Bride Demands Extra 188,000 Yuan at Wedding, Groom Halts Ceremony with a Song!

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  • Bride Demands Extra 188,000 Yuan at Wedding, Groom Halts Ceremony with a Song!
    At this wedding, what was supposed to be a smooth ceremony took an unexpected turn when the bride's family suddenly demanded an extra 188,000 yuan as a bride price. Faced with this overwhelming financial burden, the groom, unable to meet the demand, took the microphone and halted the ceremony with a song. His powerful action moved the guests and sparked widespread discussion about the financial pressures of high bride prices in marriage. Many sympathized with the groom and criticized the bride's family for their last-minute demand.
    Watch the dramatic events unfold as the groom stands his ground and defends his dignity through a heartfelt song. The sudden twist on the wedding day not only brought tears to the guests but also led to a canceled wedding. This video highlights the emotional and financial conflicts that arise from exorbitant bride prices and invites broader discussion about the pressures surrounding marriage today.

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  • @ChinaUnvarnished
    @ChinaUnvarnished  4 дні тому +83

    Brothers, I specifically found the song that the groom sang at the beginning for everyone. It’s a very popular song on the Chinese internet, and the original singer is a female artist. Below is the link to the song and the lyrics:
    soundcloud.com/wei-wei-722387344/88a?si=bd858953e99144e69eda82f4dc8a1af0&
    Song title:I Can Love You and I Can Leave You
    Lyrics:
    我有本事爱上你 | I have the ability to fall in love with you
    也有骨气甩了你 | And the courage to leave you
    我的好你不珍惜 | You don’t cherish my kindness
    别怪我走的无情 | Don’t blame me for walking away heartlessly
    一个人 怕孤独 | One person fears loneliness
    两个人怕辜负 | Two people fear disappointment
    有些人 爱错了 | Some people love the wrong person
    又后悔当初 | And regret it later
    其实我 不怕苦 | Actually, I’m not afraid of hardship
    怕你的不在乎 | I’m afraid of your indifference
    为你走了九十九步 | I took ninety-nine steps for you
    最后一步才领悟 | Only realized on the last step
    我有本事爱上你 | I have the ability to fall in love with you
    也有骨气甩了你 | And the courage to leave you
    我的好你不珍惜 | You don’t cherish my kindness
    别怪我走的无情 | Don’t blame me for walking away heartlessly
    我有本事惯着你 | I have the patience to spoil you
    就有资格换了你 | So I also have the right to replace you
    你若辜负我深情 | If you betray my deep affection
    我便转身就离去 | I will turn around and leave
    一个人 怕孤独 | One person fears loneliness
    两个人怕辜负 | Two people fear disappointment
    有些人 爱错了 | Some people love the wrong person
    又后悔当初 | And regret it later
    其实我 不怕苦 | Actually, I’m not afraid of hardship
    怕你的不在乎 | I’m afraid of your indifference
    为你走了九十九步 | I took ninety-nine steps for you
    最后一步才领悟 | Only realized on the last step
    我有本事爱上你 | I have the ability to fall in love with you
    也有骨气甩了你 | And the courage to leave you
    我的好你不珍惜 | You don’t cherish my kindness
    别怪我走的无情 | Don’t blame me for walking away heartlessly
    我有本事惯着你 | I have the patience to spoil you
    就有资格换了你 | So I also have the right to replace you
    你若辜负我深情 | If you betray my deep affection
    我便转身就离去 | I will turn around and leave
    我有本事爱上你 | I have the ability to fall in love with you
    也有骨气甩了你 | And the courage to leave you
    我的好你不珍惜 | You don’t cherish my kindness
    别怪我走的无情 | Don’t blame me for walking away heartlessly
    我有本事惯着你 | I have the patience to spoil you
    就有资格换了你 | So I also have the right to replace you
    你若辜负我深情 | If you betray my deep affection
    我便转身就离去 | I will turn around and leave

    • @aviarius44
      @aviarius44 4 дні тому +3

      Thank you

    • @thekerm8470
      @thekerm8470 4 дні тому +5

      That is a great song, and that groom has a nice voice. He knows his self worth and he dealt with the situation like a boss.

    • @danielch6662
      @danielch6662 4 дні тому +3

      ​@@thekerm8470 I want to know if this is a pre-existing song, and who wrote it? Or did this guy just made it up on the spot? If he did, what is his name. Is he a songwriter? That is serious skill. It's pretty good.

