Entering The Elite Society: You Need To Get THIS Right!
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- Опубліковано 21 лип 2024
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"When you want to create a product that will sell, you have to invest in it. So, you have to invest in yourself." Absolutely!
Yes, that's all you have. Yourself.
I'm not a product nor am I for sale. Stay safe out there.
Real talk: When you look good and clean, people do treat you better. People open up more. Men act like gentlemen. It's crazy.
So true
true for men too! better service in stores and restaurants with good looks (joey on friends) or expensive looking suit/grooming
@@4712guest because it's NOT always about sex appeal; it's about treating wealthier-looking people with more honor.
Yes! Once I lost 30-40 pounds, it was like a whole new world opened up to me. People were kinder and friendlier. It’s just the facts of life.
@@edennis8578 your statement is funny but true!!!!
I have no intention in entering the elite society but I think being a high caliber woman helps also to be taken more seriously in your job too. When you are in your best shape people see you differently but also you feel more confident.
Females at work will also get catty with you if you’re well taken care of and keep yourself up. Comes with the territory. Shea Whitney has a great vlog About how to not look “too nice” at work LOL
Women are not obligated to work.. We just work because we want Economic Indipendency..
Elite knows the elite they will never invite you........,.,
I respect that I want to be high society. It's just random but I kind of want new money.
Yes that is a fact. Sometimes you cannot gain respect from others because their basis is your external look the way you dress the way you act.
For any haters: men want women to be beautiful, so why shouldn't women expect a man to support them for the effort?
I think we should be nicely dressed men and women not with designer labels. Just modest and covered up.
Well, it isn't men who complain about that, you know. Men absolutely understand the deal of him having money and her being way too hot for him, it is the natural state of things.
@@jesuschristsavesfromhellst4432 It is kind of hard to take you seriously when your handle threatens people will hellfire and damnation.
@@naomiruwainegutierrezparri3997 There's 50 verse with the word hell in the bible. I'm not threatening them. I am warning them out of love. It's like if you have cancer. You would want a doctor to tell you straight up not send you off saying you might be ok
@@jesuschristsavesfromhellst4432 I am writing out of love too. You see, god does not exist and believers are wasting their time. I say this only because I care. :-)
I am 79 years old and lived my life, pretty much like you do. I had two children and a mother to support. It was very difficult, but I did achieve my goals.
so happy and proud of you god bless you
what do you mean byt that
Was it worth it, are you happy and fulfilled?
she's right girls improve your looks. after i got in shape and my skin got clearer men open doors for me and offer my favour that i didn't even ask for and i was never treated that nicely before. even girls treat me better than before. people will respect you if you respect yourself and if you respect yourself it's reflected in your appearance
Mish Jelly Tass hunni
@Vintage Recall ? 😂
If you look elegant, people presume you have money and power; that you are a "somebody" and of COURSE they will open doors for you and treat you better. It's not always about "sex appeal", it's about "kissing up" sometimes.
@@edennis8578
If I may advise you... Regarding acne:
Please tell her to avoid pork dishes for one month.
I hope it helps and you can see the difference on your face and body.
🧘
I'm not saying that pork causes acne, but in many cases it may be the major "culprit"... 🙂🌼
I've always had that kind of personality. But women always saying I think I'm better than them. So no, with women is hate and competition. Only men respect that. Not all of them too. Those who are not on your level will just avoid you
Any woman can look attractive. I saw radical changes in attractiveness of women when they started wearing the right colours for their skin and hair colour. A little makeup can take the eye away from imperfections - even large ones. A relaxed, confident smile goes such a long way. At 70 years old guys still give me the ‘double take’ then they realise I”m too old for them. That first impression is what creates the interest.
I just looked at your profile picture! YOURE SO PRETTY MAMA! I wish I can age as gracefully as you ❤️🔥
Big fan
A quote from my pastor growing up that my parents and I still laugh about. Someone asked him if it’s okay for women to wear makeup (back in the day this particular church was quite conservative). His response: “if the barn needs paintin’, paint it!” 🤣🤣
You mean "barn".
