Happened! The timing was not right in high school. We actually lost touch for 10 years after. Longer story, semi-short, We actually broke up for 2 years due to a communication issue in 2021 after 10 years of dating, the communication problem was on both our ends, I’m not gonna put that all on him 😂 but we came back on a clean slate this year in April. Inside these 🙏🏽 are he & I this time! Anything on the outside, is on the outside for a reason! Leave the past in the past! We pray together & this time we shall stay together! Now the timing is right. We both know what we want & need from each other❤ thank you for your wisdom 💕
I know someone else who met someone they had children together. Broke up and about 7years after they reconnected and got married. They are still married to this day.
This is sooooo true. If we want to break cycles of dysfunctional relationships we must be willing to do it with God. He knows us better than we know ourselves. For eg. Two people meant for eachother but recently divorced, have children, live in different states. There is time to heal, get other things in order. Yes, emotional and spiritual maturity. More building of character. I have learned that God’s timing and His ways is perfect although sometimes I get a little impatient. I then draw closer to God, work on me. God told me to Trust Him. I want His best for me. THANKS STEPHAN Awesome video.🙏🏽🤗⏰
I’m going through a really difficult situation where I feel I met the right person at the wrong time. Please pray for me! I have faith that God does have the right person for me even if I happen to be wrong about this man, but I just feel the connection in my heart and soul.
This guy I’ve known for 12 years was consistently pursuing me and I finally gave him a chance. He was pursing me daily and making me think we were leading to a relationship (we live 3 hours away). He abruptly calls me yesterday and says him and his ex broke up 2 months ago and he’s still really jaded from it. I chose to end the friendship even though it sucked. I feel so heartbroken because I’m 31 and feeling so so hopeless about relationships.
God, please show her this video as a sign. So she understands and heal even if we don’t ever talk again. Although I felt a connection and we had so much chemistry with each other. I was so vulnerable with her the more I fell in love with her I felt like she pulled away. She wouldn’t understand why I was acting the way I was. Not purposely trying to push her away but for her to realize I am him. I was immature and flawed in certain situations trying to get her to wake up and see from my perspective I wasn’t being patient for her to process things. Went from problems to problems she wouldn’t acknowledge it and got tired and left me. After I started watching your videos i woke up. Thank you. I just felt like i would never find this connection again. Or maybe she didn’t have the same feeling like she said. She took the initiative and booked a flight overcame her fears of flying alone to come see me so I thought she really wanted a serious relationship. She lived in a different state 6 hours away. Going back to taking accountability for myself I wasn’t a strong mature composed man during vulnerable times or should I say when we had conflicts. I saw my flaws when I started watching your videos, reflecting. Now I wish her nothing but the best for her to heal and grow and the most happiness in her future🙏🏼
I'm with you on this one. I lost a few guys, whom u know would have been the right guy for me, but I wasn't ready for them, I wasn't healed, so I couldn't recognize their worth.
Thank you so much for all of your videos! I loved, "don't get with anyone that hasn't surpassed the previous relationship. Don't fill your life with distractions" This spoke volumes to me!!! Looking forward to part 2 🥰
Seriously, is the savings on rent or a roof over your head really worth forfeiting your morals and inner voice that says this girl or guy is NOT even close to the best person you've ever been with? It's a hard HELL NO, Make yourself strong, dangerous, and wealthy from your own merits and this will attract a high value person.
Stephen, you are “killing me softly with your song and telling my life with your words.” I am truly grateful for you and your channel! I really needed to hear this. Thank you! 🙏🏽 You are a God send!❤️❤️❤️
You are absolutely so right about not healing the past making it the right person wrong time ! I m experiencing this with this man who I thought we could build a future together. But I feel that he has pulled away and because cold because of not healing from the past … 😢
Wowww your first example came straight from my life! So very accurate about young love and true connection but lack of maturity and lack of healthy guidance! I didn’t cheat though but we both acted out and the distance and the defensiveness caused our demise! Still friends today through our separate marriages and divorces.
A lot of men don't understand,that they have to work out on their emotional maturity, let go of that big ego. Definatly people need to go through healing/ therapy,other wise,it's no point to get in any relationship. Great video❤
Wow, wow, wow. I rarely comment on videos, but when I say God was using you as His vessel today, Stephan--whew! The intentionality of God is mind-blowing. Blessings 💕 💕 💕
Am in that stage of being pooled out behind the walls that I built a long time ago, and I hate this feeling, I am changing ..This statement is the truth and nothing but the truth ..Thank you
You speak the truth Stephan ! Thank you so much. I like one of the last advice: don't marry the guy you have less feelings and connection with than another
Same here. My ex had me so bent and hurt, that I ended up messing up with a good woman. Honestly I should’ve took more time to heal, and I probably would’ve been much better for her. But you live and you learn.
