An asian woman’s thoughts on dating asian vs white men

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  • @eugeloo
    @eugeloo Рік тому +252

    What an absolute honest and candid interview. To be so vulnerable to share about her Mom's passing - it shows a lot of courage.

    • @pelle.luca91
      @pelle.luca91 Рік тому +2

      Isn't she the one of the show "Meet me in Paris"?

    • @abccafe1
      @abccafe1 7 місяців тому

      all she did was stereotype asian people based on things that aren't remotely true. she seems to be rather unintelligent and self hating.

  • @ShelleyM007
    @ShelleyM007 9 місяців тому +34

    I hope the guy that eventually wins her over realises what a keeper she is. She’s obviously intelligent with a deep level of self awareness, her vulnerability is so brave, and her honesty’s disarming. When she spoke about her Mom I teared up too, (thinking about my late Mom.) Most cases when people say “it’s not me, it’s them,” it’s not true…in this case- it’s them.. Don’t give up💪🏻 He’s out there. 🌺

    • @abccafe1
      @abccafe1 7 місяців тому +5

      your bar for intelligence must be below the ground.

    • @DMRCapitalHill
      @DMRCapitalHill 4 місяці тому

      Ehh I wouldn’t do it. She seems like a career woman

    • @dennisyoung9500
      @dennisyoung9500 2 місяці тому +1

      Based on a 3 minute video you assert that she is "a keeper". You give new meaning to the word "superficial".

  • @kaileena7
    @kaileena7 Рік тому +88

    Not sure why the algorithm recommended this to me but I like it. The woman in the video is so bright and genuine, I hope that she gets better luck in dating in the future!

    • @curiousnomadic
      @curiousnomadic 5 місяців тому +2

      Yeah same. I wonder if Eric Jeng ending up asking such wonderful women he meets out, if for nothing else just to spend some time with them.

  • @MissionSilo
    @MissionSilo Рік тому +87

    She has amazing self awareness and seem level headed. I hope the world treats her better and she finds true love. I hope the best for her.

    • @abccafe1
      @abccafe1 7 місяців тому

      how is she level headed? She comes across as deeply insecure, racist, and obsessed with male validation, particularly white male validation.

  • @RoyPragyan
    @RoyPragyan Рік тому +71

    She's so real. Truly refreshing.

    • @abccafe1
      @abccafe1 7 місяців тому

      she's also incredibly racist towards her own people. "too outspoken for asian guys" like wtf is she on. Is she only dating fobs?

  • @TomCi00738
    @TomCi00738 Рік тому +89

    She seems like a genuine lovely lady.

    • @tanthaman
      @tanthaman Рік тому +7

      Stop simping

    • @jm52995
      @jm52995 2 місяці тому

      She looks like the type of asian chick who only dates white men

  • @Rein_Ciarfella
    @Rein_Ciarfella Рік тому +77

    She unfortunately dated two immature Asian boys. Could as easily have been any race or culture. If she tried the same but older her experience might have been more enjoyable.

    • @johnwatine
      @johnwatine Рік тому +24

      Examples for those two asian guys could happen with any race. I don't get it to reject asian based on those factors. She seems to be very frustrated not to be picked by white guys.

    • @wusta34
      @wusta34 8 місяців тому +18

      @@johnwatine you hear this alot for asians that doesn't want to date other asian. It's because of few bad dates. But they'll overlook the bad dates with other race. weird phenomenon lol

    • @ironheart5830
      @ironheart5830 7 місяців тому +3

      Is call Racial Profiling just like how US police done to Black men.

    • @johnwatine
      @johnwatine 7 місяців тому +2

      @@wusta34 ​ @wusta34 Nothing wrong with preferences. If she likes white men, be it. That is ok. But stop bashing on asian, especially coming from Asian, and especially from the factors she mentioned which could happen on any race or any gender.

