Stop letting imposter syndrome ruin your life

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  • Опубліковано 7 кві 2024
  • Imposter Syndrome hits us all at some point. It makes you feel like you're not good enough. But at the end of the day, it's just dysfunctional self-talk. I recently went through it myself, so in this video I wanted to share exactly what it is & how I got over it. For more in-depth mentoring, visit: levelupclass.com
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 151

  • @honeybeejourney
    @honeybeejourney 2 місяці тому +47

    Yes, yes, and yes. Most of us who come from traumatizing backgrounds feel this way. I do believe that by recognizing and detaching from the negative talk, we can become whole. Therapy and the Bible- my faith in God has helped me so much. Thank you, Anna.

  • @loganmorningstar9122
    @loganmorningstar9122 2 місяці тому +80

    Thank you, I needed to see this video today. I have massive imposter syndrome.

    • @AnnaBey
      @AnnaBey  2 місяці тому +28

      You got this! Anything is possible and so is to fix imposter syndrome

    • @BeeBasnillo
      @BeeBasnillo 2 місяці тому +3

      Thank you for the video
      ​@@AnnaBey it really helped me a lot!❤😊

  • @Itsliterallycelia
    @Itsliterallycelia Місяць тому +7

    I've been in therapy consistently for a year and it has changed my life. I'm established boundaries and people in my life understand the consequences if they cross the line with me. I' beginning to gain more control over my emotions and how I choose to react and it has made me feel powerful and more confident. Another big change I've noticed in myself is that I'm not desperate for connection. I experienced trauma as a child and adolescent and grew up without my father so I struggled with a lot of feelings of worthlessness. I used to wonder what was wrong with me, why don't these people love me? It's so interesting because now that I've been focusing on bettering myself and changing my life, I don't chase after these people I was so desperate to be loved by. I understand that it's not my shortcomings, it's theirs. Now they are the ones chasing after me and I honestly couldn't be bothered. I want your videos all the time and they are inspiring. Right now I am going through a wardrobe change and loving it! Thank you

  • @klaudiaskorka3251
    @klaudiaskorka3251 2 місяці тому +65

    Anna, I love your new approach to life! More down to earth, more mature. Simply a classy and wise woman. You have reached the next level! I wish this for myself, too :)

  • @beethemessiah9973
    @beethemessiah9973 2 місяці тому +6

    My family is a HUGE component of encouraging imposter syndrome. They’ve contribute to it for so long. I will fix it by separating myself from them. It is the only way I will heal. Unfortunately since I still live with them, they gaslight me. I bought some ear pods to tune it out.

  • @melissam7379
    @melissam7379 2 місяці тому +30

    That color looks lovely on you!

  • @musich1024
    @musich1024 2 місяці тому +8

    I clicked on this knowing nothing about it and I recognized I am struggling with this intensely right now. I am not even applying to jobs because I think I am not good enough.. so stupid. Let's not do this, ladies! ❤

  • @frostty2023
    @frostty2023 2 місяці тому +42

    If u r reading this ana..
    I love you..
    U've helped me a lot ma'am
    Thanks

    • @AnnaBey
      @AnnaBey  2 місяці тому +11

      You're welcome 😊 Sending much love back

    • @honeybeejourney
      @honeybeejourney 2 місяці тому +4

      Yes, I love Anna, too. Anna really cares about us- her ladies. Thank you, Anna, for your love and care.

  • @childatheartconsultbygifty7145
    @childatheartconsultbygifty7145 2 місяці тому +5

    As a Child Development Specialist, I have encountered alot of parents during my consultations, who had this imposter syndrome and trace it back to childhood experiences. Now, we're becoming aware, we need to protect children.

  • @amyhoover9
    @amyhoover9 2 місяці тому +4

    I have to admit that it's videos like this that remind me of how much inner beauty you have, Anna! The way you present yourself and the content you make honestly carries a big impact. I wish there were more people like you in this world.

  • @TheAmyG
    @TheAmyG 2 місяці тому +27

    I’m delighted you’re utilizing this channel: what an important topic 💚🙏🏻

    • @AnnaBey
      @AnnaBey  2 місяці тому +4

      So happy you’re here Amy! ❤

  • @fairysoulz4903
    @fairysoulz4903 2 місяці тому +7

    This was perfect to hear right now, my confidence was shaken after an off day in my new job and you know what?! It was imposter syndrome.

