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  • @maheswarimathialagan1983
    @maheswarimathialagan1983 Рік тому +3

    Big salute to you mam!!! Thanks for your boldness, vision and inspiration. Best wishes to you and your son!!! 😇🥳🥳🥳

  • @kamu2602
    @kamu2602 2 роки тому +5

    very mature lady who has taken the right decision at the right time. wishing you all the best ma

  • @tharsinybalamurali4326
    @tharsinybalamurali4326 2 роки тому +10

    இதே போல தனியாக வாழும் பெண்களை வாழாவெட்டிகள் என ஒதுக்கப்படுவதை விட ,
    திருமணமான ஒரு ஆணோடு தொடர்பு ஏற்படுத்தி குடும்பங்களை உடைக்கும் பெண்கள் தான் சமூகத்தில் ஒதுக்கப்பட வேண்டியவர்கள் என்பதை சமூகம் உணர்ந்து செயற்பட வேணும்.

    • @jkiruba5203
      @jkiruba5203 2 роки тому +2

      சரியாசொன்னீங்க

    • @jkiruba5203
      @jkiruba5203 2 роки тому

      கல்யாணமானவுடனேமாறிடுவாங்களேஆண்கள்

  • @SaiRam-qv3xt
    @SaiRam-qv3xt 2 роки тому +10

    This is one of your female colleague. You helped me in office. Bhagwan how many times I seen you and admire you. Your face is always with so much overwhelming smile and proud. Your family celebrating you that shown in your face i always think. God will shower crore million immeasurable happiness to you. I seen you with kid also. Thanks for being a cause for good change in lot many lives. I submit My true respect for you. One time you replied me i am in church i will call you like that that responsibility you show... I am speechless....

    • @user-nt1bg5rj3t
      @user-nt1bg5rj3t 2 роки тому

      Its very Strange how people are supporting Single parenting and remove the father Character from the family?Do you think a Child without father will be happy?Rising A Child away from aftger is not a Empowering and Bold think you s^upid people ,At least once in the life he feels like to see his dad.
      Modern feminism is d@ngerous

  • @lindamary1647
    @lindamary1647 19 годин тому

    Increasing divorces breaking separation is good only i supports these kinds of ladies etc

  • @septisherin289
    @septisherin289 2 роки тому +10

    அருமையான பதிவு மா
    நானும் இது போன்ற முடிவு எடுக்கவில்லையே என்ற வருத்தம் இன்றும் உள்ளது,எனக்கு இப்போழுது 50 வயதாகிறது நானும் என்கனவர் பிள்ளைகள் என்று ஒன்றாக வாழ்கிறோம் 26 வருடமாகிறது திருமண மாகி 20 வருடஙகளாக என்னுடன் என் கனவர் பேசுவது கிடையாது ஆனால் ஒரே வீட்டில் தான் வசிக்கிறோம் நான் பொருத்துக்கொண்டது எல்லாம் அப்பாவின் ஆதரவை பிள்ளைகள் இழந்து விடக்கூடாது என்பது தான் சிந்திப்போம்

    • @asrafathima9379
      @asrafathima9379 2 роки тому +1

      Yeppadi orey veetil iruvarum peysamal irukirirgal?

    • @asrafathima9379
      @asrafathima9379 2 роки тому +1

      Ippadiyum iruka mudiyuma ?

    • @septisherin289
      @septisherin289 2 роки тому

      Unmaithan idhu varai 20 varudangal pesuvathu illai yen pillaiha Mulam than yethavathu thevaiyanathai solven anal yen pillahal santhosamaha irukkirarhal

    • @septisherin289
      @septisherin289 2 роки тому

      பாத்தீங்களா காலில் கள்ளு பட்டாலும் கள்ளில் கால் பட்டாலும் வலி என்னவோ காலுக்குத்தான் அவர் வேறு கல்யாணம் பண்ணி சந்தோஷமா இருக்கார் ஆனா நம்ம.

    • @asrafathima9379
      @asrafathima9379 2 роки тому

      @@septisherin289 neenga christian a ?

  • @cockatoosspokenenglish7475
    @cockatoosspokenenglish7475 2 роки тому +6

    Very bold decision..... Those who are trapped inside such kind of problems can understand what the situation was..... It's better to separate from such kind of relationships

    • @user-nt1bg5rj3t
      @user-nt1bg5rj3t 2 роки тому

      Its very Strange how people are supporting Single parenting and remove the father Character from the family?Do you think a Child without father will be happy?Rising A Child away from aftger is not a Empowering and Bold think you s^upid people ,At least once in the life he feels like to see his dad.
      Modern feminism is d@ngerous

  • @deepap4351
    @deepap4351 2 роки тому +6

    Self respect romba romba mukkiyam. Athu kidaika namma job la irukanum

    • @Shri_12
      @Shri_12 2 роки тому +1

      Correct. Kasu ilana mariyathai illa.. Enga irunthalum.

