+ImTotallySummer Actually, the Father never posted the video online. The girl herself showed the video to her friends and one of her friends downloaded the video onto her phone and posted it online.
she was bullied. he broke her guitar and burned her clothes. made her go to school in boys clothes after butchering her hair. he made her drop out of running for president, which is a really positive thing and further more he asked the administrators to inform everyone that she was no longer running for president and they complied. so many things that are special to an individual, especially a teenager, were taken away. she was shamed over a photo of her in leggings and a sports bra and shamed into believing she would never live it down by her father. this was not about just fucking hair. I do believe her father had a very large impact on her decision. I realize she wrote 8 letters and one was to her father and she did convey love but most kids who are severely abused still love their parents, at least when their kids, and she was such a sweet girl. truly. probably the only person who has ever been on UA-cam and had ONLY nice things to say. in the video she wasn't angry, she wasn't screaming or crying. I don't think her calm, scared, empty behavior was a direct result of what he did. she was a sweet girl and her father not only shamed her but did something horrible to a teenage girl and took away so much that was special. she was a beautiful, smart, sweet girl who deserved better. a year later, I'm still heart broken and I never even knew her. I wish it didn't happen, it's shocking but she just had too much and was young and didn't ever see escape so she bolted out of a car and jumped off a bridge.
Christopher Wells this was overkill. every teenage girl is gonna do some shit. you really think this was appropriate? a 13-year-old's self esteem is already the most fragile thing on the freaking planet and he pushed it over the edge. this wasn't her fault, he's just a shitty parent.
13 year old girls go through hell in and out of school with studying friends bullies they should'nt be scared to go home or talk to their parents but I'm some cases it is just to heart bteaking. the only thing some people care about is the money and attention not the poor children. I say if you can't treat your child any better keep your darn legs closed and men use protection.
My friends mom cut her hair completely bald in 5th grade because the teacher told her mom that she wouldn't stop playing with it in class. I think if she was a little bit older she definitely would have killed herself. She cried everyday at school, her eyes were always red and she always looked so depressed. That same teacher felt so bad for her she allowed her to wear a hat for the whole year. I don't understand why parents do such petty and ignorant things. Public shaming is disgusting especially of a parent doing it to a child.
We need to stop putting so much importance on woman's hair though , tbh. It's sad when a girl gets her hair cut and feels like she is not a girl anymore.
The irony that I find in all of this is, in the video you hear the father say "was it worth it??" Now that all of this has happened and his daughter committed suicide, I now want to ask him "was it worth it?" My thing is it wasn't just the loss of her hair it was the fact that her father posted it online to further embarrass her after cutting her hair which lead to bullying in school. If her father never made that video and if father getting her hair cut that girl found other alternatives to style her hair until it grew back then maybe she would not have committed suicide. Well that's just my take on things. I hope you understand my point of view. Again love your videos @lovelyti!!
Sade Coker agree parents can teach their kids but bulling them too just don't cut it ....when u punish ur CHILDREN ..u do so in consideration... u don't punish them like we are in a third world country ...I hope that father no BULLY ...learns something for this ...if I was mean too lol I'd wish the same for the big bully ...but that's not me ...he will think of this his whole life ..the parents need to wake up n learn
+FaZe Cat realest comment ever i always felt like my mom or grandma or anyone as an legal guardian in my family understands me yet they say they dont like when i hide things from them and that i should open up to them...but how can i open up if u dont even know half the shit that goes through my head that u wont understand for sure ? plus i have trust issues with opening up to them about things i just do, because i know my mom and judgement comes in a lot ik for a fact shes gonna make a bad comment about it.... is it bad i have trust issues with them ?
Nina Edwards I can't say if it's bad or good to have trust issues with your parents, but you're not the only one. I too have trust issues with my parents because if I ever get bullied or something they're always on the others side, never on my side, they always blame me, I'm always the brat in my family tree. I always hide things from my family and my mom gets really pissed at me if I don't open up, but i know she's not on my side anyways, so why open up? When I look sad and don't tell my parents what's happening, my dad would REALLY get pissed at me and hit me... I live in a very stereotypical family about girls, always have to look happy has to have a clear face, has to stand up straight to " show the body" I mean, the what fuck mom, I'm not a lamborghini, I'm not perfect, and I have to skinny with long hair, but I'm the exact opposite, I'm chubby and I don't really care cause my weight isn't THAT bad, I've always wanted short short hair, I'm kinda hunched back, my forehead has acne and my face expression is always depressed... I just can't escape my family now. But I know they still love me.
My niece was shamed on social media for bad grades. It didn't improve her grades it just made them worse. This is just my opinion but I think social media is borderline child abuse. I never plan on doing that to my kids.
Brett Larch did you just use social media in the same sentence as child abuse? you know how many kids out wish their parents would shame them rather than beat them, rape them, and keep them from eating. THAT'S ABUSE!! i get there's emotional abuse too but i'm sorry when i hear abuse i think of beat down children not shamed kids. anyway i do get what you're saying this stuff rarely works people are just ridiculous
T.T. J yes I did use social media and abuse in the same sentence. Social media shaming is emotional abuse. My niece cried and stated it just made her feel terrible. We can disagree though.
Yes, because he never deserved a daughter, nor a partner (which speaking about it, I wonder what he did to his ex wife…) Its a real shame Isabelle had to suffer this, and had to be in the hands of such an abusive and narcissistic dad. My condolences go to her grandma and other family members, may she rest in peace 😔🕊️
LJ Meadows sorry for your loss sweetie. it's always sad when someone so young dies at such a young age. my son's friend accidentally committed suicide 2yrs ago at the age of 12 it was very hard for him, but hang in there. him and his friend recently celebrated his friends 14th birthday with the kid's parents, and they all had a great time. remember the good times and stay strong.