You are my big brother. You are officially adopted. Lol. I totally appreciate how you express your views and you’re right on and truly a man of faith. Thank you so much!!
At least, finally, you're a teacher who acknowledges the spiritual aspect of relationships and doesn't make it seem like we can and should force ourselves to love anyone ...As long as they are a decent person and a good match, from a rational point of view.
Yes . Also not healing pushes the other away away and creates arguments . A person can only take so much. But never stay in a relationship where your not wanted !
I’m in my healing era… I messed up my last relationship bc I wasn’t emotionally ready. I held onto my past for so long but now I’m in a space where I know I need to heal me so I can actually be happy. Idk if we’ll get back together but I love him so much and I feel like if I’m not the one for him, I pray he finds someone that treats him good and gives him the love that he deserves😔
I’m in a relationship with someone right now and she is definitely emotionally unavailable, but I’m trying my best to be patient and encourage her to go through therapy but I can’t force her, but definitely here to support.
He called me and said he went through a breakup 2 months ago. He’s emotionally unavailable which I respect him for communicating with me. He admits he was selfish and wanted to see me and have me. I’m not mad at him I’m just disappointed. He feels bad and is sorry and he kept saying how amazing I am. But I told him I don’t give a shit about that, you still decided to keep the momentum going and saw I was catching feelings.
Ahhh yes… the wrong person will feel more familiar. Until you heal. Until you heal guys… but the right person can trigger and accelerate healing, which can just feel like chaos if you’re not aware, and even then it can feel like a lot of work but if you’re committed to a path of evolution, trust yourself - you’ll find a way through. Please be always growing so you catch yourselves, it’s not for anyone to have to catch you.
First minutes hit deep. Exactly like that, extreme connection but missteps and not understanding what a relationship needed on both ends was the problem. We people need to listen more active, we need to be open, share emotions, be vulnerable and it will be allright. 8:10 right. The parents make up your safety factor and they need to help you but when they dont or have problems themselves you cant find the support to continue healthy. Best is to live on ur own, get a job, have some friends and then date again.
Im going through a tough time where its always the same man that comes into my life at different times - and when ever he does its fire works and a deep connection but then shortly after he walks out,, atleast its what it feels like. The 1st time we were teenagers- obviously we werent ready. The 2nd time we were in our 20s and he chose the streets i was in the church alot more at the time and now in our 30s ... It really felt like maybe God was really opening this for us but he just told me a few days ago he needs a break,, this time i feel like my skepticism and past trauma with relationships were an impediment in our bond as well as his past- all i know is im grieving as if someone passed away. And i never thought it could hurt this bad. I just dont want to do this anymore with anyone. Please pray for me if possible.
What should I do if he's the right man but it's the wrong time? Should we stay friends and see how it goes or separate and try it later? Could you please make a video about friendship before the relationship and about the friendzone? I believe it's my man but we both are not ready to start a serious relationship
Thanks for the suggestion. I’ll add it to my list of requested videos! In the meantime, you might like this video 👉 ua-cam.com/video/QT3cKgVccHo/v-deo.html
Hi Stephan, thanks for this is it’s so helpful 😍 not a lot of people talk about this scenario. I will trust God with the timing even though it’s tough 🙏
C'etait tres bien de t'ecouter, Stephan. J'ai fais ca pour comprendre si ce sont des differences de culture qui m'empechent de comprendre quelqun. Merci beaucoup!
Okay, I can’t believe I’m the only one who think this is crazy! This guy asked to be my friend on FB after commenting to me on a group post. I accept his friend request. After 1 week, now he’s so in love with me and he dreamt of me and can’t live without me. All this…my baby, my love, I love you so much! This is scaring me. Should I run for the hills? This can’t be normal.
I’m on my vacation in Malta ,,and make sure I watch your messages ,,”peace of mind God first ,,pray ,,and spend time with my mother and my family ,,great time ,,thank you Stephan to keep us alive with lifetime advices 😊,,
He called me and said he went through a breakup 2 months ago. He’s emotionally unavailable which I respect him for communicating with me. He admits he was selfish and wanted to see me and have me. I’m not mad at him I’m just disappointed. He feels bad and is sorry and he kept saying how amazing I am. But I told him I don’t give a shit about that, you still decided to keep the momentum going and saw I was catching feelings.