  • @ruthleon6673
    @ruthleon6673 2 місяці тому +14

    Dear Anna, thank you so much for all the content you give us ❤
    As a 25yo who never connected with her femenine side growing up, you have helped me in the process of becoming the woman I always wanted to be.
    You have taught me not only in the fashion side, but also in compassion for others, education, etiquette and in believing that I AM the one who has the power to archive this transformation.
    Sending you a lot of love and the best that the universe can give you ❤

    • @AnnaBey
      @AnnaBey  2 місяці тому +4

      Thank you so much for this beautiful message

  • @miglenapetrova2970
    @miglenapetrova2970 2 місяці тому +8

    Thank you, Anna ❤ It's really interesting how Imposter ayndrome can really play up in relationships, too, telling you that you don't deserve love and affection... It's so hard to stay with your self-awareness in moments of doubt, but we can do it!

    • @AnnaBey
      @AnnaBey  2 місяці тому +4

      If you do self-discovery on where those feelings of not deserving love and affection originally stem from, you might have some interesting revelations

  • @honeybeejourney
    @honeybeejourney 2 місяці тому +5

    I just realized that this is your new channel. Beautiful! Congratulations!

  • @daniellalyngdoh6211
    @daniellalyngdoh6211 2 місяці тому +6

    I like the fact that you are coming up with a new topic to discuss which is related to Psychology because in today's world mental health is equally important as physical health .

  • @carlsenlifeafter60carlsen11
    @carlsenlifeafter60carlsen11 2 місяці тому +1

    I agree with you completely. I think the younger generation thinks that if they have all these material things, they’ll be happy and they’ll be better. It doesn’t work that way.

  • @Deya49
    @Deya49 2 місяці тому +1

    I love the content concept of your new channel! Thank you for this.

  • @Meaowwww
    @Meaowwww 2 місяці тому +1

    Great video Anna, thank you for putting out this content!

  • @RebeccaSaysWords
    @RebeccaSaysWords 2 місяці тому +1

    What a great video to launch the new channel! Love it!

  • @alargebagofmoney
    @alargebagofmoney 2 місяці тому

    About damn time Anna! Hell yes for making this new channel already. So proud of you.

  • @Linda-xe4tc
    @Linda-xe4tc 2 місяці тому

    One of the best things I learned recently, is that while we deal with stuff, we are still lovable and worth while , regardless of how we feel.. It's important to remember that.

  • @lsuzinwellness8996
    @lsuzinwellness8996 2 місяці тому +1

    this is so good, thank you so much anna xx

  • @user-nh1di7vn5r
    @user-nh1di7vn5r 2 місяці тому +1

    Hey Anna, thank you so much for this chat, it was really helpful, looking forward to more amazing things on your new channel :)

  • @las_aventuras_de_glenda
    @las_aventuras_de_glenda 2 місяці тому

    Thanks, Anna for all you have shared. I learned a bunch from your channel.

  • @erica6448
    @erica6448 2 місяці тому

    Fantastisk video! Tack❤

  • @storystorynight5630
    @storystorynight5630 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you Anna Bey for sharing this knowledge to us. I truly appreciate this. It really helps a lot.

  • @natalynne
    @natalynne 2 місяці тому +4

    Anna your content has transformed me. ❤

  • @imlv2614
    @imlv2614 2 місяці тому

    Very helpful!!!Thank you so much, Anna❤ Love you so much❤

  • @leonac3807
    @leonac3807 2 місяці тому +1

    This video is so kind and supportive and full of love. Thank you Anna!

  • @leylarustamova
    @leylarustamova 2 місяці тому

    ana, I'm so excited for your second channel and thank you for this incredibly relatable and right-on-point video, this is resonating so deeply)

  • @janhavibhatt6333
    @janhavibhatt6333 2 місяці тому +1

    Love to see you evolve and embrace your true calling anna. Your journey is simply inspiring

  • @kimplummer1454
    @kimplummer1454 2 місяці тому

    Really GREAT content!!! Looking forward to more videos!!! LOVE LOVE LOVE this!!!

  • @dreamergirl1140
    @dreamergirl1140 2 місяці тому +3

    I love your content, love learning about your journey, and am SO glad that you didn’t let the negative voices or the haters stop you so you can guide the rest of us who are father behind you on this path now.

