SEVEN THINGS A FEMININE WOMAN NEEDS IN A RELATIONSHIP by RC Blakes
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SEVEN THINGS A FEMININE WOMAN NEEDS IN A RELATIONSHIP by RC Blakes
In this video, we explore the seven things that a woman needs in a relationship to stay in her feminine energy. These are key elements that can help create a healthy and fulfilling partnership, and keep the woman feeling loved, appreciated, and respected. We discuss the importance of having a masculine man in the relationship, who can provide a sense of strength and stability. We also delve into the significance of having a clear purpose in the relationship, and how this can help create a sense of direction and focus. Consistency, security, accountability, progress, and affirmation are also key factors that can help keep the woman feeling confident, fulfilled, and connected in the relationship. Whether you are in a new relationship or a long-term one, these seven elements can serve as a foundation for building a strong and lasting connection. Join us as we explore these essential aspects of a healthy and fulfilling relationship.
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This was a very important explanation that everyone needs to understand. Thank you.
Life changing 😊
Hi Ralph! Are you saved little lady cuz we don't need satanists on this here platform! Lol😊
@@shenitaboyd3832 Hi Shanika! He's awesome right?!
1: A feminine woman needs a masculine man.
2: A feminine woman needs: Security, from her masculine man. Ephesians 5:3; Matt. 12:29
3: A feminine woman has to have a sense of purpose, in her masculine man's life. - Proverbs 31; Genesis 2:18; 1 Corinthians 11:9
4: A feminine woman needs affirmation, from her masculine man. Proverbs 31:8; Ephesians 5:25-28
5: A feminine woman has to be in an environment of accountability, to be able to rest in her femininity. 1 Timothy 4:5
6: A feminine woman needs a climate of progress; to stay in her femininity. Luke 13:7-9
7: A feminine woman needs consistency, in order to stay in her femininity. Luke 9:62
Thank you Bishop for this reminder. To the top we go!
Thank you ❤
Thank you for sharing!😊
Thank you so much for sharing! 💗✨
Thank you 😊
Blessings to you for creating the viewpoints of Pastor message. ❤
Been dating a nice, kind, smart man for 6 months but somehow the relationship just isn’t feeling right to me. Something is missing and now I know what. I’m not able to relax into my femininity with him. I don’t feel protected or affirmed. Literally he’s told me one time in 6 months that I looked nice, despite all my efforts. He brings out the masculine in me. Thank you so much for the insight. Will be listening to this talk again.
I love that he helps us put into words the things we are uncomfortable about that otherwise we wouldn't have been able to articulate.
I was in the same dating relationship some months ago and I felt and knew it was time to Walk Away and Shut This Relationship Down! THANK YOU BISHOP RC BLAKES. for the Widom Teachings AMEN!
I'm A 👑 QUEEN!
I know the feeling...They have always brought out my masculine. My only femininity has always been in the bedroom sadly. Sex and survival! 😵💫😪
I’m having the same problem. I feel like I’m driving myself crazy trying to guess if he’s actually really into me, and I would feel crazy if I ask him. I shouldn’t have to ask, I want someone who will naturally want to make me feel wanted. He’s a nice guy, a man of God, everything I’m looking for but I don’t feel affirmed at all & I question if he’s even attracted to me.
I remember when I was married I dyed my hair about 2 shades lighter. It wasn’t drastic but noticeable. How about my now ex husband took 2 weeks to notice as I was walking to the car on our driveway 🫤. The man at my job told me my hair looked nice the 2nd day I wore it to work? I said that too, “oh the man at work noticed it right away”, you will think I am making this up when I say this, he said “that’s because he sees you everyday “🤦🏻♀️..I was done ✔️😩
He's an idiot for real.
Feeling safe is so primary. Without safety, without truth, without trust....there is nothing. Don't even bother any longer, it's done. No matter how much you love him. It's over.
“You can not submit to a man that does not need a commitment to you. You can be agreeable, compromise certain things but, as a woman, you can’t be submitting to every little man who’s trying to date you…Before a woman can submit to a man, he needs to be a husband, and a husband is a man that has made a commitment to the woman to make her wife for life. It’s a commitment of fidelity, responsibility, commitment to protect and provide…”
Wow, so on point! ❤️
True, a woman needs a man in her life that allows her to be in her feminity 100%, her feeling safe in her life with him to be 100% in her feminity, he has to be 100% in his masculine. there's has not been one relationship in my life where I could be 100% in my feminine. Amen! someone finally said it, you cannot submit to a man that has no intention of marrying you.