I just hired a musician( saxophonist) for my 60th birthday celebration. We meet to discuss the contract. He later expressed some interest in me, and proceeded , I believe unconsciously to tell me about some things in his life, that was quite private, yet transparent,. He likes, picnics in the part, holding hands and giving massages with essential oils ( my kind of man). I’m not sure how we got there, but we laughed about some funny things. I listen to his music every night on U tube before I go to bed each night. I’m hoping we can possibly go out and get to know one another. I’m ready to date again, and hopefully he’ll be the right man, at the right time. You are such a wise man. Thank you for these nuggets.
I had met a guy online and he lives in Georgia and I am in South Carolina. We have talked and had really good conversations and I even went to Atlanta with my son on a trip and we were supposed to meet. He just vanished and then we talked after we got back. He said he was sorry he missed me and at that point I felt a connection and then he vanished again...but since I have healed....I am trying to pray and learn to listen to what God wants me to do and not just my own logic. It doesn't bother me if he isn't the one, I will find the one that I have a true connection with.
I definitely wanted to be prepared This time for The Man God Has For Me.. After a Separation being A Blessing in Disguise so many years ago i sure didn't want to Make the huge mistake again of not Being Prepared and ready for the right one !!! 😌💜🙏 THEN GOD sent 😃😂😘 Y o u Stephan to explain the steps that I needed to accomplish an Amazing and Awesome Relationship that one day i Will be Blessed with. I Thank and so Appreciate All you've helped me with In these past 3 1/2 years. I love 💘 How God was Always at the beginning And the Major OF Your teachings on. HEALING 🌈🌈🌈🙌🤞😇 YOUR Video's and Book's Dynamic . I'm so Glad God Called. And Anointed you to be a Relationship Couch Counselor Therapist. You are Incredibly Amazing !!! And Handsome too 😃🎁
…………..this one hits different Stephan! My brother you may be answering a prayer I don’t want to accept 😩😩 bc in my mere human mind that I’m fully aware is beneath God’s……what you’re saying and what I’m discerning doesn’t make sense due to the things that have transpired between us. Lack of healing on his side has caused so many problems that to me, what we had is dead and I prefer it due to the person he’s become. But the gag is…………deep down I know that’s not really him. Can you go deeper about the dangers of allowing someone to come back when the timing/healing isn’t aligned with God.
Thank you, my boyfriend, and I just broke up. We love each other deeply and have an amazing connection, but the majority of his past relationships have been very toxic, including a narcissistic ex who is also the mother of his only child. He's told me that ours was the healthiest relationship he'd ever been in and the first time that he's felt truly loved. He made a mistake and hurt me (emotionally), I forgive him, and we agreed to work things out. Shortly after, he went to field training for 2 weeks and was out of contact. It gave him time for some serious self reflection, he didn't like what he found, what his previous experiences had made him and he broke up with me so he could become the man he was meant to be and someone who was "good enough for me". He asked me not to wait if I found someone else, but asked that if I hadn't found someone when he's healed, if he could ask me out again. I said yes, and I greatly appreciate your last piece of advice.
Thank you Stephan, your videos have been helpful a lot! Could you do a video on what to do when my soulmate has married to someone else? This situation is killing me😢😢😢
I have been only on a few dates with this Guy. I have never felt this connection with someone. He said he really likes me and he wants to to be in a relationship with me but he has to end it because he wants to move to another country for work. It was always a dream for him to Work for a few years somewhere else. So it would be better to end it now before it hurts us too much later. I tried to give solution but at the end I had to Accept it. Right person wrong time does exist....
i was married to someone that never truly loved me for 31yrs. held me hostage by not telling me he had multiple affairs but never left or moved out but never allowed me to be happy with someone else since I didn't know he had multiple affairs. it was awful. 31yrs with someone that wasted your time is the most cruel human being ever. if he claim that he found his forever why didn't he just risk everything and just leave with her? neglected my needs and lying sneaking phone tracking with her but never allowed me to know so I could have been free. never understood this.
Hi, Sweet Angie! I am so sorry for your hurt and pain. No one can hold you hostage. You must be honest about why you chose to stay in a loveless marriage. Spirit told you it wasn’t right, although you may not have had all of the details about what he was doing. Maybe you were too afraid to make it on your own, so it was easier to stay. When we blame someone else for our life decisions, we give others power over our life. We should never put anyone in charge in that way. Regardless of what someone else does “to you”, YOU must decide what you want to do, moving forward. In your situation, you chose to marinate in a dysfunctional, unhealthy relationship. There in lies your work!❤To explore your emotional health. To seek a good therapist to help you unpack your pain so that you can be healthy for yourself. Love, light, and health!💞
What can you say about, meeting a person only once, never saw them, never spoke to them since than almost like a year now but your always thinking about that person they constantly keep appearing in your mind you just can’t stop thinking about them…
Been single over 5 years. Finally got into a relationship, turned out his a married man! Lies...lies...lies...Cannot trust men anymore after this experience!