  • @AnaliceMartinsson
    @AnaliceMartinsson 2 місяці тому

    Loving your new channel, Anna! 💛

  • @learnenglishwithsusan1
    @learnenglishwithsusan1 2 місяці тому

    Each time I listen to Anna, I become a better version of myself. Thank you Anna

  • @isabellam6447
    @isabellam6447 2 місяці тому

    Anna, thank you. I needed to be reminded that my imposter syndrome is a gigant in my life.

  • @SylviaSLC
    @SylviaSLC 2 місяці тому +1

    I'm loving this!

  • @kaleighvictoria
    @kaleighvictoria 2 місяці тому +2

    Absolutely love the concept for this channel!! So excited for you to post more!! ☺️🩷

    • @AnnaBey
      @AnnaBey  2 місяці тому +1

      Yay! Thank you!

  • @alissanelson1156
    @alissanelson1156 2 місяці тому +1

    I love your content Anna. The evolution is beautiful.

  • @pamelajohnson9810
    @pamelajohnson9810 2 місяці тому +1

    Anna I loves this new channel you're certainly a woman of great wisdom and faith and you are of dignity and grace.

  • @tamararadosavljevic3871
    @tamararadosavljevic3871 2 місяці тому +2

    I love this new kind of content. Just at the right time. Thank you, Anna, your content is helping a lot! ❤️

    • @AnnaBey
      @AnnaBey  2 місяці тому +2

      I'm so happy it was helpful to you! Thank you for sharing that with me

  • @soniajensen7377
    @soniajensen7377 2 місяці тому

    Anna,
    I love your channel. It is reinforcement to what I naturally possess. Thank you ❤

  • @CPT_B
    @CPT_B 2 місяці тому

    Interesting concept for the second channel - I've subscribed and I'll keep notifications on for the next upload

  • @Nathmodell
    @Nathmodell 2 місяці тому

    I love Anna bey’s livingroom ❤I love when you talk about all these topics my dear x

  • @peacefulhideaway
    @peacefulhideaway 2 місяці тому +2

    This video was recommended at the right time! Thank you for the valuable talk and encouragement! ❤

    • @AnnaBey
      @AnnaBey  2 місяці тому +4

      Thank you for taking the time to leave a comment

  • @user-dv5og1vh9j
    @user-dv5og1vh9j Місяць тому

    Thank you so much for this video, Anna. It helps me out immensely ❤❤❤ God bless you

  • @kayc591
    @kayc591 2 місяці тому +1

    I love your hair! It looks so beautiful & elegant

  • @patvanniekerk5446
    @patvanniekerk5446 2 місяці тому

    Wow! Excellent Anna. Bless you

  • @Hcupscalebusinessetiquette
    @Hcupscalebusinessetiquette Місяць тому

    I needed to hear this and especially these days when I just started my business and felt so negative about myself. Thank you Anna for this video 🌹

  • @rosamariav_09
    @rosamariav_09 2 місяці тому

    Yayyy! Finally! Love love love!

  • @karenlejman4234
    @karenlejman4234 2 місяці тому +1

    I love your new channel. ❤

  • @kjm7143
    @kjm7143 2 місяці тому +1

    Wow! I found this video so helpful. It really made me think about my life and why I feel like this. Amazing 🎉. Thank you so much Anna ❤

    • @AnnaBey
      @AnnaBey  2 місяці тому +2

      You're so welcome! :)

  • @angelasinyard3743
    @angelasinyard3743 2 місяці тому +2

    Great content!

  • @alinapopa7685
    @alinapopa7685 Місяць тому +1

    Dearest Anna, i feel awsome listening to you. Thank you, you have a splendid energy❤

  • @erica6825
    @erica6825 2 місяці тому +1

    A different view about impostor syndrome for a change. Thank you!

  • @beutfulflwr6245
    @beutfulflwr6245 2 місяці тому

    Thanks for sharing this information. It’s very interesting 🤩💗

  • @Lottieloves287
    @Lottieloves287 2 місяці тому +5

    I am loving this new content 🥰🫶🏼🤩

    • @AnnaBey
      @AnnaBey  2 місяці тому +1

      So excited to start this channel and have you here!