LJ Meadows I'm so sorry for loss bro my prayers goes out to you and her family I mean what a shame what her father did to her smh I mean what a fucking disgrace and I hope his soul burns in hell for what he did.
father should be ashamed and so should the people who picked on her at school. willing to bet those same kids were leaving flowers and fb post with tear emojis
Smh this is no joke,.I know how that little girl felt when I was her age. Really no one to talk to, no one to understand your story. It's a quite lonely place. I'm glad I overcame it, it's just saddening a young lady felt like there was no need to live any more. Breaks me up.
I was molested I know how I felt scared and alone. I was 7 to 12 when when it happened and I felt like doing the same thing. I wish I could off been there to help her like somebody done for me.
Thank you both for your kind words. I just get so angry when innocent children get abused. As for me will I live for the knowledge that mean they tried to break me but I am stronger than they thought.
While I do hope she rests in peace, I am kind of glad that this has gained media attention to show parents what this type of punishment really does to their kids. Public shaming to me is never the answer. We've heard stories of children killing their parents, children getting bullied/killed because of a video of them being disciplined, parents and guardians going to jail for beating their kids on camera, and now the worst that could possibly happen, the children are killing themselves. My only question is all for what? To prove some sick point, there has been no positive outcomes of this type of punishment and it could end very tragic as we have all seen many times. Is your child getting bad grades in school really worth tearing a family apart just for online validation and media attention? I think folks need to wake up and realize that just because this may work for some people, it 9 times out of 10 won't work for you. There are many ways to discipline children, this shouldn't be one of them. #PutTheCameraDown
***** you always stay positive and give good comments on Ti videos that I learn from. I agree with you 100%. When my parents punished me I felt bad enough much less for it to be put up for the world to see oh nooo
This is the result of a bunch of pansies coddling kids. If she was warned what the punishment would be, then repeatedly pushed buttons, then she could've prevented it. It's sad she died, but this is punishment not "bullying"
+MsPrettypinkpanther8 how can you say that a I got one word for you if crime yes it is a crime but what if it was you or someone in your family ha yeah tables would be turned.
Nile Benjamin Actually public shaming is just a new term for bullying. Bullying can happen in many different forms and sadly that includes people who are supposed to love you and have your back. Seems this poor girl had neither.
The video of him cutting her hair was hard to watch, it wasn't funny. It seemed like he was showing off for the camera. This story really hit a soft spot with me. She was so beautiful, and had her whole life ahead of her. You're right Ti, her parents were probably just punishing her for misbehaving instead of really looking into WHY she was misbehaving. Now that father/stepfather is going to have to live with that for the rest of his life. I can only imagine how the grandmother feels having witnessed that. May this beautiful girl rest in peace.
The father is particularly cruel, and to shame her like that? Where was the mother, to stop this? What happened to grounding a child, maybe take away the phone or tv... He must have been a tyrant in the home, to be so extreme.So sad.....
About a week ago a senior at my school killed himself bc his mom kept telling him he's worthless and isn't going to be anything in life and he got bullied at school it's so sad to see parents like this
My parents shaved off my hair, 2 different times when I was a kid. I had to endure being called The Somalian Boy by one of my classmates. At some point in my early 20s, somehow the convo our family was having turned to the time our parents shaved our heads, I told them that a fellow classmate called me The Somalian Boy...my dad was surprised...like he didn't realize I would have been called names.
My mom would take us to the salon and we'd get the perm and then we'd get our hair tight curled, so our hair would look like Sophia Pettrilo's from Golden Girls. I'd play with my hair, try and undo the curls and just play with my hair because that's what little girls do. So that would piss my mom off. I think the other time was that they spent too much time and money dealing with our hair, perming it, braiding it, washing it, etc . So they shaved it all off.
When I was 14, I had a female friend. She had a shaved head, I thought it was pretty cool at the time, I thought it looked pretty "punk rock". I asked her about it. She said, "My step mom shaved all my hair off when she was mad at me :((" After meeting the stepmom, wow, that woman was disgusting and crazy. I feel so bad for that girl. Sometimes I wonder what ever happened to her. Im 25 now, so this must have happened around 11 years ago. See, parents were doing this shit EVEN BACK THEN. WHO THE FUCK WOULD DO THIS TO A CHILD????????
people need to learn the word EMPATHY. empathy is far more important than sympathy. empathy helps people to learn how to get over themselves, and helps people understand you are never the only one that has suffered and makes mistakes. if people used more EMPATHY than sympathy things like this would never happen. look up the difference, and apply it to your lives, everyone will appreciate it. thank you.
Public shaming is definitely not the way to parent. Come on parents you have to care more about your kid than your ego or whatever is motivating you to do this. Do unto others starts at home.
This is the reason why parents who choose to do this are making a potentially deadly mistake! This is such a bad, idiotic idea! It should be against the law to do such a thing to your child..a form of child abuse!
Yeah ..and kids starve in africa..and have no parents and live on their own and have to live with abusive aunts and uncles ,who sometimes sexually or mentally or physically abuse them..bit do they kill them selves ..noo..it's cause they are not weak little brats ..broke is better..it seems to me poor people or poorer people have better quality of life and happiness because they are not weak and they know what real life is ..and they don't make huge deals over stupid things. .and yes ik.Alot what it's like to be picked on..but that's just part of life and you can't ever change that.bullying is a part of life and you just deal with it..then move on to bigger and better things..I don't believe in bullying ..I just thinks it's the way of life and it's inevitable. .and it's foolish to think one can stop bullying 100%cause it will always happen no matter where u go..just deal with it..and if it's to severe or over the top then I guess it Needs to stop but being made fun of is part of life.
She is just weak..like most people in society today..technology and over civilization and conveniences have ruined us ..we are a weak nation of people..just face the facts dude.
You guys realize that back in medieval times they used this type of public humiliation to shame criminals. CRIMINALS! The fact that this father did the same thing to his daughter that they once did to criminals is disgusting and saddening. I bet the father is sitting there with egg on his face now since he is forced to bury his child. He is going to have to look at her without her hair and be forced to remember what he did to her. I think this is one of the saddest stories you've done this year Ti.
