I always ask that! Even people in relationships where the person says their partner watches them at work or on an entire shift. All I hear is that the stalker is an unemployed weirdo. You can’t stalk and be a productive adult at the same time.
The guy saying “I thought she was with someone so I put a tracker on her car so I could see if she was” like that’s perfectly normal is insanely creepy
Tell me about it. Plus, calling her while he's speaking with the police. Who does that? If she's sleeping with someone or hanging out with anyone. (Hotel) It's her business and not his. This is literally one of the worst things I have seen. Putting a damn tracker on her car.
Yea I don’t think we got the entire story. If this dude was so creepy, and they had no relations, why would she resume communications? She needs to stop talking to these kinds of people lmao. Hopefully she learned a valuable lesson.
I just watched going, where's the camera, the cops are being punked and then my chin was on the floor when it was real, how can he be real, he thought putting a tracker on her car was no problem !?!? 😮😮 😮😮
I had a tenant who was killed by her ex. She was only 21. She was a good kid, worked & kept to herself. It happened a couple of years ago but it has stayed with me. I can't imagine how her family is. I never rented her apartment & her family still visits from time to time. I plant her favorite flowers outside of her front window every year and will continue. Stalkers need to have severe charges and probably some mental health care while in jail. The capacity to stalk someone is, imo, a violent violation of someone's life.
That's absolutely beautiful. I can't even imagine how weird it all must feel for you. She sounds like she was a great person honestly, I'm sorry you had to experience that.
... umm rent her apartment out? It sounds like a weird attachment of yours to accept loss of money and to leave a unit abandoned because of the memory of a young woman you never knew personally.
@@user-us9xg3tw2x I have a vacant that I use for a "show unit" and lease signings and things anyway so I will rent out my old "office" unit and just make her old one my new one. Besides being hard to rent out a unit like that because you have to tell people what happened, I had a lady that lived next door who moved because she said she was hearing bumps in the night. So, for me, it just makes more financial sense to move my office and be able to show an apartment that is furnished, do office work, paperwork, etc in.
It's so weird. The US will dole out punishments for crimes that are like 150 years. You'd be shocked to see how pathetic some other countries punishments are for things like murder. As in murderers can walk out in a few years. So you have all this and suddenly you're like...stalking...ah that's a misdemeanor. What? Like that first one, he's some creepy Indian who put a tracking device on an American woman's car. Why isn't he kicked out of your country?
yeah, a week in jail??? The law really doesn't care about women's safety.. These people needs to be removed from society. Since the law doesn't care, at least shaming them online & hope the next would-be victim sees this video.
Any crime considered "stalking" should NOT be classified as a misdemeanor. Pile on the felonies. Speaking from personal experience, these people are beyond mentally unstable & the consequences need to be as severe as possible.
They always escalate, we know this and the courts still don’t do their job! Crime is only growing in the last few years, weak judges just let them out with no real consequences. We must demand better of our leaders and vote for the candidates who are tough on crime, and big on safety!
For real. Theres a lot of stalking incidents that lead to the stalker taking the victims life from getting slaps on the wrist and not taking it seriously to stop.
@@FlawlessImperfectionBeauty The courts don't set penalties for crimes; that is the job of the State/Federal legislators. If you want the punishments changed, lobby your State/Federal legislators to do so.
I’ve always thought that, like the sex offender registry, there should be a stalker registery. We have a right to know who’s a threat to us and we should know who these people are.
Stalkers are far more dangerous than the justice system likes to think they are. I've seen multiple horrific murder cases that started with stalking. One woman was attacked, murdered, and dismembered in her own apartment by her stalker. Stalkers are mentally unstable and when they go so far as to put tracking devices on their victim's car, they should be given felonies. Stalking is the gateway to other horrific crimes like sexual assault, kidnapping, and murder
IMO it's because back in the day a stalker had to do things in public while people interacted. Think to even the late 1800s where it was mostly foot traffic, everyone knew each other and outsiders were scrutinized, you kept you and yours accountable. These days of high tech, isolated conditions, cars, and a lack of a cultural moral center? Stalking is far more than a peeping Tom that your neighbor's dad can beat out back.
@Undomaranel murder and domestic violence were far MORE common in the 1800's, but without forensic science, killers, stalkers and abusers got away with it more.
@@Undomaranelit was legal to beat your wife before 10 pm in the UK in Victorian times. You weren’t allowed to do it after 10pm because it would disturb the neighbours.
@@cl5470 Not just a lack of forensic science, cultural attitudes of the time towards gender were probably the biggest culprit in letting the guilty go unpunished.
How do other animals rape and take whatever they want from one another? It's just natural behavior really. Luckily we have managed to create a society and laws that deter most people from doing this. But at the end of the day some humans will succumb to their basic instincts.
It is completely out of their control. It’s a compulsion. They need years of therapy and even then, it’s a tough one to fix. Not based on reality at all.
We need to think of seriously harsher penalties for stalkers. I cannot imagine the terror a person, especially a woman, must feel when in the midst of such a thing. Usually the victim has to pay with their life before authorities do anything meaningful, and by then it’s too late
Agreed 💯 One week in jail..? The law doesn't care about women's safety; these people needs to be removed from society. At least shame them online & hope the next would-be victim sees this video.
I was stalked relentlessly by an ex gf for 2 years, totally cut her off when we broke up, blocked her on everything, and changed my number. So she tried to get to me through my friends and family members, made fake social media accounts to send dozens of messages (which I didn’t open), left sinister notes at my home, and even got her kids to message me on their accounts. Last time she tried to message me with a fake fb account was 7 years after I last spoke to her. Stalking is never about trying to get back with somebody they love as stalkers generally claim, it’s purely about control through intimidation.
Totally agree though I don't think the first woman was trying to be friends with him. I think 'friend' was her attempting to neutralise his crazy arsed stalking. Unsuccessfully of course.
Stalkers never mean anything good towards the victim. If you try to be friends with them, they will escalate and do things that hurt you. It's mental illness obsession.
Stalking should NEVER be a misdemeanor. If invading someone's privacy has been going on long enough to be called "stalking", then it should be a felony because of the weeks or months of fear and dread the victim's had to live with, for both themselves and their household members--and probably others, like co-workers. Police and prosecutors typically under-charge and under-prosecute stalking, which was only criminalized 30 years ago. Before that, such behavior was seen as relationship fall-out or just not serious.
@@Gl-my8fw You missed the point entirely mate. Also a taking a picture of someone in public is not equitable to placing a tracking device on their car without permission. 🤦
it totally ruins your life yes & many of them invite other stalkers of the same type to stalk you so then you are swamped with like dozens of sex pervert stalkers breaking the law to obsess over you & criminally ruin your life I was raped & stalked by a child rapist ever since I was 14 & it has been non stop abuse spouting from this cop hating low iq criminal flabby piece of shit ever since he needs to be locked up he is a Nassar clone he kidnapped & raped me when I was half dead from being hit by a car
Stalking is honestly scary as fuck. I had to deal with a obsessed ex girlfriend who I had a feeling was either following me and or tracking me. Finally found out she had my phone on her find my iPhone app. She was following me and trying to see what I was doing and who I was seeing. I had enough evidence to file a restraining order and I haven't seen her since thank god.
Stalking needs to be considered a felony, not a misdemeanor. When someone says 'no', that person means it. In my case, if someone has wrong me in severe ways, I expect that person to stay away from away and not contact me anymore. I don't care how sorry that person is. I'll press charges against my stalkers because I'm unforgiving.
I can tell you from personal experience as a woman. Just try to get a male cop take a statement and follow up on stalking. The stalker just says your his girlfriend or an "crazy ex". My coffee was drugged and i was raped and even then no police officer would take a statement at the police dept. It's still not considered much of a crime.
I had a stalker, it was absolutely terrifying. He knew where I lived, where I worked, the route I took to work, my phone number, and email address. Once he called me and described in detail what I was wearing and how I was sitting, in my own apartment. When I asked how he knew, he said, "I'm watching you." Literally gave me the chills. He knew my measurements, my clothing and jewelry size, my shoe size. Threatened to kill my bf and hurt me. The fear can't be described. I had nightmares (sometimes still do), didn't want to go anywhere, was always looking over my shoulder, didn't feel like I could trust anyone. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.
@@COVID-1901 To make a very long story short, I broke my lease and moved. He would threaten to off himself any time I didn't do or say what he said (like when he wanted me to tell him I loved him), and I felt immense guilt on top of everything else going on. My wonderful, wise sister pointed out that even if he did, it wasn't my fault; it was him making a choice. That advice helped me make a quick, clean break without worrying about what he might do. Got a new phone number, new email (I backed up the old one in case I needed proof, but I shut it down so he couldn't contact me anymore), and quit my job. I don't know if he watched the new apartment tenants until he realized I wasn't coming back, but I guess the new place was out of the scope of his watch and he couldn't find me after that. In one of life's little "ironies," I did have a close encounter with him about ten years later, although he never knew: My husband ended up in a group with him on an online game. They were chatting over voice coms and my husband's sound was coming through his speakers instead of his headphones. The guy talked, and my husband asked me what was wrong (later told me my face drained of all color when I heard his voice). I told him "I know who he is, that's the guy that stalked me." My husband asked me if I wanted him to say something and I said hell no, I got away, hopefully, he's forgotten about me now and I want to stay that way. I made sure to steer well clear of the microphone so it wouldn't accidentally pick up my voice, and the guy was never the wiser.