    • @ChinaUnvarnished
      @ChinaUnvarnished  4 дні тому +3

      Brothers, I specifically found the song that the groom sang at the beginning for everyone. It’s a very popular song on the Chinese internet, and the original singer is a female artist. Below is the link to the song and the lyrics:
      soundcloud.com/wei-wei-722387344/88a?si=bd858953e99144e69eda82f4dc8a1af0&
      Song title:I Can Love You and I Can Leave You
      Lyrics:
      我有本事爱上你 | I have the ability to fall in love with you
      也有骨气甩了你 | And the courage to leave you
      我的好你不珍惜 | You don’t cherish my kindness
      别怪我走的无情 | Don’t blame me for walking away heartlessly
      一个人 怕孤独 | One person fears loneliness
      两个人怕辜负 | Two people fear disappointment
      有些人 爱错了 | Some people love the wrong person
      又后悔当初 | And regret it later
      其实我 不怕苦 | Actually, I’m not afraid of hardship
      怕你的不在乎 | I’m afraid of your indifference
      为你走了九十九步 | I took ninety-nine steps for you
      最后一步才领悟 | Only realized on the last step
      我有本事爱上你 | I have the ability to fall in love with you
      也有骨气甩了你 | And the courage to leave you
      我的好你不珍惜 | You don’t cherish my kindness
      别怪我走的无情 | Don’t blame me for walking away heartlessly
      我有本事惯着你 | I have the patience to spoil you
      就有资格换了你 | So I also have the right to replace you
      你若辜负我深情 | If you betray my deep affection
      我便转身就离去 | I will turn around and leave
      一个人 怕孤独 | One person fears loneliness
      两个人怕辜负 | Two people fear disappointment
      有些人 爱错了 | Some people love the wrong person
      又后悔当初 | And regret it later
      其实我 不怕苦 | Actually, I’m not afraid of hardship
      怕你的不在乎 | I’m afraid of your indifference
      为你走了九十九步 | I took ninety-nine steps for you
      最后一步才领悟 | Only realized on the last step
      我有本事爱上你 | I have the ability to fall in love with you
      也有骨气甩了你 | And the courage to leave you
      我的好你不珍惜 | You don’t cherish my kindness
      别怪我走的无情 | Don’t blame me for walking away heartlessly
      我有本事惯着你 | I have the patience to spoil you
      就有资格换了你 | So I also have the right to replace you
      你若辜负我深情 | If you betray my deep affection
      我便转身就离去 | I will turn around and leave
      我有本事爱上你 | I have the ability to fall in love with you
      也有骨气甩了你 | And the courage to leave you
      我的好你不珍惜 | You don’t cherish my kindness
      别怪我走的无情 | Don’t blame me for walking away heartlessly
      我有本事惯着你 | I have the patience to spoil you
      就有资格换了你 | So I also have the right to replace you
      你若辜负我深情 | If you betray my deep affection
      我便转身就离去 | I will turn around and leave

    • @carlosr6597
      @carlosr6597 4 дні тому +6

      @@ChinaUnvarnished he sang it better than the girl; i would buy his version lol

  • @rahuldutt1358
    @rahuldutt1358 4 дні тому +346

    The lyrics were fire🎉

    • @lhw.iAviation
      @lhw.iAviation 4 дні тому +24

      If only you knew mandarin, 🎉 won’t even cut it. It’ll be this 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @LeandroSFx
      @LeandroSFx 4 дні тому +27

      The Groom sings very well. He really has an excellent voice.

    • @lecorngod
      @lecorngod 4 дні тому +11

      @@lhw.iAviation ya'll got full link to the song?

    • @interestingengineering291
      @interestingengineering291 4 дні тому +4

      @@lecorngodI need it too

    • @hendrasudir0
      @hendrasudir0 4 дні тому +10

      ren xia - wo neng ai ni ye neng shuai le ni

  • @rashb3994
    @rashb3994 4 дні тому +161

    Shout out to the groom. I felt so much strength for him hearing those lyrics, and seeing him stand tall in that situation. To the brides family, in the words of DJ Khaled "Congratulations, you played yourself!"

  • @Ronin1977-v6l
    @Ronin1977-v6l 4 дні тому +334

    the groom should sue the bride and her family for extortion

    • @detectiveswanson5956
      @detectiveswanson5956 4 дні тому +19

      it is china brother. It is a part of their culture at this point.

    • @baiqi44
      @baiqi44 4 дні тому +29

      @@detectiveswanson5956 No, it's not. The dowry is part of the tradition, but asking for more money on the wedding day is not part of the culture and never was. There are brides/brides' families who do this, but it's still rare (though more common compared to the past). It's never a part of the tradition and should never be.

    • @furyberserk
      @furyberserk 4 дні тому +13

      ​@@baiqi44
      I think he means it's their culture to get as much as they can get. Which after hearing many stories about money, I agree.
      "99 problems can be solved with money out of 100. The 1 problem money can't solve is by not having enough."
      - Chinese quote prarphrased

    • @smcdonald9991
      @smcdonald9991 4 дні тому +11

      This "bride price" thing should be outlawed.

    • @kentaroo.7759
      @kentaroo.7759 4 дні тому +2

      I'm glad I'm not Chinese. Bahahaha.

  • @dantruong2582
    @dantruong2582 4 дні тому +88

    Proud of our eastern brother. Walking away with his head high instead of simping

  • @PsyrenXY
    @PsyrenXY 4 дні тому +179

    Once again this bride price nonsense blows up in the bride's family's faces

    • @herdsire90210
      @herdsire90210 4 дні тому +8

      They should pay him.

    • @smcdonald9991
      @smcdonald9991 4 дні тому +2

      @@herdsire90210 In many cultures that is exactly what happens. The bride's father gives seed money to the groom so that he can buy furniture and basic appliances for their new place.

    • @herdsire90210
      @herdsire90210 4 дні тому +7

      @@smcdonald9991 In western cultures back in the day. Even in Islam the man pays for the bride in gold.

    • @kaczan3
      @kaczan3 4 дні тому +5

      I don't think it's the family. It's the bride herself demanding it, but she has no courage to ask herself, she wan't plausible deniability.

    • @sha0tube
      @sha0tube 4 дні тому +11

      The bride price isn't the issue here, it's the sudden increase of the bride price at the wedding is the issue. It's like you go to buy something and it's marked for $100, but then at the register, the cashier tells you it's $200. It's a betrayal of expectations and trust.

  • @Noel2500
    @Noel2500 4 дні тому +147

    Oh snap. Dude is savage 😂

    • @knightocean
      @knightocean 4 дні тому +15

      He used magic and disappeared, good move on his part.