Yes instead of trying to control me
Some men are more feminine than me and so emotional omg
🎉your comment sistahhhh!!
💯 % on target!
A man that knows how to step to the plate and stand regardless what others think
Hi Addict! Is he magnificent or what?!
@@tonieajlove Who is Addict?
Absolutely a must-a man needs to think for himself and not sway on outsider opinions and suggestions-mom, sister, friends, etc. His woman should be his first in all.
@@wandarios5440 Yes, exactly, Wanda. Great comment! 👍
@@yes_i_said_it_ Did you see it and think Oh I get it I hope she doesn't reply I read it wrong.
I'm a single mother and you're absolutely correct I have no place to relax in my femininity so I'm forced to "doing" everything which produces masculine energy instead of just "being". From time to time I have to make myself take a break and do things for myself so I can still feel like I'm a woman. Thank you for sharing this information with us.
Good information - Listen when your partner affirms you man or woman .. " babe you look good" I'm proud of you" etc.. Do you know how much power that holds .. You'll walk out that door to work and feel invinsible .. nobody else matters .. 1 man over 10 is everything
I watched this over like 50 times. Im still watching. Thank you Mr Blakes. Im 32 yrs young . Lol . Thank you for this wisdom and knowledge. I wish i knew this when i was younger before i started dating . But im glad im here now . As a Man . I will be ready when i meet my kingdom spouse.
You confirmed my belief pastor. Without a role in a man's life and affirmations, I have no reason to stay in his life. I had to leave someone I loved because he was not able to articulate my role in his life.
I think you missed this. But your role should be based on his progress and consistency. Not by him defining it. You should compliment his progress and consistency.
Before my dad passed my parents were married 63 years and my dad took care of her to the end..it was 9 children that he provided for also all my mom had to do was take care of the home ...my dad taught us to have self respect for ourselves and what to expect from a man. I did fail in my marriage after being divorced for 20 years I notice the mistakes I as a woman made with my x ..
Submission is the ultimate expression of femininity!
The thought of a good old fashioned masculine God fearing man loving and taking care of me in life and death would definitely no doubt be God's best and I too would like to have a lifelong effect on him as well in his life.
Praise God Bishop🎉
That is a real man who takes care of his spouse, not only while alive but also when he's long gone.
The man I'm interested in is a minister and I don't think he is interested, I'm giving up on him. Honey I've done the work, I don't want a feminine man . I need an Alfa man in character and integrity. Holy , loving and dedicated to me.😊
I married a boy/man. All this information is new to me at 54 years of age. Thank you Pastor 💯
This here is gold. I am sure every woman listening to this feels understood and appreciated!
This helps me understand why I've had trouble staying in my feminine. 😊
WOW!! This was Amazing!! Thank you!!
Pastor this was the best Teaching I’ve heard ever on the whole “Women Living in their Femininity”. Scriptural and soundly practical. What a Blessing you are❤!
Hi Doorman! Stop her she'll ruin his channel for good! We've seen her in other forums but is she saved?
Man I wish I had this yrs ago. You hit the nail on the head. It was a constant struggle in my relationship. Even when I tried to be submissive & feminine - unconsciously I reverted back to doing my own thing.
1. He has placed me dangerous situations multiple times ( despite me voicing my discomfort).
2. He was extremely inconsistent
3. There was no progress, just more problems after problems yr after yr.
S/N the video 'read between the lies' had me in tears b/c everything Pastor R.C. spoke on I had experienced.
However it did confirm I wasn't being 'dramatic' like I was told so very often.
“If we affirmed our women as much as we affirm our daughters”.!!! Yes!!! I always see this and I’m glad RC said it.!!!
This!!!!!! You are helping a lot of women to go where we are appreciated and can rest in our femininity 😊👏🏾
Yes
Hi everyone,
Bishop Blakes you have inspired and motivated me to do and want better when it comes to men! I thank God daily for allowing me to stumble across your UA-cam channel! God bless you and your beautiful wife🙏❤️!!
Im in agreement with you my dear sis!
