My mother says that all the time. It used to make me crazy. But then I discovered how wise AND true it is. So now I acknowledge the situation, remind myself that "this too shall pass" and then ask myself what I can do about it right now. How can I look at it? What gift is hiding in the middle of it?
I seriously hate this platitude. It's tired and unfeeling. Surely when someone is suffering or in pain there is something more heartfelt and meaningful to say. Not this bumper sticker.
@mariarohmer2374 if it doesnt work for you, thats fine. It actually has comforted me and i dont view it as being unfeeling at all. It's true and sometimes, when there's truly nothing that can be done about misfortune, it helps to realize that in time the issue will fade in significance at least. We have limited power in life sometimes.
My beautiful husband died suddenly 4 months ago leaving me alone and grieving😢. This gave me a lift in my spirit. Im still very sad. 😢 but i willtry to carry on.
I lost my husband suddenly, also. Much different from they were ill and you had time to prepare! Have courage and take it very slowly. Sending you love and hugs. 🥲🎆🩷🪬💌
@@roxylqm111I think they mean she’s random to us because I came upon this video by chance. I’m sure she’s very accomplished and she sounds very very wise. I’m thankful that I came across this video. We need more people like this that have a voice to those in need.
I really needed this. I have been so depressed lately, my fears make it hard to get up in the morning and see purpose in my life. I used to be someone so excited for my future, now it’s hard for me to see 6 months ahead. I started reading man’s search for meaning today. I hope to one day help others out of this as well. Thank you.
I'd like to suggest reading near death experiences online. They're what always set my head straight. I've been reading them nearly daily since '98 and people ask me why I'm so happy. I feel like it's because I get what's going on here way better than I ever have before. I hope you both find relief soon. One key is to follow your bliss.
@@websurfer5772 Watching NDE video testimonies has really helped me and my family with our grief. Even if you are a skeptic like me, it is a wonderful perspective - a possibility - that you can lean on when life feels unbearable.
I haven’t seen my three children in three years because my ex husband stole them. I have been so depressed and traumatised and miserable. Thank you for sharing.
I'm so sorry. That's unbearable. My covert malignant narcissist mother has done the same with my daughter, and my granddaughter. I feel suicidal most days.
@@vanessas2363 I'm so heartbroken for you. I relate as my 2 beautiful children are alienated as well due to my abusive ex husband. The grief and betrayal can feel so unbearable. Let us think of each other in those times of desperation. Today is the first day this week that I'm not constantly crying and in freeze mode wanting to die. Let us be strong and have faith they will soon "wake up" and realize what has happened and come back to us. No loving mother should ever suffer the loss of her beloved children at the hands of evil people like this. It is abuse - to us and the children. Sending you love and light and hope 💗
Back in 78 my Dad tried that. He didnt even know me even though I grew up in the same house. Thank goodness the Judge took the time to ask what I wanted. If he had gotten custody of me I had a plan to run a thousand miles away.
@@Itookoutthetrash thank you so much for your kind words. It's living bereavement and it gets worse for me, not better. I have developed so many health problems and autoimmune conditions. It's been 5 years for me. I dread each Christmas. I just can't believe this is my life.
Hi Emily I lost everything due to narcisstic abuse. I have to start from scratch. Its very hard. I was also too soft in the past in giving away my money at a whim. Those days are gone! I will be stronger. Ive learnt so much even though i lost my beloved home. I have to move ahead. There's no other way! I hope i can get another home where I'm relatively happy. Taking one day at a time. Hoping for the best always.
The reality is that some people’s lives will never improve out of ‘chronic misery’. I know several ‘elder orphans’ ie older people whose entire family is deceased, whose friends are married so don’t bother with them any more, and whose neighbours treat them like a social pariah (one friend said “Alien”) because no-one ever calls at their house etc, whose lives are a living hell and no amount of ‘acceptance’ will help them. Where you live also plays a huge part in your ability to survive in that type of situation: if your locality is geared to young families and older people are ignored (bar the odd whist drive or bowls club!), being positive and forward-looking doesn’t help you one jot (trust me - I live in such a place myself). Since Covid, British society has changed - the whole sense of community has gone and people just care about what happens within their own 4 walls. And no amount of positivity’s going to change that.
