How To Face Your Fears
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- Опубліковано 16 вер 2024
- Your greatest personal growth will come out of facing your fears, in this video I explore why its so imporant to face your fears and own them. Often fears are the very thing you need to prioritize and deal with in life.
Fear gave me such a mediocre life and I'm still overcoming most of it. But the day I realized that I couldn't succumb to fear any longer was when I got tired of seeing other people do things that I was too afraid to do, having chicks I was too afraid to talk to tell me that they always liked me, but I never approached them and working in a company that never gave me a shot to be great. Once I said FUCK fear, my own life freaking changed. I have a hot girlfriend now, got a great career then left it to start a business and I'm coding on my first app after teaching myself how to code right as I type. Fuck FEAR! Life is too short.
Amazing example Mike. Thanks for sharing.
The anticipation of death is worse than death itself.
Scott Taggart yeah.
Funnily Enough (I’m 16):
I anticipated DePReSSioN when my dad lost his job in March.
((Both of my parents were jobless))
but I was only sad for the entire summer and September of the school year. XD
Maybe
death has 2 outcomes 1 you,ll be resurrected for Gods approval or 2 you enter Gehena which means the second death and No resurrection, Thats Scary!!
What about pain??
That is more than the anticipation of it..??
surprising you had a stutter because you're communications skills are stellar.
In the last three months walked away from a 9 year relationship that was dead 3 years ago. Lost 20 pounds, and at 42 went back to school and followed my gift for automobile restoration. FYI: I have owned a 1987 Iroc-Z 5.7L that I bought at 21 from the original owner. Still stock and in top notice shape. LOVE you channel and the down to earth way you speak, it's sincere the way you explain you personal experiences. Thank you! Anthony L.I. New York
I remember my biggest fear was speaking in public. I had a teacher in high school that made me have speech in the town hall without letting me know but 1 week prior to the event. I went through 'I hate this person' to 'Hell is too kind of a place' wasted 3 days on that. On the fourth day I went to my language class and my instructor told me that i should recite the speech to her. She flat out told me that what I lacked was balls, that even women weren't such cowards in face of adversity; ' I'll show you wench' and I am still grateful to her to this day.
You get in life what you tolerate
because entropy eats away at you, by default
and life does/should fight against entropy
My fear is failure. .at anything. .social conditioning has made me afraid to try anything that i might not be stellar at. .i think this common but has made me very cautious and too conservative. .i realize the only regrets in life will be the things we never did but wished we had
I am right there with you, brother. The fear of failure also has been something that I allowed to limit my potential. Let's kick this fear in the ass and overcome it, we will be better men as a result.
I can relate to this, I have a fear of taking full ownership of something so I have always tried to have at least one other person do it with me and I have seen it hurt my career advancement.
Getting back my physical, mental health from watching videos like this, reading self help books from the 70’s (Psycho - Cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz), quitting smoking etc. Challenging people trying to destroy my mojo and overcoming the internal dialogue has created amazing strength that no paid therapist could ever achieve. I help myself by helping others who may be experiencing similar life experiences, having empathy and understanding various backgrounds would by my gift.. Great video series bruv from 🇦🇺
Wow, the fact that your fear might be tied to your gift really got me. Gold insight
Spot on! All you have to do it is to watch your fears from your real inner space. Once it is being watched you are ready to take action. Cheers
You provide a lot of great info, thank you.
Hi Richard I often watch your videos for advice and I really enjoy them. My big fear are past events when I was being insulted or demeaned and I froze because it caught me off guard. I want to resolve this issue by confronting these individuals. This has created alot of anger for me personally because I felt I was to passive in the past and felt like I always had to be a good person. I feel being to passive and kind has made me get taken advantage of.
Yep, never stay in a unhappy relationship that does not favor your life. Especially if you are not married and have no kids. I think find happiness being alone, being yourself, doing your things. Then a relationship is an extra positive if it is going well. But don't NEED another, WANT to be with a possible other. No fear to being on your own.
One bad experience with gal is very important in anybodys life.. I ll say its a life changing booster u can hv for a life.. Then don't just fall into a same trap again.. Once u out u out no going back... Courage
rajveersingh kishnawat one bad experience is extremely right I see everything in a much different light now and value myself and my time much more now.
