MY MOM ANSWERS QUESTIONS YOU'RE TOO SCARED TO ASK YOUR MOMS | South African Youtuber

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  • @mabasavongani5019
    @mabasavongani5019 3 роки тому +288

    🥺SBWL your mother argh she’s everything a girl child needs🥰

  • @nolusindisonono2425
    @nolusindisonono2425 3 роки тому +523

    Lebo mother is so beautiful 🥺🥺❤️❤️

  • @nokuvelaputini8408
    @nokuvelaputini8408 3 роки тому +409

    This would also be cool from a dad’s perspective.

  • @meesheeli9107
    @meesheeli9107 3 роки тому +145

    "As long as you live under my roof you are a child" My mom written all over this statement😂😂💔

  • @afikiledube1997
    @afikiledube1997 2 роки тому +245

    Your mom is so beautiful and her open minded nature makes her even more beautiful, I love her! Also damn, I thought my mom was the most open minded and coolest person ever until I listened to your mom.

  • @nondumisomhlongo
    @nondumisomhlongo 2 роки тому +76

    "A mom will never lose a child because they don't agree with their decisions", yoh what would we be without our supportive moms ♥️

  • @glorymanyike1835
    @glorymanyike1835 3 роки тому +147

    “Yeah, you can…if you are a mom”😂😂

  • @_Becca.M
    @_Becca.M 2 роки тому +111

    Just discovered your channel through this video. You have the coolest mom ever.

  • @loyisogroom9860
    @loyisogroom9860 2 роки тому +43

    "Mom's are not born as mom's" we learn along the way and review our decisions and how we raise our kids especially first borns. As a mom I love this perspective, give yourself grace as parents but not to the detriment of the child obvs.

  • @mbhali_shandu
    @mbhali_shandu 3 роки тому +50

    I wish I had a mother 😣, ypur mother is amazing!

  • @silungilehlatshwayo
    @silungilehlatshwayo 3 роки тому +85

    I loved the TMI answer hey😭❤. Motswadi shouldn't know everything, that also creates a healthy boundary between you guys

    • @queencullinary5611
      @queencullinary5611 3 роки тому

      I couldn't have said it better ❤️

    • @nondumisomhlongo
      @nondumisomhlongo 2 роки тому +1

      I don't agree. I am glad my mom allowed me to TMI her to the 9s. No judgements there, unlike with friends.

  • @mahlatsemasha2308
    @mahlatsemasha2308 3 роки тому +54

    Mom is literally my fave🥺❤️
    Love how calm she is.

  • @KoketsoMunonde
    @KoketsoMunonde 3 роки тому +127

    My mom definitely started having "uncomfortable" conversations when I was 10. And honestly I'm sooo greatful she did.

    • @jaftaabulele3140
      @jaftaabulele3140 3 роки тому +3

      That's great... I had to initiate the uncomfortable conversations with my mom. The more I grew older and she started noticing that I was aware and opiniotated about a lot of things ( varsity years) she started opening up about somethings.

    • @KoketsoMunonde
      @KoketsoMunonde 3 роки тому +8

      @@jaftaabulele3140 background counts hey and that's why we shouldn't compare parents, my mom says she spoke to me cause she didn't want me to go discover by myself like she did. Because she wished she had been talked to she swore to do that with her kids.

    • @ChromaPaletteCreations
      @ChromaPaletteCreations 2 роки тому

      At least your mother spoke to you at that age. My mother always said to me “ they teach you about this at school so why should I”.

    • @KoketsoMunonde
      @KoketsoMunonde 2 роки тому +2

      @@ChromaPaletteCreations really? And did y'all actually get sex education? I did at school but my talks with my mom were more holistic in terms of being inclusive of spirituality, emotions, physical and of cause the consequences.

    • @ChromaPaletteCreations
      @ChromaPaletteCreations 2 роки тому

      @@KoketsoMunonde yes we had sex education at school but not with my mom. She always finds it awkward to talk about it

  • @Ce_LeeT
    @Ce_LeeT 3 роки тому +88

    Lebo your mom is woke she knows what "situationships" is. Cool mom right there, enjoyed this video 🤞🏻🔥

  • @reratilwefinger
    @reratilwefinger 3 роки тому +102

    She exhumes so much peace . May God continue to bless her soul. I loved watching this video. Thank you Lebo💫 and thank you to your mama🤍

    • @queencullinary5611
      @queencullinary5611 3 роки тому

      😊❤️

    • @au_badela
      @au_badela 2 роки тому

      @@fragilehandlewithcare3967 😂😂😂😂ndiyakuthanda kodwa I read this in your voice and that’s what makes it funny