Oh my gods i hope its gonna get better and the nightmares will go away so you can forget about him and live peacefuly What a crazy peace of garbage Wow He should be in prison and mental hospital
The laws of stalking needs to be WAY more strict. Someone plans a GPS tracker on someone's car, and they are so obsessed about having their way with someone that they think about that person from the time they get up in the morning to the time they go to bed, your punishment is only a few months in jail and a couple thousand dollar fine. Yeah, then what do you think is going to happen once that is all over with?
I was stalked. Went to my parents house broke all of their windows. Beat my brother with a golf club. And shattered a 40 bottle across my face. I had to switch colleges and leave my state. I thought it was over. I eventually got married and had a son. I show up at church for my sons baptism and he was there. The stalking began again. I worked with children so I had to leave my job out of fear for them. He somehow got my parents new number and called them at three in the morning. my mom was battling cancer and was sleeping and didn’t hear it. She listened to the message in the morning and we called the police. They showed up at my house a few hours later, letting me know he killed himself surrounded by a shrine of pictures of me. He’s gone and yet I still don’t feel safe.
How awful for you. My heart goes out to you and your family. You've done nothing to deserve this and it sounds like you have PTSD as a result of the terrible trauma. There's an injection called a sub ganglion block. It's been used for over a century for veterans with certain pain conditions but a side effect of it is to calm the brain after trauma. I got it for my nephew (cptsd) and he's much improved. He says he can think about and work through his trauma as he's no longer in a state of dread. I'm in the UK and it's only available privately here but it's worth every penny. I wish you well. Remember, you're NOT a victim. You're a survivor.
Yes she is seeing, dating, sleeping and talking to many men other than you. If she TROs you or presses charges, you go ahead and do the same for her peeping tom ass.
Ramesh is one creepy dude! I've seen the whole video and at the end when he's in the police car, the officer asks him where he wants to put his car keys and before Ramesh can answer the officer said, "Do you want to hide it somewhere? You're good at doing things like that"
For sure, but that 2nd guy is even scarier to me. Those eyes, his meth, plus his downright enthusiasm to engage in demented road rager bs shows he's a serious threat to anyone.
It’s crazy. He actually lives in the city im in. And the place he got arrested is near my neighborhood. John’s Creek is a very wealthy city where nothing really happens in JC filled with doctors and tech workers.. Most people keep their front door open because nothing ever happens here generally. It’s crazy that this happened near my house.
Narcissistic parents am I right. They are notorious for boundary stomping. And some narcissist parents DO stalk their adult children. I don't remember her name but there was an Irish college student who sued her helicopter parents and successfully got a restraining order.
@@bunnyluver2176 He actually GROPED the 9 year old! And him trying to destroy his phone irritated me because he's not trying to even take responsibility for his actions.
Can I just say that I really appreciate you guys for laying it thick on the first guy? Minimizers and gaslighters like him do a really good job of making not only their victims but also those around them doubt that what they're doing is wrong or a big deal. Hell, even I was starting to second guess if it was worth calling the cops over. Seeing and hearing you guys not falling for it and calling him out was a huge relief and really reinforced that it's always okay to only look at the actions and not the excuses. Just made my day.
In my case I haven't been able to arrest her. She strikes whenever I feel comfortable or start dating anyone. She claims I SA'd her and that ends my relationships. 22 years of this idiocy. I'm tired and on the verge of suicide. Maybe that's what she's pursuing.
I attempted to file a complaint and gave the detectives all my social media accounts and my phone including my WhatsApp, texts and calls. Police down here won't even try to intervene or allow experts to give you a chance to surrender evidence. You have to pay experts to do the digging into the records and collect and compile all evidence in your favor. And that's quite expensive. But the complaint was filed @@tablescissors67
15:35 He should be charged with evidence tampering too, especially if the phone's data is successfully recovered anyway and proves beyond a shadow of a doubt that he was hiding illegal sexual content on the device. Have them ask him in court, "why did you need to destroy your device the moment you were put into police custody? If you had something on the phone that you disliked, you could have deleted it at any time before then. What specifically made you feel the need to ensure the police were unable to ever look through your phone for criminal content?" Failure to give a reasonable explanation should be seen as evidence of a crime, conspiracy to commit a crime, or aiding and abetting a crime for someone else. Such a blatant, sloppy attempt to destroy evidence, like flushing the drugs as the cops are entering the bathroom.
People don’t get how terrifying it is, to have a guy follow you incessantly like a horror movie, and you know he is unbalanced as hell. He’s capable of injuring or killing you. It’s terrorism, and it should be punished severely. It’s torture. They don’t just stop from a talking-to. Stalkers are actual monsters.
@@morbidmanmusic Whoever does it should be punished to the full extent of the law. Granted a female stalker and especially a female stalker that escalates to killing their target is way more rare than a male, but not unheard of. People should be protected regardless of their gender. I hope men start confidently reporting this shit more often so they stop being cruelly ridiculed for it by ignorant assholes.
@@argentumsoundMen do report this shit but it gets laughed off. I guarantee you really don't understand. You a woman? Because it makes sense that you don't understand. Men are not believed. Men have called about an abusive woman and you can visually see his cuts and bruises and HE gets arrested and taken from HIS home. Because SHE attacked him.
@@morbidmanmusic As a man and having a female stalk you, its like yeah I could physically destroy you but damn its an odd position if all their doing is literally tailing you, you cant just attack them like you want to, to get them to stop like you could another man. I feel bad for women who get stalked by dudes because its like they are literally prey due to the physical component and men just being outright stronger, they can't even just physically go to the person and make them stop with their hands.
@@kevinleewilliams5119 Woman stalker survivor here. The physical differences between us are what makes confrontation dangerous, but stalking itself is the behavior. Try to look at it from a neutral standpoint like behavior or actions rather than man vs woman. Women get overpowered and toyed with, men get their lives and reputations destroyed. We're all survivors regardless of our bodies' pros and cons.
Calling the cops - 20-45 min wait time. CCW and 9MM - 1900 Feet per second. When you keep praying to big daddy government and keep expecting different results, it's a sign that you are clinically insane.
@@PyramidgodMeekman6kk, well im glad I live in Murica cause I'm allowed to have things to protect myself and not let attackers do what they want to me since the cops don't give two shits 🤷
@@qv43v Yep, and you can do that with a knife, or a dog, or a rope, or fists, or anything else. People attack with weapons. People also defend with weapons.
Stalking is only considered a misdemeanour?! That’s appalling, there have been too many instances where it’s ended with a fatality. So many people have had stalkers, myself included and it’s utterly terrifying. I really hope the first woman doesn’t have any more contact with him ever again, it appears that every instance was an escalation of the previous one. That’s so scary. Also, in the last video, did that female cop just watch him run away? She only continued to go after him after the employee said he was trying to get out the other way. Or have I got that completely wrong? 😄
The fact he actually admitted to it is just jaw dropping. Sadly his behavior isn't even shocking ive dealt with dudes like him they actually think they have ownership of you
The first one tried to downplay his actions "just a relationship thing". The second one denied it but the evidence is all over the place. The third one straight up tried to flee. Glad the police successfully arrested and charged those sick weirdos.
I feel the 1st one is really a relationship thing. I think the girl misled him. He probably had money she didn't benefited on. The other 2 were definitely criminals. The 1st one is weird to me a little bit, but does feel like she misled him . I believed he won't contact her again. I bet he hasn't either.
They don't do it to try to date the women but to own, possess, and eventually destroy the women. It is not based on love but entitlement and narcissism.
The first guy is so scary, he really thinks nothing is wrong with what he is doing. He is not even her boyfriend or husband to have that much jealousy over her and care so much about where she is! If she doesnt like you leave her you dont have to act be a creep
Stalkers are one of the scariest criminals to me. So often it ends in assault or murder by some selfish narcissist who can't believe someone they rejected doesn't want to be with them--or, if they do believe, they think they have the right to punish that person. There's no arguing with them, and there's no predicting who among one's acquaintances might have that personality.
When I was 14, a boy at school got obsessed with me and when I would walk home, he would follow me, but on parallel streets so he could hide from my view. I lived quite a way from him so he had to go out of his way to follow me and I was so creeped out. When I told my friend Helen about it, she would watch out of her window as she lived at the entrance to my street and she saw him do it three times in one week. He would also try to corner me at school between classes so I had to get one of my girlfriends to walk around with me to feel safe. Eventually I told a teacher and they had a word with him. After that, he stopped following me but he still would watch me at break times. Luckily this was in the 90's before email or personal phones so I didnt have to deal with that sort of harassment. In the end I told my Dad (who I hardly ever told anything to as he had a bad habit of overreacting) and he went to the guy's house, called his parents outside, put a brick through their front window and said he'd castrate the boy if he so much as looked at me again. It worked and he stopped.