I fear getting out of a terrible marriage. We have a 1,5 year old son and it i dont want to lose my great connection with him. I do know that i cant spend the rest of my life with this woman, id be better off staying alone though i dont believe i d have to struggle to hard to get women. I am 40 and do know i still have time for a redpilled (watching redpill content a few months now)reboot. Just have to overcome my fear.
You really are honest and to the point! I love that!! This video resonated so much with me I had tears streaming down my face! Thank you 🙏🏻 so sick of being run by fear and his gives me the determination to look it right in the face and confront it!! I’m determined to become the most authentic version of myself and your videos truly have been such a great help with that. Male or female you have so much value to give!! 🤗
You’re the brother I wish I had. Great videos, thank you for all of the topics and advice you cover. You’re a really intelligent man.
Your gift {or at least one of your gifts} IS the creation of these videos for us...Thank You Sir!
Perfect timing for me, trying to start a business, have the same apprehensions, have many problems because of my fears, and they have taken to control of me. Thank You
Great video! I’m in a relationship and she wants marriage... I feel like I’m giving up all of my dreams to do it. I dream of flying everyday and marriage isn’t exciting to think about at all. I think I’m afraid to fail and it holds me back from pursing my flying. I think I’m living a life that everyone else what’s me to live and not my own....
Thanks for sharing your experience. I shared this with my 18 year old son. It’s important information. Keep the community growing larger and stronger!
I was a very fearful kid. Skinny. Shy. Terrible allergies. But I always got along with people. Had lots of friends growing up. The best moments in my life was when I went out on a limb. Followed my heart. Connecting the dots. It takes about 10-15 years. That is where the magic happens in life. That is the meaning of life. It is good to not overthink and just do. It sounds very cliche but is true. Success is not a straight arrow. It goes up and down and backwards.
I am working to become more confident, however, I am just now starting to learn how to cold call clients on the phone. I gotta say it is a constant challenge but I am getting better little by little.
''Your Fear might be tied in with your Gift'', that is a good way to put it. ''Deal with your fears.''
Thanks!
BEST video I have seen you put out thus far. This isn’t to minimize all your other amazing red pill info, but this here 💯‼️
I don't care about the dating videos so much I'll get my money straight then I'll worry about women. I'm a not yet successful entrepreneur my last company folded largely because I saw the limitations of it it could only make so much money per hour but watching this helps guys like me I just wanted to thank you for these type of videos
I love your videos , been following your stuff since 2014! Thanks so much, man.
Your welcome, keep the questions coming, and I'll keep making vids
6:30 you hit the nail on the head, it's what I'm going through right now, in fact for many years. Avoiding fear will eventually bring on depression, anxiety and anger issues as well. Thank you for the vid!
I feel like your gift is marketing and confidence. Good video. Thank you.
This is great! i can finnaly not get scared to death by ocean monuments
Great talk about fear especially for me today my best friend (62 years old) has just been put in Hospice to help him die. What should I be afraid of.
I should know this but wow thank you..
Thanks bro... you speak what you feel... Reality.. inspiration for many of us
I was fearful of furthering my education, step away from my energy sucking family and toxic women. It took me years to get focus on the things that matter the most to me. Now I'm 35 years old with investments, increased net worth, and halfway through my doctorate program. Life is good
I just found your very useful videos about 3 weeks ago and since subd.
I have a very loving wife and we bounce off each other well, so some of your videos don't fit in with my life, but damn, your my other dad. Your videos have opened my eyes to fear and other life changing topics.
From your get off your butt videos, I plan on pushing myself more and branch out to my own business and not give up. There is more to life now than a job I don't like.
More thanks than I can type.
Entrepreneurs are some of the most dynamic and aware people I've ever met.
thai luckey some can be real pricks too alot of them today are pasters of chruches. Its easy money to take from us lower calss people tax free. Thwre are many young pasters i know. They bacially are college drop outs but dont wanna work for the sytem and get taxed.
For me it's my fear of being criticized for doing things I actually put effort in. For example, since I'm a music student, I am often afraid to let my voice really resonate, because it's rather loud. Because of this, I barely practiced singing last semester and felt my voice barely improved at all.