Hes such an inspiration!
Hi Stephanie!
@@Ms.LondaR Hi Rachael!
Agree
@@alicetamur5787 Hi Antoinette!
A lot of your teaching has a lot to do with how people are raised. I believe our brothers aren’t taught properly and they don’t understand who they’re. Not making excuses for them its how I see things. I had my share of problems and issues. Listening to this platform has allowed me to open my mind and my thoughts and emotions. I’m learning to love myself more than anything. Self care is truly the best care. I’m an independent woman and it’s hard for me to open up 🆙 to anyone. My healing ❤️🩹 and safety means so much
Thank you Pastor after being in relationships for over 30 years long term and never married, I look back and see none of them were a masculine man as you stated. I lived with them and had to be financial provider, parent and homemaker which didn't allowed me to soak in any form of femininity. I always thought maybe get my hair done more and do my nails would show me as feminine but I now understand its because of the type of men I had around me that made me 'look and feel' masculine having to do it all in the home. This topic is golden Pastor thank you for your time in helping us to be better and choose better 🙏🏽
I thank God for my masculine husband. I didn't know I was being masculine until he called me out on it. It stung...oh boy it stung, BUT I had to accept the truth and look inwardly. I researched what he meant because I had never heard it before. Now, I'm learning and working on staying feminine. I love my husband and I know he loves me. I've got to get this femininity down with God.
Men know when we're operating in masculine energy.
@@yes_i_said_it_ Yes. For females like myself, it's not intentional. I never woke up saying let me be a man today. I'm not a feminist and I speak up for men more than I do women. I love men. I've always been the kind of gal to hang with the boys, that's probably where I picked some of it up from. I think if it's explained to women that we need to soften our responses and approach because the softness is needed, being feminine might be more accepted. It's usually when people say, " you're too masculine" that offense is taken, especially when you genuinely never heard of any energy.🤷♀️ You're left hurt, confused and feeling bad about yourself. I had to shake off depression as well after being called masculine.
@@languageliterature9413 I understand. He said it because he loves you. I firmly believe it's their job to correct us in love BUT sometimes even then it hurts before it heals! God bless you and your husband and your marriage, sis. You're a smart woman!
Proverbs 12:1 Whoever loves discipline loves knowledge, but whoever hates correction is stupid.
@@yes_i_said_it_ Yeah, but dang he could have said, "babe I love it when you're soft." I'm like but you like when I hang with your friends🤷♀️🤣. But I get it, I'm too aggressive and defensive. Sigh...
@@languageliterature9413 Lol right sometimes they're clumsy when they say what needs said. 🤣🤣
My God, what a testimony concerning your Father, as it relates to Mother. Integrity @ it’s BEST! The fruit of your parents Labor is definitely displayed by you , Bishop RC & your brother, Bishop Samuel!
I live my life every day with your voice In my head. I'm single now and value your information immensely. Thank you for your input
Yes, I’m very feminine.
However, if I feel I need to protect myself in any way the masculine side will come out…
Omg I feel like every man should hear this !!! Literally the complete breakdown
Wow, this is the opposite of what was being taught...powerful message for men and women. 🎉
Very true about having a “ SENSE OF PURPOSE in her man’s life. When a women has no purpose she disconnects “ I give my significant other helpful advice. He doesn’t take my advice and he does what he wants. Then, he complains later when things go awry. Quite frankly, I’m fed up and frustrated. I can’t envision marrying this man. He makes unwise decisions and I causes me stress. I feel a disconnect right now. He is upset and stops talking to me. This man is no spring chicken. He can go on and stay silent because I’m doing fine and I feel stress free. Instead of him being grateful I’m looking out for him with my insight ( most times I’m correct) he opposes me. Good riddance.
Omg! Thank you! There is so much being said about "if youre truly feminine you should be in your feminine regardless".but it needs activation!
I did press like, aleluya!🎉
Pastor U teaching!!! My God! The main reason I left my last relationship was because there was NO progress. We were literally doing the same thing day after day, which was sitting at either his house 🏡 or mine. He never wanted to go anywhere or do anything (with me) and traveling was definitely out of the question. All he wanted to do was hang out at the park with the fellas and they were out there from Sunday to Sunday at the same time every day. It was the craziest thing especially considering how old he is. Never seen nothing like it in my life.