"Monitor your kid"?! What does that matter if your not willing to help in a considerable manner? One reason your child gets bullyed is cause bullys sense the weak connection to the parent/family.
yeah I ask that father the same damn question he asked her- was it fucking worth it? I will always believe that shame is a dangerous damaging thing. this story really shows that.
I don't know if it was her Step-Father but Step Dads tend to act like jealous boyfriends for some reason, women shouldn't allow them to discipline their daughters...or sons for that matter!!!.
Maybe if they are the only dad they’ve ever known from the time they’re preschool, but in general I agree with you. By the way, you look very beautiful!
One time I grunted when my mom was talking. She exploded and cursed at me and shamed me while screaming. This all happened in the middle of a mall store. When we got home, she hit me and dragged me across the floor. This was a while ago. I know that being publicly shamed is awful and partly understand how she feels, although her situation is a whole lot worse. I’m sorry, I just really wanted to get that off my chest.
A father has a daughter's heart and does that with it. Hmm wonder what kind of "man" he'd giving his blessing to if he thinks something like this is ok.
you also have to understand what did she do, she could have been spoiled They both were at fault here and he could have done way worse I'm not saying she should have died but kids gotta learn somehow and if its from embarrassment then so be it its better then how kids are disciplined now a days
+Momoakarayray seriously how can you say that I had a person who killed the self in my family and someone else who tried and it's so hard to go through and that guy should be in jail oh yea and another person in my family who tried to kill himself was my brother and he tried it with a belt so before you even say something like that again you don't publicly humiliate your kid your supposed to discipline them but not like this you are supposed to love your kid be there for your kid and most of all show that kid you wouldn't do anything in the world to hurt that kid and I'm 11 and I'm adopted my biological mom was abusive and she didn't harm me but my half brother has something mentally wrong with him cause abuse so yea I kinda understand what that girl was going through I've had a uneasy life but as worse as hers and I hope her stupid dad is throne in jail and they throw away the key
The fact is that a lot of parents are using this "humiliation tactic" on social media nowadays and there's so many ppl (mainly parents) praising the parents that do this but that's such a dangerous line to cross bc you never know how badly it could affect the child like in this case.. so sad
Angel boy=troublemaker, deserves whatever he gets girl=innocent poor soul who needs to be sheltered GIVE ME A FREAKING BREAK YOU DUMB PIECES OF TRASH!! i DESPISE double standards like this, those people are ridiculous. selective outrage at it's best. it just answers the good old question, do girls get treated better than boys. i'm a female and it irks the deepest part of my soul
I think there was more baggage with this father-child relationship than we are seeing, and this public shaming thing was the final straw for her. This girl's cry for attention was handled negatively and the father will carry it on his shoulders forever. R.I.P. that beautiful little soul
I remember how this news was going around the Filipino-American community.The father thought he'd be recognized for that $hit and get some father of the year award or something. Sometimes,parents are the ones who don't think of the consequences.
what happened to just talking to your kid ? my parents used to talk to me once a week just asking how I was doing they let me lead the conversation and I could open up to them .I didn't see the benefits then but now I am great full for it .
My mom was the same way...she died now im at peace. Some people dont deserve kids. They strive for the attention to people to get a laugh at a Child. But in the end he will pay for how he made his daughter felt. Its hard to be normal in a world full of critizism. But when it comes from family its the worst. May god bless the family.
Supposedly, she was caught sending inappropriate text to an older boy...So, her farther decided to cut her hair, I guess to make her unattractive..Honestly, you have to know your kid, if they have issues dont mess with them like that.
I think the public shaming as discipline needs to stop! It has gotten way out of control. I never in a million years would think to do something like that to my daughter. She is 28 now. Happy, healthy and thriving with her own kids! :) I'm all for technology, but not for intentionally hurting your kids or anyone for that matter. TFS ~ Pat :)
That's so messed up and, she was such a pretty girl 😔 may she RIP. As for these parents who punish their kids via social media, what ever happened to punishing your child WITHOUT validation from ppl you don't know? What I mean is what's the point? Why embarrass your child publicly like this? Keep it a private matter. And I also think that this situation runs much deeper than just this one incident.
This is so sad .. I really do look at this as a form of bullying. This man basically bullied his child into committing suicide. I hope he feels absolutely horrible & faces criminal charges. I do personally feel like he has abused her off camera as well. Nobody just does this out of nowhere .. But I also blame the mother, she could have said something & stood up for her child. She could have prevented this.
This story seriously brought tears to my eyes. This is incredibly sad. Some "parents" are taking this punishment and social media thing too far as they seemingly forget that what you put on the internet is forever. Punishing a child is one thing, but one should never upload it to the internet to prove a point. I don't care who you are, that is extremely poor parenting if you feel like you have to do that.
I personally think parents should stop parenting and torturing their children online before many more kids end up dead. My heart goes out to the little girl and her family. Now her father will have to deal with the grief of his daughter's death forever. He can never take his actions back. He's probably hurting deeply from the viral video he did of her. Some parenting videos not just worth posted on social media.
omg... I know this is old but dam.... I am a mom to a little girl.... sometimes being a parent is hard.... we don't always see the fine line between bullying and discipline...... This is something we must learn considering our kids need to be able to trust us.....
I agree with you, like what was he thinking. He was suppose to do better. She was a child and needed protection not ridicule. You have to think, it saves lives. I only wish she is now at peace.
Personally if this was ever done to me I would've been angry and resentful forever, because that's a selfish act when parents do that. Discipline your kids in your home, it's no one else's business.
This just breaks my heart. She was such a beautiful girl with her whole life ahead of her. I think she had already gone through a lot, and her father shaming her was the last straw. Why would he do such a thing? So sad.
Thank you for posting this. This is really getting out of hand it just gets worst and worst because parents want fame instead of being concerned about the welfare of there kids.
Her younger brother committed suicide last week Friday... Praying he is with his older sister and has found peace at last. I hope the family finds the help they need and that the last remaining child is protected. RIP J
This is so sad. My daughter went through a hard time through school. She kept a lot of the hurt to herself. I did what I could at the time. I look back and wish I had of been much harder with the school. For this little girl to be treated like this at home, is really shocking.
