How to beat imposter syndrome faster

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  • Опубліковано 30 вер 2024
  • Imposter Syndrome, one of the biggest reasons why people are inconsistent in life, procrastinate, and have resistance to change.
    In this video I attack this topic in all sort of levels because imposter syndrome can get complex depending on the person. The topics and solutions discussed can help practically anyone.
    Enjoy the video, and watch until the end for solutions.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 111

  • @mashione
    @mashione 8 місяців тому +15

    I was a really bad self sabotager, so bad i did it subconsciously, i was so used to being treated like trash and having everything taken from me or being kicked around that when i woukd attain even a small amount of success i would f it all up to feel like i had control over the outcome instead of waiting for it to be destroyed or taken from me, very very sad but i was unaware of the games being played and was conditioned to believe that was just my place in society and i had to just accept it. Thank you holy Spirit for helping me. I couldn't have done it alone.

  • @breaktide251
    @breaktide251 8 місяців тому +83

    The fit is tight

  • @JavinLovesYou
    @JavinLovesYou 8 місяців тому +36

    Keep going brother you are changing lives!

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  8 місяців тому +1

      🙌🏿🙌🏿

  • @jasonmenmuir1980
    @jasonmenmuir1980 8 місяців тому +22

    Courage is going from failure to failure without losing enthusiasm. Winston Churchill

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  8 місяців тому +2

      Failure is better for us than we think, and in more cases than we think

  • @JemVeda
    @JemVeda  8 місяців тому +23

    Excited for this one! Enjoy!

  • @kavitasingh5604
    @kavitasingh5604 6 місяців тому +2

    I really needed this.
    I was unknowingly suffering from years now i can really work on it. Thankyou, it's really mean alot

  • @vinnyx1240
    @vinnyx1240 6 місяців тому +3

    Bro in the crib dressed like Shaft 😂. Great video.

  • @IntraSSTELLA
    @IntraSSTELLA 8 місяців тому +9

    you choose the perfect topics to talk about every time

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  8 місяців тому +1

      Thank you 💪🏿

  • @bbybudaluna
    @bbybudaluna 8 місяців тому +8

    I used this playing sports but didn’t realize until later that this was what I was doing. I would watch footage and add to the “database of moves” in my brain, and I would use them during games without practicing beforehand or thinking. This is after mastering the basic skills - competency like you said. It almost feels like embodying the thing you’re doing, the goal you want to achieve, so completely that the negative thoughts from the ego become a background voice. Very cool stuff 💜

  • @backgroundtitan4513
    @backgroundtitan4513 8 місяців тому +3

    The way I got my journal and pen. Thank you for this video

  • @paula-lx3po
    @paula-lx3po 8 місяців тому +7

    Best channel ever

  • @jravenx
    @jravenx 7 місяців тому +3

    Thanks for the advice blade, may you slay many more vamps

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  7 місяців тому +1

      Hahaha

  • @aymezi55
    @aymezi55 6 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much, I have never felt so validated ❤️

  • @mercymtoko2377
    @mercymtoko2377 8 місяців тому +4

    I just wanna say the outfit 🔥🔥🔥🖤

  • @mmaya772
    @mmaya772 7 місяців тому +2

    This is so me and I actually learned about imposter syndrome two years ago. I have OCD, ADHD, overthink and imposter syndrome. So a lot is holding me back because I become stagnant and procrastinate. It sucks but I’ll continue to work at it. I have so much potential and purpose to fulfill in my life to just give up on myself though.*
    💕✨💜

  • @starchildsol
    @starchildsol 8 місяців тому +7

    Idenrity allignment! This is brilliant!!! Thank you Jem! ❤❤❤

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  8 місяців тому

      🎯🎯🎯

  • @gnrlyj
    @gnrlyj 8 місяців тому +2

    Does inferiority complex fall in the same category as this?

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  8 місяців тому +1

      Yes, it can be the catalyst for imposter syndrome

  • @ColdCutJaree
    @ColdCutJaree 8 місяців тому +9

    Thank you for your uploads. Your content is appreciated. The replay value is insightful. I will recommend your channel to my friends and family. 🏆❤️

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  8 місяців тому

      Thank you so much, I appreciate that!

  • @mashione
    @mashione 8 місяців тому +1

    Looks like your about to do a hit after the video lol

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  8 місяців тому

      😂😂😂

  • @an0therdimensi0n99
    @an0therdimensi0n99 7 місяців тому +1

    28:41 "i tend to think they dont like me as much"
    a big one. did you ever not like someone before they had a chance to not like you?
    a huge deal in me personally. needs constant attention.

  • @KrisAkaVenno
    @KrisAkaVenno 8 місяців тому +2

    Your channel is A GEM holy shit
    Can I like donate u?