    • @Shaki-g2i
      @Shaki-g2i Рік тому

      I'm working that's the problem.ego. ready to leave job. But, he is earning very less. I cannot give the life that i want to give to my son.

  • @bhuvaneswarirangarajan3702
    @bhuvaneswarirangarajan3702 2 роки тому +5

    Well explained about self respect. Hats off. Thanks for informing about legal system too

  • @nsms1297
    @nsms1297 2 роки тому

    Sister, I agree with your viewpoint.
    I adjusted to an illegal or abusive marriage for 15 years. It's a forgery marriage. Finally, it affected my son's life. Parents are not cooperative.
    I appreciate you sister and your parents.

  • @lightinlight
    @lightinlight 2 роки тому +8

    Very good ,@Aval Vikatan ,plz continue with this thaniyoruthi series , it is really very much motivating and helpful .Thank you 🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @vinothm2k8
      @vinothm2k8 2 роки тому

      ஆமா. இன்னும் 10-15 குடும்பம் பிச்சிக்கிட்டு நிக்கட்டும்.

    • @user-nt1bg5rj3t
      @user-nt1bg5rj3t 2 роки тому

      Its very Strange how people are supporting Single parenting and remove the father Character from the family?Do you think a Child without father will be happy?Rising A Child away from aftger is not a Empowering and Bold think you s^upid people ,At least once in the life he feels like to see his dad.
      Modern feminism is d@ngerous

  • @shanthiramesh9124
    @shanthiramesh9124 2 роки тому +1

    Best wishes to u & your son your decision has been correct our self respect and situation our children grows is most important. Tks to your parents and all who support you.

  • @sugmarsreema8310
    @sugmarsreema8310 2 роки тому +7

    Hi Doll,
    I admire your determination in life especially when things didn't go as planned. U r courageous. By the way, you have perfect tone and expressions. Convey my wishes to ur baby boy. Love you.

    • @user-nt1bg5rj3t
      @user-nt1bg5rj3t 2 роки тому

      Its very Strange how people are supporting Single parenting and remove the father Character from the family?Do you think a Child without father will be happy?Rising A Child away from aftger is not a Empowering and Bold think you s^upid people ,At least once in the life he feels like to see his dad.
      Modern feminism is d@ngerous

  • @suganyar3959
    @suganyar3959 2 роки тому +2

    Please take interview about widows.

  • @JK-iq8qn
    @JK-iq8qn 2 роки тому +3

    Good & bold decision. Keep going girl. You will be an inspiration for many girls facing this problem

    • @user-nt1bg5rj3t
      @user-nt1bg5rj3t 2 роки тому

      Its very Strange how people are supporting Single parenting and remove the father Character from the family?Do you think a Child without father will be happy?Rising A Child away from aftger is not a Empowering and Bold think you s^upid people ,At least once in the life he feels like to see his dad.
      Modern feminism is d@ngerous

  • @NishaSubramaniyan
    @NishaSubramaniyan 2 роки тому

    Amazing strength & clarity! Keep inspiring :) all the best

  • @sundaraselvi325
    @sundaraselvi325 2 роки тому +3

    The red flags that were missed during courtship can be shared. It will help youngsters take healthy decisions in terms of romantic relationship.

  • @joysonforjesus5089
    @joysonforjesus5089 2 роки тому +1

    You will be joining quickly

  • @jeyabharathipappusamy577
    @jeyabharathipappusamy577 2 роки тому +2

    I have handled it for 8 years.

    • @user-nt1bg5rj3t
      @user-nt1bg5rj3t 2 роки тому

      Its very Strange how people are supporting Single parenting and remove the father Character from the family?Do you think a Child without father will be happy?Rising A Child away from aftger is not a Empowering and Bold think you s^upid people ,At least once in the life he feels like to see his dad.
      Modern feminism is d@ngerous

  • @duraikitchen88
    @duraikitchen88 2 роки тому +1

    It's truly mam

  • @raakavi5695
    @raakavi5695 2 роки тому +2

    well done

  • @SharmilasharmilaSharmilash-b7e
    @SharmilasharmilaSharmilash-b7e 22 дні тому

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @b.s.kavishukg652
    @b.s.kavishukg652 2 роки тому +2

    Great women be bold

    • @user-nt1bg5rj3t
      @user-nt1bg5rj3t 2 роки тому

      Its very Strange how people are supporting Single parenting and remove the father Character from the family?Do you think a Child without father will be happy?Rising A Child away from aftger is not a Empowering and Bold think you s^upid people ,At least once in the life he feels like to see his dad.
      Modern feminism is d@ngerous