@@EdelweisSusie Therefore positive action is required to join communities that are friendly or to create new projects in communities where this is non existent. Older people unite.
I disagree. What you are saying is there is no way out here. You, yourself need find the positivity. If you don't think so, then you haven't listened to her words.
♥️ Thank you for this video and for your understanding. Narcissistic abuse. I wouldn't wish this on anyone. KEEP BREATHING AND TRUST THAT THERE IS A REASON FOR EVERYTHING IN GOD'S CREATION. These hard lessons will help others in the future ♥️.
You are a very wise woman. May all those who are living in misery be healed, given comfort, and experience the beauty of life. May the wind carry their miseries as they say their prayers. 🙏🏻 Love your red lipstick and nature background!
That will certainly help. Tears are a wonderful release, but should never have to become a habit, if and when we find ways to overcome our grief. Take care.
Sometimes, challenges and struggles are easier to cope with if one has a compatible partner to share the burden, be that physical and/or mental. I notice that being alone, to navigate such situations becomes all the more challenging when one has multiple complex issues to cope with at the same time. Sometimes, I make an 'appointment' with myself in a week or two, to allow myself to remove myself and choose to live in the present. Sometimes, that is easier said than done. I also make it a point to do one thing every day, that brings me happiness. I always break problems down into smaller bites, something I learned from my piano teacher. One bar at a time, then the next and join the two together, etc., etc.. The companionship of animals and the beauty of nature can also be very comforting, especially in the absence of family and/or friends. Resilience is by far my strongest trait. I surprise myself from time to time. Living in keeping with my values is everything!
Ahhh that power tool! Walking in a glorious forest and an overbearing noise bellows. This emanates life! We won’t let the interrupting noise devalue our experience of beauty and the destination we are striving for. We won’t let the interrupting noise take away from the beauty we are experiencing right here and now.
Hello Emmy, Your vIdeo popped up in my feed. There are no coincidences in the Universe. It is just what I needed. I liked and subscribed. Thank you for sharing your beautiful self with us. From North Carolina, USA. ❤❤❤
Enduring horror is the story of many. These stories are the light at the end of the tunnel of almost completely dark lives. What I do is close my eyes and feel love in all its splendor. That's my light. That's my hope. The one that makes me choose life every day. Knowing that without that experience, I would not have the strength that it generates in me. You have to know how to find the treasures of life. Look beyond the obvious. Strengthen our essence so that our heart, body and mind can heal over time. Thank you for the book recommendation, and sharing your videos, they are immensely valuable in difficult times. It is very beautiful not to lose faith in humanity
@@ironempath7261 Thank you, I have been listening to stories of overcoming for years, talking about feelings is difficult, I always seek refuge in channels or people who feel like a refuge too. here it feels good to comment, each one with their personal context
Thank you 😊 I am upset by people who think that this is negative and positive thinking will fix everything. I have to remind myself I'm positive for keeping going and that lots of people have difficult lives and things to manage and that's okay ✨️ ❤
Good morning, my friend! Thank you for this video. I stumbled upon your channel early this morning. My heart is heavy, and I am trying to let the light into the dark corners. Thank you again, you are giving me hope and strength. ❤
What a lady, your words are very noble. Your message has helped me today by easing the strain of ill hope in adversity. “Even if it’s for a short while” The mind with logistics can be so distracting, living in the city. I hope you have a great day also,Thank you! Sending you a virtual hug 💜🫶🏼
God knows what we are really worth, far better than we can ever imagine and giving us tough circumstances to deal with, is the only way to show us what we are truly made of. It's by having to dig deeper within our own selves, that we discover our true nature and capability and when we realise this for the fact that it is, it's an extremely encouraging and uplifting feeling, a coming home to our life's reality. God Bless you 🙏🏻💖
Thank you for reminding me of who I am. In a time I’m working on shaking off my own self pity and conquer my life as I was meant to. Your background reminds me of my hometown, the place I grew up and spent so much time outside. I’m in a different land now, but I’m going to go on a walk because of it. Thank you 🥰🙏🏻
I never thought about it that way- learning tolerance for hardship. I always thought hardship was an indictment on me as a person, something to vanquish. Thanks Emmy for the perspective x
I will learn and make the best out of a situation. I think there is no use in me being sad about My life and make it more miserable than it might actually be. Thank you for sharing your wisdom. I love watching your videos.❤
@@quynhpham898 As soon as you truly commit to that decision, life will become far more possible again, as you take back control over your own attitude and mood. Delighted you are doing the work as well as watching.
