Uterus Rupture | VBAC With Complications | My Labor & Delivery Story | Life With Marina
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- Опубліковано 7 лют 2025
- This video is not meant to scare anyone into not tying for a VBAC, I just wanted to share my story to inform more people and educate on what can happen during birth. Ruptures do happen and I am the one in 200, but I hope that this statistic gets lower one day. Thank you for hearing my story!
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I don’t understand how no one suspects a rupture uterus with all the red flags, in a TOLAC!! The rupture itself might have happened regardless of a previous CS given your description of the site (not at the original scar) , could also be related to adhesions from the initial CS, but regardless should have been on top of the team’s mind.
As a physician , who is also pregnant and hoping for a VBAC (and a big supporter of it), this is terribly negligent. Very sorry hearing what you went through but happy you and baby survived.
When I was 7mos pregnant with my 3rd, my uterus ruptured. I felt a sharp pain on 1 side and it was enough to make me scream. Then the pain suddenly faded away and I got a warm sensation throughout my pelvis, and then nothing..no pain or anything, but, it scared me so I went into Kaiser and they did an ultrasound and nonstress test and the nonstress test was normal, but the ultrasound showed something, which the.dr concluded was just “scar tissue” from my previous c sections. And they sent me home. Then about a week later I was doing laundry and that pain I got in the side of my pelvis a week prior, happened again suddenly but this time the pain seared through my entire pelvis and all the way around my back and down both legs, and a cold rush went through my body and I fell to my knees and the pain didn’t subside, in fact it got more severe. I called 911 and they brought me to the hospital. So I get back to the hospital and they do more tests and my ultrasound showed an even larger mass around my lower pelvis. They concluded that it was probably my “scar tissue and inflammation” which made no sense. So for the next 2 days they monitored me,and at that point my lower abdomen was in extreme pain.they had a dr come in and take a long needle and inject lidocaine into my c section scar. Since I wasn’t due yet my dr was on vacation, she had to call the hospital and advocate on my behalf. I finally talked to her on the phone and told her I knew for a fact something was terribly wrong and she had to fight with the doctors to do something. So they ordered an amniocentesis for the following morning. I was still I severe pain.so the following morning my husband had to work so his mom came to stay with me when I got the amnio. She’s super proper and I’ve never said anything remotely bad around her. As soon as they put that needle in my stomach, I screamed at the top of my lungs and was cursing and crying. She looked terrified when I did that. It was one of the most intense pains I’ve ever felt. When they withdrew the amniotic fluid, it was all bloody. So they immediately get on the phones and there is a lot of commotion and they wheel me in to an emergency c section. We called my husband and he almost didn’t make it there in time. When they did the csection it was very quite. The dr and staff were kinda whispering.I heard my baby cry and I was relieved and they took him away to give him oxygen and I noticed the c section was taking a lot longer than usual. I had had 2 previous csections before. Then I hear the words “uterine rupture”. Then I see this blue stuff in an iv bag and running through me..turns out that not only was my uterus completely ruptured but they accidentally cut my bladder. So that was fun 😒 so I get transferred to the ICU because I had so much blood loss and my vitals were extremely low. So ffwd to the following day and I get transferred to postpartum and finally get to see my baby. The nurse comes in and calls us the miracle baby and mom. My dr calls me and tells me my uterus and bladder ruptured, and the “scar tissue” they said they saw on ultrasound was actually blood from me slowly internally bleeding.. the only thing that was keeping me and my baby alive was his amniotic sac acting like a cork, sealing the majority of my rupture shut. But I was still leaking blood. They said if my water would have broke, we both would have died within a couple minutes. I’m not gonna lie, The recovery of a uterine/bladder ruptured was rough, but it started to slowly get better overtime. The drs saved my uterus but said the damage was so extensive that I would either never get pregnant again or if I did by some miracle I would likely lose it, and that i should never have another baby. That was tough. So I was terrified and went on birth control right off the bat. I went about my life and remained on birth control and then 5 years later, I found out I was pregnant..and I was completely in shock and terrified. I was monitored closely and had to go on bed rest at 5mos. I spotted and sometimes bled like a period through my whole pregnancy, but every time they monitored my son, he was always fine. Strong heartbeat, etc.. for safely reasons and because of my uterine rupture history, they delivered him early. Today he’s 7 years old and the goofiest cutest smartest little boy❤️ ......and I still have my uterus, although I did get my tubes tied after him.
Thank you for sharing your story. That is so scary!!!! Only us women and God know what we actually go through. I’m sure that there are some parts you left out because there are so many “little things” that happen when we are in labor. I’m so happy to hear you and your babies were ok ❤️
How far apart were your pregnancies? My births will be 14 months apart and Ive had 2 previous c-sections as well IM TERRIFIED 😭
Omg. What a scary experience
Thank you for sharing your story! On my second pregnancy last month I went in for a vbac. Unfortunately after my successful natural vaginal birth my uterus ruptured right after. They saved my uterus but I also now am so confused on what’s next, and if another baby will every be possible, or if I should ever take that risk. It’s heartbreaking. I am lucky to have two healthy babies but not knowing if it’s too dangerous to ever have more really is scary.
By logic if the uterus ruptured they will never delay the emergency of quick labor by cseation directly... I know my cuisine after 2 months of cseation she got pregnant and delivered her baby normally ...
"I was the one in two hundred" That right there has solidified in my mind that a repeat c section is right for me. I've been considering a VBAC for two weeks (currently 19 weeks pregnant) and watching videos of successful VBACs. But I think all those "Successful VBAC raw and emotional" videos make us think that it's the way to go. That you should want to, that it's safe if you just believe you can do it. I've always wanted to experience birth; it's incredible. I tried. It was a traumatic birth that ended FOUR days later with a uterine infection, a stressed baby, a fever of 103, stalled labor, and an emergency c section.
Thank you for sharing your story. I hope that you know you that you are HELPING many of us out there who feel the pressure to do a VBAC.
I've never said this in a comment, but I wish I could reach through and give you a hug. I hope you recover well and quickly.
That’s so interesting because I had to travel over 2 hours away to be able to try for a vba2c. Don’t give up on a vbac as long as there isn’t a reason if you want one! I’ve heard that a vbac is safer than a repeat C-section.
Did you get the elected C or the Vbac?? I'm so on the fence! Curious how it went for you! I'm 24 weeks!
Exactly... People who pass away during a vbac attempt aren't alive to make a birth video.
@TheTelly the think is unfortunately once you've had a c section, there is a risk with both. I've had 3 children. 2 natrual normal births and then one emergency c section due to PE and baby was 10 pound 11 so after an induction she just would come out.
If you look at stats comparing c section to vbac they both have their own risks unfortunately. Although from what I've seen, and I've looked alot, a vbac has a slightly lower fatality rate, also succes rate for a vbac is 70-90% depending on what caused the first c section and if you've given birth before.
My situation, my biggest regret on hearing I had PE was getting the epidural ! I couldn't move and it only numbed one side, I needed to be walking about and on all fours, getting baby down! That's what I done with my first two with just gas and air.
Also time gap between kids ! Wait AT LEAST 24 months between a c section and next kid, regardless if you want planned section or not as rupture is a risk from pregnancy also.