  • @siyabonga_dagirl529
    @siyabonga_dagirl529 2 роки тому +34

    Your mom gave me some parenting advice actually. Especially the part of when to start talking openly to your children. I got a 4 year old baby girl and she's given me insight. No man, she needs a to come back. I learned a lot from her

  • @boitumelomotaung9898
    @boitumelomotaung9898 3 роки тому +57

    When mom said "as long as you're living under my roof you are a a child", I felt it. It was like speaking to my mother😂

    • @mulamulelisimba
      @mulamulelisimba 2 роки тому

      My mind just quickly brought up the "Kamo ke haka" gogo 😂😂

  • @GodAboveAll888
    @GodAboveAll888 2 роки тому +22

    There's 4 Perspective that's needed. 1) Mothers - Daughter 2) Mother - Son vice verse with the Father.
    This is more related to daughter's n Mothers

  • @oleratomatsheka5549
    @oleratomatsheka5549 2 роки тому +28

    Bathong mama, 🥺❤️. She answered everything so perfectly. Definitely subscribing because of her 🥺🥺

  • @S.phiwokuhle
    @S.phiwokuhle 2 роки тому +23

    Your mom is so similar to mine, just that my mother is loud and uphaphile😂😂I love that we can have these conversations with our mothers because for a girl child it is so important.

  • @JenniferN55
    @JenniferN55 3 роки тому +45

    Your mum is so realistic, I love it ❤️❤️

  • @mahlatsitshabalala848
    @mahlatsitshabalala848 2 роки тому +25

    your mom is so cool, she exudes good parenting energy and I love the relationship you have

  • @donne-leighpienaar5476
    @donne-leighpienaar5476 3 роки тому +21

    lebhos mum shut us all up there by ‘whether you’re what age,my roof,my rules’😭😭😭

  • @taniachiloane3771
    @taniachiloane3771 3 роки тому +18

    "Whatever black mom means" 😂😂😂

  • @katlegokweetsane2758
    @katlegokweetsane2758 3 роки тому +35

    You have the coolest mom ever. I love her energy so much. Such a wise lady. 👌🏽🌻🙂

  • @siphiwogumbi8517
    @siphiwogumbi8517 3 роки тому +121

    Lebohang, can we please have a dad’s perspective !!!!!!!

    • @Lebohang.02
      @Lebohang.02  2 роки тому +18

      My dad would never🤣

    • @siphiwogumbi8517
      @siphiwogumbi8517 2 роки тому +29

      @@Lebohang.02 Even if it isn't your biological Dad, we gotta have a Male perspective. Please !!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @khatmanworld
      @khatmanworld 2 роки тому +1

      @@Lebohang.02 that'd be super dope

  • @daphnemefi
    @daphnemefi 3 роки тому +83

    This really helped me as a young mom, my eldest is 7 but better to be prepared 🙂
    Thanks mommy wa Lebo 😘

  • @zanelengema7354
    @zanelengema7354 2 роки тому +22

    Your mom is soo well informed , I like her she’s is honest 🥰

  • @aphiwemagaya3279
    @aphiwemagaya3279 2 роки тому +5

    I'm a guy and I like this mom bathong,I'm learning a lot because the advices she gave apply to everyone regardless of sexuality/gender/race...

  • @heyitstumi
    @heyitstumi 2 роки тому +16

    Your mom is so smart! She has a realistic mindset! I love it! ❤️

  • @tholoanamatlaletsa9853
    @tholoanamatlaletsa9853 3 роки тому +30

    I love how open minded and loving your mom is ♥️♥️

  • @Barista_Skills28
    @Barista_Skills28 3 роки тому +36

    When lebo's mom said hell no👌😂😂💖to polygamy marriage🔥

  • @wilkanandjila4220
    @wilkanandjila4220 2 роки тому +5

    I love your mom's point views so much ❤ best black mom ever 🤞
    Love from Namibia 🇳🇦

  • @NalediSwaratlhe
    @NalediSwaratlhe 2 роки тому +38

    This was so helpful. Getting it from a mother's perspective , a lot of things make sense now.

  • @reatlegilemashigo4100
    @reatlegilemashigo4100 3 роки тому +34

    🥺 I honestly appreciate how your mom’s mood whilst having this “ uncomfortable” conversation has not become sour ( because a lot of the time moms tend to be uncomfortable themselves and that would be the reason for the sour attitude” I mean she’s clearly very comfortable because we see so much of her personality throughout. I also really like how your mom is very realistic about the possible things us as teens are doing dating, being sexually active etc she’s not turning a blind eye towards these things. Thank you for this informative video because it’s probably helping teens out there who haven’t been given the platform to talk about such.
    Btw I absolutely adore your mom and love her personality ❤️ thanks to mom.

