So basically her idea was to hire a top notch attorney for 10K on other peoples dime, because she's acting like she's completely void of any financial responsibility for any of it... what a pitiful woman!
exactly - she got the attorney, she called him, the child was living with her... and she's not supposed to pay anything at all? Because....? she is lazy and don't want to work? She didn't mention any disability or anything. She's just home doing nothing living rent free with paid off cars and... no job. Make it make sense.
I don't understand how a grown woman with children could be comfortable being at home and being supported by her parents for 11 YEARS! Everybody faces a hard time sometimes but after 2-3 yrs she didnt think "maybe i should take some evening classes and try to get work in a different field." I also think that since she was the one who sought out the lawyer, then she should have found a waitressing job or something, anything, to at least contribute to the fees.
Right! The fact, She had to make sure every1know tht she was only paying child support is bc she made a little bit more than him. Eventhough he had their children during tht time.
The kids were involved in drugs maybe mom is also a drug dealer everything is PAID for unemployed for 11yrs someone thats use to having MONEY I smell DRUG DEALING GOING ON
I think the defendant expects everyone else to pay her way, and her scared little girl tone of voice is entirely manipulative. I'm sure it works on her father.
I wonder if the divorce had a negative impact on the eldest daughter (whom remembers it well), and those mental afflictions were never addressed so she began self medicating with drugs and it spiraled into a scenario where she landed in jail? Not defending addicts, they should seek help. But the cause and effect maybe backwards. The mom might have an addiction issue that led to the divorce and explains why she's still living off of her parents and the daughter followed suit. I am just saying that the daughter might have earned her way to prison but not necessarily the cause for the family drama. Just adding to the flames that already existed you know
@@smartwatchonplutoI disagree. That’s a bunch of horse shit. Many parents divorce while having children but children don’t go commit crimes because of it. My parent’s divorce and I didn’t end up committing crimes or use this as a excuse to commit crimes.
@@smartwatchonplutoNo doubt they had family issues, but they all still got alone and held their own. Until her incident. She was an adult, its only so much you can blame your parents for. You should still want to do better for unself.
yes the adult daughter should've handled it herself but since her parents got and paid for the lawyer, the mother should pay her half. I hope the parents made their daughter pay them back
@RacieRain the lawer and bail was all at her insistence, so yeah she should be paying for atleast half of it. If the father had his way their daughter would have remained in prison while all this was going on as per the lawyers suggestion - mother was the one who insisted they pay for her to be released only for her to reoffend and go back inside
A grown woman living off of her parents for 11 yrs! She should be ashamed of herself! Couldn’t find, or didn’t want to find a job in all of that time? Bull pucky!
@@darlenefraser3022 I have a relative who’s almost 70 and still DEMANDS money from his parents 90+ year old parents. He lives west of the Rockies, the parents live east of the Appalachians; he hasn’t seen his parents in more than 2 decades. They put $5,000 in his bank account every month to keep him from haunting them. I keep telling there’s going to come a day …
AND she's a GROWN ASS woman with GROWN ASS kids. She probably uses her kids money to pay for her own needs. I knew a couple of mothers that are like that and still is.
@@nnedwards3260 Seriously? A year is going through stuff...11 years is using! There is no reason she couldn't be working. Zero, zip, Zilch! Why work when mommy and daddy will pay?
When you are wealthy enough to do so it is not at all shameful Only when you cannot afford or it puts a strain on them financially does it become Shameful Money cures most problems easily
@@johnnysunrocket8618it’s shameful depending on the person and their character, I don’t care how wealthy my parents are, if I’m an able-bodied, healthy, adult, never would/should my parents have to take care of me. That means she can’t even take care of her own children , ridiculous
I don't see how it is particularly relevant how she planned to do it if she agreed to do it. She is basically a bum. SHE should have borrowed the money from her parents instead of pushing it off on him. But I suspect JJ will dismiss his case.
Imagine how great (maybe) it must be to be taken care of by your parents in your mid 50s and live care free. Meanwhile I’m not even 30 and fighting for my life to pay to even open my eyes every morning
same here my parents didn’t do a damn thing for me either 😂 my Mom spent 100k+ on plastic surgery and we never got braces we needed or a college education. It’s a sad world man
I love this episode.... I'm going to tell my son's mother. Given I don't have a job, you have no reasonable expectation of getting child support. Thank you Judge Judy smh.