Thank you bishop my father leaving whilst a toddler... Has meant i didnt recieve and know of this great blessing a father can provide for his daughter and allso i didnt witness my mother being honoured in this way, and as a consequence i have for many decades trying to give to the man or fixing him even though he wasnt invested in my feminity or in me as a women.. I have allways felt tgat something was missing and the final piece of the puzzle falls into place love and appreciation with you bishop what steps are important now... Bless you
Agree what all that has been said in video. From my personal experience - With a much pain my heart, I needed to finish my relationship with my partner. After a few months and few situations down the road, I understod he can not help my femininity grow, but rather makes me be more masculine. I did care extremely much about the person and I was madly inlove, but in the end of the day, we NEED to make choices that are healthy for us. Btw, if someone is interested about my painful breakup, I am sharing this on my channel.
I was just literally talking with my friend girl about this subject this past weekend…about how I hate when men call me aggressive…I told one I’m a product of my environment… I was telling my friend that a real man knows how to deal with me and naturally bring that feminine out of me
Perfect articulation of what a Feminine Woman needs, thank you so very much for this gift, it was such a wonderful watch 💗 Ameen
He's such a blessing
If I could “like” this video a trillion times I would. This is a great and timely message. Thank you Pastor for taking the time to break down masculine and feminine roles
Thank you for saying this out loud. I pick the guy when he can activate my Feminine. It is all how I feel when I am with a man.
I patiently wait for Monday nights 🥰🙏 Thank you Pastor Blakes and Lady Lisa, I love you both ♥️
This was too short! THOROUGHLY ENJOYED so much. Nzinga from Trinidad and Tobago. Much love
This episode was so powerful not only did it hit my soul it hit my childhood and I had to reflect back to see if my Dad was not a good example of a husband and words of affrimation was objectivefying everyone including my mother and pointing out everyone's weaknesses and put on display 😢 now what I do know on my research and doing the internal work is that he is an covert narcissist. Thank you for this it will help me on this healing process.
Good morning, PREACH Biahop we need this WISDOM, KNOWLEDGE and UNDERSTANDING!!!!! Women we must apply these teachings to GROW!!!.
RC Blake’s I’m so completely blessed to have you in my life. Your wisdom and knowledge has reassured me that my needs are not anything of unreasonable high maintenance or expectations rather the desire to Glorify God💕✝️🙏 thank you
You are naturally so funny; I couldn’t stop laughing. You hit the nail on every aspect!!😩😂🙏🏽
I love the joy in your face as you speak about your father and mother and their dynamic, beautiful.
Every word is God-sent! I’m so very grateful to you Pastor for all your podcasts .
You are absolutely right! I look forward to sharing my feminity with the right man who will allow me to embrace it.
Another absolutely FANTASTIC recording! All very important truth from God! Thank you RC!
This song is gets me every time. Very powerful song , love it
Good Morning Bishop RC & Lady Blakes! EVERYONE watching 🖐🏼
TO ALL THE SERIOUS MEN OUT THERE: This is a great video to really take at hart!! Apply this wisdom, with CONSISTANCY, and you will be set for life with your women! A healthy loving relationship is a present that only men who deserve it get their hands on!
I agree with you that femininity really grows in the presence of the masculine polarity. It can also grow by the woman’s own efforts for self improvement.
Wow thank you for the clarity. I see why I have always stayed more masculine than being feminine in all of my relationships.
I’m ready for this knowledge 🙏🏾
FROM NORFOLK, VA IN THE HOUSE ‼️‼️❤️🤗🤗
Anyone else love the intro song! When was this added? So uplifting ✨
TEACH Bishop! This so much necessary & need teaching! Thank you!
Always on point Paster RC Blakes Jr. Thank you for connecting the dots for us.
Kenny Lattimore has a song called femininity...highly recommend. I also approve n cosign this message. ❤
Submission VS Domination!
Greetings from Brazil, thank you so much 👏🏻💚
❤❤thank you so much you and lisa has made a difference in my life..
