound pessimistic but it's absolutely realistic. Finding someone who is older without baggage is nearly impossible. And finding someone who has worked through the psychological mess of their past is very rare too. In a rosy, theoretical world - this girl's ideas are what we all think and what we all want to believe - but the reality is often what I wrote above. If you're in your 20s - you won't believe me, if you're in your 30s - you're starting to see this, and if you're in your 40s - you know that more often than not - I'm right. If you're young and reading this, stay positive, but be perceptive and keep what I wrote in the back of your mind.
1 of the fashion/style things I have learned when my beard converted to salt and pepper, is that wearing dark clothing on top works better with it. Having a grey/white chin tends to not look as good wearing a white shirt, as it does a black one. Well, that's my perception anyway.
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Courtney sounded a little jelly of J-Lo. "She's like 50 and beautiful. Prettier than me, whatever" 😂🤣😂. J-Lo is hot for her age but I would pick Courtney any day of the week over her.
J-Lo can't keep a man.
Underclass facts
J-Lo is not attractive at all.
After her super bowl performance, I lost all respect for jlo . Courtney all the way.
J-Lo thinks her shit don't stink.
Great video!!! Would love to see you make a video on older women and younger men!
I think you should do a video on let’s say a “she sees your social media, but doesn’t reply to you or talk to you”
her advice is to ignore her. go on with your life. she made a video about it before
@@dvrocha can you tell which video is that one?
@@jorgeolaf4304 I think is this one: ua-cam.com/video/ydDjWQ4zt00/v-deo.html
but I'm not sure
You shouldn’t need a video to know that means she’s not interested in you. If a girl is not giving you her attention or trying to talk to you/hang with you - assume they’re not interested, and move on.
@@dvrocha I think that’s a different one!!!
I do not look forward turning 33 this year. I look forward securing enough cash flow sources to let them be a constant through out the rest of my life. SHOUT OUT TO THE COACH GANG!
I'm Italian, I'm trying to earn an advanced English certification and to make me a better person. Your videos are great for both these achievements. Thank you.
Aww this makes me happy. What part of Italy are you from?! 🥰
@@CourtneyRyan I'm from the southern part of Italy. The name of my region is Puglia. The city in which I live is on the Eastern Coast. I found your channel because your boyfriend's one. I'm also passionate about high end watches.
As someone who is married to someone who is 16 years older than me, these all sooo resonated with me!
Yes, the generational gap. And old man have their cons too, their energy is much more lower, sex can be a problem
Not all men are equal 🤣
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Some women want a man with a lower sex drive.
One point not mentioned here is that I personally think older men are overall much more attractive.
Thank you 😊
The other reason I married my older husband (he is four years my senior) was his kindness and compassionate nature as well as his acknowledgement of and our relationship with God. Older men are also more attractive than younger guys, who I see as only friends. Younger guys hitting on us older women frankly will always be a turn off for me. I’m just grateful I found the love of my life in my older husband Frank.
The Roommates shouted you out yesterday, you're making waves
They did? Which video?
@@IamjustBruh the Livestream they did yesterday
@@mihlasimelane3563 Dang...I always thought they were going to reference her or bring her in the podcast at some point.
@@IamjustBruh I'm sure they will at some point, or maybe Fresh & Fit
If there's one thing that I could tell my younger self is to realize that men are the prize.
😂😂😂 you wish. No but seriously, I think I would like to be with a person who has integrity. If both parts have it, both are the prize
@@marte1376, women ask a lot out of men. Men ask very little of women. So a good man has women chasing them.
@@rathelmmc3194 no woman that knows her self worth chase nobody, get it. And it's very common to woman to put their life on hold for a man so he can achieve his goals, stop victimising
@@marte1376 That's not my experience. There's a reason women complain that men are thirsty and it's because of men overvaluing the woman and they don't like it. Women, on average, want men that are "powerful" (feel free to define that how you want) and they'll chase those men.
And I'm not saying they chase them in the same way men pursue women. Women make themselves available to those men.
Women do the choosing
*They know what they want
*They are mature and responsible (They don't do stupid "college boy" stuff)
*They emit a sense of security
*They fall asleep faster
It depends, I don't mind older men but within a reasonable age range. I like men who are old enough to be my older brother NOT old enough to be my dad.
Pure Leadership, that's the key. Mark it down as maturity...
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Men, just be the best version of yourself, follow your ambitions and you will naturally attract others.