    • @krockettz3231
      @krockettz3231 4 дні тому +6

      Hilarious 😂 my mans pulled a crazy power move. What a legend

    • @kassentan1912
      @kassentan1912 4 дні тому +5

      His Ultimate shine on us too. Keep cool man 😊

  • @kevincheung436
    @kevincheung436 4 дні тому +170

    Marriage is not a financial transaction..
    Play the entire song from beginning till the end.. this song needs to go all around the world... start a movement...

    • @Aspire705
      @Aspire705 4 дні тому +9

      It is to women.

    • @JohnDoe-qh5xg
      @JohnDoe-qh5xg 4 дні тому

      It doesn't need to go all around the world only chinese parents are stupid enough to ruin their kids future for their own financial situation

    • @biform13
      @biform13 4 дні тому +5

      The song was the BEST part. Somebody please post this boy becoming a man that day.

    • @MabusTiefsee
      @MabusTiefsee 4 дні тому

      Suddenly, his balls grew ten times their size

    • @FrankMartinez-h6i
      @FrankMartinez-h6i 4 дні тому +11

      Men fall in love, Women go in business...it is so sad to see this...Women will give up themselves freely to the guys they really want and put standards on the guys they settle for...These Chinese men need to realize that some of them are being settled for and that is why they are raising the price...Chinese men should shop other countries for Wives were there is no bride price...Like Russia, Ukraine or maybe Thailand, Korea, etc...

  • @shubhamsingh-gl1fh
    @shubhamsingh-gl1fh 4 дні тому +143

    No marriage
    No protecting and providing women
    No military service
    No saving society
    Go your own way.. Be a free man... Live for yourself brother...

    • @biform13
      @biform13 4 дні тому +15

      You only get one life.

    • @g4fun458
      @g4fun458 4 дні тому +11

      @@biform13 with $3000 on your hand you can get a lot women lol why spend so much only for one women.

    • @bernarddavis4379
      @bernarddavis4379 4 дні тому +4

      YES!!!

    • @htsyami
      @htsyami 4 дні тому

      @@g4fun458it’s actually closer to $30k USD. You can get a lot of women for that money.

    • @brain-washed
      @brain-washed 4 дні тому

      @@g4fun458 Even more 300 000 Yuan is 42 148 US Dollars

  • @nickbellomo3362
    @nickbellomo3362 4 дні тому +91

    This woman is know nation wide probably now and could never get married. Her parents probably put such a shame on their daughter.

    • @stevec3526
      @stevec3526 4 дні тому +1

      Yes, she destroyed her own life. Her only option is possibly marrying a foreigner.

    • @tchris8561
      @tchris8561 3 дні тому +2

      If I were a man, I would steer clear of her as well. I wouldn't want to "buy" a wife. Lol

    • @xbman1
      @xbman1 3 дні тому

      If you buy a wife. It’s cheaper to get hookers 😂

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj День тому +1

      @@tchris8561Sadly, most women in China and some other countries are like this too, which is why many men choose to stay single.

  • @Kkkkkkkkkk747
    @Kkkkkkkkkk747 4 дні тому +145

    The man can sing, that's for sure.

    • @stayfree870
      @stayfree870 4 дні тому +13

      It would be funnier if he rap the words out.

    • @NorseCrusader1
      @NorseCrusader1 4 дні тому +8

      He needs a band.

    • @NTJedi
      @NTJedi 4 дні тому +13

      He should reproduce that song for all major languages... it would be very successful with men.

    • @danmoua7686
      @danmoua7686 4 дні тому +13

      Yeah, I was surprised how good he was. Unfortunately, he was just liking that song but actually used it sheesh killed him. Atleast he didn't marry a family of gold diggers.

    • @FrederikEngelmand
      @FrederikEngelmand 3 дні тому +2

      @@stayfree870 nah, rap is crap. this shit was CLASS

  • @reipuradinata8766
    @reipuradinata8766 4 дні тому +85

    This highlights the actual problem. Bride price should not exist in the first place.

    • @semibiotic
      @semibiotic 4 дні тому +12

      Especially for overage (23+ yo) women.
      Let alone ridiculous dowry for 30+ leftovers.

    • @user-gh8sg7oc9r
      @user-gh8sg7oc9r 4 дні тому +4

      Bride's family should be paying the groom. Shameful people.

    • @HoatNguyen-v9s
      @HoatNguyen-v9s 4 дні тому +2

      trurth that .... should not EXIST in the first place!!

    • @danielch6662
      @danielch6662 4 дні тому +1

      ​​@@user-gh8sg7oc9r different communities have different practices. In India, it is the bride's family that pays. In SEA, it is a weird mix of all 3 possibilies: bride's family pay, grooms family pay, nobody pay. Gets interesting when bride and groom are from different ethnic groups. 😅
      But usually, they work it out before hand. Nobody do this on wedding day. Though I am aware, some have this tradition of doing what we see on the video. Though it's not real. They're only acting it out for fun, and the amount is very small. Like what you would normally carry in your wallet small.
      Doing it for real is insane. Nobody else would dare to marry you in the future. Unless you move to a city far away and start anew. Which I suppose is why this got in the news. Things that are common and normal don't go viral.

    • @Stoun1we
      @Stoun1we 4 дні тому +1

      Asia wouldnt decline bride price easily. In my country sometimes they ask 5-10 thousand dollar. Unfortunately they forget, that we living in social country, and old time traditions work bad in new time. But society still holding up for this.
      I heard one story. In shorts, there was dude 31 year old and 30 old woman. They married, his parents pay around 2200 usd bride price, have debts to make wedding ceremony. One year after they peacefully divorsed, and it seems bride price wasnt refunded. Amazing possibility to waste all money for nothing. And waste time of course. Due to things i heard, full guilt on dudes parents, they want him married, any cost because "he was 31 year, what people think/say."