This was absolutely amazing. Wow. Thank you pastor
Thank you so much Pastor Blakes☪️💫
I hear what you saying. Growing up I have to be both masculine and feminine especially now. However God is still the head of my house hold so He has been helping and being a mom and doing it on my own I have to tap into that masculine side. Maybe later I will think about resting in my femininity when a man comes around that’s worthy of that. When your use to doing things a certain way it’s somewhat hard to let that part of you go. Thanks for the message ❤
Thank you so very much for making this video as it spoke to my heart ❤
I want to ask, if i may, what can a woman do when she has not had a good example of man and/or/nor woman in her life growing up? Does that mean she is forever going to be utterly deficient in life?
I once heard a pastor that women were created to multiply... giving the examples:
When a man gives a woman a sperm, she gives a birth to a child
When a man gives a woman a house, she gives him a home
When a man gives a woman groceries, she gives him a nutritious and nourishing meal...
The he asked, "what happens when a man gives silence? Correct! she multiplies it back to him"
Coming to say to the men to be aware and intentional on the impact their words and actions have on a woman.
This came to mind at verious points of your video, it also brought to mind what a male friend once said ' it is about putting priority in each other's well-being at all times' ...
Thank you once a gain for everything you and Lisa do! ❤
This was one of my favorite Poppa Blakes - soooo rich. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Pastor Blakes, you are seriously hilarious lol but you explain things so well and in a receivable and loving way! Your work is greatly appreciated ❤
I’m loving this word and wish a lot of younger women will listen to it and stop being thirsty and acting like wild men! ❤🙏 be blessed pastor & First Lady!
NAILED IT
You could've given the benediction in the first 10 mins!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽
Thank you beautiful soul 🕯️🕊️🤍
I needed to hear this, thank you for being a Godly mentor to me which I never had for guidance. 🙌🏻✝️🕊️
That's very true.. I wondered why I act differently around different guys🤔 I can be very feminine with some of them and very musculine with another ones.
Excellent information .. books to read FEAST OF MEN & REFLECTIONS OF THE CURSE.. journey of a woman's heart..
You are wonderful, I'm so grateful for these videos
Bishop, thank you so much 🙏 ❤😊
Amen Pastor Blakes!! You made it plain! Thank you for the Word of God!
Praise God for restoring all the devil stole, praise God for wanting nothing but the best for his children, praise God for after suffering for a while we can expect to be glorified with Christ, how beautiful is that! In accordance with this word and deuteronomy 24:5, 1 peter 3:7, colossians 3:18-19, ephesians 5:23, matthew 12:29, proverbs 31, genesis 2:18, 1 corinthians 11:7-9, proverbs 31:28, ephesians 5:25-28, 1 timothy 3:4-5, luke 13:7-9, luke 9:62, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 I bind myself to be solely yoked with a godly-ordained spouse and man that makes me thrive in my femininity by being a masculine man with sense of godly purpose that knows how to affirm me while offering an excellent example of accountability and means to progress in consistent way snd binding to hell every lack of thriving in my femininity, binding to hell being unequally yoked and having any common share with any man not bringing out the best in me and not making me thrive in my femininity, in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah. Thank you Lord for making this possible ❤!
Whew! I love the introduction songAnd of course love and appreciate who you and Lise witness and counsel ❤🥲🙌🏽
Bishop Blakes, I love your messages. You speak in a soothing way and reassure us. The music is a beautiful lullaby. When I have trouble sleeping, I put on one of your messages and it relaxes me and I sleep well.
This is such a good teaching!💯Priceless video!💎 Love it!❤️👑
This teaching message is so good 💯. Thank you so much Pastor Bishop RC Blakes Jr! God bless you and Lady Lisa Blakes ❤️
Awaiting God's Word! Thanks Bishop Blakes
Thank you for this message that takes away the pressure from us
I absolutely love your intro song!!!
I like that soundtrack,but I always get the notification late,I am in Ghana,so I am ahead of you by 5 hours.
Akwaaba ❤
I've been trying to explain this to men for years
I have also emplaned this in comments, and they gang up and jeer at me. When a man is strong and takes care of things, the woman has the luxury of letting her guard down and being feminine.
Thank you for confirming!🙏🏾
You better Preachhhhhhhh!!!!!!
Thank you sir. U have spoken.
This was so triggering but very insightful thank you.
I’m a woman waiting on the Lord and I am learning the role of a woman. I have work to do internally and this video has helped me see the role of a woman
Thank you sir. You came down my row🎉
Good evening from Houston, Tx. This topic is such a blessing & help for all.