  • @wesleywesley4464
    @wesleywesley4464 2 роки тому +3

    Super super super super super super super super super super super super super

  • @nalinapranesan409
    @nalinapranesan409 2 роки тому

    We should not judge others. Only if it happens us we will understand it's true impact. It is very easy to pass judgements. Every human being deserves a happy life, respectful life. That is what a child also needs, a child does not need mere parents, a child needs a good environment and good human beings around him or her. Doesn't a child with bad parents turn to criminals or depressed? A child needs a good influence in his or her life, good role models to shape his or her life. A father who hates his wife will poison the son's mind, an abusive person cannot be a good parent. I know single parents who raised girl children into responsible adults. We should know how to discriminate and decide and not merely follow something blindly for the sake of it. Many men are insecure if a women is confident.

  • @bhuvanabhuvana8204
    @bhuvanabhuvana8204 2 роки тому +2

    Hai mam,I am single mother.my husband died for corona 😭 😭.I have two daughter's.we are helpless.we are struggling for basic needs.mam you said,I am working in mattram foundation.mam please me my daughter's education.my health condition also sick.i am very scare about my daughter's future.mattram foundation please help me my two daughters education🙏

    • @jaganfox
      @jaganfox 2 роки тому

      Hi

    • @user-nt1bg5rj3t
      @user-nt1bg5rj3t 2 роки тому

      Its very Strange how people are supporting Single parenting and remove the father Character from the family?Do you think a Child without father will be happy?Rising A Child away from aftger is not a Empowering and Bold think you s^upid people ,At least once in the life he feels like to see his dad.
      Modern feminism is d@ngerous

  • @subaselvam5690
    @subaselvam5690 2 роки тому

    Great mam

  • @karthiktailor1854
    @karthiktailor1854 Рік тому

    பொறுமை சகிப்பு இல்லாதவரின் சுய முடிவுகள் ..

  • @kavintamil5153
    @kavintamil5153 2 роки тому

    Every person goes through lot of HELL. Do not judge Others ever. All the best !

  • @kapilwill
    @kapilwill 2 роки тому +1

    I have been struggling to see my child for the last two years. Don't promote single parenting. If the father is not interested in the child it's different. What you did is right but if the father was interested in the child... Co parenting was the best way forward. Hope you explain in an other video what really happened between the father and the child..

    • @user-nt1bg5rj3t
      @user-nt1bg5rj3t 2 роки тому

      ❤❤❤Yeah

    • @periasamisami2444
      @periasamisami2444 2 роки тому

      Agreed 💯.As u said in this case her decision is correct.But this is not same for all..many gents r suffering due to this

    • @user-nt1bg5rj3t
      @user-nt1bg5rj3t 2 роки тому +1

      She don't like her husband, But her son should see his dad and should not live and die without knowing his biological fatger his race and his home town and his ancestors

    • @dianacharles713
      @dianacharles713 2 роки тому

      Are you providing finance support child care alimony for this madam in the video? ...also what about widows orphans and disappeared spouse what about arranged marriage to abusive person? What about death of spouse? So please stop judging and stop saying culture...when your secretly doing all wrong in private and pretending like saint in public. Instead ignore videos like this if you don't like. Unless you face a situation like this you have no idea what other person goes through.

  • @suganyasuga4953
    @suganyasuga4953 2 роки тому +2

    Romba perfect ana ponu pola atha ethayum accept pana mudila

  • @arulmozhiarul5423
    @arulmozhiarul5423 2 роки тому

    Akka unga video superb

  • @aucklandtamilsamayalfromnz9418
    @aucklandtamilsamayalfromnz9418 2 роки тому +3

    Nachunnu pesureenga!!

  • @vijisiva3574
    @vijisiva3574 2 роки тому

    🤝🤝🤝👍👍

  • @vinothm2k8
    @vinothm2k8 2 роки тому +13

    எல்லாருக்கும் சூழ்நிலை ஒரேமாதிரி இருக்காது, மோட்டிவேஷனல் வீடியோ இல்லை, குழப்பத்தை ஏற்படுத்தும் வீடியோ , இந்த மாதிரி வீடியோக்கள் குடும்பம் என்ற கட்டமைப்பை சீர்குலைக்கும் . இளம் தம்பதிகளுக்கு ஒரு தவறான முன்னுதாரணம் . அன்பு , அரவணைப்பு. கண்டிப்பு இவை தந்தை இடம் மட்டுமே கிடைக்கும். அம்மா , அப்பா இருவரும் குழந்தையின் எதிர்காலம். இவர் சொல்வது முழுக்க முழுக்க தன்னுடைய சுயநல முடிவு . "தான், நான், எனக்கு , என்னுடைய " என்று பேசும் இவர் சமூகத்திற்கு தவறான முன்னுதாரணம்.. இதையெல்லாம் பார்த்து தான் டைவர்ஸ்க்கு கூட்டம் அதிகமா இருக்கு...

