PREGNANT AFTER (ALMOST) A YEAR OF TRYING | WHAT I DID DIFFERENT THAT I WISH I DID SOONER

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  • Hi guys! In today’s video Im talking about trying to conceive! These are some of the things I did that helped me to FINALLY get pregnant and I wanted to share them in hopes it will help one of you get pregnant as well! I know this can be a hard subject to talk about because it’s such an emotional and difficult time because all you want is that positive pregnancy test so here’s to hoping this will help 🙏🏻💕
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  • @nikkisoh25
    @nikkisoh25  4 роки тому +274

    Hi guys! I had no idea this video was going to do so well one day, I know there are so many of you out there trying to conceive and I truly hope SOMETHING in this video is able to help you ♥️ I know it took me a year to conceive which felt so long for me but seeing how so many of you having been trying for so much longer, my heart goes out to you all. There is something that I did not use to conceived but I have heard of it helping others so maybe it will help you guys too! It’s called preseed - look it up and maybe you’ll want to try this too!! 😊
    I posted this to my Instagram but I figured I’d share it here for everyone who views this video to read because maybe this will help to gain a little bit of hope ♥️⬇️
    Exactly one year ago today we found out we were going to have a baby! I took another pregnancy test thinking it was going to be negative like it always was but finally got that positive!!+ It took exactly one year of trying for us to get pregnant.. every month I wasn’t I felt so sad/disappointed. It felt like everyone else around me was able to get pregnant and I just kept questioning why not me? I couldn’t understand it. After Abigail was born I finally know the answer to that question. It was so SHE was the one who could come into my life and no one else. Abigail was meant to be our baby and I am so grateful/blessed it was her. I’m such a believer in the butterfly effect & everything happening for a reason. I wouldn’t revise a single moment of my past because everything is what lead to this particular angel baby to coming into our lives. ♥️
    -
    So for anyone out there who is having a hard time conceiving your time will come no matter how it happens, everything happens for a reason. ♥️

    • @Aparna.S93
      @Aparna.S93 4 роки тому +3

      I have been trying for almost a year now.. Thanku so much for the encouraging words.. I feel happy and a bit less disappointed now to see that I'm not alone here

    • @nikkisoh25
      @nikkisoh25  4 роки тому +3

      you are not alone! ❤️

    • @cieraali9959
      @cieraali9959 4 роки тому +1

      Wowww thank you..you gave me some faith here ...you were jus like me and ur prego now congrats tho ...im next will try everything you said thanks so much

    • @nikkisoh25
      @nikkisoh25  4 роки тому +1

      Ciera Ali yes you are next!! 🤗

    • @nikkisoh25
      @nikkisoh25  4 роки тому +1

      Shantele Lewellen hi! ☺️ im not exactly sure if I have a tilted uterus I just remember reading about this and doing it doggy style with help! Lol but i would definitely try that because it couldn’t hurt and I think that was one of the things that definitely helped me get pregnant 🤗

  • @JAdoreEdwardCullen
    @JAdoreEdwardCullen 4 роки тому +1707

    I'm trying to get pregnant now. And I'm like how do people get "accidentally" pregnant, like I can't even get purposefully pregnant. lol

    • @sweetpotatoesyum
      @sweetpotatoesyum 4 роки тому +29

      Same!!!😂

    • @candij5632
      @candij5632 4 роки тому +15

      Right

    • @madisoned
      @madisoned 4 роки тому +47

      Things often happen when you least expect them

    • @KTfromJersey
      @KTfromJersey 4 роки тому +139

      same girl. weve been trying for six months. cant believe i bothered taking birth control for so many years lol what a waste

    • @bluecannibaleyes
      @bluecannibaleyes 4 роки тому +30

      I never understood it because the idea of sex, especially unprotected sex, has always been really scary to me and I don’t understand how so many people can just do it so casually/without thinking or worrying.

  • @sarahbrar09
    @sarahbrar09 4 роки тому +178

    I watched this video before and remember asking for advice. And now im happy that i am 19 weeks pregnant!

    • @nikkisoh25
      @nikkisoh25  4 роки тому +9

      congratulations! so happy for you! 🤗💕

  • @Lel171
    @Lel171 4 роки тому +301

    The “everyone getting pregnant but me” is so real! Interestingly though, the other girls getting pregnant felt the same way at some point too. This shows we all go through a similar experience more or less. Thank you for sharing your experience. I can tell in your voice it was a tough time, but I am so happy you had a positive pregnancy test!

    • @zzevonplant
      @zzevonplant 3 роки тому +3

      Yep. I was the "everyone's getting pregnant but me" girl for a while, then I lost my first baby at 12 weeks, so then seeing pregnant women everywhere bothered me 1000 times more. Just awful. And then I got pregnant with my daughter like the same month my first baby would have been born.
      So you really never know. When I stopped focusing on it and worrying so much is when it happened.
      So you're definitely right though, a lot of people that are now pregnant were in that position before.

    • @simplysantanaskreations6597
      @simplysantanaskreations6597 3 роки тому +5

      Me too I’m feeling that now and the girls I do know that openly do not want kids having them and I’ve been trying for so long and o can’t get pregnant

  • @klairewhittle6026
    @klairewhittle6026 3 роки тому +248

    It took 5 years for me to conceive my daughter. All checks I had kept coming back all is well. The month she was conceived it was a (sorry tmi) quickie in the middle of the day, got straight up afterwards cleaned up and carried on with what we originally doing. We'd just come back from a holiday where we discussed the fact a baby was never going to be in our future, we converted one of the spare rooms into a games room, I changed jobs that month too.
    The pain each month of negative tests and hearing more pregnancy announcements its heart breaking but all that pain goes away when you hold that baby. My daughter is nearly 10 now and she is the best thing that has ever happen to me 🥰

    • @1111om
      @1111om Рік тому

      Hearing all of the pregnancy announcements truly is heart-breaking. You're also torn because you really want to be so happy for them but you feel like such an outsider to motherhood. It's heart wrenching. Thank you for sharing your story.💜

  • @MrsJackelineM
    @MrsJackelineM 3 роки тому +354

    My 17 year old brother got his girlfriend pregnant after not using a condom..they had a boy.
    My husband and I will have been trying for, in two weeks will be a year..
    My cousin told me two weeks ago, that her and her husband, who got married 6 months ago.. decided last month to try .. she got pregnant.
    That was hard.. I felt crushed.

    • @nikkisoh25
      @nikkisoh25  3 роки тому +14

      I know that is sooo hard to go through.. sending you love ♥️♥️

    • @NINJAROSE347
      @NINJAROSE347 3 роки тому +5

      I know the feeling don’t give up! My nephew just had a baby so yea !! very frustrating but pray and don’t loose hope!

    • @MrsJackelineM
      @MrsJackelineM 3 роки тому +8

      @@NINJAROSE347 Definitely not giving up! And yes lots of prayers.

    • @jf9335
      @jf9335 3 роки тому +14

      Imagine 8 years of hearing everyone who got married after you having baby after baby...

    • @HairsWhatsUp
      @HairsWhatsUp 3 роки тому +3

      Make sure u get off prior to him. Try on day 13, 14, 15 of when u start your period. I’d also say gain a little weight too. Like 8 lbs extra. Warms ur body temp too.

  • @SunraysandLisalights
    @SunraysandLisalights Рік тому +11

    When you said you were praying for all of us to get pregnant, I lost it 🥹 I felt that was genuine from your heart and I really appreciate it. Thanks for the video as well 💞

    • @nikkisoh25
      @nikkisoh25  Рік тому

      I am!! 🙏🏻 hope this video was able to help 🥺❤️

  • @jannahmac5371
    @jannahmac5371 4 роки тому +436

    I hate hearing “your time will come” even though it might true, I don’t need to hear it at all

    • @faithbaby1.nicemoviespaul675
      @faithbaby1.nicemoviespaul675 4 роки тому +1

      Please I need it . I will I get it

    • @g.k.o1132
      @g.k.o1132 4 роки тому

      I completely understand haha

    • @FrEe_palstine64
      @FrEe_palstine64 4 роки тому

      It really sucks when someone say that u will get it too

    • @marthacampbell7514
      @marthacampbell7514 4 роки тому +1

      I followed the *ThePregnancyFact. Com* when my partner and I made the decision it was time for a baby. Numerous lives have become better due to this plan and if you wish to find out why, just go to Google. I discovered that I was getting pregnant after 3 months of following the formula and eating a healthy diet plan. Despite being in the older parental age set, this particular program has changed my whole life around.?