    • @TD1237
      @TD1237 6 місяців тому +1

      ​​@@johnwatineTrue, they're free to like what they like. But I've seen videos of some Asian women from the west and Europe who enthusiastically beIittIe Asian men. I didn't even know that was a thing. I'm South Asian, from South Africa and such things don't really happen here. Maybe because there's huge communities of each race group. I'm not sure. But I feel like Asian women in the west try very hard to haate themselves and prove that they can "be whlte" too or something. And I've seen at least a few even try to justify coIoniaIism - which is something I find absolutely slckening, as someone who's ancestors were brought here as sIaves by Europeans. But, anyway, I digress.
      I could be wrong about my deductions, but that's just the impression I get from what I've seen. Feel free to correct me. :-)

  • @ela1126
    @ela1126 11 місяців тому +29

    I lost my dad to cancer. I’m so sorry she lost her mom.
    On another note… as a white blonde girl I also wasn’t picked by the guys in high school lol. My husband doesn’t believe I wasn’t “popular.” But I was waaaayyy shy when I was younger. So I think how you interact in your peer group when you’re younger also plays a role, not just what you look like. We all go through social growing pains when we’re young.

    • @bjrock1235
      @bjrock1235 2 місяці тому +1

      How good looking were you though? That would play a big role.

    • @kaixiang5390
      @kaixiang5390 2 місяці тому

      @@bjrock1235 that's the real trick tho, race might matter but beauty is the real factor

  • @bakerstreet101
    @bakerstreet101 11 місяців тому +12

    How sad to feel a Valentino purse (or even Coach) validates you. Now that is very Asian.

    • @sigerlion8608
      @sigerlion8608 11 місяців тому +1

      Just like she thinks a White guy would validate her social status.

    • @annaturquoise7701
      @annaturquoise7701 10 місяців тому +1

      excellent racism

    • @markf5931
      @markf5931 6 місяців тому +1

      she appears to have many insecurities and displaying luxury products is great way to hide them

    • @Nat_Jio
      @Nat_Jio 2 дні тому

      Whats being Asian? If she got the money she can buy whatever tf she want 😂

  • @jameskim9144
    @jameskim9144 9 місяців тому +5

    I like her personality; it’s very natural ☺️

  • @OhNoNotAgain42
    @OhNoNotAgain42 Рік тому +25

    She’s like a Siberian husky became a person. Absolutely genuinely herself. No apologies. Smart. Kind. A true lady in every sense of the word.

    • @tungstenanderson5991
      @tungstenanderson5991 Рік тому +2

      Comparing her to a dog when she was a person all along, is one of the most daft, de humanizing things I have ever read. Yet, you think it's some kind of compliment.

    • @OhNoNotAgain42
      @OhNoNotAgain42 Рік тому +6

      @@tungstenanderson5991 I don’t think of my two huskies as dogs. They are members of my family. They are honest. Loving. Loyal. Caring. Hard working. They speak up when they are unhappy. When they are bad, they know it and are sorry. They have all the best qualities that I wish people had. It’s my highest compliment.

    • @tungstenanderson5991
      @tungstenanderson5991 Рік тому

      @@OhNoNotAgain42 My dog is also a member of my family, that said, she is a dog and the woman you are talking about isn't a member of your family and not a dog. Dig that hole deeper when you're talking about a woman, a human being and discussing her as a dog that shits outside and relegating her to her as such. It's not compliment when you think she has arrived as your fucking dogs.

    • @jomoland
      @jomoland 8 місяців тому +1

      @@OhNoNotAgain42and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that 😊

    • @abccafe1
      @abccafe1 7 місяців тому

      @@tungstenanderson5991 well i mean, she really is a dog. no self respect, no dignity, and just pure insecure ignorance is what i detected from this interview.

  • @NightOfCrystals
    @NightOfCrystals Рік тому +16

    She is lovely and so authentic. I’m sure she will meet someone great.

