LIFE AS A SOLO MOM OF TWO!
Вставка
- Опубліковано 21 жов 2024
- For any business inquiries contact abigailaguilarbusiness7@gmail.com
Follow me on social media
Instagram: lifeasabigail_
twitter: lifeasabigail_
Credit to Breanna Mills for the graphic disigns on my channel
Check out her etsy shop if you ever need a graphic designer. She's amazing
www.etsy.com/s...
Her instagram: breannanichelleyt
Before anyone else attacks me for adding "single" on the title hear me out! First off I put it in quotations for a reason. I am not trying to offend anyone who is single and struggling, I can only imagine the struggle and feel for you but you've got this mama! As of lately it's how it's felt for me though since Luis can't physically be here. We all go through struggles everyday and just because I'm still married it doesn't mean I'm not faced with hardships as I'm doing it all on my own atm (financially as well). And again I am not complaining, I am incredibly grateful for every single thing in my life but life isn't perfect and I want to be real with you guys! Anyway, for those who understand, thank you! I love you guys!!!!!! Edit: I changed the title because I really don’t want to hurt anyone else’s feelings, that’s never my intention. I just want everyone to realize that life isn’t perfect for anybody no matter what!!!!
💝💝💝💝💝
Love U to 🤗🤗♥️♥️
Luv u 2
COK SAGOLUN IM FROM TURKEY😊😊😊👏👏👏🌹🌹🌹👌
💜👍☺️
Omg. Im so proud how Amelie behaved well during her session with the dentist! She's so cooperative and well-disciplined! All love❤💛💙💚💜😘
The car footage was so relatable!!!! I’m right there with you girl. Your doing an amazing job!
Every momma shld have a sister in law like yours... my goodness she's a helper, what a blessing she is. Xxx
I been watching you for a long time and for ur subscribers who's been with you for a while know you r so sweet and kind and there's no way you would have put anything on purpose to offend any one ur awesome keep them videos coming girl
Yess its real life! You're doing a great job! I kinda feel you, I work 8-5 & my bf works night shifts. So when he comes home the kids & I are asleep. & in the morning when I leave the house he is sleeping. I have to get myself and the kids ready, drop one off at school & the other at the babysitter's. Then go to work, pick up one kid, pick up the other, clean, cook, etc. It's hard being a mom!❤
Amelie is so adorable 😍😘😃.
"I dont like it" 😅
I love the relationship you have with your sister in law❤
You got this girly ❤️ I know it’s hard when you where used to of having Luis and seeing him every day happened to me when my husband worked out of town before and I struggled a lot so I know how you feel you got this mama you’re amazing PERIODDDDTT. ❤️ God bless as always.
I don’t understand how you feel but you gotta be greatful you have someone who at least helps I’m a single mom and instead of my kids father helping he gives me trouble for child support and even watching his own kid so be greatful in the good and bad and I’m only telling you from experience. God never gives you anything you cannot bare being a mom in general in not easy.
Same situation here! My hubby leaves to work at another state and comes every 2/3 weeks. Its hard but we got to stay strong for our little ones. Much love abi xoxo
Vent it all out girl, i have an 1 and half yr old and shes absolutely crazy she never listens and it makes it so hard for me. And i really am a single mom i couldnt imagine having two babies on my own id go crazy lol. Youre really strong doing what you do especially when your hubby is away. Love you girl
Isabelle Jangles love you!!!!! Thank you so much mama ❤️
Love that you had the courage to vent. I know exactly what you meant as a pregnant mother myself of two little girls with daddy working all the time. It’s definitely tough but you know what really helps me is keeping the girls to have a schedule of different activities to keep them busy at home so that they aren’t constantly fighting with each other. Even car rides I’ve put together toys for each the girls to help just a bit even when running errands. Toys and snacks! Lol. Wishing the best for you and sending most positive vibes to you and your beautiful family! 💗
I’m a stay at home mom Abby and I totally understand. There’s days it’s really hard and tough and sometimes what gets you through is knowing your hubby will be there to help at some point. Your doing great though. Thanks for sharing
Thanks for being so real! So helpful to hear you talking about your challenges too
You’re a great mom Abby💕💕 I love watching your videos even if you don’t upload I still watch your videos that’s how much I love them.🙂
The car clips are so relatable... it’s a struggle with my now 1 year old... never had her “dad” in her life not even the pregnancy... but I know I can do it...