Yaelra R. Oh yea! Whoops- I edited it. 😆
Amelia Basia love that haha
Amelia Basia That is the best thing I’ve heard in a dogs age! That’s awesome! It reminds me a little of “putty & paint makes the face what it ain’t”.
🤣
"Good looks is not going to fall down from the sky and land in your lap"....... 👏👏👏
A standing ovation
"You are the creator of yourself" Smash that like button!
Personal appearance
Fashion how you dress
Beauty grooming
Body shape
Personal branding
Image development
You are the creator of yourself
The seeds we plant today will manifest in the future
Beauty is very high value in high society
Like attracts like
I was feeling guilty by entertaining this but you are speaking the truth and I know many feminist women will not agree but the reality is that you are motivating women to attract quality men or leveling up and there is no shame in wanting better.
Yesenia Guerrero amen.
Yesenia Guerrero I’m a feminist and think that women can do what they want. Respecting and valuing oneself is a feminist ideal. I personally am not looking for a man, but Anna makes sense. It’s not about being a sugar baby; it’s about being an equal through intellect, beauty, and character. A high caliber woman does not need a man, but if she wants one, she deserves a good one.
The Duchess of Sussex is a feminist and she has BEAUTIFUL hair, clothes, jewelry......she has modeled in the past. She has beautiful shoes and bags. Being a feminist doesn't mean being a frump or being manly.
Yesenia Guerrero rich man doesn't mean better quality man just look at Donald Trump even his trophy wife can not hide how misrable she is.
@@miriamhavard7621 I think you mean the Duchess of Cambridge. Meghan Markle is frightfully common and gauche.
I really appreciate how Anna is unafraid and unapologetic about telling women these hard truths and how elegantly she goes about it 💯
Taking care of yourself and looking beautiful doesn't need to be expensive. For your manicure/pedicures, hair, and even facials, you can invest and do everything yourself. On UA-cam, there's many facials and hair treatment recipes, which you can find most of them, right in your kitchen.
Now, at least every now and then, pamper yourself by going to a professional.
Clothing quality fabrics natural fibers
YES!
♥️
Facial massage is free and effective. Gua sha everyday
I love how straight to the point your are! No sugar coating here 🙌🏻
In so many of your teachings, I'm reminded of the lessons taught to me by my mom and aunt....( Sits up straight and like a lady) 😏😏
The strongest advice I can give after watching this video is don't loose your soul in this process.
Truly.
Right???? But why do you think is so easy to lose your soul during the process? That's what I fear of, that's why a part of me doesn't wanna do it
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Maybe it's possible if you take only the appearance issue into account, but I think she also speaks about our inner side, to love yourself and then take care of your appearance
When you start bettering yourself within, it naturally and effortlessly come out in how you look. Its automatic.
To me I like genuine women who dresses modestly, natural not unclean but down to earth. Looking too well dressed just seems fake to me. Clothes are clothes. There are people who are homeless who need food and people buy designer clothes and pamper their pets over people starving on the street. What shall it profit a man if he gained the whole world and lose his own soul.
If have to be honest with you, Anna, I wasn’t a big fan of yours when I first came across you on a video from “This Morning”, but in the last couple of days I’ve been through almost all your videos and absolutely love them. I think you are very brave and inspiring for sharing all these details that every other girl who lives the livestyle would be afraid to share because of other people’s judgement. But I love people who are 100% honest about things, go after what they want and do not care about what others may think of them. Looking forward to purchasing your course and going through it very soon, it sounds like something that could definitely add value to my life. I’ve been trying to date more affluent men as well over the last couple of years and even though I haven’t found Mr Right yet, I can definitely see a remarkable difference on how they act and how well they know how to treat a woman compared to other types of men. Thanks for all the wonderful content! Looking forward for your next video x
I was always a fan Anna.....you are fantastic
@Zebrascolour
Its so inspiring
Hey Anna you are "crude", "old school" in our over modern society but you are so authentic.
That s why i listen to you.