52 and dated 21 thru 50... now with a 26 year old... by far I prefer younger women... more fun, more sexually open minded, more relaxed and less baggage..
Half seriously and half jokingly I'm going to take a stab at this before watching.
1. Money.
2. Wealth
3. Financial security
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Thank you for another quality video. You seem very genuine about your content. I personally appreciate that. I am a medical professional who happens to be 50. My new girlfriend happens to be 27 and a Physician. I make a pretty good living, but she is the breadwinner. She’s not seeing me for my money. This seems refreshing in some way. I feel like we are on even ground if that makes sense. There is some basic truth to what we have at this point. Off to a good start. Anyway, thought I would share. Take care.
And you trust her working around men in their 30's? Dont be surprised when she has to work late so often. Good luck
@@grimegarage09isplop funny you say that. Those 30 something’s are the ones that we’re unable to keep her attention or gain her affection. I’m also not some jealous control freak. If someone wants to cheat, there’s nothing you can do to stop them. I do my best to treat her right and what I’m doing seems to be working. Only time will tell.
Good luck, the chemistry is more important than the age.
She may feel comfortable with you as you give her advise and security which is good. However, girls tend to be sneaky, and we/they know that when you age a bit more, they are going to start looking for younger men for fun. Or maybe she is already sneaky and has some adventures . Normally high value girls don't date guys double the age of us.
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As a 52 year male that has been with woman between ages of 20 and 59, They all bring something to the table and you will surprised with the results. Step outside of what you think the perfect woman is. If your confident and sure about yourself you will attract ladies that bring true fulfillment beyong belief. My only complaint about this video is at 9:46 Couerney says "J.Lo is prettier than me" . This is far from the truth. You are stepping up to be a voice for men, and you do an amazing presentation on your platform. Thank you for your time and efforts!!!
JLo obviously has had a lot of help in order to look as good as she does.
Thank you CHRISTINE for the insights and sharing your wisdom.
You're a real woman !
Weloveyou you.
She also didn’t mention that older dudes ignore them, which they can’t stand. Attention is plentiful from the younger guys, so it’s worth less (worthless?) in their eyes.
Honestly I'm to be 54 in a few days and I receive much attention from women in their 30s. My masculinity attracts them. Apparently. 😳
cool, im 21 and i wanna attract 23 y.o. but it's hard 💔
@@arunprasanth9987 yeah.. I have no clue about that age,anymore. Lol. Be yourself.
Happy Birthday 🎂
Yep, men in their fifties with their stuff together have no problem with women in late twenties and especially thirties (danger zone!). A friend of mine at 57 is marrying a 35 yo this year.
I'm not looking for a wife currently. Has to be at least 35.
Women like guys that seem to have control of their life. That is why young confident guys (who project a feeling of mastery over their environment) and older men (who tend to actually have control of their life by that point) are the guys women gravitate to.
Few women, i think would enjoy being with a guy that seems to be at the mercy of the world around him.
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Would you do a video on the heights of men, why even though short men are still commonplace, why women put out there "i only date tall guys," referring to 6ft and taller?
As a man, I have been attracted to older women - Coz I think they deal with things in a much mature way and don't have fancy expectations in the relationship.
Hey Courtney, that's what I wanted to know for a long time! Thank you!
The issue is that more & more women are going for older men these days, meaning that a lot of younger guys are being left in the lurch. This is already having a knock on effect, as a lot of young men have no experience or confidence to mature with.
I’m a 23 year old man and no woman my age has given me any attention. As of now, I’m just doing the one thing I love doing which is drawing. I have a feeling I’m going to die alone.
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And this video is the exact reason why people call you a Chamaleon, you just prove their point.
It is very common and a lot of it is because more and more younger guys refuse to grow up. On the flip side, if a man goes after solely looks he will be sorely disappointed more often than not once the novelty has worn off. Turns out you have to talk to people not just look at them
You mean not just pound their snootch with their face down 😂
Ofc You have to talk to girls at some point.
Nah 20syo dude are sooo BROKE.
Hence college girls are looking for Sugardadddizz for the peazz 💅
"Often, to AVOID that GROWING pain period.." @the end of #1;
The difference between Women & Girls... High Value vs Toxic Females
I've had 19-20 year old women come after me and I am 40+. I do look younger like mid 30s but still it's exciting because of the energy and optimism that younger women have.