What happened to you happened to my daughter for a brief moment. There was a boy stalking her from her middle school. Her brothers fixed that situation real quick.
6 years ago I dealt with a stalker and it was beyond terrifying. I still suffer with awful PTSD even doing therapy. This should NOT be considered a misdemeanor at all.
I actually knew the second guy, torek. He stayed with my boyfriends family for a couple of weeks before ending up in jail for stealing a bunch of stuff. As a girl, I can't say finding out this stuff about him makes me feel very safe.
I was stalked from age 11-16 it’s horrifying, it has and will continue to affect my perception of men. The mental duress it puts you through is unimaginable, I wouldn’t wish it on anyone. There’s 3 of us he stalked. He’s a free man, never charged, not a mark on his record.
I was almost a stalker, but I was lucky enough to have resources like friends and a therapist to help me work through the unhealthy possessive feelings. I see what I could have been in people like this, and it really scares me.
You are clearly nothing like any of them if you realized what was going on and asked for help I applaud you for that I don’t think a lot of people would have been able to ask for help.
Yeah I've been there, it puts a pit deep in your stomach when you realize the road that your possessive feelings are leading you down. I went to crazy lengths to try and preserve a dead relationship and one day I saw the reality of what was happening, apologized to the poor girl, screamed in my car (still have that fire playlist lol) and then moved on as best I could. Some days the feelings come back (I'm talking years later out of the blue) and it makes me miserable, but it gives me some sympathy for the people who can't recognize these feelings for what they are: compulsions, not affection Stalking is not okay, relationships should not be one sided overdoses of unconsentual harassment in an attempt to "reconcile" (only to lash out when the attempt inevitably fails) My heart goes out to victims of this type of torment, and I hope the people like myself who struggle with these compulsions get the support they need in order to bring peace to everyone involved.
I've only had a mild stalker and it had to be the most terrifying experience. I can't even imagine the fear and discomfort these women felt, Stalking should not be taken lightly because the short ammount of time it takes for these people to get crazy is insane.
That first one: It's their culture. They believe any friendship, even a simple acquaintanceship, with a woman means they have a right to believe she belongs to them. When I was doing cultural anthropology, the girls were warned not to speak to the men. We were to let one of our male colleagues or managers speak to them for us because any dialogue would start a chain reaction of them claiming to be in a "relationship." Some of the women in our group said that was racist and ignored the instructions. There were 8 women all together who said this and all 8 ended up in scenarios similar to this one, with one having her family threatened if she didn't swear herself to the guy. Stalkers come in all shapes and sizes, but some are born believing this is normal and they are entitled to behave this way.
@@cl5470 research indian culture first and then comment again. This behaviour is common amongst indian men. They treat women like animals and property. It's disgusting, as is your comment
Knew a stalker at a previous job. We all found out when he was arrested but he had horrible attendance. Either being late, leaving early or just straight missing the day due to "being sick" or "family emergency". Crazy to know the truth afterwards
"My friend was coming to a hotel, so I thought I would see who she was meeting, I also lojacked her car with a GPS tracker... Please sir can I go, I am a student". Delusional
I know a girl who is being actively stalked for years now and the police really do tell her theres nothing they can do until the person becomes violent or goes "overboard" i guess finding any and every address of yours, constantly posting threads and craigslist ads of my friends home still isnt enough to do anything. Theyve made countless fake accounts of them , found their work and families numbers. Its a really stressful and hard thing to go through and i feel for anyone in a similar position that has noone to help them.
I've never dealt with anything this extreme before, thankfully, but about 15-years ago, I went for coffee with a woman I met online. I wasn't into her so decided not to meet with her again. Well, she called me twice a day for the next few months. I answered a few times and told her I was just too busy to meet. She called again and again and again, but I stopped answering. About six months afterwards, I went to a formal event in my city and she happened to be attending it, too. I politely waved to her but stayed away. I caught her staring at me multiple times. She began calling me frequently after this but I ignored them. While I never felt threatened or that my life was in any kind of danger, the situation was extremely peculiar and I regret now that I didn't tell her upfront that I wasn't interested.
When I was 12 years old, a friends dad somehow got my phone number and started texting me odd things. He started showing up to every after school athletic practice I was at (including ones his daughter was not at). He once cornered me and told me to my face that he knew where I lived and would kill my family and that I "would pay". To this day zero idea what he was talking about. I told my parents who went to the police. Police said they couldn't do anything until he had physically harmed me or I had proof in text/writing of physical threat. My family didn't play around and pulled me out of every activity with his daughter. We felt so hopeless. One year later the guy strangled my dance teacher. He had a long history of stalking kids and the school had received countless complaints, but he had never been legally held accountable. He's in jail now.
I can't believe the last guy literally tried the "look over there!" trick lol. Hopefully his jail mates will find out what his crimes are and respond accordingly.
I found this channel and this video by chance, I have heard of stalking but never seen this sort of thing for myself before…. I am absolutely shocked that this can happen to the most ‘ordinary’ of people, I had thought it was just celebrities, I have a daughter and this must be so distressing and worrying for anyone targeted by such people….. they clearly have mental issues but that doesn’t and never should excuse their behaviour….. this sort of behaviour is more than likely very likely to escalate to a serious situation for the victim….. surely any action of this kind must never be treated as a misdemeanour….. these are serious crimes that must be treated seriously by the justice system including jail time and management and monitoring….. ! Thank you for sharing this and waking me up to this sort of behaviour.
@@ir9567WTF are you talking about. Are you saying men can't get raped or assaulted? I hate to shatter your illusions, but women can be perpetrators as well. Gender has nothing to do with it.
Ive been stalked, by an ex, who dumped me! It was like psychological warfare. Total loss of privacy, turning up on my doorstep at 3am. Then sa me. Horrific
Stalking should come with a serious prison sentence. These guys are soooooooo creepy. I had a creepy female stalker once, they can seriously mess up your life. There needs to be major laws against stalking. Its wrong and evil to stalk someone.
From what I've heard it is a terrifying experience that leaves the victim feeling powerless and in constant fear. Any charges such as these should automatically be felonies. This is as serious as serious can get as far as victim safety goes.
They can't grasp that someone doesn't want something. They are usually narcissists as well so there is a lot of self-absorbed thinking going on inside their head.@@tanikokishimoto1604
@@morbidmanmusic I only say "close" but it was a one-time encounter that I took care of immediately. It's a more complicated story that your nose doesn't need to be in. I had a taste of what that bullshit is like but not to an extreme extent like others.
13:40 if someone groped me or literally anyone around me in a Walmart, ESPECIALLY A 9YEAR OLD I would be hurling insults and we would play a game of “catch these hands” while someone called 911. I’m at the point in my life where I would risk the charge if someone pulled that shit.
Why can’t people just let go? These stalkers have no self respect or dignity. I can’t imagine being so damn pathetic. We need harsher laws for punishing stalkers.
Because most of the time they have emotional abandonment issues from childhood and usually for that reason they use their victim as a godhead for their emotional well being.
Imagine knowing...somewhere out there there... a PERSON is just watching you, at ALL times. Then your looking over your shoulder, changing routines, never feeling fully safe, etc. That will change a person! Don't forget to look up from your phones every now and then and just be aware of what's going on. Be safe everybody.
11:52 LMFAOOOO that cop’s face 😂 bro was really getting high on meth, using his fleshlight, and butt plugging himself while sitting in the car near his ex gf’s house. dudes a WEIRDO.
At least the police did something in these cases. I used to live in Long Beach NY and a few years ago a man was stalking me and threatening to kill me. When I called the police they said there was nothing they could do. When I insisted that this was an ongoing problem the police went and talked to him. I am in my sixties. I am too old for this sh*t.
First guy didn’t think he actually committed a crime, that’s why he was so forth coming about it. I was suspicious of my husband and was going to use AirTags track his ass, but I thought better of it, because it’s absolutely a crime, and found other ways to prove he was cheating. Mission accomplished… without tracking devices.
@@thestone8187 He has his truck, I have my car. We’re on the same insurance. I work for the Fed, we both have security clearances. I have to think long and hard about things I’m not willing to blow our/ my own life up over. Even a hint of controversy… no.
I had a stalker in 2014 his name was Alex. I met him at a local bar in town and hit it off one night. Then the texts, calls, voicemails, etc. started. He knew where I lived and one night he wanted to come over and I said I wasn't home but I was and thankfully my brother who's a marine was home upstairs. I ran up and said that kid Alex is peeking through our windows in the backyard!! My brother ran out with a knife.. I never heard from Alex again.
Stalkers are terrifying. I can't describe how scary it is having no sanctuary they don't know about. Nowhere you can go to hide or escape. Then you tell someone and they ignore you, downplay it, or say there's nothing they can do.
Some entitled stalkers think they have the right to intrude on other people's private lives, is pathetic and shows he thinks he owns her. It's stalkers like this one who are so obsessed with an uninterested ex, they usually end up murdering the ex,, simply because they cannot handle the rejection. I'm glad this lady was fed up and laid charges and he went to jail. Idiot.