  • @Ms.noelp453
    @Ms.noelp453 9 місяців тому +2

    I feel so bad for her and just think there are so many that have this experience. 🙏🏽

  • @chavdarnaidenov2661
    @chavdarnaidenov2661 9 місяців тому +3

    That was moving. Felt for her. May you have people close to you, always, young lady!

  • @lupef.7970
    @lupef.7970 Рік тому +17

    I really love your videos you let the people speak. You allow them to tell their stories and vent. You should be getting more views.

  • @donnawoodward3163
    @donnawoodward3163 Рік тому +34

    She's such a beautiful person 🤍

  • @lucianwalcott3680
    @lucianwalcott3680 Рік тому +15

    That woman is absolutely beautiful on the outside
    But her openness and ability to be emotional in such a transparent way make her much more beautiful on the inside

  • @sentientbeans
    @sentientbeans Рік тому +60

    Can relate to the validation from white guys part. When you grow up as a minority surrounded by a Eurocentric standard of beauty, you spend a lot of time as adults trying to attain or become what you never had. Now after being aware of it, I see how much meaning I put upon attention from Caucasian men, and after getting it, realized not all of them are made equal, and that outer appearance (obviously) has little to do with whether they’re good in a relationship or makes me happy. Great interview, appreciate her sharing some very vulnerable things.

    • @kizzull
      @kizzull Рік тому +23

      The men who were ignoring you are the same men who were ignoring the woman in the video: chad and brad. The 90% of regular guys who would drag their balls through glass to be with you are totally invisible to you.

    • @DTreatz
      @DTreatz Рік тому +17

      @@kizzullCareful there, can't be saying too much truth, people will call you 'MIsoGYNIsT'
      💊

    • @korra999c7
      @korra999c7 Рік тому +25

      I wish this was talked about more. I’ve known too many Asian women who would only date white men for just the white validation, while openly denigrating asian men for that same form of validation. It’s something so many from the Asian community has to grow away from. An ongoing dialogue about this topic is needed for this to happen.

    • @cardsfan5100
      @cardsfan5100 Рік тому +8

      @@korra999c7 I agree with you. I'm not Asian but I see this and hear this so much. It's kind of upsetting for me. When I was younger (undergrad and grad) and Asian guys would ask how to get a (Asian) girlfriend, I didn't think much of it, but now I can see how and why this is such a problem. This combined with what @kizzull is writing about looks like disaster for many Asian men, and I agree. There should be a dialogue.

    • @alain2467
      @alain2467 11 місяців тому

      ​@@korra999c7 yea f em

  • @balisaani
    @balisaani 10 місяців тому +1

    I actually realized something about my own childhood listening to this bright light of a human being talk about missing her mother - for that alone, I'm grateful for this interview, but not only.

  • @Sophie-vw5ol
    @Sophie-vw5ol Рік тому +8

    Wow this woman seems so strong and fantastic. She has such a generous aura to her

    • @abccafe1
      @abccafe1 7 місяців тому +1

      if by strong and fantastic, you mean insecure and lacking self respect, then sure.

  • @SergieRachmaninoff
    @SergieRachmaninoff Рік тому +21

    Really happy to have stumbled upon this channel. This was a great interview, and i hope more people get to see your work 🙏

  • @kandgray
    @kandgray Рік тому +15

    I relate a lot to her. She seems so genuine, nice, and pretty. Who wouldnt wanna date her? ;(

    • @cardsfan5100
      @cardsfan5100 Рік тому +3

      She does seem genuine and nice. Plus, her style of dress and figure are feminine. I like that. However, do you think she is pretty? Sorry, she didn't get to date white guys during high school, but I would think for many white guys to date an Asian girl during high school that Asian girl would have needed to be pretty. Unless she has changed a bunch, I don't know if she would have hit that mark.
      I may be off-base though.

    • @abccafe1
      @abccafe1 7 місяців тому

      people who don't want to lower the iq of their offspring.