Less emotional baggage from toxic relationships with multiple men =the kind of women who are really fun to hang out with. Too bad older women look at you like a perv if you're not with some 40+ women.
the older women who dont like that fact that men like younger women just dont want to admit that men like younger women....the men who dont approve are just jealous that they dont have that younger woman!
Younger woman suit with younger man. Older man suit with older woman. Please see mirror
Their just jealous. 😋
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I wouldn't fault any woman for wanting to be a stay at home mom. I think it is an entirely respectable thing.
My boyfriend and I have a 20 year age gap we have been together for 5 years and he just brought up getting married to my mom. He so excited 😆. This is the best relationship I have ever had. Many people has poked jokes and said I give it a year or two, well it 5 years later and we're getting married soon. I can't wait ! ❤️❤️❤️
A very very interesting take on this subject. I personally feel that I know what matters most and it’s not the bar scene or places like that, relationships are meaningful and a blessing to find someone who sees like the sane way Thanks for sharing
Wow I’m really young here only 18 😂 still got a lot of years left😂 great advice 😎👌🏻
Bro i am 16!😑
I'm 15 -_-
@rico yungboy 401 Actually, just don't get married and live the life you want (that includes settling with a woman if you desire), not the one people ask you to.
Trying to sleep with girls just for the sake of it is ridiculous.
I turned 19, two days ago and honestly I like older men but not too old, like 25 max.
@@LunakieCherrie Like most girls, just check dating website and app preference datas.
Favorite age for 18 and 19 yo girls is something like 23 to 25.
I related to the living alone. Was married for 23 yrs. Even the last two women I dated felt like I was only one contributing. I want a woman is also secured in her career and provides and pays bills. They’ll have an understanding of this.
You had me until you said the male brain doesn't fully mature until 25 as if it's not the same for women. The older I get the less i believe that beyond the initial sexual maturity women mature any faster than men. I don't see the average 18-30 year old women living more responsible lives than their male counterparts. They're out there making similar poor decisions.
Right! I don't believe that too. Plenty of mature and immature people in all age groups on both sides. If that wasn't the case then women between 25 and older wouldn't have records of immaturity too but do as well.
That is correct.
Older men tend to already have their careers settled and their lives figured out. They have established themselves and are at the peak their earning.
So, they are exactly what a woman is looking for.
Guys, if you haven't found the one yet, don't worry; maybe she hasn't been born yet.
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Like Clementine?
Sick
I have found that women mainly look for confidence in a man. Confidence as a leader; as a provider, and fulfills promises. Not a bull-crapper, a dreamer void of maturity that is all talk and no action... a drifter.
The woman definitely looks for a man who is based financially; based in attitude and based in goals... and also a man that is mature and chivalrous. A man who is a gentleman, respectful, a good listener, is courteous and has class.
These men are always hard to find because...
1) They are always working, not playing.
2) They are already taken.
As a younger guy I preferred older women. As an older guy I now prefer younger women simply for the fact that they are less likely to have all the non-desirable baggage. Ex: Divorced, single mom, etc. With that being said, I would ultimately prefer to date someone almost my same age, within a year or two difference max but that seems to be the most difficult to find.
Wait for GEN ALPHA gurls to grow up.
GEN Z girl are on the rise looking for perfect sugardaddddiz
Millenial gurls are soon outdated
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Your way of talking & subject is really appreciated. Thanks ❤️🙏
Awww when she said she wants to be a mom. Gives me hope that women like her still exists. We must truly protect Courtney at all cost.
"We must truly protect Courtney at all cost."
Statements like that encourage thots to act like decent women, to get exactly that attention you just gave. Little overboard my bro.
Not saying she is, I like her content, surprisingly neutral (emotionally). Just saying, might be getting to excited, genuinely trying to help.
@@davidevans7477 So you're saying encouraging thots to be decent women is bad?
@@jhonsmith5710 It depends who you consider thots
I can't wait to turn 90. Women will adore me.
Dating younger is definitely attractive if you can pull it off 👍 I went on a date yesterday with a 26 year old girl and she barely spoke..you will need to drive the conversations
You're the experienced one ;)
It s your job
you are the sugardad
She just need warm meal
Good booty exercise
1. The know what they want
2. Mature and responsible
3. Sense of security
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The only way older men get any consideration is if they come complete with financial security and a "debonair" sophistication & charisma (maturity, class, etc).
That’s true. A 55 year old janitor isn’t going to get a high value young woman. A 55 year old millionaire is.
