The people who mocked at him, say hello with a smile next time. He's got courage enough to change the cynicism in the world. Guan, good luck wherever life takes you.
He need to put down the signboard first. Take up life enrichment courses and make friends along the way. As long you are true and honest, there's nothing to fear. Since he is brave enough to carry the signboard around places, he's definitely not a shy guy. Maybe just lack of communication skills and self confidence...
His perception of 'true love' is too simple and outdated - that's why he still cannot find his partner. He want a nice backside - this is a serious flaw - meaning only mostly younger women can fit the criteria. And younger women are complicated - won't be in tune with his perception.
Join 1 or 2 community organizations and be active. You will meet friends that introduce you to more friends and eventually they will get you to meet the right person. The best part, both of you have mutual friends (support system) around you that will strengthen your relationship. Do consider. Don't think about getting a wife. Think about getting into relationships.
He seems a really nice and honest guy. Such positivity. The world has much to learn from him and those people who mock at him for being honest can dig a hole.
From Malaysia,your next door neighbor,we are here for you and for all Singaporeans and people around the world who are having all sorts of difficulties in their lives.
You are probably right. The unmarried child nearly always shoulder the burden cos his siblings have their own family. Our ancestors probably had it right, an extended family living together, sharing responsibilities. A thumbs up from me for your insight. It didn't cross my mind.
I do feel sorry for him. An honest man looking for honest love in an ever so dishonest world. These days, it's not just the internet that lost credibility; even the people of this era are best not to be trusted. Really.
Respect this man for his genuine honesty & he being himself don’t worry brother god will send you the woman who is meant for you. Not many men out there are brave enough as you the key to successfully getting a woman is facing rejection from women themselves.
Hope he really finds someone because I’m still here with no girl in my whole life so, I can relate to everything he is saying about being alone and wanting someone to love and share my pains with me. God bless him🙏🏻
He said he is timid..he goes around carrying placard that says he is loking for love lol. Well, since he hasd headed to Vietnam he will definitley get positive responses. Just hope he does not get cheated and I wish him all the best.
I disagree. Imho, One has to take action & gain experience on what it takes to woo a girl. Not only do you gain insight on what the opposite sex likes, you develop as a person socially. Everyone’s starting cards are different. Some are educated & handsome, some are Low class, but in the end, it’s how you handle the game. I’m still single, but I’m much happier than I was before at myself 2 years ago. If I had let it happen naturally, I’d probably still be a socially awkward uni nerd by now.
Expectations in Singapore way too high for him. He's better off in Vietnam (where he went) Philippines or Thailand. Wish him all the luck n 2020 to get his match.
Aiyoyo! Why want to get entangled with relationships? One lives one's life to the fullest without all these burdens. Relationships and love are so over hyped. They are just distractions.
Don’t you ever feel lonely? Have you ever gotten into a relationship before? If no, it’s best to shut up. 🤐 If yes, then do whatever that makes you happy. 😄
He has a nice set of teeth and friendly disposition and genuine in his expression. I think he would have much better chances of finding his future wife in countries like Vietnam, Myanmar and Indonesia. In the materialistic island where he lives, "no money, no honey" is just the harsh reality of life! Just accept it.
Ya.. Singaporeans will be chasing Singapore dreams. I just hope that he can find someone overseas to love him and take care of him. Being loved is one of the most priceless experience. No doubt why he's finding love, because he cannot grow out of his addiction to being love. I wish I have the courage like him, to take a signboard. All respect!
Totally get his point about love scams. I met someone on OkCupid who was the same age (29), we met for dinner and had a pleasant chat, and just when I thought I'd finally met a chick who could hit it off so well with me.... Dang dang dang, turns out she's a marketing executive trying to sell me a course.
Shameless put aside..ts guy is brave and sincere..in the end trying his luck to get a wife in vietnam..good luck and all the best to you..hope you will get a good and loyal wife to be with you.....Insyallah.