The distance situation applies to me. We are states away. I do wonder what to do but i feel hes worth it. Worth the wait. I hate the distance. Also if it wasnt time why the hell do we meet these people?.
Thank you for this video. I recently also got encouragement from God through my Bible app (Bible Study) where I got the same verse for 6 days in a row. This didn't happen before and it didn't happen after. the verse was: ''so we fasted and implored our God for this, and He listened to our entreaty''. The third day I got it I was with a man I was dating and liked him very much. He asked me to read it aloud. We were both surprised cause he told me he wasn't not ready for a committed relation. But the Bible verse seemed like an encouragement to pursue this. However, he didn't continue to pursue me, and now I keep wondering how should I interpret the Bible verse.
If he is the right man but it's the wrong time life will always keep them apart. Time waits for no (man) one. Tried myself but it was way too complicated.
one thing i know very well is that God likes giving previews to His children, not only marriage partners but jobs, occupation, outreach and evangelism, etc.
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I felt like i had bits and pieces from everything said. I met my first love in high school from a mutual friend it was an instant connection from day one. He graduated before me. i had 2 years of school left. His plan was to join the military and get married. Reality hit when he went to basic training. I didn't think i could handle the long distance. i never told him that. But there was a time when he was distant before he left, and i brought that up to an an adult she said it sounds like he has a side piece. I believed it so i felt i had to get out of the relationship so i started dating someone else. Even after finding out fom his mom because i told her he still went to mt school to figure out what had happened. Lets just say it didnt come out right. I end up running into 17 years later. He had such a big reaction when he saw me. He was trying to get my attention. But that time was really bad my mom was dying, i was with my husband and kids. The worst feeling ever. So i ignored him. I was able to bury him in my subconscious during all of this many dreams still in yhe subconscious. Now 23 years later i started having more realistic dreams about him i started thinking about his feelings in my dream. That broke me u felt so bad it brought everything in my conscious and now i cant stop thinking about him.
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How do we know,what man is right for you. When is wrong time for a man to come to you ?
You’re the big brother we all need 🫶🏽
I appreciate that 🙏
I agree!!
He's probably a great big brother. But definitely someone's husband. 🙏
Definitely ❤
He really is 😂
4 years of distance due to different colleges and financial problems, and finally we r marring in 1 week❤️
Wow
Congrats ❤
Congratulations
Happened! The timing was not right in high school. We actually lost touch for 10 years after. Longer story, semi-short, We actually broke up for 2 years due to a communication issue in 2021 after 10 years of dating, the communication problem was on both our ends, I’m not gonna put that all on him 😂 but we came back on a clean slate this year in April. Inside these 🙏🏽 are he & I this time! Anything on the outside, is on the outside for a reason! Leave the past in the past! We pray together & this time we shall stay together! Now the timing is right. We both know what we want & need from each other❤ thank you for your wisdom 💕
My pleasure ❤️
I know someone else who met someone they had children together. Broke up and about 7years after they reconnected and got married. They are still married to this day.
This is sooooo true. If we want to break cycles of dysfunctional relationships we must be willing to do it with God. He knows us better than we know ourselves. For eg. Two people meant for eachother but recently divorced, have children, live in different states. There is time to heal, get other things in order. Yes, emotional and spiritual maturity. More building of character. I have learned that God’s timing and His ways is perfect although sometimes I get a little impatient. I then draw closer to God, work on me. God told me to Trust Him. I want His best for me. THANKS STEPHAN Awesome video.🙏🏽🤗⏰
Im bummed because I’m so impatient, but I needed this message.
I’m going through a really difficult situation where I feel I met the right person at the wrong time. Please pray for me! I have faith that God does have the right person for me even if I happen to be wrong about this man, but I just feel the connection in my heart and soul.
Same here!! ❤
Same, let’s pray and what is will be
Same here too!
Same
Same. You are nôt alone 🙂
The way Stephan unpacks this topic is absolutely incredible.
This can only be God. U spoke directly into my situation and what I faced just today. I needed this confirmation. God bless you🙏🏽💯❤️
The lack of healing is a huge factor when someone is always attracted to toxic people and environments, agree 💯.
This guy I’ve known for 12 years was consistently pursuing me and I finally gave him a chance. He was pursing me daily and making me think we were leading to a relationship (we live 3 hours away). He abruptly calls me yesterday and says him and his ex broke up 2 months ago and he’s still really jaded from it. I chose to end the friendship even though it sucked. I feel so heartbroken because I’m 31 and feeling so so hopeless about relationships.
