@user-vq6pm3zz1z What I did after I left him was change my phone #, got off Social Media, and I moved. There are no flying monkeys bcse he had no friends. If anyone googles me, my OLD address comes up. I had enough of him. I was Hospitalized and almost didn't make it, but I'm here, and I'm finally at peace. Good luck to you. 🌞👍
It is a good sign to not hear from them . They have realized that you have set firm boundaries and can no longer be manipulated , abused or lied to . It is a great thing .
I refer to Narcs as "Life Suckers" bc they're very similar to parasites, whereas they NEED a healthy, strong & competent host in order to survive! If the supply isn't strong enough to take their bs, they move onto another host (supply).
When you confront a narcissist, they get offended that they will wait for you to fix it. If you reach out, they pretend nothing happened. If you not reach out to them - they never will. It’s over. Happened with 4 of my exfriends.
I don't really care if he stays quiet. At least we're peaceful for a while. He can't gaslight me, I won't let that happen without retribution. If he doesn't like me exposing him, he better not apply his crazy shitty supply.
Same here…it’s been 14 months since he showed up at my house and I told him I knew he was narcissistic. He left and started the smear campaign immediately. He already had a new supply which he lied to me about. He just got discarded by her I heard.
@QueenBee-fg1iz I told him that I'm FINALLY on to him. I never knew what a narcissist was, and when I ended it, his expression on his face was priceless! 👍😉 OH, he smeared me all over the place! I was no good, etc..He rebounded and got MARRIED 2 WEEKS LATER! 🤣
QueenBee , they will all get dumped! Geez, after I dumped him, he went bar-hopping. The woman he married back then probably dumped him too. Wow! I wonder what they look like now??💀💀🤑 Ha, ha!
Their fear of rejection, you spoke on it as reason 4 of this video. They can't take the wounding of being rejected twice. That would give us the power. They will more than likely stalk and watch you-but not contact you. So the hoover's are probably there, you just don't hear about them-although you can "feel them", if that makes sense. They(the hoovers') fall to the ground.
@@UA-camPremium-hj9jh Same here. I've had to make all of my online profiles as private as I could and it still doesn't stop them. They even use a friend in common to extract info from me by proxy. Not sure what to do with said friend.
Our children haven't heard from their narc father since he was exposed in family court and found proved of laundry list of abuse towards myself and the children. I think it's a blessing. It's best to have one healthy parent that risk being destroyed by a narc growing up
Mostly because it started from parents/guardians etc.. some so called empaths need to heal also, and aren’t well themselves.. They both need each other, perfect toxic marriage/match…
1. Preoccupied with new target 2. Perception of empowerment - they know they can’t manipulate you. 3. Fear of consequences 4. Loss of control 5. Narcs need somebody who they can fool
BOOM ! That's it, he would not dare to try and come back around me just one more time. He knows I'm just a BAD ASS truth teller ha, ha, lol. Thanks Kim ! For making it all clear.
Me ex hovered non stop but now he just disappeared out of nowhere he clearly has a new supply but he totally ripped me apart without telling me anything and from one day to another!! I just realized he is truly a devil and have been actually in peace since that day… thank you for this video 🙏
They all get in touch after long while ..months and years but they always do it happens when you moved on and the person they been sucking life out of left them too.Its sad and crazy.All this time they really believe you been waiting on them.
Perfect description. My ex narcissist cheated on me with a girl he knew 30yrs before and when I wouldn't take him back he was chasing after an ex from 23yr before and she also started sleeping with him even though she was married with children. Totally mad
I gave my narcissistic father the ultimatum to either respect me or to leave me alone. He chose the latter because it was within his range of competence. He couldn't respect anyone.
@@KimSaeedbut how does family forgive even if the relationship is not the same? How do one go from years and decades never ever speaking to their parents.
One mistake you are all making is to think that the narcissist cares about you. Reality is that if you are no longer useful, they forget about you like a goldfish forgets what happened ten seconds ago. The narc isn't crying into their beer missing you, the way you would like to think.
Haha! 😂 like a gold fish forgets what happened 10 seconds ago… that’s good! Oh, if only I TOO could be a gold fish… I’m working on it.. starting to realize, ya know what, I really don’t like them! Shallow superficial relationships do nothing for me.. their attempts to devalue are like a mosquito bite now.. it’s like I see what your sorry self is trying to do.. Good Riddance! Like that goldfish.. I forget you
My grandfather didn't contact my mom (her dad) or me from her marrige till I graduated from highschool. I saw him twice after that. Then when he was elderly he tried to frame her for elder abuse. We had not seen him for 40 years. He could charm you and then stab you in the back and then blame you. He is not here any more thank goodness.