@@AshleyfromTX lol you're right... But I watch Judy Judge religiously. So I know if the roles were reversed, we would hear a different ruling... But I'm a man and I live in America. It is what it is, we know that lol.
A lot of the “I would never charge my kid rent” people are now calling this woman a leech. Personally I see nothing wrong with a parent asking an adult child to contribute something financially to the household. These people can’t even enjoy their golden years.
I think she would have been fine if she had done the bare minimum of getting a job even if it was minimum wage. Even if it was only a little she could still take care of her elderly parents home to make up the difference. I wonder what her issue is.
Given her children are 19 and 20 and shes been out of work for 11 years, that means their father and her father have been supporting the daughters in that time NOT her. Even when I had to move back in with my folks for a year with my son while I looked for a place to live, I worked to pay them rent and still support my own kid 🤦♀️
Divorced parents being moderately reasonable?! Awesome! However.... he is being more reasonable. She wanted a top notch attorney but doesnt want to cover half when they have both been half and half. While, yes, he knew she wasnt working, its still her responsibility to find the money. Or...... the most reasonable...... not enabling their daughter by paying for an attorney at all. I dont think they should have paid for one at ALL. But they hired one and they both agreed to it and both need to pay.
I am a mom of two teenagers with full-time job and I've been supporting stay-home mom too. You can be a stay-home mom, of course. Children need mom and some teens benefit from having mom at home. But if you are stay-home mom and can't afford $5000, don't hire an expensive service for your child, like an attorney. Also, I know that this could sound cruel but if your child made herself in a trouble, maybe it is a sign that you did not raise her to be a good human being. It could be a consequence of your parenthood.
Exactly! That woman has no intention of ever going back to work. She's just going to bum off her father until the day he dies and then hope he has money to leave her in his will. Shes a sorry excuse of a human being.
OMG!! Her parents have been supporting her for 11 years! Why does she not have a job? She isn’t disabled or mentally unable to have a job? She is lazy! And immature. She refuses to work so he has to pay for the lawyers
Boo hoo poor defendant, I see where JJ going and I totally believe plaintiff when he said she agreed to pay half. It’s irrelevant if mother doesn’t work ( she raised the brat) and plaintiff knows she doesn’t work , the same could be said that the defendant knows the plaintiff can’t afford $10 k for a lawyer. If defendant suggested lawyer, found lawyer and agreed on fee she owes half.
her idea to get a lawyer, not his. that alone is reasonable expectation. watching him scramble to get the money and put up collateral is proof he reluctantly went this route.
So the plaintiff is ready to sell stuff to get money for his daughter's legal fees, the granddad came up with money for the granddaughter's legal fees and the mum does ... well, nothing.
The defendant's father died last year (her mother died four years previously)and he left everything divided equally between his three daughters.The leech is fighting her sisters for the full amount on the grounds that she has been fully supported by her parents for nineteen years,lived in their home and was completely dependent on them,The crazy thing is the law says she's correct and has a very good chance of winning.
How can a person live off others for that long? I’m sure her parents pampered her her whole life and enjoy having her stay. But I surely could not do that.
This is why I caution young teen women whose sole life goal is marriage and having children to take time to gain skills that earn money first. So that when the douse dies, or leaves, you have a way to support yourself and half of your children's care. There are many community college courses that in 2 years prepare you to do many things that bring in a decent wage compared to fast food.
What is wrong with the defendant that she is still living off her parents,,,she should be ashamed. Also, what is wrong with the parents that they still support this leech.
She’s gotta be making money under the table. Do her parents pay her living expenses? That’s crazy. If she wanted to pay a private attorney she should go back to work.
I mean it's clear what happened here. The defendant tried to allude to it a few times. It's not a good excuse but it is what it is. She clearly got screwed as a realtor during the Global Financial Crisis and the meltdown of the housing market. She was making REALLY easy money during the bubble and overleveraged her personal finances and then when everything came crashing down she figured out she really isn't that good of a realtor. She ended up in a lot of debt and her confidence was shattered and she clearly never mentally recovered from it. She needs to grow up and get back in the saddle, but it isn't unique for people to stay down when they fall. Shame.
I think the plaintiff was expecting the defendant’s parents would make up for the payments since they had been supporting her for all these years, but they hadn’t, so he decided to sue her in JJ knowing she didn’t have the means to pay.
I think the defendant is an alcoholic. She's been mooching off her parents for Eleven Years! She's well dressed so I wonder how she can afford to kit herself out so well.