  • @RobotBoy-p2n
    @RobotBoy-p2n 4 дні тому +80

    That first vid was absolutely 🔥. His vocals and his passion in that song he sung was truly devine. Some women don't know how blessed they are to have a man that's willing to give up his life just so they can have a life. Truly Ironic if you ask me.

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj День тому +1

      I agree and I hate when people say happy wife happy life which is BS! You both need to be happy in order to have a happy life.

  • @NightmareManX
    @NightmareManX 4 дні тому +68

    If a marriage starts off unequal because of money, it will only get worse in the future. The groom made the right choice by leaving.

    • @xtbum3339
      @xtbum3339 4 дні тому +4

      Sure hope the groom's family gets their dowry back.

    • @alim3611
      @alim3611 2 дні тому

      true , it's a terrible foundation for a carriage ŕ, in this video they spoke of the wedding ended up smoothly OK, but what about the actual marriage ? what future does the marriage have ?

  • @EndlessWaltz-ml5xo
    @EndlessWaltz-ml5xo 4 дні тому +36

    The bride should marry her bestie. The groom should look elsewhere. Problem-solved.

  • @ironaston9858
    @ironaston9858 4 дні тому +13

    The hell is this blaming the "bestie" of the bride for the extra bride price fee? IT'S THE BRIDE'S FAULT, DON'T PRETEND SHE DIDN'T WANT THAT TO HAPPEN, SHE PLANNED IT!

  • @TheWorryingWolverine
    @TheWorryingWolverine 4 дні тому +67

    Well, now that's one hell of a way to end a marriage before it even began,
    and a very clear warning to any woman that might think marriage is the Golden Ticket to an easy payday.
    /salute

    • @cultusdeus
      @cultusdeus 4 дні тому +18

      Better he does it now than in a divorce and kids are involved.

    • @Masterofmultiverse
      @Masterofmultiverse 4 дні тому +12

      Might think? They know that's what it is for them

    • @sola4393
      @sola4393 4 дні тому +9

      For some they are taught to think that way since they are born and these people just go with it without any thought. There is a lot to do with family upbringing.

  • @sabarazz9514
    @sabarazz9514 4 дні тому +45

    That song needs more attention 🗣🔥

  • @jyan21
    @jyan21 4 дні тому +15

    The minute a girl asks for money to get married, just say no and leave. Her family is selling her, like a pimp selling a hookr.

    • @albertglai
      @albertglai 4 дні тому +4

      I’ll ask her the hourly price and bargain it down to a few yuans.

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj День тому

      I agree! This is ridiculous!

  • @SlimJim3082
    @SlimJim3082 4 дні тому +39

    "Bestie" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 that woman tried to destroy her friend's wedding. Bestie 😂😂😂

    • @tiyanakbantot5721
      @tiyanakbantot5721 4 дні тому

      Yeah, woman nature👿👿👿

    • @tiyanakbantot5721
      @tiyanakbantot5721 4 дні тому

      Yeah, woman nature👿👿👿

    • @consideredthoughts1791
      @consideredthoughts1791 4 дні тому +14

      Im thinking the bestie wanted to sabotage the wedding so she could get the groom for herself at a later date. All fair in love and war you know....

    • @kurtistrent2034
      @kurtistrent2034 4 дні тому

      ​@@consideredthoughts1791hay love is a battle field

    • @danmoua7686
      @danmoua7686 4 дні тому +11

      As you know single wants their bestie to be single forever as well

  • @allenwilson6462
    @allenwilson6462 4 дні тому +29

    I can see the marriage rates in China have dropped off a cliff. I would do what some Chinese men are doing if they get married, marrying other Asian women that are not looking for bride prices.

  • @asolaris6470
    @asolaris6470 4 дні тому +22

    The ability to DROP her and WALK AWAY is THE ESSENTIAL skill men, not simps, must have today.

    • @mikewolf-x6t
      @mikewolf-x6t 4 дні тому

      It's power and no amount of gold can beat it

  • @xiphoid2011
    @xiphoid2011 4 дні тому +51

    I came from Shanghai, where I saw cousins having to pay ridiculously high bride prices. It's unfortunate that the stupidity if the one child policy, combined with previous generation's selfishness for boys, combined now with money worshipping and extreme greed resulting in insane bride prices. I am so lucky to have been able to get into US universities, able to repulse family pressures, fall in love and married in the west. I must have done something right in the previous life to be given so much happiness.

    • @psicotronico3542
      @psicotronico3542 4 дні тому +3

      Do you know the name of this song?

    • @lycan2494
      @lycan2494 4 дні тому +1

      So u betrayed ur kind. Congratulations u played urself

    • @rohits7364
      @rohits7364 4 дні тому

      He didn't betray anyone, only a fool like you will think that @lycan2494

    • @AetherLemmie
      @AetherLemmie 4 дні тому +7

      @@lycan2494lol he got out of the system. Rejoice

    • @fdjw88
      @fdjw88 3 дні тому

      probably some fake stories. Women in the west are just as greedy, especially the US.

  • @apurbadeb6479
    @apurbadeb6479 4 дні тому +9

    A Singer and a revolutionary
    Rebellion through music and poetry

  • @RoyASmith
    @RoyASmith 4 дні тому +45

    Did he get a refund of what he already paid? Make sure the money is in escrow so the dispute resolution process is fair.

    • @OGMTANK
      @OGMTANK 4 дні тому +8

      Usually no. It is already in their hands. Btw 188 is a auspicious number in Chinese. But they should ask for it instead of being an extra.