What a lovely message. When I am down I tell myself to step up and be what I need. It works better sometimes more than others. Sometimes is better than not at all. Sending out good vibes to all. ❤
I live with a back hernia for years now and i work with children, i work independently so a day not working is a day not getting payed. I have a lot of pain every day and i will not go in social services and be poor bur live is so hard, the only thing is suck it up, man up, psychiatrists cant help you, you will be mentally dependent, dokters can help you to a certain level with pain medication but a hard life is the card that you get dealt with.. Get strong!! Dont be a victim, be a survivor, be your own hero and live your life wise.
Such a heart felt video, truly invaluable and very much appreciated Emmy❤People suffer so much your words are a true blessing It is true that we must keep going as in life you never know what’s around the corner and even seemingly impossible situations can change. Staying strong is not easy but we are capable of it. My heart is also with everyone. Stay strong ❤
hello Emmy, have been out of the loop for a while...and this coming into my feed feeling compelled to check in again...love that so many comments are validating your needed words, inspiration and presence as those who have listened prior, like me think, why isnt this person blowing up over the intenet as one hell of wise woman you are...anyway for me, your pearls always remind me that there are so many others going through 'similar' diificult situations, and try not to take it personally, and that through strength, resolve and persistence this too shall pass, and yes the sun will shine. thank you . always ❤
❤ ❤❤ Thank you for your motvational speech, rational and also heartwarming. I don't know, what you had to go through, I only know that your words are of great value and your advice is to be appreciated of course, I just wonder why I always thought like you but cannot put myself into my former mindset anymore... But I deeply appreciated your speech, and do think of it as an extremely worthful advice for anyone. Thank you, and be blessed ❤
This touched me to tears last night, so grateful and moved felt the love too friends! Sending this message of healing and resilience and friendship as we need this so! Just shared with my 87 yo mom, and rejoice to read loving comments. ❤❤❤
Pace yourself. Every day one can apply an act or energy that helps move things along. It's worth the try. And as a bonus one may find their resilience is remarkable. And try not to go it alone. And if you can, every day help someone else when you find the chance to do so. That also in turn helps build your own resilience and it takes the mind off of oneself for awhile which is good to also do. Take a break however one can. Find gratitude where you can no matter how small it appears. Tomorrow is a new day.
Plukiness. Love that word! Love the phrase Old head on young shoulders. That was said a lot to me as a young child. I had to grow up quick. But adulthood, taught me how to heal my younger self that had to care for everyone.
3 weeks ago I watched this video. Still in the misery of my own life. What I have learned through, another UA-camr, Nigel from Primal England in Lancashire. Is to slooooooow down. Not slow in the way you get dressed, or washing pots. Slow your vision speed down, and actually appreciate what your eyes are seeing. Thats made a massive difference. But it takes practice. Ive also started showing my personality, when I feel I shouldn't be myself. Im starting to not feel afraid around people who make me nervous, Im trying to be me, a more relaxed version of me. And I think Im starting to enjoy life again ❤❤❤
Such a beautiful message of truth delivered by an amazing spirit in a gorgeous setting. What a loving living example of learning and sharing and making a difference. The wisdom you have gained shines through your eyes and I thank you for putting your perspective out here to help others. Life is so very hard but we can do hard things, day after day, and still find joy. Finding joy in each day, even for just a few minutes, builds the resilience we need to get through the hard parts of life and over time, little by little, the joy is easier to find and feeds our soul. Like going for a walk on a beautiful fall day and sharing it with others. You brought me joy today and so now I must be open to the opportunity to pass it in. Bless you. May you be well and free from suffering..
There’s no silver lining, or making the best of a bad situation, when you’re in constant chronic pain. It’s basically just waiting around till it’s all over.