I actually had my mom cut off my hair when I was 14. I was one of the few teenage girls who had no interest in having long hair anymore. It's still short and I'm an adult now. But I know to a lot of people their hair means a lot to them. It takes a long time to grow long and you spend a lot of time styling it. Your hair says a lot about your personality for some. Its apart of you.
Its not that the shaming they be doing, its the fact they think they can record the shaming and get away with it. Parents always think, "Oh, let me record this maybe they will learn their lesson." NO this is not a way of kids learning the lesson. Parents don't understand that kids have a wider set in their mind and it can lead to a terrible doing in later life. Some kids still hold on to the terrible memories and more people can help lead them to a path of suicide, depression, disorders, and more. Parents don't watch over their kids like they are suppose to.
The police announced after investigating that he wasn't the one who posted the video online. She shared it privately with friends and someone posted it.
Thanks lovely Ti. I don't buy into the public shaming and this video makes a very good point. Talk to your kids don't beat them or shame them. Take away their phones or ground them.
The problem with public shaming is that it uses embarrassment as a form of punishment and that is never ok. my prayers go out to this girl and her family. I'm sure 're they didn't know how troubled she really felt.
this wrong in so many wayssss 💔💔💔💔😢😢😢😢makes me cry while she was getting her hair cutt she was so calm i cnt image what she was thinking her dad should be ahshamed of his self godforbid rio bby😢
What ever happened to taking phone's away my parents took away things and kept me in the house till i got it together public humiliation is too much ,r.i.p
The love of my parents & maternal grandparents provided me with the love,, support, & strength to ge me through this difficult time in my development. I hope you find peace little one. God bless.
This is why I am in complete disagreement of parents shaming or humiliating their children online through social media. Of course it may not always lead to this but shaming and humiliating is not the answer. When I was growing up, if a parent wanted to discipline you, then they did it behind closed doors, not around people nor did they record it.
He publicly shamed her and she was bullied even more. I blame the father. I hope he feels responsible
+ImTotallySummer
Actually, the Father never posted the video online. The girl herself showed the video to her friends and one of her friends downloaded the video onto her phone and posted it online.
+ImTotallySummer You know being the piece of shit he is that he doesn't.
ImTotallySummer, he belongs in prison.
I would not trust him or like him for what he did.
Dude i agree he ain't a good father for shamin his daughter like that
she was bullied. he broke her guitar and burned her clothes. made her go to school in boys clothes after butchering her hair. he made her drop out of running for president, which is a really positive thing and further more he asked the administrators to inform everyone that she was no longer running for president and they complied. so many things that are special to an individual, especially a teenager, were taken away. she was shamed over a photo of her in leggings and a sports bra and shamed into believing she would never live it down by her father. this was not about just fucking hair. I do believe her father had a very large impact on her decision. I realize she wrote 8 letters and one was to her father and she did convey love but most kids who are severely abused still love their parents, at least when their kids, and she was such a sweet girl. truly. probably the only person who has ever been on UA-cam and had ONLY nice things to say. in the video she wasn't angry, she wasn't screaming or crying. I don't think her calm, scared, empty behavior was a direct result of what he did. she was a sweet girl and her father not only shamed her but did something horrible to a teenage girl and took away so much that was special. she was a beautiful, smart, sweet girl who deserved better. a year later, I'm still heart broken and I never even knew her. I wish it didn't happen, it's shocking but she just had too much and was young and didn't ever see escape so she bolted out of a car and jumped off a bridge.
Brianna McCarter AMEN. WELL SAID. WHAT HER FATHER DID REMINDS ME A LOT OF WHAT MY MOM USE TO DO TO ME. IT'S SAD
Brianna McCarter This is the culture of a man is always wrong...no, she should have minded her parents.. not been an unruly child.
Christopher Wells this was overkill. every teenage girl is gonna do some shit. you really think this was appropriate? a 13-year-old's self esteem is already the most fragile thing on the freaking planet and he pushed it over the edge. this wasn't her fault, he's just a shitty parent.
Christopher Wells it's not about him being a man you idiot, it's about him being a pos who clearly doesn't know how to parent
Christopher Wells I pray that you never have children
13 is such a delicate age for many girls filled with insecurities couldn't imagine being humiliated like this
It's really sad... what the hell was the father thinking??
Matt G I wonder where her mother is in all this
oracle4eva I completely agree
oracle4eva the poor grandmother must be traumatized too right Lord this is horrible!
13 year old girls go through hell in and out of school with studying friends bullies they should'nt be scared to go home or talk to their parents but I'm some cases it is just to heart bteaking. the only thing some people care about is the money and attention not the poor children. I say if you can't treat your child any better keep your darn legs closed and men use protection.
My friends mom cut her hair completely bald in 5th grade because the teacher told her mom that she wouldn't stop playing with it in class. I think if she was a little bit older she definitely would have killed herself. She cried everyday at school, her eyes were always red and she always looked so depressed. That same teacher felt so bad for her she allowed her to wear a hat for the whole year. I don't understand why parents do such petty and ignorant things. Public shaming is disgusting especially of a parent doing it to a child.
Thank god someone finally said that on here
Sounds like her mom was full of demons.
Cait Nu I remember my teacher said my bangs didmt let me see so she made my mom cut my bangs in 1st grade. DUDE I WAS SO SAD KIDS MADE FUN OF ME
i almost cried
We need to stop putting so much importance on woman's hair though , tbh. It's sad when a girl gets her hair cut and feels like she is not a girl anymore.
The irony that I find in all of this is, in the video you hear the father say "was it worth it??" Now that all of this has happened and his daughter committed suicide, I now want to ask him "was it worth it?" My thing is it wasn't just the loss of her hair it was the fact that her father posted it online to further embarrass her after cutting her hair which lead to bullying in school. If her father never made that video and if father getting her hair cut that girl found other alternatives to style her hair until it grew back then maybe she would not have committed suicide. Well that's just my take on things. I hope you understand my point of view. Again love your videos @lovelyti!!