I feel that he is holding back tears and laughing because he is on camera. Deep down he seems pretty lonely looking for company. He is like a lone wolf looking for that one mate to be with his whole life. (Wolves are animals that only have one mate in their whole life) I hope he finds someone nice soon!!
Mr. Ah Guan, just an advice from me, I genuinely want to help you, to help yourself: 1. Google 'red pill guys'. You are still in a 'blue pill world'. 2. 'Look Max' yourself: Grooming on hair, clothing, facial, etc. 2. Employ a maid from vietnam or indonesia. Very soon, she will definitely 'love' you as well. Minimum monthly cost, with great benefits for you. Just, don't ever agree to sign that 'paper'.
Sadly true what he was trying to say about loneliness leading to physical and mental anxiety and withdrawal. Might be better for him to find someone from rural China than Vietnam.
The saddest part about this story is that, it seems like he genuinely cherished those moments in his life even though she left her for other man. Some people get into relationship too quick and break up at a lightning speed. 😟
@David Lee i do agree David. Why don't his siblings try to introduces someone to him. I guess his siblings has done that but he probably rejected them. To me,his criteria is not good or bad but somehow a bit hard since he said he look for woman with nice butt. I remember reading a post that he don't mind someone older & he mention that he don't mind widower. Somehow my opinion on him is that,he is choosy. He will never find a woman with a nice butt unless she is in 30-40s.
@@12347873 ask him why me.he was the one who want a woman with nice butt when the interviewer ask him about 'which part of back' & he answered the butt.
The reason why most guys couldn't get a girlfriend is because he is unwilling to lie (social/parental conditioning) or is not adept at it (just a lack of training). If you are not good at lying, then practise with telling "prince charming" stories (or "bad boy" depending on the type of girl you want to attract), then gradually, instead of "he", you change it to "I". Caveat emptor tho, if you do eventually get a girlfriend this way and later start to regret, whatever you do, DON'T make her your wife.
I personally admire his courage but unfortunately in a realistic world, have to say that’s not the best way to find a partner. Any ladies who accepted him through this could be pushed to the media world as a follow up story n that probably could have turn they away. I think the best ways to know people is through making friends naturally. Join a course, an interest group or do volunteer works. He can know people there, build up communication skills, and best of all, not feel lonely. And if all is good, a relationship May blossom from there.
He could print his own T-shirt with the same message and make his approach more subtle. His current approach is more likely to attract scammers, right?
Is the man looking for soulmate or a good young backside? Once he got this sorted out it will help greatly in his search. Otherwise i cannot logically relate a nice backside with the qualities of a soul mate.
Carry a sign looking for love without showing much $$$$ sign in his pant and shirt pocket is not going to work in Singapore. He need to change his method if he want quick result in finding his soul mate instead of wasting time on public street..
Sorry to say uncle you're not gonna find any girl like this lol. Firstly, normal cute girls in sg don't go for such an old man like you unless you're loaded. Secondly, most girls will be creeped out by your sign that you're holding. You're doing something out of the norm and it will be viewed as idiosyncratic and weird. Third, women will avoid you even more once you've mentioned that you like their backs and butt. Most women in sg lean more towards the conservative side, they'd rather go for a quiet, smart, funny and caring guy rather than what you're doing here lol. I can sense his desperation and loneliness, but you gotta accept and live life as a single person. Try to find things in life that keep you busy, keep you motivated, keep you happy. Relationships and marriage is just one of the best ways, but not the only way.
sean lim sorry i dont agree with ur first comment hehe i broke up with my english man just for singaporean 55 yo when i marry him ,, just because he is sooo honest and good heart ,, we live in simple HDB and have one kid Me and husband different 32 years old (do u know how far our gap) Anyway all depends with the girls What they looking for in life If the girl matrealistic ,, well yeah maybe looking for rich singaporean But not all girl like that
Don't use the word "desperate". It's very hurtful. He just wants to be loved. Don't you want to be loved. He's 57 years, he's sweet, and he's honest than most men on Internet. Let him pursue his happiness ...