No it’s not,i have chronic pain have had for years,my life is pretty 💩,that chronic pain isn’t even in the top 6 of things that could make my life unbearable,try and seek joy in the small things around you,look outwards,i wish you peace ❤
Hi Emmy, this is a message I need to hear quite often...thank you so much for your compassionate, wise, and gentle message to keep the faith, and to keep trying to make positive and loving changes in our lives, no matter our situation...Much love to you 💙💙💙....I did subscribe 😊
3:37 I’ve seen Anne franks house in Amsterdam lovely place Netherlands waw. Lovely people in Netherlands waw waw waw 6:25 powerful message thank you from the uk Leicester
Thank you Emmy. I take on board what you say and understand. Another thing I want to highlight in my comments is the background setting weather it a park or a back yard. I loved the landscape you have chosen to set your video in. Through that scape ,I have an insight or am transported with you to another country. The garden furniture ,the path and trees. It looks cold . I loved it .
The nature of life is that things continually change.
When I'm facing difficult times, I tell myself that this too shall pass.
My mother says that all the time. It used to make me crazy. But then I discovered how wise AND true it is. So now I acknowledge the situation, remind myself that "this too shall pass" and then ask myself what I can do about it right now. How can I look at it? What gift is hiding in the middle of it?
@Sonomacats it shouldn't make you crazy. I think it gives you hope to know things don't last forever.
I seriously hate this platitude. It's tired and unfeeling. Surely when someone is suffering or in pain there is something more heartfelt and meaningful to say. Not this bumper sticker.
@mariarohmer2374 if it doesnt work for you, thats fine. It actually has comforted me and i dont view it as being unfeeling at all. It's true and sometimes, when there's truly nothing that can be done about misfortune, it helps to realize that in time the issue will fade in significance at least. We have limited power in life sometimes.
Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, and today is a gift. I try and take it one day at a time.👊🏽💯🤙🏽
"Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, today is a gift, that's why we call it the present". Eleanor Roosevelt.
My beautiful husband died suddenly 4 months ago leaving me alone and grieving😢. This gave me a lift in my spirit. Im still very sad. 😢 but i willtry to carry on.
@@libgiles8376 do carry on 😓 and create something of value for yourself
At least you had a partner! In europe impossible to find a partner!
Death takes quite a while to get through the grief. I'm sorry you have to go through this. I know I will have to go through it as well. It's painful.
@@patriciavandevelde5469 but you're not responding to her grief. Only your own lack of a partner. Just an observation.
I lost my husband suddenly, also. Much different from they were ill and you had time to prepare! Have courage and take it very slowly. Sending you love and hugs. 🥲🎆🩷🪬💌
Thanks random UA-cam lady. I appreciate you for this, truly.
Yes I needed it and there she was
She is way more than a “random YT lady”. Look up her story and her credentials. She is very accomplished and wise.
@@roxylqm111 she's random to me because her channel appeared out of nowhere in my algorithm. Thanks for shining a light
She was random for me, too. ❤
@@roxylqm111I think they mean she’s random to us because I came upon this video by chance. I’m sure she’s very accomplished and she sounds very very wise. I’m thankful that I came across this video. We need more people like this that have a voice to those in need.
I really needed this. I have been so depressed lately, my fears make it hard to get up in the morning and see purpose in my life. I used to be someone so excited for my future, now it’s hard for me to see 6 months ahead. I started reading man’s search for meaning today. I hope to one day help others out of this as well. Thank you.
Me to!....depression for 2years!
I'd like to suggest reading near death experiences online. They're what always set my head straight. I've been reading them nearly daily since '98 and people ask me why I'm so happy. I feel like it's because I get what's going on here way better than I ever have before. I hope you both find relief soon. One key is to follow your bliss.
@@websurfer5772 thank you for the suggestion. What is your favourite one you would recommend ?
@@websurfer5772 Watching NDE video testimonies has really helped me and my family with our grief. Even if you are a skeptic like me, it is a wonderful perspective - a possibility - that you can lean on when life feels unbearable.
@Dottiedolly52 wishing you the best 🙏🏼
You had me with your first sentence. I like to be a friend to someone nice like you are😊
Welcome!
God bless all those who are struggling and give them the strength to carry on and find peace and better times ahead of them
And you! 🙏
Thanks ❤️
Thankyou.
Bless you as well.
@btlfilmmedia9514 thank you,that's beautiful.
" The Lord is my strength and my shield, in him my heart trusts " this scripture IS my life 🙏
God sucks
@tjpreston5894 no life does, people do, society does and so does growing old!