  • @ukaszrdzanek6718
    @ukaszrdzanek6718 2 місяці тому

    Very valuable content! Thank you.

  • @sheryl_500
    @sheryl_500 2 місяці тому +1

    So glad you talked about this anna, the impact of one's thoughts and belief is really scary. It is not just in regard to imposter syndrome but many more mental conditions. Self diagnosis is a huge problem present day because people with half knowledge, decide to believe they have certain mental conditions and that belief actually altering their mental conditions accordingly. Most people today show the most early symptoms of any mental illness, search online and decide that they have it, that acceptance, leads them immediately further into it, like from early symptoms of easily further avoidable depression to a state of actually being clinically diagnosed with depression. Psychologists are always taught to be as sure as can be before any diagnosis because of how one little doubt is enough to worsen a person's mental heath.
    I love you anna but i realy wish you don't make more videos regarding specific syndromes as while you may be putting it out carefully, there may be someone misinterpretting your words. Also anyone reading this, just like how physical illness symptoms should not be searched online, and discussed with the specialised doctor, the same way symptoms for any mental condition should also not be searched online and trusted blindly.

  • @maiaesthetics
    @maiaesthetics 2 місяці тому

    I love you Anna and I love every single video you upload thank you for your effort ❤️

  • @ikhlasabdulmoula6640
    @ikhlasabdulmoula6640 2 місяці тому +2

    Happy to see you talk about such an important subject ❤❤❤

    • @AnnaBey
      @AnnaBey  2 місяці тому +2

      I'm glad you liked it! We all experience imposter syndrome

  • @iurigravito7990
    @iurigravito7990 2 місяці тому

    Thank You Anna!❤

  • @emmabrittain4184
    @emmabrittain4184 2 місяці тому +1

    Best video you've done ❤ thank you

  • @humaira917
    @humaira917 2 місяці тому +1

    Oh dear this dress is amazing Anna

  • @Prettypryde
    @Prettypryde 2 місяці тому

    I never realized how much imposter syndrome is a part of me. I knew that I had it, but I never realized how deep until I watched this video so thank you for this. I’m going to use your advice and really try to sit with the uncomfortable feelings and question the validity.
    By the way, that colour is absolutely stunning on you, especially with the gold necklace. I’ve seen you do this combination before and it is absolutely perfection.

  • @Pamelalalala
    @Pamelalalala 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you Anna❤

  • @imlv2614
    @imlv2614 25 днів тому +1

    Amazing video!Soooo good❤Anna, can you please make videos on relationships?How to let go of past relationships etc

  • @lilyrose833
    @lilyrose833 2 місяці тому +1

    Thankyousomuch this is so helpful.

  • @franlawrence6954
    @franlawrence6954 7 днів тому

    Thank you Anna ☺️

  • @christiandavisproductions
    @christiandavisproductions 2 місяці тому +4

    I absolutely love your new rebrand, you really helped me in 2020 and will be a loyal viewer foreverrrr

    • @AnnaBey
      @AnnaBey  2 місяці тому +4

      I would say this is a continuation of my level up journey and I'm excited to share deeper thoughts and advice with your here

    • @isabel4957
      @isabel4957 2 місяці тому +1

      Literally me!!!

  • @angelapellino885
    @angelapellino885 2 місяці тому

    Thank you! This has always been a huge issue for me. I can go to the Moon and back (and I even got a PhD and still undermine it) and it will never be enough. I will listen to this video more than once!

  • @beluasmr
    @beluasmr 2 місяці тому

    Nice video Anna!

  • @isamarfrancisco
    @isamarfrancisco 2 місяці тому

    LOVED IT

  • @salmahargal5708
    @salmahargal5708 2 місяці тому

    Thank you Anna

  • @user-if2wl7hs6w
    @user-if2wl7hs6w 2 місяці тому

    Ha I love this new channel!❤

  • @residentformyselfnnn7732
    @residentformyselfnnn7732 2 місяці тому

    that's level 🎚️ up my mind already! 😊
    Thx❤

  • @Dr.JudeAEMasonMD
    @Dr.JudeAEMasonMD 2 місяці тому +1

    Subbed. Love it.

  • @blitzphony
    @blitzphony 2 місяці тому +1

    Love you!!!!

  • @albertinapettenon355
    @albertinapettenon355 2 місяці тому

    Thank you kindly ❤️

  • @camillescottxenoenthusiast7929
    @camillescottxenoenthusiast7929 2 місяці тому

    Great content.