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  8 місяців тому

      Thank you :) and sure feel free

    • @KrisAkaVenno
      @KrisAkaVenno 8 місяців тому

      Where can I do it the best way?

  • @JDABUG
    @JDABUG 8 місяців тому +4

    I’ve been waiting for this video. Right on time. Thank you!

  • @XiiMiiWiin
    @XiiMiiWiin 8 місяців тому +2

    I’m Him

  • @xJussBE
    @xJussBE 8 місяців тому +4

    I love this. The breaking down of this topic to an applicable level is so key to us understanding and undoing and adding new ways of being into our lives. This is going to be very helpful for me as I strive to establish a living off my music as a hip hop artist and also as a singer/songwriter. Thank you for you 🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  8 місяців тому +1

      You got this! Keep growing on your music journey

  • @StickyRice43
    @StickyRice43 8 місяців тому +4

    Thank you for sharing your knowledge to help us figure ourselves out. I was aware for most of it in myself, but you helped me delve in deeper halfway through with new terminolgy and certain traits I realize I have around this ♡

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  8 місяців тому +1

      That’s great to hear about your realization 🔥

  • @SyreLikeAFire
    @SyreLikeAFire 8 місяців тому +4

    this is probably the only video anyone could ever need in their life for overcoming imposter syndrome - the only thing that will determine whether or not they see sustained success is if they ensure they regularly rewatch this video to ensure that they are still applying it to their life. it’s not just a one-and-done kinda deal… and eventually all the repetition of anti-imposter syndrome qualities will become second nature and you’ll feel so confident in your person. best wishes and holding strength for whoever reads this 🕺

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  8 місяців тому +1

      Yeah it set this one up as a definitive guide for everyone

  • @hhwippedcream
    @hhwippedcream 8 місяців тому +1

    Like a missive from a deep rebel star in the mtrix system. Much love.

  • @kr3642
    @kr3642 8 місяців тому +1

    This is a major theme of mine. I think I have ocd around these types of issues.

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  8 місяців тому

      The solutions should help!

  • @jennyrx13
    @jennyrx13 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you once again for an amazing video targeting my most inner thoughts😊

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  8 місяців тому +1

      Thanks for watching!

  • @lauraciuraneta
    @lauraciuraneta 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so so much Jem 🥺

  • @Inspiriments888
    @Inspiriments888 8 місяців тому +1

    Animals as Leaders

  • @breaktide251
    @breaktide251 8 місяців тому +3

    32:22 yup

  • @kgizzla
    @kgizzla 8 місяців тому +3

    I learned so much watching this, I'm dealing with Impostor syndrome when it comes to my art since 3 years. This might be the only guide I need to fix it.

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  8 місяців тому

      I’m glad it was valuable brother 💪🏿

  • @thecatrooms
    @thecatrooms 8 місяців тому +2

    Blade takes the red pill. Y2k af

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  8 місяців тому +1

      😂😂

  • @Blvck_glitchvision
    @Blvck_glitchvision 6 місяців тому

    Great video , thank you!
    PS: I had Blade's soundtrack playing on mind every time I looked at you, awesome outfit
    👌

  • @nell219
    @nell219 8 місяців тому +3

    🙏🫵💯💥

  • @simonesilvame
    @simonesilvame 8 місяців тому +2

    Thank you

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  8 місяців тому +1

      Thanks for watching!

  • @Nvdatan
    @Nvdatan 8 місяців тому +1

    Perfect timing.. just started as a new nurse and want to kms 😭😭😭😭

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  8 місяців тому

      🙌🏿

  • @Ladybirdtaj
    @Ladybirdtaj 6 місяців тому

    Stop carrying what people think 🙌🏽🐞🙌🏽

  • @samtorento4493
    @samtorento4493 8 місяців тому +2

    I needed this one right now. Thanks Jem

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  8 місяців тому

      👏🏿👏🏿

  • @aneelop2
    @aneelop2 8 місяців тому +2

    excellent video thank you

  • @chuetsai
    @chuetsai 8 місяців тому +1

    This is what I needed for my situation. Thanks.

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  8 місяців тому

      Great to hear

  • @soursewer3279
    @soursewer3279 7 місяців тому +1

    I’m 5 minutes in and you’ve presented what imposter syndrome is so well, I didn’t realize how deep into it I was! Thank you for this video

  • @anthonywright8952
    @anthonywright8952 8 місяців тому

    Do you feek like you always gotta be excellent? jeeeem vedaaaa

  • @tonydasilvaofficial
    @tonydasilvaofficial 8 місяців тому +1

    Didnt know Jem Veda messes with opium 🔥

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  7 місяців тому +2

      Scheeeyyuhhhh 🤘🏿🎸🖤

  • @gbowman9429
    @gbowman9429 8 місяців тому

    Time stamp 24:46 speaking of doing the action simulataneously (immediately), to me, is explaining exactly how the 12 steps and 12 traditons works for me. When you get to the "period" ( . ), that period is like your bullet to your starting gun. Thank you for all your hard work and caring for life well lived.