I'm personally waiting at least 5 years, mines about to turn 4 years and I'm getting my body on optimum condition before trying again.
I had three vbacs at home and while it was difficult, it was very doable.
I had two midwives and two assistants.
With an experienced midwife, in a birthing center, 22:14 it works.
Oh honey, I'm so sorry to hear this happened to you. But am so glad your baby is doing so well. I went thru the same thing, loosening my choice to have more babies. I was bleeding and didn't know why. Not pregnant at the time. The Dr. I saw perked me around for so long, trying different things before I saw someone else for a second opinion. And by then it was too late. I had to have a hysterectomy. And was told if the first Dr. had done a certain. Procedure to begin with, it wouldn't have come to that. I was soon hurt and angry for so long. I wanted another baby. But couldn't any longer.So dear I def feel for you. And I'll keep you in my prayers. God bless you and your new baby.
I know this is 4years later and you may not see this but Thank you so much for this video! Thank God and Bless you and your family! There are not too many videos on this subject from real ppl with experiences and you have answered so many questions and concerns that my OB and PCP did not tell me. I’m currently pregnant with our rainbow baby. I have two previous c-sections due to breeched babies and I am pushing so hard for a VBAC this time. My OB just look at me like no, why, just do a C section but not telling me why!! You are a blessing to all women and men that have had this experience or that maybe hoping for a VBAC! Thank you for your story, your honesty, and your strength to tell the world!! You are incredible!!
Highly recommend listening to freebirth society podcast. So many misconceptions about birth and you deserve your vbac!!!
@@X-de4io I never considered vbacs that important or having a vaginal birth at all. As long as the baby arrived safely I didn't care and at no time have I ever felt like I missed out on anything having a caesarian. I had one, my daughter had two, my brothers wife had her child via caesarian as well. Without caesarians we would have died. I realize a lot of women regard a vaginal birth as an important experience, and oddly attach that as an important link to their womanhood, but I can't imagine why. LOL I went home before the moms who had vaginal births. Two days after surgery I left, whilst they were still having their sitz baths and dealing with tears.
@@hilaryc3203 interesting that you never considered it important- it is! I had both daughters at home, didn’t tear! Didn’t even leak because you should have a healthy pelvic floor. Had sex right away too! The best way to birth your baby- for mum & baby is vaginal physiological birth.
@@hilaryc3203 most doctors lie to you, you probably were t going to die, they just put you on a time schedule and said that to take your money. They’re a business designed to have you “birth” as soon as possible and when it takes too long they opt for slicing your baby out!
@@hilaryc3203 a vaginal birth is the most life changing experience! It’s someone ever mother and baby should and deserves to experience. The mother baby bond is only at its peak strength once you’ve gone through the natural hormonal labour process. That labour process is what triggers the mum instinct. It’s all connected
I hope you get to experience it one day
I hope I get to do it like 10 more times, it’s the best experience and the biggest high, nothing beats it
I literally cannot believe you are still alive! There are so many red flags the first hospital missed. God Bless you! I'm so happy you're here with your family!
I cried with you.. praise the Lord your sweet baby made it here safely and you are alive. You’re an amazing mama. I hope you are doing better physically now.
I saw the empty crib & felt an immediate pain in my heart... Thank God you & your baby are both here & ok! I was so happy to see your little one in your arms 💖
Thank you for sharing your very personal and emotional experience! You have laid something to rest for me. I’ve had 2 C-sections and would like more children but didn’t want another C-section but not realize trying for a VBAC may not be worth the risk. I pray for a healthy recovery for you!
The risk of uterine rupture is very low ❤️
@bakingwithbethany8476 it's not that low. Too many women DIE from uterine rupture.
Yeah, I would recommend looking into the statistics and not just using stories online. Unfortunately, we hear both sides of the extreme on social media: the worst of the worst vbacs, and the best of the best vbacs where everything is "perfect". Most people just have regular, hard, and painful vbacs. They are relatively safe but it's up to everyone's comfort zone. I believe having a vbac after 2 c section is either safer or the same risk as another c section.
The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit
Psalm 34:18 🙏🏻
The things we as women go thru to bring life into this world is actually pretty scary. thanks so much for sharing your story
I'm so sorry this happened to you. ❤ I had a traumatic birth in January 2019 and it makes me so angry that there are so many of us not being treated properly and such carelessness happening. Sending you a giant internet hug. ❤
I’m so sorry that you’ve had a traumatic birth as well, I hope you’re doing better now ❤️ I really do feel like there’s a huge lack of care for pregnant/postpartum mothers in the US, so many stories in this comment section of other moms who have similar stories! I hope through all of our stories that things improve for the future generations.
I’m sorry I had a traumatic birth January 2010!
It's because they're inducing people with non FDA approved drugs like cytotec
I'm really sorry for the negative comments you're receiving. Thank you for having the courage to share your story.
I agree ! It’s crazy .. she’s sharing her story 🤦🏻♀️
I agree. What this young woman went through is hell and her life is forever changed. She’s bravely sharing her story and hopefully it changes someone else’s delivery outcome. No one has the right to criticise her.
I’m so sorry you went through this 💔😢... Thank you so much for sharing. I’m pregnant in South Africa and I’ve had 2 c-sections and I was considering a vbac but I now know that I shouldn’t.
I had C-section, vbac, C-section, vbac. I would say do not be induced and do not get the epidural that prolongs the pushing stage and can increase risk of rupture. I wasn't induced, no epidural and I was fine. But some people have not been.
I agree... It's clearly stated that being induced ups the risk of uterine rupture. Here should be as little intervention as possible.
i had no idea this was a thing that could happen during delivery. thank you for sharing this. im sorry you have to go through this. youre an incredibly strong woman, those babies got a warrior of a momma.
Marina, I'm so very, very sorry that you had to go through all of this. I applaud your courage in sharing your story, many women will approach VBAC, with their eyes open thanks to your strength. I hope the negligent staff were held to account.
I notice mention of some people leaving hurtful comments - Oh my goodness that is so shocking, I can't even begin to understand how anyone could do that. Your story tore at my heart, and I can't really comprehend how anyone could react otherwise. May the love, prayers and support of all the genuine posts help you to heal a little, and may God's love flow over your whole family.
I’m so sorry this happened to you, Marina. Your story is devastating. I’m so heartbroken for you and your family. Your medical team completely failed you in every way. Thank you for sharing your story. ❤ I had an unplanned c-section 8 months ago and I’m researching VBAC for next one. This video definitely helped me understand the other side of things. 💕 I hope you are doing well today.
I’m pregnant with my second researching vbac stories and hearing your story broke my heart I am so sorry all of that happened to you, prayers to you and your beautiful family and hope you guys are happy and doing very well today❤️
did you delivered?your vbac is successed or not?
did you delivered?your vbac is successed or not?
@@komaloli8062 I ended up going into labor a week early, if I wanted a vbac I would’ve had to go to a hospital a little farther than mine so I just opted for another c section.
