Lonely?? Get married ! (Malayalam)

Will getting a partner be the solution to your loneliness ??
No doubt we're all social beings and having someone to share time and life with will not make you feel lonely but Depending on another person to always fill your cup is not a healthy way to be in a relationship.
You need to deal with your loneliness in healthy ways before getting a partner to share life with. Else imagine your partner going off to work in some other country and you also don't have frds around you ...
what will you do wth that loneliness then?
People, Talk to a professional on how to navigate through these things if you're unable to work on it yourself okay...
Then when you are in a better state of mind, you'll find a partner, you won't cling on to them for dear life.
Let's have healthy levels of dependency & healthy partnerships.
Shopping with partner is fun but are we able to able to shop by ourselves ?
Let's not use people to fill some void in our life. and it's not fair if someone does that to us right? ❤️
So, Not at all fair on the other person too . Think about it.
Don't use someone else to fill in your blanks. Fill it in yourself.
Make life interesting.
And share it with someone if you feel like.
That will make it better. ❤️☺️
Swati Jagdish
Psychologist
Sexuality health educator