I want to keep motivating myself that there are enough good people in this planet that are trustworthy. Then I will trust myself, though others fail me, I have more than enough strength to survive, thrive and keep hope alive.
My take away was change me for the change I want him to do. While I was watching this video, I paused it to send a text of appreciation. We never communicate about our relationship while we’re at work.
My take away message is: I observe my behavior and focus on being responsible gor my self and choices, also hapiness, before I look for that in a partner. The key to better communication: - see people as wholsome - perceive and accept it as a whole - accept the person in his existence. - have patience - sympathiy for the fate of others. And all what I wrote here. I have to beleave on it and try to use it in my daylife. I wish for all of you , the same as for me. God bless you all
Number 10, you have to be ok with the outcome regardless of if it’s what you hoped for verses a total car crash. Relationships are extremely emotional for everyone involved, but on top of that you have the added aspect of each person has made catastrophic sacrifices to be in it. If you’ve been burned before and you have the hope to do it again, you need to be prepared for worst case scenario all over again.
I love Esther Perle and Marissa peers. Gosh can't wait to be at her age hopefully Im as well adjusted. She's beautiful probably because she learned not to stress as hard. = belief in self .
Have hope is the biggest take away and what I will do is continue to have faith that God put the people into my life to learn from them and love them at different levels. And take action on it by having deeper conversations (even when tough and uncomfortable) with these loved ones, being honest with myself, and showing more love to myself and others to in turn have strong relationships and be more able to serve others.
For me, my take away message is, I'm going to observe myself, and work out the underlying form of my conversations. I'm all about improving my conversations. And relax and have fun, I want to take pleasure in my interactions with my boyfriend again. Thanks
I need to turn myself off at times. I need time to be moody and confused, time to withdraw, feel hurt and be lost. I also want to connect at other times.
Upcoming week i will try to be more curious about my partner but also for myself. what do i need? how can i give that to myself? then i can encounter them. i found very interesting when she said that caretaking is an antiaphrodisiac bc it means that the other person is dependant on you which is the opposite of wanting
Good one. 👍🏻 Thank you, Evan! 🙂 I support anyone who *believes* in the inherent goodness of humankind. Even Satan was an Angel before being condemned to eternal damnation. 😈 What we feed grows. 🌱 "Do not be overcome by Evil, but *defeat Evil with Good."* - Romans 12:21
Nothing to do with Ms Perel, but the transcription (sub-titles) have words misspelled. Example: Instead of "raised" for interdependence, the spelling is race. Would someone assure proper transcription before publishing to the public?
I don't think the romantic type of love is special. And I am started to think that the romantic type of love isn't real. I mean about more than half of romantic couples either break up with each other or divorce each other, while most platonic best friends remain friends until death. Also, most people are pretty much comfortable enough to be naked around someone and have sex with someone that they have no romantic feelings towards. So sex isn't really a thing about romance. I think that having a platonic best friend is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse is. Having someone who's like a sibling to you is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse. Also, you are more likely be much more closer to someone who's like a brother or sister to you than you would be with a romantic partner or spouse. People tend to fight with their partner or spouse a lot more than they do with a platonic best friend, and you never fight with your best friend the way you fight with your partner or spouse. Partners and spouses are just temporary. If you break up or divorce them, it's hard to go back to them. With your platonic best friend, you're going to make things work, because they are your best friend, they are your go to partner. It's always easier to make amends with them than it is with a romantic partner or spouse.