Me here too researching vbac how did it work I really want to know
Sweetheart.. I’m dealing with infertility and recurrent miscarriages and you have every right to cry and feel the way you feel because what you had to go through is traumatic! God bless your soul
I am a nursing student who is currently learning about uterine rupture, and I just want to say thank you SO much for sharing your story. It’s truly amazing that you and your baby survived all of this trauma and are still healthy and alive.
I am an OB/Gyn RN. Please keep in mind that serious damage to the bladder occurs occasionally with c-sections as well. And uterine rupture can occur during pregnancy, not just labor. So please don’t fear vaginal deliveries more than c-sections, as they both carry serious risks.
The risk of mortality from A cesarean is higher than a vbac. But Ob/Gyns don’t want to take the additional time and attention it takes to closely monitor, as well as the lawsuit which can occur if the uterus ruptures. If the Ob does a c-section, it’s pretty hard to sue, no matter what happens. Also, a “rupture” is usually just a dehiscence or “window,” which causes no trauma. In some cases, yes, the “window” opens and baby escapes into the abdomen. But the chances of this occurring are less than the risks of a c-section. It makes me upset that OBs scare women into choosing a planned c-section. On the other hand, I understand if a mother makes this choice, but she should be fully informed, not scared into making her choice one way or another.
@@JennyLouRN I think women should listen to their doctors, not just a nurse's opinion. Also, statistics please? When I looked into vbac vs repeat c section, vbac was more risky for the baby than a c section. Not sure about the mom. This was almost 15 years ago. I didn't end up having another baby, so I never had to decide. Upside is I won't ever have to deal with know it all nurses in the maternity ward again. There was one very experienced nurse who was great, altho I didn't have much interaction with her, and one student nurse who was absolutely amazing. So maybe things are better now.
@@beckiehubley5798 repeat C-sections are more risky for the mother.
@@beckiehubley5798 the comment said c sections are more dangerous then vbac not repeat c sections. Small difference in the way it was written but makes a big difference.
Thank you for sharing your story. I am going for a VBAC after extensive research. After my first horrible induction that ended in a C section I’ve always said I would never be induced again. So if any point I need to be induced I will tell them to just take me straight to the OR. Keeping in mind that repeat C sections also do come with risks that no one talks about. I will only do it if I naturally go into labor. So sorry this happened to you. Thank you for sharing this very personal story and making us aware of things to look out for. That hospital is extremely negligent and I hope you sued them!
Hi! How did your VBAC go?! Also going for a VBAC God willing, would love to hear your experience… thanks!
Marina, I can so relate. I had a uterine rupture discovered at c-section and was told straight after birth not to have any more children. It was all very traumatic and I am grateful I survived and my baby too. A few hours later it could have ended differently. My baby is miraculously healthy despite initial breathing difficulties due to meconium and three days on the NICU. I am still in mourning that I cannot have more babies despite having two healthy children that I am so grateful for.
God blessed I'm also thankful and grateful I just went through this in October on top my mother dies I know God is with me I got blessed with 4 beautiful children ❤️ had to get my uterus take out
Your uterus ruptured during c section?
I was told the same thing. I’m now pregnant with my third and was told I never should have been told that! I’ll just be having a c section at 37 weeks
@@LibbyC-y1i
Hello sister,
My wife recently got uterus rupture when we trying for VBAC. This is our first baby. Baby died due to birth Asphyxia. We want to plan for our next baby ASAP. How long the gap you given between your uterus rupture to next pregnancy. What are all necessary treatments we should take before our next pregnancy... pls pls help us
I listened to your story with tears in my eyes I am so sorry this happened to you. Having babies is scary as you never know what can happen. But I pray for your speedy recovery and I hope that all goes well.
Thank you for telling your story. I attempted a VBAC in May and experienced a uterine tear and had an emergency c-section due to my babies unstable heart rate. I am so thankful for the doctors who were there and knew what was going on and acted fast. I labored at home for 12 hours in excruciating pain, assuming it was normal contractions.
I remember when I was young my mom had developed cysts in her uterus that caused her untold pain and, eventually, she had to have her entire uterus removed. I didn’t understand it then but it was a really emotional and painful thing she had to endure. As a mom myself now, going for a VBAC, I can really appreciate your experience and perspective. My OB told me she wouldn’t administer pitocin because it could be too harsh on my previously scarred uterus and if it came down to it she would insist that I would go through with a csection. I didn’t completely understand her concern until I came across your story. Not saying that’s what caused everything to happen for you in the first place! It’s just something that finally clicked for me I guess... because I’ve been so against another csection. Now, I think this has really helped me overcome a lesser fear. Thanks for the change in my perspective❤️
Он сказал, что вы так хотели. И теперь я только понимаю почему такое безразличие у зверей
exactly the doctor skipped the important detail of an explanation. I remember pulling an OB aside during my labour lasting 48 hrs and pushing for 4 hrs and then finally sitting her down and asking - tell us how it is in plain words, science only, do we push more and have this baby vaginally or its just not going to work and no point in forcing the issue. And she was a bit scared and basically said, yeah, it;s not going to happen, you should consider c section. But she wouldnt say it with others in the room due to liability probably. Glad we did that but would prefer not to go through everything for 2 days and not be able to eat at all during that time and still have a c section. hate the disrespect to womens bodies in the US, and the mechanical approach to bringing babies to this world.
@@annas7892it happens all over the world.Need admitt that in your country moms at hospitals are treated much better, people who had both experinces in thericountry and yours ,admire their labor with US doctors.
My goodness Marina I cannot begin to imagine what you are going through. It seems incredible that no one picked up your problems at birth. I hope that after your surgery that you have a speedy recovery and that you can have some semblance of normality in your life. I am truly sorry that you had to endure this but God speed your recovery and remember we are all here to support you.
“At least you have two healthy babies” does not diminish the pain in your heart. I hated when people said that after my unplanned cesarean because it almost dismisses the hurt and tells you to just move on. My heart goes out to you, mama. ❤️
Thank you for sharing your story. You are so strong.
I totally agree, it really does make you feel guilty and like you should just “get over it”. Unfortunately sometimes people just don’t think before they speak!
Yes, she has two beautiful babies, but her body has been destroyed! Comments like “at least you have two healthy babies” reduces her to no more that a baby vessel. Her children have a damaged mother, her husband has a damaged wife, and her life is irreparably damaged physically and emotionally. VBAC statistics include problems resulting from botched caesareans. I hope she is able to find justice in all of this, and they lose their medical licences, so that this cannot happen to another woman in their care.
Yes. So tired of hearing “at least you and baby are healthy” from people who never bothered to ask if we were ok!
very true!
Honestly this is heartbreaking and for anyone to be mean to you about it is ridiculous.
Just found your channel and I’m having my third baby this month and wanted to try for a vbac soooo bad after two c sections. I begged my doctors and cried and they were not on board. Watching this video,
Thank god they were not on board. Having my third c section and I’m at peace with it. Thank you so much for sharing your story and I’m so sorry.
this is WILD. I'm just sitting here checking all the boxes for uterine rupture in my head. I know that hindsight is 20/20 but cmon. Dizziness with standing, nausea, intense shooting pain, scant urine... cmon. I am so sorry this happened to you and I'm glad you're doing well now.