    • @anonymous05067
      @anonymous05067 4 дні тому +10

      The answer is usually no. I had a friend in my home town. He and this girl are about to get married. He and his family will pay the wedding expenses for both sides and the bride price. Then before the wedding, the girl family demands more money. My friend's family calls the wedding off. They don't want to make a scene. After that, my family came to the girl's house telling them that they can have the money my family gave them, but they will not have anything to do with the girl family ever again.

    • @RoyASmith
      @RoyASmith 4 дні тому

      @@anonymous05067 Unfortunately this kind of scam could allow unscrupulous people make a lot of money. Are second thoughts at a marriage event a violation of some law? Maybe, but how would you prove it?

    • @ThangLe-hl7xj
      @ThangLe-hl7xj 4 дні тому +1

      Đáng buồn, câu trả lời thường là KHÔNG. Số tiền cho trước được xem là một khoản tiền cho đi "tự nguyện". Bạn hiểu mà - chúng ta sống trong thời đại 4.0 nhưng vẫn còn sót lại những điều xấu của nền phong kiến cũ. Trong xã hội phong kiến, số tiền sính lễ được xem như tiền mua cô dâu, khi ly hôn thì phải trả lại cho chú rể. Nhưng ở thời hiện đại, số tiền sính lễ được xem như một số tiền tự nguyện cho đi và cũng không được trả lại khi ly hôn. Bất lợi thuộc về đàn ông, đừng hỏi tại sao đàn ông ngại kết hôn, hãy xem những điều bất lợi mà pháp luật đã gây ra cho họ

  • @roark8009
    @roark8009 4 дні тому +10

    Respect to the groom from Australia.

  • @NaturalDisasterObserver
    @NaturalDisasterObserver 4 дні тому +23

    The groom did the right thing! You shouldn't compromise for money. If a marriage starts off with money as the foundation, will it really bring happiness?

    • @japrogramer
      @japrogramer 4 дні тому

      Song was fire 🔥😮

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Годину тому

      I agree and marrying for money and materialistic means only is a recipe for disaster.

  • @rh8338
    @rh8338 4 дні тому +27

    Even if the bride price was only 5 Dollars, I would still refuse to pay it out of principle. It has no place in a genuine marriage.

    • @ThomasDavis-e4g
      @ThomasDavis-e4g 4 дні тому

      A bride price? WTF is that? In the recent past, women came with funds and land. This was fair because women are a burden on the family. Fathers gladly paid the funds to get rid of them.

    • @kieragard
      @kieragard 4 дні тому +3

      let me guess, you have no problem dropping a grand on a wedding ring🤣 double standards, lol.

    • @kentforthable
      @kentforthable 4 дні тому

      if a woman require money to pay for her she is a prostitute

    • @mikewolf-x6t
      @mikewolf-x6t 4 дні тому +2

      I agree you. 100% love is not negotiable. These people are soulless

    • @setha360
      @setha360 3 дні тому +1

      Ever bought a wedding ring and a house. no different

  • @CLOWNBOT00
    @CLOWNBOT00 4 дні тому +23

    Homie's singing was on point!

  • @Reza19691348
    @Reza19691348 4 дні тому +15

    Good for him !! bravo

  • @Eyelash85
    @Eyelash85 4 дні тому +19

    I don't know about how the negociation ended, but I know no one should ever pick that bride for a future relationship after that behaviour.

  • @wanderer897
    @wanderer897 4 дні тому +24

    so, does the groom get back the 300K and also split the cost of venue with the bride's family? i mean lets forget about feelings and meanings for a moment and deal with fairness.

    • @Toliman.
      @Toliman. 4 дні тому +5

      The laws are a bit wishy-washy depending on the judge. The entire bizarreness is that there’s no standard in a divorce trial. Hukou or family passports are an old village tradition, and the ritual nature is that families weren’t joined, the daughter was essentially traded between villages and took on the role of a new family member.
      There’s centuries of drama and family conflict in dealing with the wife’s family or the husbands family taking over or getting greedy for the money.
      The concept and price caps of bride price has been limited semi recently because it used to lead to child abduction of 6-15 year old girls to marry for a bride price to “aunties” that were used by rural families and villages to find local families to arrange marriages. Especially during the One Child policy, abductions and replacing of wives that would not birth boys, usually by injuring the young girls or pushing them into rivers or dragging them into the woods to starve

    • @totoys1573
      @totoys1573 3 дні тому

      did u forget that this happened in China? 100% the groom will shoulder everything😅

  • @felixsu375
    @felixsu375 4 дні тому +16

    This is how men should be. No simping!

  • @vitaluna1568
    @vitaluna1568 4 дні тому +24

    It's pretty insane to me, do they want a loving husband OR MONEY????

    • @Aspire705
      @Aspire705 4 дні тому

      Money, an alpha to d!ck them down, and a simp to fawn over them at their whim.

    • @j.h.2495
      @j.h.2495 4 дні тому +10

      Considering how fast that wedding dress got pulled off, I'm sure the answer is clear.

    • @hellfire6372
      @hellfire6372 4 дні тому

      Under CCP rule, everything can be replaced by money!

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj День тому

      To be fair, we need money to live but to ask for money like this is so shameful. A loving husband is priceless.

  • @rexkenley
    @rexkenley 4 дні тому +7

    She will be a LEFTOVER woman.

  • @lensnart1303
    @lensnart1303 4 дні тому +32

    Wouldn't pay them one red cent in the first place.

