SELF-SEDUCTION: Things I Do To Make Myself Feel Hotter (For Me and No One Else)

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  • @LotusesGalaxyOcean
    @LotusesGalaxyOcean 10 місяців тому +182

    Platonic companionship should be something we quest for and hold to exquisite standards.

    • @HeavenSentHoney
      @HeavenSentHoney  10 місяців тому +39

      sometimes your soulmate is your friend, don't forget that!

  • @elvieraworld
    @elvieraworld 11 місяців тому +258

    Ok hear me out on the best bath ever... a chalice of pomegrante juice (or toasted almond tisane tea) and your best bowl of (literally any) splendidly sliced fruit. Stellar if you do it daily, even more so on your period.✶

    • @MuseSunflower
      @MuseSunflower 10 місяців тому +13

      Now that sounds really luscious 😊

    • @HeavenSentHoney
      @HeavenSentHoney  10 місяців тому +60

      Why have I not thought to eat fruit in the bath? Have I been living under a rock?

    • @AD-eg9cw
      @AD-eg9cw 5 місяців тому +2

      Some candles and a book would make a beautiful addition too 🕯 📖 🛀👌

    • @kathleenkaleookalanismith8724
      @kathleenkaleookalanismith8724 28 днів тому

      Magic ❤

  • @loliable
    @loliable 20 днів тому +5

    "ladies and gentlemen. especially ladies" iconic

  • @MuseSunflower
    @MuseSunflower 10 місяців тому +157

    Something that arouses my brain is finding a new rabbit hole to dive into on UA-cam.
    Developing skills is a good one too. I love dancing.. pole fitness and salsa classes really give me a boost of confidence and a high of happiness that lasts for days

  • @erinsend7756
    @erinsend7756 10 місяців тому +35

    I’ve prided myself in my ability to get along with lots of different kinds of people and I enjoy people who are different from me, but the question of, “Are any of my friends people that I feel like are prized gems?” has really got me thinking.

  • @NinaThePoltergeist
    @NinaThePoltergeist 10 місяців тому +96

    I love the way this video seems so non-scripted, it’s like talking to a friend. For me, i am on a journey to feel more feminine in my body, to master yoga and dance more.

    • @HeavenSentHoney
      @HeavenSentHoney  10 місяців тому +13

      This particular one was for most of it. I’ve been building up the ability to speak freely in front of the camera for a long time now. I agree with the yoga and dance. Both make you aware of all parts of the body and how to join together to create a movement or gesture. That level of awareness is crucial I think.

  • @meghanfaith2185
    @meghanfaith2185 11 місяців тому +62

    You r a MENTOR 🌺

  • @gthktty666
    @gthktty666 7 місяців тому +22

    THIS IS MY CHURCH!! THIS IS MY TEMPLE!!!

  • @akakac
    @akakac 10 місяців тому +90

    I feel like this lady's online presence is about to blow up 🥂 good luck!

  • @ChaNayNayAnime
    @ChaNayNayAnime 11 місяців тому +62

    this is my favorite topic that you discuss. it has literally changed the way i see myself. thank you for bringing this to light

  • @pongtrometer
    @pongtrometer 7 місяців тому +26

    Biofeedback of witnessing your self’s evolution is beautiful…spiritual goosebump overload .

  • @laurakolding4624
    @laurakolding4624 10 днів тому +2

    I can't help but notice the mic you use is perfect. That, plus your well modulated voice make this a pleasure.
    You could read recipes off 3x5 cards and I would still listen.

  • @not_not_daryl
    @not_not_daryl 5 місяців тому +27

    This comment section feels like finding my lunch table.

  • @lindsey6579
    @lindsey6579 10 місяців тому +83

    I heard a very interesting perspecitve on self seduction. It was through the lens of Jungian psychology. The idea of seducing your animus (or anima for men). As in, what would your animus consider to be the most seductive qualities in a woman? How does she dress, speak, move, etc. I love this idea, that I'm seducing myself through seducing the masculine aspect of my psyche.

    • @せん-r9k
      @せん-r9k 10 місяців тому +3

      How do you connect to your animus?

    • @HeavenSentHoney
      @HeavenSentHoney  10 місяців тому +12

      WOAHHHHHHH

    • @HeavenSentHoney
      @HeavenSentHoney  10 місяців тому +9

      DM me on insta with the sources please!!