Thank you for sharing this! I'm so sorry this happened to you but so glad you're both alive and well! I'm 35 weeks pregnant and my hospital is pushing me to have a VBAC rather than the elective c-section I want because I'm aware of risks like you've had. You've helped me solidify the decision my instincts were telling me to make, so again thank you so much for sharing your story. Wishing you a speedy recovery.
It’s past the time of your birth, obviously. But a C-section is not really safe. It’s major surgery.
God bless you ! I’m a labor and delivery RN , so happy you and your baby are here and ok ! 💕
Had you heard of Aniball or Epi-no Delphine Plus birth facilitating devices? Do not discuss at work though... More on my UA-cam channel.
Mothers go through so much ❤ I never realized how much we go through until I had my first in November 2024 and had to have a c section due to an infection I developed during labor. I’m thankful to have seen your video.
I'm really sorry this happened to you. Until a few hours ago (i'm 37 weeks and 3 days pregnant), I was really optimistic about doing a VBAC. I just learned that my scar tissue is too thin at some places and that the risk for uterine rupture is even higher now (10%). I can tell you that I was so frustruted but hearing your story makes me be greatful that I know that before trying for one and having to possibly go through a lot of complications. We know about uterine rupture that doctors can catch and bring you to the operation room but we don't know about what you went through, and it's big. Thank you for sharing your story. Now that we are a year later, I hope you are at a better place. Thank you again!
hi ! just want to ask how you learned your scar tissue is too thin ?
I am currently 21 weeks for second baby and planning for a vbac too 25 months after my first csection.
with my first baby I had a failed induction and my baby’s heart rate was dropping so had to do emergency csection and after a week i found out I had post op complication - blood clots inside me and wound dehiscence so they had to do another procedure to manually remove all the clots inside me and put me in a device wound vac to help wound healing but dressing changes is every 2 days - was extremely painful (without any anesthesia only tylenol by mouth which didnt really help) which lasted for almost 2 months til my wound heal .
I’m traumatized to go for another surgery thats why Im considering vbac and my doctor seems optismitic but I’m unsure which route to go with all the risks. thanks in advance.
@@itsghelaigg5662 Hi, i’m sorry for what you went through. My son is 2 months now. I tried for a VBAC but unfortunately, we had an emergency c-section. Everything was going really well and I had an umbellical cord prolapse. We are doing good now but I had complications after the emergency c-section like you did unlike for my daughter, it was not an emergency c-section, they had time to prep. Big infected hematoma, drainage, another surgery, etc. From what I learned, emergency c-sections are high risk of complications. Thank God our lives are saved, it’s still really tough. I’m glad you are ok now!
For the scar, my doctor ordered the scan. It has to be done after 36 weeks because the uterus have to be really extended so they can have a good look. Good luck mama! You can do this!!Everything will be fine♥️
I wish they would of looked at my scare to see that mine was to thin🥺
@@lleslie17 how could they tell your scar was too thin
@@tatyanaharmon7566 Hi😊 they checked it at 37 weeks. I tought it was so late but I was tell that they have to check it when the uterus is really streched.
Wow I’m so sorry to hear everything you went through. I found your video because I’m currently pregnant due in December. I had a c-section exactly a year ago and my new Ob asked me “if I was considering having a vaginal delivery with this pregnancy?” I didn’t even know that was possible for me. I got excited thinking “yay I can give birth without having a doctor cut me open.” So I started doing my research but after seeing your video it definitely gave me something to think about. Now I’m not so sure. Even if someone doesn’t want anymore children going through all that pain physically and emotionally is hard. No one should go through it. I hope you’re recovering well. Stay strong and congratulations on your baby girl. Thank you for sharing your story! ❤️
Congratulations!! Thank you so much the kind words 💕
Did you have a successful VBAC?
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@@MOMOfTwoCuties8630 my sister had 5 children 1 c section and 4 VBAC so it's possible
Omg I teared up watching this. My prayers are with you. I’m so glad that the second OB recommended a specialist. I’m sorry you experienced this. Thank you for sharing because this truly informs and will help others.
I am so sorry that this happened to you but I’m happy that both you and baby are healthy. I would like people who are watching to know that this is very rare though. I had a VBAC nearly two months ago and my babies were only 16 months apart. Unfortunately sometimes people don’t heal as they should but that is rare so I hope no one is discouraged in attempting a VBAC since It’s so much better than a repeat C-section (most of the time)!
I feel the same. I've had 2 VBACs; first one 18 mos. after my C-Section. But no epidural allowed, so I could tell if I was having any unusual pain (besides the vise-like GRIP of labor pains.)
Watching birth vlogs as I prepare for my 4th and maybe final baby, and I’m so thankful I found yours! You are so strong and beautiful and I’m so so sorry this happened to you! God does things for reasons we will never know and I hope you trust him instead of hate him, because you are one of his strongest. I will never take my birthing experiences for granted again. God bless you!
This breaks my heart . Thank you for sharing your story , this will save lives . I’m at risk for uterine rupture because I had uterine surgery and the doctor recommended a c section . I was really hoping for vaginal birth , but this has me reconsidering . Thank you ❤
You are so strong and I’m so sorry for everything you’ve been through, mamma. I cannot even imagine... I wish you the absolute best going forward with the situation you are in! Much love!!!♥️♥️♥️
OMG I'm so sorry for what you're going through. I had edometriosis and policystic ovarian syndrome, I now have 2 beautiful adult children... but I also had 14 miscarriages and ended up having a hysterectomy at 26yrs old. If the worst case scenario happens, please take the time to mourn the loss off your option to have another baby. Yes you have 2 beautiful babies already but it in no way diminishes the loss you will feel...and please know that it is perfectly normal to feel that way, regardless of how much you love your babies. Take care of yourself honey, I'm so grateful that I came across your video. Sending you huge hugs from Australia ❤🤗
I’m so sorry for your losses ❤️
Oh my goodness! First, I would like to commend you for being brave enough to share your story. I’m so sorry you went through such a terrible experience and I hope you are recovering well. It really sucks that you have been robbed of the choice of having another child. I can’t believe how negligent and clueless those specialists were. It really make me angry. I do hope your subsequent surgeries go smoothly and I wish you all the best!
Wow. I attempted the VBAC. 17 months after my first C-section. I was laboring but then after induction baby heart wasn’t tolerating it. Went in for the C-section.
The Dr told me that the scar tissue from the uterus and my bladders was actually tearing. C-section ended up being a good thing.
My first was vaginal. But coming to terms with
I will now have to have a C-section if I get pregnant again. Having trouble with breast milk. But yet still desiring another baby has been a lot to take in.
I hate C-section recovery. I wanted to have I medicated birth but hearing your story is making my jaw drop because I feel like this could have been me if I fought them.
Thank god your here!
God performed a miracle in saving you and your baby on your delivery day. It's so sad that you had to experience this. They need to be held accountable. I can't imagine how many women may have experienced negligence at that hospital. Also, your struggles should not be minimized because you have healthy babies. People just don't know what to say and just need to be quiet. You're allowed to feel sad and express your emotions. You've experienced trauma..