    • @queenlyzzye1
      @queenlyzzye1 4 роки тому

      Right because I’m like I want it now!!!

  • @dapurbelumsiap2529
    @dapurbelumsiap2529 4 роки тому +71

    In tears right now. You're so honest & pure in every minute of it. It hurts because it's what i've been going through now. I notice how you voice sometimes keeps breaking up whenever you thought about your journey. Thank you so much for sharing!

  • @pianogirl9676
    @pianogirl9676 4 роки тому +87

    Ok I will share this and hope it helps someone out there get pregnant. Do get and use ovulation sticks. My cycle is 28 days so I assumed that I would be most fertile around day 14 and so while ttc I focused most on days 12 to 16. But after buying the ovulation sticks I discovered that I was releasing the egg quite early.. meaning that by day 13 it was already too late!!! I got pregnant 2 months after realising this.
    I hope every woman on here ttc gets pregnant soon 🤞

    • @jessicaperez4074
      @jessicaperez4074 3 роки тому +1

      Thank you! 💙

    • @lilmissshakz
      @lilmissshakz 3 роки тому +2

      thanks for the advice

    • @1027vvergara
      @1027vvergara 2 роки тому

      Yes all over this advice!
      Plus every mth ovulation can vary depending on diet & stress

  • @jenniferking6976
    @jenniferking6976 4 роки тому +391

    Been trying for 2 years, it is such a hard thing especially when it feels like everyone else is having a baby.

    • @melissasmith217
      @melissasmith217 4 роки тому +15

      Its been really hard emotionally on me here lately. Women left n right getting preg or got pregnant too fast. Less then a year married or less then 2 or 3. N i so strongly want to get pregnant. I'm 38 n my husband 39. 7 years married. Feel more ready now. Good luck to u.

    • @melissasmith217
      @melissasmith217 4 роки тому +1

      Have u or your significant other seen a doc? Are u doing anything to help
      I have not had health insurance

    • @marianwilliam8313
      @marianwilliam8313 4 роки тому

      If truly you want to get pregnant then I no of a man that can help you out like he helped me solve my seven years childlessness

    • @schunleinlarry578
      @schunleinlarry578 4 роки тому

      @@melissasmith217 I am here to testify how a great man called Dr OMO help me out
      with herbs and roots which he prepared for me in use of
      Getting pregnant after 8 years of try to conceive with fibroid he prepare herbal medicine to cure my fibroid I takes his product cure for (14) days before I
      known I was totally pregnant after 2months and i promised him that i will tell the world about his Great job he ask me to drink from the herbal medicine before meeting my husband I did and after 2month I was pregnant thank you for your great job he can also help you if you have a (herpes virus pimples in your body and all type of other disease ) he can stop miscarriage with his herbal medicine (low sperm count. Email :
      dromo596@gmail.com or whats-app number: 2349033505260

    • @criswarrington8463
      @criswarrington8463 4 роки тому +4

      I feel for these women. It seems like forever when you want a baby. But I think most people don't realize that taking a year is a totally normal timespan to get pregnant. Don't put so much pressure on yourselves.

  • @ShelbySays
    @ShelbySays 4 роки тому +21

    Thank you for this video. We have been actively trying for 8 months and it feels like EVERYONE is getting pregnant! So much of this video was so relatable!

  • @swathih1
    @swathih1 4 роки тому +47

    I agree with not telling people. My friends in the past have even gone far as to only announce when they’ve delivered. So following suit!

  • @malaikah8329
    @malaikah8329 4 роки тому +148

    "For baby".. the way you said this made my heart smile.
    Tips: make sure you keep WARM!! I cant emphasize this enough.. wear socks all the damn time.. Get a heating pad and do the castor oil rub- never do it on ovulation days.. Sleep..sleep..sleep.. Make sure you hey enough sleep.. Its important ladies that we do the work and give yourself the best chance possible.. Be excited.. day dream about it. Think about the joy that it brings and not focusing on the negative.. a happy soul attracts pregnancy.. Diet is very important and weight.
    Good luck ladies.. I day dream about my future baby everyday its creepy🤣🤣❤❤

    • @sabikadavujan7813
      @sabikadavujan7813 4 роки тому

      I’ve an adorable 5 year-old daughter at my age of forty-five.A West health doctormedic adviced me there was a little chance of me conceiving with my egg. The news were very disheartening, although with the *ThePregnancyFact. Com* I was able to end up a mother. I followed the directions in the formula and my reproductive condition has highly improved.

    • @Mrsqueen876
      @Mrsqueen876 3 роки тому +1

      Wait do not wear socks and do not keep warm on ovulation days or just don't using a heating pad on ovulation days?

    • @malaikah8329
      @malaikah8329 3 роки тому +1

      @@Mrsqueen876 I am not sure I fully understand what you are asking

    • @1027vvergara
      @1027vvergara 2 роки тому

      This was cute advice hun! Thank u💕

  • @ashleyzhou5036
    @ashleyzhou5036 4 роки тому +16

    I love how she's being super honest with people. I wish I didn't tell people I was trying either :/ It started of as funny, then realized, man this is hard. I started reading into my "symptoms" wayy too much. Also, people always say if you stop worrying about it then you get pregnant. It's impossible to stop worrying about it.

    • @marianwilliam8313
      @marianwilliam8313 4 роки тому

      If truly you want to get pregnant easy and fast then i no of a man that can help you out like he helped me seven years childlessness

  • @AshA-su5uo
    @AshA-su5uo 3 роки тому +5

    Don't understand how anyone unliked this video. You were honest and open in a shy way and I thought it was really sweet!

  • @xiyunyager9651
    @xiyunyager9651 4 роки тому +129

    Love how honest and real you are! I felt everything you said. We are on month 4 of TTC and it feels like everyone around us is pregnant but us.

    • @tyjeeburks9671
      @tyjeeburks9671 4 роки тому +1

      Xiyun Yager I on the same page! This is my fourth month trying and nothing yet !!

    • @Roxy96787
      @Roxy96787 4 роки тому +4

      Keep strong ♡ we have been trying for 5 years this month with 3 miscarriages. It doesnt get easier but you get stronger
      Baby dust to you

    • @ebanghabraidsebane2501
      @ebanghabraidsebane2501 4 роки тому

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    • @haleyfowler1986
      @haleyfowler1986 4 роки тому +3

      Short story time, but I understand this feeling! On Valentine’s Day this year my best friend told me she was pregnant and I told her I’ve been trying for a year. So I took a test the same day just for the heck of it and it was positive! We found out I was having a girl, then 2 weeks later had a miscarriage. Everyone around us is pregnant so it’s hard to keep positive, so my advice is keep your hopes up no matter what we are hoping for a rainbow baby one day ❤️

  • @jasminehullum1426
    @jasminehullum1426 4 роки тому +352

    Literally everything you spoke is what i felt and been going through !

    • @nikkisoh25
      @nikkisoh25  4 роки тому +7

      Jasmine Hullum it’s nice to know your not in this alone!! ♥️

    • @jorlor1993
      @jorlor1993 4 роки тому

      Me to😭

    • @joannaaurelio5673
      @joannaaurelio5673 4 роки тому

      Me too

    • @alyssamoorefield1212
      @alyssamoorefield1212 4 роки тому +5

      Me too, then I finally got pregnant . But ended up having a miscarriage. Worse thing anyone could ever go through, and it made it worse was my friends were pregnant .