Some....pretty sure that's all stalkers since it's the very definition of being a stalker. They're entitled and believe they own the person they're targeting, they intrude on their private lives, and obsesses over the person.
“I just wanted to see who she was with”-as he places a GPS tracker on her car. Why do men think they should be allowed to stalk women, and not face consequences?!?
Yeah I've been there, it puts a pit deep in your stomach when you realize the road that your possessive feelings are leading you down. I went to crazy lengths to try and preserve a dead relationship and one day I saw the reality of what was happening, apologized to the poor girl, screamed in my car (still have that fire playlist lol) and then moved on as best I could. Some days the feelings come back (I'm talking years later out of the blue) and it makes me miserable, but it gives me some sympathy for the people who can't recognize these feelings for what they are: compulsions, not affection Stalking is not okay, relationships should not be one sided overdoses of unconsentual harassment in an attempt to "reconcile" (only to lash out when the attempt inevitably fails) My heart goes out to victims of this type of torment, and I hope the people like myself who struggle with these compulsions get the support they need in order to bring peace to everyone involved.
I love watching these dudes so entitled that they think the cops will actually cut them a break. Broham just legit doesn't grasp that he's done something horrible; he thinks this is just a minor slip-up on his part and that every other man in the conversation is secretly understanding of his stalking
I literally had to move 2000 miles away from my family and friends to hide from my stalker, a neigbour who I had never even spoken to. Police could do nothing.
The fact that while watching this video I got instantly super anxious knowing that these things could happen to me and other people it's disgusting. I feel so relieved that these women are ok. Always stay safe cuz it's insane the amount of creeps u can find out there.
These guys are evil. They actually feel entitled to treating people like they own them. i’m glad it’s at least considered a crime now. That wasn’t the case back in the 80s and 90s. The police couldn’t do anything to help you until the guy had actually physically harmed you. There should be much harsher penalties though. Not just because they’ve earned punishment, but to keep potential targets safe from these loons.
The way these awesome cops handled these creepy stalkers is so impressive. They're professional and know the law thoroughly and are excellent with handling stalkers. Well done officers. ❤
The last guy was going after children, any children. I don't know if that's actually stalking but definitely the most dangerous of the 3. He had multiple victims a day, and who knows if it wasn't going to escalate into kidnap, rape or murder. The other 2 guys probably couldn't get another girl again so they can't move on. Definitely creepy guys.
Love your videos. You bring content that I've not even seen before, and I live for true crime and stuff like this. Just a really great job all around. I really like how you talk through out as well. It's a perfect amount of video and then you talking about whats happening. Thanks for the amazing content and keep up the great work.
Tips I learned from Boze vs the World's channel! NEVER say a stalker is "your" stalker. They get off on that type of association. Also, just from advice from me, ALWAYS press charges on these types of folk. This is escalating criminal behavior. They need serious mental help, yes, but not at the cost of your life.
When the woman said he stalked her and then left her alone for a couple of years and then reached out to her and they talked and she thought it was fine. Do not engage with stalkers! Do not respond to them at all and totally ignore them - any reaction is just going to make them ramp up their stalking. I've had two stalkers in my lifetime and they will stop for extended periods and then try to reach out again and only ignoring them works. One guy (who I went on ONE date with) stalked me and then left me alone for TWO years. I still had him in my phone (as "crazy stalker") and sure enough I look down and see he's calling me. Of course I didn't answer and he left a voicemail. The VM started out with him saying "I know you told me never to call again but" - you can't reason with someone like this.
Where do they find the time to stalk people….like honestly I don’t even have enough time to sleep 8 hours
I always ask that! Even people in relationships where the person says their partner watches them at work or on an entire shift. All I hear is that the stalker is an unemployed weirdo. You can’t stalk and be a productive adult at the same time.
Wrong, you just need to stalk more efficiently😎
They all live in democratic city's where the government supports unemployed with unlimited resources
Part-time stalkers man, they don't even get health or dental insurance.
I think about this all the time
The guy saying “I thought she was with someone so I put a tracker on her car so I could see if she was” like that’s perfectly normal is insanely creepy
Tell me about it. Plus, calling her while he's speaking with the police. Who does that? If she's sleeping with someone or hanging out with anyone. (Hotel) It's her business and not his. This is literally one of the worst things I have seen. Putting a damn tracker on her car.
He was sooo creepy
@@LouiseHultcrantz she was a prostitute
Yea I don’t think we got the entire story. If this dude was so creepy, and they had no relations, why would she resume communications? She needs to stop talking to these kinds of people lmao. Hopefully she learned a valuable lesson.
I just watched going, where's the camera, the cops are being punked and then my chin was on the floor when it was real, how can he be real, he thought putting a tracker on her car was no problem !?!? 😮😮 😮😮
I had a tenant who was killed by her ex. She was only 21. She was a good kid, worked & kept to herself. It happened a couple of years ago but it has stayed with me. I can't imagine how her family is. I never rented her apartment & her family still visits from time to time. I plant her favorite flowers outside of her front window every year and will continue. Stalkers need to have severe charges and probably some mental health care while in jail. The capacity to stalk someone is, imo, a violent violation of someone's life.
That's absolutely beautiful. I can't even imagine how weird it all must feel for you. She sounds like she was a great person honestly, I'm sorry you had to experience that.
A living flower memorial is such a lovely way to honour her.
... umm rent her apartment out? It sounds like a weird attachment of yours to accept loss of money and to leave a unit abandoned because of the memory of a young woman you never knew personally.
@@user-us9xg3tw2x I have a vacant that I use for a "show unit" and lease signings and things anyway so I will rent out my old "office" unit and just make her old one my new one. Besides being hard to rent out a unit like that because you have to tell people what happened, I had a lady that lived next door who moved because she said she was hearing bumps in the night. So, for me, it just makes more financial sense to move my office and be able to show an apartment that is furnished, do office work, paperwork, etc in.
@@user-us9xg3tw2xThey obviously knew her and know her parents. Worry about your own wallet.
Our "stalker laws" in the US need to be taken seriously more often. They usually wait until someone dies to do anything.
I personally think there should be a registry for stalkers as well
It's so weird. The US will dole out punishments for crimes that are like 150 years. You'd be shocked to see how pathetic some other countries punishments are for things like murder. As in murderers can walk out in a few years. So you have all this and suddenly you're like...stalking...ah that's a misdemeanor. What? Like that first one, he's some creepy Indian who put a tracking device on an American woman's car. Why isn't he kicked out of your country?
@@peytonkirk106that and higher charges
So many women have been murdered by creepy men because the stalking wasn't taken seriously.
Lol so should the laws abt divorce, and all these money hungry succubus’s but nobody cares
Stalkers are dangerous! Don’t ever downplay their behavior.
They believe what they want to believe and you can't tell them otherwise.
@@moldevx64Don’t make excuses for these fuckers.
yeah, a week in jail??? The law really doesn't care about women's safety.. These people needs to be removed from society.
Since the law doesn't care, at least shaming them online & hope the next would-be victim sees this video.
they are very dangerous
I feel like it only leads to murder from jealousy of these freaks
Any crime considered "stalking" should NOT be classified as a misdemeanor. Pile on the felonies. Speaking from personal experience, these people are beyond mentally unstable & the consequences need to be as severe as possible.
Considering the mental health consequences this could have on the victim, the punishment should be much more severe.
They always escalate, we know this and the courts still don’t do their job! Crime is only growing in the last few years, weak judges just let them out with no real consequences. We must demand better of our leaders and vote for the candidates who are tough on crime, and big on safety!
For real. Theres a lot of stalking incidents that lead to the stalker taking the victims life from getting slaps on the wrist and not taking it seriously to stop.
@@FlawlessImperfectionBeauty The courts don't set penalties for crimes; that is the job of the State/Federal legislators. If you want the punishments changed, lobby your State/Federal legislators to do so.
Do you think stalking should carry with it a prison sentence of more than a year?
I’ve always thought that, like the sex offender registry, there should be a stalker registery. We have a right to know who’s a threat to us and we should know who these people are.
and a domestic violence registry!
@@elliemorrisette We don’t even talk about domestic violence anymore, athletes get away with it a lot.
@@elliemorrisette100000%
Damn I never thought of that
@@elliemorrisettei absolutely second this
Stalkers are far more dangerous than the justice system likes to think they are. I've seen multiple horrific murder cases that started with stalking. One woman was attacked, murdered, and dismembered in her own apartment by her stalker. Stalkers are mentally unstable and when they go so far as to put tracking devices on their victim's car, they should be given felonies. Stalking is the gateway to other horrific crimes like sexual assault, kidnapping, and murder
IMO it's because back in the day a stalker had to do things in public while people interacted. Think to even the late 1800s where it was mostly foot traffic, everyone knew each other and outsiders were scrutinized, you kept you and yours accountable. These days of high tech, isolated conditions, cars, and a lack of a cultural moral center? Stalking is far more than a peeping Tom that your neighbor's dad can beat out back.
@Undomaranel murder and domestic violence were far MORE common in the 1800's, but without forensic science, killers, stalkers and abusers got away with it more.
I’m doing a course about domestic abuse and learnt that stalking is a huge indicator of murder of the victim.