@@rlh125
Exactly.
Raking in cash beats sweeping up corridors.
Even though the latter serves others better... but no one cares about that.
@@BlackieNuff Actually, the millionaire serves more people than the janitor. The millionaire gives a job to the janitor and many other people. The millionaire also buys more things that have to be manufactured by people, which means those people get to have jobs, too.
@@rlh125
Hah, on what planet does THAT happen?
Millionaires and billionaires may create the jobs, but you know what they do with them? They OUTSOURCE them. Either overseas, or they give them to the (illegal!) immigrants HERE who don't wanna make waves about their status and so will take whatever job they can find, even if it's for peanuts. That's what those rotten rich people do ; they "serve" and do for themselves, and their bottom line - NOT for people. They can't exploit people who are here legally and who know their legal rights (as far as employment goes).
@ET Music
I said “A 55 year old janitor isn’t going to get a high value young woman. A 55 year old millionaire is.”
I didn’t say a guy in his 50s couldn’t date a younger woman. I said a poor guy in his 50s isn’t going to date *high value* younger women, whereas a rich guy in his 50s IS going to. Your experience doesn’t contradict my point. I didn’t say the ONLY guys in their 50s who could date high value young women are rich guys. Money isn’t the only thing women value. They value status. They value security. Maybe you have one or the other or both. Or maybe you look younger than your age (I do and I’m 56). Or maybe we would disagree about how high value the young women are that you’re dating.
Love ur commentary, u express facts , y women like older men, after u did ur research on this topic.
I'm 46 and I know exactly what I want: a beautiful girl in her twenties. :)
That's because women are at their most attractive, young and fertile. Once they hit their 30s it's a gradual decline each year.
@@LeeEverett1 Some women in their 30s are super hot, but yes, generally 20s are hotter.
Then you have to beta buxxx
If you're 46 and put that much emphasis on a woman's looks, then you probably don't have much experience with beautiful women. You want a beautiful woman that also doesn't give you a headache when you spend time with her. It's a rare find these days.
@@mortizmortiz Not true. My last girlfriend was 24 and I was no ATM.
It's important to note that when you're talking about marriages ending because of finances it's not usually because there's not enough money but rather how it should be spent.
This women are attracted to older men not necessarily true. It highly depends on the actual woman. One of my previous co-workers, a 21 year old girl said, she started there at the same time with a 30 year old guy, who was really into her (quite quickly) and her rejecting line was "Sorry, I already have a dad, and I'm not into them". Of course she said she wasn't that harsh, but it was the main message. She also said there was nothing wrong with him, but based on his age it couldn't work for her.
By the way those women, who really think older guys are better for these reasons will end up more than disappointed a few times. Some 30-40 year old man in my environment are quite unreliable and they can act immature aswell. Most men over 25 know what they want, but there can be exceptions too.
These statements about women and older men are not facts, this whole topic is heavily personality dependant...
I know what I want and I'm mature and responsible. I've never met a woman my age who appreciates these qualities. I believe most of them care about one thing (at least at first): looks.
I liked always older men, but never had a boyfriend (im 22) its just a mixture of my insecurities, shyness, changing moods, not having an environment around me to help me build a connection with an older men, also most of them have a wife and kids, so i m not sure what to do. I felt in love with a very intelligent,charming men he s like my father s age,he has a great work status, has a good sense of humour, is charismatic, but of course has a wife and a kid, and i ll probably never see him again. Maybd thats better cause i d probably freak out again.
Hi I’m old 😌
@@stg-4476 ok
its good to see modern women understand how relations men/women work
I’m 55 and I have girls that like meeting me and they are in their late 20’s and early 30’s.
Congratulation 🎉
younger than you and i've been there, it's feels fkn weird.
So what’s the secret?
Depends on individual personality,what he/she likes in life and what personality traits he/she looking for, in partner.
As an older man, 32 years old, I went to college after military service, I found that the snobby girls there didn’t like me lol 😆
Went to college at 26 after the Marines. It was pretty rough 🤣
I'm 36 and I don't consider myself older so idk what you're talking about man.
I hope you just mean older relative to the average college age. I consider 30s still a young man. But I'm 29 in college and feel like Billy Madison sometimes.
Haha same. Went to college after the military, was 24 when everyone else was 18-20, and some 21s. Was considered the older weird guy because I tried to talk to girls. So I just kept to myself for a few years
@@crl122486 🤣 yup! Ya creep! 🤣