Good job. Thank you for that.
Old school just never dates🤗
I was always taught that the amount of respect I show myself is the amount of respect I will garner. I was taught not to leave my home ungroomed. Take care of yourself, care for you... it shows when you do. You don’t have to be a “beauty” , you have to treat yourself as if you are. When I feel beautiful, I am beautiful. I think in order to garner the message that you are putting out there, you must start with respect, love and self care. Ladies, take care of yourself from the mind, to your body, to your heart, and spirit.
❤🙌
Wish I knew these when I was 18. Now that I am 28, I had to learn all these in hard ways. Glad someone is talking finally. And I can say with my experience that she is telling the truth.
Wonder Girl I am 18 now, and I’m very grateful to be learning this before I go through most of my life and have to figure everything out on my own. Anna’s advice really isn’t the kind of advice you get from parents and/or friends, although it is extremely useful and necessary for any women wanting a quality life
Me too. Im 25
Im 36 though and wish i valued myself earlier
Wonder Girl 28 is so young, you have lots of time
what you should change at yourself
Thank you for staying honest. A lot of people say beauty does not matter which is a lie
Your such an fantastic mentor. I want to follow all your tips. Your my inspiration.
I know. Isn’t she awesome. Some people are being negative but she is totally right
I love her. I definitely don't fit the "affluent" lifestyle (I have tattoos and piercings), but she gives great tips for having a very chic look. WITHOUT being condescending and mean.
This was an empowering wake up call.
You are the ultimate feminist to me. I feel you are teaching ladies how to break through social stigmas and social deprivation in society. Many people feel don't feel confident to date outside their usual class and circles. What happens if you fall in love with a affluent man and you are just not sure how to present yourself.You are teaching ladies on how to avoid embarassed situations and being sassy. Please keep on empowering women. Thank you xx
I do not beleive she is a feminist if you knew the history of feminism and how it has destroyed families and feminized men then you will understand my point of view. Feminism is why men are now walking into womens bathrooms and competing with them in sports. No Ms. Anne is a feminine woman who actually likes men and enjoys being what God wants his daughters to be: A beautiful feminine women!
BookLover Traditional feminists
BookLover Nowadays is post modern feminist, they’re mostly from the lefts following marxism ideology. Postmodern feminists tend to be more masculine, frank and tbh this is generalizing but irrational.
I'm a Tomboy, so I have work to do. I already have a husband,but I'm trying to be an entrepreneur so I need to get around other successful people.
I LOVE that you’re open about your fillers. It’s like having the mom I never had- giving me all the insider information on how to achieve my best self and life
But beauty also brings problems. I used to work as a model. There was a lot of envy, a lot of bullying and exclusion. I did not get some jobs because the boss was an older woman jealous of my appearance ... And some men regarded me only as a sex object. One is often reduced to appearances and no one is interested in the qualifications.
Seems like you advertised your looks. So the outcome isn't a surprise then. Beauty is the means, not the end/goal.
That shirt/dress you're wearing is beautiful
I’m already married and being in my late 20’s I feel like my youth is passing me by! I wish I knew of this kind of stuff when I was a teenager!!
how are u now
Its never to late to reinvent yourself. And I mean YOURSELF. Don't look at the person you're married to. You made that choice, its fine. Set goals for yourself and achieve them. Trust me, I'm 48 and I'm going into the the most successful decades of my life! Go for it ! 🤭
i am a teenager now enrolling into learning a second language i only watch Anna and a few investing cannels and a little bit of tutorials for horseback riding i got the motivation to do all of the high quality stuff because of her
Law of attraction changed my life and now I come across to your channel my new mentor!!!
I'm a minimalist and more of a tomboy, but boy this lady is so right in so many ways and she is beautiful in her message and it is reflected in her appearance. We all have to strive for excellence. Thank you
“A bit like no shape” “a bit like cellulite girl” I busted out laughing at that part. Your accent is so cute!
Chrissy R So so adorable!
This is so motivating!! Now I feel bad. I apologize for a rude comment I left on another video. I misjudged you.