Thank you so much for sharing this. I’m so glad this video was recommended to me. I was considering a vbac in a few weeks but not once have the OB explained that this is what a uterine rupture can result in. I have completely changed my mind now. I’m so sorry you went through this. This is such a horrific story. I can only imagine how traumatic it has been. 😥
My heart goes out to you! You are so brave and so strong to share your story. So many others will be helped just from you sharing your story. Praying for you and the future ahead of you.
Your story is sooo heartbreaking, and I'm so sorry!! My heart goes out to you and I pray for a miracle!
This is devastating. I can't even begin to imagine the pain and grief you are experiencing, no less having to do it all freshly postpartum, with a newborn to care for, AND a toddler. Even being done having kids, I would be absolutely devastated to be told I couldn't have more and, as you said, have that decision taken away from me without any choice. I am so terribly sorry you are having to walk this path. There are a few other mommies here on YT who have experienced what you did - I'm not sure if you follow Raising the Barrs, but you might find guidance and support if you reach out to her as she went through a very similar rupture of the bladder and uterus. My heart breaks for you, I wish I had better words to share :( Sending up a prayer for you and your continued recovery
Yes I love raising the Barrs! When all of this first happened I searched it here on UA-cam and it was so comforting hearing her story. There really aren’t a lot of UA-cam videos out there of women going through this so I’m so grateful that she shared her story.
Whoa you’re so lucky to be alive momma! Definitely negligence on the entire birth team you had! I would be contacting a lawyer asap momma! As a EMT there’s even red flags I noticed that if it had occurred in my ambulance would have us saying rupture right away! I’m so sorry you went through this nightmare!
Wow thanks the universe for that last o.b that looked out further for you and your family. I hope your recovery has been going better and you are feeling better everyday. You have been through alot damn girl. Strong mama!
You have every right to mourn what has been lost. Healing begins with tears. I remember how it was for me after my emergency c section. Cry all you need to.
Your story is heartbreaking. VBACs are usually very safe, but it is vital that the medical team look out for negative symptoms, and your medical team were BEYOND negligent. As a birth specialist in the UK we are not a litigation culture, but you should sue them to within an inch of their lives. Your labour, delivery and postpartum were handled with such negligence, they should have their medical licenses revoked. My heart goes out to you.
I hate hearing people say VBACS are usually safe, no they are ALWAYS VERY RISKY, they just usually turn out OK. That doesn't reduce the risks that just means that person made it through it but i would never recommend a VBAC to anyone because of the dangers of uterine and placental abruption, cord compression and severe fetal distress. Especially would never never never have a VBAC WITH INDUCTION THAT IS CRAZY!
Nowadays VBACS are pretty safe. Yes they are riskier than not having had one but to put out the notion that if you have a cesarean that you will always have one because VBAC is not a safe option at all is pretty extreme. You have to be a good candidate for it and this is something your medical history and medical team should make you aware of. Uterine rupture from VBACS happen but from all current research and knowledge they are still on the rare side with more women having success than not. I also have heard that getting induced after having a cesarean is not a good idea at all and will only increase the chances of complications including uterine rupture. Child birth is a major process and there are plenty of things that could go wrong even with a vaginal birth and never having a cesarean at all so it’s best to try to be as informed as possible before conception even takes place.
@@kirstenornelas881 You have to look at statistics because yes they could be dangerous, but for the most part they are very safe.
I am so surprised they didn't realize her uterus rupture.
Do you use 'Aniball' (2014) or 'Epi-no Delphine Plus' (Jan 1999) and actually advise mums to achieve a 10cm diameter opening for baby, prior to the start of birth, or just skin massage without stretching the fibrous coat of the pelvic floor muscles, which is the mechanism of transforming the floor of the lower tummy into a trapdoor, which allows baby out of mum's tum?
Did the first forceps, actually pull mum off the couch, indicating failure to follow the pelvic curve?So a failure forceps because of a poor technique, so a C/section that could have been avoided?
Thanks for sharing your story! Listened to every word. I can imagine the decision to have kids being taken away. First 2 births happened in hospital and this time we decided for home birth. Medical interventions and making my wife fit their timeline is what cause my wife go under the knife. Inducing her was a big mistake and the synthetic drug puts unnatural stress on uterus and it just spiraled from there. This time it's a HBAC 2 and have such peace about it. I am thankful for your story and will take away lots from it, almost like a "what signs to look out for" if that's okay to say. It's easy to think it's all rosey but you have to also plan for the unexpected.
Thank you so much for sharing your story, beautifully delivered, but my heart goes out to you, wishing you to be fully healed x
May God bless you for your courage and strength. Thank you for sharing your story. I was just told a few days ago by a midwife that she thinks a scheduled c-section would be the best thing for me, because of a rupture with my 2nd. I was devastated, but God brought me here to your video. I will be praying for your heart, as a woman and mother I know a brokenheart can't be stitched back together, except by His Hand. God bless you and your family.
I'm so sorry for everything youve been through. It's horrifying. Thank you for making this video. I'm going to choose a repeat c-section because of everything you've educated me about. Good luck with your surgery, I hope you're feeling much better soon!
You definitely are a light for those whom are unaware to VBAC’s. If you are religious my prayers are with your mental and physical health, I pray that you are able to recover and know that God had an Angel by your side during those terrible days until you found out that horrible news! Your feelings are valid, you take as much time as you need to cope and recover and most definitely know that you are supported in the virtual world, we are not related by blood by we’re UA-cam Family and just know you are loved!! 🤗
Sending you so much love 🤍 I have been considering a VBACC and I'm so glad that you made this video because I need to know the risks of trying. God bless you and thank you for sharing your story.
I love you. Your story has struck me like lightening! And you are definitely right! How can someone know or understand what you’ve gone through unless they’ve been through it themselves? You are not alone. I know & understand you & your story very well. Your story has touched me deeply. We share a bond & connection. I’m so sorry that this horrible thing happened to a gorgeous, precious, sweet, & wonderful young woman like yourself. My name is Jessica Alexis Harold & I reside in Houston, TX. I am super happy, lucky, blessed, relieved, shocked, joyful, & grateful to have come across your videos. I can very much relate to your story. Like I previously stated~ you are not alone.
Thank you so much!
LifeWithMarina Is there an email where I can write to you to tell you what makes our story unique & very similar & how I know exactly what you’re going through? My email address is jayharold10@hotmail.com in case you wanted to know. Thanks for writing me back.
I definitely want to drop a comment especially after watching this entire. You definitely deserve feedback. First and foremost thank you for being so brave and sharing your raw experience. You didn’t have to do all this but you did, and this video gives women such as myself an insight on what could happen during and after a vbac. Really really thank you 🙏🏽
Second of all god bless you. I know you have gone through so much but definitely am so happy you are here in this world with your 2 beautiful babies I don’t know who you are but you sure nough went through so much and I want you to know I am certainly moved by this video and I feel for you as a women honestly if you ever want to talk to someone about your feelings you may inbox me on any platform.
Im sorry that you went through all that and I hope that when you read this message you are already feeling better or atleast alittle better. It’s crazy to know at that point when your babies heart rate was dropping after blood in the catheter was noticed not one doctor or nurse decided to do something different. They just kept going. :/ I’m just really happy that you are here,again. I will keep you in my positive thoughts and I might follow you on Instagram if you have one...
