Story Time: My Labour & Delivery Experience

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  • Опубліковано 5 лют 2025
  • Hi my lovelies, so I finally filmed my much requested Labour and Delivery story! I didn't do this when I had Noah so I have done a quick recap in this video of what happened with the birth of my first son and then gone into detail about the second labour and delivery. I apologize in advance if there are bits missing or if it feels slightly all over the place, its been 6 weeks since I gave birth and the human body has a way of making you forget what happened (so that you go and have more babies! lo ) But if you have any questions or feel like there is something I've missed then please let me know below and I'll be happy to answer it. I'll be filming a video answering your questions about life with 2 kids under 2 pretty soon so keep an eye out for that as well :)
    If you're not following me on my other platforms already, then make sure you check out the links below:
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 159

  • @p96-d8d
    @p96-d8d 5 років тому +145

    Pray me and my husband have a baby soon In Sha Allah 🙏

  • @shanajbegum2031
    @shanajbegum2031 5 років тому +55

    This made me soo emtional! It's incredible what our bodies can do.. may Allah SWT protect you and your family always.

    • @sebinaah
      @sebinaah  5 років тому +2

      Shanaj Begum it is actually insane that our bodies are capable of this! Subhan allah

  • @sairashaukat
    @sairashaukat 5 років тому +10

    Thank you so much for this video! I'm currently 34 weeks pregnant and soo nervous/excited and scared as it's our first. Your labour story made me soo emotional but was extremely hwlpful so thank you xxx

  • @HannaHasAPlan
    @HannaHasAPlan 5 років тому +19

    Love this video. You did a great job of explaining your two labour stories realistically.
    Congrats to you and your husband on your beautiful little boy!

    • @sebinaah
      @sebinaah  5 років тому

      Hanna K thanks hun 😘

  • @Aminah1612
    @Aminah1612 5 років тому +10

    Thank you for this video sis. Our first baby is due in 9 weeks insha Allah and I’ve been worrying about labour & delivery. It’s helped me calm down a bit, will keep the tips on breathing, pain relief, etc to hand!

    • @Hello_neighbourfan
      @Hello_neighbourfan 5 років тому +1

      I had my baby on the first of January, he is my third. I would really recommend being upright during contractions too. I literally only got on the bed for the pushing stage. I'd also recommend doing the pushing stage upright on the bed rather than lying down. It makes it abit easier and you're also less likely to tear.

    • @Aisha-bj2sx
      @Aisha-bj2sx 5 років тому +2

      Try and walk as much as you can from now, in sha allah allah make it easy for you x

    • @Aminah1612
      @Aminah1612 5 років тому

      Thank you Aisha N for your advice. 😊 it’s much appreciated. I think the stories i’ve heard about tearing and “ring of fire” have made me nervous but there’s always just as many successful & routine birth stories.

  • @sohilahakrami40
    @sohilahakrami40 5 років тому +15

    Midwifes are superwoman how much they help you mentally and physically is unbelievable may allah bless all of them ❤️❤️

  • @EamsSarah
    @EamsSarah 5 років тому +7

    I’ve been following you since Noah! May Allah protect your babies! Thank you for sharing your story 💕

  • @mabdali5663
    @mabdali5663 5 років тому +6

    Seriosly amazing story reminds me of my pregnancy was an experience i was ready for a natural birth but due to my babys drop of heartbeat and in the same way as urs the button was pressed and all the doctors came over i was only 1 cm dilated i was then rushed to the operarion theatre and i had a emergancy c section my baby was taken out in literlay 2 mins due ti her being at risk she was tangled from top to bottom in ambilical cord it was strange as i was not getting any labour pains even after being induced twice and having waterbreak done and also the hormone drip and that then being increased but contractions were nowhere to be felt and i felt like when eill this baby come was totaly exhausted but alhamdulillah now my daughter is 2 months and i am actualy missing those days!

  • @mara760
    @mara760 5 років тому +3

    Totally agree about the contraction pain.
    I had my little one in July and I went into early non existent labour as they say since Thursday bloody hurt ! And went into real labour Sunday early morning gave birth in the afternoon Sunday !!!!
    Gas and air and moving around and bouncing helped so much sitting down was the worst!
    Congratulations btw your strong

  • @lilyzable
    @lilyzable 5 років тому +9

    This made me emotional and took me right back to when I had my daughter, experienced the same thing is called shoulder dystocia am glad your son is okay because they damaged my daughter nerves on the neck which resulted her to have erbs palsy.