  • @jimmyg9186
    @jimmyg9186 4 місяці тому +2

    Was this just a random person you stopped on the street? If so, what an extraordinarily candid and touching interview.

  • @JJ-rp2df
    @JJ-rp2df 11 місяців тому +20

    Her authenticity is touching. For white validation, often Asian women happily date and marry down yet dismiss Asian men with double standards.

    • @IakonaWayne
      @IakonaWayne 9 місяців тому +3

      So true, but the thing is she seems to be limiting herself and her children’s future by only dating white or Asian. Doesn’t make sense in a modern free market system. Don’t pass or not consider the Indian , Hispanic ,or African American guy. Imagine if tech companies did this with their employees , they’d suffer in the long run.

    • @cooliipie
      @cooliipie 8 місяців тому +3

      ​@IakonaWayne
      Too dark.

    • @abccafe1
      @abccafe1 7 місяців тому +1

      @@IakonaWayne are you stupid?

    • @jeddred-e3m
      @jeddred-e3m 3 місяці тому

      @@IakonaWayne asian women look to white society for validation. See all the manga, they are caucasian. For now, asians are white worshippers.

  • @flakeyjay
    @flakeyjay Рік тому +4

    Moms being moms, worried about others in their own sickness. What a gorgeous women who wants to be respected plain and simple.

  • @andrewh2u
    @andrewh2u 3 місяці тому +1

    She is a real jewel - sometimes you run into amazing people in the city.

  • @hippovittorio
    @hippovittorio Рік тому +5

    She’s gorgeous honestly!!

  • @shinbi6009
    @shinbi6009 Рік тому +46

    This is why I am raising my Asian daughter in Asia. I do not want my daughter to be a broken like her. She is the typical Asian girl in America who went to an all white school-- whose bullied for her Asian looks and/or ignored but still wants to feel accepted therefore spends her whole life vying for white people's validation to the detriment of her own identity and cultural background. Not only that but the internal racism runs so deep, these Asian girls don't even view Asian men as potential partners because they must be by default a misogynist; therefore perpetuating the stereotype that Asian men are extremely patriarchal -- which is something that white men like to bash Asian men for yet somehow Asian men are also too feminine and not manly enough... Yeah it doesn't make sense. Also why would they ever want to date an Asian guy? "They look like my brother. Ew... Gross." then all the white boys laugh about that.

    • @microangels
      @microangels Рік тому +11

      Asian American women have 7x as many children with Asian men than white men. Most WMAF couples are boomers, statistically. Vast majority of young Asian women marry Asian men, statistically. Hapa children are also very rare, they don’t even make up 1% of US births, and that’s including all the hapas born in places like hawaii which have a higher concentration of mixed Asian white couples.

    • @DOMINIK99013
      @DOMINIK99013 Рік тому +1

      Patriarchal asian man is much more asian women/feminist position, euro man woud find funny, how often asian man live in shadow of asian tiger mom or how are families runned by old women, like oldest people in clan, i gues it have somethink to do with confucianism.

    • @DOMINIK99013
      @DOMINIK99013 Рік тому +3

      @@microangels Most WMAF marriages in America really won't be from men born in the 40s-60s lol. I would much more believe that only the generation from this millennium can marry an Asian woman more often than the Boomers, only in New York in 1940 there were only 0.2% Asians, so nationally it had to be well below 0.1, men who on their old knees, they went overseas to get their wives, they themselves will be statistically insignificant.

    • @MsSuperBMX
      @MsSuperBMX 11 місяців тому +2

      @@microangels uhh where are you getting this from? White male Asian female interracial relationships are growing every single year especially among young demographics lol. Its extremely over represented. Something like 40% of all asian women choose white. People who say that its sad are usually bitter that there are people out there finding true love and happiness.