I can't wait to get to see u & the girls with ur mom again!!!! I really wish (for u guys) that she could come visit u anytime she wants!!!! Prayers coming ur way!!!
That's mom life Abby ,no one said it was gonna be easy ! Be grateful that you have Luis in your life ,my kiddos father passed away 4 months now and we miss him dearly .You don't have a clue what a single mother is so don't use that phrase!
I’m so sorry for your loss can’t imagine what that must be like and sorry it offended you but I put it in quotations for a reason. I know a lot of people have it way worse but it also doesn’t take away from my hardships, just because I’m married doesn’t mean it’s not hard on a daily basis, we’re faced with struggles every single day no matter who you are, I’m simply expressing how it’s been for me and being honest about it but still being grateful and trying harder each day for my family. Sending love and prayers your way ❤️
My kid's dad passed away also two months ago. But tbh she used quotations. That time that she spends alone parenting is her doing it solo. No matter what it's hard and we need to up build and support one another. Love and blessings to you all ♥️🙏
Sorry for your loss....
there’s different info about single mom
Don’t bash a mom for her not having same situation as u every one has their story every mom goes through their own struggles
Maria Garcia I'm so sorry for your lost my kids father is not around either. Being a single parent is definitely a 24/7 daily life routine. My thoughts and prayers are with you 💕
Girl it’s okay to feel overwhelmed sometimes , I have 3 girls & I get my days where I get really frustrated & my man notices so he’ll take them for a bit . I hope you feel better 💕
Iam a firts time mom it been two weeks since i had my baby boy and girl!!! My partner works all day long like from 630am to 8pm and i dont blame him but doing this alone is HARDDD!! specially for a first time mom😭
Work is hard too :/ alot of politics and stress. No you time
Awww I'm a stay at home mom of a 5year And 11 month old....husband is out of the country. It gets hard not having him around. Definitely feel you on this.
Girl you would love Stella Rose!!!! It’s amazing. I’m not a big drinker but Stella Rose taste amazing. They have a bunch of different flavors but my favorites are either the original or Peach. Try it please!
You should get your seats some covers!!! Trust me then you can wash them 🙌🏼
Kami enjoying that cookie 🍪 at the dentist was everything 🤣
Can we just wait a minute and talk about how gorgeous, beautiful, wonderful, outgoing mother Abigail is. Like goals! Love you Abigail. 😘
You should fold a towel and put it under the car seats that way you just have to wash the towels and it will save your car seats that’s what I used to do I actually have a cute quilt folded covering my back two rows of seats and the driver & passenger seats have seat covers on them I have a SUV and I’m protective of my vehicle ..... try it it will help you out a lot 🌼
You can get protective mats for under their car seats just to protect the seats a bit
Hey abby! I've been thinking about you a lot lately, it seems life is so great on social media! But as a fellow mom with a kid + hubby who works a lot I was wondering if you had the same struggles as me. I love that you posted this, bc you are doing so good and to see the reality I experience as well makes me feel like I'm not doing something wrong. Being a true single momma is hard I'm sure- but for those of us running families we struggle too! Love this video & love your authenticity (:
If you plan on doing most details at home I would definitely say get a carpet cleaner!! A portable one! They are great for car detailing as well as stains on carpet and furniture!
You really don’t need to have a partner , I’m not a single mom but I have friends who are and there doing just fine , and I understand how you feel because my boyfriend works all day and I’m home alone with my daughter all day but I don’t think as my self as a single mom .