Lol. They would not reflect because they don’t sit still. They are jumping around on every thing and everyone. Don’t even THINK of waiting on them. they are a lost cause.
1. Moved on to new supply. 2. Perception of empowerment (see you as strong). 3. Fear of consequences. 4. Loss of control. 5. The path of least resistance.
6. hurt ego and he would never ever take the risk of reaching out and getting no reaction from me… I think he would rather get his toe nails ripped out one by one
My wife (21 years together) left me and kids before christmas. after I was in the hospital half dozen times up to 1 month stay the last couple years, for months she was coming home late everynight and when i confronted her she kept saying she was working meanwhile she was drinking and stuff with friends. she’s making very good money with work and she yelled at me in the spring calling me a narcissist in front of my kids. I questioned myself and started watching tons of videos. learned the mirroring she did to me years ago and now doing with friends, how she’s vain and got gigantic implants couple months ago, new car, 4 trips all while i’m watching kids... now i can’t speak to her at all, while i find out from friends she’s on dating websites…I’m sooo confused, hurt and crying each day. I still love her and would take care of her forever… She again yelled in front of kids i’m going to be alone forever…Honestly who’s the narcissist here??? please pray for us…bless you all!
Once you stand up to a BULLY they leave you alone and look for another victim . They may try to befriend you to avoid you exposing what they really are as weak cowards or just keep clear of you. They're not your friend, never were, never will be.
My ex (the father of my youngest son) had received The Vaccine, and told us he was on his death bed and needed to see our son. It was just another lie.
"You're a lying liar who lies about lying." - This mug of yours is brilliant! Last night while negotiating property returns with my very recent ex (who I now understand is a covert narc sociopath) he started with gaslighting me again when I texted him about ghosting me. I call him out on lie, he denies it, he says I'm being mean and gives more excuses that I know are lies. When I continue to call him out on the lies which are so insanely transparent he continues to deny and lie about it some more. You will NEVER get them to admit it even when the chess game is ended, the proof is in your hand, it doesn't matter, they will still act like a child yelling that you are lying and being mean to them. They will never give you the satisfaction. One of my ex's favorite when he won't admit, is "Why what's it matter". I like to answer that clearly their lying and their integrity doesn't matter to them. In other words, I see who you are. When I ask, where's your excuse and explanation now because I've called out all the ones before that for being baloney, his response is "I'm done giving you explanations." In other words, I'm out of excuses and clearly have nowhere to run, but it will be a cold day in hell before I admit that. He insisted he's not texting me from his tablet and his phone is lost, so he couldn't text me earlier to say he would be a no show to our appointment. Then after being that no show he texts me 8 hours later acting like we never had an appointment, even though he texted saying "On the way" right before it. It's all to frustrate you. Nothing more. When I call him out that I recognize the phone number as being from his tablet he just continues to say it's not and that his tablet is elsewhere and he had no way of getting a hold of me. But he has no explanation for where his texts are coming from in that moment. Again, it's the kid with their hand in the cookie jar telling you they're not taking a cookie as you stand there watching them. 🙃 They have two goals here - one is to make you crazy with anger, frustration, and powerlessness - and two is to deny all accountability. And they don't care that you know it's a lie. Character or lack of is not a concern for them, once they understand that YOU KNOW who they actually are. Life and relationships are all just a game for them, at least for the narc sociopath who may want a good image, but doesn't really care that much the way a grandiose narc would. Their contempt for society overrides their desire to look good.
This confirms what I really already knew. No contact for almost 15 yrs now. After a 25 yr marriage ended in divorce. He already had new supply and I found firm evidence of that at the time. He didn't need to waste his time on me anymore when his 'needs' were being fulfilled by someone else. Also the financial agreement from the divorce after a long term marriage knocked the wind out of his sails.I think at the time he had no idea what his obligation was going to be to me, even after we were no longer married. I think he laid low after that and got his fix' from his new supply. Makes sense now.
At the beginning of my relationship with her, she gaslit me all the time saying she would attend functions, pretended she was a good woman, and that she wanted a long future with me. When I discovered the real person behind all the masks, it seems she lost interest because she would prefer to be fooling someone. Being authentic and being loved for exactly who she is, in spite of her toxic traits, is not what she wanted or accepted.