The harsh reality just hit me from this video and I am starting today. I appreciate my past and realize where I went wrong, MY change starts today.
What an AMAZING and Empowering channel you have!!! And like others have said, this are lost lessons that should be taught. Thank you again for your willingness to share. You are an amazing woman!
Love this lady. Budget beauty, mostly fruit diet, yoga at home and natural products....baking soda, cold cream, coconut oil....save for fillers or hairdresser, or whatever you can’t create yourself. Also, if you can do basic alterations on garments this can be major. Good luck girls! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏻
I use baking soda as a face scrub and it is soooo smooth now!!@
I love this and I really appreciate your honesty. Thank you so much! I used to feel bad for being beautiful and having those biases/ advantages and it caused me to let myself go ( gain weight) and cursing a lot ( so many f bombs) but no more. I'm working on the package. Thank you!
I want to thank you for teaching women to be straight up about this issue! I love to buy things for women, what do I expect in return? Let’s start with honesty and feminine nurturing which you speak of. It’s a win win for the rich man and for the woman! Great work!
Joe User - this makes me so happy to hear! I think only when a woman recognises her gifts of nurturing and appreciation does she realise how much she has to offer a man and how perfectly balanced - no, necessary! - it is to receive in return. It's a little like business; fair exchange with both parties winning in the interaction. Wonderful. 🙏🏼
Joe User it would probably be a good video or series of videos to go into the feminine nurturing that these men desire, don’t you think?
KEEP WEIGHT NICE EAT RIGHT buy clothes on sale get great haircut and color BE NICE
This is hard to hear but is needed. Thank you for constantly giving us the kick in the trousers that we need to succeed!
Human Nature is such that we all love beauty and are more attracted to beauty...in anything...art, architecture, humans. 🤷🏼♀️ Whether I like it or not, I agree with this woman.
Thank you so much for caring to go into these topics! I wish these pointers were written out for me when I was young! Being more mature, I feel I can still benefit. Thank you for the encouragement, too!
I absolutely love anna and her energy. and at this point, i come to a realization that elegance and kindness isn't just about the looks, but it's also about self respect, self care and self love. because when you be kind to people, put effort into your appearance and act elegant, you actually do feel better. thanks a lot for your videos anna!
You're amazing! Thank you for these refresher tips. I'm married to a wonderful man and believe me, though he loves me crazy, he appreciates that I always level-up my elegance and beauty game. Never get stale and frumpy.
Same here! I'm very happily married but I adore her videos because they inspire me.
Totally agree
Can you give me some advices please !
Beauty and a correct mental attitude about one self is so attractive and magnetic. Value yourself ladies. The world will appreciate it. Speaking from my own experience. Put yourself as a priority daily....
Sometimes girls caught up in the 'i want someone who love me for me. I love myself naturally" well you also got to do some effort but stay true to your nature. 'You are your best investment.'
Yes, looks matters, especially in a world where men rule who tend to be visual, however there are ways we can level up immediately without spending a penny, maybe even saving a few...Posture..how is it I look ten times better if I walk with a straight back as opposed to slouched over? Or eat more fibrous vegies at dinner instead of potatoes or bread? (face less puffy) Or think of happy thoughts as I go in life that will give me a pleasant face instead of negative annoying things giving me frown-lines? It's an inside job, too, and it really makes a huge difference! Peace, ladies!
Fortunately beauty is different from one man to the other.
I'm happily married, but still love watching your videos. Since you made this video a year ago, I've lost 17 pounds (only 3 more to go). I've learned all about good skin care, and have been taking great care of my skin. I've also learned proper way to wear SUBTLE makeup. I want to be the best version of myself that I can be. But I sure wish God granted me with your beautiful gene code! Lol. Thanks for all the wonderful advice you give us. ❤❤
Love your videos. Immediatelly did ma nails . You reminded me to look after myself better and try my best to look the best version of myself. Thank you.