    • @nimodama2885
      @nimodama2885 5 років тому +1

      Hope she is okay now my GOD bless her

    • @shamailarafiq644
      @shamailarafiq644 5 років тому +4

      May Allah swt give your little girl a healthy, happy & successful life 🥰

    • @lilyzable
      @lilyzable 5 років тому +3

      Ameen thuma ameen! She’s okay alhamdulillah, with lots of physiotherapy and orthopaedic appointment Alhamdulillah.

    • @nimodama2885
      @nimodama2885 5 років тому

      I am glad to here that may God bless u and ur entire family

    • @sebinaah
      @sebinaah  5 років тому +6

      lilyzable oh gosh hun I didn’t realize it could damage their nerves, hope she’s okay now, sending you lots of prayers and love 😘😘

  • @kirstenbowman1199
    @kirstenbowman1199 5 років тому +12

    I love what you said about wearing a a hajib (? Sorry if that’s the wrong spelling) I worked with the Ambulance service for a wile, when I was training I was with an all male team, (so there were 2 men and me working, this was only my 3rd sift) we were sent as back up to a Muslim lady in pre term labour when we arrived the team we were backing up were out the front being denied access to the patient. The other team explained that the husband and mother in law would not give them access to the patient as they were male, and had requested a team with a female, and we were the only team available.
    So I was the only one alameda into the room to assess her, we were able to arrange that me and the training officer could communicate using mobiles.
    It worked out well we got her to the hospital (5 minutes) before she gave berth, the mother in Law traveled with us (she had more experience then me, she’d had 8 children, I was 22 and not a mother. After the birth mother in law asked my what what my name meant I told it meant child of Christ, and said offhandedly that it was a good fit as I was a Christian and ended with “may Alla continue bless your family”. She booked at me and questioned my use of Alla, I told her that God had many names and Alla was one. As we were leaving the farther approached me and asked if I was ok eith them using the Muslim name with the same meaning as mine (can’t remember what it was - this was over 20 years a go now, but the meaning was child of Muhammad) I was overwhelmed and said yes. He also thanked me for the care and understanding I had given his wife given my religion, I parted saying I was always told we are all children of the same farther in heaven.

  • @lovem.m9160
    @lovem.m9160 5 років тому +13

    My first child it was horrific and had emergency c section and it was 10 months ago and now i found out iam pregnant with second one i hope everything goes well

    • @sebinaah
      @sebinaah  5 років тому +3

      Iqra Adan oh no hun, making lots of dua for you as that sounds horrible but in sha allah it will be okay this time

  • @kdreamzherself
    @kdreamzherself 4 роки тому

    This video is so calming even from the beginning

  • @sydneystribe4307
    @sydneystribe4307 5 років тому +1

    So amazing, you did so well!! I love listening to peoples birth stories, I'm expecting baby number 7 xx

  • @nasimar8912
    @nasimar8912 2 роки тому

    Did hou have any side effects from the epidural?

  • @illyilham486
    @illyilham486 5 років тому +3

    Really enjoyed your birth story ☺️❤️

  • @maariyahkhan6939
    @maariyahkhan6939 5 років тому +13

    we need to see you and faizaan both together in the vidoes.

    • @marianplescan4621
      @marianplescan4621 5 років тому

      You watch what sebinaah creates u dont get to choose ;) silly girl x

    • @sebinaah
      @sebinaah  5 років тому

      Maariyaah khan he doesn’t wanna be in my videos anymore 😭

    • @maariyahkhan6939
      @maariyahkhan6939 5 років тому

      omdssss plz u have to do an updayed q and a we need infooo like this plzz!!!! xx

  • @atifaahmed8306
    @atifaahmed8306 5 років тому

    Hayy.. sebinnah... hope your well... I dont think it's about putting anyone off I think it just makes women aware that anything can happen & to be prepared.. but I defo get where yur coming from
    Your a fighter now the mother of two.. WELL DONE YU .
    X

  • @Amzy_co
    @Amzy_co 3 роки тому

    I love the gas and air. I had it while I was in hospital after my skin graft surgery

