Mommy Dearest
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- Опубліковано 6 вер 2024
- The plaintiff says the defendant is her mother, who she claims put her in a mental hospital and group home when she got pregnant at 16. She’s suing her mom for breach of contract. The defendant says the plaintiff has always been a troublemaker, and she’s countersuing for stolen property.
He needs to listen when someone says they were treated differently because favoritism is real. He always uses his past to ignore what someone else experienced.
Agreed 👍🏾
I agree to a degree but some children need iron fists and the siblings may not. I was wild one. My brother is salt of the earth. I needed all the ass whooping and so some more. I became a new man because of the 'favoritism'.
Thank you. He gave her no chance to say anything. I would never go on that show for him to speak to me like a dog
@@atlienrider6048 I wasn’t a bad kid, I did everything correctly and the first child to go off to college also the youngest. I was always treated differently and it created a competition between me and my siblings. They were older and like the judges stated “thugs”, but still babied by my mother and extended family. It is hard as a child to sense favoritism, it creates a concept in your head that you constantly have to prove that you should be loved and deserved attention. It causes anxiety, behavioral issues, and potentially serious mental health issues.
The problem is that he is stuck in the past. He's always bringing up his mom, living in Detroit, being a "thug". No one cares!
JM needs to realize that just because a child is raised in the same household as the mother doesn't mean that she is a good mother.
I can attested to that.
And favoritism is a real issue in some households. Judge Mathis was denying that too.
True.
Right and this clearly is not a good mother
Right, the mother is not always right!
It's very apparent the mother dislikes the daughter. She's a sad excuse for a mother
A lot of older Black Mothers treat their daughters with animosity, even my own dang. S/O to the same Women who grew up and decided to consciously change the bloodline narrative thru Meditation and Healing all child developed traumas. Love, Goddesses
The mother is a Covert Narcissist .
@@deedeemoore6096 Bingo !!
@@potentspirit3096 Wow, *"animosity,"* a very good description - Thanks for that! I sense the animosity that mother transmits that makes it seem she is an unhealthy (perhaps even unsafe) place for the daughter to be. I had always referred to this as hostility, but animosity fits better in the sense that it implies that it's more base or animal in nature - less rational. It's almost like animosity is a kind of hostility heightened by some emotion beyond that.
@@potentspirit3096 mine too. Sad world we live in
One thing I hate is when people dismiss when kids say that there was favoritism in the home that led to a bad relationship. Some parents can be blatant with it to the point that they will neglect the other child. The term Golden Child isn't something new and those who have gone through it is forever having their experiences invalidated because of the whole " Every kid says it" crap.
I agree, my mother loves my sister more and it shows!!
Heck yes. My mom admitted it.
And not only neglect, but reject, making the other child/children feel unloved and unworthy of love.
I've seen where some kids were treated like royalty while the others were locked in cages like rabid dogs and beaten.
@@GeorgiaWhisper Good God!!!!
This mother demonstrated very clearly that she does not like her daughter. Smh 😕
People need to stop the mama stuff they human and if u raise one and they make choices you have no idea what this mother been through
she don’t have to give her anything her mother made her parents error we do what we can do we all wasn’t born with parenting book . It’s principles
@@queeno5981 it is a mother and daughter case. If it was a father and son and the father acted like she did I would say the same thing. It's not about parenting. She clearly doesn't like her.🥴
@@lenas3482 don't need correction I watch it that mi truth u can't change it take care
@@queeno5981 blah blah blah certain generations lack respect for their children it's bullshit
If a child is writing bad checks at the age of 8 or 9, it doesn’t mean that he/she is “bad”. Someone needs to find out what’s going on in the home.
First off someone had to teach her how to write them checks out
Exactly that's not even normal bad behavior for her age that is insane
I remember back in the 90s when I was in 2nd or 3rd grade. In Math class we had a segment about writing checks, banking, interest, shopping and paying. We could earn points to be able to actually shop in the classroom buying little items and pay writing out checks. I remember I was so excited I wanted to go home and write out a real check but my mom said no. 😆 Maybe that's what the plantiff did? Idk. Sad mother daughter relationship.
I wonder what the checks were for tbh.
Like #111
Anytime a person has an issue with their mother, JM get in his feelings.