@@Undomaranelit was legal to beat your wife before 10 pm in the UK in Victorian times. You weren’t allowed to do it after 10pm because it would disturb the neighbours.
@@cl5470 Not just a lack of forensic science, cultural attitudes of the time towards gender were probably the biggest culprit in letting the guilty go unpunished.
Stalking is so weird. How do these people rationalize that the other person owes them anything, let alone owe them a relationship.
How do other animals rape and take whatever they want from one another? It's just natural behavior really. Luckily we have managed to create a society and laws that deter most people from doing this. But at the end of the day some humans will succumb to their basic instincts.
It could help them generate "chance meetings" in supermarkets etc etc. This could help them keep up contact enough to spark a relationship.
@@moldevx64 Thanks for sharing man. Glad you never did anything crazy.
@@moldevx64 I admire people who can go down such destructive roads and come out the other side wiser and more empathetic.
It is completely out of their control. It’s a compulsion. They need years of therapy and even then, it’s a tough one to fix. Not based on reality at all.
We need to think of seriously harsher penalties for stalkers. I cannot imagine the terror a person, especially a woman, must feel when in the midst of such a thing. Usually the victim has to pay with their life before authorities do anything meaningful, and by then it’s too late
Agreed 💯
One week in jail..? The law doesn't care about women's safety; these people needs to be removed from society.
At least shame them online & hope the next would-be victim sees this video.
what if i want to make sure the girl im following at 3 am on a dark alleyway is safe
I agree. Stalking leads to violence and more. Lawmakers need to read the news properly
Yep, because these sickos end up hurting or killing someone
@@player70477 those fkn jokes arent even funny💀 its little boy humor
I 100% agree with what other people said on here: Stalking should be a felony! Stalkers should go to prison for EVERY offense!
I was stalked relentlessly by an ex gf for 2 years, totally cut her off when we broke up, blocked her on everything, and changed my number. So she tried to get to me through my friends and family members, made fake social media accounts to send dozens of messages (which I didn’t open), left sinister notes at my home, and even got her kids to message me on their accounts. Last time she tried to message me with a fake fb account was 7 years after I last spoke to her. Stalking is never about trying to get back with somebody they love as stalkers generally claim, it’s purely about control through intimidation.
yeah victim blaming is a real cool thing to do! extra humanity points for you @@Nick_Feger
@@Nick_Feger OH, I just love your comment! It's so stupid!
Sorry you went through that!
Jesus, I’m sorry you had to go though that dude. Hope you’re doing ok
I had a guy make different instagram accounts to compliment my art and stuff, but it was a guise to talk to me. Creepy af.
Pro tip ladies. You can't be "friends" with stalkers. Cut all contact. Block them. Don't answer calls or texts. Report them. Protect yourselves.
Totally agree though I don't think the first woman was trying to be friends with him. I think 'friend' was her attempting to neutralise his crazy arsed stalking. Unsuccessfully of course.
Yeah restraining order and remain vigilant you wouldn't know when the stalker fully loses his/her marbles and tries to abduct, abuse or k*ll
@@jessISaRicePrincessyep although restraining order can be useless, because it's just a paper after all
Women can’t be friends with men. Ever.
Stalkers never mean anything good towards the victim. If you try to be friends with them, they will escalate and do things that hurt you. It's mental illness obsession.
Stalking should NEVER be a misdemeanor. If invading someone's privacy has been going on long enough to be called "stalking", then it should be a felony because of the weeks or months of fear and dread the victim's had to live with, for both themselves and their household members--and probably others, like co-workers. Police and prosecutors typically under-charge and under-prosecute stalking, which was only criminalized 30 years ago. Before that, such behavior was seen as relationship fall-out or just not serious.
It is complicated in mist cases because you have NO right tobprivacy at all if in public so even things like filming or photographs are 100% legal.
@@Gl-my8fw You missed the point entirely mate. Also a taking a picture of someone in public is not equitable to placing a tracking device on their car without permission. 🤦
it totally ruins your life yes & many of them invite other stalkers of the same type to stalk you so then you are swamped with like dozens of sex pervert stalkers breaking the law to obsess over you & criminally ruin your life
I was raped & stalked by a child rapist ever since I was 14 & it has been non stop abuse spouting from this cop hating low iq criminal flabby piece of shit ever since he needs to be locked up he is a Nassar clone he kidnapped & raped me when I was half dead from being hit by a car
It's probably a misdemeanour because usually the victim is a woman and women have historically been under-protected when it comes to male violence.
@@Manny-zk4xewell yeah he got a felony for placing the tracking device
Stalking is honestly scary as fuck. I had to deal with a obsessed ex girlfriend who I had a feeling was either following me and or tracking me. Finally found out she had my phone on her find my iPhone app. She was following me and trying to see what I was doing and who I was seeing. I had enough evidence to file a restraining order and I haven't seen her since thank god.
That’s wild!!! glad to see you are doing okay 👌
The heck is wrong with people. I’m so sorry that happened to you and I hope you’re doing much better now. Glad that you got a restraining order.
Glad you’re okay!
I am so sorry that you had to go through that
She prolly in ur walls
Stalking needs to be considered a felony, not a misdemeanor. When someone says 'no', that person means it. In my case, if someone has wrong me in severe ways, I expect that person to stay away from away and not contact me anymore. I don't care how sorry that person is. I'll press charges against my stalkers because I'm unforgiving.
I can tell you from personal experience as a woman. Just try to get a male cop take a statement and follow up on stalking. The stalker just says your his girlfriend or an "crazy ex". My coffee was drugged and i was raped and even then no police officer would take a statement at the police dept. It's still not considered much of a crime.
@@nikkicole3331 If there was evidence, it would have been followed up. Don't make up stories.
@@scheezy wow, you're trash
I had a stalker, it was absolutely terrifying. He knew where I lived, where I worked, the route I took to work, my phone number, and email address. Once he called me and described in detail what I was wearing and how I was sitting, in my own apartment. When I asked how he knew, he said, "I'm watching you." Literally gave me the chills. He knew my measurements, my clothing and jewelry size, my shoe size. Threatened to kill my bf and hurt me. The fear can't be described. I had nightmares (sometimes still do), didn't want to go anywhere, was always looking over my shoulder, didn't feel like I could trust anyone. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.
How creepy. You became a prisoner. You are lucky to be alive. I feel for you.
How did this ended?
@@COVID-1901 To make a very long story short, I broke my lease and moved. He would threaten to off himself any time I didn't do or say what he said (like when he wanted me to tell him I loved him), and I felt immense guilt on top of everything else going on. My wonderful, wise sister pointed out that even if he did, it wasn't my fault; it was him making a choice. That advice helped me make a quick, clean break without worrying about what he might do. Got a new phone number, new email (I backed up the old one in case I needed proof, but I shut it down so he couldn't contact me anymore), and quit my job. I don't know if he watched the new apartment tenants until he realized I wasn't coming back, but I guess the new place was out of the scope of his watch and he couldn't find me after that.
In one of life's little "ironies," I did have a close encounter with him about ten years later, although he never knew: My husband ended up in a group with him on an online game. They were chatting over voice coms and my husband's sound was coming through his speakers instead of his headphones. The guy talked, and my husband asked me what was wrong (later told me my face drained of all color when I heard his voice). I told him "I know who he is, that's the guy that stalked me." My husband asked me if I wanted him to say something and I said hell no, I got away, hopefully, he's forgotten about me now and I want to stay that way. I made sure to steer well clear of the microphone so it wouldn't accidentally pick up my voice, and the guy was never the wiser.
Oh my gods i hope its gonna get better and the nightmares will go away so you can forget about him and live peacefuly
What a crazy peace of garbage
Wow
He should be in prison and mental hospital
@@crazynedry5085 Thank you, I appreciate it.
The laws of stalking needs to be WAY more strict. Someone plans a GPS tracker on someone's car, and they are so obsessed about having their way with someone that they think about that person from the time they get up in the morning to the time they go to bed, your punishment is only a few months in jail and a couple thousand dollar fine. Yeah, then what do you think is going to happen once that is all over with?
I think we should decriminalize stalking. It's like MAP's, they are stigmatized and ostracized. They are people with feelings too
@@tigerwoods373 theres so much wrong in this statement i dont even know where to begin
@@tigerwoods373if committing a crime and being morally robbed of the concept of right and wrong is a stigma, then you might have a few screws loose
@@tigerwoods373no. You're not defending PEDOPHILES.
Actuals trolls would have a field day with you guys.
I was stalked. Went to my parents house broke all of their windows. Beat my brother with a golf club. And shattered a 40 bottle across my face. I had to switch colleges and leave my state. I thought it was over. I eventually got married and had a son. I show up at church for my sons baptism and he was there. The stalking began again. I worked with children so I had to leave my job out of fear for them. He somehow got my parents new number and called them at three in the morning. my mom was battling cancer and was sleeping and didn’t hear it. She listened to the message in the morning and we called the police. They showed up at my house a few hours later, letting me know he killed himself surrounded by a shrine of pictures of me. He’s gone and yet I still don’t feel safe.