    • @lindsey6579
      @lindsey6579 10 місяців тому +4

      @@HeavenSentHoney I'll never reveal my sources

    • @tahsina.c
      @tahsina.c 8 місяців тому

      ​@@lindsey6579 queen shit

  • @wayawuffin
    @wayawuffin 11 місяців тому +43

    oooh! i always avoid going back to old journals and writings of mine for fear of Death By Cringe, but i love the idea of reframing it as a testament to how far i’ve come! always growing and learning and evolving 💞

    • @HeavenSentHoney
      @HeavenSentHoney  10 місяців тому +4

      you can also just claim rebirth and that person isn't really you like I did like a year ago 😂

  • @natalieisentertaining
    @natalieisentertaining 3 місяці тому +3

    if you started a cult i would join today. i'm kidding, cults are bad, but seriously. i'm almost 40 and a lot of the things you talk about especially re: Sensualism really really really feel not just relevant- but crucial- terribly crucial. and i'm so glad someone is saying them! i'm also so glad it's someone younger, because it gives me a boost of hope- sometimes i look around at my cohort and our predecessors and feel so much disappointment and...disbelief, almost. this constant smartphone tether and perpetual rejection of knowing one's body, one's brain- i strive to know myself. i can't say i always have, but in my late 20s a switch flipped and it's like i came online.
    anyhow- thank you so much for this vital work you are doing here, and please please please continue. i know you've heard it many times before, but please consider formally organizing your thoughts into a book. you have more than enough material, it's all there already, you just need to sort it and edit it and submit it for publication. i feel 10,000% sure that your material will go to print immediately. you're a gem, your takes are diabolically astute and you have impressive style and taste, plus the ability to articulate that style/taste. thank you, thank you, thank you!

  • @user-ws5ty8vv7b
    @user-ws5ty8vv7b 7 місяців тому +7

    I wish I had you in my life while growing up. But then again, I'm so proud pf myself for getting to where I am all by myself, figuring such complex ideas and emotions along the way. And now I can also look to you. You stimulate my mind, my thoughts. Thank you.

  • @lolachlih3136
    @lolachlih3136 10 місяців тому +17

    Great topic to touch on for me it's reading from different philosopher's books and gaining more knowledge for me is very powerful and writing and besides dressing up sexy at night with a glass of chilled wine is a nice rose petal/milk bath take a long soak for 30 minutes and feel great when i get out❤ love your hair it's gorgeous with that flower 🌼in it! Very inspirational video thank you❤

  • @carlaconce
    @carlaconce 10 місяців тому +24

    there are so many people online speaking of self love and building confidence, but no one does it like you do. no one uses this kind of language. this is how it should be talked about. you make self love passionate and religious in a way. thank you for helping me notice the ways in which i love and worship myself, and teaching me new ways to do so. love the set up and the whole look you created, by the way 🤍

    • @HeavenSentHoney
      @HeavenSentHoney  10 місяців тому +4

      Thanks babe!! I really appreciate your kind words and for keeping up with what I do ❤️

  • @waltneshiabryant6114
    @waltneshiabryant6114 7 місяців тому +11

    it’s giving jennifer tilly, idk but you are a doll! I’m honored to be in your presence, thanks for passing on your wisdom

  • @Ineverwantedahandle
    @Ineverwantedahandle 7 місяців тому +9

    I just found your channel and you are speaking my language. Would love to look at your astrology because I feel like you have an exalted Venus, like myself, who has synesthesia and needs to be surrounded by beauty as much as possible. Nothing perturbs me more than seeing things that can be beautiful, instead be grotesque and neglected.

  • @WxveafivvcKevhir
    @WxveafivvcKevhir 5 місяців тому +3

    i resonate with the last part in a way that i didnt expect. im happy with my friends because they actually changed for me, i was a bit surprised that theyre willing for that. id feel guilty sometimes about it so i kept asking them if im too much and they never say no. it makes me proud because im no longer the type to tolerate dishonesty, through them ive achieved this version of me that wont ever be afraid to express my feelings or whenever i have a problem. other than that i love your content since ive always been in love with myself as if shes just another individual, but its completely me and i discovered its called autosexual. i had dreams of me being intimate with myself as if its two people and when i tell people turns out nobody feels this way. based on watching a handful of your videos i think thats the central message youre always trying to express in this channel (please correct if wrong). its essentially the love yourself principle but more radical and discussed more in how we can act that out.