Mugilan Rajamohan ... I apologised. But like I’ve said before... one way of finding love is to go out socialising ,, love comes in a strange ways & places..
Marriage is not about love, its about responsibility (both parties) to the family unit. Too much one-sidedness, this guy is looking for trouble. But he is just a manifestation of a societal symptom to the type of women we raise as a society today. Normal.
Looks like a genuine and honest man. Best of luck to Ah Guan. Thanks MothershipSG for sharing this!
The people who mocked at him, say hello with a smile next time. He's got courage enough to change the cynicism in the world. Guan, good luck wherever life takes you.
Agree!
Kudos for his bravery on bringing the sign out wherever he goes. I hope he finds a patient and kind partner
Joash Exactly. I would be more shy to carry that sign around than approach a woman on the street.
Exer Flame The Fire 🔥 Of Passion
He need to put down the signboard first.
Take up life enrichment courses and make friends along the way.
As long you are true and honest, there's nothing to fear.
Since he is brave enough to carry the signboard around places, he's definitely not a shy guy. Maybe just lack of communication skills and self confidence...
His perception of 'true love' is too simple and outdated - that's why he still cannot find his partner. He want a nice backside - this is a serious flaw - meaning only mostly younger women can fit the criteria. And younger women are complicated - won't be in tune with his perception.
Join 1 or 2 community organizations and be active. You will meet friends that introduce you to more friends and eventually they will get you to meet the right person. The best part, both of you have mutual friends (support system) around you that will strengthen your relationship. Do consider. Don't think about getting a wife. Think about getting into relationships.
j lim ,the love strategist
Nice
My heart goes out to this man. I hope he finds the love that he hopes for :)
Yu Shaine Give Him Your Heart
He seems a really nice and honest guy. Such positivity. The world has much to learn from him and those people who mock at him for being honest can dig a hole.
You go Ah Guan! There's an ass out there for everyone and I hope he'll find his.
Im dead💀🤣
Aiman tak kesah
hahahah
HAHAHAHA FRFR
😂
Watching this two years later. I hope he found someone.. God bless him
I'm gonna take over this guy's legacy it seems.
A sincere man. I really hope he finds someone soon. Good Luck bro!
I can see myself like him at his age... I must start early with my sign 😉
I really doubt you will ever have his courage, not counting the cynicism in your statement. Lol.
keep a cat at home first as trainibg
@@fidelcatsro6948 nigga tf?! Why use cat as a training? That's disgusting u cannot do that
From Malaysia,your next door neighbor,we are here for you and for all Singaporeans and people around the world who are having all sorts of difficulties in their lives.
"The back or butt"
"The butt" 😂😂😂
😊😁😆😄🤣😂🤪😝😋🥶🚽
Well he’s an honest man lol
At least this man honest
If you are not nice in front, never mind. As long as your back is nice. 😄
HAHAHAHAHA WTF
God is love...I searched find true love... its a sign you want to be loved..tired single.. hope and pray he finds his true love🙌🙌
Maybe he is too busy working during all his youth age n care for his elderly parents..
You are probably right. The unmarried child nearly always shoulder the burden cos his siblings have their own family. Our ancestors probably had it right, an extended family living together, sharing responsibilities.
A thumbs up from me for your insight. It didn't cross my mind.
I do feel sorry for him. An honest man looking for honest love in an ever so dishonest world. These days, it's not just the internet that lost credibility; even the people of this era are best not to be trusted. Really.
No money no honey...all the best!
This world is very realistic!
D T ...Doctor Truth
@@PP-vf1kx lmfaooo
I really hope he finds someone that Genuinely appreciates him!! Such a honest and sweet soul! God bless him!!
Respect this man for his genuine honesty & he being himself don’t worry brother god will send you the woman who is meant for you. Not many men out there are brave enough as you the key to successfully getting a woman is facing rejection from women themselves.
