How I Learned To Be More In Control Of My Emotions & Regained My Power!

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  • Опубліковано 7 тра 2024
  • I wanted to talk about something very important for us as women today which is being in control of our emotions and not making regretful decisions. I know my method may not work for everyone, but it absolutely works for me!
    I hope you learn a few things that you may be able to take with you in your life so that you can make better decisions.
    Until next time ❤️
    #lifecoaching #emotionalintelligence #emotionalcontrol #personaldevelopment #womanhood #selfdiscovery #selfcontrol #selfhelp #betterlife

КОМЕНТАРІ • 40

  • @thepageisblanc
    @thepageisblanc Місяць тому +3

    Girl.. this is confirmation for me.. glad I clicked on your video. This is my exact story.. except I was in my mid-late 20’s… in Alabama (family in NY), no support around me except my daughters dad and his family. At least your daughters father proposed to you and wanted to take care of you, even if it wasn’t a good deal in the end. Breaking up was very emotional for me too, but I’m so glad I left out of state and two years later I’m doing so much better in life. I could’ve stayed and had more kids too.. but like you said this is a moment I had to use my logic. Despite the comments I understand you. Because I relate. Better to leave and get on your feet than to stay and get left while you’re unstable (financially or otherwise). You did the right thing. And so did I. ❤ New subbie babe. Thank you for this.

    • @AdriannaMason
      @AdriannaMason  19 днів тому +1

      I’m so glad you found me! Thank you for your open mindedness and understanding! We got this ❤️

  • @keepthefaithwithtori
    @keepthefaithwithtori 20 днів тому

    I needed this at this very moment!

  • @charliecharles8517
    @charliecharles8517 Місяць тому +1

    Very well done you. GOD BLESS YOU.🙏🏾

  • @aliajohnson470
    @aliajohnson470 Місяць тому +2

    Thank you for the great
    advice. This is an area of
    growth l need to do more
    turn the emotions off to be
    who l need to become ❤

  • @Betterme4lf
    @Betterme4lf Місяць тому +2

    This is very very valuable information. Thankyou for sharing this‼️💎💎💎

    • @AdriannaMason
      @AdriannaMason  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you so much for watching ❤️

  • @rainbowdragon3104
    @rainbowdragon3104 Місяць тому +2

    You're right :)

  • @charliecharles8517
    @charliecharles8517 Місяць тому +2

    You are neither crazy, nor wrong. Women do have the ability to regulate our emotions and turn them off - we see this especially with women who have experienced severe trauma. You are simply advocating for choosing to turn them off, or at least down and tapping into logic to enable sensible decision making.

    • @AdriannaMason
      @AdriannaMason  Місяць тому +1

      I absolutely couldn’t have explained this better myself!!! Yes yes & yes!

  • @Queengemi5
    @Queengemi5 Місяць тому +1

    Omg same I lost my virginity and got pregnant as well. I had my son young. Yess we lived the same childhood but I was in 8th grade 🥴. My first born is 19 now, first year in college🙌🏽. So everything you’re saying I went through as well.

    • @AdriannaMason
      @AdriannaMason  Місяць тому

      Do you feel your experience helped mold you into the woman you are today?

  • @Charmaine-xm3ew
    @Charmaine-xm3ew 2 місяці тому +5

    Very valuable information! Thanks Adrianna ❤

    • @AdriannaMason
      @AdriannaMason  2 місяці тому

      Thank you for watching ❤

    • @a.a.6762
      @a.a.6762 Місяць тому

      You found it useful??? From the title I thought she would guide us on how. HOW she did it

    • @AdriannaMason
      @AdriannaMason  Місяць тому

      @@a.a.6762Me sharing the examples of how I had to balance making emotional vs logical decisions wasn’t helpful? Or were you looking for a step by step method?

    • @a.a.6762
      @a.a.6762 Місяць тому

      @@AdriannaMason I clicked because title of how I learned.... I was sure there would be instructions. What did she do to manage this, instead it was why you should....

    • @AdriannaMason
      @AdriannaMason  Місяць тому +1

      @@a.a.6762It was about what I personally learned for myself and I gave examples of what I had to do based on certain situations in hopes of others being able to use those examples in their life as well. I know that some people learn differently than others, which is probably why the persons who made this original comment expressed it was valuable info to her , BUT I understand that you would have liked more instruction vs examples and just in case others feel the same way I will do another video to give more detailed steps! I hope you enjoy that video a bit more!

  • @neishahunter1279
    @neishahunter1279 Місяць тому +1

    It was really nice hearing your story. Do you have any advice on how to turn your emotions off?

    • @AdriannaMason
      @AdriannaMason  Місяць тому +1

      Yes start with being SELF AWARE and being slow to react and respond! This will help you keep yourself in check emotionally (aka turn your emotions off) when you’re focusing on making life altering decisions! Really hope this helps ❤️

  • @RescueAlwaysOfficial
    @RescueAlwaysOfficial Місяць тому

    Crazy that he would want you to have another baby right away. You would have seen pepper! 🤣
    You always have to have a backup!

    • @AdriannaMason
      @AdriannaMason  Місяць тому +1

      Hello somebody!! He definitely just wanted to have me all to himself because he was my first and only and wanted it KEEP it that way until he felt otherwise. No thanks! Always have a plan!

  • @brigidwilliams9144
    @brigidwilliams9144 Місяць тому +1

    Soooooo…. How do I do that😅

    • @AdriannaMason
      @AdriannaMason  Місяць тому +6

      It starts by being self aware and making sure that that you know what you want your end goal to be so that you can stay focused and make decisions that are in alignment with that end goal … regardless of how you might feel emotionally about a person or situation ❤

  • @ahliazhabrown2707
    @ahliazhabrown2707 Місяць тому +1

    Had I did what you did, I would be like you 😂

  • @callalilly4743
    @callalilly4743 Місяць тому +3

    We should normalize not proceeding with a pregnancy or give up kids for adoption for the next generation as a child.

  • @215moluv83
    @215moluv83 2 місяці тому +3

    You manifested failed relationships. Masculine men desire to take of their woman. When you show and tell a man you don’t need them they are going to find someone who does. Nothing wrong with wanting to learn responsibility. But if I am hearing you correctly, you had a man willing to allow you to learn that with him. Emotional stability is embracing someone loving you and knowing who to be vulnerable with and not.

    • @AdriannaMason
      @AdriannaMason  2 місяці тому +11

      No you’re not hearing me correctly at all. He was not a “masculine man” at 18 years old lol but he had great intentions even though my intuition was correct in why I shouldn’t take him up on his offer and I’m SO GLAD I LISTENED TO MY LOGIC!

    • @NoPickmeishasAllowed
      @NoPickmeishasAllowed Місяць тому +1

      Girl u make sense

    • @SonyaNeedsSomeEnsure
      @SonyaNeedsSomeEnsure Місяць тому +1

      Oh pleaseeeee

    • @riasb
      @riasb Місяць тому

      This 100%. She is smart for getting it together herself but her life would’ve been easier if she let him tc of everything while also learning life too. Could’ve doubled the bag. I’m glad she still came on top though. It is what it is.

    • @AdriannaMason
      @AdriannaMason  Місяць тому +1

      @@riasb Nooo. Without dragging him through the mud all I will say is that my life would NOT have been better had I let him help. His help would have come with so many strings and things that would have been difficult to bounce back from because of who he was especially at that young age. You have to be able to hear my story without any preconceived notions or projecting what good men you’ve seen help their girlfriend because unfortunately, that wasn’t my story.

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