You ain’t lying lol
Right!
Because he's honorable
It's nerve racking and biased
It’s true, but somewhat understandable. He has spoken many times about how he disrespected his mother growing up and I know he shouldn’t be bias, he definitely is, when he deems the child is disrespectful of the parent. Unfortunately, in this case, it was evident that the mother was foul and spoke terrible about her daughter
Lmao no third grader knows what writing bad checks are unless they learned it from someone. Get out of here Mathis. Come the hell on 🥴
They are only bad checks if no money in the account,that what a third grader, dont know about. The little girl probably wanted some extra money,but didn't understand concept of check to money.
Actually my mom & uncles did this as young children & the checks became bad checks because they overdraft the account. Wrote checks for more than what was in the bank.
@@naegillespie5267 or she was trying to pay for a field trip her parents couldn't/wouldn't pay for. I wish the judge had dove into that a bit more. It would have explained a lot of why the daughter did what she did as a child. Her mother admitted she stole things and sold them. When? Why? Maybe she was a teenager mother and need diapers for her baby and, clearly, her mother refused to help her.
Thank you!
Exactly!
Wow the end showed how she truly feels about her daughter. She’s so busy judging her daughter instead of wanting her to prosper
That “so called daughter” spoke VOLUMES
She should love that her taking care of herself swinging on a pole for a quarter
Definitely agree!
@@BananaPhone234 I agree! Hit hard.
Exactly, evil ole spinster
Favoritism amongst siblings is very real yet the judge has no tolerance for it
EXACTLY
It happens so often. He is very bias!
It's all about the persons point of view. Judge Mathis himself said he said the same thing about his parents, and praised them for doing it because he wasn't acting right. Besides, he asked the plaintiff to verbally demonstrate her mom playing favorites and she was unable to.
Right
@@DB-vt1kk It'ss because the majority of the time the litigants fail to demonstrate the abuse...it's frustrating but understaning as well
Some adults don't deserve to be parents, children at any age deserve just as much respect as grandparents do!
👍🏿
Thank you
I can't take Judge Mathis. How dare he invalidate how the daughter experienced life growing up with her "mother." Mom looks like she has done some things in her day. The daughter was running away from something or someone when she was a child.
He saw who the mother was.
Judge Mathis has mama issues. He is so quick to side with the mother over any adult children regardless the case or situation. And when the child is explaining their side he is so dismissive.
You do realize you're only seeing 13 minutes of an hour long segment. A lot is cut out, so a lot of stuff we don't see or hear. That's why you never hear anyone say he didn't give them an opportunity to talk.
@@god-issekhmet7118 He is like that on most of the cases the involve moms and daughters or elderly people. He did that a few shows ago with that young man suing his auntie.
@@god-issekhmet7118 i’m going off of multiple episodes of the same situation. Not just this episode
and yet he ruled in her favor. it doesn't matter how he feels as long as that doesn't affect the verdict. the daughter proved her case and won.
Exactly!
Omg, this mother can't directly answer one single question the Judge is asking, so frustrating! Get to the point!
Wow so called daughter, really. This mother.
Birthing a child doesn't make you a mother. 😗
Best comment on here. Well said.
Preach sis!!
It’s okay to cut out toxic people from your life for the sake of your mental health even if it’s family. You don’t keep holding onto someone who keeps letting you go 🤷🏾♂️
Thank you!
Amen!!!
Preach
Yes, I needed this
Going through the same with my mother… and I’m 50! Every time I think we’re good we take 10 steps back
The mom thinks she’s better than the daughter but the daughter is very classy and respectful to that evil witch.
A 8-9 yr old writing checks…that’s thug behavior? Or is it just a kid mimicking adults around her? JM can be horrible at times or maybe he didn’t realize 3rd graders are that young. Either way, it’s on the parent rather she had Ill intentions or not. She was 8-9 not 18-19..or 12-14
EXACTLY! I was confused on why he tried to use that as some evidence of deviant criminal behavior.