I only hear from him through courts.. he took my home that I had after being married for 14 years and I had it for 18 prior to that crazy crazy stuff now he's been in court with my son for over three and a half years are divorce was 4 years ago over student loans that the judge actually said he had to pay it's just never ending... Never!
It's like they are altogether a different specimen . Not what a normal human being is. So how can a normal human understand them . That is the only lesson for a victim to learn from them . Once learnt, walk away
EXACTLY. It’s frustrating when people only refer to it (narcissism) from the dating/relationship standpoint. The most chaos and destruction is when it’s family members.
I told him to never call me again. He called me everyday for four months. I never answered. He is a criminal sociopath. He can ruin someone else’s life not mine.
Once they know that you have their number, they move on and find new targets. They never really have true friends or familial relationships. I know, I haven't spoken to my crazy manipulating sister in 10 years.
4 months of no contact and she has made no effort (that I'm aware of) to break or circumvent my blocks. Reasons 3&4 resonate as the most likely why for me. Stay strong. Protect your Peace 🕊️.
Just hatd when its my sons wife. I ask to see my granddaughters, but they are either too busy,or don't bother answering. They know this is the way to crush me
Well he cant come back , hes blocked , and staying that way, I doubt he would come to my door I live a small distance away. He wouldn't put in the time or money to return. Im taking the lesson and moving on armed with wisdom.
conversation between a narcissistic woman and her friend, narc 'You see that guy?" friend "ya, what?' narc "I made him a millionair" friend "how?" narc "I ate his money, he was a billionair"
I don't get any hoovering attempts because I made sure they (her and her evil parents) know in their empty core that I'm a big risk. She tried to k!ll me, her parents knew about it and now her father's career in academia is on the line. Her father still working as the head of the university, only because I let him. Let him have something to lose, then they stay away. I'm thinking of starting a channel with videos about a different kind of 'no contact'. I'm not going to use the word 'revenge' here, because that word doesn't mean what it used to mean anymore, but you get the idea. There's gold to be found in the shadow, godspeed!
After no contact with my ex narc friend he texted me 2 weeks ago to say hi. I seen him in church today and he didn't speak to me. I don't have time to play games anymore. I'm fine with that too. I've moved on.
THAT would be lovely. The Borderline Narc that tried to destroy me has contacted me THREE times in as many months and EVERY SINGLE TIME I say "Please Leave Me Alone"!!!!
This man is pissed that I cut him off and is somehow trying to blame me and make it seem like I should be guilty and like I'm unstable when I never reacted to his idiot ness and that made him mad
Mine did that, too. Until his family stopped paying his legal fees. Then, I finally got a decent custody modification after taking him back to court over the years.
Its a blessing not to be contacted by narcissists and manipulators,the life is so peaceful without them.
I ALWAYS hear back so generally not true. And the Narcs in my life all come back. Often over and over.
Yes indeed your right
@user-vq6pm3zz1z What I did after I left him was change my phone #, got off Social Media, and I moved. There are no flying monkeys bcse he had no friends. If anyone googles me, my OLD address comes up. I had enough of him. I was Hospitalized and almost didn't make it, but I'm here, and I'm finally at peace. Good luck to you. 🌞👍
It is a good sign to not hear from them . They have realized that you have set firm boundaries and can no longer be manipulated , abused or lied to . It is a great thing .
@@London-p9b He meant this for those in situations where the narc never tries to contact the victim after discard . . .
Once exposed, They move on , to find a new food supply
This is what demons do.
This is what most predators do
This! 💯
Indeed. It's a blessing
I refer to Narcs as "Life Suckers" bc they're very similar to parasites, whereas they NEED a healthy, strong & competent host in order to survive! If the supply isn't strong enough to take their bs, they move onto another host (supply).
It’s a joy not to be contacted. That’s closure enough
Closure? They definitely plan on leaving you in confusion and enjoy leaving you with no closure.
They sure do! I found out the hard way
Yup that's them Narc's SUCK. Let Them Go Be Someone Elses PROBLEM There LOSS OUR GAIN.
Disrespect and abuse is closure. No contact permanently is empowerment.
They have found sufficient "supply" elsewhere so count your blessings
You've been spared 🙌
Amen
Got that right!