How awful for you. My heart goes out to you and your family.
You've done nothing to deserve this and it sounds like you have PTSD as a result of the terrible trauma.
There's an injection called a sub ganglion block. It's been used for over a century for veterans with certain pain conditions but a side effect of it is to calm the brain after trauma.
I got it for my nephew (cptsd) and he's much improved. He says he can think about and work through his trauma as he's no longer in a state of dread.
I'm in the UK and it's only available privately here but it's worth every penny.
I wish you well. Remember, you're NOT a victim. You're a survivor.
I am so sorry this happened to you. 😢
The moment he said “we’re just friends” & “ she was seeing someone and I want to know who” is first sign of person with obsession.
Yes she is seeing, dating, sleeping and talking to many men other than you. If she TROs you or presses charges, you go ahead and do the same for her peeping tom ass.
Ramesh is one creepy dude! I've seen the whole video and at the end when he's in the police car, the officer asks him where he wants to put his car keys and before Ramesh can answer the officer said, "Do you want to hide it somewhere? You're good at doing things like that"
I like how the cop just comes up and asks how he's going and stalker dude already knows what it's about.
Deport him immediately
For sure, but that 2nd guy is even scarier to me. Those eyes, his meth, plus his downright enthusiasm to engage in demented road rager bs shows he's a serious threat to anyone.
I hope they sent his ass back to the 3rd world slums he's used to
It’s crazy. He actually lives in the city im in. And the place he got arrested is near my neighborhood. John’s Creek is a very wealthy city where nothing really happens in JC filled with doctors and tech workers.. Most people keep their front door open because nothing ever happens here generally.
It’s crazy that this happened near my house.
"My daughter needs help!"
If she's YOUR daughter, she needs a new home, a therapist, and a restraining order.
Has no daughter
Narcissistic parents am I right. They are notorious for boundary stomping. And some narcissist parents DO stalk their adult children. I don't remember her name but there was an Irish college student who sued her helicopter parents and successfully got a restraining order.
If he does have a daughter he should have no contact with her. Hes taking pics of 9 yr olds. Disgusting.
@@bunnyluver2176 He actually GROPED the 9 year old! And him trying to destroy his phone irritated me because he's not trying to even take responsibility for his actions.
@@Starlee123its ok, they're gonna do alot more to him in prison, and that makes me smile.
Can I just say that I really appreciate you guys for laying it thick on the first guy? Minimizers and gaslighters like him do a really good job of making not only their victims but also those around them doubt that what they're doing is wrong or a big deal. Hell, even I was starting to second guess if it was worth calling the cops over. Seeing and hearing you guys not falling for it and calling him out was a huge relief and really reinforced that it's always okay to only look at the actions and not the excuses. Just made my day.
If he had denied everything and they were not able to find the tracker, things would have been very different in that case.
In my case I haven't been able to arrest her. She strikes whenever I feel comfortable or start dating anyone. She claims I SA'd her and that ends my relationships. 22 years of this idiocy. I'm tired and on the verge of suicide. Maybe that's what she's pursuing.
@@nicandromartinezsotelo3300 So, you’ve like gotten restraining orders and taken her to court and everything?
I attempted to file a complaint and gave the detectives all my social media accounts and my phone including my WhatsApp, texts and calls. Police down here won't even try to intervene or allow experts to give you a chance to surrender evidence. You have to pay experts to do the digging into the records and collect and compile all evidence in your favor. And that's quite expensive. But the complaint was filed @@tablescissors67
15:35 He should be charged with evidence tampering too, especially if the phone's data is successfully recovered anyway and proves beyond a shadow of a doubt that he was hiding illegal sexual content on the device. Have them ask him in court, "why did you need to destroy your device the moment you were put into police custody? If you had something on the phone that you disliked, you could have deleted it at any time before then. What specifically made you feel the need to ensure the police were unable to ever look through your phone for criminal content?" Failure to give a reasonable explanation should be seen as evidence of a crime, conspiracy to commit a crime, or aiding and abetting a crime for someone else. Such a blatant, sloppy attempt to destroy evidence, like flushing the drugs as the cops are entering the bathroom.
People don’t get how terrifying it is, to have a guy follow you incessantly like a horror movie, and you know he is unbalanced as hell. He’s capable of injuring or killing you. It’s terrorism, and it should be punished severely. It’s torture. They don’t just stop from a talking-to. Stalkers are actual monsters.
I've had women do it.. it's justmas scary.
@@morbidmanmusic Whoever does it should be punished to the full extent of the law. Granted a female stalker and especially a female stalker that escalates to killing their target is way more rare than a male, but not unheard of. People should be protected regardless of their gender. I hope men start confidently reporting this shit more often so they stop being cruelly ridiculed for it by ignorant assholes.
@@argentumsoundMen do report this shit but it gets laughed off. I guarantee you really don't understand. You a woman? Because it makes sense that you don't understand. Men are not believed. Men have called about an abusive woman and you can visually see his cuts and bruises and HE gets arrested and taken from HIS home. Because SHE attacked him.
@@morbidmanmusic As a man and having a female stalk you, its like yeah I could physically destroy you but damn its an odd position if all their doing is literally tailing you, you cant just attack them like you want to, to get them to stop like you could another man. I feel bad for women who get stalked by dudes because its like they are literally prey due to the physical component and men just being outright stronger, they can't even just physically go to the person and make them stop with their hands.
@@kevinleewilliams5119 Woman stalker survivor here. The physical differences between us are what makes confrontation dangerous, but stalking itself is the behavior. Try to look at it from a neutral standpoint like behavior or actions rather than man vs woman. Women get overpowered and toyed with, men get their lives and reputations destroyed. We're all survivors regardless of our bodies' pros and cons.
What happens? Nothing. The court let them out almost immediately. The victim is left hoping they can protect themselves.
Calling the cops - 20-45 min wait time.
CCW and 9MM - 1900 Feet per second.
When you keep praying to big daddy government and keep expecting different results, it's a sign that you are clinically insane.
@@kevinspacey5325 Not everyone lives in "Murica, genius. Calm down.
@@PyramidgodMeekman6kk, well im glad I live in Murica cause I'm allowed to have things to protect myself and not let attackers do what they want to me since the cops don't give two shits 🤷
@crunchy_toadlet I've watched so many videos of guys who shoot just to shoot then try to cover it up later. Vigilante justice is not the answer.
@@qv43v Yep, and you can do that with a knife, or a dog, or a rope, or fists, or anything else. People attack with weapons. People also defend with weapons.
Stalking is only considered a misdemeanour?! That’s appalling, there have been too many instances where it’s ended with a fatality. So many people have had stalkers, myself included and it’s utterly terrifying. I really hope the first woman doesn’t have any more contact with him ever again, it appears that every instance was an escalation of the previous one. That’s so scary.
Also, in the last video, did that female cop just watch him run away? She only continued to go after him after the employee said he was trying to get out the other way. Or have I got that completely wrong? 😄
The fact he actually admitted to it is just jaw dropping. Sadly his behavior isn't even shocking ive dealt with dudes like him they actually think they have ownership of you
The first one tried to downplay his actions "just a relationship thing". The second one denied it but the evidence is all over the place. The third one straight up tried to flee. Glad the police successfully arrested and charged those sick weirdos.
I feel the 1st one is really a relationship thing. I think the girl misled him. He probably had money she didn't benefited on. The other 2 were definitely criminals. The 1st one is weird to me a little bit, but does feel like she misled him . I believed he won't contact her again. I bet he hasn't either.
When has stalking ever worked out? What woman has said “Oh, yes, he was my stalker, and I’m with my him now!”. It’s so mindblowingly illogical.
I’ll let you know, I’m still workin on it
(ITS A JOKE I DONT LEAVE MY HOUSE)
@@notnotme1715 😁
I don’t leave my house except for doctors appointments, so I know the feeling!
@@karenneill9109i wont leave my house if i dont have to 😂
Yes! Keep saying this what do they thinks gonna happen. Oooh your deranged come on in want a cuppa?
They don't do it to try to date the women but to own, possess, and eventually destroy the women. It is not based on love but entitlement and narcissism.
14:46 He has a DAUGHTER and he’s touching a 9yo girl. I’d say his daughter needs help alright- get her away from him!!
The first guy is so scary, he really thinks nothing is wrong with what he is doing. He is not even her boyfriend or husband to have that much jealousy over her and care so much about where she is! If she doesnt like you leave her you dont have to act be a creep
yea
Stalkers are one of the scariest criminals to me. So often it ends in assault or murder by some selfish narcissist who can't believe someone they rejected doesn't want to be with them--or, if they do believe, they think they have the right to punish that person. There's no arguing with them, and there's no predicting who among one's acquaintances might have that personality.