Alejandra Santiago it’s different when he doesn’t come home at all and u raised ur children with him
Jailene Ramos yeah it’s different but when you have a partner and they go to work all day it feels like your all alone because yes he comes home at night I’m grateful we are a family but there’s times where I’m like I wish he didn’t work at all so that he can he see our child grow up 24/7 like I do, idk how it feel to have no one at all
Alejandra Santiago I completely agree with you my husband is in the army and has been actually deployed over seas 3 times once during my pregnancy and birth of our child and also while he was 2 years old leaving us for 18 months and not once did I consider myself a single mother.
Alejandra Santiago she’s not a single mom that’s why I think she should have redone the title...
My car looks the same all the time!! 😂 shoes, toys, trash, and food lmao 😂😂😂
I have a 1 year and 4 month old I'm glad I'm not the only one that has a hard time with dealing with both of my girls by myself I love watching you ❤️💙 you make me feel like I can do it and not to give up
It's OK to feel alone in something sometimes, just remember that you have to do somethings that way and feeling bad about it would only bring you down. Be the supermom that you are. Plus we all are always with you 😇
I cant belive how big the girls are they are adorable! I'm 21 and have a 20 month old and an 8 month old and can totally understand how difficult it is doing everything on your own. My fiance works most of the time and the kids only see him on a sunday, Its hard on the children aswell. but you are an amazing mum tho and you're doing a great job raising your beautiful babies. (And you have every right to express how you are feeling even if you do have 'more and better than others' everyone has struggles and it doesn't mean its not as important because you're not as worse of as others.
Seriously thank you so much for this! It really means a lot. Lately it's how it's been feeling not having Luis here and I so agree with you, we all have struggles and just because I'm still married doesn't mean it's not hard taking care of the girls by myself. I'm so grateful for my life but life isn't perfect and I'm just expressing my true feelings on the subject! thankyou so much again, we need more people like you who are more understanding and less sensitive. :)
@@LifeasaMommy Your welcome :) You upload your life on youtube for us to watch and its only fair that you can share the hard parts as well as good and you shouldn't have to justify yourself to anyone.
Girl I totally and completely get you 100% my husband works out of town as well, he's not physically here to help me out at all, minus the financial standpoint of it all, I feel like I'm a single mother too, why? Cause the husbands aren't psysically here. I do every single thing on my own with no family help at all. Our struggles are just as real and valid as any other persons no matter the severity of the struggle. You don't need to explain yourself to no one girl. These days people get offended for the smallest things & you can't make everyone happy. Keep doing you and being a good momma. 😌😌❤❤
Oh girl I understand what you are saying. I have a 12 year old my hubby has been gone for the last 3 months and we have 2 more months to go. And even though my 12 year old can do a lot of things on her own we have entered the preteen phase and its a struggle. Sometimes I just want a moment alone or a hug and its not there. I get it. Stay strong!!
Would love to see a house tour with all the furniture in it x
Use a toddler fitted bed sheet on your seats, it is a life changer!
Girl! I feel you. I just had a baby a month ago I also have a 4 and 8 year old and my husband has been gone for 3 weeks 😕also military. It’s ok for the most part but it’s hard to go out with all three of them.
I'm not a wine fan but I like sangrias and moscatos, they are sweeter and taste better. My favorite moscato is one that comes in a blue bottle with a fat bottom and its called Risata and says Moscato D' Asti with some light blhe leaves in the background. Its so good and cheap plus I have seen it most places.
My favorite wine is Roscato Sweet Red! It is honestly so good and not too strong its the perfect mixture of sweet ! Hope you try it out.
Oh my goshh amelie is adorable she is growing so fast! By the way ur such a good mom abby
I found it hard to find a wine a wine that isn’t over powered by the alcohol taste. Maybe you could try the “White Claw Hard Seltzer” they low calorie NO ALCOHOL taste . And if your a light weigh like me with 2 will do the job. I mean I usually just drink 2-3 Michelob beers but for you I’m sure the Seltzer’s would be perfect 👌
My husband works out of town almost the whole year round. I have my beautiful 10 year old who has autism and is non verbal. I do what I have to do to raise my child the best I can. We are strong women and absolutely can do anything especially when it comes to our children. Also, I dont agree when u said we NEED a partner. Yes, it's nice to have help, but many dont have that and we work around it.
