When you say No to a man

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  • Опубліковано 2 лис 2024

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  • @christinatully9966
    @christinatully9966 8 місяців тому +8

    The fact that no one man in that place didn't step up is so infuriating!!!! Unbelievable 😤

  • @Silvafootfamily525
    @Silvafootfamily525 9 місяців тому +37

    Women should be able to socialize without their significant others. No means no! How horrible that this happened. So sorry for you friend as well as her coworkers/ friends.

    • @robinkholmes7127
      @robinkholmes7127 9 місяців тому +2

      Women need girl time to talk about things that we can't talk about around their partners.

  • @jlocey87
    @jlocey87 9 місяців тому +28

    NO ... IS A SENTENCE !!! This is why I put my daughter ( who is absolutely gorgeous) into karate at the age of 4. At the age of 13 she brought home The INTERNATIONAL Black belt championship. BEST MONEY A MOTHER CAN SPEND !!! Now at 36 , 3rd degree black belt... She has had to take down many many men ( a few women). MANY ! Now a mother of 4 girls , 1 boy... They ALL are able to take care of business, IF it should occur.

    • @chachiem
      @chachiem 9 місяців тому +2

      My son was a black belt by 14( he is 18 now and working toward his 3rd degree belt). He has defended people in fights a few times. Our daughter was in karate until she got her green belt but never wanted to go back. My son is teaching her at home, which she has had an easier time with rather than in a group setting. ❤

    • @abbyn5414
      @abbyn5414 9 місяців тому

      Heck yeah! 🤘🏻

  • @jillbecker8651
    @jillbecker8651 9 місяців тому +1

    Thanks for all your wonderful and supportive videos. You teach people so much in such a short period of time. I'm very glad that I'm elderly and retired, and still happily married (x1), for 46 years! I hope your friend is recovering. Hugs 🥰💖

  • @haileykeuer5199
    @haileykeuer5199 9 місяців тому +5

    This is absolutely disgusting! Just think if she wasn't married and had said yes to the drink? Who knows if he would've slipped something in said drink.. by the way he acted that's probably what would've happened. I hope her colleague presses charges on the man and sues the establishment for not having someone intervene or at least try to do something.

  • @kimberlyoneil6705
    @kimberlyoneil6705 9 місяців тому +15

    Men like that infuriate me. I'm glad the friend stood up to him, but heartbroken that she is in surgery because of it. There were plenty of witnesses so hopefully an arrest will be made.

  • @rowdysgirlalways
    @rowdysgirlalways 9 місяців тому +4

    Thank you, Misha! Thank you for putting yourself out there and standing up for and beside women. You are, in a very real and pure way, our knight in fabulous armour! I love you and the way you encourage women to be strong.
    The piece of crap in this story is a lot of things, but none of them are human or manly. It takes a real coward to hit someone weaker, and even greater cowardice to watch someone do so and let them walk away. I hope karma gives that coward what it deserves. Please let us know how her surgery goes.

  • @kimberleyhernandez1245
    @kimberleyhernandez1245 9 місяців тому +3

    I am a true believer in protecting myself. No man or woman should ever lay their hands on each other. If it happens I will defend myself. I have been trained to do so.
    Men can be quite rude because they believe a woman is beneath them.
    I can tell you that no man will walk away from me. I am armed by permit. Guys better watch what they do. This world has some very smart, intelligent and armed women out there! We are not afraid to take action!!!

  • @vivienseifert5699
    @vivienseifert5699 9 місяців тому +12

    You can tell that with each video like this that Misha makes, he gets more and more fed up with this.
    It is truly sad that we live in a world where not only do things like these happen literally on a daily basis but also without anyone stepping in.
    I truly hope that this woman has a successful surgery.
    Also, protect this man at all costs, because he is a literal blessing.

  • @donnapecoraro3126
    @donnapecoraro3126 9 місяців тому +23

    that is shocking. and i’m sure they were not in a dive-y place, he should have been detained and arrested at any location. i hope she filed charges.

    • @elenigregorakis3264
      @elenigregorakis3264 9 місяців тому

      No, this is public I’ve been verbally attacked on the train.. and not one person did anything to help. Stop gaslighting the situation. “I’m sure they were in a dive place” the type of establishment does not equate to the class of people that I go there. Leave the cave once in a while and see the world.