When you confront a narcissist, they get offended that they will wait for you to fix it. If you reach out, they pretend nothing happened. If you not reach out to them - they never will. It’s over. Happened with 4 of my exfriends.
I don't really care if he stays quiet. At least we're peaceful for a while. He can't gaslight me, I won't let that happen without retribution. If he doesn't like me exposing him, he better not apply his crazy shitty supply.
Eviction, your fired. Go home. Regardless words like these are for censoring content and mines all like whoa.
Not waiting for no one. My peace passes all understanding.
Once you are on to them, and they know it, you will never hear from them again. It's been over 12 years since I told him I knew what he was! 👍
Same here…it’s been 14 months since he showed up at my house and I told him I knew he was narcissistic. He left and started the smear campaign immediately. He already had a new supply which he lied to me about. He just got discarded by her I heard.
@QueenBee-fg1iz I told him that I'm FINALLY on to him. I never knew what a narcissist was, and when I ended it, his expression on his face was priceless!
👍😉 OH, he smeared me all over the place! I was no good, etc..He rebounded and got MARRIED 2 WEEKS LATER! 🤣
QueenBee , they will all get dumped! Geez, after I dumped him, he went bar-hopping.
The woman he married back then probably dumped him too. Wow! I wonder what they look like now??💀💀🤑 Ha, ha!
Evil jealous cowards...pfff..
Their fear of rejection, you spoke on it as reason 4 of this video. They can't take the wounding of being rejected twice. That would give us the power. They will more than likely stalk and watch you-but not contact you. So the hoover's are probably there, you just don't hear about them-although you can "feel them", if that makes sense. They(the hoovers') fall to the ground.
@@UA-camPremium-hj9jh Same here. I've had to make all of my online profiles as private as I could and it still doesn't stop them. They even use a friend in common to extract info from me by proxy. Not sure what to do with said friend.
The chance is they are too cowardly to take accountability for three actions
@@UA-camPremium-hj9jh they are the biggest cowards.
For displaying so many red flags.
Our children haven't heard from their narc father since he was exposed in family court and found proved of laundry list of abuse towards myself and the children. I think it's a blessing. It's best to have one healthy parent that risk being destroyed by a narc growing up
That says it all. Read my response above.
♥️🍀🕊
❤🍀🕊
my ex-narc "friend" thinks he is punishing me by not contacting me, but I couldn't be happier 🙂
Perhap they forgot all about you? Is it time to let it go and move on with your life?
Same
Thank you!
Why do we want to hear from people who abused us so severely that we had to escape them to stay sane ?
It's a weird validation I think
We miss the breadcrumb of hope
Very True
Yeah its like addiction
Mostly because it started from parents/guardians etc.. some so called empaths need to heal also, and aren’t well themselves.. They both need each other, perfect toxic marriage/match…
1. Preoccupied with new target
2. Perception of empowerment - they know they can’t manipulate you.
3. Fear of consequences
4. Loss of control
5. Narcs need somebody who they can fool
BOOM ! That's it, he would not dare to try and come back around me just one more time. He knows I'm just a BAD ASS truth teller ha, ha, lol. Thanks Kim ! For making it all clear.
Thank you for making me laugh. 😂 My situation when I finally put his ass on blast and spoke my mind. I wasn’t the one, enough is enough
Me ex hovered non stop but now he just disappeared out of nowhere he clearly has a new supply but he totally ripped me apart without telling me anything and from one day to another!! I just realized he is truly a devil and have been actually in peace since that day… thank you for this video 🙏
They all get in touch after long while ..months and years but they always do it happens when you moved on and the person they been sucking life out of left them too.Its sad and crazy.All this time they really believe you been waiting on them.
Perfect description. My ex narcissist cheated on me with a girl he knew 30yrs before and when I wouldn't take him back he was chasing after an ex from 23yr before and she also started sleeping with him even though she was married with children. Totally mad
Such a lack of values. Just disturbing...
They recycle.
They reached old friends and they call them nice people..What is nice i
In my case it’s my mom . Seems like everyone automatically thinks it’s a spouse ! I’m 10 months no contact !
I gave my narcissistic father the ultimatum to either respect me or to leave me alone. He chose the latter because it was within his range of competence. He couldn't respect anyone.
I've created some content about toxic family members. You're right...it can be anyone, including family.
@@KimSaeedbut how does family forgive even if the relationship is not the same? How do one go from years and decades never ever speaking to their parents.