God, please show her this video as a sign. So she understands and heal even if we don’t ever talk again. Although I felt a connection and we had so much chemistry with each other. I was so vulnerable with her the more I fell in love with her I felt like she pulled away. She wouldn’t understand why I was acting the way I was. Not purposely trying to push her away but for her to realize I am him. I was immature and flawed in certain situations trying to get her to wake up and see from my perspective I wasn’t being patient for her to process things. Went from problems to problems she wouldn’t acknowledge it and got tired and left me. After I started watching your videos i woke up. Thank you. I just felt like i would never find this connection again. Or maybe she didn’t have the same feeling like she said. She took the initiative and booked a flight overcame her fears of flying alone to come see me so I thought she really wanted a serious relationship. She lived in a different state 6 hours away. Going back to taking accountability for myself I wasn’t a strong mature composed man during vulnerable times or should I say when we had conflicts. I saw my flaws when I started watching your videos, reflecting. Now I wish her nothing but the best for her to heal and grow and the most happiness in her future🙏🏼
I'm with you on this one. I lost a few guys, whom u know would have been the right guy for me, but I wasn't ready for them, I wasn't healed, so I couldn't recognize their worth.
Same here you’re not alone
Thank you so much for all of your videos! I loved, "don't get with anyone that hasn't surpassed the previous relationship. Don't fill your life with distractions" This spoke volumes to me!!! Looking forward to part 2 🥰
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
Seriously, is the savings on rent or a roof over your head really worth forfeiting your morals and inner voice that says this girl or guy is NOT even close to the best person you've ever been with? It's a hard HELL NO, Make yourself strong, dangerous, and wealthy from your own merits and this will attract a high value person.
Be with someone who loves you! FULL STOP.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤
Stephen, you are “killing me softly with your song and telling my life with your words.” I am truly grateful for you and your channel! I really needed to hear this. Thank you! 🙏🏽 You are a God send!❤️❤️❤️
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Amen
Amen
You are absolutely so right about not healing the past making it the right person wrong time ! I m experiencing this with this man who I thought we could build a future together. But I feel that he has pulled away and because cold because of not healing from the past … 😢
I’m never going to get enough of your teachings, thank you coach 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
Wowww your first example came straight from my life! So very accurate about young love and true connection but lack of maturity and lack of healthy guidance! I didn’t cheat though but we both acted out and the distance and the defensiveness caused our demise! Still friends today through our separate marriages and divorces.
A lot of men don't understand,that they have to work out on their emotional maturity, let go of that big ego. Definatly people need to go through healing/ therapy,other wise,it's no point to get in any relationship.
Great video❤
Wow, wow, wow. I rarely comment on videos, but when I say God was using you as His vessel today, Stephan--whew! The intentionality of God is mind-blowing. Blessings 💕 💕 💕
Am in that stage of being pooled out behind the walls that I built a long time ago, and I hate this feeling, I am changing ..This statement is the truth and nothing but the truth ..Thank you
My pleasure ❤️
You speak the truth Stephan ! Thank you so much. I like one of the last advice: don't marry the guy you have less feelings and connection with than another
You spoke DIRECTLY TO WHAT I NEEDED. Like almost everything here was what im going through
You’re helping my love life so much with your videos Stephan! Bless you ❤
Glad I could help 🙏
Me too, I completely disagree as well. If I had done better with myself before my last love came along. We’re be in the best timing ever.
Same here. My ex had me so bent and hurt, that I ended up messing up with a good woman. Honestly I should’ve took more time to heal, and I probably would’ve been much better for her. But you live and you learn.
You are my big brother. You are officially adopted. Lol. I totally appreciate how you express your views and you’re right on and truly a man of faith. Thank you so much!!
I appreciate that ❤
At least, finally, you're a teacher who acknowledges the spiritual aspect of relationships and doesn't make it seem like we can and should force ourselves to love anyone ...As long as they are a decent person and a good match, from a rational point of view.
this is exactly what I needed to hear! 🙏🏾
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
Yes . Also not healing pushes the other away away and creates arguments . A person can only take so much. But never stay in a relationship where your not wanted !
I’m in my healing era… I messed up my last relationship bc I wasn’t emotionally ready. I held onto my past for so long but now I’m in a space where I know I need to heal me so I can actually be happy. Idk if we’ll get back together but I love him so much and I feel like if I’m not the one for him, I pray he finds someone that treats him good and gives him the love that he deserves😔
I’m in a relationship with someone right now and she is definitely emotionally unavailable, but I’m trying my best to be patient and encourage her to go through therapy but I can’t force her, but definitely here to support.