Ong Chin Guan, just display all the premium cards from all the big banks in Singapore. You will definitely get lots of women lining up for you.
best of luck to ah guan!! takes alot of courage to hold a sign looking for love
Hope he really finds someone because I’m still here with no girl in my whole life so, I can relate to everything he is saying about being alone and wanting someone to love and share my pains with me.
God bless him🙏🏻
Wombo Combo Doombo
keeping a cat helps
My heart will go on but never give up brother I hope you will meet your soul mate,God bless!!
He said he is timid..he goes around carrying placard that says he is loking for love lol. Well, since he hasd headed to Vietnam he will definitley get positive responses. Just hope he does not get cheated and I wish him all the best.
'the universe itself is love already, you just need to synchronize with it' what an enlightened, beautiful being.
Many Singaporeans at his age are also single. Do not around and seek for love but just let it happens naturally. It may be good to remain single.
Some soul are destined to be single...that’s the law of life
I disagree. Imho, One has to take action & gain experience on what it takes to woo a girl. Not only do you gain insight on what the opposite sex likes, you develop as a person socially.
Everyone’s starting cards are different. Some are educated & handsome, some are Low class, but in the end, it’s how you handle the game.
I’m still single, but I’m much happier than I was before at myself 2 years ago. If I had let it happen naturally, I’d probably still be a socially awkward uni nerd by now.
3:20 Respect. Honestly.
All the best Ah Guan!! You are a brave man!!!
I wish him all the best in his love life:) hes such a genuine man
Megan Neo Don’t Wish Him,Make His Wish Come True
Im sorry what
@@PP-vf1kx Hahhahh
This guy is weird AF man but I admire his spirit good luck bro.
Legend say that he is still searching.....
“True love “ sometimes only happen when you have a lot of CPF savings... just saying be careful out there ah guan.
China woman loves him if hes cpf is full!
@@Wong_wong565 doesn't the truth hurts sometimes...
Wen Wui Pull No Bullshit
This is very true
God has given every soul a hunger for love and intimacy. This hunger can only be filled when the person seek the true GOD.......
Ang Theng Eng The Preacher Man
@@PP-vf1kx Not preaching......it's a hunger you feel too 😁😁😁
Amen
youdaoneahguan
Hats off man. Somebody gets you who deserves best. Bcz you are wonderful.
Expectations in Singapore way too high for him. He's better off in Vietnam (where he went) Philippines or Thailand. Wish him all the luck n 2020 to get his match.
This is the best Story of Mothership series,Honestly!
I wish him all the best in finding true love.
While this guy publicly announces that he is looking for a wife, I have a hard time admitting to myself that I also want a life partner. 😂🙃
Omfg he was my land lord back then! Rented at his place for 2 years 😂😂
Real man.... good on you mate...hope you find real love
You earn my respect, hope you will find your miss right soon. Remain positive and you will reach your goal.
It takes courage & good intentions to achieve anything including relationship. I think he can do it & achieve what is he desires
AH HENG THE SOOTHE SAYER
But nowadays just show bank account
Aiyoyo! Why want to get entangled with relationships? One lives one's life to the fullest without all these burdens. Relationships and love are so over hyped. They are just distractions.
...says the recluse
Damien Hall, right?
Don’t you ever feel lonely? Have you ever gotten into a relationship before?
If no, it’s best to shut up. 🤐
If yes, then do whatever that makes you happy. 😄
Seems like a good and simple man. Good luck Ah Guan.😊
love your courage hope you find your life partner real soon!!
All comments.. U guys got to step forward and get what girls u want. Win her heart.. Tie the knock and happy ever after..
Good luck to him!
He has a nice set of teeth and friendly disposition and genuine in his expression. I think he would have much better chances of finding his future wife in countries like Vietnam, Myanmar and Indonesia. In the materialistic island where he lives, "no money, no honey" is just the harsh reality of life! Just accept it.
Ya.. Singaporeans will be chasing Singapore dreams. I just hope that he can find someone overseas to love him and take care of him. Being loved is one of the most priceless experience. No doubt why he's finding love, because he cannot grow out of his addiction to being love. I wish I have the courage like him, to take a signboard. All respect!