Can you do a solo mommy morning and night time routine? 😃💕
None of us are perfect and it's fine to feel tired like she does and in need of help from her husband. Having a house and everything doesn't mean she can't complain or however you want to call it. We all get stressed at some time and need help. Remember we aren't perfect enough to not feel like she does. I understand you Abyy☺️ I have 4 kids and I'm only 30 and one baby on the way Soo I totally understand you. 💜
Love the sectional it's beautiful...and Amelie at the dentist to cute lol
Yellow tail Moscato is so yummy for those who don't like the taste of wine.
Do u mean single mom bc your man is at work at the army I can’t exactly remember or do u mean your freaking single now I’m confused
Derya Melody yes that's what she means shes not really single Luis stayed back to finish work so she basically is all alone right know with the girls
It says “solo” not single..... there IS a difference
NurseBee Plus3 it said single mom at first before she changed it..
NurseBee Plus3 she changed it to solo it said single before
He is in the U.S.Navy not Army
Girl! Stella peach is really good, it is honestly like juice! If you like super fruity and sweet drinks, I also recommend Seagrams. They sell them at Walmart, I think it’s like 5 dollars, but they are also literal adult juice and it’s great!! I love BIP!! I watch it all the time by myself too 😩
You’re so strong babe
I feel you. We were separated for over a year when he was in the military. Now he works 12 hour shifts as well as night classes twice a week and I have 3 kids. Its insanity
You need Stella Rosa Berry or Strawberry.. honestly any Stella Rosa is AMAZING!
I Love Stella Rosa Wines, especially the Stella Rosa Black!! 🙌
The first two minutes of this video are the cutest i love you guys 😍😍😍😍😍😍
I’m a stay at home mom of two. My husband works 7 days on and 7 days off. It’s great but not because he’s gone a lot. I enjoy doing the house myself even though he pays for everything. It’s rough for sure.
I love the workout outfit it’s perfect! 🤗
A glass of wine sounds so good right about now but I’m pregnant 😭😭😭
Let me give you some tips If they are being a little bratt just saying only if they are so if they are being a bratt ou need to discipline them like slap their hand Or a better way is you can put them on timeout don’t let your kids control you because YOUR THE MOM NOT THEM LOVE YA!
Hello, I live here in Albuquerque as well 😁😁😁
I know how you feel. I'm a stay at home mom with a 2 year old girl and a 6months baby boy . My husband works from 6:00 to 8:30.
I miss him all the time.
Abby I think you should be careful putting “single” mother in your title.
That's why it's in quotes :) atm it's what it feels like since I'm doing it all on my own!
Life as a Mommy Yeah I understand. I’ve just read some really really rude comments about you using the word single. I just don’t wanna see people coming for over not understanding what you were saying.
I only have 1 child and its hard work. Be strong mama cause you're doing amazing. And maybe you should buy car seat covers to protect that beautiful car.
Why don’t you get seat protectors for your car? Makes it easier and heavy duty floor mats? My wife and I have to in the suburban. Cause kids are messy
I’ve been to Mexico it’s real nice
Abby I love your videos but you should just be carful with the “single” a lot of people would get offended
Hi taking care of two kids by yourself it’s very difficult you can do it you’re an amazing mom💜😘 also try frozen cherries it’s very good
Love you should put mats on bottom of car seats so your seats don’t get ruin 💞💞
I always have a smile on whenever I get a new vid notification from you 😀😃
Seeing your daughter at the dentist was adorable . I'm a dental assistant 👍great job
You're really great mom Abby💕i wish i can watch the movie with you.i love you the most💓💓💓
Try the seven daughters moscato! That one is really good and sweet as well :)
Cupcake Muscato by bare foot giiirrlllll , with strawberry slices in it . It’s amazing and I usually can’t do wine
snoqualmie naked organic riesling is one of the best wines I have found!! It’s pronounced (snow-kwa-me) its sweet and I don’t find it strong!!💜💜💜
I get it I have 2 boys 2 and 4 years old rrrrrr's at times and some awww's .more power to the moms that keep it real
Oh no Aby 😔 same situation as I. Hubby is miles away for work. He left me with a amazing 13month old baby girl. And its our 22nd month away from each other. 😢 we can definitely do this, for our dear family.