    • @sigerlion8608
      @sigerlion8608 11 місяців тому

      ​@@microangels Source for your statistics? Because the PEW research on interracial marriages shows that more than 30% of Asian women married white in the US. That number goes up to 50% for the ones born in the states.
      "A significant gender gap in intermarriage is apparent among Asian newlyweds as well, though the gap runs in the opposite direction: Just over one-third (36%) of Asian newlywed women have a spouse of a different race or ethnicity, while 21% of Asian newlywed men do....Among Asian newlyweds, these gender differences exist for both immigrants (15% men, 31% women) and the U.S. born (38% men, 54% women). "

  • @davidhoppers9204
    @davidhoppers9204 8 місяців тому +1

    I’ve always been interested in different people and cultures myself. I appreciate your video and your transparency. I’ve always been intimidated to date Asian ladies, thinking they wouldn’t be interested in me as a white man. Thanks for the video and giving me hope.

  • @pinchebruha405
    @pinchebruha405 Рік тому +6

    What a wholesome channel, ❤️🙏🏼🙌🏼

  • @Leukick
    @Leukick 9 місяців тому +9

    Black (Jamaican) and have full Chinese through marriage in my family. The family gatherings are so cool and such a beautiful and fascinating mix. And the mixed babies are genuinely very very cute. Everyone can still be of their native cultures and still mix perfectly as a large family at gatherings.

  • @derrickkkkkkkkkkkk
    @derrickkkkkkkkkkkk Рік тому +8

    Yo, you have something amazing going on in this channel. I’m rooting for you!

  • @dippaverse
    @dippaverse Рік тому +7

    This is such a lovely interview 🙏

    • @abccafe1
      @abccafe1 7 місяців тому

      such a moronic comment.

  • @Asme1111-t8h
    @Asme1111-t8h Рік тому +7

    She's vibrant and amazing. God bless

  • @sharedopions8720
    @sharedopions8720 3 місяці тому +1

    Hopefully this woman has found her happiness as she deserves it she's beautiful

  • @leonidas480bc
    @leonidas480bc 9 місяців тому +3

    She’s beautiful ❤

  • @jimgoose9146
    @jimgoose9146 8 місяців тому +1

    Id past her tests. Love asian cultures . And woman that is loyal is a gift from God

  • @Dan_Campbell
    @Dan_Campbell 7 місяців тому +1

    Romantic interest or not, she seems like she would be cool to bum around with.

  • @marrvyn
    @marrvyn 4 місяці тому +1

    How can such a beautiful, charming, intelligent, authentic and elegant woman be single (without wanting to be single) ? Maybe she's in the wrong places, meeting the wrong people.

  • @WaltervonKurzgesagt
    @WaltervonKurzgesagt Рік тому +4

    I really enjoyed this interview.

  • @peter-mickey-chu198
    @peter-mickey-chu198 4 місяці тому +1

    I’m Married To An Asian Woman Born And Raised In Anaheim, California; Where The Disneyland Resort Is Located.

  • @HollywoodAstrologyReading
    @HollywoodAstrologyReading 11 місяців тому +2

    Brilliant work. Subscribed

  • @TravellingKook
    @TravellingKook Рік тому +3

    What a beautiful person. I wish her the very best in life, may you find love in every moment of life, not just in other people, in yourself too and in the beauty that exists all around you ❤🙏✌️

  • @WenLongSun
    @WenLongSun Рік тому +2

    Very intensive and real person. With a lot of emotions inside. So clever. Now I understand more inside feeling about “been Asian”. Everyone has a own background and own feelings.

  • @chikitabowow
    @chikitabowow 4 місяці тому

    Oh god this made me so sad! I couldn't imagine being in her situation, like not knowing if your partner likes you for *_who_* you and not *_what_* you are

  • @ChenBen-y6n
    @ChenBen-y6n 8 місяців тому +3

    it is simple, asian women chase yt men, period

  • @DanielChzBurger7
    @DanielChzBurger7 Місяць тому

    Bro I wish I could give her a hug hearing the story of her mom

  • @medialdea86
    @medialdea86 Рік тому +6

    Me ha emocionado muchísimo. She is a beautiful person, who opened her heart. Videos full of sincerity and emotions. Gracias por este contenido!