  • @ioincognito9953
    @ioincognito9953 10 місяців тому +4

    O wow fhe first point you mentioned, resonated so much with me
    I have had self esteem issues, but I have been solid in myself because I spent a lot of time devoloping skills and doing my hobbys. It gave me so much satisfaction and boost of confidence knowing what I am capable of

    • @HeavenSentHoney
      @HeavenSentHoney  10 місяців тому +2

      hope one day it brings tears to your eyes

  • @WokiesASMR
    @WokiesASMR 7 місяців тому +2

    You articulated how I feel about learning knowledge perfectly. 💖

  • @lovemesoftly8579
    @lovemesoftly8579 10 місяців тому +9

    I absolutely love this channel. I wanted to ask the community that has been built here if anyone has any unique small female youtuber recommendations that someone who likes this channel would most likely enjoy?

    • @OwczyRyk
      @OwczyRyk 7 місяців тому +1

      Different energy for sure, but I liked Sorelle amour few years back, like a lot.
      I also like teal swan presence, but she is spiritual teacher rather than a friend in a bath :)
      Do you know any gals to reccomend?

    • @Goddessliving
      @Goddessliving 7 місяців тому

      Myself. I am a small female UA-camr

  • @diniwinger3174
    @diniwinger3174 7 місяців тому +2

    I love the passion in your voice. Could listen to you chat all day

  • @Luxferre117
    @Luxferre117 4 місяці тому +2

    Heaven sent honey! Thank you for these videos. I’m sitting in my basement studio in east vancouver with an overhead lamp and its a vibe and yeah lighting really is important lol 😝

  • @せん-r9k
    @せん-r9k 10 місяців тому +1

    Absolutely stunning and inspiring, when I see a new video I get this rush of dopamine when I see you posted a new video🥰

  • @ashleymarieroman
    @ashleymarieroman 7 місяців тому +2

    Love the rose and your eyeliner. I feel inspired to do some inner work.

  • @chikarati
    @chikarati 5 місяців тому

    I’ve been binging your account for like a week now and I’m just so thankful for what you talk about and give advice on. My mother was never there for me when I needed her and I’ve always felt lost within myself because of it. Your videos are helping me navigate becoming a woman as a 22 year old.

  • @ConnieAF
    @ConnieAF 3 місяці тому

    You are so incredibly wise. So glad I stumbled across your channel. Thank you for your insight!

  • @unknowndes1re
    @unknowndes1re 7 місяців тому +1

    I love u so glad I found ur channel I’m seriously getting addicted to ur videos

  • @odothedoll2738
    @odothedoll2738 7 місяців тому +3

    Girlies I just had the best bath everrrrr! I only used the epsom salt I always use (I have a disability that gives me chronic pain) and the bubble bath my mom and sister use. But I listened to the new Alcest album. It made me so focused on the process of bathing that I have that “just walked out of a movie theater” feeling at the moment.
    Edit: I forgot to explain what the album is lol. It’s called les chants de l'aurore. Don’t be intimidated by the black gaze (black metal + shoegaze) label Alcest basically make gorgeous atmospheric music that just so happens to have heavy guitars sometimes. It’s not that loud give it a chance.

    • @miad0lcev1ta
      @miad0lcev1ta 4 місяці тому +1

      I love you for this suggestion, thank you for sharing!

  • @Zaylaberg
    @Zaylaberg 6 місяців тому

    I love you, binge watching all your videos you’re so eloquent and inspire me in so many ways.

  • @thekawaiiw2321
    @thekawaiiw2321 6 місяців тому

    You look n remind me so much of my middle/ high bestie, she was the blondie n I was the brunette n neither of us had cell phones but we'd call each other after cheer to practice doing our makeup for the next day or just talkin the latest myspace drama while sitting criss cross in front of the bathroom counter mirror, miss her so much 🕊 Thank you for reminding me of some really great memories, recently found your channel n your videos are soo fun and relaxing 🌺🍷✨️

  • @olabo_wale6067
    @olabo_wale6067 7 місяців тому

    You're literally the coolest person I've had the chance to discover. Thank you for existing❤

  • @Hope-vb2ee
    @Hope-vb2ee 11 місяців тому +13

    what are your favorite niche topics to learn about?