  • @a.bit.of.everything.
    @a.bit.of.everything. 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you.

  • @venee23
    @venee23 2 місяці тому +1

    hi i'm from the Philippines,and i really love your dresses especially the shirt dresses,,very classy,and i learned so much from you 😊

  • @darleenmcbride8900
    @darleenmcbride8900 2 місяці тому

    Hello Anna Bey So nice to see you gorgeous lady ❤

  • @childatheartconsultbygifty7145
    @childatheartconsultbygifty7145 2 місяці тому

    Absolutely 💯. I can relate

  • @ionelabostan5011
    @ionelabostan5011 2 місяці тому +3

    Yay! I have been waiting for uploads on this channel forever! (Also do you happen to be a summer color season?)

    • @AnnaBey
      @AnnaBey  2 місяці тому +2

      I'm happy to finally be posting here :) I think I'm probably a summer

  • @madlaz5795
    @madlaz5795 2 місяці тому

    Hi, I love your videos and have come from your other channel❤
    could you do a video on horse riding? Your journey and how someone can get into the industry? X

  • @nataliapopa9309
    @nataliapopa9309 2 місяці тому

    Da m-am abonat!Mulțumesc pentru traducere!Eu vorbesc engleza dar cu scrisul nu stau bine!Ești SUPERBĂ! ❤❤❤

  • @florenciarichter4277
    @florenciarichter4277 Місяць тому +1

    Anna please make a vídeo about dealing with psycopaths. For being polite, i accidentally let a person like that get into my life last year and it's one of my biggest regrets, i'm still angry and trying to heal from this

  • @mylevelingup
    @mylevelingup 2 місяці тому

    My dear elegant lady! ❤

  • @purpurina5663
    @purpurina5663 2 місяці тому

    Not the topic of the video but that raspberry color is stunning and really suits you

  • @michellesantiago820
    @michellesantiago820 Місяць тому

    I agree, I have an impostor syndrome. Currently, I am struggling with my new job. I was not trained properly. Everything is being blamed on me. They listen to hearsay, instead of investigating. I am a perfectionist.

  • @soniarcher
    @soniarcher 2 місяці тому

    Thank you Anna good for my daughter…

  • @ngocanhkaulusa
    @ngocanhkaulusa 2 місяці тому +1

    Beautiful dress

  • @amandazplace5663
    @amandazplace5663 2 місяці тому

    Anna! You have a beautiful livingroom!😉🇨🇦♥️

  • @drshabnamnazir1573
    @drshabnamnazir1573 2 місяці тому

    ❤advice of this woman is million bucks, we know how hard she earned her place in a patriarchal society and stick to what she believed,above all potential for Keep changing, growing and has no problem in looking back at her life and admit the mistakes she made❤

  • @dotcom596
    @dotcom596 2 місяці тому

    Also make a video on changing skin tone..how you changed your color from dark to light ..which products are best..?

  • @evka24
    @evka24 2 місяці тому +1

    God has created us to be here. You r worthy. Own the space.

    • @femfiore
      @femfiore 2 місяці тому

      LOVED THIS !! It changed my mind completely in a second !! THANK YOU FOR SHARING THIS INSPIRING PHRASE 🤎 !!

  • @joyleencamiellegreene
    @joyleencamiellegreene 2 місяці тому +1

    How do you separate imposter syndrome from actually being unqualified? Delusion to think I do not belong or deluded to think I do belong needs externally confirming evidence right?

    • @TheCinderellaPrincess
      @TheCinderellaPrincess 2 місяці тому

      Well, a lot of the people who have this syndrome have been vetted by a group of people and were accepted into a space. However, they personally believe that they aren’t good enough. So, they are qualified, but just hard on themselves

  • @LauraSchendel-ko1qk
    @LauraSchendel-ko1qk 2 місяці тому

    I try and find something nice about the person, compliment them, and silently bless them. Our greatest power is when we are the best that we can be for God. Rather than get down in to the lower frequencies, sometimes the only thing we can do is continue to represent God. “If you are beautiful, some will be jealous. Be beautiful anyway. If you are successful, there will be those who resent you. Be successful anyway. Because at in the end, it is between you and God. It was never between you and them anyway.”