I agree 100%
Sade Coker well said! 👍
Sade Coker agree parents can teach their kids but bulling them too just don't cut it ....when u punish ur CHILDREN ..u do so in consideration... u don't punish them like we are in a third world country ...I hope that father no BULLY ...learns something for this ...if I was mean too lol I'd wish the same for the big bully ...but that's not me ...he will think of this his whole life ..the parents need to wake up n learn
09iloveu09 Punish them like they're in a 3rd world country? What are you talking about?
BC in 3rd world countries they play by their own rules with zero consequences ...
I hate the fact that parents think they have the controller to their child.
And they think they have no feelings.
+FaZe Cat realest comment ever i always felt like my mom or grandma or anyone as an legal guardian in my family understands me yet they say they dont like when i hide things from them and that i should open up to them...but how can i open up if u dont even know half the shit that goes through my head that u wont understand for sure ? plus i have trust issues with opening up to them about things i just do, because i know my mom and judgement comes in a lot ik for a fact shes gonna make a bad comment about it.... is it bad i have trust issues with them ?
Nina Edwards I can't say if it's bad or good to have trust issues with your parents, but you're not the only one. I too have trust issues with my parents because if I ever get bullied or something they're always on the others side, never on my side, they always blame me, I'm always the brat in my family tree. I always hide things from my family and my mom gets really pissed at me if I don't open up, but i know she's not on my side anyways, so why open up? When I look sad and don't tell my parents what's happening, my dad would REALLY get pissed at me and hit me... I live in a very stereotypical family about girls, always have to look happy has to have a clear face, has to stand up straight to " show the body" I mean, the what fuck mom, I'm not a lamborghini, I'm not perfect, and I have to skinny with long hair, but I'm the exact opposite, I'm chubby and I don't really care cause my weight isn't THAT bad, I've always wanted short short hair, I'm kinda hunched back, my forehead has acne and my face expression is always depressed... I just can't escape my family now. But I know they still love me.
FaZe Cat You need to get out of that house and go no contact the moment you move out. That is abuse and emotional blackmail.
FaZe Cat SAME! We are going through the same thing I can't wait to graduate and go to college soon .
My niece was shamed on social media for bad grades. It didn't improve her grades it just made them worse. This is just my opinion but I think social media is borderline child abuse. I never plan on doing that to my kids.
Brett Larch did you just use social media in the same sentence as child abuse? you know how many kids out wish their parents would shame them rather than beat them, rape them, and keep them from eating. THAT'S ABUSE!! i get there's emotional abuse too but i'm sorry when i hear abuse i think of beat down children not shamed kids. anyway i do get what you're saying this stuff rarely works people are just ridiculous
Yup I agree. That kind of public humiliation is child abuse.
T.T. J yes I did use social media and abuse in the same sentence. Social media shaming is emotional abuse. My niece cried and stated it just made her feel terrible. We can disagree though.
T.T. J it's not about what kind of punishment the chil prefers. It's what kind of punishment is in your child's best interest in the long run.
Sherri Solomon sorry, chil should be spelled child.
Now the father should ask himself..."Was his choice of punishment worth losing his daughter??"
Yes, because he never deserved a daughter, nor a partner (which speaking about it, I wonder what he did to his ex wife…)
Its a real shame Isabelle had to suffer this, and had to be in the hands of such an abusive and narcissistic dad. My condolences go to her grandma and other family members, may she rest in peace 😔🕊️
I knew her I feel really bad for this :'( may she rest in peace
LJ Meadows sorry for your loss sweetie.
it's always sad when someone so young dies at such a young age.
my son's friend accidentally committed suicide 2yrs ago at the age of 12
it was very hard for him, but hang in there.
him and his friend recently celebrated his friends 14th birthday with
the kid's parents, and they all had a great time.
remember the good times and stay strong.
I'm very sorry for your loss keep your head up she is with God now
My condolences 🙏
Sorry for your loss. God bless you
LJ Meadows I'm so sorry for loss bro my prayers goes out to you and her family I mean what a shame what her father did to her smh I mean what a fucking disgrace and I hope his soul burns in hell for what he did.
father should be ashamed and so should the people who picked on her at school. willing to bet those same kids were leaving flowers and fb post with tear emojis
Smh this is no joke,.I know how that little girl felt when I was her age. Really no one to talk to, no one to understand your story. It's a quite lonely place. I'm glad I overcame it, it's just saddening a young lady felt like there was no need to live any more. Breaks me up.
Exactly I agree with you I mean what the fuck was the father thinking shaming and humiliating her like that? Smh
I was molested I know how I felt scared and alone. I was 7 to 12 when when it happened and I felt like doing the same thing. I wish I could off been there to help her like somebody done for me.
Tina Sheppard I'm so sorry that happen to you
Thank you both for your kind words. I just get so angry when innocent children get abused. As for me will I live for the knowledge that mean they tried to break me but I am stronger than they thought.
I agree because no one deserves to take their own life.
While I do hope she rests in peace, I am kind of glad that this has gained media attention to show parents what this type of punishment really does to their kids. Public shaming to me is never the answer. We've heard stories of children killing their parents, children getting bullied/killed because of a video of them being disciplined, parents and guardians going to jail for beating their kids on camera, and now the worst that could possibly happen, the children are killing themselves. My only question is all for what? To prove some sick point, there has been no positive outcomes of this type of punishment and it could end very tragic as we have all seen many times. Is your child getting bad grades in school really worth tearing a family apart just for online validation and media attention? I think folks need to wake up and realize that just because this may work for some people, it 9 times out of 10 won't work for you. There are many ways to discipline children, this shouldn't be one of them. #PutTheCameraDown
ooo.k? that was an awkward comment.