    • @JohnDoe-qh5xg
      @JohnDoe-qh5xg 4 дні тому +1

      I've always wondered what red cents are

    • @enrique88005
      @enrique88005 4 дні тому +1

      ​@@JohnDoe-qh5xgthat's a good question. I have no idea either

    • @kurtistrent2034
      @kurtistrent2034 4 дні тому +2

      ​@JohnDoe-qh5xg let me piss some wisdom your way:Use red cent to mean an amount of money so small that it's basically worthless.

    • @JohnDoe-qh5xg
      @JohnDoe-qh5xg 4 дні тому +1

      @kurtistrent2034 whoah take it easy R.kelly I'm a 30yr old male
      But thanks I figured what the saying meant long ago just always wondered why red and a cent
      I'd say "green pennies"

  • @kokoyaro
    @kokoyaro 4 дні тому +14

    And then they wonder why men are giving up on marriage

  • @mrmo4059
    @mrmo4059 4 дні тому +18

    Did he get a refund of 300000yuan?

  • @sanctissimus1
    @sanctissimus1 4 дні тому +10

    Our brother got the voice and the strength not to let himself get played!!! Also what is the name of the song he is singing?

    • @NateTheNarrator
      @NateTheNarrator 3 дні тому +2

      I'd like to know the name of that song too.

  • @arcenioarchibold6459
    @arcenioarchibold6459 4 дні тому +13

    GOD BLESS THAT MAN!

  • @TellthetruthaboutChina
    @TellthetruthaboutChina 4 дні тому +10

    High bride prices turn marriage into a transaction. The groom refusing to be pressured shows he's got integrity.

  • @pauldwalker
    @pauldwalker 4 дні тому +14

    that man is a boss.

  • @LoiDivine
    @LoiDivine 4 дні тому +12

    He is the goat !

  • @Jim.Thunda
    @Jim.Thunda 4 дні тому +13

    Proves again how greedy the chinese are.
    Selling your daughter is bad enough and then asking for more money and calling it bride price.
    These people are truly sick.

    • @drcggj
      @drcggj 3 дні тому +5

      Bride prices are part of tradition in China. Last minute adjustments aren’t.

    • @thomashom7514
      @thomashom7514 3 дні тому

      You are a jerk. You blame the entire Chinese race as greedy! Bride price is not common to all of China and certain regions are nonexistent. Your stereotyping shows how ignorant you are.

    • @AngeloGene
      @AngeloGene 2 дні тому

      ​@@drcggjTo me, it seems like a greedy tradition.

    • @gekko505505505
      @gekko505505505 2 дні тому

      you should see the greed of womrn in the West !

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj 11 годин тому

      @@drcggjEven if it was, you need to know your limits.

  • @vvcc-kg9dp
    @vvcc-kg9dp 4 дні тому +8

    Is such a high bride price really about selling their daughter? Marriage should be about two people's happiness, not a financial transaction.

    • @eduardorangel8752
      @eduardorangel8752 4 дні тому +1

      Haahahahahahahahahahaha is not a financial transaction? Tell that to divorced couples!

    • @KFC431
      @KFC431 4 дні тому +3

      ​@@eduardorangel8752 tell that to western countries abolishing that

    • @rengurenge
      @rengurenge 4 дні тому

      Marriage is no happiness for women, even in west women who are married lives on average by 7 years shorter life and have her unpaid labor increase by many hours weekly. Love is cheap word some men feeds to women to scam them with marriage and children, when they have to show it then they cheat, mistreat woman, leave for next best thing, throws all domestic chores on her shoulders using her like slave. There is no happiness to be with such men who makes womens life worse than what she had when she was single.

  • @douglei4413
    @douglei4413 4 дні тому +7

    The more money the groom give to the brides family, the less the bride will have in the future.... His money is your money. Your parents money is not yours. So logically, the less bride price is better for the bride.

  • @jilldawson89
    @jilldawson89 4 дні тому +15

    Marriage is now officially known as a BUSINESS in CHINA. Love has NO MEANING WHATSOEVER in marriage in CHINA!!! It is SAD but TRUE. To all foreign men, stay clear from Chinese mainland girls/women if you still care about your mental and financial well-being.

    • @timetravellergec2043
      @timetravellergec2043 4 дні тому

      Because western women are better? In the West the "bride price" is in divorce court with your soon to be ex wife steal legally half of your assets plus alimony scam.

    • @albertglai
      @albertglai 4 дні тому

      I’ve seen plenty of the mainlanders in the US. They are all about money. They don’t care about love. They say you can’t eat love. As bad as western women are, they are still better than the greedy, cold hearted Chinese women. It’s truly disgusting Chinese marriage culture. I’m really disgusted with this shitty culture. I’m an ethnic Chinese. So, I’m not being racist.

    • @mionshion6087
      @mionshion6087 4 дні тому +3

      Its not just China, it happens all over the world 😂😂

    • @canesno1fan
      @canesno1fan 4 дні тому +1

      Nah, I married a beautiful Chinese woman, much to the dismay of many Chinese men, and neither she nor her family asked for a thing except that I work hard to look after her and our children. Was accepted with open arms and they even gave us money for a deposit on a house

    • @albertglai
      @albertglai 4 дні тому +3

      @@canesno1fan Is it common? Or you are the unicorn? I like your success. Marriage should be like that.

  • @KikiCorallie
    @KikiCorallie 4 дні тому +9

    😂 wait how does he have this song handy just like that??

  • @SlimJim3082
    @SlimJim3082 4 дні тому +14

    Hey that's a nice song at the beginning.

  • @FunboyMacphallush
    @FunboyMacphallush 4 дні тому +6

    Something tells me these women never wanted to marry these men and the whole thing was a scam from the get-go.