She wrote a check, so what, it's not like she could cash it..... she wrote a check being a kid, a responsible adult seen it and informed the mother,
Yeah, this accusation needed to be investigated more. I'm curious as to why she wrote the check. Back in the '90s, we learned about writing checks. It was a foreign concept like it is now. Maybe she knew the ones she wrote in class were fake and wanted to use a real one to feel like an adult. I know I asked my parents if I could fill out checks for them when it came time to pay the bills because I wanted to show them I could write real checks. Or maybe, she wrote the check to pay for a field trip that her parents couldn't/wouldn't pay for. Knowing the why helps others understand why something was done in the first place. The judge dismissed this as defiant behavior without even knowing why she wrote the check.
The daughter may have done wrong in her life, but I guarantee you her upbringing had a lot to do with her actions. The mother doesn't seem wrapped too tight and the title is correct. I definitely sense some Mommy Dearest vibes from her.
Right, she learned it from some where.
The mother wanted her daughter to do right and it was not within the daughter to do so. I’m getting horrible child vibes.
@@nippypinto At every step the mother says spiteful things about the daughter, if your child is forging checks from the third grade that's on the parent. If you don't straighten them up from then I blame the parent, not the child.
As soon as I saw the thumbnail eeekk.
I can hardly take listening to this.
@@nippypinto oh boy! Hit dog holler vibes
Damn... "so called daughter"... that's hurtful af.
Yeah, when she said that, it hurt me. Sad.
And for JM to agree made me kinda mad smh
@@NikaNeek I understand his respect for mothers but this woman is something else...
@@eloahnon4952 Yesss that was very uncalled for. I didn’t hear anything that she listed true or false that would make me disown my child
@@NikaNeek You don't disown your kin. If you do, there has to be something completely tragic to have happened... and I can't even think of what would warrant me to disown my kids.
That hurt to watch how she dismissed her daughters feelings.. an how the daughter said I don’t want her money I just want the title..
I feel bad for the daughter 😔
Ridiculous
still holding grudges from before the child was even a teenager is weird.
Judge Mathis you owe that young lady an apology.. I love you but stop being judge-mental instead be more JUDICIAL❣️✨🙏🏾
I love JM and I agree!!
Well said sis. Excellent/accurate observation.
THIS!!
Well said!
He really needs to see this comment
Ma’am, she carried herself a WHOLE hell of a lot better than YOU did! What a lying, sorry excuse for a mother. 🙄😒
That mother is treacherous. She lying through her teeth and she should be ashamed treating her daughter like that. Smh.
The few teeth that she had left
This man swears he was the biggest thug there ever was💀😂
You said what I was thinking
Exactly! He never even did any real time.9 months in jail or juvenile 😆
Hahaha ☺️☺️
😂😂facts
Shit he probably was. The drug addicted thugs are the wildest!
What a horrible mother!! I can not imagine hurting my precious children that way 😢. I just want to give the Plaintiff a hug.
Whew I’m glad I have the mother I have.🙏🏽 This lady is a horrible excuse for a mother. She has a mean spirit. I hope the daughter has moved on and is doing better.
She definitely has a mean spirit! She was dragging her daughter as if she didn’t influence how she grew up.
@@saucyyslim6978 some ppl don’t want to be held accountable for mistakes they’ve made in life smh.
This so called mother is awful to her daughter! I can’t stand her! She’s EVIL!!!!
Make no mistake, that woman that is her "mother" hates HERSELF. It's very likely that she also suffered under a horrible mother or father that was also abusive and hated her so she's repeating these toxic family cycles. It's just sad. I pray this daughter heals the best she can-- because regardless, she'll always need and want her momma. Toxic moms and dads are so hard to comprehend and take years of processing to really even begin to unpack the levels and layers of pain...
I thank God my mother & I had a wonderful relationship until the day she died 💔 Rest Easy Mommy…
Your were blessed. Condolences.
@@wildfiregirl1556 Thank You 🌟
@@badgurl5758 prayers up for your healing and my condolences to your family in the time of sorrow
@@tammybrown721 Thank You and may God bless you & yours 🙏🏻
Me and my mom relationship is like this
Let's do better mother's & daughters in 2022!!🧡💜💜
Will be 12 years in June or July, and the bitter Jezebel is still out of my life. Can’t believe I’ve been free from foolishness this long. Seems like yesterday when I said 👋🏾🥾👉🏾👉🏾👉🏾👉🏾👉🏾
Amen
Yes
It hurts to watch a mother speaks so lowly of their child she actually brought into this world . She said she will always be a stripper hmm I could only imagine what she told this young lady as a child .