***** you always stay positive and give good comments on Ti videos that I learn from. I agree with you 100%. When my parents punished me I felt bad enough much less for it to be put up for the world to see oh nooo
mum
This is the result of a bunch of pansies coddling kids. If she was warned what the punishment would be, then repeatedly pushed buttons, then she could've prevented it. It's sad she died, but this is punishment not "bullying"
+MsPrettypinkpanther8 how can you say that a I got one word for you if crime yes it is a crime but what if it was you or someone in your family ha yeah tables would be turned.
When did public shaming become the new punishment?
Nile Benjamin when the Internet became societies best friend and main social network
Nile Benjamin I know right? This isn't the medieval times.
Nile Benjamin Actually public shaming is just a new term for bullying. Bullying can happen in many different forms and sadly that includes people who are supposed to love you and have your back. Seems this poor girl had neither.
I guess when people got full of demons
When parents gave up...
A NOTE TO ALL PARENTS: Don't become your child's first bully.
The video of him cutting her hair was hard to watch, it wasn't funny. It seemed like he was showing off for the camera. This story really hit a soft spot with me. She was so beautiful, and had her whole life ahead of her. You're right Ti, her parents were probably just punishing her for misbehaving instead of really looking into WHY she was misbehaving. Now that father/stepfather is going to have to live with that for the rest of his life. I can only imagine how the grandmother feels having witnessed that. May this beautiful girl rest in peace.
As much as my kids piss me off I WILL NEVER PUBLICLY SHAME THEM LIKE THIS😔😔😔
Same
He pushed his daughter over the edge just for validation. Thats terrible.
The father is particularly cruel, and to shame her like that? Where was the mother, to stop this? What happened to grounding a child, maybe take away the phone or tv... He must have been a tyrant in the home, to be so extreme.So sad.....
Solaris Baby Maybe her mothers dead ever thought of that?
Not the point of the video.....move on please.
I would think the mother wasnt around...I would NEVER let my kids dad do this to my child.
Well, based on some of the video public humiliation done to children by their own moms, it wouldn’t surprise me if she did it too.
About a week ago a senior at my school killed himself bc his mom kept telling him he's worthless and isn't going to be anything in life and he got bullied at school it's so sad to see parents like this
My parents shaved off my hair, 2 different times when I was a kid. I had to endure being called The Somalian Boy by one of my classmates. At some point in my early 20s, somehow the convo our family was having turned to the time our parents shaved our heads, I told them that a fellow classmate called me The Somalian Boy...my dad was surprised...like he didn't realize I would have been called names.
why the f did they do that?
My mom would take us to the salon and we'd get the perm and then we'd get our hair tight curled, so our hair would look like Sophia Pettrilo's from Golden Girls. I'd play with my hair, try and undo the curls and just play with my hair because that's what little girls do.
So that would piss my mom off.
I think the other time was that they spent too much time and money dealing with our hair, perming it, braiding it, washing it, etc . So they shaved it all off.
You poor darling!
what is going on with these parents nowdays
Stupidity & attention whoring!
Jalen Mccaster idiots with cameras
Ikr? Smh
Kae S exactly I agree with 100% well said.
seems they're worse than the kids smdh😕
When I was 14, I had a female friend. She had a shaved head, I thought it was pretty cool at the time, I thought it looked pretty "punk rock". I asked her about it. She said,
"My step mom shaved all my hair off when she was mad at me :(("
After meeting the stepmom, wow, that woman was disgusting and crazy. I feel so bad for that girl. Sometimes I wonder what ever happened to her. Im 25 now, so this must have happened around 11 years ago. See, parents were doing this shit EVEN BACK THEN.
WHO THE FUCK WOULD DO THIS TO A CHILD????????
people need to learn the word EMPATHY. empathy is far more important than sympathy. empathy helps people to learn how to get over themselves, and helps people understand you are never the only one that has suffered and makes mistakes. if people used more EMPATHY than sympathy things like this would never happen. look up the difference, and apply it to your lives, everyone will appreciate it. thank you.
Public shaming is definitely not the way to parent. Come on parents you have to care more about your kid than your ego or whatever is motivating you to do this. Do unto others starts at home.
This is the reason why parents who choose to do this are making a potentially deadly mistake! This is such a bad, idiotic idea! It should be against the law to do such a thing to your child..a form of child abuse!
The dad is crazy really CUTTING her hair just ground her for crying out loud
it's hair it grows back and the she should have just given it a year to blow over but I guess that is a better way to deal with it.hmm
Yeah ..and kids starve in africa..and have no parents and live on their own and have to live with abusive aunts and uncles ,who sometimes sexually or mentally or physically abuse them..bit do they kill them selves ..noo..it's cause they are not weak little brats ..broke is better..it seems to me poor people or poorer people have better quality of life and happiness because they are not weak and they know what real life is ..and they don't make huge deals over stupid things. .and yes ik.Alot what it's like to be picked on..but that's just part of life and you can't ever change that.bullying is a part of life and you just deal with it..then move on to bigger and better things..I don't believe in bullying ..I just thinks it's the way of life and it's inevitable. .and it's foolish to think one can stop bullying 100%cause it will always happen no matter where u go..just deal with it..and if it's to severe or over the top then I guess it Needs to stop but being made fun of is part of life.
She is just weak..like most people in society today..technology and over civilization and conveniences have ruined us ..we are a weak nation of people..just face the facts dude.
+lorene bonsu hi please educate yourself on mental illness. Thank you have a good day.
Does she or does she not have a mental illness?Huh.If she does not you have literally no arguement...
parents need to stop shaming their children on social media as a form of punishment !!
You guys realize that back in medieval times they used this type of public humiliation to shame criminals. CRIMINALS! The fact that this father did the same thing to his daughter that they once did to criminals is disgusting and saddening. I bet the father is sitting there with egg on his face now since he is forced to bury his child. He is going to have to look at her without her hair and be forced to remember what he did to her. I think this is one of the saddest stories you've done this year Ti.
"Monitor your kid"?! What does that matter if your not willing to help in a considerable manner? One reason your child gets bullyed is cause bullys sense the weak connection to the parent/family.