  • @phastinemoon
    @phastinemoon 9 місяців тому +3

    How’sabout all the tough guys who go “well, women need men to protect them!” And ignore that 1 - protect them from WHOM? And 2 - men with that attitude are more likely to side WITH THE ATTACKER!
    Oh, and 3 - women protect EACH OTHER, way more and way BETTER.

  • @amyhevelone1344
    @amyhevelone1344 9 місяців тому +7

    That’s bullshit. Why is it? We can’t go out being a married woman without being hit on we just wanna hang out with our friends. We just want a night to relax just like they do! why is it so wrong that we’re afraid to go out and have a drink with friends and not be assaulted!!

  • @vickijohnson7581
    @vickijohnson7581 9 місяців тому +4

    Totally unacceptable behavior. I hope the assaulted friend (& the group of women) will be OK. Life can be traumatizing as it is without this BS. Hopefully the man will be caught and prosecuted. This kind of behavior is not OK!

  • @nichollesweat7435
    @nichollesweat7435 9 місяців тому +4

    Wow 😮 I'm so sorry to hear that about your friends friend 😢. It is disgusting that he did that to her and more so that no one intervened . Someone should have stopped him or at least held him down till the cops arrived. I mean WT actual F? What is our world coming to that you can't even go out for drinks with friends. I've been married for going on 14 years now and I could pick up and go with my friend for drinks any time I want. I'm from Texas and people here own guns and I can't imagine someone getting away with that here. (I'm not saying men in Texas would be more well behaved) I'm just saying that people here are nosey and might be more inclined to step in.

  • @Digitalhunny
    @Digitalhunny 9 місяців тому +12

    I've had this happen. Assholes have been around just _forever!_ Sincerely, I hope that your friend will be okay. 💕💕

  • @marieaustin429
    @marieaustin429 9 місяців тому

    Thank you for understanding what women go through

  • @dawncook4574
    @dawncook4574 9 місяців тому +2

    😮😮😮😮 HE**LNO!!!! A woman is perfectly capable of going out without her man by her side!!! I hope that she will be OK and that the guy gets busted!!!!!

  • @jessieh9127
    @jessieh9127 9 місяців тому +9

    What's sad is even if she wants to file charges they probably won't be able to find him 🙁

    • @christalbarton1851
      @christalbarton1851 9 місяців тому +5

      In 2024, what are the chances that he DIDN'T use some sort of digital payment method? That the bar doesn't have any surveillance cameras? Or that no one recorded it on their phone? or that he's not in the background of anyone's selfies from the entire night? Or that there were no cameras outside that caught him walking out/away? If he's not found, it's because no one cares enough to find him.

    • @tiffanymae608
      @tiffanymae608 9 місяців тому +1

      We've seen strangers find a cheating husband's wife by the description of her "friends" talking crap about her in a mall.
      This man could be found! The internet is a wonderfully scary place.

  • @chachiem
    @chachiem 9 місяців тому +10

    This is the exact reason I only went to one specific bar in our town. I had 5 male friends working there. 3 were bouncers/security, and 2 were bartenders. It would have ended very poorly for that violent D-bag. I stopped going out to bars around the time when this specific bar had a fire. My friends had found different jobs just before the fire, and I did not feel safe going without that added security.

  • @sharonb3324
    @sharonb3324 9 місяців тому

    I really hope she will heal well and she doesn’t let this deter her from standing up for herself and her friends in the future.
    I had one bar I would go without my husband because we knew everyone on staff. That’s why I felt safe enough to go alone. We would get teased if we went without the other, but we trust each other not to cheat and loved teasing back that would be the wrong place to go since we both knew so many people there. We’ve stood and protected friends and even some bouncers when things got crazy. It’s called respect for others.
    We’ve moved and haven’t found a new pub to call our “cheers” yet.

  • @turtusswimus3292
    @turtusswimus3292 9 місяців тому +1

    Oh, how I wish you had been there with them! It's 50 Shades of BS that a group of friends can not be safe whether married or not 😔

  • @chantellenew2331
    @chantellenew2331 9 місяців тому

    I've been reading the comments, and I have one thing to say, what the f*** do you expect? It's always been like this! We women have NEVER been safe! Love Grandma ❣️

  • @anniemiller6010
    @anniemiller6010 9 місяців тому

    No Sir!!! This is not ok! U keep doing what U R doing... Spread the reality...Please!!!
    Love Ur content!!!