Family narcissism is more common than realized IMHO
Every member has an assigned role
I was 50 when I finally saw mine for what she really is…… no contact is the only way to maintain my newfound peace and it’s been 3+ years now.
The fresh supply does not know about they dark sides (that you called out) so they can be a flawless star again…
One mistake you are all making is to think that the narcissist cares about you. Reality is that if you are no longer useful, they forget about you like a goldfish forgets what happened ten seconds ago. The narc isn't crying into their beer missing you, the way you would like to think.
Haha! 😂 like a gold fish forgets what happened 10 seconds ago… that’s good!
Oh, if only I TOO could be a gold fish…
I’m working on it.. starting to realize, ya know what, I really don’t like them! Shallow superficial relationships do nothing for me.. their attempts to devalue are like a mosquito bite now.. it’s like I see what your sorry self is trying to do..
Good Riddance! Like that goldfish.. I forget you
Thanks to the new supply for taking one for the team for good
Excellent video! New supply and the path of least resistance with a so called "friend".
My grandfather didn't contact my mom (her dad) or me from her marrige till I graduated from highschool. I saw him twice after that.
Then when he was elderly he tried to frame her for elder abuse. We had not seen him for 40 years. He could charm you and then stab you in the back and then blame you. He is not here any more thank goodness.
I'm sorry you and your family had to experience that. These people truly never change :(
Lol. They would not reflect because they don’t sit still. They are jumping around on every thing and everyone.
Don’t even THINK of waiting on them. they are a lost cause.
1. Moved on to new supply.
2. Perception of empowerment (see you as strong).
3. Fear of consequences.
4. Loss of control.
5. The path of least resistance.
All of the above, Plus more: like a narcissistic injury, i told mine of exactly who they are.
Not yet, but I'm sure it's coming.
6. hurt ego and he would never ever take the risk of reaching out and getting no reaction from me… I think he would rather get his toe nails ripped out one by one
My wife (21 years together) left me and kids before christmas. after I was in the hospital half dozen times up to 1 month stay the last couple years, for months she was coming home late everynight and when i confronted her she kept saying she was working meanwhile she was drinking and stuff with friends. she’s making very good money with work and she yelled at me in the spring calling me a narcissist in front of my kids. I questioned myself and started watching tons of videos. learned the mirroring she did to me years ago and now doing with friends, how she’s vain and got gigantic implants couple months ago, new car, 4 trips all while i’m watching kids... now i can’t speak to her at all, while i find out from friends she’s on dating websites…I’m sooo confused, hurt and crying each day. I still love her and would take care of her forever…
She again yelled in front of kids i’m going to be alone forever…Honestly who’s the narcissist here??? please pray for us…bless you all!
The man is always the narcissist according to marriage counsellors
Maybe not "always" but most of the time. If you could only see what I see and hear what I hear. @@halcyonzenith4411
Isn't it a relief and a blessing?
Once you stand up to a BULLY they leave you alone and look for another victim . They may try to befriend you to avoid you exposing what they really are as weak cowards or just keep clear of you. They're not your friend, never were,
never will be.
The cancer lie happened to me after he ghosted me! WoW!
My ex (the father of my youngest son) had received The Vaccine, and told us he was on his death bed and needed to see our son. It was just another lie.
Good spot on points- we've looked under the hood; no rolls royce engineering there, more like a one stroke lawn mower deal😂
LOL!
"You're a lying liar who lies about lying." - This mug of yours is brilliant! Last night while negotiating property returns with my very recent ex (who I now understand is a covert narc sociopath) he started with gaslighting me again when I texted him about ghosting me. I call him out on lie, he denies it, he says I'm being mean and gives more excuses that I know are lies. When I continue to call him out on the lies which are so insanely transparent he continues to deny and lie about it some more. You will NEVER get them to admit it even when the chess game is ended, the proof is in your hand, it doesn't matter, they will still act like a child yelling that you are lying and being mean to them. They will never give you the satisfaction.