You will get a lovely person sir.
Totally get his point about love scams.
I met someone on OkCupid who was the same age (29), we met for dinner and had a pleasant chat, and just when I thought I'd finally met a chick who could hit it off so well with me.... Dang dang dang, turns out she's a marketing executive trying to sell me a course.
GOD bless u, Ah Guan(:
@Joe all stick need a hole!
Damn he has alot of confidence,hope he finds true love.
H3AD ...LIKE CONFUCIUS SAID...KNOW WHEN TO ABANDON SHIP
Seems very sad esp abt his previous relationship
True love is coming from within not from outside. You should mix with other people in party or social gatherings.
Party is the worst place to get a wife
man fall 5 storeys down after being drugged at party...
All the best bro... Hope you'll get a wife soon!!! Never give up....
Master Ron And His Art Of Wishful Thinking
Can i borrow the sign mate?
Shameless put aside..ts guy is brave and sincere..in the end trying his luck to get a wife in vietnam..good luck and all the best to you..hope you will get a good and loyal wife to be with you.....Insyallah.
dang dude sounds like he’s on the verge of tears when he was talkin bout his past
really hope he finds the one 👌
I feel that he is holding back tears and laughing because he is on camera. Deep down he seems pretty lonely looking for company.
He is like a lone wolf looking for that one mate to be with his whole life. (Wolves are animals that only have one mate in their whole life)
I hope he finds someone nice soon!!
yah...suffering in silence. just like me..we keep such emotions to ourselves.
Wish you well ah guan 😊
easy target for love scams
Mr. Ah Guan, just an advice from me, I genuinely want to help you, to help yourself:
1. Google 'red pill guys'. You are still in a 'blue pill world'.
2. 'Look Max' yourself: Grooming on hair, clothing, facial, etc.
2. Employ a maid from vietnam or indonesia. Very soon, she will definitely 'love' you as well. Minimum monthly cost, with great benefits for you. Just, don't ever agree to sign that 'paper'.
Silver Bar Will Buy You A Reasonable Amount Of Love
Sadly true what he was trying to say about loneliness leading to physical and mental anxiety and withdrawal.
Might be better for him to find someone from rural China than Vietnam.
Full marks for effort
The saddest part about this story is that, it seems like he genuinely cherished those moments in his life even though she left her for other man. Some people get into relationship too quick and break up at a lightning speed. 😟
My man is an absolute beast! An ass man XD.. hope he find a good wife and share love
Can face reality? When people reaching 50s and still can't find a mate. Something is wrong somewhere. Much apologies, nothing personal.
Cosmo not everyone gets an opportunity or blessed with gift of the gab. That’s reality bro. Face it.
Pick stray cat n dog,these will also keep u company,also doing good deed.
@David Lee i do agree David.
Why don't his siblings try to introduces someone to him.
I guess his siblings has done that but he probably rejected them.
To me,his criteria is not good or bad but somehow a bit hard since he said he look for woman with nice butt.
I remember reading a post that he don't mind someone older & he mention that he don't mind widower.
Somehow my opinion on him is that,he is choosy.
He will never find a woman with a nice butt unless she is in 30-40s.
@@tommyfield8449 Why is nice butt so important n not kind heart?
@@12347873 ask him why me.he was the one who want a woman with nice butt when the interviewer ask him about 'which part of back' & he answered the butt.
i love how he is going overseas now to find love
This guy is brave as fuck huge respect
Respect
I too am looking for a honest man, wish you the best of luck!!
Teresa Made In Heaven Marriage Proposal
well senorita what are you waiting for??
Dun give up hope. If Kurt Tay can get married, so can you.
Good luck bro...careful not to get cheated by women...
All the best :)
May God grant him success
Please do a follow up on him!
I hope he finds the right girl.