  • @tmalik1238
    @tmalik1238 3 роки тому

    I’m expecting with my first baby and watching this has given me so much strength and think that us women are superwomen our bodies go through so much and it’s like us woman face death whilst in labour and come back subhnallah

  • @stupidintellect2474
    @stupidintellect2474 5 років тому +1

    That's interesting, in my experience contractions were way worse when I stood up, laying down was better and of course the birthing pool was a real jem, it reduced the pain by around 40%

  • @zainabpatel4629
    @zainabpatel4629 5 років тому +3

    Congratulations💗your story was a true inspiration demonstrating how strong one should be whilst giving birth ,Subhanallah it is just unreal what the human body can actually do 💓may Allah (swt) make Noah and Yahya the coolness of his parents eyes and fill your house with love and Barakah 💕
    Ameen❤️

  • @sabrinacoolest
    @sabrinacoolest 5 років тому +2

    Also what about thenplacenta

  • @pashtoonafghanistan4336
    @pashtoonafghanistan4336 5 років тому +1

    Aww nice video Seninah ❤️
    You are the best
    Allah bless you guys

  • @IshanAli
    @IshanAli 5 років тому +9

    Alhamdulillah

  • @HelloAH92
    @HelloAH92 5 років тому +10

    I got worried for your candle for a bit

    • @honeykha9914
      @honeykha9914 5 років тому

      😂

    • @shanazali2526
      @shanazali2526 4 роки тому

      So did i..just incase the back of her head touched it..dangerous

  • @imaanjacob8523
    @imaanjacob8523 5 років тому +3

    I went from going to have my baby in the birthing centre to suddenly being switched to labour ward due to internal bleeding of the placenta. Speaking from personal experience - anyone on a labour ward that needs the heart beat and contraction monitor straps - do not stay on the bed. It is your own choice, they can't force you to stay still. Push to say you want to walk around and they will keep coming and adjusting the straps for you as that is their job - to assist you with YOUR labour plan, not theirs.

  • @ishyas0508
    @ishyas0508 5 років тому +1

    I had a drip to start labour, and didn’t use any pain relief. I think if you try you can do it with out pain relief.

  • @Amzy_co
    @Amzy_co 3 роки тому

    It surely is something amazing to do

  • @Doge7-j1v
    @Doge7-j1v 4 роки тому

    I had a horrible c Section when I was already having contractions and being artficially induced ..I get scared thinking even of second baby

  • @javeriaparvez9075
    @javeriaparvez9075 5 років тому

    Miss your sit down videos x

    • @sebinaah
      @sebinaah  5 років тому +1

      Javeria Parvez hoping to film another one soon to upload the week after next

    • @javeriaparvez9075
      @javeriaparvez9075 5 років тому

      @@sebinaah yaiiii, thank you so much for replying. May Allah swt bless you & your family, your so genuine, so sweet & you can see it in your videos, i love that about you. & bcuz your 🇵🇰🙈 xx

  • @unaishakhan161
    @unaishakhan161 5 років тому +8

    Can you change Yahya's nappies with those nails?

    • @angb1672
      @angb1672 5 років тому +2

      Unaisha Khan no

    • @marianplescan4621
      @marianplescan4621 5 років тому +1

      Sado got nothing nice to say dont say nothing at all hater, jealousy will get u no where sebinaah is bare blessed mashallah x

    • @anisanahid3038
      @anisanahid3038 5 років тому +10

      @@marianplescan4621 I dont understand why your calling her a hater shes only asking, I would think the same I could never change a nappy properly with nails that big or even attempt to do wuzu.

    • @unaishakhan161
      @unaishakhan161 5 років тому +4

      @@marianplescan4621 lol calm down girl! I am still intrigued how she can change nappies with those nails or do wudhu.

    • @sssadhjdsafsfv8245
      @sssadhjdsafsfv8245 5 років тому

      Unaisha Khan they are stick on nails 🤪

  • @soniaahmed8835
    @soniaahmed8835 5 років тому

    You look amazing Masha'Allah... Great video!!! Glad to see you back ♥️

  • @yanetiy
    @yanetiy 5 років тому

    First to view 😌 nice story

    • @sebinaah
      @sebinaah  5 років тому

      Yaneti Goovern yaaay 😘

  • @sabrinacoolest
    @sabrinacoolest 5 років тому

    Do you get back pain with epidural

    • @Aisha-bj2sx
      @Aisha-bj2sx 5 років тому

      sabrinacoolest I had epidural and have had severe back pain and when I lay down feel crushing back pain like ten tons is on my back, that’s only my experience I don’t know for others!!