He called me and said he went through a breakup 2 months ago. He’s emotionally unavailable which I respect him for communicating with me. He admits he was selfish and wanted to see me and have me. I’m not mad at him I’m just disappointed. He feels bad and is sorry and he kept saying how amazing I am. But I told him I don’t give a shit about that, you still decided to keep the momentum going and saw I was catching feelings.
I just want to say thank you so much for this. I don’t think I can explain what it meant to me, but I am so grateful for it.
U are RIGHT ON THE MONEY! I have lived this situation (s)! Spot on! 👏🏽
Ahhh yes… the wrong person will feel more familiar. Until you heal. Until you heal guys… but the right person can trigger and accelerate healing, which can just feel like chaos if you’re not aware, and even then it can feel like a lot of work but if you’re committed to a path of evolution, trust yourself - you’ll find a way through. Please be always growing so you catch yourselves, it’s not for anyone to have to catch you.
First minutes hit deep. Exactly like that, extreme connection but missteps and not understanding what a relationship needed on both ends was the problem. We people need to listen more active, we need to be open, share emotions, be vulnerable and it will be allright.
8:10 right. The parents make up your safety factor and they need to help you but when they dont or have problems themselves you cant find the support to continue healthy. Best is to live on ur own, get a job, have some friends and then date again.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤
U are Preaching from beginning to end in this video! Great job!!!!!
When you speak it feels like you know me deep andcwell, like you know exactly what I am coping with. It is always very calming to listen to you
Glad I could help 🙏
Whew you have no idea how hard this resonated within me to my CORE sheesh this hit too deep... dang 😩😭
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Stephan, you literally said every reason why we stopped dating!
This is so much wisdom, I thank you so much !!!!!!✨
My pleasure ❤️
I love this so much, when I was dating him he became my everything and I forgot my walk with God so I understand now where I need to grow
This video may have described common characteristics of a twin flame connection … the timing can get in the way of the connection overall 😢
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
Sir!!! You be saying what needs to be said.
Im going through a tough time where its always the same man that comes into my life at different times - and when ever he does its fire works and a deep connection but then shortly after he walks out,, atleast its what it feels like. The 1st time we were teenagers- obviously we werent ready. The 2nd time we were in our 20s and he chose the streets i was in the church alot more at the time and now in our 30s ... It really felt like maybe God was really opening this for us but he just told me a few days ago he needs a break,, this time i feel like my skepticism and past trauma with relationships were an impediment in our bond as well as his past- all i know is im grieving as if someone passed away. And i never thought it could hurt this bad. I just dont want to do this anymore with anyone. Please pray for me if possible.
.... Hugs to you. Hope you are better and stronger now
Not easy to admit it, but you right, you right. Thanks for your videos.
❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching. I appreciate hearing from you!
All these hit me. I can relate with all this and needed to hear this.
I love your videos Stephan! You are so wise!
Thank you!
This was right on time. Thank you
I think this is happening to me...right guy, wrong time. I'm ready but I don't know what else to do.
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Wowwww this message was on point. Thank you for the clarity and perspective ❤.
So true don’t get in a relationship that isn’t better than the last
Hallelujah, Amen! All the things you are saying ring so true. Your videos are truly Godsent.. 🙏💜
What should I do if he's the right man but it's the wrong time? Should we stay friends and see how it goes or separate and try it later? Could you please make a video about friendship before the relationship and about the friendzone? I believe it's my man but we both are not ready to start a serious relationship
Thanks for the suggestion. I’ll add it to my list of requested videos! In the meantime, you might like this video 👉 ua-cam.com/video/QT3cKgVccHo/v-deo.html
Thank you. Appreciate that!🙏@@MeetStephanSpeaks
Hi Stephan, thanks for this is it’s so helpful 😍 not a lot of people talk about this scenario. I will trust God with the timing even though it’s tough 🙏
Silence is a Golden 😊
This was insanely OnPoint
C'etait tres bien de t'ecouter, Stephan. J'ai fais ca pour comprendre si ce sont des differences de culture qui m'empechent de comprendre quelqun. Merci beaucoup!
thank you for this video. I feel a lot better about my current situation
SUCH an awesome video. i love all the hard things you are saying & i love that you drink from the River
Thank you for the eye opening advice Stephen
Okay, I can’t believe I’m the only one who think this is crazy! This guy asked to be my friend on FB after commenting to me on a group post. I accept his friend request. After 1 week, now he’s so in love with me and he dreamt of me and can’t live without me. All this…my baby, my love, I love you so much! This is scaring me. Should I run for the hills? This can’t be normal.