  • @Tova-Barin
    @Tova-Barin 11 місяців тому +3

    Pleasant, direct woman 🌞

  • @SeanFit
    @SeanFit Рік тому +4

    1:17 " I dont wana be with a guy that constantly telling me how to live my life " is exactly what a lot of women wana do to the men but dont want it done to them. Crazy. And they'll guise with the, oh you cant take criticism ? Smh. Its a two street baby, how you wana do this

  • @nhavyd6783
    @nhavyd6783 Рік тому +3

    I remember this women in a dating show recently. She was on a roku show. I guess her relationship didn’t work out. I was rooting for them. Hope she finds a genuine loving man one day!

    • @readmore6042
      @readmore6042 Рік тому

      Is there maybe a link to the episode? Or like her name and the episode/season number?

    • @pelle.luca91
      @pelle.luca91 Рік тому +3

      The Roku's show is called "Meet me in Paris"

    • @nakamiyonemura2001
      @nakamiyonemura2001 Рік тому

      She's dating a white guy

  • @gregjones5627
    @gregjones5627 4 місяці тому +1

    This girl is such a sweet heart

  • @autumnmay8434
    @autumnmay8434 7 місяців тому

    absolutely love this one - what a beyond beautiful ending 🥹

  • @sicklefinger
    @sicklefinger 11 місяців тому +3

    This is a wonderful person. That is all.

  • @andrewblackmore9705
    @andrewblackmore9705 9 місяців тому +1

    You are a treasure. You are a river, deep and wide. You are the stars, endless and wonderful.

  • @davem6905
    @davem6905 Рік тому +4

    She is a beauty.

  • @lutomson3496
    @lutomson3496 Рік тому +5

    What a nice girl I wish I could meet someone like her

  • @wora1111
    @wora1111 10 місяців тому

    She is the kind of smart woman I was meeting with half a century ago, while my classmates were starting to date.

  • @roadrules3671
    @roadrules3671 10 місяців тому +2

    She's a Gem.

    • @abccafe1
      @abccafe1 7 місяців тому

      u r a bot

  • @bov.2843
    @bov.2843 4 місяці тому

    Yet another amazing young woman,
    Eric you're a genius how you picked them up on the street 👏

  • @GaryStockton
    @GaryStockton 4 місяці тому

    What a delightful lady. Her Mother raised her right.

  • @CarbonGlassMan
    @CarbonGlassMan 11 місяців тому +1

    I like her. Nice personality on that girl.

  • @knucklesprayer
    @knucklesprayer 2 місяці тому

    We need a full interview.

  • @bluedemon218
    @bluedemon218 Місяць тому

    I'm white and somehow have always had interracial relationships, which I don't mind. My biggest fear when it comes to meeting my girlfriend's family especially during these times is how many trip-wires and mines are set in there house?

  • @28pbtkh23
    @28pbtkh23 3 місяці тому

    That was a great interview.

  • @MrTitanic222
    @MrTitanic222 2 місяці тому

    What a sweet lady. She deserves the best.

  • @bonganigigaba6671
    @bonganigigaba6671 19 днів тому

    Great interview

  • @rackets001
    @rackets001 8 місяців тому

    100% I understand where mom was coming from! If I were raising them mostly alone and knew I was about to be gone from their lives, I would be terrified to leave them alone in this stupid world full of morons! After all the life experiences I've lived and things I could help them get through without the bumps I had to endure. I'd be very worried for them.

  • @michaelchin3550
    @michaelchin3550 2 місяці тому

    Moms are the best!! I miss her.

