She Was The Pursuer, And I Gave NO Resistance
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- Опубліковано 3 жов 2024
- She Was The Pursuer, And I Gave NO Resistance. In this captivating love story, she was the pursuer and I gave NO resistance. Watch as our unconventional relationship unfolds in this heartfelt video.
Sometimes love comes in unexpected ways, and in this video, I'll share how I fell for someone who was the one doing the chasing. From our first meeting to our journey together, this story will make you believe in the power of love and fate. If you're a hopeless romantic, this is a must-watch!
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Real separation anxiety is when you're waiting for Craig's new video in the morning 🤣
No fr I thought he was out of business the way most of the videos I’ve seen had been from 5-7 years ago.
True man 😂
For me, my gf was the pursuer, about 80%. We didn't always go at the same pace though. It was up and down. We have 14 months now.
Right after Christmas & New Year 2024, she began to backup quickly & steadily. She said she had to focus more on her kids and her business. I didn't buy that but I didn't say anything or question her about it. I knew exactly what was happening. I did have a hard time adjusting to her not pursuing me as much. It quickly went down hill, mostly because of my inability to not getting so much attention. I called it off about 8 days ago because she's been hanging around her male orbiters. I signed up the 'The Knowledge' and working it every day. My moods are in flux. Hard to deal with but getting better by the day. We're still in no contact.
Im here to thank you for your advice. I fell in love with a dismissive avoidant. After the first date, he started pushing me away. I was shattered. I did all those mistakes. Then I found your videos. I started learning about attachment styles. This was an year ago. I stayed in no contact. After two weeks he reached out. Then kept my cool. The relationship moved on too slow. I gave him ample space. Today I'm so happy that we are too close. Our second date happened after one year! Now we are meeting in fewer gaps. I'm really happy. I'm enjoying my days. Thanks ❤
she def killed the 2 exes 😂
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That was My first thought too😅
Delete her number and run.
Is this what you want to deal with the rest of your life? Move on and stay away from her.
Everything seems to be going better from the last time I wrote. I will chime in when I have more time. Thank you Craig, Margaret & Victoria.
She is a textbook fearful avoidant. I've been through this. I'm sorry man.
She sounds more narcissistic than fearful avoidant. Typical cycle of love boming-devaluation-discard. Fearful avoidant usually doesn't come as strong so early on because of the core wounds.
wow! she said it straight up, that she's not trying to lead him on. That's great, she's trying to communicate her feelings cuz she doesn't want to lose the potential relationship but of course things are already spiraling at this point
My ex came back and wants to see me again but now I don’t even know if I want her
How long did it take?
I find the synchronicity interesting how when my anniversary of a major break up happened.. I start to experience that pain and then other exes suddenly start to reach out, as if they can feel that I am going even further away from them emotionally. One of my biggest fears was that when my ex was pulling away.. I was only starting to learn these things but I felt that by the time she ever comes back for me, it will be when I have finally moved on. at that point it will be too late for her. I feel like that's the way it tends to go. perhaps it's for the best. we were able to be there for each other in some ways when we did. experience is the greatest teacher. and it's so great to be able to learn with one another, as we share each other's experiences
Profoundly self centered...wants what she wants when she wants it😏
I already disagree with your first statement because I've always been the one to pursue men and they all often reject me
I think she’s not a problem. I believe the problem is him that doesn’t have a bit of respect for himself.
she said she expected him to be just coming over already because she's so avoidant that she expects him to become anxious.... it looks like he was anxious but he was hiding it as best as he could. I'm not even one third through the video yet but I'm sure she winds up sensing it and that's when she pulls away.
Run! 😂
She let her trauma bond with her narcissistic ex ruin it. Kept me at arms length for five months and then pulled the rug out from under me. Text book fearful avoidant.
The text about the court situation was the indirect direct approach.. she was already disconnecting from him and then thought she would try again.. and as we know in such a short time he would not have healed much at all.. now he said his last long-term relationship was 14 years ago.. if he would have behaved as if they were only dating.. because they were only dating, then she would have continued but he obviously has an anxious attachment style. both of them need to do some work... but don't we all. I wonder if any truly secure people ever discover this channel. perhaps they do when they are interested in trying to help their loved ones
Can you get these people back?
Yes. My wife did the exact same thing before she physically cheated. Now…. My life is extremely complicated. I was homeless, now living with family.
Oh my, I totally forgot I still have a key to my ex's house- man, I was just trying to get over her and I hear "and she gave me a key to her house" haha! Weird! We've been in NC for 6 months, is it time to mail her the key back? C'mon community, help me out here!
Sorry, for context, we were together on and off (yuuup dating an avoidant) for 6 yrs. So it wasn't just a month or two- yeeeah still trying to figure out where were at tbh.🤷♂️
a disengaging tactic.. she says what do we have in common if you go to church without me.. and where do we go to get married? obviously she wants a relationship but she has experienced much pain in her past. she tests heavily.. which of course is important. it's also important for her potential mate to have emotional security. also it would be nice if he doesn't drop dead on her suddenly like the last two fathers did. it looks like a very difficult situation for her and my heart does go out to her.
it seems like the guy's mom is more involved with the girl than he is.. she was interested in him, then he became very anxious.. so her avoidant style kicked in.. it made him more anxious. Big surprise. I have been through similar and at that time my mother was also invasive and manipulative. The girl at that time was interested in me.. we started to date and I started to behave like she was my girlfriend before she was ready for anything like that. it all blew up in my face very quickly. I can see that she had major issues but I also had major issues. I was very insecure and I was a total mama's boy. in today's day and age the men need to man up. we need to do work so that we can heal and grow, like how someone might say we need to grow the fuck up. and now I will go back to sucking my thumb 😇😋
of course she's upset that he reached out to her brother... why would he not just tell her himself? does it really take that much confidence? so he thought that he would tell her brother to not tell his own sister that the information came from him? does he think that he's closer to her brother than she is? meanwhile she says to him now that she only told her mother.. so is this implying that he is the only guy that she told? she was trying to be connective and he is fumbling the ball all over the place. imagine if I reached out to my ex's family lmfao... what do you think would happen? obviously my ex would be very angry. they are no longer dating or even communicating.. she is actually communicating more than he is to her now and yet he's surprised when she's upset that he's trying to meddle by contacting her family?
This woman is crazy
now I'm 9 minutes in lol.. oh no! he fell for it, you went over unannounced lmfao, she put the cheese in the trap and he went for it 😁. I guess her children are not as avoidant as she is.
This woman is toxic AF lol. Run!!
I have question am i emotionally cheating on morgan with my ex boyfriend Stephen behind morgan by meeting up and texting and calling Stephen on phone and laughing with stephen and holding hands with stephen and watching high school musical dvds that me and Stephen love without never never having no sex
Wtf is your question about? Getting endorsement for being a bitch?
Yes! You are!
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