Aww ☺️ let’s be supportive of each other, there’s, we need to be careful of negative thoughts, we all have worth, and be ourselves, it doesn’t matter who likes you all that matters is you love yourself. If you do that others the right people will be attracted to you 😊 All the best on your journey 🤗
You say: no one's ever liked you. But the question is: Do you like others??? You could surprise someone near you just by being nice to them. Or sending a nice positive message to someone who is not so near. If you have elderly neighbours, just write them a little note saying: How are you coping with the winter? Do you need any help? Put it through their letter box. Or buy them a little pot flower and leave it on their doorstep with a little note: I saw this flower and though of you. How are you doing? Try it. And wait for the results... they'll love you! Rinse & repeat.
Ola’Natalie Do not let the Memories of your past limit the potential of your future.There are NO LIMITS to what you can ACHIEVE on your Journey through life,EXCEPT IN YOUR MIND.STOP Hating yourself for Everything you Aren’t and Start Loving Yourself for Everything you ALREADY ARE.Just live your life and be HAPPY . Your Beautiful and you are loved more then you know ✌️👍🤙❤️🇵🇹❤️
Thanks you, this video is to encourage people to go with in and practice self love, I’m not depressed or sad. I’m through this face of my life . I just want to make people aware, on how to understand yourself and do what’s right from them. I’m happy and content I know who I’m. Im just offering a perspective on life and its challenges.
We have to face what we dislike and, sometimes, accept it is something to be addressed for our own sake, not other's. Even if it's something as shallow as our weight or our finances. I have Asperger's (autism spectrum) so my perspective is quite odd. I notice sometimes people need "acts" and time testing us to understand we actually have good intentions. Most people also tend to be quite inertial. Myself included. You took your own life in your hands and you moved. I did the same (multiple times) in the past too. That only gets us so far. We have to keep changing if we're unhappy. Well, that's what I believe to be sensible. I'll tell you if I get good results if I become less lazy and do enough of what I just told you is what we should do to be happy... 😁 I can tell you that I sometimes suffer for a very long time over small things because I avoid dealing with people. Give me a dozen forms to fill alone, I will do it. Same with an IKEA workbook to install an entire kitchen. Please don't ask me to call someone I don't know or, worse, go in person solve a problem. (AFK) Social phobia is my kryptonite LOL. I don't mind leisure interactions though. Just interacting with people who can use the pen to hurt me badly, physically or otherwise 🤪
This is my first time of coming across your channel. Thank you for taking is along on your walk. Portugal is beautiful! I have enjoyed this vlog and am looking forward to lively interaction.
Ola, I am in Portugal just or a holiday (again) and I am thinking about moving here after I start my retirement. And I always felt strange with my own people and family. Nevertheless I feel quite confident in moving anywhere I want to go, because I am always in my company. I love the outdoors and the sometimes rough beauty of middle portugal. So I am looking around for some cosy home. In one years time I want to have moved from Germany to the area of Castello Branco
Why Castelo Branco??? It's very far away from Lisbon, Porto & beaches. Try staying 1 hour - 1H30 from Lisbon and the coast, and you'll never run out of things to do locally or take the train and go to Lisbon, Coimbra, etc. for the day.
It sounds like you are prone to overthinking. Life can be simple & easy, why complicate it with useless thoughts? Don't overthink, don't over-complicate. Just go with the flow, each day as it comes. OK, you moved to Portugal alone. It's an excellent opportunity to go out and meet lot's of people. If you were with family or partner you wouldn't have such a big opportunity. Have you tried joining the Univesidade da Terceira Idade in Tomar? It has over 300 members all 50+ and dozens of activities & outings. If you don't find one activity that suits you, just propose one that does and get a group together, be the leader. You are an artist, so maybe you can propose something artsy. Like a taster session where folks can come and try out materials and techniques. I guess many never tried painting. Show your materials & techniques. Another thing: the Camara of Tomar has a public building that is used as an arts center (the old Moagem near the big rotunda) and they let local artists work there for free and showcase their work for set periods of time. You can contact them and ask about it. You'll get to know a bunch of people and them you. But don't start thinking "Will they like me? Won't they?" because it's not a beauty contest or a job interview. In Tomar there are also walking groups organized by the Camara, every week they have short and long walks. Get the programme and join, that's easy to chat with new folks when you are walking together. The best way to meet people is to join an activity group. Don't ever think "Will they like me?" But do think... "What can I offer that would be of interest to others? What would they enjoy?" Talk to them and find out. Good luck! 💯❤💛💚 TIP: Don't over-share your life & problems on 1st meets, everyone has their own, they don't need to hear more. 😬🤭🤔Keep it for later, when you develop closer relationships but only if they ask about yours. You'll get more positive results by being genuinely interested in others.
No one's never liked me. I am now 68 and need to be strong by myself. I can do it
I’ve never met you but I like you !
Aww ☺️ let’s be supportive of each other, there’s, we need to be careful of negative thoughts, we all have worth, and be ourselves, it doesn’t matter who likes you all that matters is you love yourself. If you do that others the right people will be attracted to you 😊 All the best on your journey 🤗
You say: no one's ever liked you. But the question is: Do you like others???
You could surprise someone near you just by being nice to them. Or sending a nice positive message to someone who is not so near.
If you have elderly neighbours, just write them a little note saying: How are you coping with the winter? Do you need any help? Put it through their letter box.