I'm fearful of never getting out of retail, I originally joined to get some working experience and because I was absolutely terrified of doing anything cashier related. So I chose the stocking, doing things behind the scenes. I've been wanting to go into the IT field or Programming field but unlike many of my peers, I never got my license. The things that are preventing me from getting out is, License and really commiting to learning programming/IT.
Probably my 2nd biggest fear, That I may never get a true relationship with a woman(sounds generic but I've watched so many people enter relationships with ease and yet I've never had any success in that area.)
Thanks again it's always a pleasure watching your video I'm going through some things right now as I said!!! Thank you for the inspiration from the videos I watched the past from you!! You have no idea I needed that!
I can’t believe he said “Ernest” & Young! So awesome
There are a couple of thing I'm fearful of and I hope to get your two cents.
FEAR of change. Changing to a new workplace or an assignment i get and I get all jittery and nervous about it.
Secondly, if there's an opportunity given to travel overseas for a possible job or whatever, I get a bit intimidated and think about wife and family who I most likely will be leaving behind (for sometime) on and on...
Thank you!
Great advice
GREAT FUCKIN TOPIC BROTHER!!!!APPRECIATE YOU!!!PEACE AND LOVE!!!
Great info Rich..Draw your sword, Stand Firm, look fear in the eye..to hell with you..I've got a life to lead, Game On..peace bro
This is why battle rap is now becoming HUGE. Fights are rare so forget that. It's being judged people fear the most. Go watch how those men handle it. Loaded Lux vs Calicoe is a perfect example.
Fear is good because it can keep you on your toes.
Your an awsome motivational speaker, my fear is the system after my divorce, everthing you say is true,
i love it!
Ressonated with me deeply. Great insight, man. Thanks from Portugal
My big fear is about starting my business. Nuff said.
I face my fears every day. I used to be afraid of tarantulas and then I got one as a pet. When I was a little boy, I was petrified of the 1976 king Kong movie poster. Now I have that image on my bedroom wall.
Just ran across this one, thanks man I needed this!
💯
You are right....fuck our fear...
Great as always
why do I feel like your inspirational vids are also a degree of your self help? by helping others you clear your own demons?? anyways, keep em coming, great messages man :)
Excellent observation ;)
Wise words as usual, cheers.
Oh, millions of stories like that. Friends businesses partnerships never work. One is always more valuable than the other. Always better to hire employees and pay them little instead of having a useless partner who takes away half
Powerful Video
Great video
My fear is leaving my cheating, lying wife. I'm fearful of being out on my own. The guy I was before marriage would have walked out in a minute. I don't know what happened to me. This video and many of your others have pushed me take the steps to get out.
I've been fearful of taking the next step as far as attending college. I have a general Idea what I want to do but always stuck with the fear of that next step not working out.
I really get the point of this video, and I really do like it, but what if you have a debilitating fear like Social Anxiety Disorder or Agoraphobia to where you're too afraid to be around people?
@ Jay Yagebu ... thank you so much for responding to my question. I was clinically diagnosed with Social Anxiety disorder and GAD, but not with agoraphobia. My social anxiety is worse than my agoraphobia.
@Jay Bee unfortunately, I don't think your advice applies to social anxiety disorder or autism or many other serious disorders. Anxiety and depression are not easy to overcome and only a person ignorant of them could give oversimplified solutions to them.
Thank you rite on point
lots of value from this video,thanks bro
The secret to dealing with fear is to determine which fears are warranted, and which ones are paper tigers. Then heed the warranted fears, and deal with the paper tigers by running repeatedly headlong into them.
Great video. You nailed it!
This is a great video.
Great show
Your so awesome brother keep up the good work dude :) your a smart man give me lot of good advice
Great talk.
Im fearful of success.
you say it the way we really need to hear it.
I'm kinda really uncertain about the place in life right now. I've been working on getting my class 1 drivers license (have my learner's for it and written air). I could either wait a long time before I finally have enough money to rent a truck and trailer to get my experience, I could wait quite a bit longer before I'll have the finances to take a two week driving course before the road test or I could use this newly aquired credit to pay for either and really expedite the whole thing and get my class 1 sooner.
the sooner I get 'em, the sooner I can get real life experience and pay my debt off. but I've got some outstanding debt and I'm really hating debt.
do you have advice on what I really should be doing?
sure, I could go deeper into the hole and likely (but no guarantee) earn my way out. or I could wait however long and eventually go for the road test and maybe pass.
i want to learn everything about real estate investing what beginner and advanced books do you recommend? and particular authors ? Love the video btw seems like im battling something like that now.