Thank you so much! I really appreciate your comment, it was so kind. Thank you so much for the support 💕
I watched your story as a recommended by yt .and just wanted say how scary story this is I had no idea this can happen at all ! I never had kids but hopefully in future will have and even though those stories are scary and terrifying I'm watching them so I can learn and be aware of more in case any of the symptoms or pains ever happen to me or someone I know so I can imedietely call doctor or nurse and say I need doctor/help now! Instead of allowing them to put soap in my eyes and just let those who don't care or know it endanger my or baby's life .I want to be aware of the risks and possibilities and I know no matter how many of those I watch no one can really be prepared 100 percent but I least I will know a bit more than before . I can only imagine how painful it was for you and the emotional scare you went through. Remember you are strong you went through so much you are a fighter 💪 ❤️ and just your emotions when you said you really wanted more kids I saw imedietely you really love children. Wear your scars proudly. Since this video was uploaded 2 yrs ago I really hope everything with the surgery went perfectly and u and your family is doing good and kids are happy and healthy 💗 also just a small note whether you belive in it or not I wanted to say at 44 minutes In there's a part when you speak and suddenly an orb appears floating 😊 and it's white in colour I just know this is some type of good being watching over you or kids could be a passed away family member or guardian angel 😇 not sure if you saw that too but just wanted to let you know in case especially that it was daylight and they usually appear at night as its easier to catch them see them through pictures and videos but to see it at daylight the being must be quite powerful or full of loving energy 💟
Sending all the positivity your way. I hope you’re feeling much better now. I’m so sorry for what you had to go through. ❤️
My heart goes out to you. I’m glad God spared your life and your daughter’s life. There’s no words to undo what happened or ease the emotional and physical pain. God will have to do that too. Lean on Him. I pray everything turned out the best it could. Sending you love, healing and hope 🙏🏾💖
I cannot even imagine the pain you're in. I'm so sorry the signs of a rupture were ignored; that is unacceptable. Your story is sad and you are absolutely right that others cannot understand unless they're experiencing your situation. I'm praying for you to have all of the physical pain/surgery behind you. I know you said you many not be able to have more children, and I'm so very sorry for that..hugs & prayers. Lisa xoxo
Same happened to me💔
That actually pisses me off they ignored the signs of her uterus rupture like ugh 😩 Poor thing cannot imagine
@@miagamboa9449 why your uterine rupture?during vbac?
Ok take a deep breath - your young… take care of yourself take care of your babies & be grateful for your family… your future is not set, and maybe things will turn out better then planned - PLEASE HAVE FAITH hold on to the good… you are strong 💪🏼
Having had a c-section for my first baby (emergent), it was just assumed that I would have a vbac the second time. The first was so emotionally traumatic that I refused. I had no idea at that time that the rate of rupture was 1/200! That bit of information terrifies me.I am so glad you and your daughter made it through safely.
The rate of rupture is less than 1%. And on top of that only 6% of rupture ends in death of mother or baby. So thats 1 in over 700 that end in a death. A c-section has higher rate of death and major complications.
Chelcie Stastistics aren’t always in everyone’s favor. My son has a 1 in 800,000 type of birth defect in which they diagnosed him terminal at 16 weeks gestation. Had I listened to them, I wouldn’t have my amazing 22 year old! Not everyone makes decisions based on statistics alone. Btw, I’m an NICU nurse and have taken care of micro-preemies who were the result of uterine rupture. Many of those babies didn’t survive nor did their mothers! They were not on top of anything during her delivery, the OB ignored the nurse’s concern of blood in the catheter from the get go! It’s the docs that make the mistakes and the patients who must pay for them! Women deserve better!
@@Chaotic_Daydreameryes rupture is 1% that’s 1 in 200. 6% is for all women including women with unscarred uteruses. Nearly all studies show. C sections are relatively safe for babies. The risk lies with the mother. Nearly all complications are related to the mother. Not the baby. With a vbac studies show. The risk is higher with baby lower with mother. Whereas c sections are higher risk for the mother.
The rate of risk is also increased the longer you are in labour and if you need medical relief such as an epidural or if you get induced. It's shocking how this information is not given for women to make an informed decision.
I am so sorry you had to go through this. Thank you so much for making this video, I can't imagine how hard it was to film and talk about. But thanks to your video I now know what decision to make. I am currently 38 weeks pregnant and have been debating between getting a c-section again or doing a vbac. Hearing your story has definitely pushed me to getting the c-section. I will now go and see your other videos to see how you are doing, hope all is well
I am so so sorry. This is such a traumatic experience and I can’t believe these professionals ignored all of these red flags and warning signs. 100% not okay and really should be considered malpractice. My heart aches for you.
I am so sorry to hear about your recent birth experience! But I am really happy to hear that your sweet little baby was born safely & in perfect health! As traumatizing as something so life altering can be, you really appear to be handling “everything” better than one would expect! I understand some of the shock, fear & anger that can creep into your mind, especially as you watch your body suddenly cease functioning in ways that seem essential to freedom, independence, & a life without pain. I live with a rare disease & I understand (some of) the ongoing pain, trauma & suffering you are experiencing. My personal experiences have shown me that the ONLY thing we can control in this life is HOW we respond to our ever changing circumstances! I will be praying for you & your family & for all of your upcoming appt’s/surgeries! God Bless 🌺
Thank you! That is so true, trying to keep a positive outlook helps tremendously
I'm so sorry that you had to go through that! I hope you are physically and mentally recovering well. Thank God your baby girl was born healthy! So happy that at least you have a beautiful girl to love on after such a traumatic birth. I will pray for continued healing for you.
Also, I found your channel through this video and am now a new subscriber. I am excited to follow along in your journey! Keep up the good content!
Thank you so much! 💕
Im so sorry! 😭I am 9months preggo and considering a VBAC, thank you for sharing your story.
Thanks for sharing your experience. It’s so important that people know the signs of uterine rupture. Often it is the mother saying “something feels wrong” that is the first sign and doctors need to pay attention that. I hope everyone seeing this video and deciding between a VBAC and RCS will look into the risks of both. Birth is NEVER without risk. We all have to make the best decisions we can with the information available to us(and unfortunately that information is not always given to us by our providers).
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I just decided to not having vbac . I’m 32 weeks now . I’m was 100% sure that I want to try vbac but not anymore . I don’t want to take the risk . You are a hero . Seriously. ❤️
Thank you for being brave and sharing your story. I think so many times we are not informed by doctors of the risks involved...By sharing your story you could be helping someone else out there avoid a similar fate.
I’m 28 weeks with my 1st baby after an emergency C-section(4th baby in all) and my dr told me I could try for a Vbac if I wanted. I’ve been so on the fence because I know the risks of one but didn’t want to have another csection BUT the farther into this pregnancy I get the more I lean towards a scheduled C-section because I am TERRIFIED of having to go through what you’ve been through. So thank you for sharing your story. You are so strong, I’m praying for you mama.♥️
Thanks that helps me a lot i was planing to have vbac but now i want to think twice before act i pray for you and your family quickly recovery God is label to do things beyond doctor knowledge bless you
So sorry about everything that happened to you! I hope by now you're better and enjoying your precious baby.