Abby you are a amazing mother to 2 beautiful girls I love how you still have a smile on your face even tho you have raise to CRAZY girls♥️Keep working hard girl
Roscato is really good it's a sweet red wine and one of my favorites
I love u Abigail and your girls r so cute u do a good job. Just keep it up I am sure it's not easy
Your an awesome mom Abby! Your daughter's are pretty.
Cupcake D’ santi it’s a moscato but it’s sooo good not too sweet and not to bitter it’s perfect !
Stella rose black it has 4.5% ach and it tastes like more of grape soda it's Soo good and I'm not a wine person either
I'm just like you when it comes to wine lol I love the roscato sweet red you can find at Walmart or smiths that's where I get mine at! Try it and let us know
Ilove u Abigail I can so see us being besties I have a daughters that's 3 nd a 8 month lil fat girl .your doing a good job🤗
Omg this is why I don’t like going out with my girls 😣 it’s ALWAYS crazy even if we go to target for 5 minutes it’s chaos lmao. My youngest just turned 2 and her attitude is CRAZY
White wine! Bartenura Moscato is sweet try it!
Girl I’ll watch Batchelor in Paradise with you ! I love that show I’ll just have to wait on the wine with you because I’m preggos haha 😆 , P.S I love the Stella Rose pink moscato soooo goood (:
I read this article on this kid who got a grape lodged in his throat and had to go for emergency surgery. They recommend cutting the grapes in half for children under 5. And you're giving her frozen grapes at that. Yikes!!
It's okay abi you will get through it
I hear you honey God will see you through, but remember honey you have to be the mommy they don't rule you you rule them she's not too young to listen she's testing you so be the best mom you can be but when you speak for their own good no matter how small they are they must hear. Love your videos always
Awww she did so good a big thumbs up 👍🏼👍🏼
I know people thank our service men and women for their service but I don't feel like their families are thanked enough. I'm sure it's tremendously difficult holding down the house while your significant other is away serving our country in which ever aspect they are. So thank you girl you are doing a wonderful job!!!
I am from greece and I don't understand something.... She broken up with her husband?
No they are a military family so he is away at the moment.
@@cin337 ohh tyyy
Stella rose black ! Its bomb
Amelie is adorable
You are wonderful friend I am proud of you
I really don’t know how you do it. Me and my husband both work full time. The baby goes to daycare and it’s tough with ONE child. You’re at home with two babies. It’s crazy and you have a full time job. When do you even edit?!?!? I try to edit at night when everyone is sleeping but that means I don’t sleep much that night or however many nights it takes me to edit. Don’t feel embarrassed about your car.... sometimes there’s just not enough time.... I dream of the day my home will stay clean. I need to get my car detailed soon. I wish I had the time to do it myself but the only way I can it is to pay someone to do it.
Seriously doing great!!
Wine is all about the same in alcohol content percentage...but if you want something sweet, go for a moscato!
You should try Stella Rose. I love the peach and black
I was looking for something to watch and my favourite girl pops up ❤️, you know I'm liking the video before watching it 😊❤️❤️❤️❤️.
You're the best!!!!!!!
@@LifeasaMommy you're the best girl, keep up the good. You're a awesome mother, wife and friend ❤️ always look forward to watch your vlogs.
Love your videos! How long are usual Cami’s naps?