Always have a career because many women end up being housewives and they divorce and they have a large gap in their employment history so it’s hard to get hired lol have a back up plan!
Whaaat?! JJ, whatever happened to "collect cans if you have to!!"? Unemployment is not a defense, defendant can work and should come up with the money, PERIOD.
Woman get to work, pay your ex for half legal fees and rent to your parents. When daughter gets out she needs to find a job asap and repay all legal fees to both parents.
it doesn't matter if she's unemployed, if she promised to pay half then she is obligated to do so, especially if he has any texts from her saying she's pay it
she has no job, probably got mental issues, seeing she is very nervous. But come on, her kid is in prison, other kid got a car. She has no work. Sell your car and give at least that to him. The father seems to work hard and shouldnt be selling his motorcycle and boat and 5000 so she can keep being unemployed, living in a home paid by her parents. blue book value - 500 for a second hand bicycle. Judgement to the plaintiff.
I wouldn't actually let her off the hook for being unemployed. She speaks English and looks groomed. She ought to be able to walk into any McDonalds and get a job in place of one of the employees that doesn't speak English.
I don’t understand how someone doesn’t want to work and have income of their own. It’s astonishing how some people expect their way paid by everyone else. Her love will be flipped when her parents are gone.
The plantiff should have let the defendant take the loan from HER FATHER! or have her father just give it to her since he taking care if her anyway lol
Shame on her and the grandparents.This amount of sheltering of a child of 50 is just so woeful, unless they know something about the daughter which will never come to the surface.
If This Was Reversed I Feel Like JJ Would Tell The Man To Pay 🤷🏾♂️ It Doesn’t Matter If She Didnt Have Income, If You Agreed To Pay, You Agreed To Pay
She always tells people , both male or female ,if you loan someone with no income money you shouldn’t expect that money to be repaid. She calls them foolish. I’ve seen it time and time again. If they have no job where would they get the money to pay you back?
What a moocher. I hope she realizes the next time her daughter needs a lawyer (which seems likely), she won't be able to lie and get him to pay the full amount again.
The defendant is a spoiled kid. Literally living off her parents, choosing all the actions then asking others to pay for them. I am so fed up with her. Why is no one telling her she can't do that.
mom keeps talking about “oh they would charge me for rent if i had a job..” DUH!! are you slow? of course you would have to contribute. like what the actual fawk
That woman is absolutely capable of getting and holding a job instead of living off other people
Her parents enable her
@@weirdnomad8868she has MS.
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The woman has not worked for 11 years and lives off her retired parents. Why?
SMH
Because they allowed it and she got comfortable
She's a mooch
So basically her idea was to hire a top notch attorney for 10K on other peoples dime, because she's acting like she's completely void of any financial responsibility for any of it... what a pitiful woman!
exactly - she got the attorney, she called him, the child was living with her... and she's not supposed to pay anything at all? Because....? she is lazy and don't want to work? She didn't mention any disability or anything. She's just home doing nothing living rent free with paid off cars and... no job. Make it make sense.
I don't understand how a grown woman with children could be comfortable being at home and being supported by her parents for 11 YEARS! Everybody faces a hard time sometimes but after 2-3 yrs she didnt think "maybe i should take some evening classes and try to get work in a different field." I also think that since she was the one who sought out the lawyer, then she should have found a waitressing job or something, anything, to at least contribute to the fees.
Yea she likes to send everyone else's money
So guessing mom sits on the couch all day watching tv. I don't understand why her parents allow her to sponge off them
@@katekat1064Not true, I am sure she is out and about doing her Karen duties.
She must be around 50 and her parents still support her. Incredible!
Yea seriously!!
Unless she still has a minor in the home she really has no reason to be a stay at home mom
She's lazy and entitled and has been living off her parents for YEARS. 11 good years and you haven't paid rent, worked, bought a car or anything?
Something's up with her,seems over nervous
She sounds like she has anxiety issues
I've seen this one before and I'm pretty sure she said she's sick with some time of illness.
So the ex wife went from making more money than him to being broke and sponging off of her parents rather quickly... 😒😒😒
Right! The fact, She had to make sure every1know tht she was only paying child support is bc she made a little bit more than him. Eventhough he had their children during tht time.