+Wasiu Adeyeye Grab Ian Szabos book on Amazon, I did a video with him the other day. Its on the channel now.
Entrepreneurs in Cars Thanks, i watched that video too totally forgot he had a book thanks alot!!
Entrepreneurs in Cars Just tried to go buy it and it was unavailable i guess its sold out?? FML lol i was too late.
Wasiu Adeyeye ... Buy books by the author: Grant Cardone .
Great video, thanks!
thanks entrepreneur for this vid
Thank you for your Words you this Video does Touch me a Lot :)
My biggest fear in life is loneliness.
F*ck yeah!
fearful. of losing what i have
My biggest fear is that I'm confused about my sexuality. I'm 27, male, and have always been sexually attracted to girls, but feel that I might be emotionally/romantically attracted to men. It's killing me with anxiety and affects my life at every level. I don't know how to face this fear as it's really complicated and I don't know where to start. Nonetheless, great videos, keep them up.
Best thing to do is to experiment to see what makes you happy! Your sexuality is your business and no one else's!
Thanks man but how do I experiment? Go to a gay club or something? Don't know if I could bring myself to do that
Clubs and dating sites, pretty much the same as dating or playing with girls, you never till you try.
Thanks man much appreciated
You are welcome!
agreed ... amine
see theres two types of fear, 1 is fear of where you know you know what is bothering you and you FEAR of taking care of it dealing with the problem or situation you fear to no longer be part of,, even tho i have a few of those, what happens when you FEAR of getting into something,, i personally have FEAR the fact of settling down and getting married,, but not be able to support a descent living , or keep up with my living quality i have as a single man,,so how to deal with fears you dont know what it will be like
+Diego Ornelas I'm divorced, i can tell you from experience, the single biggest choice you can make in life is who to marry. Live with them first, that will show you their true colours. Maybe I should do a video on this.
+Entrepreneurs in Cars U should!
Entrepreneurs in Cars it's funny how Warren buffett said the same thing or along that line.
My biggest fear was leaving my wife and giving her the boot, she treated me like trash too long and didn´t listen to me.
Please do a video on how to deal with rumours and rumour spreaders... :( Thanks...
Theachiever001 , the best way to deal with that is simply to ignore them and keep being you and improving without worrying about what they think. You have absolutely no control of who will talk about you, and no control of what they will say about you. The only thing you have control over in this situation, is how you choose to react to it. If you let it bring you down or let it trigger strong emotions out of you, then you're allowing them to have even more control over you. Some of these people are wanting you to react in certain ways. They feel a sense of control over you when you react like they want you to. It makes themselves feel better about their insecure and weak selves. (the reasons bullies do what they do.).
It's hard to do, but build yourself up and practice continuing to react in healthy ways (like smiling at them and saying "thanks for making me stronger!"..and walking away. They can't handle it when you stay positive and keep doing your thing. Because their whole intent was to destroy you. Don't let them destroy you. Keep your head up and live in a way that contradicts their rumors and pathetic gossip. You can take the heavy weights that people pile on you and let it bring you down, or you can choose to lift those weights and become stronger from it and stand tall. "I used every brick they threw at me to build an empire." 👍 😎 💪 🙏
I'm fearful of my temporary custody hearing coming up. I'm trying to look at it straight in the eye but it's difficult.
Any advice?
Man WTF!!! This shit is scary!! Like reading my mind ... seems like we all go through the same shit or something! This cant be a coincidence ... must be by design!!!
How would this applie if you're scared of spiders😕
great
What do you mean by: owning your fear?
I'm scared of everything
What is with the fucked up fear of success?
What if your fear is other human beings?
Do you ever come to Montreal for business or car shows?
Rarely
programming was a fear for me I thought it was for other people
approaching girls is just so fucking hard for me man -.-
I'm fearful of meeting new girl on first date. It's not just nervousness, it's actual fear. I hate first dates, never liked them.
i fear to approach women even when im tall and in my opinion good looking i always find something of my body to tell myseld not beeing enough to approach beautiful women!
Whats the guys name at 4:50,'.. fillip mc???...