This exactly why you don’t publicly humiliate you children. It can lead to depression, suicidal thoughts and more. Rip😢🕊
This is hard to swallow.
May she rest in peace.
Where are all the people going "My parents did this, that, and the other and I turned out great"? I hate those sorry people.
I am so tried of the "shaming" of our children. What happened to us loving and protecting our children?!
yeah I ask that father the same damn question he asked her- was it fucking worth it? I will always believe that shame is a dangerous damaging thing. this story really shows that.
I don't know if it was her Step-Father but Step Dads tend to act like jealous boyfriends for some reason, women shouldn't allow them to discipline their daughters...or sons for that matter!!!.
Maybe if they are the only dad they’ve ever known from the time they’re preschool, but in general I agree with you. By the way, you look very beautiful!
My father acted like this.
One time I grunted when my mom was talking. She exploded and cursed at me and shamed me while screaming. This all happened in the middle of a mall store. When we got home, she hit me and dragged me across the floor. This was a while ago. I know that being publicly shamed is awful and partly understand how she feels, although her situation is a whole lot worse.
I’m sorry, I just really wanted to get that off my chest.
Did anyone say anything to her?
A father has a daughter's heart and does that with it. Hmm wonder what kind of "man" he'd giving his blessing to if he thinks something like this is ok.
you also have to understand what did she do, she could have been spoiled
They both were at fault here and he could have done way worse I'm not saying she should have died but kids gotta learn somehow and if its from embarrassment then so be it its better then how kids are disciplined now a days
Momoakarayray Are you nuts? What that father did was mental abuse, and should be in jail
+Momoakarayray seriously how can you say that I had a person who killed the self in my family and someone else who tried and it's so hard to go through and that guy should be in jail oh yea and another person in my family who tried to kill himself was my brother and he tried it with a belt so before you even say something like that again you don't publicly humiliate your kid your supposed to discipline them but not like this you are supposed to love your kid be there for your kid and most of all show that kid you wouldn't do anything in the world to hurt that kid and I'm 11 and I'm adopted my biological mom was abusive and she didn't harm me but my half brother has something mentally wrong with him cause abuse so yea I kinda understand what that girl was going through I've had a uneasy life but as worse as hers and I hope her stupid dad is throne in jail and they throw away the key
No parent has the right to do that to their child.
The fact is that a lot of parents are using this "humiliation tactic" on social media nowadays and there's so many ppl (mainly parents) praising the parents that do this but that's such a dangerous line to cross bc you never know how badly it could affect the child like in this case.. so sad
Parents need to stop doing shit like this....
I went to school with her... She was such an amazing person she did not deserve this. Rip Izzy we miss you
SHE WAS PRETTY
Prettier than you 4 sure
Derrick Dame uncalled for
she was a beautiful girl
How everybody was cheering and laughing when the parents did this to the boys?
Angel boy=troublemaker, deserves whatever he gets
girl=innocent poor soul who needs to be sheltered
GIVE ME A FREAKING BREAK YOU DUMB PIECES OF TRASH!! i DESPISE double standards like this, those people are ridiculous. selective outrage at it's best. it just answers the good old question, do girls get treated better than boys. i'm a female and it irks the deepest part of my soul
T.T. J girls get treated better
What boy I'm confused
I think there was more baggage with this father-child relationship than we are seeing, and this public shaming thing was the final straw for her. This girl's cry for attention was handled negatively and the father will carry it on his shoulders forever.
R.I.P. that beautiful little soul
I remember how this news was going around the Filipino-American community.The father thought he'd be recognized for that $hit and get some father of the year award or something. Sometimes,parents are the ones who don't think of the consequences.
what happened to just talking to your kid ? my parents used to talk to me once a week just asking how I was doing they let me lead the conversation and I could open up to them .I didn't see the benefits then but now I am great full for it .
The sad part is- my parents would do the same thing.
I’m sorry to hear that. I hope you are in a better place now.
Parents need to SUPPORT their children.. NOT humiliate them!!!
:'( my heart still breaks for her
These parents are probably going to start getting be locked up soon.
He's sounds like a very controlling man! He will reap what he has sown.😓
My mom was the same way...she died now im at peace. Some people dont deserve kids. They strive for the attention to people to get a laugh at a Child. But in the end he will pay for how he made his daughter felt. Its hard to be normal in a world full of critizism. But when it comes from family its the worst. May god bless the family.
Supposedly, she was caught sending inappropriate text to an older boy...So, her farther decided to cut her hair, I guess to make her unattractive..Honestly, you have to know your kid, if they have issues dont mess with them like that.
what kind of person does something like this? What was he thinking what he gained with all this? He should be in jail
I think the public shaming as discipline needs to stop! It has gotten way out of control. I never in a million years would think to do something like that to my daughter. She is 28 now. Happy, healthy and thriving with her own kids! :) I'm all for technology, but not for intentionally hurting your kids or anyone for that matter. TFS ~ Pat :)
That's so messed up and, she was such a pretty girl 😔 may she RIP. As for these parents who punish their kids via social media, what ever happened to punishing your child WITHOUT validation from ppl you don't know? What I mean is what's the point? Why embarrass your child publicly like this? Keep it a private matter. And I also think that this situation runs much deeper than just this one incident.
Some people don't deserve to have kids. All his other kids should be taken away immediately.
Wow!!! Dad she was your princess!!! Your job was to keep her safe.
That father is a total scumbag. I hope he is overwhelmed with guilt.
i think every household should go by the saying "what happens in this house stays in this house"
+Vanflower :3 *Househole
Phillip Benoit XD
+Vanflower :3 That's what abusive parents say to their kids.
Zukiswa Matthews my mom says that and she isn't abusive....
I didn't mean that parents who say that are abusive. I mean that abusive parents say that to their kids.
This is so sad .. I really do look at this as a form of bullying. This man basically bullied his child into committing suicide. I hope he feels absolutely horrible & faces criminal charges. I do personally feel like he has abused her off camera as well. Nobody just does this out of nowhere .. But I also blame the mother, she could have said something & stood up for her child. She could have prevented this.