Reminded my memory.
The Lord is my Shepherd, I shall not want. (Meaning I don't need anything)
@@tjpreston5894 accept the things I cannot change, and the courage to change the things I can; and the wisdom to know the difference. ❤
I haven’t seen my three children in three years because my ex husband stole them. I have been so depressed and traumatised and miserable. Thank you for sharing.
(((Hugs)))
I'm so sorry. That's unbearable.
My covert malignant narcissist mother has done the same with my daughter, and my granddaughter.
I feel suicidal most days.
@@vanessas2363 I'm so heartbroken for you. I relate as my 2 beautiful children are alienated as well due to my abusive ex husband. The grief and betrayal can feel so unbearable. Let us think of each other in those times of desperation. Today is the first day this week that I'm not constantly crying and in freeze mode wanting to die. Let us be strong and have faith they will soon "wake up" and realize what has happened and come back to us. No loving mother should ever suffer the loss of her beloved children at the hands of evil people like this. It is abuse - to us and the children. Sending you love and light and hope 💗
Back in 78 my Dad tried that. He didnt even know me even though I grew up in the same house. Thank goodness the Judge took the time to ask what I wanted. If he had gotten custody of me I had a plan to run a thousand miles away.
@@Itookoutthetrash thank you so much for your kind words. It's living bereavement and it gets worse for me, not better. I have developed so many health problems and autoimmune conditions. It's been 5 years for me. I dread each Christmas. I just can't believe this is my life.
Hi Emily
I lost everything due to narcisstic abuse. I have to start from scratch. Its very hard. I was also too soft in the past in giving away my money at a whim. Those days are gone! I will be stronger. Ive learnt so much even though i lost my beloved home. I have to move ahead. There's no other way! I hope i can get another home where I'm relatively happy. Taking one day at a time. Hoping for the best always.
Sounds horrendous. You will need much courage and persistence.
I am in the same situation with debt looming ahead. Just don't know how I'm going to deal with it. Hoping I will find a way through it all.
@@Shaz.D.74believe you will
You will find peace and t will be soon xx
@@leeanagrant860 Thank you x
Dodging Difficult People...
ALL OF MY LIFE..
Brought Me to "Intermittent Joy"
Great Message of Encouragement - think a lot of people are suffering right now.
The reality is that some people’s lives will never improve out of ‘chronic misery’. I know several ‘elder orphans’ ie older people whose entire family is deceased, whose friends are married so don’t bother with them any more, and whose neighbours treat them like a social pariah (one friend said “Alien”) because no-one ever calls at their house etc, whose lives are a living hell and no amount of ‘acceptance’ will help them. Where you live also plays a huge part in your ability to survive in that type of situation: if your locality is geared to young families and older people are ignored (bar the odd whist drive or bowls club!), being positive and forward-looking doesn’t help you one jot (trust me - I live in such a place myself). Since Covid, British society has changed - the whole sense of community has gone and people just care about what happens within their own 4 walls. And no amount of positivity’s going to change that.
@@EdelweisSusie Therefore positive action is required to join communities that are friendly or to create new projects in communities where this is non existent. Older people unite.
In the US here. It's the same here.
Fantastic post. So well said.
@@Beverly-e4z yes it is agree
I disagree. What you are saying is there is no way out here. You, yourself need find the positivity. If you don't think so, then you haven't listened to her words.
♥️ Thank you for this video and for your understanding.
Narcissistic abuse.
I wouldn't wish this on anyone.
KEEP BREATHING AND TRUST THAT THERE IS A REASON FOR EVERYTHING IN GOD'S CREATION.
These hard lessons will help others in the future ♥️.
You are a very wise woman. May all those who are living in misery be healed, given comfort, and experience the beauty of life. May the wind carry their miseries as they say their prayers. 🙏🏻
Love your red lipstick and nature background!
Thanks for adding value!
I needed this. Just stumbled on this video
Welcome to my channel. Plenty more videos here that you might like!
You, dear Emily, are sharing your lifelong experience, knowledge, and your compassion with humanity. Thank you so much❤
Your comforting words have allowed me to shed my first tears of grief during this difficult week. I thank you for that.
That will certainly help. Tears are a wonderful release, but should never have to become a habit, if and when we find ways to overcome our grief. Take care.