The kids were involved in drugs maybe mom is also a drug dealer everything is PAID for unemployed for 11yrs someone thats use to having MONEY I smell DRUG DEALING GOING ON
Probably fucked her way up the ladder then got fired for incompetency 😂
Yeah, mom has some demons
Unemployed for 11 years!!! She’s not a good person, if you can just take from your elderly parents like that you’re just no good.
Another comment said she is apparently battling an illness, I don’t know if it’s true but would explain why she’s been
@taylorgizelle but she doesn't say this at all during the case, if she did then maybe JJ would have some sympathy.
I think the defendant expects everyone else to pay her way, and her scared little girl tone of voice is entirely manipulative. I'm sure it works on her father.
I think she's a drinker.
@@stephanieyee9784Her daddy would have to be paying for it.
@@stephanieyee9784Yeah, it seems like she’s an addict of some kind.
I wonder if it's pills, as her daughter was arrested for possessing a ridiculous amount of heroin.
It’s annoying and shaky
The daughter's mistakes certainly rocked the family boat... 😮
I wonder if the divorce had a negative impact on the eldest daughter (whom remembers it well), and those mental afflictions were never addressed so she began self medicating with drugs and it spiraled into a scenario where she landed in jail? Not defending addicts, they should seek help. But the cause and effect maybe backwards. The mom might have an addiction issue that led to the divorce and explains why she's still living off of her parents and the daughter followed suit. I am just saying that the daughter might have earned her way to prison but not necessarily the cause for the family drama. Just adding to the flames that already existed you know
@@smartwatchonpluto absolutely, I totally agree.
@@smartwatchonplutoI disagree. That’s a bunch of horse shit. Many parents divorce while having children but children don’t go commit crimes because of it. My parent’s divorce and I didn’t end up committing crimes or use this as a excuse to commit crimes.
@@smartwatchonplutoNo doubt they had family issues, but they all still got alone and held their own. Until her incident. She was an adult, its only so much you can blame your parents for. You should still want to do better for unself.
@@smartwatchonplutoprobably but that’s no excuse for bad behavior
I refuse to have a conversation about money with someone who doesn’t have any 🥴
😂😂
Great analogy 😂
Facts 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Facts 😂😂😂😂😂
Regardless if the mother was unemployed or not, she has an obligation to her kid and need to pay for half of the attorney fee. I hope the father wins.
She actually doesn't owe her adult child anything.
Their daughter needs to pay the lawyer fees.
The daughter is in adult. Neither one of them had an obligation to pay her lawyer fees.
yes the adult daughter should've handled it herself but since her parents got and paid for the lawyer, the mother should pay her half. I hope the parents made their daughter pay them back
@RacieRain the lawer and bail was all at her insistence, so yeah she should be paying for atleast half of it. If the father had his way their daughter would have remained in prison while all this was going on as per the lawyers suggestion - mother was the one who insisted they pay for her to be released only for her to reoffend and go back inside
A grown woman living off of her parents for 11 yrs! She should be ashamed of herself! Couldn’t find, or didn’t want to find a job in all of that time? Bull pucky!
why? they agreed to do it
Had a job. Quit working. Can’t find a job. Please! Now living off her parents. Quite a gig if you can get it.
The wife is an entitled princess who has lived off her parents and still does… shame on her. That’s probably why she’s divorced!
If she was mother I wouldn't respect her at all she's embarrassing.
Very true
I just can’t imagine being her age and and still sponging off of my parents
You can tell her dad has some money and had some high level job.
@@darlenefraser3022
I have a relative who’s almost 70 and still DEMANDS money from his parents 90+ year old parents. He lives west of the Rockies, the parents live east of the Appalachians; he hasn’t seen his parents in more than 2 decades. They put $5,000 in his bank account every month to keep him from haunting them. I keep telling there’s going to come a day …
11 years though , that is crazy
She's the kind of person who thinks she should have to take a certain job even though she's been unemployed for over a decade.
11 years of living off your parents, how shameful
AND she's a GROWN ASS woman with GROWN ASS kids. She probably uses her kids money to pay for her own needs. I knew a couple of mothers that are like that and still is.
Give people some grace.
We all go through stuff.
@@nnedwards3260 Seriously? A year is going through stuff...11 years is using! There is no reason she couldn't be working. Zero, zip, Zilch! Why work when mommy and daddy will pay?