From this moment you are my best friend now!❤️ I was always on the right direction and almost got wrong, you just make me conform who I am. Thank you❤️
cant wait for the module! you are always on point Anna!! xxx
I love how you include examples from your own life and share your experience. That is really interesting! Maybe you could do some 'Story Time' videos, in which you share more about your personal journey and adventures! Love from The Netherlands
Anna thank you for all this advice! “you are the creator of yourself “ I love that statement! So true. I am sharing this video with my daughter. You take care.
Love the acknowledgement of self-accountability and awareness here! Finding things difficult is not game over, I totally agree :)
Can you do a video on how to get rid of acne, cellulite, and stretch marks?
@esma gadzo @anna bey thats a good idea!!!!!!!
Yes please do that!
I think we can agree, cellulite is impossible to get rid of, but you can improve your glute and hamstring muscles to look better. Also, diffused dim soft lighting in your room should help, lamps right angled at waist level, and on the floor pointing angle upwards to stop casting shadows on dimples (I’m a photographer, I know how to light imperfections) don’t ever have spotlights pointing from the ceiling, unless you’re totally flawless, lighting only from above shows every teeny bump! The person that cures cellulite will become a trillionaire overnight...🤔 until then...careful lighting is your friend.
Yeeaah
She doesn’t have stretch marks
Level Up must happen on a consistent basis!!
There’s a motivational quote I used to get myself in shape. “Never say you can’t, because if you do, you never will.”
I could not agree more. You are so right you just spoke everything that has been on my mind lately . You are such an intelligent woman!! I honestly see you as an inspiration!
Great channel, I really like the way you look at things from different angles. Very intelligent with deep thought and clarity.
I’ve been watching every video for the past week. Everything is great in accurate about the information I am pleased to hear it and repeat listening to
You are seeking 100 💯 percent truth! I am working on myself for my business success and relationships.
Thank you Anna. You are absolutely right: Investing in yourself is vital for self respect. Creating yourself in the image of your absolute BEST self is a worthy goal. With the self care trend that is all the rage it is sursprising that people are resistant to the notion of self empowerment via self care routines!! Keep up the great work Anna, we appreciate your honesty and discipline.
Straight to the point . For us in our late 30s we need that kind of honesty . Gracias por tus videos !!
I thumbs up this video because It is very real. Very sad indeed!!! But, a sad truth that men and even other woman value looks. I have tested this theory... just go shopping at a make up counter wearing sweat pants and no make up. See how they treat you. Then go to the same counter wearing a nice dress and fixed up. They treat you so much nicer. Men, are even worse. They are shallow and unappreciative of real true beauty. The kind that comes from inside. The value the outside appearance and sexual attraction. It is so sad because a real woman is a good woman. Not everything that looks good is good. Most of the best ladies in the world are not pretty. It is just so sad that men are superficial that we are even studying this stuff. But, it's all real and this lady is totally correct.
She is right and that's why I'm watching this and all her other videos. Not to get a man, but to level up my life. People treat you differently when you look put together.
Princess Kayla looks are very important. It’s the first impression people get when you walk into a place. If you walk in and look put together they automatically think that you love yourself and value yourself, therefore they will value you as well. But if you walk in with sweatpants, messy hair etc.., they’ll see that you don’t care to put in effort, therefore they will not value you or put in effort.
Princess Kayla, I purposely don’t wear makeup when shopping for makeup so that the ladies leave me alone. I’m only there to buy 1 thing and I know exactly what I want. I don’t like them hovering around me trying to sell me the most expansive version or extra things I don’t need. They ignore bare faced me and that’s just the way I like it.
Pi for breakfast very true 🙂
It's called being shallow... these types of guys will let a pretty bitch stomp all over him because of how she looks..but you have the pleasant personality, ur kind and thoughtful. He doesn't know how to treat you... it's crazy
YESS! All of this!
I love how you put this journey as an investment in oneself! It just clicked for me 💡‼️
Sooo happy I found you!! This is exactly what I need!! When is your 2019 course going to be available??
Love your Channel!!!
I watch Makeup Tutorials.
Dupes for High Makeup and Skin Care really Works!!!