  • @ujayet
    @ujayet 4 дні тому +11

    Dude can sing.. where’s the rest of the song?

  • @waterfoker8558
    @waterfoker8558 4 дні тому +5

    5:00 lol those evil kniving evil 'besties' are toxic snakes

  • @NakiaD.Y.Halevi-Yang
    @NakiaD.Y.Halevi-Yang 21 хвилина тому

    I love this guy! He has balls of iron! Way to go and I hope he finds someone worthy of him!

  • @consideredthoughts1791
    @consideredthoughts1791 4 дні тому +5

    This raises a question in my mind. If the wedding doesn't proceed due to the grooms decision (whatever the thinking behind it) is whatever bride price paid to date refunded?
    If it isn't, this has the makings of a scam. Women agree to marriage, get the bride price paid up front, move the goalposts causing the groom to cancel the wedding and so walk away with the bride price paid to date.
    Even if the bride price is refundable, why wouldn't a brides family double the price on the day of the wedding? After all, it will cost them nothing (other than the wedding costs?) and they may even screw a few more thousand from the grooms family.

  • @DestructiveDave1900
    @DestructiveDave1900 4 дні тому +3

    That was an epic plot twist! Kudos to the groom!

  • @SithLordAnakin
    @SithLordAnakin 4 дні тому +4

    To the Groom: .... "My Man" -insert Denzel meme

  • @PFG888
    @PFG888 4 дні тому +3

    16:10 - LOL, the guy looks so sad getting married 🤣

  • @franke9448
    @franke9448 4 дні тому +4

    why chinese men are being milked like this? my advice, create a business card, go to libraries, bars, vacations and if you see a lady you like talk to her and give out the card, talk to as many as you can and you will finally get a lady marrying for LOVE!

    • @rengurenge
      @rengurenge 4 дні тому

      Trying to lure random peoples to marry man is not love. China have this problem because for decades they under one child policy favored boys and destroyed girls so now those boys are grown but there are no women for them, those few women whose parents kept them can put their demands because supply is so low. Chinese men also are known to treat their wives terribly so there is nothing for woman unless he is wealthy and can pay for her suffering to be married to him.

  • @dostagirl9551
    @dostagirl9551 4 дні тому +8

    If this is real and not staged to launch his music career, he dodged a bullet. Because that bride came dressed ready to take her wedding gown off. If this was real, she would’ve just had on a strapless bra under there and not a strapless sheath. And she did not look like someone distressed at the thought of losing someone she loved. She was either a paid actress or in on it with her family and would’ve bled that man dry.

    • @Brawn
      @Brawn 4 дні тому +4

      Yeah I think this is extremely fake especially because the wife looks like a model and he had the perfect lyrics and song for the occasion... There's so many of these fake Chinese videos that only make sense if you suspend your logic

    • @Cappy729
      @Cappy729 4 дні тому +1

      My thoughts exactly

    • @twotwosix3396
      @twotwosix3396 4 дні тому

      @@Brawn I think it's fake too. Even the background music for that song was already there.
      To me he is not a professional singer, but he had learnt that song for this occation.

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj 11 годин тому

      Good points! I think it is fake but sends a good message.

  • @kakudmi
    @kakudmi 4 дні тому +17

    The woman from the first part: If she got to keep the agreed bride-price, she may have decided to end the wedding because she loves someone else and the money is already there. She demanded more money knowing he won't be able or willing to pay. She knew this would either stop the wedding or end the new marriage, all to her benefit.
    Maybe I'm wrong....

    • @salguodrolyat2594
      @salguodrolyat2594 4 дні тому +1

      Dam, I think you are correct.🤔

    • @dannylo5875
      @dannylo5875 4 дні тому +1

      Yep.

    • @Toliman.
      @Toliman. 4 дні тому

      Sounds reasonable that the money was used to force a breakup,
      but it also seems like the bride’s family also knew since they would be the ones held accountable for the costs and damages too, especially cancelling the wedding and travel costs already spent. If the bride scammed her family, they did so with no thinking about the costs involved.
      The groom’s family might also have had reservations too. Or they might not have known.
      These kinds of weddings tend to involve 3 generations of family “accepting” the money from the groom going to the bride’s family. The couple usually don’t bear that kind of cost alone, nor does the groom pay for a home/car/diamond ring by himself.
      Nor is that how a typical marriage could ever work, as the belief / social expectation is to tend to aim for 21-25 years of marriage age. Ie getting married before they finish college/university or even date outside of school. Things can, do, involve the families arranging things.

  • @fish_tails5557
    @fish_tails5557 4 дні тому +7

    Man's got some sweet pair of pipes!
    He will definitely meet the right one, one day. Trash her! She isn't in it for the love from the start!

  • @NghtMonster
    @NghtMonster 4 дні тому +3

    The bride taking her dress off in front of everyone to extort him is a new level of low. Hope this is viral, she'll be leftover woman statistic.

  • @fialee8
    @fialee8 4 дні тому +9

    The "bestie" is making demands which sabotages the wedding... it just means she is extremely jealous of her friend, and wanting it to fail. Mission accomplished.

    • @redslate
      @redslate 4 дні тому

      More like trying to live vicariously and regretting her own state in life.

  • @jstreets1983
    @jstreets1983 4 дні тому +9

    It’s always money.

  • @saffronlove3319
    @saffronlove3319 4 дні тому +3

    The bride will marry the paper notes.. And will turn into a leftover lady 😂.

  • @thealonewarrior6698
    @thealonewarrior6698 4 дні тому +7

    paying real money for fake love isn't for me.