When you are wealthy enough to do so it is not at all shameful
Only when you cannot afford or it puts a strain on them financially does it become Shameful
Money cures most problems easily
@@johnnysunrocket8618it’s shameful depending on the person and their character, I don’t care how wealthy my parents are, if I’m an able-bodied, healthy, adult, never would/should my parents have to take care of me. That means she can’t even take care of her own children , ridiculous
My parents did me wrong, all they did was made me go to school, finish, get a job, pay my own way....I wish I was entitled...
Bail is a choice. Sometimes it's best to leave them in jail until the legal process is done. They are fed, have medical care and won't be using drugs.
Jail has drugs, unfortunately, but I agree with u completely
I don't see how it is particularly relevant how she planned to do it if she agreed to do it. She is basically a bum. SHE should have borrowed the money from her parents instead of pushing it off on him. But I suspect JJ will dismiss his case.
I agree, it gives her no agency
Plight of the broken/ "my children are my friend" family.
Should be 50/50 regardless of the fact .
The daughter is grown that 50/50 is over!
@@bryanbryan5214I couldn't see the first part. How old is the daughter
@@kendallbedford2523...18years old
@@kendallbedford2523I believe she’s 20
The old man spoiled her daughter and now they are spoiling the granddaughter
Talk about enabling a grown leech. How can she even feel comfortable living off her parents, claiming she cannot find work?
She should be responsible for it
That woman doesn't take responsibility for anything. Good grief! She is spoilt
Probably where their daughter who the whole case is about got it from
Her parents have spoiled her. Ain't no way my parents doing no foolishness like that!
Imagine how great (maybe) it must be to be taken care of by your parents in your mid 50s and live care free. Meanwhile I’m not even 30 and fighting for my life to pay to even open my eyes every morning
😂😂😂 sameeee
Health issues, berywildbrielle.
same here my parents didn’t do a damn thing for me either 😂 my Mom spent 100k+ on plastic surgery and we never got braces we needed or a college education. It’s a sad world man
She is way too old to be living off of her parents.
He knew she can't pay, but he also knew she can get money from her parents. He's here to sue her so he doesn't have to pay her parents. Smart guy😂
I love this episode.... I'm going to tell my son's mother. Given I don't have a job, you have no reasonable expectation of getting child support. Thank you Judge Judy smh.
Lmao 😂
Children deserve to be supported by both parents, get a job. Child support and paying for lawyer fees for an adult child are not the same thing. 😂
@@AshleyfromTX lol you're right... But I watch Judy Judge religiously. So I know if the roles were reversed, we would hear a different ruling... But I'm a man and I live in America. It is what it is, we know that lol.
@@jehrardmartin4340well you should have kept it in your pants and you wouldn't have to worry about this, right?
@@AshleyfromTX he’s clearly not serious
A lot of the “I would never charge my kid rent” people are now calling this woman a leech. Personally I see nothing wrong with a parent asking an adult child to contribute something financially to the household. These people can’t even enjoy their golden years.
Kid implies 18-22 years old in that context. This woman is old enough to be a grandmother and hasnt worked in 11 years. She is a bum
I think she would have been fine if she had done the bare minimum of getting a job even if it was minimum wage. Even if it was only a little she could still take care of her elderly parents home to make up the difference. I wonder what her issue is.
Given her children are 19 and 20 and shes been out of work for 11 years, that means their father and her father have been supporting the daughters in that time NOT her. Even when I had to move back in with my folks for a year with my son while I looked for a place to live, I worked to pay them rent and still support my own kid 🤦♀️
The defendant can’t give a straight answer to save her life.
Divorced parents being moderately reasonable?! Awesome! However.... he is being more reasonable. She wanted a top notch attorney but doesnt want to cover half when they have both been half and half. While, yes, he knew she wasnt working, its still her responsibility to find the money.
Or...... the most reasonable...... not enabling their daughter by paying for an attorney at all. I dont think they should have paid for one at ALL. But they hired one and they both agreed to it and both need to pay.
Yep, should have let her get a public defender.
I am a mom of two teenagers with full-time job and I've been supporting stay-home mom too.
You can be a stay-home mom, of course. Children need mom and some teens benefit from having mom at home.
But if you are stay-home mom and can't afford $5000, don't hire an expensive service for your child, like an attorney.
Also, I know that this could sound cruel but if your child made herself in a trouble, maybe it is a sign that you did not raise her to be a good human being. It could be a consequence of your parenthood.
How does anyone who does not have money make payments, Judy? That is right, they GET A JOB! Isn’t that right? Isn’t that right? Isn’t that right?