  • @BavarianHobbit
    @BavarianHobbit Рік тому +8

    I don't quite understand what she means if she is "an experiment" for white men.
    Couldn't white men say the same thing about asian women dating them?

    • @Brinta3
      @Brinta3 Рік тому +3

      They could, but this was filmed in New York, right? Asians are in the minority. Chances are that the white guys have only dated white women (because there’s more of them) and dating an Asian woman is then a new thing.

    • @DOMINIK99013
      @DOMINIK99013 Рік тому

      @@Brinta3 In New York, whites are in minority, 30% o population, asians have 16%, white population is older, so it will be lower for people in 20-30s and higher for asians, then you have orthodox jewish and other jews who will not date out, generation rich whites who also dont date out and you probably end with pool of whites and asians who both have around 20% of population...

    • @williamgreen3288
      @williamgreen3288 Рік тому +1

      @@Brinta3 nahh i just think people generally stick to their race. Even if there were more Asians in New York most white people would stick with their own race.

    • @jbt6445
      @jbt6445 11 днів тому +1

      @@williamgreen3288 no most white woman date Korean man in korea

  • @진리진리진리
    @진리진리진리 Рік тому +5

    What a beautiful beautiful soul...I hope my daughter remembers me that fondly
    You are going to find and be with a man(white or Asian or whatever! It really is just the color of your skin and nothing more) who truly deserves you sweetheart!❤

  • @aritendol3479
    @aritendol3479 Рік тому +3

    I wish to follow her social media. Someone please help with this.

  • @laurajamil8943
    @laurajamil8943 9 місяців тому +1

    I love her.❤

  • @ttmmaacc
    @ttmmaacc 9 місяців тому +1

    My dream girl

  • @michaelchin3550
    @michaelchin3550 2 місяці тому +1

    This Asian guy would have been perfect for you but my wife got me first! LOL.

  • @paul_domici
    @paul_domici 11 місяців тому +1

    Wow she's beautiful!!!

  • @asenat79
    @asenat79 11 місяців тому +3

    Beautiful soul

  • @markknivila8383
    @markknivila8383 День тому

    What a beautiful soul!

  • @陈可爱-m3o
    @陈可爱-m3o 11 місяців тому +1

    Does she have UA-cam channel?❤❤❤

  • @Subkrafft
    @Subkrafft 8 місяців тому

    Aww, she's a real gem. I'm calling my mum now 😢

  • @the_old_standard
    @the_old_standard Рік тому +7

    damn, I would have needed 12 drinks before I opened up like this to a stranger ... 👍

    • @cardsfan5100
      @cardsfan5100 Рік тому

      lol Really? Only 12?

    • @WilliamFlickinger-y8f
      @WilliamFlickinger-y8f 11 місяців тому

      Oriental woman are so sweet ⁰and so beautiful lobely woman the best

    • @WilliamFlickinger-y8f
      @WilliamFlickinger-y8f 11 місяців тому

      She should have no trouble picking up white men. I love her so much

    • @the_old_standard
      @the_old_standard 11 місяців тому

      easy buddy, easy... @@WilliamFlickinger-y8f

  • @odietamo9376
    @odietamo9376 Рік тому +4

    She is fantastic. I wish I could meet her.

  • @ManassehBB
    @ManassehBB Рік тому +2

    This is a sweet video 😊

  • @ninamirandasmokecity
    @ninamirandasmokecity 8 місяців тому +1

    I want to hug her x

  • @susankim3026
    @susankim3026 Рік тому +20

    Finding your post cruel. Your experience of dating 2 Asian men is totally irrelevant as there are as many men of other races who could also treat you badly, as you said most haven’t passed your basic tests of decency and respect. Hope you can go past your racist outlook.

    • @zonansg4212
      @zonansg4212 Рік тому

      Victim blaming? hmmmm...........

    • @areya47
      @areya47 Рік тому +10

      @@zonansg4212 "victim" is a strong word lol. Most children from ethnic groups living in caucasian majority places face discrimination growing up. not an excuse for internalised racism.