One of my ex's favorite when he won't admit, is "Why what's it matter". I like to answer that clearly their lying and their integrity doesn't matter to them. In other words, I see who you are. When I ask, where's your excuse and explanation now because I've called out all the ones before that for being baloney, his response is "I'm done giving you explanations." In other words, I'm out of excuses and clearly have nowhere to run, but it will be a cold day in hell before I admit that. He insisted he's not texting me from his tablet and his phone is lost, so he couldn't text me earlier to say he would be a no show to our appointment. Then after being that no show he texts me 8 hours later acting like we never had an appointment, even though he texted saying "On the way" right before it. It's all to frustrate you. Nothing more. When I call him out that I recognize the phone number as being from his tablet he just continues to say it's not and that his tablet is elsewhere and he had no way of getting a hold of me. But he has no explanation for where his texts are coming from in that moment. Again, it's the kid with their hand in the cookie jar telling you they're not taking a cookie as you stand there watching them. 🙃 They have two goals here - one is to make you crazy with anger, frustration, and powerlessness - and two is to deny all accountability. And they don't care that you know it's a lie. Character or lack of is not a concern for them, once they understand that YOU KNOW who they actually are. Life and relationships are all just a game for them, at least for the narc sociopath who may want a good image, but doesn't really care that much the way a grandiose narc would. Their contempt for society overrides their desire to look good.
OMG!! I fell for that CANCER lie before! I can't believe he even said he had it! Sick. 😠
Mine did it too!
I'm glad that my narc ex never speaks to me again! It's a blessing!! As a survivor, You're better off without them! I know I am! Good Riddance!!
After 5 years with him, I finally figured it out. I told him I was finally on to him! Never saw him again. 12.5 years ago.
@@jannlewandowski5540 Amen to that!! I'm glad You're free!!
This confirms what I really already knew. No contact for almost 15 yrs now. After a 25 yr marriage ended in divorce. He already had new supply and I found firm evidence of that at the time. He didn't need to waste his time on me anymore when his 'needs' were being fulfilled by someone else. Also the financial agreement from the divorce after a long term marriage knocked the wind out of his sails.I think at the time he had no idea what his obligation was going to be to me, even after we were no longer married. I think he laid low after that and got his fix' from his new supply. Makes sense now.
Read my response above. No contact ( ie ZERO) can save lives.
You wouldn’t hear from them if your no contact regime is in place. You wouldn’t know if they hoovered you if you have the proper no contact in place.
👏👏👏
Not hear from the narc again? That would be great!
Wait, what? Why would you want them to hoover? The question is how the heck do you get rid of them? I want to be obsolete to them.
Don't expect clarity from chaos
A simple, yet profound statement.
The Narcissist in my Life is one of my adult daughters. It's been Really Hard. Trying to get used to a life I Never imagined, without her.
She cheated on me and when the other guy dumped her she hoovered me back. I didn’t know what was going on and wanted to save my marriage.
Cut them off before they start taking advantage of you. Manipulation to them is making you feel like you cannot do without them physically.
Yep.
No not again I had enough never going back his my exxx now💯‼️
Thank you! I'm beyond a "challenge" to him now. I think he's realizing I'm an impossibility and will injure him badly.
Well said!
At the beginning of my relationship with her, she gaslit me all the time saying she would attend functions, pretended she was a good woman, and that she wanted a long future with me. When I discovered the real person behind all the masks, it seems she lost interest because she would prefer to be fooling someone. Being authentic and being loved for exactly who she is, in spite of her toxic traits, is not what she wanted or accepted.
Great information. Love your videos. TY for sharing.
You are so welcome! Thank you for watching :)
Had a friend awhile back she came in took me for a fool and left as quick, ghosted me and no apology
Great timing on the video. God bless
Glad it was helpful! :)
Kim Saeed, Very Good Video Right on Point.
I only hear from him through courts.. he took my home that I had after being married for 14 years and I had it for 18 prior to that crazy crazy stuff now he's been in court with my son for over three and a half years are divorce was 4 years ago over student loans that the judge actually said he had to pay it's just never ending... Never!
It's like they are altogether a different specimen . Not what a normal human being is.
So how can a normal human understand them . That is the only lesson for a victim to learn from them . Once learnt, walk away
You have healed so many Doctor, including Myself. ❤
He couldn’t fool me!
They're our sisters, brothers, parents.
EXACTLY.
It’s frustrating when people only refer to it (narcissism) from the dating/relationship standpoint.
The most chaos and destruction is when it’s family members.
Not when they’re cyberstalking me, but your videos are outstanding, helpful and informative. Love your videos.
Glad you like them, Elizabeth :)
I enjoyed watching your video! Thank you!