This story seriously brought tears to my eyes. This is incredibly sad. Some "parents" are taking this punishment and social media thing too far as they seemingly forget that what you put on the internet is forever. Punishing a child is one thing, but one should never upload it to the internet to prove a point. I don't care who you are, that is extremely poor parenting if you feel like you have to do that.
I personally think parents should stop parenting and torturing their children online before many more kids end up dead. My heart goes out to the little girl and her family. Now her father will have to deal with the grief of his daughter's death forever. He can never take his actions back. He's probably hurting deeply from the viral video he did of her. Some parenting videos not just worth posted on social media.
It feels good knowing her father with live with the guilt and shame for the rest of his life
This is so sad that father will have to live with that guilt knowing he was the one that pushed her to the edge where she committed suicide
RIP. I would NEVER intentionally shame my child for any reason. I believe the foundation of self esteem begins at home.
That's horrible. I have social anxiety and honestly, if that happened to me, I'd probably go insane.
omg... I know this is old but dam.... I am a mom to a little girl.... sometimes being a parent is hard.... we don't always see the fine line between bullying and discipline...... This is something we must learn considering our kids need to be able to trust us.....
Felicia A ok but you used to be little and yo used to be your kids age Soo you know the deal of bullying and discipline
I agree with you, like what was he thinking. He was suppose to do better. She was a child and needed protection not ridicule. You have to think, it saves lives. I only wish she is now at peace.
Personally if this was ever done to me I would've been angry and resentful forever, because that's a selfish act when parents do that. Discipline your kids in your home, it's no one else's business.
So sad. I am a 51 yr old man and cried when seing this.
FUCK MY RIGHT EAR AT 1:20
you too. YES My head phones are OK
omg I thought it was just my headphones man 😂
Ikr😂
Ikr 😂😂😂
Kayla Wilson same,haha
This just breaks my heart. She was such a beautiful girl with her whole life ahead of her. I think she had already gone through a lot, and her father shaming her was the last straw. Why would he do such a thing? So sad.
Thank you for posting this. This is really getting out of hand it just gets worst and worst because parents want fame instead of being concerned about the welfare of there kids.
I hope the father is being charged for treating a child like this 😢😢😢
Can someone ask this sorry excuse for a "father", if HE thinks, it was worth it! I´m so pissed right now!!
Her younger brother committed suicide last week Friday... Praying he is with his older sister and has found peace at last. I hope the family finds the help they need and that the last remaining child is protected. RIP J
This is so sad. My daughter went through a hard time through school. She kept a lot of the hurt to herself. I did what I could at the time. I look back and wish I had of been much harder with the school. For this little girl to be treated like this at home, is really shocking.
this is the shit I have been arguing with "parents" about. you can't create your own storm and then cry when it rains.
I don't think parents should shame their kids online cuz they r gonna end up bullied and it's just gonna keep on getting worse
I agreeeee THIS BULLYING NEEDS TO STOP !! as if a father would do that to his own daughter 😪
I actually had my mom cut off my hair when I was 14. I was one of the few teenage girls who had no interest in having long hair anymore. It's still short and I'm an adult now. But I know to a lot of people their hair means a lot to them. It takes a long time to grow long and you spend a lot of time styling it. Your hair says a lot about your personality for some. Its apart of you.
i wonder how that dad feels now...🐸☕
Yea he should be ashamed of hisself and he shouldn't ever come out and show his face in public
You don't cut a girl's hair, it's like making a boy wear a dress with nail polish.
Its not that the shaming they be doing, its the fact they think they can record the shaming and get away with it. Parents always think, "Oh, let me record this maybe they will learn their lesson." NO this is not a way of kids learning the lesson. Parents don't understand that kids have a wider set in their mind and it can lead to a terrible doing in later life. Some kids still hold on to the terrible memories and more people can help lead them to a path of suicide, depression, disorders, and more. Parents don't watch over their kids like they are suppose to.
The police announced after investigating that he wasn't the one who posted the video online. She shared it privately with friends and someone posted it.
I don't care how disobedient my kids may be but this is something I would never do. My heart aches for this girl.
When parenting goes too far, R.I.P to this young lady.
This is why publicly embarrassing and bullying your children as “punishment” is NOT OKAY.
STEP IT UP PARENTS.
Unbelievable.
The man is worthless his job as a father is to love his daughter and help her his job wasn't to destroy her
I wonder what happened to the father.
Thanks lovely Ti. I don't buy into the public shaming and this video makes a very good point. Talk to your kids don't beat them or shame them. Take away their phones or ground them.
Really heartbreaking and make you wish that you can talked and comfort her. She might still be alive
Somebody needs to ask the fathers stupid butt..."Was it worth it?" Social media is a blessing to intelligent people ans a curse to stupid people.
I drive under that bridge everyday to get to school, and I always think about her.
The problem with public shaming is that it uses embarrassment as a form of punishment and that is never ok. my prayers go out to this girl and her family. I'm sure 're they didn't know how troubled she really felt.
The father did not post the video to shame her. She sent the video to her friends and one of them uploaded the video
Just the same; that’s a messed-up way to treat your kid.
this wrong in so many wayssss 💔💔💔💔😢😢😢😢makes me cry while she was getting her hair cutt she was so calm i cnt image what she was thinking her dad should be ahshamed of his self godforbid rio bby😢
What ever happened to taking phone's away my parents took away things and kept me in the house till i got it together public humiliation is too much ,r.i.p
The love of my parents & maternal grandparents provided me with the love,, support, & strength to ge me through this difficult time in my development. I hope you find peace little one. God bless.
I'm just wondering is the dad alive after what he drove his daughter to do what a sad price to pay !
This is why I am in complete disagreement of parents shaming or humiliating their children online through social media. Of course it may not always lead to this but shaming and humiliating is not the answer. When I was growing up, if a parent wanted to discipline you, then they did it behind closed doors, not around people nor did they record it.