    • @luckydevil1601
      @luckydevil1601 4 роки тому

      I'm thru this now. 4 months went by and nothing.((

  • @AquaEvaUmi
    @AquaEvaUmi 4 роки тому +61

    My husband and I just started, I’m over 35 so I’m definitely nervous about being able to conceive. I appreciate and love your video! Wish me luck you guys!! I need happy fertile thoughts! 💕

    • @nikkisoh25
      @nikkisoh25  4 роки тому +7

      you got this girl! I know people in their 40s who conceived, your still young! 💕

    • @anitajames960
      @anitajames960 4 роки тому +1

      Hello my name is Anita from Munich am here to testify how great man called Dr Breeze helped me out
      with herbs and roots which he prepared for me in use of
      Getting pregnant after 8 years of trying to conceive with fibroid I took his product (cure for my fibroid made with herbal medicine Root) for (9 days before I
      am to know I was totally pregnant with a twins after 1month , and i promised him that i will tell the world about his Great job he ask me to drink from the herbal medicine before meeting my husband I did and after 1months I was pregnant thank you for your great job he can also help you if you have a low sperm or can't conceive , PCOS,infertility contacts whatsapp :+2349054351482
      Thanks

    • @anitajames960
      @anitajames960 4 роки тому

      Tracy Westeen Hello my name is Anita from Munich am here to testify how great man called Dr Breeze helped me out
      with herbs and roots which he prepared for me in use of
      Getting pregnant after 8 years of trying to conceive with fibroid I took his product (cure for my fibroid made with herbal medicine Root) for (9 days before I
      am to know I was totally pregnant with a twins after 1month , and i promised him that i will tell the world about his Great job he ask me to drink from the herbal medicine before meeting my husband I did and after 1months I was pregnant thank you for your great job he can also help you if you have a low sperm or can't conceive , PCOS,infertility contacts whatsapp :+2349054351482
      Thanks

    • @lilmissshakz
      @lilmissshakz 3 роки тому +3

      let us know if you got pregnant!!

    • @madib.2567
      @madib.2567 3 роки тому

      Same here.

  • @lydbb
    @lydbb 4 роки тому +22

    I laughed when you said you’re really not going to stop worrying about it. So raw and so true!

  • @LaurenVR.
    @LaurenVR. 4 роки тому +61

    This is seriously so raw, real, and helpful. Thank you so much for making this video literally going through the EXACT same thing. Everything you said. Thanks girly 💕

  • @lindamarina7520
    @lindamarina7520 3 роки тому +23

    After I saw your video I bought ovulation tests and similar teas. And I finally got pregnant! Of course it could be anything but I guess that your tips really helped us ☺️ big thanks and many greetings from Germany 🇩🇪

    • @nikkisoh25
      @nikkisoh25  3 роки тому +1

      CONGRATULATIONS!! 🎉♥️

  • @latoyadorsey-johnson3491
    @latoyadorsey-johnson3491 4 роки тому +15

    Thank you so much for your transparency. I have a 13 year old son and I told God I didn't want anymore children until I got married. So we've been married a year now. I had been on birth control since my son was born but got off after about 2 or 3 months of marriage. I've done and felt everything you mentioned. I've been taking prenatals, drinking the tea (not daily but often), etc. I use the Flo app though and have ovulation kits and pregnancy tests on deck. Just recently when my cycle came I started feeling down, sad, depressed, and frustrated. I was reminded not to forget what God promised me and then today I saw your video. Trust God ladies and it will most definitely happen! I speak it into existence and pray that all who desire to conceive, have health pregnancies and babies! Much love from a 35 year old mom trying to conceive after 13 years! 💕😅😁

    • @schunleinlarry578
      @schunleinlarry578 4 роки тому

      I am here to testify how great man called Dr OMO helped me out
      with herbs and roots which he prepared for me in use of curing
      Getting pregnant after 8 years of try to conceive with fibroid I takes his product (cure for my fibroid made with herbal medicine Root) for (14) days before I
      am to known I was totally pregnant after 2months of it he have Herbal medical for all types of diseases and i promised him that i will tell the world about his Great job he ask me to drink from the herbal medicine before meeting my husband I did and after 2months I was pregnant thank you for your great job he can also help you if you have a low sperm count you want to convince a baby fast Cure PCOS ,infections, Herpes, Blocked Tubes, Crohns and all other type of diseases Email :
      dromo596@gmail.com or whats-app number: +2349033505260

    • @keyballa
      @keyballa 2 роки тому

      Thanks for sharing. Did you get pregnant yet? My wife is about to be 35 and we been trying for over a year now.

  • @likalove4924
    @likalove4924 3 роки тому +6

    the beginning of the video got me almost emotional because that is what im going through now and im still not pregnant im 1yr and 3months in but i do have faith so im happy ... CONGRATS ON YOUR BLESSING

    • @nikkisoh25
      @nikkisoh25  3 роки тому

      Yes have faith! ♥️ your little blessing will be along

  • @d1v1n1ti
    @d1v1n1ti 3 роки тому +10

    Finally someone that tells the truth! GIRL I appreciate the authenticity in this video so much! Oh and amazon and Walmart has those ovulation sticks inexpensive , AND the dollar store has them too!! :) Good luck everyone! God Bless

  • @chellyb3730
    @chellyb3730 4 роки тому +65

    I feel the same way, I’m tired of ppl keep asking” when will you get pregnant “ I had a miscarriage in Dec.19 . I hate it . Everyone around me is pregnant 🤰🏽 everyone says it’ll come

    • @tashiagentry3987
      @tashiagentry3987 4 роки тому

      Me too... going on two years for me in October

    • @Daisy_19971
      @Daisy_19971 4 роки тому +2

      Girl I FEEL this. I miscarried November 8th, and I was so heartbroken. Everyone has been asking if I’m pregnant ever since.

    • @supernova5922
      @supernova5922 4 роки тому +3

      Been trying 3 years and then I got a cyst and tried it but ended up losing an ovary and I just give up on having a baby but I’m tired of people asking me what I’m waiting on !! No one knows the struggle I’m going throw ,the pain of trying n nothing works!!

    • @tashiagentry3987
      @tashiagentry3987 4 роки тому +2

      Supernova 592 I agree. We suffer in silence 😞

    • @mansisharma6527
      @mansisharma6527 3 роки тому

      I can relate I had a miscarriage on July 2020. Sadly, women aren't as open about it.

  • @viktoriatushkova1112
    @viktoriatushkova1112 4 роки тому +65

    It was so hard for me to get pregnant as well when I was trying . Trying and trying and stressing over that it wasn’t happening . Once I stopped trying and just let things be two months later I was pregnant!

    • @MuhammadImran-ln4fz
      @MuhammadImran-ln4fz 4 роки тому

      Can i help u 👪👪👪❤❤❤😍😍😍😍

    • @rexroy5669
      @rexroy5669 4 роки тому

      Hi Mama Bethie, I am married for 1 year and we are trying to concieve since 5 months,my periods are regular and on time,i calculate my fertile days for conception and we try accordingly but i am unable to concieve.is there any piece of advise u would like to give
      me for increasing my chances of conception?I am regularly taking folic acid supplement

  • @monicagomez8861
    @monicagomez8861 4 роки тому +37

    Super Hard ! , We Have been Trying for a year now . Hopefully We’re Pregnant This Month ☺️👶 Thank You so much

  • @Domoniquefifer
    @Domoniquefifer 4 роки тому +9

    I’ve been trying for two years and I’ve lost all hope ☺️ so I found your video and I pray this works!!!

    • @nikkisoh25
      @nikkisoh25  4 роки тому +2

      praying for you girl!! 🙏🏼💕

    • @Domoniquefifer
      @Domoniquefifer 4 роки тому +3

      Nikki Soh thanks your video was the best video I’ve seen by far 🥰💙

    • @asijakendrick99
      @asijakendrick99 3 роки тому +1

      Did it work ?

  • @hannahnash4690
    @hannahnash4690 4 роки тому +8

    congratulations👏🏼💖 i’m still trying. i had a miscarriage in october and still trying. everything you felt is literally how i’m feeling! goodluck😊

    • @hannahtestrow6087
      @hannahtestrow6087 4 роки тому +1

      Hannah Nash I had miscarriage is jan stay strong ❤️❤️

    • @lxvor8225
      @lxvor8225 4 роки тому

      Good luck girl. Praying for you❤

  • @allieeast9792
    @allieeast9792 3 роки тому +6

    This was literally one of the most real and honest videos I’ve seen about this topic and I loved it so much thank you 💕

  • @kimberlycoats61
    @kimberlycoats61 3 роки тому +6

    Just about everything you said was so true to the tea! I can honestly say after watching your video I stuck with the similar routine and I got PREGNANTTT 2 months later. Well, after having my iud for six years! This is my 3 pregnancy and I just to say thank you for the tips 💕😊

    • @nikkisoh25
      @nikkisoh25  3 роки тому +2

      YESSSSS!!! So happy for you congratulations!! 🎉♥️

  • @ninaf6068
    @ninaf6068 4 роки тому +17

    Thanks for helping me gain my faith after being stressed out and overwhelmed. I'll keep TTC and praying that one or more of this methods work. I wish all the mommies TTC the best of luck.