Yes, run for the hills
Scammer
@Mandafina he's probably lovebombing you
I blocked him.
@@AgapeCrew220 as you should!
Wow! Your words of wisdom are timely for my right now situation.
I thank God for you being so wise and sharing your wisdom with us. God Bless you Sir Steven!!❤
I’m on my vacation in Malta ,,and make sure I watch your messages ,,”peace of mind God first ,,pray ,,and spend time with my mother and my family ,,great time ,,thank you Stephan to keep us alive with lifetime advices 😊,,
He called me and said he went through a breakup 2 months ago. He’s emotionally unavailable which I respect him for communicating with me. He admits he was selfish and wanted to see me and have me. I’m not mad at him I’m just disappointed. He feels bad and is sorry and he kept saying how amazing I am. But I told him I don’t give a shit about that, you still decided to keep the momentum going and saw I was catching feelings.
I just hired a musician( saxophonist) for my 60th birthday celebration. We meet to discuss the contract. He later expressed some interest in me, and proceeded , I believe unconsciously to tell me about some things in his life, that was quite private, yet transparent,. He likes, picnics in the part, holding hands and giving massages with essential oils ( my kind of man). I’m not sure how we got there, but we laughed about some funny things. I listen to his music every night on U tube before I go to bed each night. I’m hoping we can possibly go out and get to know one another. I’m ready to date again, and hopefully he’ll be the right man, at the right time.
You are such a wise man. Thank you for these nuggets.
I had met a guy online and he lives in Georgia and I am in South Carolina. We have talked and had really good conversations and I even went to Atlanta with my son on a trip and we were supposed to meet. He just vanished and then we talked after we got back. He said he was sorry he missed me and at that point I felt a connection and then he vanished again...but since I have healed....I am trying to pray and learn to listen to what God wants me to do and not just my own logic. It doesn't bother me if he isn't the one, I will find the one that I have a true connection with.
I definitely wanted to be prepared
This time for The Man God Has
For Me.. After a Separation being
A Blessing in Disguise so many years ago i sure didn't want to Make the huge mistake again of not Being Prepared and ready for the right one !!! 😌💜🙏
THEN GOD sent 😃😂😘
Y o u Stephan to explain the steps that
I needed to accomplish an Amazing and
Awesome Relationship that one day i
Will be Blessed with. I Thank and so
Appreciate All you've helped me with
In these past 3 1/2 years. I love 💘
How God was Always at the beginning
And the Major OF Your teachings on. HEALING 🌈🌈🌈🙌🤞😇 YOUR
Video's and Book's Dynamic . I'm so
Glad God Called. And Anointed you to
be a Relationship Couch Counselor
Therapist. You are Incredibly Amazing !!!
And Handsome too 😃🎁
…………..this one hits different Stephan! My brother you may be answering a prayer I don’t want to accept 😩😩 bc in my mere human mind that I’m fully aware is beneath God’s……what you’re saying and what I’m discerning doesn’t make sense due to the things that have transpired between us. Lack of healing on his side has caused so many problems that to me, what we had is dead and I prefer it due to the person he’s become. But the gag is…………deep down I know that’s not really him. Can you go deeper about the dangers of allowing someone to come back when the timing/healing isn’t aligned with God.
I love your content Stephan
Thank you, my boyfriend, and I just broke up. We love each other deeply and have an amazing connection, but the majority of his past relationships have been very toxic, including a narcissistic ex who is also the mother of his only child. He's told me that ours was the healthiest relationship he'd ever been in and the first time that he's felt truly loved. He made a mistake and hurt me (emotionally), I forgive him, and we agreed to work things out. Shortly after, he went to field training for 2 weeks and was out of contact. It gave him time for some serious self reflection, he didn't like what he found, what his previous experiences had made him and he broke up with me so he could become the man he was meant to be and someone who was "good enough for me". He asked me not to wait if I found someone else, but asked that if I hadn't found someone when he's healed, if he could ask me out again. I said yes, and I greatly appreciate your last piece of advice.
Stephan, you're truly amazing! Thank you, for teaching me and all GOD'S children to be better! You're in my prayers. 🙏🏼♥️🥰💜
You are absolutely correct!!❤️
Thank you Stephan, your videos have been helpful a lot! Could you do a video on what to do when my soulmate has married to someone else? This situation is killing me😢😢😢
Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!
True that. Even jlo n ben afflect got back together after 14yrs of being apart. Sometimes it just not the right time
I travelled to his country and couldn't meet up. Most of your points are right but its Tough... I hope I heal and we meet again or something happens.