    • @HeavenSentHoney
      @HeavenSentHoney  10 місяців тому +7

      dandyism
      byzantine art
      gothic cathedrals
      oud perfume
      arts and crafts movement

  • @Beckykeenanx
    @Beckykeenanx 7 місяців тому +1

    Okay I’m obsessed with you

  • @GiselleSali
    @GiselleSali 7 місяців тому

    Girl, you’re awesome, seriously, becoming a big fan of your channel

  • @asisfernandes5874
    @asisfernandes5874 7 місяців тому +6

    Stan woman👑💅✨️. I just found myself a mentor ❤❤❤

  • @MrRome99
    @MrRome99 7 місяців тому

    I’m joyful I found your channel!! Thank you queen ❤️

  • @Ayesha_11122
    @Ayesha_11122 3 місяці тому

    Ahhhh....this was so cool! 🔥🔥🔥

  • @Princessm2025
    @Princessm2025 8 місяців тому

    You are soooo amazing girl!! Thank you for sharing this, I needed it

  • @jakub1859
    @jakub1859 6 місяців тому

    Oh how I love learning new things

  • @thecuriouschaos
    @thecuriouschaos 7 місяців тому

    I needed to watch and take note of what you said in this video. Thank you!

  • @morticialilas3229
    @morticialilas3229 10 місяців тому

    Oh+last week a massive flat i had signed for fell through+now my floor is nothing but boxes 2 nowhere! You remind me of LMP we do laundry since 4eva+we had a hard envied life.

  • @tp4346
    @tp4346 5 місяців тому +1

    Can you do a video on the loneliness of creating/maintaining a life like this? Losing/not having friends bc had to transition out of unfulfilling relationships and friendships.

  • @reginalol5324
    @reginalol5324 5 місяців тому

    This was so inspirational! ❤❤❤thank you bestie 😊😊

  • @AmoHq
    @AmoHq 10 місяців тому

    I think I’ve finally found my safe place on the internet 😂 this is the first time ever I’m commenting on a yt video in like 10yrs? 😂 I love it here!!!!

  • @nikki88875
    @nikki88875 7 місяців тому +2

    Me too. I need to be surrounded by beauty.

  • @JadyLady
    @JadyLady 5 місяців тому +1

    Being 56 you inspire me… getting in bubble bath now…. And you are special… don’t forget😘

  • @samiraaleah
    @samiraaleah 7 місяців тому +2

    I live in a place with the same, way too low, tub. We all deserve better.
    Really liking this topic! Kind of needed this.

  • @MariRossetvik
    @MariRossetvik 17 днів тому

    Could you maybe make a list over some books you recomend? Really want to read more but its hard to know what to start with.

  • @bonitas.7106
    @bonitas.7106 5 місяців тому

    Do what you like but don't try too hard! Don't try to please others just yourself! Do just a little bit ❤❤❤

  • @KB-cq1kv
    @KB-cq1kv 3 місяці тому

    I was just relieved to get to the end and see that the beautiful champagne flute survived and her hair didn't catch on fire. I was nervous the whole time. HA!! I clearly need to chill. Might have to take a bath myself. HA!!

  • @linlin-yx7cy
    @linlin-yx7cy 7 місяців тому

    You're such a legend.

  • @shelbystiner6545
    @shelbystiner6545 6 місяців тому

    I'm learning a lot from Blonde Helena Bonham Carter, I've been binging her videos and I love what she has to say! And I call her HBC with the utmost respect, I've always loved that woman!

  • @vamnoone
    @vamnoone 7 місяців тому

    You‘re such an inspo

  • @setarehmariposa9571
    @setarehmariposa9571 8 місяців тому

    Wow I am so happy I found this channel

  • @MuseSunflower
    @MuseSunflower 10 місяців тому

    Love this so much ❤

  • @anna_wairimu
    @anna_wairimu 7 місяців тому

    i really think you are amazing thank you for this

  • @jobunny919
    @jobunny919 11 місяців тому +5

    12:20 yes you are that special

  • @tahsina.c
    @tahsina.c 8 місяців тому

    This is just beautiful advice

  • @mydeadswan
    @mydeadswan 4 місяці тому

    thank you for being my online older sister

  • @tabithashayla
    @tabithashayla 2 місяці тому

    I used to have a big giant tub and I would put candles roses and candelabras around it.