Glad you enjoyed it! :)
I told him to never call me again. He called me everyday for four months. I never answered. He is a criminal sociopath. He can ruin someone else’s life not mine.
my ex did the same thing after she dumped me....i swear its on purpose smh
They sending across my feed everyday like they don't have a life 😊
Dear Kim Saed I love what you share with us thank you very much
I didn't hear from him because he couldn't find me thankfully. I moved.
Once they know that you have their number, they move on and find new targets. They never really have true friends or familial relationships. I know, I haven't spoken to my crazy manipulating sister in 10 years.
So true.
4 months of no contact and she has made no effort (that I'm aware of) to break or circumvent my blocks. Reasons 3&4 resonate as the most likely why for me. Stay strong. Protect your Peace 🕊️.
Love the liberty cap lamp 👍
Very useful and helpful, I’ve never heard anyone cover this before. Thank you very much! ❤️👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🏆
Thanks
Wow... How do you know this at the level..i only speak as a survivor but your points are so valid and succinct thank you
I lived it...plus, worked with coaching clients for 12+ years. These manipulative people want to believe they're unique, but they're all the same.
Just hatd when its my sons wife. I ask to see my granddaughters, but they are either too busy,or don't bother answering. They know this is the way to crush me
I gave the narcissist a mirror.. they better not contact me..
Well he cant come back , hes blocked , and staying that way, I doubt he would come to my door I live a small distance away. He wouldn't put in the time or money to return.
Im taking the lesson and moving on armed with wisdom.
Thank you.
conversation between a narcissistic woman and her friend,
narc 'You see that guy?"
friend "ya, what?'
narc "I made him a millionair"
friend "how?"
narc "I ate his money, he was a billionair"
I don't get any hoovering attempts because I made sure they (her and her evil parents) know in their empty core that I'm a big risk. She tried to k!ll me, her parents knew about it and now her father's career in academia is on the line. Her father still working as the head of the university, only because I let him. Let him have something to lose, then they stay away. I'm thinking of starting a channel with videos about a different kind of 'no contact'. I'm not going to use the word 'revenge' here, because that word doesn't mean what it used to mean anymore, but you get the idea. There's gold to be found in the shadow, godspeed!
Not directly perhaps but you will hear from your narcissist as they go around speaking badly about you to everybody you know in common
After no contact with my ex narc friend he texted me 2 weeks ago to say hi. I seen him in church today and he didn't speak to me. I don't have time to play games anymore. I'm fine with that too. I've moved on.
❤ Andrew, you are a great light!!!!!
My ex said she had brain cancer when I broke it off. And then blamed me for not knowing she had cancer. Not even a joke.
I thank God the demon went m.i.a.
"IT's" absence from my life is my gain. So much happier being alone than dealing with a parasitic bottom feeder
Love the tee shirt! Is only add you lie not only to everyone but also to yourself.. lots of love
Mercifully let go😊. They never admit anything. Too many lilielielies
This is so what happened to me. Absolute demon people
I would love to see a video on when your narc ex developed cancer.
Lol
THAT would be lovely.
The Borderline Narc that tried to destroy me has contacted me THREE times in as many months and EVERY SINGLE TIME I say "Please Leave Me Alone"!!!!
I’m 🙋🏾♀️one of those who never hears from the one I ended up with.
This man is pissed that I cut him off and is somehow trying to blame me and make it seem like I should be guilty and like I'm unstable when I never reacted to his idiot ness and that made him mad
I agree with uuu 💯💯💯‼️
A apology. That’s it
He left after 4 years of marriage, he walked away and left it all up to me. He also cut off his friends
They know that you’re not going to be bullied or abused and you’ll call the police. Yup, fear of legal consequences.
Bc they sent out feelers and by Gods grace they were lopped off to lil nubs and then wriggled on thier own until the feelers stopped moving.
Thanks for your advice and please tell us about flying monkeys. How we deal with them. ❤
They realize they are screwed up
In my case...
It's over over, or she's biding her time and preparing her assault.
Read Alexander's Long Gravel Road Journey of Hope. About bullying and narcissism. Great book. Very insightful.
The ExNT I survived is hoovering with the legal system. 🙄😒
Mine did that, too. Until his family stopped paying his legal fees. Then, I finally got a decent custody modification after taking him back to court over the years.
It's because you block them. And forget about them.
I was that bad ass!!!
I was agent 99!!!
They are energy vampires
True
What if they are an ex and they took off with your money and kids? You caught on to their games and they run like a coward?