Exactly! That woman has no intention of ever going back to work. She's just going to bum off her father until the day he dies and then hope he has money to leave her in his will. Shes a sorry excuse of a human being.
The fact tht she had chosen a pricey lawyer with no intention of helping to pay.
Never been this early for a part 2
Was thinking that! 3 parter too 👌
You can't milk a rock as they say
OMG!! Her parents have been supporting her for 11 years! Why does she not have a job? She isn’t disabled or mentally unable to have a job? She is lazy! And immature. She refuses to work so he has to pay for the lawyers
The father did not have a daughter.. he has an anchor that will drag him down his entire life. Same with the husband
He died in 2020. RIP to him.
11 years unemployed , doesn’t she feel bad for not contributing to her elderly parents smh
She's in real estate and hasn't worked all these years?
my favorite jj quotes:
“shoulda, woulda, coulda”
“NEXT”
“I don’t care”
Boo hoo poor defendant, I see where JJ going and I totally believe plaintiff when he said she agreed to pay half. It’s irrelevant if mother doesn’t work ( she raised the brat) and plaintiff knows she doesn’t work , the same could be said that the defendant knows the plaintiff can’t afford $10 k for a lawyer. If defendant suggested lawyer, found lawyer and agreed on fee she owes half.
her idea to get a lawyer, not his. that alone is reasonable expectation. watching him scramble to get the money and put up collateral is proof he reluctantly went this route.
Let the daughter pay her own lawyer
A grown lady unemployed for over 11yrs is TRIFLING AND DISGUSTING... Living off her family is Awesome....
So the plaintiff is ready to sell stuff to get money for his daughter's legal fees, the granddad came up with money for the granddaughter's legal fees and the mum does ... well, nothing.
I have a feeling that JJ is going to side with the defendant and in my opinion that would be unfair to the guy. Waiting for part 3
I agree but I hope I'm wrong.. Why doesn't she work? The kids are grown! Something else is going on there.... 😳
Yeeeeee….we here y’all!!! What y’all eat for lunch??!!
Lame
Chicken sandwich and fries
Lasagna & salad
Quail eggs 😋
Had a Starbuck pumpkin cream cold brew for lunch ❤
If she couldn’t pay she should have stuck with a court judge it would have been cheaper.Lawyers are very expensive
Should have used Legal Aid, or let the daughter deal with it. Her crime, her time, her deal.
The defendant's father died last year (her mother died four years previously)and he left everything divided equally between his three daughters.The leech is fighting her sisters for the full amount on the grounds that she has been fully supported by her parents for nineteen years,lived in their home and was completely dependent on them,The crazy thing is the law says she's correct and has a very good chance of winning.
She can go to work to pay the ex-husband!!
Why can't this lady work
There is no valid reason why she can’t work. She doesn’t want to work. She can go to a temp agency but she is too lazy to do it.
Her poor dad still supporting a grown ass daughter
How can a person live off others for that long? I’m sure her parents pampered her her whole life and enjoy having her stay. But I surely could not do that.
This is why I caution young teen women whose sole life goal is marriage and having children to take time to gain skills that earn money first. So that when the douse dies, or leaves, you have a way to support yourself and half of your children's care. There are many community college courses that in 2 years prepare you to do many things that bring in a decent wage compared to fast food.
That poor old man 😢
“Got older but never grew..” -K. Michelle
wrong Judy, if she borrowed money she should pay it back WHATEVER the situation is. STOP letting idle wasters off.
What is wrong with the defendant that she is still living off her parents,,,she should be ashamed. Also, what is wrong with the parents that they still support this leech.
Judge Judy rules
The ex wife is slick
She’s gotta be making money under the table. Do her parents pay her living expenses? That’s crazy. If she wanted to pay a private attorney she should go back to work.
A three maybe even a four parter. Her dad isn’t going to be around forever. Is she able to work at all?
Great question. Is Dad so wealthy she’s waiting for an inheritance?
I mean it's clear what happened here. The defendant tried to allude to it a few times. It's not a good excuse but it is what it is. She clearly got screwed as a realtor during the Global Financial Crisis and the meltdown of the housing market. She was making REALLY easy money during the bubble and overleveraged her personal finances and then when everything came crashing down she figured out she really isn't that good of a realtor. She ended up in a lot of debt and her confidence was shattered and she clearly never mentally recovered from it. She needs to grow up and get back in the saddle, but it isn't unique for people to stay down when they fall. Shame.