  • @megamenoreinhordt8081
    @megamenoreinhordt8081 2 роки тому +11

    Mommy's answers are so clear and very relevant helpful. She is such an inspiration 💗💖 thank 😊you mama for always answering the questions. The teens are learning and I hope other mothers are learning

  • @skyhigh7773
    @skyhigh7773 2 роки тому +11

    I'm Lithuanian, so white. My mom and dad says exsacly the same things. Your mom's maturity and similarity with my parents in my eyes makes your mother feel really dear to my heart, wish you both a long and healthy lifes ❤️ sėkmės!

  • @nolusindisonono2425
    @nolusindisonono2425 3 роки тому +34

    Mom is definitely a favorite arrrg I love her she’s such a vibe 😍😍

  • @muimamakonano2688
    @muimamakonano2688 2 роки тому +47

    I am the first and only born. After listening to your mom, basically my mom is learning ka nna🥲 I'm an experiment. Yes today, no tomorrow. 😭

  • @tholakelemoletsane8837
    @tholakelemoletsane8837 2 роки тому +24

    I enjoyed this video. Your mom is such a calm and sweet person.

  • @asandan4298
    @asandan4298 3 роки тому +24

    “Why ele husband osa mo lovi already”😭😭
    Ya norh I felt mom’s presence!🥰 Samthandi!!😭❤️❤️

  • @lethabos1
    @lethabos1 3 роки тому +77

    It's the beautiful bare faces for me!

    • @lethabos1
      @lethabos1 3 роки тому +3

      I fully agree about creating that platform with your children at 10 or a young age cause then they will always feel kinda comfy with speaking up to you as their Mom about the different things that they go through instead of feeling scared to bring them up. She's spot on with that answer.

    • @Lebohang.02
      @Lebohang.02  3 роки тому

      Thank you Sis🥰

  • @sihle_khums
    @sihle_khums 2 роки тому +16

    A conversation I didn't know I needed. Love this ❤

  • @LeratoSegalo
    @LeratoSegalo 3 роки тому +14

    I think these are much needed conversations between mothers/ parents and their children , especially in this day and age. I thoroughly enjoyed this. 👏. You’re mom is beautiful btw😍

  • @thandosithole3534
    @thandosithole3534 3 роки тому +15

    “Yeah, you can if you’re a mom”😹I love this🥺😻❤️

  • @ursulashabalala
    @ursulashabalala 3 роки тому +31

    “You can if you are are a mom” ❤️😂😂

  • @Lati_Moyo
    @Lati_Moyo 3 роки тому +17

    Lebo has the most calmest , gentle and sweet mom ever. 🥺

  • @maipelon
    @maipelon 3 роки тому +18

    Your mom is such a lovely person ❤️❤️ every time I see her in the thumbnail I know I’m going to enjoy the video

  • @prettykarabo7141
    @prettykarabo7141 3 роки тому +20

    “TMI TMI TMI” yoh I learned a lot from this video😭❤️❤️

  • @okuhlenotununu992
    @okuhlenotununu992 3 роки тому +38

    I smiled throughout this video, you and mama are so beautiful 😇

  • @vuvulicious41
    @vuvulicious41 3 роки тому +29

    When I see your mom I like before even watching and am never disappointed.. 😘💖

    • @Lebohang.02
      @Lebohang.02  3 роки тому +1

      🤣she needs to come on often then!🙆‍♀️

  • @keamotsapi
    @keamotsapi 3 роки тому +26

    God has favourites and you’re one of them 🥺

  • @tshepisomp3281
    @tshepisomp3281 3 роки тому +17

    My 3rd year culinarily lecture (2016)💝The best ❤️#She gives the best advice

  • @mahlatsemonyela
    @mahlatsemonyela 3 роки тому +21

    I love how your mom is so calm 😍 you're both so beautiful. I enjoyed this!

  • @phathutshedzonoleen1914
    @phathutshedzonoleen1914 2 роки тому +21

    I wish all moms were open just like her... As children we end up living a double life, we impress parents at home and then we live different lives outside cos it's hard to converse, asks or tell our parents certain things.