    • @sabrinacoolest
      @sabrinacoolest 5 років тому

      @@Aisha-bj2sx is that since then

    • @Aisha-bj2sx
      @Aisha-bj2sx 5 років тому

      sabrinacoolest yeah since the epidural

    • @sabrinacoolest
      @sabrinacoolest 5 років тому

      @@Aisha-bj2sx was your labour induced?

    • @Aisha-bj2sx
      @Aisha-bj2sx 5 років тому +1

      Unfortunately all 3 times I had to be induced, with the first, third and fourth child I was induced and had epidural in two pregnancies which I regret deeply as I’ve had a lot of back problems since, I had water birth with the second without any pain relief but wouldn’t recommend to go without pain relief!!!

  • @shanazali2526
    @shanazali2526 4 роки тому

    Great video

  • @naziashaheen6907
    @naziashaheen6907 5 років тому

    Oh god gas and air is soooo sickening for me to.. your brave you done well 😊

  • @user-dl5cj7xq8h
    @user-dl5cj7xq8h 5 років тому

    Mashallah congratulations on your boys, may Allah preserve them and your family 🤲 love Yahya’s name

  • @preciouspearls9734
    @preciouspearls9734 5 років тому +4

    I'm so scared to go through this soon 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @mrsaamir493
    @mrsaamir493 5 років тому +3

    MashAllah Your truly an inspiration 👌❤️😘
    Thnk You For Sharing 👍

    • @sebinaah
      @sebinaah  5 років тому

      Mrs Aamir thanks love ❤️

  • @zahraxo1
    @zahraxo1 5 років тому +1

    You're videos are my favourite ❤

    • @sebinaah
      @sebinaah  5 років тому +1

      Zahra x thanks so much hun ❤️

  • @faimabegum7870
    @faimabegum7870 5 років тому

    It made me really emotional ma sha Allah enjoy motherhood sister

  • @ferdabegum8407
    @ferdabegum8407 5 років тому

    Congratulations

  • @koatherr
    @koatherr 5 років тому +1

    What are u wearing on your lips?

  • @myrab7584
    @myrab7584 5 років тому +3

    Mashallah hope ur all well kids and hubby ... just goin to say u have lost so much weight and u looking like the film actress shrada kapoor honestly ..

    • @sebinaah
      @sebinaah  5 років тому

      Myra batool Aw thanks lovely 😘

  • @passionatemusicalchannel5142
    @passionatemusicalchannel5142 5 років тому +2

    Love uuu may allah bless u and ur two kids 😘😘😘😘

    • @sebinaah
      @sebinaah  5 років тому +2

      Soukaina Dhn Aw thanks hun 😘

  • @javbaybie
    @javbaybie 5 років тому +4

    You look like Shraddha Kapoor 😱😱😱

  • @DaRDaR-jc5vq
    @DaRDaR-jc5vq 5 років тому +15

    Conola in his hand? You mean cannula LMAO

  • @saadis5501
    @saadis5501 5 років тому +1

    Ma sha Allah mubarak. May Allah swt bless you with happiness

  • @neadxe
    @neadxe 5 років тому

    How do you get the epidural from the male anesthesiologist? Do you wear your hijab still or are you not wearing it at this point? I'm curious as I'm going to give birth in June inshallah and all the midwives are female here in Sweden but the anesthesiologists are male, so I'm wondering how to dress!

    • @sebinaah
      @sebinaah  5 років тому +1

      Sinead Evans hey lovely, I’ll be honest, they have to see your back to able to administer it. So I had the hospital gown on which covered all my front and legs, and I was sat down and the gown pushed to the back so he could get access to and see my back. I didn’t have my scarf on either because at the point I was really in too much pain to remember, but it’s easy to keep everything else covered but yuh will have to be exposed from the back

    • @neadxe
      @neadxe 5 років тому

      @@sebinaah thank you for replying! 😁

    • @AA-xw7gm
      @AA-xw7gm 5 років тому

      If there is no other doctor it’s fine. Allah swt is merciful the creator doesn’t want you dying or in pain as you wait for a woman dr that may not show up. If the female is readily available or the situation is not diar than wait for a Woman otherwise do what u have to in order to care for yourself