  • @Joythealchemist
    @Joythealchemist 4 місяці тому

    You just get me

  • @mica7153
    @mica7153 7 місяців тому

    Youre always beautiful♥️

  • @devildoll1528
    @devildoll1528 10 місяців тому

    I love that choker! Where did you get it? Ty For this topic as well :)

  • @oraclegreen7938
    @oraclegreen7938 3 місяці тому

    Thankyou

  • @__moonwolf__
    @__moonwolf__ 6 місяців тому +1

    my friend recommended ur channel and omfg i needed to hear a lot of this ✨🪽

  • @juanolguin6721
    @juanolguin6721 7 місяців тому

    Girl where is that thorn necklace from😍

  • @ievadaujotaite901
    @ievadaujotaite901 8 місяців тому

    Ur god sent. Thank you.

  • @LaraY44488
    @LaraY44488 2 місяці тому

    💖💖💖

  • @jamielukhmanov8483
    @jamielukhmanov8483 7 місяців тому +1

    I need to know... are you a Libra, a Taurus, or a Sagittarius? I feel it so strongly in my bones that you /have/ to be Venus ruled, but that craving of knowledge for the sake of just collecting it speaks to Jupiter and is a very Sagittarian nature. I need to know your big 3, the curiosity is killing me.

  • @devvv7
    @devvv7 7 місяців тому

    Do you have any Taurus libra or Pisces in your chart? 😊

  • @Elsadeherrera
    @Elsadeherrera 7 місяців тому

    I agree

  • @sid_heat
    @sid_heat 10 місяців тому

    Amen

  • @mills2016
    @mills2016 Місяць тому

    Ur cool af

  • @dracobaby-zh1cb2dn3b
    @dracobaby-zh1cb2dn3b 10 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @garycollingwood4002
    @garycollingwood4002 5 місяців тому

    🔥🥵🔥 VIRGIN 🔥🥵🔥

  • @whitneyangelie3682
    @whitneyangelie3682 7 місяців тому

    I thought you were wearing a prong collar at first glance 🤣 But the choker is actually really cute

  • @opalrhudy2526
    @opalrhudy2526 2 місяці тому

    Girl, that thang gotta LOT O' MILES on it. I'd probably take a ride in it, but I ain't taking on them payments. Real talk. Outside of that, you're most likely worth the ride.....Aren't you? Yes. That's my summation of you. Glow on Love. You'll get there.

    • @opalrhudy2526
      @opalrhudy2526 2 місяці тому

      The moral of the story.....please don't be a basic narcissist. Be good at understanding how meaningless, meaningless possessions are when you come to the END. Your awful offspring will make sure your Legacy is trampled down into Oblivion. If you're lucky. Only fans?

  • @nonanona6653
    @nonanona6653 7 місяців тому

    I love you.

  • @wakulovszki
    @wakulovszki 6 місяців тому

    Now I want to see your apartment 😊

  • @slippyredd
    @slippyredd 7 місяців тому +1

    dude i wanna be friends with you😭

  • @ry.0
    @ry.0 Місяць тому

    Big sis i ever wanted

  • @thr33forrty4
    @thr33forrty4 8 місяців тому

    Hello thank you for this sharing I like ur getup, u remind me of a cat ❤

  • @mml0082
    @mml0082 10 місяців тому

    🤍🖤

  • @popflicktionedits3256
    @popflicktionedits3256 2 місяці тому

    I’m a guy but still watching this for tips bc I’ve encountered the most handsome boy in the world and I need the confidence to seduce him 😭🤣

  • @tehyakim
    @tehyakim 8 місяців тому

    i need to know where u get ur lighting from

    • @HeavenSentHoney
      @HeavenSentHoney  8 місяців тому

      LOL this is the light fixture in my bathroom. I am a very amateur videographer

  • @kingmj87
    @kingmj87 10 місяців тому +1

    cant stop worrying about you dangling all that A/V equipment over your bathtub

  • @SilverSpur1
    @SilverSpur1 2 місяці тому

    being together with someone funny is better, I think. seek at least girl company. I am philologist, from Babes Bolyai academy

  • @Noel-jk3jy
    @Noel-jk3jy 7 місяців тому

    wow woman brain isnane

    • @miad0lcev1ta
      @miad0lcev1ta 4 місяці тому +2

      Date men then

    • @ry.0
      @ry.0 Місяць тому

      Indeed. She has a fabulous brain. Everyone has areas they are good at and this is her thing. As a woman I appreciate that very much.

  • @KittynaJ-te9xm
    @KittynaJ-te9xm 6 місяців тому

    Mhan she has no friends to talk about her thoughts and feelings and that’s y she’s on here, this was not useful, wasted my time