  • @teemeensuk381
    @teemeensuk381 4 дні тому +15

    I need to know the name of this song

  • @stevec3526
    @stevec3526 4 дні тому +4

    188,000¥ is $26,393…

  • @pqtat718
    @pqtat718 4 дні тому +3

    The "bestie" is single and doesn't want her friend getting married. She knew damn well that the groom wouldn't be able to go fetch almost $4k USD right then and there, even if he was willing to do so.

  • @mtube620
    @mtube620 4 дні тому +1

    300,000 yuan + wedding house + wedding car are already very generous. Greed has no bound for the bride's family, Chinese wedding turn into extortion ceremony

  • @apurbadeb6479
    @apurbadeb6479 4 дні тому +2

    What a voice what a song

  • @archiefraser4544
    @archiefraser4544 4 дні тому +27

    if she is not a virgin forget it

    • @jaruakijal3128
      @jaruakijal3128 4 дні тому +4

      Ofcourse not.

    • @meddlingmage23
      @meddlingmage23 4 дні тому +4

      300k yuan is 42k usd. another 188k yuan is another 26.5k usd.

    • @OchiengMelisizwe5
      @OchiengMelisizwe5 4 дні тому

      virginity is not enough
      virgins are more destructive and pseudo-prostitutes during divorce.
      there is a thing called VAGINA RECONSTRUCTION

    • @oldgamesinvestigator7852
      @oldgamesinvestigator7852 4 дні тому +8

      ​@@meddlingmage23 Thanks for the conversion. So effectively a really nice car and add on a decent new car. Yeah, forget it. I feel bad for Chinese men having to deal with this

    • @JY-yw8zs
      @JY-yw8zs 4 дні тому

      Wouldn't do it for a virgin either lol

  • @RichAction
    @RichAction 3 дні тому +1

    Did he get that 300k yen back lol 😅😂

  • @akhandbharatrajupaswan123
    @akhandbharatrajupaswan123 4 дні тому +5

    I feel very sad for Chinese Boys 😢

  • @psicotronico3542
    @psicotronico3542 2 дні тому +2

    Name of the song: Ren xía - wo neng a...

  • @isambo400
    @isambo400 4 дні тому +2

    Those song lyrics go hard

  • @charlesdarwin5185
    @charlesdarwin5185 4 дні тому +1

    Can she make 4 babies for that price?
    The man is taking the risk to buy her for children.
    If she does not produce does he get a refund

  • @thewishmastur
    @thewishmastur 4 дні тому +2

    f the bride price.Are they selling pork?

  • @JHJones-nq5we
    @JHJones-nq5we 4 дні тому +2

    Dude sings really good.

  • @bettyfuller6940
    @bettyfuller6940 4 дні тому +4

    This practice really needs to be done away with. Just because it's been done like this in the past doesn't mean we can't change with the times.

  • @culixstar
    @culixstar 2 дні тому +1

    "If i can spoil you, I'm also qualified to replace you!" DAM!!
    4:35 women are masters at keeping other women single...

  • @PFG888
    @PFG888 4 дні тому +2

    SNAP! Everyone guy should learn this song just in case!
    And when this song is sung by too many men it will be like the 7 trumpets signaling the end of the world.

  • @traiphineosmond9859
    @traiphineosmond9859 3 дні тому

    I have great respect for the groom, he truly is a man who did not bow to exhorting money in laws. Trouble

  • @TomNook.
    @TomNook. 4 дні тому +2

    Good singer, great words

  • @gouwlionsan7763
    @gouwlionsan7763 4 дні тому +1

    I like his song, he is the man. The clip should has the entire song.

  • @clintpot8521
    @clintpot8521 4 дні тому +1

    This is a bunch of materialistic losers.

  • @waterfoker8558
    @waterfoker8558 4 дні тому +2

    6:35 actually this is perfect time, before marrying you must elicit the worst behaviors to see the real person underneath.

  • @leroyjames2825
    @leroyjames2825 4 дні тому +2

    Bestie indeed.

  • @lettscott5549
    @lettscott5549 4 дні тому

    Definitely support the groom👍🏾👍🏾

  • @roxie_s
    @roxie_s 3 дні тому

    Beautiful voice!

  • @ahmedaliyu1495
    @ahmedaliyu1495 4 дні тому

    This song is absolute fire and moving

  • @ajett5081
    @ajett5081 4 дні тому +2

    The bride should pay the groom. What is wrong with Chinese society?

  • @dhavalkrishna5848
    @dhavalkrishna5848 3 дні тому +1

    Chinese brothers are waking up

  • @SKOSHA2.0
    @SKOSHA2.0 4 дні тому +1

    "People still get married?" Just start saying this to all women. Gets the point across.

  • @stevec3526
    @stevec3526 4 дні тому +1

    The Bride Price makes it sound like the bride is being purchased, or being bribed.

  • @Hero88Gaming
    @Hero88Gaming 4 дні тому

    this song should go international

  • @grumpyold-man8302
    @grumpyold-man8302 3 дні тому

    Impressed.

  • @littledevil1508
    @littledevil1508 4 дні тому +1

    I would like to hear the full version of that song at the start of this video.

  • @davidransom4476
    @davidransom4476 9 годин тому

    "If I can spoil you, I'm also qualified to replace you." That's pure gold right there, any language and any culture. If sons are valued more than daughters, it would make more sense for the bride's family to have to pay the groom's family.

  • @subhranshuroy8519
    @subhranshuroy8519 День тому +1

    These women are nothing but semi gold diggers who were partially on their way from becoming gold digger in the future.