Doctors need to be more up front with the risks of VBAC delivery so that mom’s can make for informed decisions. I’m so sorry for your experience. As a NICU nurse I see the results on the baby. I’m so glad your baby is healthy.
I agree! I wish more doctors would lay out all of the risks beforehand
My doctor gave me a consent form basically saying. While attempting a vbac you could die and so could your baby. While getting a repeat c section you could die. Atleast I have options ya know? Lol
I’m so sorry you had to go through all of this. Sending lots of prayers and positive energy your way 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
AWW SWEET GIRL...I say almost the same story..I was 20 and my wife and I had finally had a I.U.I transfer that actually took. We found out we were having twin boys and we were so so excited. I had a little rough pregnancy I had severe morning sickness and lost about 20lbs the first 5 months at 34 weeks on Dec 24 I went into preterm labor. The hospital kept sending me home and saying I was only 3 centimeters that I need to stay in bed but i felt something was wrong. I was in excruciating pain my wife took me back to the hospital and they checked me and I was 6 centimeters. They rushed me to a l&d room and I kept saying my babies are horizontal that I needed a c section.The O.B on call wasnt my Doctor. She was extremely rude and said i was being dramatic and that I was only 6 centimeters and shouldnt be screaming in pain that badly.I said something is wrong and I went to stand up and blood gushed out of me .my heart rate sky rocketed and my blood pressure dropped.I woke up 3 days later to find out I lost both of my boys and had a full hysterectomy because my uterus ruptured and ended up suffocating both babies....I later found out that the O.B that was my doctor actually had her license revoked in 10 states for the same issues but my state never checked her background...my story could of been easily prevented....I really wish you and your family all the love and happiness 🖤💜🤍
I’m so sorry you lost your babies and your ability to have more. That’s so sad.
Wow....I am so sorry that they didn’t listen to you and that doctor treated you that way! Also I’m so sorry for the loss of your baby boys. I can’t imagine how painful that was and still is but thank you so much for sharing your story. Its so helpful to hear that you’re not alone when you go through something traumatic like this ❤️
@@lifewithmarina4668 Thank you for responding. Before all this happened I was always someone who put their complete trust into my doctors but now I encourage women fo really listen to your body and fight for yourself when you know something is wrong 🤍💜🤍
This is such a devastating story of loss and I'm so sorry this happened to you. I hope you find healing and only experience joy and health in the future 💜
Oh my goodness, I am so very very sorry this happened to you. I hope you sought full litigation for the monumental mess up and loss this hospital caused you. I cannot even imagine.
Thank you so much for sharing this. I am scheduled for a c-section in three days, but I wanted VBAC. I know I came across this for a reason! I am so grateful to strong women like you sharing real life stories! You have made my decision easy. Thank you so much! 💗🙏🏿💗 This was do hard to hear so I can only imagine how you feel, I am so sorry! We are the same age heart hurts for you.
Congratulations!! I hope you have a great experience with your scheduled c section, and wish you a calm, peaceful delivery!!
God definitely protected the both of you! I’m so happy your daughter not only survived, but is thriving. I’m very sorry for all the trauma you suffered at the hands of the incompetent hospital doctors and nurses.
For all of you women who wish to have a VBAC you should never receive a full dose Pitocin (or any at all) and you should absolutely never combine it with an epidural. Pitocin and epidurals work against each other, most people are never told this by their ob’s. Pitocin speeds up labor by creating stronger than “natural” contractions putting unnatural stress on your uterus, which greatly increases your chances of having a ruptured uterus. Epidurals slow down labor. In most situations the hospital will start you off on a dose of pitocin. Once you start dilating and contractions get stronger they’ll administer an epidural to help you manage your pain, but in most cases shortly after receiving your epidural labor will start to slow down. To speed things back up they’ll give you more pitocin. This whole process is why America has a higher rate of c-sections than most other countries. Brazil is the leader in C-sections having I believe the highest rate in the world, but 90% or more are elective. I highly recommend getting a doula or learning some form of natural pain management like hypno birthing/babies.
“The Business of Being Born” is a great documentary on childbirth one that every expecting mother should watch, even if it’s not your first.
Thank you for sharing this video, you don't know how much you've helped me to make a decision... I wish you the fastest recovery...
just stumbled upon your video accidentally and im glad you shared it since when i was doing research on vbac the information is scare and they say the risk of uteran rupture is like 0.5% and then they skip the part to if you are a good candidate, not a good candidate etc.... and your story has the details i was looking for. Because while i was very much into trying vbac, i think your story is a good warning that maybe i shouldn't. I cant imagine your suffering and the not getting the whole picture about how severe your injury was and the doctors acting all clueless, and then you having to go all these weeks with a tube up your bladder. I did read that if it would be a vbac and with induction, the risks go really high and there arent many brave doctors to try that and your case was the illustration of that. But i also imagined that when the uterus ruptures you like blead out immediately since 500cc of blood passes through it each minute and it looks like its not the case - you were 'fine' with it for many weeks. So this lack of information from doctors really prevents people from making the correct decisions for themselves. I'm glad you and baby are alive, since those were the stakes.
I’m so sorry you went through so much, glad you and your baby are safe 😭 prayers are with you 🤍
Thank God baby and you are alive🙏🏾🙌🏾
Touching story 🥺❤️
You are going to have to learn your "new" self and what the future holds. I hope you are surrounded by love and feel peace while you and your family are walking thru this.
Thank you for sharing your experience. Unfortunately the realities of life isn't always Rose's and we need to speak more about the thorns that are also there, the share so we are not so alone
I am so sorry this all happened to you. I would have been devastated if I could only have two children. I pray you are healing from all the trauma & will find joy in your life. Thank you for sharing such a deeply personal, devastating story. ❤️
I really want a vbac seeing but after hearing your story I’m so scared now but God bless you ! My c section was so traumatic I can’t do another.
I’m so sorry! I didn’t want to scare anyone by telling my story, I just wanted to inform women of what could happen, and what the doctors don’t tell you when you have a vbac. I pray you have a healthy, happy vbac!!
I recently had a successful vbac, it’s hard but totally worth it, knowledge is key as well as professional staff
Karen Peters . Well, you don't really have a choice. How many weeks are you.
Yes my c section was traumatizing as well never again.
I'm planning a vbac after 3 sections.
Thank you so much for sharing your story! I ended up with an unplanned c-section. I labored for 26 hours, my labor stalled, there was meconium in my fluid, I started bleeding at some point during my labor. I was devastated and had a really rough recovery (infection, depression, and my wound wouldn’t heal). I’ve thought nonstop about a VBAC with my next but I was not aware of the consequences of uterine rupture. I now feel better educated and prepared for when I have to make that decision!
Thank you for your story and sharing your emotions. I’m due in August with baby number 3. I’m 39 and hoping for a VBa2C. We have had several losses and many struggles but I have 2 healthy children and currently growing another healthy baby. The decision to go the less risky route of repeat cesarean is looming, with 2 kids and a newborn I’d much rather avoid the surgery but I just don’t know. Nobody thinks they’ll be the one in 200 but it’s important to know the risks.