  • @Hotpocketmountiandew
    @Hotpocketmountiandew 7 місяців тому

    It's sort of like that Beck song, Wow.

  • @Shining.Darkness
    @Shining.Darkness 6 місяців тому

    But how do one knows when he's qualified?

  • @greysocial
    @greysocial 8 місяців тому +1

    Thanks Jem for this video. I just realized I've been self sabotaging my life in almost everything and I needed this. Much l❤️ve

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  8 місяців тому +1

      It’s never to too late to change

  • @seve4756
    @seve4756 8 місяців тому +2

    The goat

  • @levisnotjeans
    @levisnotjeans 8 місяців тому +1

    Well if I trust blade for anything it's to be authentic ❤

  • @SyreLikeAFire
    @SyreLikeAFire 8 місяців тому +1

    19:43 - 20:23 was such a call out 😓

  • @saber3719
    @saber3719 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for this video. And bless you. May the spirits guide you and keep you safe. Stay awesome you beautiful dude ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  8 місяців тому +1

      Thank you, you stay awesome too 🙌🏿

  • @j3tb0t52
    @j3tb0t52 8 місяців тому

    "This not my intention...
    ...because I am not in control
    What you see in my reflection...
    ...are attributes that I don‘t know
    I am just your projection...
    ...of what you want and need from me
    Take a peek behind the curtain
    There is nothing left to see" - Neuroticfish - Imposter Syndrome

  • @Wizyrd_T
    @Wizyrd_T 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  8 місяців тому +1

      Thanks for watching 🔥

  • @jamestovar4584
    @jamestovar4584 7 місяців тому

    Return of The Mack

  • @blankearth5840
    @blankearth5840 7 місяців тому

    I come from a toxic and psychologically abusive relationship with my father who was a narcissist, I was homeless with him for a very long time, I escaped that and went to go be with extended family that found me on the internet, but what seemed like a gift from god just turned into something that completely hurt me, I was only with them for 3 months because of how difficult they were to live with, and how conditional their love and regard was towards me, it’s just bloody unfair to me how my brother got to have what they called a “privileged life” while my upbringing pretty much got robbed and that it’s something no kid should ever have to have gone through. Yet, people on the internet and even one of my friends invalidates me and tells me “why should they love you” and “oh it’s because they raised your brother and not you why do you think you deserve everything your brother always gotten.” …but to me it’s just really unfair…😔

    • @medicscout3509
      @medicscout3509 6 місяців тому +2

      What kind of friends are those, my goodness they sound like heartless vampires.
      That friend was an idiot. Don't pay him any heed. Everyone is deserving of a loving family ❤

  • @jonathanlefkowitz3515
    @jonathanlefkowitz3515 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you Jem for another Gem 💎
    I am grateful to you 🙏

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  8 місяців тому

      🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @amariih
    @amariih 8 місяців тому +1

    Damn bro you got that sh*t On😭🔥 lmao i saw this video right after I order me some similar gloves 💯🔥🔥

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  8 місяців тому

      Guess we’re matching haha 🧤⚫️

  • @thecateyedoracle5087
    @thecateyedoracle5087 8 місяців тому

    Who is your video editor 🙏

  • @ang3ll614
    @ang3ll614 8 місяців тому +1

    Yuhhhh the fit 💪💪💪💪💪😭😭😭

  • @anthonywright8952
    @anthonywright8952 8 місяців тому

    I do concrete .. started a few yrs ago
    Thanks jem. ... This is beyond helpful ,
    Trying to start my own buisness

  • @jordansviewfinder
    @jordansviewfinder 8 місяців тому +1

    Hey man another insightful vid way 2 go bro

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  8 місяців тому

      Thank you

  • @ericguerrero3099
    @ericguerrero3099 8 місяців тому

    Hello greetings from Texas!
    Do you know of any books on this topic ?
    Love your work brother keep at it 🤙🏽

  • @JohnSmith-gh3kp
    @JohnSmith-gh3kp 8 місяців тому +1

    Great video

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  8 місяців тому

      Thank you 🙏🏿

  • @Aliboser
    @Aliboser 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for these videos.

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  8 місяців тому

      Thanks for watching :)

  • @almendravaldez6926
    @almendravaldez6926 8 місяців тому +1

    What’s your sign ?

  • @kbtitan2464
    @kbtitan2464 8 місяців тому +1

    Great video again bro!

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  8 місяців тому

      Thanks brother!

  • @Idiot-88
    @Idiot-88 8 місяців тому

    Can you make a longer than 30 sec video on the imposter syndrome self talk? It would really seperate thy self 😊

  • @Idiot-88
    @Idiot-88 8 місяців тому

    W mans.( said in a 18 year old voice)