    • @nikkisoh25
      @nikkisoh25  4 роки тому

      don't lose hope !! 💗

    • @shabnnamaswath5343
      @shabnnamaswath5343 4 роки тому

      Keep going love

    • @anitajames960
      @anitajames960 4 роки тому

      Hello my name is Anita from Munich am here to testify how great man called Dr Breeze helped me out
      with herbs and roots which he prepared for me in use of
      Getting pregnant after 8 years of trying to conceive with fibroid I took his product (cure for my fibroid made with herbal medicine Root) for (9 days before I
      am to know I was totally pregnant with a twins after 1month , and i promised him that i will tell the world about his Great job he ask me to drink from the herbal medicine before meeting my husband I did and after 1months I was pregnant thank you for your great job he can also help you if you have a low sperm or can't conceive , PCOS,infertility contacts whatsapp :+2349054351482
      Thanks

  • @brirenee6681
    @brirenee6681 4 роки тому +11

    We are 9 months of TTC and everything you said hit home!!😩🥺

  • @Britt-yk5nn
    @Britt-yk5nn 4 роки тому +9

    Thank You for posting this. My husband and I became pregnant in October 2019. We ended up losing the baby in November. So heartbreaking. We are looking to start trying again. I actually grabbed this tea today! So I’m excited to start on it all as well.
    Hope you and baby are all doing well!

    • @nikkisoh25
      @nikkisoh25  4 роки тому +2

      im so sorry to hear that! I loved the tea and I'm sure you will too! wishing you the best of luck! 💗

    • @foozy21
      @foozy21 4 роки тому +1

      praying for u ... went thru the same in october . sending u hugs

    • @Britt-yk5nn
      @Britt-yk5nn 4 роки тому +1

      foozy21 thank you! We’re still trying. January didn’t work. We will be trying again this month. 🙏🏻 Prayers for you as well!

    • @Britt-yk5nn
      @Britt-yk5nn 4 роки тому

      Nikki Soh thank you! January wasn’t our month. So we’re onto this month!🙏🏻

    • @foozy21
      @foozy21 4 роки тому +1

      Britt111514 same here ... xoxo 🙏🏼

  • @charlesgerety1403
    @charlesgerety1403 4 роки тому +6

    My fiance and I are trying and I will say I do become jealous seeing all my friends having children. We will get there 👍

    • @anitajames960
      @anitajames960 4 роки тому

      Hello my name is Anita from Munich am here to testify how great man called Dr Breeze helped me out
      with herbs and roots which he prepared for me in use of
      Getting pregnant after 8 years of trying to conceive with fibroid I took his product (cure for my fibroid made with herbal medicine Root) for (9 days before I
      am to know I was totally pregnant with a twins after 1month , and i promised him that i will tell the world about his Great job he ask me to drink from the herbal medicine before meeting my husband I did and after 1months I was pregnant thank you for your great job he can also help you if you have a low sperm or can't conceive , PCOS,infertility contacts whatsapp :+2349054351482
      Thanks

  • @mercychalice
    @mercychalice 3 роки тому +2

    "Stop stressing about it. Stop thinking about it. Yeah. You're always thinking about it." This...a year and a half later and still trying. Crossing fingers every month, hearing all the announcements around me, praying in my deepest heart, that one day, maybe....

  • @shaeraalicea1059
    @shaeraalicea1059 4 роки тому +58

    I’m here cause I’m going through this right now 😩

    • @marianwilliam8313
      @marianwilliam8313 4 роки тому

      If truly you want to get pregnant easy and fast then i no of a man that can help you out like he helped me seven years childlessness

    • @MuhammadImran-ln4fz
      @MuhammadImran-ln4fz 4 роки тому

      Can i help u 👪👪❤❤😍😍

    • @shaeraalicea1059
      @shaeraalicea1059 4 роки тому

      By my husband ofc ... not some random guy lol

    • @prenolaaheer4734
      @prenolaaheer4734 3 роки тому +1

      Hi mam I'm going thru dis ryt now😔😔😔😔😔😔🥺🥺🥺🥺😭😭😭

    • @anitajames960
      @anitajames960 3 роки тому +1

      @@prenolaaheer4734 I know of a solution dear

  • @noellem6416
    @noellem6416 4 роки тому +3

    You made my heart hurt when you talked about “it will happen for you.” I been hearing that for a year and a half now, all of my friends are getting pregnant currently and I’m happy for them but it’s very difficult to not be able to conceive. I still trust in God and I know everyone has a blessing on the way 🙏🏻🙌🏻

    • @nikkisoh25
      @nikkisoh25  4 роки тому +2

      I know its so hard to hear but now that I have my baby girl here with me I understand why it took awhile to conceive and that was so that she could come into my life ❤️

    • @marianwilliam8313
      @marianwilliam8313 4 роки тому

      If truly you want to get pregnant easy and fast then i no of a man that can help you out like he helped me seven years childlessness

    • @noellem6416
      @noellem6416 4 роки тому

      Marian William ? Please let me know

  • @berechihuahua
    @berechihuahua 4 роки тому +134

    I know that feeling girl in my family sisters and sisters in law friends everyone I’m telling getting pregnant except me 😢

    • @nikkisoh25
      @nikkisoh25  4 роки тому +5

      Berenice Rosales it’s honestly one of the worst feelings 😔

    • @Lulu-hq8mx
      @Lulu-hq8mx 4 роки тому

      Same here 😭 it sucks

    • @RS-et4qk
      @RS-et4qk 4 роки тому +5

      And it makes u feel cursed..been bearing this from 4.5 yrs

    • @wowso4
      @wowso4 4 роки тому +2

      Berenice Rosales darling may God bless you with a healthy baby! I will keep you in my prayers 🙏 try not to stress and just be happy and it will happen when the time is right best of luck to you! 😘

    • @iky183
      @iky183 4 роки тому

      My two younger sisters got married after me..they both onto second babies.

  • @kabrinachristine1618
    @kabrinachristine1618 4 роки тому +6

    Yesssss. I had a miscarriage in April last year and I have been trying since with no luck. It’s so frustrating and literally everyone I know has been getting pregnant. 😔 It’s rough. Thank you for making this!

    • @luhbabyjahz
      @luhbabyjahz 4 роки тому +1

      Same. I had a miscarriage in February last year. I’ve been trying too with no luck 😞

    • @stephaniemorgan2242
      @stephaniemorgan2242 4 роки тому

      Pls don’t give up. I know of a woman who helped me conceive after 10years of childlessness,maybe she can help u too, I know how it feels.

    • @schunleinlarry578
      @schunleinlarry578 4 роки тому

      @@luhbabyjahz I am here to testify how great man called Dr OMO helped me out
      with herbs and roots which he prepared for me in use of curing
      Getting pregnant after 8 years of try to conceive with fibroid I takes his product (cure for my fibroid made with herbal medicine Root) for (14) days before I
      am to known I was totally pregnant after 2months of it he have Herbal medical for all types of diseases and i promised him that i will tell the world about his Great job he ask me to drink from the herbal medicine before meeting my husband I did and after 2months I was pregnant thank you for your great job he can also help you if you have a low sperm count you want to convince a baby fast Cure PCOS ,infections, Herpes, Blocked Tubes, Crohns and all other type of diseases Email :
      dromo596@gmail.com or whats-app number: +2349033505260

  • @kayleepayne6726
    @kayleepayne6726 4 роки тому +5

    Depo shot messed my body up and after is when I got diagnosed with PCOS I was on depo for a year I’ve been off birth control completely for like 2 years and I’m having issues even having a period because my hormones are imbalanced! This video gave me hope!