Excerise at Home is Free just Discipline!!
Resale is Fabulous way to go for Fashion.
Most Important is to have Self-Respect and Self- Love.
My role model! Thanks for all your content! Keep going :)
joining soon Anna, love your presence can listen to you all day .
I’ve been watching every video for the past week. Everything is great and accurate about the information I am pleased to hear it and repeat listening to it.
She is talking about one part of self improvement, I think this is valuable. Yet, it isn't her entire teachings, that's why she has a school. Only releases certain content.
I don't know how I stumbled onto these videos, but you've just gained a new subscriber
I absolutely love that too. Not sure if it’s a shirt or a dress but is just perfect! Thanks for all your videos they’re inspiring and eye opener.
Preach. Truth lady. Thank you
You are a very talented lady & I love your schooling ...we have to put the work in to maximize our chances in life ..PS we are amazing humans who sadly don't believe in ourselves xx😘keep your good work up
You are speaking a language, I truly understand. Thank you Anna for taking the time and putting the contents here😍😍😍
"Personal brand, creating a product that will sell, needs my personal effort. Invest correctly in myself"
being high caliber woman is being well educated well traveled, speak few foreign lengue and most important. being independent financially has integrity consider others feeling and give generously to ones in need.
I'm all of those. It hasn't helped me one iota.
Anna! You are sooooo strong! You could command an army! You are so motivating me to be more disciplined! Many thanks! Love you, dear!
Indeed, Anna is beautiful inside, and her mindset is so abundant and evolved (sofisticated).
All this inner beauty is manifested outside also.
Iam learning a lot.
Thanks 😊😘
Love and abudance for you
So grateful for you Anna and for what you do and share with the world, you are definitely making a difference with your contributions
Love these videos! So inspiring!
Thank you. I needed that ❤️
I am so happy and grateful that you've done this...
I have watched a few of your videos and that's such a great advice!! I think it was a great idea to start your channel!
That’s one smart lady!!! Love her
You are so sweet and honest, it’s hilarious and I love it. We need more people like you.
That is so true. I have lost 40 kg in 2 years and has changed me a lot. Not only physically but mentally too. Improving myself is my goal. All you said is true. Be better to attract better. When I changed my mentality my life begun changing.
Thanks for the pep talk.❤️
Where have these videos been all of my life, it's to late for that jet set life for me. This information is still valuable and necessary.
So true! I'm doing everything I can to correct the wrong to myself that I've done.
Ash A honey, me too.
Love it. Meghan and Kate know this and look at them now xx
freemindsloveforever oooooh SPOT ON 👏👏👏👏
They really are true ladies and look where it got them!
Sorry but MeGain is pure cheap trash
@@ivy3839 Are you always this nasty?
garmtpug just expressing my opinion ... if you don’t like it , don’t read it .
I really like this video, and your style ❤️ thank you for this 🌹💎
i did attend finishing school but you do so much more. Like how you think and your advice.
I am a woman of 60 and I like the way you talk about do anything to ourselves.
Thank you Anna💕
I have potential to level up, with your videos I realized that the problem is the wrong choices and I failed to invest in the network. Gratitude for opening my eyes.
I loooove this video. I truly felt your intent is positive and coming from space of genuine concern and love. Thank you so much. Recently I have been pondering on working on my feminine energy and this helped me a lot 😊
You are right. Not everyone is born with perfect skin or body. One must face the facts and work on it daily. You are worth it. Leveling up does not mean a bad thing or bougie. It simply means you know what you want and you are willing to better your life the way you want it to be.
Thank You sooo much dearest 💐
You’ such an inspiration 🥰
Be Blissful Eternally 🙏🏼😇
I'm a beautician and cosmetologist..a simple washing your face every morning and night helps your skin.. don't forget to moisturize!..I also invest in smelling good..buy a lovely smelling perfume..I can't tell you how many people tell me..they know when I'm around because of my perfume I wear..
Which perfume do you wear if you don't mind answering?
I Completely agree with u We Are in A Visual Community