    • @dianacharles713
      @dianacharles713 2 роки тому +2

      Are you providing finance support child care alimony for this madam in the video? ...also what about widows orphans and disappeared spouse what about arranged marriage to abusive person? What about death of spouse? So please stop judging and stop saying culture...when your secretly doing all wrong in private and pretending like saint in public. Instead ignore videos like this if you don't like. Unless you face a situation like this you have no idea what other person goes through.

    • @nirmalams9851
      @nirmalams9851 2 роки тому +2

      Pl don't comment like a wagabond about a single mother.pk.have empathy.dont be chauvinist this is 21 St century,u want an educated girl as well a slave. This can't be matched.i am not a feminist,but donot peep in to others bathroom and find fault.take a vow not to be nosy Parker henceforth.this will definitely help u to have a tranquillity.After all who are we to comment other's personal life? She says to motivate widows,divorcee and single mothers. Don't drive them to get mad or suicide.karma will serve its menu sizzling hot.

    • @nayanikaanayanikaa9054
      @nayanikaanayanikaa9054 Рік тому

      Nee esya solluva..... unaku kastam vanthathan therium........

  • @bbjremmy
    @bbjremmy 2 роки тому +5

    Always men are villian and female is the victim! The coin has 2 sides! Aval Vikatan be fair and be smart. Dont be judgemental

  • @vinothm2k8
    @vinothm2k8 2 роки тому +8

    Bad example for society. Don’t encourage this kind of video. It will spoil family culture. Bad example for upcoming newly wedded couple. Money is not only for life. Especially kids. They miss their father and mother. இந்தம்மா பையன் மனநிலை பத்தி பேசுறது செம காமெடி. முழுக்க முழுக்க இந்தம்மாவின் சுயநலம். அப்பாவின் அன்பு கண்டிப்பு இல்லாத குழந்தையின் எதிர்காலம். ???? இதெல்லாம் குடும்பம் என்ன கட்டமைப்பை சீர்குலைக்கும் வீடியோ. Think about after 20-30 yrs. kid will take this as bad example and lead to misunderstanding life. Dear friends “நான் , என்னுடைய , எனக்கு “ என்று கூறும் இவர் தன்னைபற்றி முன்னிருத்தி பேசி இளம் தம்பதிகள் மனதில் குழப்பத்தை ஏற்படுத்தும் . Stay away from this toxic contents and enjoy the life with your family and kids.

    • @dianacharles713
      @dianacharles713 2 роки тому +1

      Are you providing finance support child care alimony for this madam in the video? ...also what about widows orphans and disappeared spouse what about arranged marriage to abusive person? What about death of spouse? So please stop judging and stop saying culture...when your secretly doing all wrong in private and pretending like saint in public. Instead ignore videos like this if you don't like. Unless you face a situation like this you have no idea what other person goes through.

  • @murugesana9601
    @murugesana9601 2 роки тому +2

    எதோ புரட்சி செய்து விட்டோம் என்று நினைக்கின்றனர். ஆனால் சமுதாயத்திற்கு மிகப் பெரிய கேடு விளைவிக்கின்றனர். அவர்களை அறியாமலே. வேறு ஒன்றும் சொல்வதற்கில்லை.

    • @dianacharles713
      @dianacharles713 2 роки тому +1

      Are you providing finance support child care alimony for this madam in the video? ...also what about widows orphans and disappeared spouse what about arranged marriage to abusive person? What about death of spouse? So please stop judging and stop saying culture...when your secretly doing all wrong in private and pretending like saint in public. Instead ignore videos like this if you don't like. Unless you face a situation like this you have no idea what other person goes through.

    • @nirmalams9851
      @nirmalams9851 2 роки тому +1

      Ethai solravanga ellam gents .mmmmm

  • @vinothm2k8
    @vinothm2k8 2 роки тому +1

    Bad example for society

    • @dianacharles713
      @dianacharles713 2 роки тому +1

      Are you providing finance support child care alimony for this madam in the video? ...also what about widows orphans and disappeared spouse what about arranged marriage to abusive person? What about death of spouse? So please stop judging and stop saying culture...when your secretly doing all wrong in private and pretending like saint in public. Instead ignore videos like this if you don't like. Unless you face a situation like this you have no idea what other person goes through.