23.17 threw me off I have to read captions you said "they gave me a ton of pain meds" captions said "they gave me a ton of HIV meds" 😮two very very different things.
Im beyond glad you and your baby are okay and doing well❤🎉 This is so scary and I'm mad for you they didnt investigate sooner as why you had a empty bladder !!! 😡
* I fully feel you on the trauma of not seeing your baby I've had 8 babies 5 unassisted/4 at home after 3 hospital births the last being an emergency c-section with my 1st daughter. I have M.S. due to that I get chronic kidney infections which DO NOT have the same signs n symptoms as a U.T.I. Actually usually have little to no symptoms until I end up in the emergency dept. With her my husband left to get groceries came back with my boys about a hour later. I went from being totally fine to unable to stand up, shaking and shivering so bad I couldnt get dressed by the time I got to hospital I was vomiting violently, hallucinating and had a fever of almost 106 degrees! They immediately rushed me into surgery told my husband they were unsure if they could save us both but would try.😮 I had no idea what was happening, after they pulled her out I never saw her I heard her but was unaware it was her sounded like a baby down the hall. After getting us to recovery she was fine once out. Took me awhile to come to, once I did I had to wait 6 hours so 8 total before they could take me to the otherside of the unit to see her. I was beyond sad,angry,hurt everything that all my family and friends while I was in recovery got to see and hold her before me.😢💔 and I swear the first 4 years it wasn't just her birthday it was the anniversary of my traumatic c-section!!! Your feelings are fully valid mama! ❤🎉😊
I am 21 w pregnant with my 2nd baby. I was kind of considering a vbac, but I would rather be safe.
Thank you for telling your story, it will help a lot of moms. I wish you to be healthy and strong. Hugs 🤗
I am an OB/Gyn RN. Serious damage to the bladder and uterus can occur with c-sections as well, whether during pregnancy, labor or a C-section. C-sections carry even more risk than vbac (vaginal delivery after cesarean). So please get the exact statistics, as any birth carries serious risks.
@@JennyLouRN she CHOSE to give birth vaginally, having a scarred uterus. It doesn't compare to any pregnancy out there.
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are you talking about me?? I did not choose to give birth vaginally knowing that my uterus was scarred?? My uterus was not scarred. There were no warning signs. My OB told me multiple times that this was the safest way to deliver, I never once went into labor knowingly making an unsafe choice.
@TubnQT this is true!! Any way of giving birth carries risks for sure, they is no 100% guarantee that either way will turn out better than the other
@@lifewithmarina4668 sorry, that came out the wrong way.
It was a choice that you made with your doctor, who should have taken better care of you. I meant that the first c section left a scar, my sonographer measures my scar every time to make sure the tissue doesn't get too thin.
I would listen to my doctor too, I trust him with everything. You were just unlucky, they should have been extra cautious, but they still treated you like it was nothing out of the ordinary.
I am sorry, I hope I explained better. I wish you get healthy and happy with your new situation. God took care of you and he will surely not stop now.
I’m so sorry you had to through this …. This is truly a miracle❤ I’m thinking of getting a vbac this time and your story has really helped thanks for sharing
A couple hours after I had my third csection I started hemorrhaging which caused me to have to have a hysterectomy. I did decide to have my tubes removed during the csection. Afterwards I was really glad that I did. If I had had to have the hysterectomy hoping to have more babies I would’ve been crushed. It’s a hard thing to go through when you’re not expecting it.
You explain your emotions so well thank you for putting into words how we all feel with birth trauma
Something similar happened to me last month. I was scared to try a VBAC because of how short I am and how big I carried. I looked like I was having twins. So I knew my daughter was gonna be a big baby just like her brother. When I was dilating at the hospital, the doctor checked my cervix and told me I have a narrow pelvis. I was worried that I wasn’t gonna be able to push her out but she said it doesn’t matter if I’m narrowed. What matters was the babies position. I trusted her and decided to still try for a vbac. They had me pushing for almost 3 hours! Her head came out my cervix but not her shoulders. I ended up getting a csection and during the surgery, the doctor told me “no more babies okay!?” she told me I had a lot of scar tissue from my first csection and that I would be at high risk of dying if I have another csection. I lost a lot of blood from all the pushing and scar tissue from my first csection. and needed a blood transfusion. Thankfully my uterus didn’t rupture. I felt fine afterwards. I didn’t feel pain on my scar and I was just happy. Then later that day I felt super nauseous and my lower back started aching and it hurt so bad that I was crying. They did a cat scan and they saw that my left kidney was swollen with urine because my ureter had a blockage. Then I had a procedure where they put a tube on my back into my kidney to drain my urine in a baggie which is called a nephrostomy catheter. The urologist told me that same day he wasn’t sure if the doctor accidentally stitched my ureter when she was stitching my uterus since I was losing a lot of blood or if it was the blood clot that they saw on the cat scan pressing on it. So he told me I had to keep the nephrostomy for two weeks. I had a procedure done two weeks later and my uterer is still blocked. The urologist said he saw solid tissue when he inserted the camera into my ureter so he wants to wait another three weeks to see if it opens up if not I have to get surgery where they cut off the blocked part and reattached my ureter to my bladder :(( I also asked another doctor at a clinic if I really can’t have anymore babies and she said I could but she wouldn’t recommend it because I could possibly die. I wanted one more baby too. I’m 28 years old :// so I feel you
Scary. a lot of people romantisce birth, it is sooo hard on the body! glad that you got the care you needed xxx
I am so sorry Marina. I was crying with you throughout this video. I can’t even imagine what you went through and what you’re currently going through. I think you should keep posting updates, if you’re comfortable, you never know who these videos might reach and who might have gone through or could be going through something similar. Congratulations on your beautiful baby girl! I am praying for and your family, and praying for a successful surgery. When I am struggling I always try to tell myself it won’t be like this forever. Whatever I’m going through, whatever pain I’m feeling, it’s not permanent and things will always get better. 💗
Thank you so much for the kind words Brooke ❤️
Marina, thank you for making this. I had a very similar experience and also gratefully have 2 healthy children. But, like you, I feel I was not properly informed and vbacs are pushed as the ideal. My whole medical team ignored me describing my ncredible pain despite my epidural (the pain was up into my ribs) which everyone should have seen as a sign. I just wanted to add that like you, in both labors my epidural did not cover one side. I wonder if it's related. Also, my son had a massive head and he came out with marks on his forehead from banging against my hips. I did end up get another emergency c section but they only knew I had ruptured when they opened me up and saw my son's head instead of my uterus. I can't believe no one recognized your obviously abnormal severe pain as well. You've inspired me to make my own video for other women, even tho it's not going to fit at all with my other content. 😂
You should!! There really isn’t much out on UA-cam about Women’s experiences with uterus rupture. That’s super interesting too about your epidural not working on one side as well, maybe they are related. I’m so sorry you’ve experienced rupture too. I’m so happy you’re ok 💕
For my first birth, a mid wife by mistake, gave me two doses of epidural, which completely stopped my contractions and my labour was arrested. I could not push nor did I dilate beyond 8cm. And I had to go for emergency C-section. PLEASE AVOID TAKING EPIDURAL AS LONG AS U CAN.