Amen!
@@EmmyvanDeurzen❤
I am so sorry for your pain and suffering. ❤❤❤
Chronic misery. Many people wouldn't understand that as a human response or feeling.
Thank you, I needed to hear your message/ advice today.
me too
Me three
Sometimes, challenges and struggles are easier to cope with if one has a compatible partner to share the burden, be that physical and/or mental. I notice that being alone, to navigate such situations becomes all the more challenging when one has multiple complex issues to cope with at the same time. Sometimes, I make an 'appointment' with myself in a week or two, to allow myself to remove myself and choose to live in the present. Sometimes, that is easier said than done. I also make it a point to do one thing every day, that brings me happiness. I always break problems down into smaller bites, something I learned from my piano teacher. One bar at a time, then the next and join the two together, etc., etc.. The companionship of animals and the beauty of nature can also be very comforting, especially in the absence of family and/or friends. Resilience is by far my strongest trait. I surprise myself from time to time. Living in keeping with my values is everything!
Men don't typically support the women in their lives well.
Ahhh that power tool! Walking in a glorious forest and an overbearing noise bellows. This emanates life! We won’t let the interrupting noise devalue our experience of beauty and the destination we are striving for. We won’t let the interrupting noise take away from the beauty we are experiencing right here and now.
I can’t even listen to the video because of it!
I've renewed my personal relationship with the Lord, and my whole existence has improved in ways I never dreamed possible.
That is enviable.
Life is hard always was always will be. So be kind to yourself
Hello Emmy, Your vIdeo popped up in my feed. There are no coincidences in the Universe. It is just what I needed. I liked and subscribed. Thank you for sharing your beautiful self with us. From North Carolina, USA. ❤❤❤
@@m.harris2429 welcome 🤗
What a warm, wise lady. This is why I stay on UA-cam. For all the slop, there's golden nuggets like this still out there.
Enduring horror is the story of many. These stories are the light at the end of the tunnel of almost completely dark lives.
What I do is close my eyes and feel love in all its splendor. That's my light. That's my hope. The one that makes me choose life every day.
Knowing that without that experience, I would not have the strength that it generates in me. You have to know how to find the treasures of life. Look beyond the obvious. Strengthen our essence so that our heart, body and mind can heal over time.
Thank you for the book recommendation, and sharing your videos, they are immensely valuable in difficult times. It is very beautiful not to lose faith in humanity
What a wonderful message and illustration of what I was talking about. Thanks so much for your contribution to the group.
@@EmmyvanDeurzenWhat an honor, I admire your words. thank you very much
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❤Thank you for your wise words, may your attitude continue to help you as I now allow it to help me.
@@ironempath7261 Thank you, I have been listening to stories of overcoming for years, talking about feelings is difficult, I always seek refuge in channels or people who feel like a refuge too. here it feels good to comment, each one with their personal context
Thank you 😊 I am upset by people who think that this is negative and positive thinking will fix everything. I have to remind myself I'm positive for keeping going and that lots of people have difficult lives and things to manage and that's okay ✨️ ❤
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Good morning, my friend! Thank you for this video. I stumbled upon your channel early this morning. My heart is heavy, and I am trying to let the light into the dark corners. Thank you again, you are giving me hope and strength. ❤
@@chrissy1510 you are very welcome here.
❤ I cried 😢 with an open heart to hear you speak for us all .
What a lady,
your words are very noble.
Your message has helped me today by easing the strain of ill hope in adversity.
“Even if it’s for a short while”
The mind with logistics
can be so distracting,
living in the city.
I hope you have a great day also,Thank you!
Sending you a virtual hug 💜🫶🏼
God knows what we are really worth, far better than we can ever imagine and giving us tough circumstances to deal with, is the only way to show us what we are truly made of. It's by having to dig deeper within our own selves, that we discover our true nature and capability and when we realise this for the fact that it is, it's an extremely encouraging and uplifting feeling, a coming home to our life's reality. God Bless you 🙏🏻💖
Thank you for reminding me of who I am. In a time I’m working on shaking off my own self pity and conquer my life as I was meant to. Your background reminds me of my hometown, the place I grew up and spent so much time outside. I’m in a different land now, but I’m going to go on a walk because of it. Thank you 🥰🙏🏻
What a lovely demeanour you have. Thank you ❤
Thank you kind pretty lady.