    • @sarahscobb
      @sarahscobb 4 роки тому

      Same! I had one injection in octobwr of 2018 and didnt get a period until may of 2019. I'm still messed up. One month it could be a 50+ day cycle. The next month a 12-20 day cycle.

  • @reiklingman
    @reiklingman 3 роки тому +2

    I’m trying to conceive for the first time in my life.. at 34. We just had a miscarriage and I’ve been having a hard time. Your video is really helping me get my mind off of the heartache. I know it’s like, 2 years old, but it’s still helping people!

    • @nikkisoh25
      @nikkisoh25  3 роки тому

      I am so sorry for your loss 😢 praying for your rainbow baby 🌈 💕🙏🏻

    • @faithjohn1657
      @faithjohn1657 2 роки тому

      hello friend i feel your pains😥😥 do you want to free from this struggle that you are right now

    • @faithjohn1657
      @faithjohn1657 2 роки тому

      I no of a spiritual man that can help you give me a feedback if you need help💁💁💁

    • @reiklingman
      @reiklingman 2 роки тому +1

      @@faithjohn1657 this is not appropriate. I’m a medical professional and you not be soliciting women who are already in emotional and physical pain. Go away sir.

    • @faithjohn1657
      @faithjohn1657 2 роки тому

      @@reiklingman i just want to recommend you to a man that help me my friend

  • @nmh7499
    @nmh7499 4 роки тому +14

    So refreshing to see your video! I feel like lately when I watch anything pregnancy related on UA-cam they are always like yea we weren't even really trying we got pregnant or it only took two months🙄 There are so many women month after month who are struggling including myself. We are on month 6 now...and looks like we are going to head into month 7 still trying. Thanks for the tips!

    • @jf9335
      @jf9335 3 роки тому

      Mind my asking if you got pregnant yet?

    • @nmh7499
      @nmh7499 3 роки тому

      @@jf9335 Unfortunately no...we are in the process of doing testing to try to figure out what's going on.

  • @nurinaputri739
    @nurinaputri739 3 роки тому +1

    i am grateful i came accros this video. hearing what you said is really comforting.. my husband and I have been trying for almost a year now.. meanwhile, everyone's around me seems like getting pregnant without even trying! I know its a lot of work, a lot of feelings to manage :) but watching this video, reading the comments below, its comforting to know there's people going through the same thing.. thanks for this post!

    • @nikkisoh25
      @nikkisoh25  3 роки тому

      ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @amandamiller3556
    @amandamiller3556 4 роки тому +3

    This is the realest trying to concieve video I've seen. It is so hard to not stress. We are trying for number 2... Thank you for this video. I've got a preconception doctor visit next week... Fingers crossed! ❤️

  • @jessicamccloskey9814
    @jessicamccloskey9814 4 роки тому +1

    In tears listening to how raw your emotions are about this. As a 23 y/o female I have really struggled wrapping my head around how my friends have had “happy accidents” while I’ve been struggling to convince. Just ordered some tea off amazon and I am excited to let you know if it helps. Thank you for being so honest and compassionate🖤😇

    • @nikkisoh25
      @nikkisoh25  4 роки тому +1

      Jessica McCloskey I hope it helps!!! 🙏🏻💕♥️

    • @stephaniemorgan2242
      @stephaniemorgan2242 4 роки тому

      I know a woman who can help u conceive easily and fast she helped me conceive with 10yrs of childlessness..and I have twins boys and a girl

  • @sumeshnititus9973
    @sumeshnititus9973 3 роки тому +4

    Struggling with conceiving at the moment. Its officially a year now but this video helped alot and motivated me. Thank you so much

  • @crystalb2740
    @crystalb2740 4 роки тому +6

    Thank you so much for posting this video. We have been trying for 10 months now and its driving me crazy. I will try the fertility tea you recommend. You are so right, it is so hard.. my biggest pet peeve is when people say "don't stress".... like that will somehow help. We were just about to go for hormone and and sperm testing when COVID hit so knowing that we can't move forward with any testing right now is really hard. Just going to keep trying and being as positive as possible.
    Thank you again for posting this video.

    • @anitajames960
      @anitajames960 4 роки тому

      Hello my name is Anita from Munich am here to testify how great man called Dr Breeze helped me out
      with herbs and roots which he prepared for me in use of
      Getting pregnant after 8 years of trying to conceive with fibroid I took his product (cure for my fibroid made with herbal medicine Root) for (9 days before I
      am to know I was totally pregnant with a twins after 1month , and i promised him that i will tell the world about his Great job he ask me to drink from the herbal medicine before meeting my husband I did and after 1months I was pregnant thank you for your great job he can also help you if you have a low sperm or can't conceive , PCOS,infertility contacts whatsapp :+2349054351482
      Thanks

  • @BloomingBabe
    @BloomingBabe 3 роки тому +11

    Love all of the info and 411. I followed all of the tips and got pregnant. 💜

    • @nikkisoh25
      @nikkisoh25  3 роки тому +1

      yay that makes me so happy! congratulations! when are you due?!

    • @treeoflife7854
      @treeoflife7854 3 роки тому +1

      Congrats!!!!!!! Hope im next!

  • @Mrsgrant2002
    @Mrsgrant2002 3 роки тому +3

    I literally can relate to you entirely in this video other then the fact that I still haven’t conceived it’s been years. People wouldn’t understand unless it’s been them I thank u for sharing your story

  • @jessicaanaedobe9650
    @jessicaanaedobe9650 4 роки тому +11

    You’re so honest, your honesty made me subscribe ❤️

  • @speshalkaay
    @speshalkaay 4 роки тому +6

    This is pretty cool never heard of a tea to help people get pregnant, I used preseed to get pregnant and it worked for me. Congratulations hun 💜

    • @misha-lamegericke2751
      @misha-lamegericke2751 4 роки тому

      Hey there, what is preseed and where can I get it?

    • @belindaestrada9899
      @belindaestrada9899 4 роки тому

      @@misha-lamegericke2751 you can get it at Walmart, target,Amazon, and probably at Walgreens or cvs.

    • @misha-lamegericke2751
      @misha-lamegericke2751 4 роки тому

      @@belindaestrada9899 shoot, thats a problem. I live in South-Africa lol. What is the tea called? And thanks for the response.

  • @champhabaskota6587
    @champhabaskota6587 4 роки тому +34

    Aww I am trying to get pregnant it’s been almost 2 years and still not pregnant I am really feel bad for myself seeing others people get pregnant so fast so please can you tell me what happened to me thank you 🙏🏻😒😭

    • @mrsmrs9214
      @mrsmrs9214 4 роки тому +4

      Champha Baskota same- stay strong love. Here with you 💕

    • @MuhammadImran-ln4fz
      @MuhammadImran-ln4fz 4 роки тому

      I love .. love u u so so much forever i like u really
      I make you pragnant really 👪👪❤❤😍😍🙋🙋

    • @cats4992
      @cats4992 3 роки тому

      Girly, go to a good gyno! They will work with you to see if anything is wrong or steps you can take to get to that baby goals! I'm on your same path!! You got this girly!!