    • @Moonstone1776
      @Moonstone1776 7 місяців тому

      Um. This is coming from a place we’re I don’t like. But I had an alcoholic step mom and my dad has not had a drink in 10 year. The lady would beat me and my brother. I was playing a geme with my step brother at the time and rolled order by accident and she kick me out of the house for it. He was the golden child anything went. I had to share a room with this little sh*t. She beat me with a flip flop and literally with anything in her hand. But I am a hug separator of woman. I would not be here today if it was not for the woman in my life. This is nasty by the way. Men are disappointments. Like just go leave us alone. especially people with special needs. I have autism and epilepsy.

  • @robinkholmes7127
    @robinkholmes7127 9 місяців тому +1

    Here's an idea, if alcohol turns you into an entitled, violent a**hole, don't drink alcohol🤔 I'm sure there were a lot of other women at that bar or club to offer a drink to. When one says "No." or "No thank you." just nod and walk away and go ask the next girl☺

  • @kellihorn5068
    @kellihorn5068 9 місяців тому

    They were probably in utter shock that it happened. I know I would have been. I hope she's recovering well.

  • @shirleyrhodes3741
    @shirleyrhodes3741 9 місяців тому

    I am horrified at your friend's story! I am so sorry her friend got hurt! It is so disgusting that not only was a woman hit but not one man stepped in to help!!

  • @MommaARA
    @MommaARA 9 місяців тому +2

    I've said No to a former coworker so he doubled down and tried another way. I said No to his horrible, rude texts and he did it anyway. Gross, grow up.

  • @vspy13
    @vspy13 9 місяців тому +1

    2 different strange gyes have literally tried to off me for saying no to them. Oh and another that I knew used to attack me every chance he got after rejection.

  • @Tokyo_Rose.
    @Tokyo_Rose. 9 місяців тому

    So sorry this happened to your friend. I hope she is doing ok, and the lady in surgery too ❤

  • @erind1055
    @erind1055 9 місяців тому

    I hope your friend and her friends are ok. Terrifying 😢 ((((hugs))))

  • @abbyn5414
    @abbyn5414 9 місяців тому

    Holy crap. Had I witnessed something like that… the guy would’ve been humiliated by getting his butt kicked by a girl.

  • @lilacrose1252
    @lilacrose1252 9 місяців тому

    #1 No means no. End of story. #2 I can't believe this dbag thought it was okay to punch her friend just for speaking up for her. I hope her friend gets out of surgery all right and that they both heal from this. #3 It is horrific that nobody stepped in. He needs to be arrested for assault. If he's capable of doing this, there's no telling what else he's done. Hopefully they had cameras and can get a picture for the police. #4 can you imagine what would have happened if she had been at the bar alone?! Even in groups, nobody is safe. It's bs! Women should be free to go anywhere alone or with friends and live their lives without fear of being assaulted!

  • @jenniferwilliams2840
    @jenniferwilliams2840 9 місяців тому

    Sad that women can't be safe hanging out with friends. If I was there he get an earful from me.

  • @MargharetTessitore
    @MargharetTessitore 9 місяців тому

    Honey that has been a problem for as long as I have been alive men do not understand the word NO when a woman uses the word and the fact that nobody in the bar helped her well I could die I'm not surprised from that even enlightened day and age men still do not take the word N0 as an answer and I don't see any man standing up to another man just to support a woman point of view do most men women are still not allowed to say NO they get butt hurt I love you Misha man are no different now than they were when I was a child

  • @BeforeTheFit
    @BeforeTheFit 9 місяців тому

    It’s 2024. We don’t need permission to go out with a group of our female friends. I’m sure the husbands knew where their wives were. It’s ridiculous.

  • @wendysmart3569
    @wendysmart3569 9 місяців тому

    That's not a man. That's a child who was never told no. I know that bar has surveillance, and someone probably has it on their phone. The people who didn't help, they suck too. This society has gone to hell in a hand basket.

  • @barbb841
    @barbb841 9 місяців тому

    Sadly, I'm not shocked.

  • @TW-fs3fj
    @TW-fs3fj 9 місяців тому +1

    The fact you know men would say 'she shouldn't have been there' proves that deep down you know its true

  • @MrsWellner
    @MrsWellner 9 місяців тому

    Gross!!!!!