Learning tolerance for hardship. Brilliant. Thank you. Subscribed.
I never thought about it that way- learning tolerance for hardship. I always thought hardship was an indictment on me as a person, something to vanquish. Thanks Emmy for the perspective x
Ii believe that reaching out and helping others is very valuable.
Your wise words are surely a comfort to many, Emmy. Thank you.
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Thank you so much, from America!
Chronic misery.....next 4 years.
Thank you for such kind, inspiring advice - prayers for all who are suffering and enduring ongoing , horrific circumstances in their lives.
Outstanding.
I will learn and make the best out of a situation. I think there is no use in me being sad about My life and make it more miserable than it might actually be. Thank you for sharing your wisdom. I love watching your videos.❤
@@quynhpham898 As soon as you truly commit to that decision, life will become far more possible again, as you take back control over your own attitude and mood. Delighted you are doing the work as well as watching.
That’s very wise. Thank you
What a lovely lady! And such wisdom.
Bless you, Emmy.
Bless all of you out there.
This is such important Truth and wisdom.
Thank you Emmy🥰 for this divine insight and confirmation.
Thank you for your words.
Everyone that voted on the right side of history in the US will need to internalize this for the next 4-??? Years.
What a lovely message. When I am down I tell myself to step up and be what I need. It works better sometimes more than others. Sometimes is better than not at all. Sending out good vibes to all. ❤
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What a beautiful message. Thank you & blessings to you. 🙏
Such a beautiful message. Thank you Emmy ❤
I have been suffering from chronic depression from bipolar 2 so this fabulous woman helps me thank you
Beautiful words of wisdom from a beautiful lady. Thank you! 🙏😊
Love can truly light the mirror of the soul.
Needed this, thank you
What a beautiful soul.❤️
Thank you for this message.
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I live with a back hernia for years now and i work with children, i work independently so a day not working is a day not getting payed. I have a lot of pain every day and i will not go in social services and be poor bur live is so hard, the only thing is suck it up, man up, psychiatrists cant help you, you will be mentally dependent, dokters can help you to a certain level with pain medication but a hard life is the card that you get dealt with..
Get strong!! Dont be a victim, be a survivor, be your own hero and live your life wise.
@@Wendy-bd9zu more power to you tough lady
Such a heart felt video, truly invaluable and very much appreciated Emmy❤People suffer so much your words are a true blessing It is true that we must keep going as in life you never know what’s around the corner and even seemingly impossible situations can change. Staying strong is not easy but we are capable of it. My heart is also with everyone. Stay strong ❤
We give each other strength. I am grateful for your contribution.
@ 🌹🌹🌹. I am grateful to you dear Emmy
So pertinent. Thank you for your profound words of encouragement.
This is just what I needed to hear. Thank you so much for this quiet inspiration and wisdom, and the walk through your beautiful woods. 💚🍂
Blessings
What a remarkable lady, chain saws constantly going in the background and rain, and yet her calm wisdom shines through all of that !
I understand this, I've lived through a lot of chronic misery. You are so right.
Sacred heart
Wonderful heartfelt video you inspire many. ❤️
Love you grandma
Thank you for your kind attitude and wise words. While my challenges are very minimal compared to those of many, I still needed to hear this.
@@KathleenRenninger We all need reminders.
hello Emmy, have been out of the loop for a while...and this coming into my feed feeling compelled to check in again...love that so many comments are validating your needed words, inspiration and presence as those who have listened prior, like me think, why isnt this person blowing up over the intenet as one hell of wise woman you are...anyway for me, your pearls always remind me that there are so many others going through 'similar' diificult situations, and try not to take it personally, and that through strength, resolve and persistence this too shall pass, and yes the sun will shine. thank you . always ❤
@@Dona-fu9zh welcome back.
❤ ❤❤ Thank you for your motvational speech, rational and also heartwarming.
I don't know, what you had to go through, I only know that your words are of great value and your advice is to be appreciated of course, I just wonder why I always thought like you but cannot put myself into my former mindset anymore... But I deeply appreciated your speech, and do think of it as an extremely worthful advice for anyone. Thank you, and be blessed ❤
Thanks.