  • @dehjahk
    @dehjahk 4 роки тому +11

    This video just spoke to me. You spoke on everything I felt 🥺

    • @anitajames960
      @anitajames960 4 роки тому

      Hello my name is Anita from Munich am here to testify how great man called Dr Breeze helped me out
      with herbs and roots which he prepared for me in use of
      Getting pregnant after 8 years of trying to conceive with fibroid I took his product (cure for my fibroid made with herbal medicine Root) for (9 days before I
      am to know I was totally pregnant with a twins after 1month , and i promised him that i will tell the world about his Great job he ask me to drink from the herbal medicine before meeting my husband I did and after 1months I was pregnant thank you for your great job he can also help you if you have a low sperm or can't conceive , PCOS,infertility contacts whatsapp :+2349054351482
      Thanks

    • @anitajames960
      @anitajames960 3 роки тому

      @Pheladi Mampa inbox the herbal doctor

  • @sebsy1195
    @sebsy1195 3 роки тому +5

    I can totally relate to every feeling and frustration you talked about, thanks for opening up and sharing these honest feelings from the heart. 💕

  • @qstyles8309
    @qstyles8309 Рік тому

    Omg I’m in tears right now today this is me my story as well I keep crying about it I had IUD 10y got it removed an been trying for years this makes me happy to see someone care an talk about it thanks 🙏

  • @brookefrazier1090
    @brookefrazier1090 4 роки тому +4

    So glad i came across this video. I've been trying for almost 2 years now and I fully agree with you, I hate when people say Oh it'll happen. Or just give it time. Or any of that crap. It hurts even worse than just not saying anything at all

    • @schunleinlarry578
      @schunleinlarry578 4 роки тому

      I am here to testify how a great man called Dr OMO help me out
      with herbs and roots which he prepared for me in use of
      Getting pregnant after 8 years of try to conceive with fibroid he prepare herbal medicine to cure my fibroid I takes his product cure for (14) days before I
      known I was totally pregnant after 2months and i promised him that i will tell the world about his Great job he ask me to drink from the herbal medicine before meeting my husband I did and after 2month I was pregnant thank you for your great job he can also help you if you have a (herpes virus pimples in your body and all type of other disease ) he can stop miscarriage with his herbal medicine (low sperm count. Email :
      dromo596@gmail.com or whats-app number: 2349033505260

    • @anitajames960
      @anitajames960 4 роки тому +1

      Hello my name is Anita from Munich am here to testify how great man called Dr Breeze helped me out
      with herbs and roots which he prepared for me in use of
      Getting pregnant after 8 years of trying to conceive with fibroid I took his product (cure for my fibroid made with herbal medicine Root) for (9 days before I
      am to know I was totally pregnant with a twins after 1month , and i promised him that i will tell the world about his Great job he ask me to drink from the herbal medicine before meeting my husband I did and after 1months I was pregnant thank you for your great job he can also help you if you have a low sperm or can't conceive , PCOS,infertility contacts whatsapp :+2349054351482
      Thanks

  • @genesisteresa2773
    @genesisteresa2773 3 роки тому

    Literally everything that you said spoke to me!
    I made the mistake in sharing with my sis in law that we were trying and after 17 years of not having kids, she went and got pregnant.
    I had the “why them and not us” mentally and it hurt our family.
    If and when any of you reading this is trying, don’t tell anyone, keep it between you and your loved one. It’ll also reduce stress and keep your mental health stable.

  • @glexoletkittyhawk296
    @glexoletkittyhawk296 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you so much for making this video, I'm still trying for a Baby(it's been almost a year of trying). But just you sharing your story has made me feel like I'm not alone because everyone around me doesn't understand me but your video has made me feel normal and not alone. Thank you

    • @mariadora1933
      @mariadora1933 3 роки тому

      i know of a man who can help you get pregnant, like he helped me get pregnant with twins

    • @mariadora1933
      @mariadora1933 3 роки тому

      +(234)90..25..71..21.42

    • @mariadora1933
      @mariadora1933 3 роки тому

      Message him on WhatsApp

    • @glexoletkittyhawk296
      @glexoletkittyhawk296 3 роки тому +1

      Thank you just need all the help I can get as I unfortunately don't have a good support group or have anyone that's going through the same thing as me trying to have a baby. But I'm so glad for your help.

    • @mariadora1933
      @mariadora1933 3 роки тому

      @@glexoletkittyhawk296 message him on WhatsApp

  • @kenadeet383
    @kenadeet383 Рік тому +1

    Love this !! Congratulations 🎉 me and my husband just started trying ! We are praying for success 🙏❤️

  • @Lilleypad11
    @Lilleypad11 4 роки тому +9

    Hi Nikki, thank you sooo much for sharing your story. It is extremely hard to deal with the fact that you have to work a lot harder than some to get pregnant! You said exactly how i am feeling and it is very comforting to know that I am not alone. Its so hard to not obsess over getting pregnant struggles. I have just been trying to focus on working out and eating healthy and hopefully everything else (getting pregnant) will fall into place. When you were talking about your period skipping a month and it never skips a month and you still weren't pregnant, i completely feel you on that. So annoying LOL. Its a small stab to the heart every month your period comes. I will try the fertility tea and the ovulation kits and praying for the best. My boyfriend just submitted a sperm sample today to check him out since all the test i have had done came back normal even with my fibroids. And yes ladies, sometimes it is the man. And sometimes its neither just timing. I pray all of you watching this video get pregnant as easy as possible. Very happy you were able to concieve Nikki and thanks again for sharing!! :)

  • @e.holiday2510
    @e.holiday2510 2 роки тому +1

    You can get bulk ovulation test strips off Amazon as well as pregnancy tests. Also, there’s tea called red raspberry leaf tea that is basically the same thing it supports female health and prepares body for baby as well as regulates cycles. Traditional medicinals is one of the best brands of tea, being there are no harmful additives in it it’s organic.

  • @julia_solorzano7511
    @julia_solorzano7511 4 роки тому +3

    Love how real your being! Been trying for 2 years and never came across a video that was so helpful and made me feel like I’m not crazy 😭😂

    • @jheanelldixon8661
      @jheanelldixon8661 4 роки тому +1

      I agree !! I been feeling crazy and trying for 2 yrs as now .

    • @jhanaejones8744
      @jhanaejones8744 4 роки тому +1

      been trying for 2 years too 😭😭😭😭

    • @julia_solorzano7511
      @julia_solorzano7511 4 роки тому +2

      It’s definitely a hard journey guys but one day we’ll get our little blessing! I have hope 😁

    • @stephaniemorgan2242
      @stephaniemorgan2242 4 роки тому

      My name is Stephanie Morgan,I have been married for 10 years now, with no child,gone to different hospitals.taken so many drugs but still no child,then I came across a friend who introduced me to this Doctor(Dr IJEMEN) that I should talk to her, tell her my problems and she willl solve it,my friend told me Dr IJEMEN helped her cure are ulcer (gastric ulcer),so I said will think about it.after discussing with my husband,he agreed to it and I contacted her. To cut the long story short,I am a mother of three(a boy twins and a girl child) I just want to thank God.u can contact her via WhatsApp (+2348144438051) or gmail address:drijemenherbalcure@gmail.com
      U won’t regret it.thank you

    • @tamarakorchova5602
      @tamarakorchova5602 2 місяці тому

      Any update?

  • @jocelyncheung-kim9384
    @jocelyncheung-kim9384 4 роки тому +2

    Because of you Nikki, I am now drinking Pink Stork starting few days ago right after my period ended. Thank you 🙏 I downloaded 2 period/pregnancy apps to make sure I type in notes, and see when I am ovulating, etc...This is so stressful. My husband and I are still trying

    • @stephaniemorgan2242
      @stephaniemorgan2242 4 роки тому

      I know a woman who can help u conceive easily and fast she helped me conceive with 10yrs of childlessness..and I have twins boys and a girl

  • @sab19911
    @sab19911 4 роки тому +4

    Thank you for being so candid. My daughter got married September 2019. They started to try in January.. tears started to come to my eyes when you said “ everyone else getting pregnant”. She says the same thing and she also asks me “ why not me, mom? It breaks my heart. . I have cried with her and tried my best as her mom to keep her encouraged. Congratulations

    • @bluecannibaleyes
      @bluecannibaleyes 4 роки тому +1

      At least she has a supportive, encouraging mother that she can confide in. 🙂
      My husband and I got married around the same time as your daughter and have made the big decision to starting trying soon. I wouldn’t dare tell my mother though because I just know she would only try to discourage me and tell me that I’m not ready to be a mother.

    • @sab19911
      @sab19911 4 роки тому

      bluecannibaleyes starting a family is an important decision. And I’m glad you have made the decision to start. Honestly, nobody is ever really ready to be a parent. I mean, no matter age or financial status etc... becoming a parent is a on the job training. And you never complete training. Wanting to become a parent shows, at the very least, you are ready to put someone else above all others. My daughter asked me when I knew I was ready to be a parent recently, I told her I’m still not ready. 😉. Just a suggestion but if you haven’t seen the movie Parenthood, with Steve Martin. I highly recommend it. Jason Robards, (RIP) plays the grumpy older parent and there is a scene where he is talking to Steve Martin’s character at a baseball field. What he says in that scene basically encapsulates parenting. It’s a really beautiful movie. Keanu Reeves is in it also. I will be praying for you and your family.