  • @Itumelengmatlou
    @Itumelengmatlou 3 роки тому +11

    I'm 37 my daughter is 18 and she is more open to talk to me about anything than anyone else. And i'm glad i gave her that room to be open then is better to learn things from me in that way she will make better decisions about her life

    • @queencullinary5611
      @queencullinary5611 3 роки тому +2

      I'm sure she appreciate your openess and for giving her the freedom to express herself freely❤️

    • @Itumelengmatlou
      @Itumelengmatlou 3 роки тому

      @@queencullinary5611 definently is she experiencing something unusual with her periods she calls and ask. I also appreciate that more cause i wouldn't know anything

  • @anelisiwembo3852
    @anelisiwembo3852 3 роки тому +19

    Wow! You're really blessed Lebo ohk! This is beautiful. It's truly rare to find black parent this open and understanding. Truly enjoyed and appreciate this video❤️❤️ 🥺🥺. Dr mom is soo pretty bathong ❤️

  • @cynthiaturya744
    @cynthiaturya744 2 роки тому +11

    Just stumbled on this video, arg I love your mom and her outlook on life. Bless y’all 💕

  • @nolwazihopesithole8757
    @nolwazihopesithole8757 2 роки тому +17

    I absolutely love how your mom answered all the questions. She’s so open minded 🤌🏽

  • @sharonthemba8764
    @sharonthemba8764 2 роки тому +5

    I love your mom. She is full of wisdom and life. ❤. She has a great sense of humor

  • @simplyambermgushelwa
    @simplyambermgushelwa 3 роки тому +18

    Love your mom she makes so much sense , beautiful woman aswell 💞🙂 sending love to you both ❤️

  • @missteekay01
    @missteekay01 3 роки тому +30

    Your mom is right about 10/11 years…My mom had conversations with me since I was 10. It was weird at first but now I can ask her anything, she created a safe space early.🤍✨

  • @nomsiegrace1019
    @nomsiegrace1019 3 роки тому +13

    Mamzo we need a part two, you are filled with wisdom ❤️❤️❤️

  • @carolinemokwena9586
    @carolinemokwena9586 3 роки тому +33

    "mom they teach us LO at school" 😂😂
    That sounds like you ma'am😂
    Your mother is a sweerheart♥️

  • @NomfundoAshley
    @NomfundoAshley 2 роки тому +12

    “Ja you can…if you’re a mum”😂😂

  • @vasosibo7530
    @vasosibo7530 3 роки тому +14

    The Culinary Queen is so beautiful hle💖💖💖

  • @EmmaKamati
    @EmmaKamati 3 роки тому +32

    Love this conversation 👏🏽 and thanks to your mom for the advises 💕🙌🏾

  • @mphomamabolo4035
    @mphomamabolo4035 2 роки тому +6

    UA-cam recommended this video.I’m smiling while watching this because this is a conversation all parents should have with their children😁 you’ve earned yourself a subscriber🙌🏽

    • @fortunatephasoana2408
      @fortunatephasoana2408 2 роки тому

      Me too. I have a daughter and I want this with her. Maybe it’s a confirmation

  • @thembekilemnguni6484
    @thembekilemnguni6484 3 роки тому +20

    We need to protect Lebo's mom🥺😍😭 yoh! Ha.a. she's amazing🤞🏽🔥

  • @ilovesesotho3629
    @ilovesesotho3629 2 роки тому +7

    We need more videos like this. Mom needs to come back. Loved watching this!❤️

  • @sizwea.1293
    @sizwea.1293 2 роки тому +6

    Discovered your channel through this video, you mom 🥺 your mom is top tier, open mind, yet not too letting. You should do a part 2 after a dad's q&A

  • @deborahobi-emedo9953
    @deborahobi-emedo9953 3 роки тому +7

    We need more of of mom 🥺😭 please share your mom with us hle 🥺❤️

  • @vinoohoveka3009
    @vinoohoveka3009 2 роки тому +5

    Learned a lot from your mom, now I know my boundaries as a child living under her moms roof 😂🙏🏾

  • @masanarikhotso5780
    @masanarikhotso5780 3 роки тому +6

    '' why ari husband unga nwi lovey''😅😅
    She's so real and relevant 💕💕

  • @imbalenhlem
    @imbalenhlem 3 роки тому +11

    Your mom is so cool & she's so amazing , shout out to her cause I see there's so many young girls in the comment section so we're learning a lot. Thank you very much ❤

  • @okuhlevutula7659
    @okuhlevutula7659 2 роки тому +8

    Your mom is very informative. 🥺 I’ve learnt so much AND she’s so cool omg 😂 I was so shocked when she defined “situationship” 😂 both of you are absolutely beautiful 🥺

  • @lesedisekete5017
    @lesedisekete5017 2 роки тому +3

    Your mom is a SUPER mom 🥺❤ the relationship you have is beautiful 🥺

  • @masechabangoako
    @masechabangoako 3 роки тому +8

    Your mom's energy and wisdom ❤️

  • @cynthiamwampole2509
    @cynthiamwampole2509 3 роки тому +4

    Wow! I love your mama, I’m not even done watching the video but I have already fallen in love with her plus she is naturally pretty without makeup.

