The Narcissistic Mother
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- Опубліковано 23 чер 2024
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So we are conditioned to be greatful for crumbs!😢
Big time accurate
My ex families were all really rich and i dare not ask for one bit help ever and was made very clear at a very young age,,, evil people
Indeed..I called my brother her controlled slave .. awful...thanks Jill.. love ypu❤
Yes. This is true.
Ty ty ty for helping all of us understand what we have endured and that we are not alone anymore ty
My mother has put all of her affairs into the hands of my brothers, one of which doesn’t have anything to do with her, the other an hour away and yet I am the one living here “taking care” of her. Running her where she needs to go, shopping, cleaning, cooking. I get criticized for whatever I do or don’t do and how I do it. I truly wish I had the money to leave.
That’s why you have to prove your mother wrong that you can leave even with the amount of money you have I’ve been saving mine this entire time
My mom and I just had this giant argument about me flying to college on my own and her dropping me off with my father ok I guess I got a little carried away and flipped out I just got scared because I didn’t want them to meet my roommate because if they meet my roommate I won’t be able to get some kind of help and make my escape plan my parents had this big idea that they were gonna come with me and buy me pillows sheets and blankets and fun things to decorate my room but I don’t want them to ruin it for me they’re like, “every child has there parents take them to college to by them things for them so they can have cute stuff to take to there dorms! Why do you have to be so ungrateful!” And I used you’re making me feel like a toddler as an excuse I feel bad and guilty now it’s either because of what she said to me or because I’m afraid of literally going alone…😓
@@Killua_Zoldyck3407 So now you’re experiencing guilt, shame and fear. Yes? It’s normal to want
do things on your own, especially if you know your parents will embarrass you somehow. As a parent, I get where she’s coming from. BUT! She needs to consider your feelings, wants and desires. You ARE an adult going off to college and you’re feeling the need to loosen the apron strings a bit. Ask yourself why you’re feeling the way you are (now) after the argument and the fear set in. Did it bring up childhood wounds from the past? Made you feel like a child, you said…It’s hard on both of you. My advice? Talk to your mom, tell her how you feel, (no arguments) and tell her you need to FEEL like the adult you are (and are becoming). Good luck in school. Have fun! But don’t have too much fun 😉
My mom is doing me the same way. She treats my brothers like gold and me like trash. I have backed away and they can have her.
Wow, Amen 🙏 God-bless.
Heaven forbid that said narc "mother" gets *jealous* of their poor child , because they'll go beyond the servent thing & go straight for their annihilation - *evil* !
That sliver never comes.
But boy oh boy if you stop.
Personal servant, personal doll, personal slave, personal ciunselor to offload THEIR stuff onto, yet only give those "slivers" of affection that Jill speaks of.
Thankyou for yhis message....
I knew she was controlling growing up but I didn't know a name for it. As a grown-up this is exactly the kind of person my mother grew up with. Out of four kids. I am the only one who sometimes even talks to my own mother. My siblings don't want anything to do with her because she is too controlling. And yes she does treat every single person like a slave and that she is a victim of every single circumstance thrown her way
Sad but very true. Unfortunately, she treated me much worse than a personal servant.
So very true
Thanks for speaking the truth. I am 51 and still hoping for a crumb .
That is so true and I had a lot of knocks in my life and you know we did what we did for them and everything else and and you know what at the end of the day I just say moving on and no more cut them off and they all know thank you ma'am
ma'am im an only child of the MVP narcissist mother im also daughter... u just explained the 45 yrs of the 52 i have been her personal everything she destroyed my entire life n swears its been my fault from the time she pushed me out at 9:29 a.m 4/30/1972 she always lets me know her life completely was ruined because she was sick after havin me n this is where all her issues cone from.... 😮
Maybe thats why we had to weed the yard all the time..because I knew we were not bad.
Their parents spouses neighbors kids, are mere pieces for them
True and you can't make them happy in which doing things to please them you become a perfectionist trying to please them. Becoming creative in ways to get their approval to win their love. I remember doing things and she would say nope I hate it. Also asking her why can't we be friends she then said I am no ones friend. Which was a lur because she was nice to everyone but me. Oh well as they they say it is what it is.
My mother is learning not to use me as her personal maid!
Yep yep 💯 true ugh 😑
True
I went no contact 10 years ago. She died 3 years ago; didn’t find out till a year ago and I received a substantial inheritance 😅 She drank and heavily smoked herself to death. When I was no longer, “her supply” she progressively became worse. She died at 62 and now I have a gorgeous house we just bought for my family and moved out of California to Idaho. God will never let the narcissist win, NEVER! He will always take care of His children.❤
My kids don't owe me nothing and I don't look for nothing
This was so NOT my mom. I lost her in 2013 and I miss her so much... 😥❤
I've quite looked at it in that light, but you are absolutely correct.
Shameless!
Sad people,, 💪✨
My late mother in law to a tee😖
Ruined my ex. M.I.L. destroyed my marriage. Now I know she did me a favor.
What ever keep watching my life to find something to scandalize my name and life i don't care all the matters to me is what God think of me
🫴🏾☀️☀️☀️
Ok so the kids could clean cook and run errands just not more than the mother?