    • @bluecannibaleyes
      @bluecannibaleyes 4 роки тому +1

      ​@@sab19911 Thank you for the support and prayers! It means a lot to me to hear encouragement like this, even if it’s from a stranger. I kind of came to same the conclusion: no one is ever 100% ‘ready‘ to be a parent, but my husband and I have been talking about it for years and are far more ready than most people who actually have kids, so we should be just fine. I came to the realization that all the things stopping me from starting a family (mostly finances and dealing with my parents) are mostly just excuses because I’m scared. When I stop and think about it, my husband and I are actually financially better off than a lot of first-time parents (especially with how the economy is right now), so I shouldn’t be as worried as I am about it. I realize that I’ve probably set my standards way too high for how ‘financially stable’ we actually need to be, because my parents are wealthy and I keep holding myself to their standards, which my husband and I will never feasibly achieve. We have a paid-for house, two paid-for cars, and no debt; that’s better than a lot of first-time parents. It’s better off than his parents were. It’s better off than my cousins were when they had their kids. Heck, it’s actually even better off than my parents were when they had me. And unlike a lot of first time parents, there is no ‘surprise’ or ‘unplanned’ or ‘unwanted’ factor here. I already feel hyper protective and loving of my children and they don’t even exist yet. I feel like I’ll want to tell my child about how much I’ve always loved them every day of his or her life. I’ve felt like this protective motherly instinct kicking in for years but it’s only been recently that I’ve realized I couldn’t possibly be a bad mother if I love my child before it’s even a twinkle in my eye. It’s huge for me because a big part of my fear is that I won’t have enough motherly instincts because I haven’t had any for most of my life.
      Most of my life I hated kids and was certain that I’d never ever want them. But things started to change since I first started dating my husband. My reproductive and motherly instincts didn’t kick in until late (but luckily not *too* late). I’ve come so far over the past few years with my husband, and I feel like something has been slowly revealing to me that I *do* actually have motherly instincts and that I’ll do just fine. It was just so hard to stop overthinking it and finally give in to trusting those instincts. But I have now and I have no regrets.
      My husband has wanted to be a father for longer than I’ve wanted to be a mother, but he has always been so patient with me and let me take things as slowly as I needed to. He’s never pushed me, just encouraged me, supported me, and helped me to find those instincts on my own. When I think about how patient my husband is and how supportive he has been throughout our relationship journey, I realize that’s why I love him so much and why I picked him to be the one I want to spend the rest of my life with and raise children with. People always say relationships are hard and take work, but our relationship has always been perfect. We’ve know each other for over a decade and we were best friends long before we ever dreamed of being husband and wife. We’ve been through thick and thin together but even during the hard times, our relationship has never been hard. I know things will change when we have kids, but I have no doubt that we will adapt to it just as seamlessly as we adapted from being friends, to dating, to being engaged, to being married. Our relationship has been through a lot of changes over the years, but it’s always been perfect at every stage. I’ve never had any doubt that he will be an amazing dad; it’s always just been me that I’ve always been worried about. But I know that we’re ready to start trying now, and that every step beyond this decision will only be more and more exciting for my husband and I. I know that the progression of our family will be just and beautiful and perfect as the progression of our relationship has been. We know it’s not easy, but we’ve already been through a lot of things that weren’t easy, and we came out on the other side with a love stronger than ever.
      Sorry for rambling and revealing way too much about my life, but thinking about this stuff has really melted my brain lately. 😅
      I’ve never seen that movie but I’ll look into it. I’ve been super emotional lately thinking about this, so it’ll probably make me cry.

    • @bluecannibaleyes
      @bluecannibaleyes 4 роки тому +1

      And of course, I wish the best of luck to your daughter in achieving her dreams of growing her family too. I’m sorry for being so selfish and just blabbing on about myself in a post that wasn’t about me. Sorry, I’m just so emotional and excited right now since my husband and have started seriously discussing this, that I’m not really thinking straight. 😅

    • @sab19911
      @sab19911 4 роки тому +1

      bluecannibaleyes thank you for sharing a small part of your life with me. I believe you have had the “motherly instincts” all along. It just sounds like you needed to find the right person to share in the journey. From personal experience, money, houses paid for or not, it all comes down to the two people who will help a new life grow and learn. The very second you find out you are expecting you will become ever more protective of your wee one. My son, who’s 24, never liked kids, even when he was one. 🤦🏻‍♀️ But he says now he can’t wait to be an uncle. So we all change. If you happen to watch that movie look me up and tell me what you think. I love that movie. Please take care of yourself. In my heart I believe your mom will be happier than you may think when she learns she’s going to be a grandma. ☀️❤️☀️

  • @cassidywillis9000
    @cassidywillis9000 3 роки тому +5

    Thanks for validating my feelings. I’m about to be in the 8 month of trying. EVERYONE says stop stressing but its my dream to be a mom and I am so so scared of not being able to have children my husband wants a child so badly and I hate feeling like I cant give that to him. We’re just so sad all the time. Everyone’s like oh it’ll happen when its supposed to and oh you’ll just have to wait… it feels like shit. I’m just so emotionally tired of being sad. No one around me understands what I’m feeling and I feel like their sick of me talking about it. My sister and my sister in-law are pregnant and are do any day now. It’s just so hard and I don’t know how to not stress about it.

    • @nikkisoh25
      @nikkisoh25  3 роки тому +1

      Your feelings are 100% valid girl! 💕

  • @tears372
    @tears372 4 роки тому +7

    Thank you thank you thank you! That’s exactly how I feel right now, it’s been a year and it’s sooo stressful, it’s emotionally draining. 😔

  • @tiffanyspreciousrebornsmai2278
    @tiffanyspreciousrebornsmai2278 4 роки тому +9

    Girl, I feel you! It’s been almost 2 years that my husband and I have been trying to conceive for our 3rd and we haven’t really looked into fertility vitamins, gummies, hard candy, etc. until recently (like back in February 2020, haha) because I thought in the back of my mind, “when the time comes, it’ll come.” However, It did bother me too at the same time, to the point of almost giving up but I kept reminding myself to be patient. Also, to keep in mind to eat a healthy diet and exercising often. Yes, sometimes it’s stressful but we are trying not to stress so much about it, especially me. I hate the fact that sometimes it has to be like an additional chore for us to do. Btw, I also have the Pink Stork hard sweet candies. I’ll definitely look into the fertility tea as well. Hopefully that’ll boost my chances of conceiving.,Anyways, sending baby dust to all the ladies out there. 👍🏼💗

  • @raisacolon2386
    @raisacolon2386 4 роки тому +3

    Omg this is exactly what I’ve been going through for the last year! I’m like bawling eyes just watching this and i don’t know why!

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      @nikkisoh25  4 роки тому

      ❤️❤️❤️

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  • @sonyaaz3378
    @sonyaaz3378 3 роки тому +2

    Hi Nikki, I came across your video last night as that’s all I seem to do now to learn how to better conceive. It’s 2021 and from the UK in a very long lockdown. Just want to say a huge thank you because this gives me hope and I’ve ordered everything you have listed in your video to try out. You mentioned every point that has been running through my mind for the past 7 months. Thank you!

    • @nikkisoh25
      @nikkisoh25  3 роки тому +1

      ♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @elliaringo781
    @elliaringo781 4 роки тому +13

    Thankyou for being so honest & candid about how you & the process feels & what to do. Congratulations to you both!

  • @daceynolan4775
    @daceynolan4775 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks for being so brave, sharing your story. We have been trying for 7 months and I had a chemical pregnancy and was told that I also had ectopic pregnancy. This is bringing me hope.

  • @qweenasha
    @qweenasha 3 роки тому +4

    I am going to try this! Literally everything about this video is me right now 😩 We shall see 🙏🏾

  • @abbiebeharrell4492
    @abbiebeharrell4492 3 роки тому +2

    I’m watching so many videos like this me and my partner have been trying for a year and I’m praying so hard every month, I hope that some of your tips might help 🤞🏻💗

  • @chrissya.556
    @chrissya.556 4 роки тому +3

    Oh man I really appreciate your realness. It’s a tough thing to go through and you just sit there and wonder like really? Why not me?