When I was 14, a boy at school got obsessed with me and when I would walk home, he would follow me, but on parallel streets so he could hide from my view. I lived quite a way from him so he had to go out of his way to follow me and I was so creeped out. When I told my friend Helen about it, she would watch out of her window as she lived at the entrance to my street and she saw him do it three times in one week. He would also try to corner me at school between classes so I had to get one of my girlfriends to walk around with me to feel safe. Eventually I told a teacher and they had a word with him. After that, he stopped following me but he still would watch me at break times. Luckily this was in the 90's before email or personal phones so I didnt have to deal with that sort of harassment. In the end I told my Dad (who I hardly ever told anything to as he had a bad habit of overreacting) and he went to the guy's house, called his parents outside, put a brick through their front window and said he'd castrate the boy if he so much as looked at me again. It worked and he stopped.
What happened to you happened to my daughter for a brief moment. There was a boy stalking her from her middle school. Her brothers fixed that situation real quick.
@@user-qm2li8zx2d I thought that if family got told, it would have been sorted out but wanted to try the less confrontational way first.
What a story
I’m glad you had people to protect you. It’s terrifying.
That's what dad's are for!!!
6 years ago I dealt with a stalker and it was beyond terrifying. I still suffer with awful PTSD even doing therapy. This should NOT be considered a misdemeanor at all.
I actually knew the second guy, torek. He stayed with my boyfriends family for a couple of weeks before ending up in jail for stealing a bunch of stuff. As a girl, I can't say finding out this stuff about him makes me feel very safe.
I pity the sex toy.
@@vidsbybrielle woah
Stalkers have one of the most cursed dedications spending so much time on stalking
I’m not even that dedicated to myself.
they have a lot of fun😂
I couldn't imagine the amount of energy it takes to stalk somebody. Like there's other things you could be doing with your life
"Lazy Stalker" is a phrase ya never hear! :D
That's why they are so dangerous. Any normal human being would never put that kind of effort into something with no return.
It’s so weird of all the things to devote yourself to it’s someone that wants nothing to do with you.
“I’m a student” OH WELL THAT CLEARS THINGS UP, GO RIGHT AHEAD.
he made a horrible mistake and wasted his opportunity to live in america
I was stalked from age 11-16 it’s horrifying, it has and will continue to affect my perception of men. The mental duress it puts you through is unimaginable, I wouldn’t wish it on anyone.
There’s 3 of us he stalked. He’s a free man, never charged, not a mark on his record.
I was almost a stalker, but I was lucky enough to have resources like friends and a therapist to help me work through the unhealthy possessive feelings. I see what I could have been in people like this, and it really scares me.
You are clearly nothing like any of them if you realized what was going on and asked for help I applaud you for that I don’t think a lot of people would have been able to ask for help.
You demonstrate positive self-awarenenss.
Yeah I've been there, it puts a pit deep in your stomach when you realize the road that your possessive feelings are leading you down.
I went to crazy lengths to try and preserve a dead relationship and one day I saw the reality of what was happening, apologized to the poor girl, screamed in my car (still have that fire playlist lol) and then moved on as best I could.
Some days the feelings come back (I'm talking years later out of the blue) and it makes me miserable, but it gives me some sympathy for the people who can't recognize these feelings for what they are: compulsions, not affection
Stalking is not okay, relationships should not be one sided overdoses of unconsentual harassment in an attempt to "reconcile" (only to lash out when the attempt inevitably fails)
My heart goes out to victims of this type of torment, and I hope the people like myself who struggle with these compulsions get the support they need in order to bring peace to everyone involved.
I was getting to the stalker stage years ago. Glad I caught myself before I got to deep
Must of had some good ding dong
"Oh, so you were something?"
"...We were kinda there, we were working it out"
Please, don't do this.
idk i kinda feel bad for some criminals some times, even though i know they deserve whats happening and stuff.
Right?
@@awynsaWhy would you feel bad for someone who makes someone's life hell 😭
I've only had a mild stalker and it had to be the most terrifying experience. I can't even imagine the fear and discomfort these women felt, Stalking should not be taken lightly because the short ammount of time it takes for these people to get crazy is insane.
That first one: It's their culture. They believe any friendship, even a simple acquaintanceship, with a woman means they have a right to believe she belongs to them. When I was doing cultural anthropology, the girls were warned not to speak to the men. We were to let one of our male colleagues or managers speak to them for us because any dialogue would start a chain reaction of them claiming to be in a "relationship." Some of the women in our group said that was racist and ignored the instructions. There were 8 women all together who said this and all 8 ended up in scenarios similar to this one, with one having her family threatened if she didn't swear herself to the guy. Stalkers come in all shapes and sizes, but some are born believing this is normal and they are entitled to behave this way.
Of the things that happened in life, that totally happened the most.
Try harder. 😂
@@cl5470 research indian culture first and then comment again. This behaviour is common amongst indian men. They treat women like animals and property. It's disgusting, as is your comment
I believe it happened, but in a smaller scale. Like 1 or 2 instead of 8. And if this wasn't in America, but in some other country.
Knew a stalker at a previous job. We all found out when he was arrested but he had horrible attendance. Either being late, leaving early or just straight missing the day due to "being sick" or "family emergency". Crazy to know the truth afterwards
"My friend was coming to a hotel, so I thought I would see who she was meeting, I also lojacked her car with a GPS tracker... Please sir can I go, I am a student". Delusional
I know a girl who is being actively stalked for years now and the police really do tell her theres nothing they can do until the person becomes violent or goes "overboard" i guess finding any and every address of yours, constantly posting threads and craigslist ads of my friends home still isnt enough to do anything. Theyve made countless fake accounts of them , found their work and families numbers. Its a really stressful and hard thing to go through and i feel for anyone in a similar position that has noone to help them.
If she has money she can hire a private investigator to follow the stalker
Him saying “I thought she was with someone so followed her and put a tracker on her car” like it was totally normal was f#cking creepy asf.
13:04 I like how the cops were all like “Ew, he’s weird” 😂
I've never dealt with anything this extreme before, thankfully, but about 15-years ago, I went for coffee with a woman I met online. I wasn't into her so decided not to meet with her again. Well, she called me twice a day for the next few months. I answered a few times and told her I was just too busy to meet. She called again and again and again, but I stopped answering. About six months afterwards, I went to a formal event in my city and she happened to be attending it, too. I politely waved to her but stayed away. I caught her staring at me multiple times. She began calling me frequently after this but I ignored them. While I never felt threatened or that my life was in any kind of danger, the situation was extremely peculiar and I regret now that I didn't tell her upfront that I wasn't interested.
When I was 12 years old, a friends dad somehow got my phone number and started texting me odd things. He started showing up to every after school athletic practice I was at (including ones his daughter was not at). He once cornered me and told me to my face that he knew where I lived and would kill my family and that I "would pay". To this day zero idea what he was talking about. I told my parents who went to the police. Police said they couldn't do anything until he had physically harmed me or I had proof in text/writing of physical threat. My family didn't play around and pulled me out of every activity with his daughter. We felt so hopeless. One year later the guy strangled my dance teacher. He had a long history of stalking kids and the school had received countless complaints, but he had never been legally held accountable. He's in jail now.
This is absolutely crazy! I will never understand why anyone would become so obsessed with someone they need to behave like this. It’s not worth it!
what if she had 32DD's
I can't believe the last guy literally tried the "look over there!" trick lol. Hopefully his jail mates will find out what his crimes are and respond accordingly.
I found this channel and this video by chance, I have heard of stalking but never seen this sort of thing for myself before…. I am absolutely shocked that this can happen to the most ‘ordinary’ of people, I had thought it was just celebrities, I have a daughter and this must be so distressing and worrying for anyone targeted by such people….. they clearly have mental issues but that doesn’t and never should excuse their behaviour….. this sort of behaviour is more than likely very likely to escalate to a serious situation for the victim….. surely any action of this kind must never be treated as a misdemeanour….. these are serious crimes that must be treated seriously by the justice system including jail time and management and monitoring….. ! Thank you for sharing this and waking me up to this sort of behaviour.
I wish I were as blissfully unaware as you.
Oh petal, you men get it too!! Oh you do! Except we do stuff like accuse of r*pe or SA and stuff if we don't get our own way!
No offense, but that mindset that it only happens to women and celebrities is not only ignorant and ridiculous, but dangerous. ANYONE can be a victim.
@@ir9567WTF are you talking about. Are you saying men can't get raped or assaulted? I hate to shatter your illusions, but women can be perpetrators as well. Gender has nothing to do with it.
@ir9567 "we"? You speak for yourself in that repulsive behavior making me ashamed to share your gender. Shame on you.
Ive been stalked, by an ex, who dumped me! It was like psychological warfare. Total loss of privacy, turning up on my doorstep at 3am. Then sa me. Horrific
I’m sorry that happened? Did he get arrested and did you go to therapy?
The fact that he thought it was completely reasonable to put a tracker on her car speaks volumes.
Stalking should come with a serious prison sentence. These guys are soooooooo creepy. I had a creepy female stalker once, they can seriously mess up your life. There needs to be major laws against stalking. Its wrong and evil to stalk someone.
I've never been in a stalking scenario but I've been close. I feel so bad for the people who have to put up with creeps like this.
From what I've heard it is a terrifying experience that leaves the victim feeling powerless and in constant fear.
Any charges such as these should automatically be felonies. This is as serious as serious can get as far as victim safety goes.
I admit I can't understand it myself. If someone weren't going to wish to be around me -- why on earth would I want to be around him or her?