You definitely preached on this one ❤
Wow!! There were some ouch moments in this conversation. 😢😢😢
I have been only on a few dates with this Guy. I have never felt this connection with someone. He said he really likes me and he wants to to be in a relationship with me but he has to end it because he wants to move to another country for work. It was always a dream for him to Work for a few years somewhere else. So it would be better to end it now before it hurts us too much later. I tried to give solution but at the end I had to Accept it. Right person wrong time does exist....
Thank you Stephan. 🙌🏼💜
Your videos help me to stay strong. Thanks ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Spot on you never get over your Twinflame:-)
Perfect 💯💯💯💯 thank you so much
i was married to someone that never truly loved me for 31yrs. held me hostage by not telling me he had multiple affairs but never left or moved out but never allowed me to be happy with someone else since I didn't know he had multiple affairs. it was awful. 31yrs with someone that wasted your time is the most cruel human being ever. if he claim that he found his forever why didn't he just risk everything and just leave with her? neglected my needs and lying sneaking phone tracking with her but never allowed me to know so I could have been free. never understood this.
Hi, Sweet Angie! I am so sorry for your hurt and pain. No one can hold you hostage. You must be honest about why you chose to stay in a loveless marriage. Spirit told you it wasn’t right, although you may not have had all of the details about what he was doing. Maybe you were too afraid to make it on your own, so it was easier to stay. When we blame someone else for our life decisions, we give others power over our life. We should never put anyone in charge in that way. Regardless of what someone else does “to you”, YOU must decide what you want to do, moving forward. In your situation, you chose to marinate in a dysfunctional, unhealthy relationship. There in lies your work!❤To explore your emotional health. To seek a good therapist to help you unpack your pain so that you can be healthy for yourself. Love, light, and health!💞
boohoo 🧊
What can you say about, meeting a person only once, never saw them, never spoke to them since than almost like a year now but your always thinking about that person they constantly keep appearing in your mind you just can’t stop thinking about them…
I believe in right person wrong time.
Been single over 5 years. Finally got into a relationship, turned out his a married man! Lies...lies...lies...Cannot trust men anymore after this experience!
Thanks so much 🙌🏽❤
My whole life in a video...
This is related to my situation I believe in God timing
The distance situation applies to me. We are states away. I do wonder what to do but i feel hes worth it. Worth the wait. I hate the distance. Also if it wasnt time why the hell do we meet these people?.
Interesting video!
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
Thank you for this video. I recently also got encouragement from God through my Bible app (Bible Study) where I got the same verse for 6 days in a row. This didn't happen before and it didn't happen after. the verse was: ''so we fasted and implored our God for this, and He listened to our entreaty''. The third day I got it I was with a man I was dating and liked him very much. He asked me to read it aloud. We were both surprised cause he told me he wasn't not ready for a committed relation. But the Bible verse seemed like an encouragement to pursue this. However, he didn't continue to pursue me, and now I keep wondering how should I interpret the Bible verse.
SO TRUE ❤❤
That hurt is a lot worse.
If he is the right man but it's the wrong time life will always keep them apart. Time waits for no (man) one. Tried myself but it was way too complicated.
I love the fact you include God Because God had to come first
one thing i know very well is that God likes giving previews to His children, not only marriage partners but jobs, occupation, outreach and evangelism, etc.
Enjoying This Wonderful Sit Down Conversation Very Deeply Engaged With this 🙏🏽✝️🕊 Awesome 👏🏾 Wonderful Well Put Very Well Stated For Both In This Sit Down For Growth Spiritual Chemistry ⚛️ As Always Thank you Mr. Stephan For The Conversation Blessings Be With You Always . 🙏🏽✝️🕊
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I felt like i had bits and pieces from everything said. I met my first love in high school from a mutual friend it was an instant connection from day one. He graduated before me. i had 2 years of school left. His plan was to join the military and get married. Reality hit when he went to basic training. I didn't think i could handle the long distance. i never told him that. But there was a time when he was distant before he left, and i brought that up to an an adult she said it sounds like he has a side piece. I believed it so i felt i had to get out of the relationship so i started dating someone else.
Even after finding out fom his mom because i told her he still went to mt school to figure out what had happened. Lets just say it didnt come out right.
I end up running into 17 years later. He had such a big reaction when he saw me. He was trying to get my attention. But that time was really bad my mom was dying, i was with my husband and kids. The worst feeling ever. So i ignored him.
I was able to bury him in my subconscious during all of this many dreams still in yhe subconscious. Now 23 years later i started having more realistic dreams about him i started thinking about his feelings in my dream. That broke me u felt so bad it brought everything in my conscious and now i cant stop thinking about him.
I know someone who experienced the same thing.
Sooo true I have a personal experience