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      @stephaniemorgan2242 4 роки тому

      If u really want to conceive I know of a woman who help me conceive after 10years of childlessness.

  • @amandalaguardia4998
    @amandalaguardia4998 3 роки тому +1

    I turned on UA-cam and this just popped up. I’m overcome with emotion because everything that you have been saying has been MY life! Married in 2017, off BC for 1 years, taking everything (except for the tea...I will be trying that), tracking on Glow and ovulation sticks, all my friends got pregnant so easily and nothing. It’s crazy how you feel so alone but you aren’t.

    • @nikkisoh25
      @nikkisoh25  3 роки тому

      Isn’t it crazy how someone else’s story can be so similar to yours? hoping I said something that is able to help with your ttc journey 🤍

    • @amandalaguardia4998
      @amandalaguardia4998 3 роки тому

      @@nikkisoh25 absolutely! I will be trying everything you said...even the TMI things 😂 I hope all is well with everything because this was a few months ago.

    • @nikkisoh25
      @nikkisoh25  3 роки тому +1

      @@amandalaguardia4998 you’ll have to let me know when you get pregnant!! 🤗💕 sending you baby dust 💕💕

    • @amandalaguardia4998
      @amandalaguardia4998 3 роки тому

      @@nikkisoh25 will do 🙂

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      @mariadora1933 3 роки тому

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  • @MultiDream100
    @MultiDream100 4 роки тому +3

    Thank you for being a relatable person and for being real.

  • @tabithahoffman2516
    @tabithahoffman2516 4 роки тому +1

    You said it woman! Glad you did not sugar coat nothin . Loved the video. Using some of your tips . Fingers crossed.

  • @lxvor8225
    @lxvor8225 4 роки тому +10

    I've been the newlywed coworker since 2018. I work in a doctors office so they ask at least every month if I'm pregnant or how's it going (pregnancy test always available) I know they are happy and anxious for me but its truly heartbreaking. They know how much I want a baby, they see how I'm with kids. Many coworkers left to start their families, im just wondering when my time will be 😔 I'm going to try these tricks and hope something happens. THANK YOU GIRL FOR THIS. Pray for me ❤

    • @purpleroses1802
      @purpleroses1802 4 роки тому +2

      You are not alone love ! It’s really hard 😔 hope God bless us with little babies 🙏

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      @nikkisoh25  4 роки тому +1

      Laura Ortega 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

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      @stephaniemorgan2242 4 роки тому

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  • @cookiesontoast9981
    @cookiesontoast9981 3 роки тому

    Me and my girlfriend are trying for our first baby. I'm 22 this year and my girlfriend is one year younger, we've been waiting years before trying to make a baby but now we feel like it's time. We bought a Clear Blue ovulation test recently and so far we've just gotten the blank circle, waiting for that smiley face! Really hoping it helps because I can't wait to be a daddy! ! 😄

  • @jessicagarza7016
    @jessicagarza7016 4 роки тому +10

    Thanks for sharing Brave! I can totally relate to all the things u mentioned. Congratulations on your pregnancy🤗

    • @nikkisoh25
      @nikkisoh25  4 роки тому

      Jessica Garza thank you !! 💕💕

  • @nicolemartin1693
    @nicolemartin1693 2 роки тому +1

    Love how honest you are, and I’m glad I came across this video now in 2021. 💗

  • @payalshah2714
    @payalshah2714 4 роки тому +3

    Literally what your told is how I am feeling finger crossed I can become pregnant. Thank you for sharing xx

  • @herhairfetish1
    @herhairfetish1 4 роки тому +2

    You're a whole mood sis....congrats on the blessing!! 💕💕💕

    • @nikkisoh25
      @nikkisoh25  4 роки тому +2

      😂😂 thank you!! 💕

  • @vanessag6510
    @vanessag6510 4 роки тому +14

    I can honestly relate to everything she is saying 😭

    • @leyvamichelle
      @leyvamichelle 4 роки тому +1

      You will get pregnant please go for home remedy that are natural to Boost Your fertility and You will get pregnant

  • @karenvanessan.2000
    @karenvanessan.2000 Рік тому

    We just failed our cycle #8 of ttc baby #2. 😭 This is my comfort video. Definitely feeling scared that I won't be able to give my son a sibling

  • @ninaluehring2450
    @ninaluehring2450 3 роки тому +3

    Trying and now I'm wondering if I'll ever get a baby that's all mine to hold.

    • @ninaluehring2450
      @ninaluehring2450 3 роки тому

      Thank you everyone for your support. 😭 I really needed it after everything. I will try the number. Thank you very much. Blessings to you all!! 🥰

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      @auwalkhalid6539 3 роки тому +1

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    • @ninaluehring2450
      @ninaluehring2450 3 роки тому

      @@allisonpalmer1660 thank you I'll give him a try too.

  • @xiopaovid1215
    @xiopaovid1215 3 роки тому +1

    Me and my hubby have been trying and I get so discouraged and heartbroken when I get my period every month. His brother and girlfriend got pregnant a few months back, SHE TOOK A PLAN B PILL AND STILL GOT PREGNANT (same thing happened with my sister with her second son). I just hope that it'll happen soon for me and hubby we want a baby so badly. Thank you for this video. I don't feel alone anymore.

    • @nikkisoh25
      @nikkisoh25  3 роки тому +1

      it’s so sad how it seems to happen so easily for others who don’t want it as bad as you do 😢♥️

    • @xiopaovid1215
      @xiopaovid1215 3 роки тому

      @@nikkisoh25 exactly!😔 I wonder why life is like that.

  • @ChessaKali
    @ChessaKali 4 роки тому +3

    Happy that you guys are pregnant!! Thanks for the info

  • @cecelila5844
    @cecelila5844 3 роки тому

    As a Muslim girl, where talking about something like this is taboo, I was looking and looking to find someone that was feeling what I was feeling as I am on TTC journey. I love this video. Thank you for uploading this ☺️.

  • @nanikilesego2910
    @nanikilesego2910 4 роки тому +13

    Me too Nikki; I've been trying for over 8 Months now but still trying even today 😔

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      @marianwilliam8313 4 роки тому

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  • @rachaelwalls9216
    @rachaelwalls9216 4 роки тому +1

    I am so glad that I found this video! I have been trying for over a year and I so needed to hear that I am not the only one struggling.

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      @schunleinlarry578 4 роки тому

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  • @highendtrappin
    @highendtrappin 4 роки тому +4

    I’m so in love with your Transparency thanks for the vid & congrats

  • @name7647
    @name7647 3 роки тому +2

    Thanks for making this video... hubby and I TTC after a miscarriage early 2020, Hope it happens soon! Makes me feel less alone knowing that there are woman out there who understands this, as it does some days feel like everyone just get pregnant easily.

    • @nikkisoh25
      @nikkisoh25  3 роки тому +1

      I’m so sorry to hear that 😢 praying for a rainbow baby for you soon!! 🙏🏻🌈♥️

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  • @shanelmullings6217
    @shanelmullings6217 3 роки тому +8

    Everything you spoke is what literally going through. I hope I can conceived this year

  • @Pres4Bevz
    @Pres4Bevz 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for making this video. Loved how you spoke about these topics with such compassion n sensitivity. May God bless you and your family richly.

  • @naftac555
    @naftac555 4 роки тому +4

    I love your video. You're so positive and watching this has really helped me. I just bought some of the pink stork tea out of desperation....I googled it and ran across your video! Great stuff! I appreciate you.

  • @82882
    @82882 4 роки тому

    You are so honest and sweet n such a pure soul. It's such a relief to realise that one is not the only one going through it in the world. But to also say it out loud n share the details with the world is whats gonna make you a wonderful n beautiful mom..!! Congratulations ya..!

    • @nikkisoh25
      @nikkisoh25  4 роки тому

      P K thank you so much! Made my day ♥️

  • @Cambiandorumbos
    @Cambiandorumbos 4 роки тому +5

    Love your video , that’s me right now one year trying and is so freaking hard . Now with the pandemic I can’t go to the dr to test me or hubby . CONGRATULATIONS 🎉