The reason why most guys couldn't get a girlfriend is because he is unwilling to lie (social/parental conditioning) or is not adept at it (just a lack of training). If you are not good at lying, then practise with telling "prince charming" stories (or "bad boy" depending on the type of girl you want to attract), then gradually, instead of "he", you change it to "I". Caveat emptor tho, if you do eventually get a girlfriend this way and later start to regret, whatever you do, DON'T make her your wife.
I personally admire his courage but unfortunately in a realistic world, have to say that’s not the best way to find a partner. Any ladies who accepted him through this could be pushed to the media world as a follow up story n that probably could have turn they away. I think the best ways to know people is through making friends naturally. Join a course, an interest group or do volunteer works. He can know people there, build up communication skills, and best of all, not feel lonely. And if all is good, a relationship May blossom from there.
But here no love ,theres only money in women's mind
Mgtow
Everywhere also like that. For money people will come.
Must be alpha
To bad when death comes, money cannot be brought to heaven...only relationship with Christ Jesus will and by repentance from sins and future sins
@@ChickenCluck Amen!
Hopefully he will find his true soulmate.. Not some gold digger..
He could print his own T-shirt with the same message and make his approach more subtle. His current approach is more likely to attract scammers, right?
Is the man looking for soulmate or a good young backside? Once he got this sorted out it will help greatly in his search. Otherwise i cannot logically relate a nice backside with the qualities of a soul mate.
He is so desperate to find a wife to fulfilled his soul and body needs. I guess he will ended up being cheated in Vietnam. God bless u.
Why Vietnam? China is the top.
For what say get cheated? If nothing better to say, dont say. Brainless.
Realistic world , if you got more money and handsome like Aaron Kwok maybe chance is 90%
Careful so much scammer around.
K S Spider Says' Come In ‘ To Ah Kuan,The Fly
By making this choice of walking around with a sign already tell me why he is single.
Out of alignment.
It's 2022, any success Mr Guan?
Stop carrying around the sign and dress less nerdy, that fashion sense and sign carrying will dry girls up 😂 good luck to you sir
Newsflash there is NO true love.
Carry a sign looking for love without showing much $$$$ sign in his pant and shirt pocket is not going to work in Singapore. He need to change his method if he want quick result in finding his soul mate instead of wasting time on public street..
Sorry to say uncle you're not gonna find any girl like this lol.
Firstly, normal cute girls in sg don't go for such an old man like you unless you're loaded.
Secondly, most girls will be creeped out by your sign that you're holding. You're doing something out of the norm and it will be viewed as idiosyncratic and weird.
Third, women will avoid you even more once you've mentioned that you like their backs and butt. Most women in sg lean more towards the conservative side, they'd rather go for a quiet, smart, funny and caring guy rather than what you're doing here lol.
I can sense his desperation and loneliness, but you gotta accept and live life as a single person. Try to find things in life that keep you busy, keep you motivated, keep you happy. Relationships and marriage is just one of the best ways, but not the only way.
sean lim sorry i dont agree with ur first comment hehe i broke up with my english man just for singaporean 55 yo when i marry him ,, just because he is sooo honest and good heart ,, we live in simple HDB and have one kid
Me and husband different 32 years old (do u know how far our gap)
Anyway all depends with the girls
What they looking for in life
If the girl matrealistic ,, well yeah maybe looking for rich singaporean
But not all girl like that
Hope he finds true love
He sounds very Desperate by displaying the Placard. one way of finding love is to go out to Social Club, Library & other Activity’.
Don't use the word "desperate". It's very hurtful. He just wants to be loved. Don't you want to be loved. He's 57 years, he's sweet, and he's honest than most men on Internet. Let him pursue his happiness ...
Mugilan Rajamohan ... I apologised. But like I’ve said before... one way of finding love is to go out socialising ,, love comes in a strange ways & places..
He should just join any community activities
Just change the print on the cardboard to " Im rich Bitch!"
You need write your words much bigger on sign board, best of luck
Has he found someone?
Marriage is not about love, its about responsibility (both parties) to the family unit. Too much one-sidedness, this guy is looking for trouble. But he is just a manifestation of a societal symptom to the type of women we raise as a society today. Normal.