    • @sigerlion8608
      @sigerlion8608 11 місяців тому +7

      Dated 2 Asian guys who weren't even of her own ethnicity. Chinese guys behave very differently from Korean and Japanese guys. Shows that she doesn't even want to date her own ethnicity.

    • @wrench246
      @wrench246 10 місяців тому +1

      She hasn't generalized any group and didn't say she refuses to date asian guys. She's just recounting her experience.

    • @akcaesar3399
      @akcaesar3399 8 місяців тому

      ​@@sigerlion8608 not really her fault. Some groups are heavier on traditinal values and that's all that matters to matter to a lot of people because of such.

  • @ranieromaximino668
    @ranieromaximino668 Рік тому +4

    Why she don't want to date asian man?

    • @sigerlion8608
      @sigerlion8608 11 місяців тому

      Because they aren't White. Low status in her mind.

  • @brettldouglas
    @brettldouglas 6 місяців тому

    When she talks about "her crazy family" in China. She's not kidding!

  • @artist6000ish
    @artist6000ish Рік тому +1

    this chick is getting a lot of guys after her now.
    she doesn't know she's the type of girl guys are looking for, regardless of race.

  • @ryanlion-d9g
    @ryanlion-d9g 8 місяців тому

    What a amazing person, truly. ❤Won my heart over😊

  • @angelainbloom
    @angelainbloom Рік тому +5

    I love this story ❤❤

  • @MichaelJrCortes
    @MichaelJrCortes Рік тому +4

    I really didn’t understand the “am I an experiment” quote. It’s well know Asian woman love white men. Asian woman will pick their own Asian or white men first. And most conform to the white mans culture. Not sure where this lady has been. She was never the girl that white men wanted to date? She wasn’t blonde hair like white woman? She is wondering if she was an experiment? If you had all these doubts and negative signs, why did you try so hard to date a white man. There’s Chinese, Koreans, Black, Hispanics, Indians, yet you still try to prove yourself to a white man, when you had these doubts is very interesting on her part.

  • @tmetm13
    @tmetm13 5 місяців тому +1

    i hope i find a woman like this one day! so honest and genuine

    • @curiousnomadic
      @curiousnomadic 5 місяців тому

      You won't find her on the internet. Get out there!

  • @shonen84
    @shonen84 10 місяців тому +1

    I yelled at my mom too in the past. She’s still around. I hugged her this morning. I’m grateful 🥹

  • @selohcin
    @selohcin 5 місяців тому

    Wow, are most New Yorkers this open and honest?

  • @randomboy343
    @randomboy343 2 місяці тому

    wow! it feels like all asian teen girls think of beauty as the blonde blue eyed woman. it explains why they worship white me. Meems def prefers white men btw.

  • @gullf1sk
    @gullf1sk Місяць тому

    any dude would be lucky to call her his girlfriend

  • @curiousnomadic
    @curiousnomadic 5 місяців тому

    1:07 I knew a Japanese Hawaiian guy who thought you had to eat things always just so, as if food isn't a wild and wonderful experimentation of mixing flavors. Being from Hawaii he wasn't that familiar with European foods and thought they were also meant to be eaten strictly. Like if we got red wine he absolutely had to have it with cheese and crackers. He introduced me to things like furikaki and kim chee but would get so mad if I ate furikaki with pasta or straight. Haha he was a trip.

  • @davidsteffen3860
    @davidsteffen3860 Рік тому +2

    Hugs!!

  • @frek19
    @frek19 Рік тому +7

    There's a video of an Italian guy telling his girlfriend how to eat pasta. It wasn't a dealbreaker.

    • @sigerlion8608
      @sigerlion8608 11 місяців тому

      They'd get a pass from her because they are White.

  • @johnchieze530
    @johnchieze530 9 місяців тому

    nice lady who knows what she wants. tears