Maybe you should approach “romantic” relationships how you approach “platonic” relationships and you’ll have more success There actually A LOT of platonic relationships that fall apart It’s like any other relationship Same with sex, yes it can’t be with romantic feelings attached but it can also be about feelings
@@dudeseriously591 There are a lot of toxic romantic relationships, while there isn't that many toxic platonic relationships. Like an example is that abuse happens a lot in romantic relationships, while abuse is rare in platonic relationships. So there is a lot of abusive romantic relationships, while there is isn't that many abusive platonic relationships. Why do you think abusive romantic relationships have a term for them called "domestic violence", while abusive platonic relationships don't have a term for them? It's because abuse in platonic relationships are very rare, while abuse in romantic relationships happens a lot. And also, a lot of people cheat on their romantic partners with someone else, while most people won't do stuff like that with their platonic best friends. Also, I heard that most people can live a life without romance and can still be happy. But most of the time, if someone doesn't have any platonic friends in their life, it can effect them really bad mentally; much worse than living a life without a romantic partner. In today's world, less people are dating and getting married now, and they seem to be more happy being single rather than being in romantic relationship with someone. Also, you're going to have a much deeper spoken understanding and connection with your best friend than you are with a romantic partner or spouse. So those are other reasons why romantic love isn't real or special, while platonic love is.
I liked her comment about how people were raised: for autonomy or for interpersonal relationship. Also, we love because we were loved.
Glad to know that Liza. 😊 #Believe - Feb
I want to keep motivating myself that there are enough good people in this planet that are trustworthy. Then I will trust myself, though others fail me, I have more than enough strength to survive, thrive and keep hope alive.
My take away was change me for the change I want him to do. While I was watching this video, I paused it to send a text of appreciation. We never communicate about our relationship while we’re at work.
We wish you all the best. 😊 #Believe - Feb
My take away message is:
I observe my behavior and focus on being responsible gor my self and choices, also hapiness, before I look for that in a partner.
The key to better communication:
- see people as wholsome
- perceive and accept it as a whole
- accept the person in his existence.
- have patience
- sympathiy for the fate of others.
And all what I wrote here.
I have to beleave on it and try to use it in my daylife.
I wish for all of you , the same as for me.
God bless you all
Thank you for sharing that with us. Much appreciated 🥰 #Believe - Feb
Number 10, you have to be ok with the outcome regardless of if it’s what you hoped for verses a total car crash. Relationships are extremely emotional for everyone involved, but on top of that you have the added aspect of each person has made catastrophic sacrifices to be in it. If you’ve been burned before and you have the hope to do it again, you need to be prepared for worst case scenario all over again.
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I love Esther Perle and Marissa peers. Gosh can't wait to be at her age hopefully Im as well adjusted. She's beautiful probably because she learned not to stress as hard. = belief in self .
Sweet. Thanks for sharing! 💛😊 #Believe - Dondon
Power & Control
Care & Closeness
Respect & Recognition
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#BTA 109 perfect
People need guidance more than ever So many are lost or following others down a dark road
Thanks Evan keep shining a light
Much love Hunter 💛😊 #Believe - Dondon
Have hope is the biggest take away and what I will do is continue to have faith that God put the people into my life to learn from them and love them at different levels. And take action on it by having deeper conversations (even when tough and uncomfortable) with these loved ones, being honest with myself, and showing more love to myself and others to in turn have strong relationships and be more able to serve others.
Thanks for sharing Branden. Keep going! #Believe 💪💪😊 - Dondon
Esther Perel is truly a gift to Humanity 😊
Indeed 😊 #Believe - Feb
For me, my take away message is, I'm going to observe myself, and work out the underlying form of my conversations. I'm all about improving my conversations. And relax and have fun, I want to take pleasure in my interactions with my boyfriend again. Thanks
I'm going to stop blaming others for my downfalls
I love this lady,she's so good,at what she does.
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I need to turn myself off at times. I need time to be moody and confused, time to withdraw, feel hurt and be lost. I also want to connect at other times.
Have hope ! Was the best message for me
Really love your energy!
she is so good...
You're right :) #Believe - Feb
Change how I think...the doubts can really eat me up.... I know that there is one fundamental value I share with my partner and it is enough.