  • @princessnozi4381
    @princessnozi4381 2 роки тому +5

    I really love your mum🥺🥺. I feel like I've gotten the answers I've always wanted to get but have never been able to ask my mum. She's so open, honest, calm, enlightening. She's an angel❤️❤️👑

  • @reneykganyago343
    @reneykganyago343 2 роки тому +4

    I really wish you could have a segment with your mom 🥺 I’ve learnt so much and understood why my mom goes certain things

  • @nyeletimanganyi4197
    @nyeletimanganyi4197 2 роки тому +5

    Yes! I was 11 when my mom told me everything, looking back, I couldn't be more grateful for that honestly... you are more aware earlier than later 💯
    Mama, you are the future👑💙 yey i am sooo happy to take all the advices into consideration💞 you both are so beautiful

  • @Pally_m
    @Pally_m 2 роки тому +3

    I like the fact that your mom kept on emphasising RESPECT, I enjoyed the video ❤️

  • @PZJBimha
    @PZJBimha 2 роки тому +5

    Discovered your channel through this video ... amazing content. I got a lot from this conversation. I'm a first born.. yo... being the one parents learn from is difficult

  • @keneilwekhudus1938
    @keneilwekhudus1938 2 роки тому +2

    I love how open-minded your mom is ,enjoyed this vid.

  • @lindathamoor9716
    @lindathamoor9716 2 роки тому +4

    Loved this video, really loved your mom. She's a mother every girl needs

  • @strangersfreaks7578
    @strangersfreaks7578 2 роки тому +6

    I'm one minute into this and loving it already.
    You've got a super mom. ❤️

  • @ketsontsoane60
    @ketsontsoane60 3 роки тому +5

    This was so great to watch. I now get where my mom comes from when I ask her to do things.

  • @buhlesicwetsha4338
    @buhlesicwetsha4338 3 роки тому +15

    Arg! This was beautiful and enlightening to watch ❤ really enjoyed your mom's advice and having these conversations that some of us are too afraid to ask

  • @naledilenka7380
    @naledilenka7380 2 роки тому +4

    This is too beautiful, I appreciate your mother's honesty, like she was REAL 100 👑

  • @ShalomMD
    @ShalomMD 2 роки тому +3

    This is such a beautiful video to watch. Absolutely adore your moms advice and commentary. 🤎

  • @mbalintobela4060
    @mbalintobela4060 2 роки тому +3

    When I grow up I want to be Lebo's mom! This is how I want to be when my daughter gets older

  • @bessymalobola1338
    @bessymalobola1338 2 роки тому +4

    Your mom is so open minded, and I love her for that. Is She an expert in something

  • @zamangubane1900
    @zamangubane1900 2 роки тому +4

    Love your mom 💖. She's gorgeous, eloquent and wise. I appreciate the realistic responses

  • @MathaboSebake
    @MathaboSebake 2 роки тому

    Loved this, your mom is open minded in a very realistic way. Her calmness is everything 👌

  • @mmanokokoma3650
    @mmanokokoma3650 2 роки тому +1

    I feel mother's are more open minded, the problem is dads.
    I am 29years old, never introduced my dad to any boyfriend, never went out while my dad is around, keep my phone on silent when dad is around, please, I love my life.

  • @zoleka_nm
    @zoleka_nm 2 роки тому

    I love your mom omgg🥺❤️. Absolute sweetheart.

  • @lusandamangqangwana1431
    @lusandamangqangwana1431 3 роки тому +6

    "hell no"😂 I love your mom she's amazing ❤️

  • @iamtumi
    @iamtumi 2 роки тому +3

    OMG! I love your mom Lebo. So open ❤️❤️❤️❤️ and I agree with her on everything especially those uncomfortable chats. Start them young and lighter topics!

  • @presleysathekge3064
    @presleysathekge3064 2 роки тому +17

    Why don't you look your mom in her eyes when she talks to you... I feel like she is trying to connect with you but you are giving her the cold shoulder. Your mom is super cool btw.

    • @steffymakanta4979
      @steffymakanta4979 2 роки тому

      It's bcoz she knows where her mom stands on all these issues.