  • @aliyaabbas980
    @aliyaabbas980 5 років тому

    SubhanAllah... motherhood ...an amazing journey😍😘

  • @asmahali8070
    @asmahali8070 5 років тому

    amazing

    • @sebinaah
      @sebinaah  5 років тому

      alisha kolia thank you 😘

  • @TATIANALDN
    @TATIANALDN 5 років тому

    Beautiful 💕

    • @sebinaah
      @sebinaah  5 років тому

      T A T I A N A . L D N thanks love ❤️

  • @navkaur2882
    @navkaur2882 5 років тому

    Im new to your channel great video! I'm so scared to give birth I suffer from anxiety which doesn't help. lots of great tips to take in. My doctor suggested to get a csection because i am generally a very anxious person. Any advice on this would be really great. Congratulations on your new baby.

  • @Nina20606
    @Nina20606 5 років тому

    Congrats on the new baby!! And any chance you can make a tutorial on this hijab style ??? ?????

  • @noorsworld4615
    @noorsworld4615 5 років тому

    Love your video your videos really good and I inspired and that's why I doing my own youtube channel help us and give us tips thanks.

    • @sebinaah
      @sebinaah  5 років тому

      Noor Khan official in UK Aw that’s amazing, well done. I’ll be doing a blog post soon on tips and tricks

    • @noorsworld4615
      @noorsworld4615 5 років тому

      @@sebinaah thanks for reply I appreciate and my all videos in urdu check out please.again thanks

  • @nurulal-asfi6513
    @nurulal-asfi6513 5 років тому +1

    Why would you expect that you will give birth to your second baby same time as your first on the 37 weeks???? You should know you can’t predict this thing.

    • @sebinaah
      @sebinaah  5 років тому

      Nurul Al-asfi I have no idea, clearly i thought it would be the same as first time 😂

  • @zaraali1577
    @zaraali1577 5 років тому +4

    U r beautiful mashallah 💐

  • @safiahussain4616
    @safiahussain4616 5 років тому

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @Nico.Robin7
    @Nico.Robin7 5 років тому

    🥰🥰🥰

    • @sebinaah
      @sebinaah  5 років тому

      мαяιє ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Youtubeisdecent
    @Youtubeisdecent 4 роки тому

    I watched your video when I was pregnant and I loved it. I recently started my UA-cam again and posted my own birth story and I would love it if you could check it out xoxo

  • @nazminsharmin12
    @nazminsharmin12 5 років тому +1

    You so beautiful

    • @sebinaah
      @sebinaah  5 років тому

      nazmin sharmin 🙈🙈🙈

  • @aminah761
    @aminah761 5 років тому +1

    🙄🙄🙄

  • @MegaNadiyah
    @MegaNadiyah 5 років тому +2

    How do you look after your baby with your nails 😱 omg. Please remove these talons

    • @MegaNadiyah
      @MegaNadiyah 5 років тому +1

      You will hurt him for sure

    • @MegaNadiyah
      @MegaNadiyah 5 років тому +1

      And they’re soooo unhygienic astaghfirullah

  • @shaziabibi3535
    @shaziabibi3535 5 років тому +10

    U ramble a lot. Lol

    • @MeMe-yp1cq
      @MeMe-yp1cq 5 років тому +12

      Don't be rude, if you don't like her rambling...don't watch!

    • @aminah761
      @aminah761 5 років тому +2

      Shazia Bibi yes annoying me

    • @Lara-ot5dd
      @Lara-ot5dd 5 років тому +22

      well she did say it was a story time...what did you expect a 10 sec video??? 🙄🙄

    • @MeMe-yp1cq
      @MeMe-yp1cq 5 років тому +3

      @@Lara-ot5dd exactly!!

    • @angb1672
      @angb1672 5 років тому +2

      Boring

  • @abdul018
    @abdul018 5 років тому +2

    Subhanallah
    So much pride and show off. Why do you need to share things like this. Set up a course sister if you want benefit others. Allah give us all understanding

  • @mahvishmakhdoomi3354
    @mahvishmakhdoomi3354 5 років тому

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @lastchance1101
    @lastchance1101 5 років тому +1

    ❤❤❤