Or buy them a little pot flower and leave it on their doorstep with a little note: I saw this flower and though of you. How are you doing?
Try it. And wait for the results... they'll love you!
Rinse & repeat.
I'm a nomad loving my life ! Keep your joy!
@@SSHUEY thanks 😊
Ola’Natalie Do not let the Memories of your past limit the potential of your future.There are NO LIMITS to what you can ACHIEVE on your Journey through life,EXCEPT IN YOUR MIND.STOP Hating yourself for Everything you Aren’t and Start Loving Yourself for Everything you ALREADY ARE.Just live your life and be HAPPY . Your Beautiful and you are loved more then you know ✌️👍🤙❤️🇵🇹❤️
Thanks you, this video is to encourage people to go with in and practice self love, I’m not depressed or sad. I’m through this face of my life . I just want to make people aware, on how to understand yourself and do what’s right from them.
I’m happy and content I know who I’m.
Im just offering a perspective on life and its challenges.
We have to face what we dislike and, sometimes, accept it is something to be addressed for our own sake, not other's. Even if it's something as shallow as our weight or our finances.
I have Asperger's (autism spectrum) so my perspective is quite odd. I notice sometimes people need "acts" and time testing us to understand we actually have good intentions. Most people also tend to be quite inertial. Myself included.
You took your own life in your hands and you moved. I did the same (multiple times) in the past too. That only gets us so far. We have to keep changing if we're unhappy. Well, that's what I believe to be sensible. I'll tell you if I get good results if I become less lazy and do enough of what I just told you is what we should do to be happy... 😁
I can tell you that I sometimes suffer for a very long time over small things because I avoid dealing with people. Give me a dozen forms to fill alone, I will do it. Same with an IKEA workbook to install an entire kitchen. Please don't ask me to call someone I don't know or, worse, go in person solve a problem. (AFK) Social phobia is my kryptonite LOL. I don't mind leisure interactions though. Just interacting with people who can use the pen to hurt me badly, physically or otherwise 🤪
Thanks for your sharing 🤗.
@liveyourbestlifeover50 Sorry, I talk too much. Thank you 🤗
@@TheSimArchitect no problem 🤗
Well said! I feel it too
This is my first time of coming across your channel. Thank you for taking is along on your walk. Portugal is beautiful! I have enjoyed this vlog and am looking forward to lively interaction.
@@mangoyacho thanks for stopping by and your lovely comment,much appreciated 🙏
When you dont fit in since childhood is because your mother or/and father where not prepare to bring you into the world.
Not being the most conventenial person in the world does contribute greatly to (me) frequently not having a sense of belonging.
@@cyn5962 yes that comes with the territory .
For sure
But it’s not because of you
You are fine 😊
@@gaylaaustin7468 yes exactly that’s the point, of my video, it’s all just negative self talk.
Hello, how are you doing?🙂💜.
I’m doing great thanks, always learning and evolving😊 !
Ola, I am in Portugal just or a holiday (again) and I am thinking about moving here after I start my retirement. And I always felt strange with my own people and family. Nevertheless I feel quite confident in moving anywhere I want to go, because I am always in my company. I love the outdoors and the sometimes rough beauty of middle portugal. So I am looking around for some cosy home. In one years time I want to have moved from Germany to the area of Castello Branco
@@angelikawerkner8773 nice I hope everything will work out for you 😊
Why Castelo Branco??? It's very far away from Lisbon, Porto & beaches. Try staying 1 hour - 1H30 from Lisbon and the coast, and you'll never run out of things to do locally or take the train and go to Lisbon, Coimbra, etc. for the day.
@@donnacosta5633 not everybody needs beaches. And when you have friends where you want to be ans your garden and animals...
It sounds like you are prone to overthinking. Life can be simple & easy, why complicate it with useless thoughts?
Don't overthink, don't over-complicate. Just go with the flow, each day as it comes.
OK, you moved to Portugal alone. It's an excellent opportunity to go out and meet lot's of people. If you were with family or partner you wouldn't have such a big opportunity.
Have you tried joining the Univesidade da Terceira Idade in Tomar? It has over 300 members all 50+ and dozens of activities & outings. If you don't find one activity that suits you, just propose one that does and get a group together, be the leader.
You are an artist, so maybe you can propose something artsy. Like a taster session where folks can come and try out materials and techniques. I guess many never tried painting. Show your materials & techniques.
Another thing: the Camara of Tomar has a public building that is used as an arts center (the old Moagem near the big rotunda) and they let local artists work there for free and showcase their work for set periods of time. You can contact them and ask about it. You'll get to know a bunch of people and them you.
But don't start thinking "Will they like me? Won't they?" because it's not a beauty contest or a job interview.
In Tomar there are also walking groups organized by the Camara, every week they have short and long walks. Get the programme and join, that's easy to chat with new folks when you are walking together.
The best way to meet people is to join an activity group. Don't ever think "Will they like me?" But do think... "What can I offer that would be of interest to others? What would they enjoy?" Talk to them and find out.
Good luck! 💯❤💛💚
TIP: Don't over-share your life & problems on 1st meets, everyone has their own, they don't need to hear more. 😬🤭🤔Keep it for later, when you develop closer relationships but only if they ask about yours. You'll get more positive results by being genuinely interested in others.
You actually missed the point of this video . But thanks for you taking the time to write such a long comment.