This touched me to tears last night, so grateful and moved felt the love too friends! Sending this message of healing and resilience and friendship as we need this so!
Just shared with my 87 yo mom, and rejoice to read loving comments. ❤❤❤
Needed words today, thank you, friend 🥰
Pace yourself. Every day one can apply an act or energy that helps move things along. It's worth the try. And as a bonus one may find their resilience is remarkable. And try not to go it alone. And if you can, every day help someone else when you find the chance to do so. That also in turn helps build your own resilience and it takes the mind off of oneself for awhile which is good to also do. Take a break however one can. Find gratitude where you can no matter how small it appears. Tomorrow is a new day.
@@letthesunshinethru2355 Thank you for amplifying the point. 🙏
Just be human and relatable and relate to others; that's the only thing to do.
Much love much love
Thank you for your encouraging words. Much love. Wishing peace and happiness to all who read this❤
@@mariesears4235 Likewise.
Powerful message ❤
This video just popped up on my feed, how wonderful! Thank you.
@@lauraann4523 Welcome to my channel
Hello my friend thank you I love you ,Beautiful video🎉
Plukiness. Love that word!
Love the phrase Old head on young shoulders.
That was said a lot to me as a young child. I had to grow up quick.
But adulthood, taught me how to heal my younger self that had to care for everyone.
3 weeks ago I watched this video. Still in the misery of my own life.
What I have learned through, another UA-camr, Nigel from Primal England in Lancashire. Is to slooooooow down.
Not slow in the way you get dressed, or washing pots.
Slow your vision speed down, and actually appreciate what your eyes are seeing.
Thats made a massive difference. But it takes practice.
Ive also started showing my personality, when I feel I shouldn't be myself.
Im starting to not feel afraid around people who make me nervous, Im trying to be me, a more relaxed version of me. And I think Im starting to enjoy life again ❤❤❤
Hi Emmy, much LOVE to you and Bruno: give him a cuddle for me!
Full of Wonder!
Such a beautiful message of truth delivered by an amazing spirit in a gorgeous setting. What a loving living example of learning and sharing and making a difference. The wisdom you have gained shines through your eyes and I thank you for putting your perspective out here to help others. Life is so very hard but we can do hard things, day after day, and still find joy. Finding joy in each day, even for just a few minutes, builds the resilience we need to get through the hard parts of life and over time, little by little, the joy is easier to find and feeds our soul. Like going for a walk on a beautiful fall day and sharing it with others. You brought me joy today and so now I must be open to the opportunity to pass it in. Bless you. May you be well and free from suffering..
@@shelleycrawford409 🙏
There’s no silver lining, or making the best of a bad situation, when you’re in constant chronic pain. It’s basically just waiting around till it’s all over.
No it’s not,i have chronic pain have had for years,my life is pretty 💩,that chronic pain isn’t even in the top 6 of things that could make my life unbearable,try and seek joy in the small things around you,look outwards,i wish you peace ❤
I agree 💯, I live with pain almost 24/7.
Tried everything
Just waiting around for it to be over.
This is a great video. Thank you.
What great , wise advice ! I get it. Thank you for describing the hard ship as it comes in may forms .
Hi Emmy, this is a message I need to hear quite often...thank you so much for your compassionate, wise, and gentle message to keep the faith, and to keep trying to make positive and loving changes in our lives, no matter our situation...Much love to you 💙💙💙....I did subscribe 😊
Welcome to my channel.
I am so glad i found this post.
Thank you sweetie, I needed to hear this!
Beautiful message , thankyou
Thank you for your advice wonderful lady. XXX
just discovered your videos and you are already changing my life. THANK YOU FRIEND
@@laurenandroconis9693 Welcome to our little community of existential explorers.
This was the exact day, the exact morning, and the exact moment that I needed to hear your message. Thank you so much! 🥹🫂❤️
Excellent.
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Thank you for your wisdom 😊
❤thank you for this moment❤
This lady music is incredible
Thank you Emmy. I take on board what you say and understand. Another thing I want to highlight in my comments is the background setting weather it a park or a back yard. I loved the landscape you have chosen to set your video in. Through that scape ,I have an insight or am transported with you to another country. The garden furniture ,the path and trees. It looks cold . I loved it .
I love your prose, thank you!❤