They can't grasp that someone doesn't want something. They are usually narcissists as well so there is a lot of self-absorbed thinking going on inside their head.@@tanikokishimoto1604
You can't be close... .. you either were, or were not. Period.
@@morbidmanmusic I only say "close" but it was a one-time encounter that I took care of immediately. It's a more complicated story that your nose doesn't need to be in. I had a taste of what that bullshit is like but not to an extreme extent like others.
13:40 if someone groped me or literally anyone around me in a Walmart, ESPECIALLY A 9YEAR OLD I would be hurling insults and we would play a game of “catch these hands” while someone called 911. I’m at the point in my life where I would risk the charge if someone pulled that shit.
An adult taking upskirt photos of random young people, is disgusting. Doing that in a WalMart, is just plain stupid.
Why can’t people just let go? These stalkers have no self respect or dignity. I can’t imagine being so damn pathetic. We need harsher laws for punishing stalkers.
Because most of the time they have emotional abandonment issues from childhood and usually for that reason they use their victim as a godhead for their emotional well being.
Imagine knowing...somewhere out there there... a PERSON is just watching you, at ALL times. Then your looking over your shoulder, changing routines, never feeling fully safe, etc. That will change a person! Don't forget to look up from your phones every now and then and just be aware of what's going on. Be safe everybody.
So true…
Men: "Why don't some women trust men?" Women: "Please see above."
11:52 LMFAOOOO that cop’s face 😂
bro was really getting high on meth, using his fleshlight, and butt plugging himself while sitting in the car near his ex gf’s house.
dudes a WEIRDO.
At least the police did something in these cases. I used to live in Long Beach NY and a few years ago a man was stalking me and threatening to kill me. When I called the police they said there was nothing they could do. When I insisted that this was an ongoing problem the police went and talked to him.
I am in my sixties. I am too old for this sh*t.
First guy didn’t think he actually committed a crime, that’s why he was so forth coming about it. I was suspicious of my husband and was going to use AirTags track his ass, but I thought better of it, because it’s absolutely a crime, and found other ways to prove he was cheating. Mission accomplished… without tracking devices.
If your name was on the vehicle, it wouldn’t of been a crime
They aren't in a relationship though.....
@@thestone8187 He has his truck, I have my car. We’re on the same insurance. I work for the Fed, we both have security clearances. I have to think long and hard about things I’m not willing to blow our/ my own life up over. Even a hint of controversy… no.
Lisa......this ain't about you........
@@sterlingarcher857 Go be miserable somewhere else. You want attention? Call your parents or go make friends.
I had a stalker in 2014 his name was Alex. I met him at a local bar in town and hit it off one night. Then the texts, calls, voicemails, etc. started. He knew where I lived and one night he wanted to come over and I said I wasn't home but I was and thankfully my brother who's a marine was home upstairs. I ran up and said that kid Alex is peeking through our windows in the backyard!! My brother ran out with a knife.. I never heard from Alex again.
3:27 -- This cop is one of the good ones. "Don't answer that." Calm, and very much in control.
Stalkers are terrifying. I can't describe how scary it is having no sanctuary they don't know about. Nowhere you can go to hide or escape. Then you tell someone and they ignore you, downplay it, or say there's nothing they can do.
Some entitled stalkers think they have the right to intrude on other people's private lives, is pathetic and shows he thinks he owns her. It's stalkers like this one who are so obsessed with an uninterested ex, they usually end up murdering the ex,, simply because they cannot handle the rejection. I'm glad this lady was fed up and laid charges and he went to jail. Idiot.
Some....pretty sure that's all stalkers since it's the very definition of being a stalker. They're entitled and believe they own the person they're targeting, they intrude on their private lives, and obsesses over the person.
@@EvilAnomaly you're absolutely correct about that.
5:41 random but satisfying sound of him getting cuffed right here. Stalkers are so creepy
2:28 Relationships involving tracking devices usually doesn't pan out, lol 🤣🤣
She doesn’t want you!!!!! Damn how difficult is that to understand
Obviously very difficult to understand to someone who clearly has mental issues or else this wouldn't be a thing.
Thanks for watching another fun-filled episode of "Immeasurable Stupidity".
It's kind of like driving past a bad wreck--you're hoping not to see someone's been hurt but you're staring for all you're worth.
Naw seriously
These creeps are often a danger in waiting for their victims. Unfortunately I think it’s hard to keep them in check unless they are locked up.
That ‘Oh he’s done’ was pretty awesome 💯💪
it gives me the chills when stalkers spend more time in there life to stalk people and when they get caught the play innocent.
So creepy. I can't even imagine having to go through this. Ladies and Gents stay safe out there.
BRUH!! "I won't ever contact her again, this one time let me go" immediately followed by "*calling girl WHILE the cop is stepped away*" 🤦♀️
Crazy how open and cavalier the first guy was when discussing his behavior like it’s a normal thing. Man needs some serious long term hel.
Any time someone says "their little boyfriend or their little girlfriend " they are 100% not over it.
“I just wanted to see who she was with”-as he places a GPS tracker on her car. Why do men think they should be allowed to stalk women, and not face consequences?!?
I noticed they found a “fleshlight”, but you called it a “flashlight”. Are you not aware of what that is?
Yeah I've been there, it puts a pit deep in your stomach when you realize the road that your possessive feelings are leading you down.
I went to crazy lengths to try and preserve a dead relationship and one day I saw the reality of what was happening, apologized to the poor girl, screamed in my car (still have that fire playlist lol) and then moved on as best I could.
Some days the feelings come back (I'm talking years later out of the blue) and it makes me miserable, but it gives me some sympathy for the people who can't recognize these feelings for what they are: compulsions, not affection
Stalking is not okay, relationships should not be one sided overdoses of unconsentual harassment in an attempt to "reconcile" (only to lash out when the attempt inevitably fails)
My heart goes out to victims of this type of torment, and I hope the people like myself who struggle with these compulsions get the support they need in order to bring peace to everyone involved.
I love watching these dudes so entitled that they think the cops will actually cut them a break. Broham just legit doesn't grasp that he's done something horrible; he thinks this is just a minor slip-up on his part and that every other man in the conversation is secretly understanding of his stalking
That female officer almost hit hyper speed in the garden center 😂 much respect to all officers.
I literally had to move 2000 miles away from my family and friends to hide from my stalker, a neigbour who I had never even spoken to. Police could do nothing.
Stalkers should get way bigger charges against them , this is so dangerous!! I don't know or have heard of any of these turning out good!!
The fact that while watching this video I got instantly super anxious knowing that these things could happen to me and other people it's disgusting. I feel so relieved that these women are ok. Always stay safe cuz it's insane the amount of creeps u can find out there.
The second person having fetish content in their car while stalking someone…gross🤢🤮
These guys are evil. They actually feel entitled to treating people like they own them. i’m glad it’s at least considered a crime now. That wasn’t the case back in the 80s and 90s. The police couldn’t do anything to help you until the guy had actually physically harmed you. There should be much harsher penalties though. Not just because they’ve earned punishment, but to keep potential targets safe from these loons.
“My hands are slippery “ ughhhhh 😂😂😂😂
The way these awesome cops handled these creepy stalkers is so impressive. They're professional and know the law thoroughly and are excellent with handling stalkers. Well done officers. ❤
"He was held without bond." We don't hear those words enough.
The last guy was going after children, any children. I don't know if that's actually stalking but definitely the most dangerous of the 3. He had multiple victims a day, and who knows if it wasn't going to escalate into kidnap, rape or murder. The other 2 guys probably couldn't get another girl again so they can't move on. Definitely creepy guys.
Love your videos. You bring content that I've not even seen before, and I live for true crime and stuff like this. Just a really great job all around. I really like how you talk through out as well. It's a perfect amount of video and then you talking about whats happening. Thanks for the amazing content and keep up the great work.
Tips I learned from Boze vs the World's channel! NEVER say a stalker is "your" stalker. They get off on that type of association. Also, just from advice from me, ALWAYS press charges on these types of folk. This is escalating criminal behavior. They need serious mental help, yes, but not at the cost of your life.
Let’s hope the second guy is able to move on from his stalking victim by spending more time with his “flesh light”.
Hahaha, sorry about that
lol, i heard the exact thing , doubted myself
Eh?
I love how he thinks breaking his phone will delete the stuff inside the memory disk lol
That last cop was running and talking at a normal pace. I was screaming “you’re fast, get👏🏽him👏🏽girl👏🏽!!”
When the woman said he stalked her and then left her alone for a couple of years and then reached out to her and they talked and she thought it was fine. Do not engage with stalkers! Do not respond to them at all and totally ignore them - any reaction is just going to make them ramp up their stalking. I've had two stalkers in my lifetime and they will stop for extended periods and then try to reach out again and only ignoring them works. One guy (who I went on ONE date with) stalked me and then left me alone for TWO years. I still had him in my phone (as "crazy stalker") and sure enough I look down and see he's calling me. Of course I didn't answer and he left a voicemail. The VM started out with him saying "I know you told me never to call again but" - you can't reason with someone like this.