Wow her mother is so mean. She comes off as if she hates her daughter. Kids will always disappoint us; they're human! But to talk down on them as they grow is only going to hinder them, not help.
And the Mother is such a LIAR.....
I was 10 when my mom passed away, my mother was a damn awesome mother for the Short time God gave her to me. 🙏
I am so sorry for your loss 😔🙏
@@baka379 thank you. Very kind and thoughtful of you.
I hate how judge Mathis treat the daughters and sons in cases like these. It’s clear as day who in the wrong smh
This hit home…my mama treated me bad over the way she allowed my dad to treat her…till this day she still feeling a certain way about me…
Sending you love 💕 and prayers Queen 👑. Hold your head high.
I promise this is Deja Vu of my life...
Same thing happened to me. My younger brother insist I’m making this up. But it’s the truth and my story. In order to heal I have to pray incessantly. I still get upset sometimes .
@@brwynn I know the feeling…what hurts the most is when she’s nonchalant about my feelings…it’s like going through it all over again 😢😢😢…
The mom is so toxic. Judge Mathis was beginning to side with her until he started catching her in lies
I’VE PEEPED THAT! Parents are NOT ALWAYS RIGHT!!
@@TewasaSonko EXACTLY!
When she said she stole boots I knew she had nothing against the daughter 😂😂😂 she’s definitely not a good mom
Wow these women need a healing especially the mother who has so much hatred toward her own daughter. I applaud the daughter for keeping it pushing. She doesn’t even want her money, she just wants her car back.
This poor baby I'll be sending prayers for her emotional healing
I hate watching the ones that have bad mother's Bcuz it's ALWAYS an assumption that the "child" has noooooo right to feel the way that they do. I hate when OUR (a child with a horrible mother) feelings are brushed off and invalidated! I wish it WASN'T true but all of us do NOT have a great mother🤷🏾♀️ it sucks but it's the truth and it's OUR reality😔
The mother’s disdain for her own child was so blatantly evident, she couldn’t hide it. Also, she’s clearly a liar and I wouldn’t put it past her that her daughter ended up in the psych hospital because of her lies! I don’t know any teenage mother ending up in the psych ward upon disclosing her pregnancy. I feel like there’s more to the plaintiff’s story. I am a huge fan of JM, however in his attempt to humor the audience or even himself, it comes across as he’s not objectively considering key points of the testimony.
I can’t believe she said she will forever be swinging from a pole in a strip club. Her mother does not like her let alone love her. That’s awful
JUST SAD
That was plain evil to say that about your own child, that mother is so guilty of her wrong doing
So at 8 years old (in 3rd grade) The mother believed she was going to go to the bank and try to cash a check, and thats why she is a lifetime carreer thief? This mother just doesn't like her daughter.
I played with my mommas checks in 3rd grade
@@haha2u2008 me too.
the daughter was right the entire time .... sending love and comfort to her , i know whats its like being treated differently by my mother
All mothers are NOT created equal. I am willing to admit. My mother did not like me! I’m ok with that now. I read a book called daughter detox daughters of unloving mothers. It changed my life and people like judge Mathis need to read that book. It will change his perspective about how some mothers treat their daughters. It’s disgusting! And we suffer at their hands a lot for nothing or, for just being DIFFERENT!
I totally agree & were could you buy that book from because I would loved to read it & lastly Happy New Years 🥰❤️📖‼️ #PeaceLightLoveLaughter ™TPQ ♔♡✿✞!!
@@positively_queen0620 Happy New Year sis! I ordered mine from Amazon. It’s uncomfortable for most people to discuss mothers in a negative light. But, I’m courageous enough to speak for myself and other women who have been treated horribly by their mother. The world will try to gaslight us and make us believe it’s not that bad but that’s bullshit. I can adit with confidence that there has not been another woman in my life who has hurt me and betrayed me like my own mother. If a mother don’t want to be described this way by their children then they shouldn’t behave in certain ways. I tell my sister all the time we had 2 different experiences with our mother and you or nobody else will make me undermine what I’ve suffered at her hands. That’s how people end up drastically mentally ill. They take the responsibility for what someone else has done to them. Well, not me. God bless you Sis and I pray you find your peace.