Upcoming week i will try to be more curious about my partner but also for myself. what do i need? how can i give that to myself? then i can encounter them. i found very interesting when she said that caretaking is an antiaphrodisiac bc it means that the other person is dependant on you which is the opposite of wanting
Glad you feel that way. Thank you for watching. #Believe - Jenny
THIS IS THE PROVEN METHOD IT WORKS SO GOOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Yay! 😍 #Believe - Feb
Esther is beyond outstanding 🙏🙏 Gr8 insights 👏👍
😊💛 #Believe - Feb
0mG This is the best that u en i , we can have ever... please kindly do not stop sharing...
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Brilliant✅
Thanks.
You're welcome Olihile. 💛😊 #Believe - Dondon
Good one. 👍🏻
Thank you, Evan! 🙂
I support anyone who *believes* in the inherent goodness of humankind.
Even Satan was an Angel before being condemned to eternal damnation. 😈
What we feed grows. 🌱
"Do not be overcome by Evil, but *defeat Evil with Good."* - Romans 12:21
Much love AKVeenu 💛😊 #Believe - Dondon
Nothing to do with Ms Perel, but the transcription (sub-titles) have words misspelled. Example: Instead of "raised" for interdependence, the spelling is race. Would someone assure proper transcription before publishing to the public?
#BelieveTakeaway: discuss always&never vs "feel like" on my facebook live today (along with freedom vs connection and stability vs change)
Thanks for sharing John! 💛😊 #Believe - Dondon
It's not hard to be right...and alone.
💯 #Believe - Feb
But that’s what’s wrong with society. Just agreeing to not rock the boat. But the problems are still there.
I don't think the romantic type of love is special. And I am started to think that the romantic type of love isn't real. I mean about more than half of romantic couples either break up with each other or divorce each other, while most platonic best friends remain friends until death.
Also, most people are pretty much comfortable enough to be naked around someone and have sex with someone that they have no romantic feelings towards. So sex isn't really a thing about romance.
I think that having a platonic best friend is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse is. Having someone who's like a sibling to you is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse. Also, you are more likely be much more closer to someone who's like a brother or sister to you than you would be with a romantic partner or spouse.
People tend to fight with their partner or spouse a lot more than they do with a platonic best friend, and you never fight with your best friend the way you fight with your partner or spouse. Partners and spouses are just temporary. If you break up or divorce them, it's hard to go back to them. With your platonic best friend, you're going to make things work, because they are your best friend, they are your go to partner. It's always easier to make amends with them than it is with a romantic partner or spouse.
Maybe you should approach “romantic” relationships how you approach “platonic” relationships and you’ll have more success
There actually A LOT of platonic relationships that fall apart
It’s like any other relationship
Same with sex, yes it can’t be with romantic feelings attached but it can also be about feelings
Sex can* be without romantics feelings but it can also be with romantic feelings and be Great
@@dudeseriously591 There are a lot of toxic romantic relationships, while there isn't that many toxic platonic relationships. Like an example is that abuse happens a lot in romantic relationships, while abuse is rare in platonic relationships. So there is a lot of abusive romantic relationships, while there is isn't that many abusive platonic relationships.
Why do you think abusive romantic relationships have a term for them called "domestic violence", while abusive platonic relationships don't have a term for them? It's because abuse in platonic relationships are very rare, while abuse in romantic relationships happens a lot.
And also, a lot of people cheat on their romantic partners with someone else, while most people won't do stuff like that with their platonic best friends.
Also, I heard that most people can live a life without romance and can still be happy. But most of the time, if someone doesn't have any platonic friends in their life, it can effect them really bad mentally; much worse than living a life without a romantic partner. In today's world, less people are dating and getting married now, and they seem to be more happy being single rather than being in romantic relationship with someone.
Also, you're going to have a much deeper spoken understanding and connection with your best friend than you are with a romantic partner or spouse.
So those are other reasons why romantic love isn't real or special, while platonic love is.
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I’m confused
Why? Is there anything we can enlighten you with? #Believe - Feb
Rebuild trust with my ex gf
💛 #Believe - Feb
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