They love their daughter (and granddaughter) so much that decided to take it to JJ to have her mistake immortalized on the Internet over money.
I think the plaintiff was expecting the defendant’s parents would make up for the payments since they had been supporting her for all these years, but they hadn’t, so he decided to sue her in JJ knowing she didn’t have the means to pay.
Maybe she should work the street corner and pay him back.
I think the defendant is an alcoholic. She's been mooching off her parents for Eleven Years! She's well dressed so I wonder how she can afford to kit herself out so well.
She looks very high matenince
Lmao I wouldn't call that ensemble "well dressed".🤭
I do too. She look like she has an Addiction to me.
She definitely has the mannerisms of an addict
Always have a career because many women end up being housewives and they divorce and they have a large gap in their employment history so it’s hard to get hired lol have a back up plan!
Wow! She is probably in her 50’s and lives with her parents who support her, what deal.
What a waste of $10,000 just for her to take a plea deal and end up going to jail
"It's like rehab." Delusional.
Whaaat?! JJ, whatever happened to "collect cans if you have to!!"? Unemployment is not a defense, defendant can work and should come up with the money, PERIOD.
Defendant wow must be nice to depend on your parents for ever 😅😫
Woman get to work, pay your ex for half legal fees and rent to your parents. When daughter gets out she needs to find a job asap and repay all legal fees to both parents.
So angry with the daughter. She put her parents through this. These are good parents. And grandfather. Livid.
The ex husband has no business in knowing where ex wife would get the money. She shoild just pay her 50%
it doesn't matter if she's unemployed, if she promised to pay half then she is obligated to do so, especially if he has any texts from her saying she's pay it
she has no job, probably got mental issues, seeing she is very nervous. But come on, her kid is in prison, other kid got a car. She has no work. Sell your car and give at least that to him. The father seems to work hard and shouldnt be selling his motorcycle and boat and 5000 so she can keep being unemployed, living in a home paid by her parents. blue book value - 500 for a second hand bicycle. Judgement to the plaintiff.
Mum needs to get a job
I wouldn't actually let her off the hook for being unemployed. She speaks English and looks groomed. She ought to be able to walk into any McDonalds and get a job in place of one of the employees that doesn't speak English.
That woman appears to think she doesn’t have to pay for anything, no job 11 years, supported by her father.
Ten thousand dollars for an attorney only to go to jail for a substantial amount of time? The lawyer musta been effective A F.
I don’t understand how someone doesn’t want to work and have income of their own. It’s astonishing how some people expect their way paid by everyone else. Her love will be flipped when her parents are gone.
Sounds like the daughter needs to pay it when she gets outta jail
Shame on her to be supportive by elder father
You can only be a bum if someone else finances you.
Dead beat daughter, feel sorry for the dad and the ex husband
The plantiff should have let the defendant take the loan from HER FATHER! or have her father just give it to her since he taking care if her anyway lol
Shame on her and the grandparents.This amount of sheltering of a child of 50 is just so woeful, unless they know something about the daughter which will never come to the surface.
It’s nice that people have a safty net but they are not always going to be there it’s time to learn to be independent.
11 year no work, something screwy with the defendant.
If This Was Reversed I Feel Like JJ Would Tell The Man To Pay 🤷🏾♂️ It Doesn’t Matter If She Didnt Have Income, If You Agreed To Pay, You Agreed To Pay
She always tells people , both male or female ,if you loan someone with no income money you shouldn’t expect that money to be repaid. She calls them foolish. I’ve seen it time and time again. If they have no job where would they get the money to pay you back?
@@guccilady1017 but this wasn't a loan. It was an agreement to together pay a bill
Her father should boot her out.
She could’ve built a career within 11 year!! My goodness
Sad that this lady has no shame saying that she hasn’t worked for 11yrs🤦🏾♀️
She took advantage of him like she’s doing to her dad!!
What a moocher. I hope she realizes the next time her daughter needs a lawyer (which seems likely), she won't be able to lie and get him to pay the full amount again.
The defendant is a spoiled kid. Literally living off her parents, choosing all the actions then asking others to pay for them. I am so fed up with her. Why is no one telling her she can't do that.
mom keeps talking about “oh they would charge me for rent if i had a job..” DUH!! are you slow? of course you would have to contribute. like what the actual fawk