@@theeagleslairchannelwithcoacht Yes...exactly. For years I took verbal and mental abuse. There were others around who enabled it trying to say I needed to learn how to get along. Some people just don't care when it comes to stuff like that. They feel you should accept it, because it's family. I was trauma bonded, and co-dependent for years dealing with the abuse. I was miserable, bitter, depressed, and swore there was something seriously wrong with me. People like this can be very manipulative too. They are also great at playing victim. I know my mother never loved me either, and I'm also okay with that. My love is unconditional, and I love from a distance. I've been healing for many years now. Thank God it's people out here who have experienced this, because it does feel lonely sometimes. Love your awareness. :D Much love and respect.
@@MzGumby02 Sis I’m so happy to hear you’ve gotten to a place of “Acceptance “ too! That’s key. And, it’s not about bashing them or seeking revenge but, it my group I let the women know I’m hear to support you and your healing. And, to say I’m with you! I’m so serious about this that I ended a 20 year friendship because she didn’t get it. And she would gaslight me and say things like yeah but at least your mom was this or that. It began to feel like more trauma so I couldn’t talk to her as much anymore. Because the pain these mothers put us through is real. The things they do are cold and deliberate. But people who’ve had great relationships with their mother will NEVER understand. That’s why we need support groups. “Daughters of unloving mothers”. Good bless you my Sister and I pray you continue to heal every day ❤️
Someone needs to send that book to judge Mathis as a gift it will be more of a gift than he realizes.
This ain’t no mother shes a so called mother, putting your daughter in a hospital for a month your embarrassing 😳
It was a week, if my child ran away to another state, I'd have her mental well being checked as well.
@@thatlsk The mother said it was a month so where are you getting a week from? I hope you aren't a mother. A mental hospital is not a good place and you would like a child up there because you mad at them for doing childish things.
@@psichliebemilch PERIOD
@@thatlsk I might have agreed , until the mother said later on that her her mother (the grandmother of plaintiff) lived in the same state (Oklahoma )her daughter ran away to at age 16 , and remained in that state until her death. I think the mother intentionally left out that Oklahoma may have been their original home.
@@psichliebemilch you're a bad parent.
The relationship between this mother and daughter breaks my heart.
I'm with you.
I feel so hurt for that lady her mother is evil!! Sending her healing energy ✨
Judge Mathis had me cursing him out …she was in the 3rd or 4th grade 🙄🙄🙄
I feel sorry for the daughter for having a mother like that🤬😡😠🤔
The mom is wrong for her actions smh
Running away an getting pregnant is wrong aswell
Something wrong with the mom too😂👋🏾
That was pure evil coming out of the “mother” at the end of the case!!
Yes, she needs to let her Demon of a Mother Go... That's the only way she will be FREE.
You saw that too!?!? Just oozzing out
Something is wrong with her Mom I'm sorry. That's sad. Her mom got issues..
They both do
Yes I Agree, She's a Sick Liar!
You can tell mom has onset dementia. The bad blood between them is too deep rooted. Sad situation.
It's the people who are so critical of the show in the comment section that watch every episode for me 😅👏🏿
Daughter walked in looking scared as though her mother would jump on her in the courtroom.
Yeah you can sense the timid/hesitant behavior
When she said swinging on a pole for a quarter I almost choked !! 😭😭
Right because they don't even allow change in the club 🤭
It's so terrible that's what she was bred into
Wow, the mom was a piece of work! Cold case.
This momma is wild!!!!! 🤣🤣 talented young kid to be assuming a fake identity and writing checks in the 3rd grade!!!
The momma lying the whole time!
How he ain’t call the mama a crackhead?
I said the same thing. Like so nobody gonna address the crackhead vibes from mama? Ok then🤷🏽♀️
So judge gon just dismiss the plaintiff before she even gets to explain how she was treated poorly?? He judges thru the guilt over what he put his mother through.
Mommie Dearest! I just watched it last week!!!🌟🌟🌟
'Not for a quarter, mama'...😒😂😂😂🤦🏾♀️
With a mother like that who needs enemies?
"My so-called daughter." Indicative of a mother that clearly disowns and detests their seed.
Mom sounds jealous
My brother was DEFINITELY the favorite child. It showed in every way until her death. I'm good but favoritism is real!
The mom's eyebrows were bent on hatred
Favoritism exists, but it needs to be proven in court. Daughter did not have specific examples. Throwing that accusation out there and then being general or vague about the details won't work.
With that being said, Mom is a piece of work.
Let’s see how this goes. Happy New Year, everyone!!
Happy New Year🎆💪🙏
Happy rebirth
I'm not feeling Mathis; a third grader writing checks should not be seen or treated as a criminal....
I dont know why I cant even imagine JM being a thug in his former life 😩
I can't either
Damn is he going to let her have her say?! Ummm she was in the 3rd grade for Christ sakes. I’m so tired of hearing about him and his upbringing. Not everything relates to you (Judge) 😩🙄
Wow, the mother is disgusting to berate her own daughter like at the end. 😷
I want to hug that daughter so bad…
Those of us unfortunate enough to have a difficult mother too know exactly the toxic dynamic they share. The “mother” invalidates her and criticizes her & punishes her. She seems to be the scape goat. She likes to play victim to people who listen. I hope the daughter accepts the real and moves on forever 💯 Just cause you can produce kids, doesn’t make you a parent. Sad how JM never understands that notion though
Her Mother looks like her Grandmother, having her late in life might be one of the many reasons they couldn't get along. Some Mothers lose interest in parenting after a certain age and behave as if the baby/child will somehow miraculously raise themselves and when the child makes mistakes throughout her life the Mother points the blame towards her child.
Or she may look old because she just looks old. And it has nothing to do with age. There’s thousands of people who’ve come on this show who’ve had children at 14, 18, 25 and it’s the same scenario
Being punished or disciplined for bad behavior is one thing, being mistreated because you are you is another
Barbara look like she just left the Bar!🥴🤔😏😵🥴😵😵😵🥴🥴🥴
Who takes a check from a third graders?
I hope this so called mother reads these comments!!! She’s a beast of a woman!!! She treats her daughter awful!!! Some woman definitely do not deserve to have children!!!
I hate destroyed mother- daughter relationships. 😭
ALL mothers are never automatically good! This one is a prime example!
If this mother have sons or a son. I guarantee that she favors the son more. Smh
She's a TOXIC mother, honey let it go. She doesn't treat you the way a child should be treated
The mom is ridiculous! I’m so sorry for those who have mothers like this.
Judge tried to give the mother some ammunition and the mother wasn't even listening. 😅😅😅😅 Too funny.
“She’s never carried herself as a young lady!” Uh ma’am.. YOU were the example of what a lady should’ve been for her as a child.. So you failed as a mother and a woman.. even to try to rob your child for her car then blame her for stealing.. the projection is real and sad…
2Corinthians 10:3-5 For though we walk in the flesh, we do not war after the flesh:
4 (For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strong holds;)
5 Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ;
Who’s stealing Mama’s clothes though? Y’all think the daughter really is doing that?
Yeah, I can believe that, that's something daughters do.
Nobody wants that tired felt cheetah print shirt.
Nope
Did she just say, " swinging on a pole for a quarter 🪙" 😂😂
This must be some expensive vehicle, nobody wants to give it up...the boyfriend, the plaintiff and the mother
Mom didn’t explain why she took the car very well. However, if my child was being a juvenile delinquent by having out-of-wedlock babies, running away, and stripping as an adult, I’d be highly disappointed, too. Hopefully, they forgive each other, let past stay in the past and start anew.
Judge mathis is just like judge judy. They both jump to conclusions with little evidence
It’s so irritating 😡
I hope this bright, beautiful young lady heals from her mothers poor treatment and abuse😔 so sad to see this. The lady is crazy as hell!!
The counterclaim was for stolen property only, there was no emotional distress
This makes me want to drive to my moms house and just hold her tight. I grew up poor didn’t have much but she genuinely loved me and my brother and even still to this day, she lights up whenever she sees me or I call her.
Usually I side with the parents, but the mother was CLEARLY LYING.
She couldn't get her answers nor her testimony together.
Excuse me momma…give your daughter back her car, keys, and title.